It’s very simple. When a person is doing something that you do not condone or are not comfortable with, voice it. Once you have made it clear, it is then up to that other person to decide what they want to do. Normally if a person chooses someone based on character and moral fiber first, the issue will be resolved quickly.
@lisas9462 Жыл бұрын
Both men and women need to hold themselves accountable for their abhorrent behaviors. Men that 'run through' women are just as irresponsible and guilty as the women who allow these guys to 'run through' them. They both lack virtue.
@mayasheartdesiire Жыл бұрын
Countless men don’t think running thru women is wrong. They never want to be held accountable.
@apronsandasmr437 Жыл бұрын
Precisely
@itsmekiaratee Жыл бұрын
It’s beautiful to entrust a man to lead you. As a woman from corporate who had my own home, car, money, etc. it’s been such a blessing to even have a husband who’s decisions and discernment I can trust. It’s freeing because you no longer have to operate in a “masculine” energy. Any woman that has to run her own home and/or make all the decisions is definitely functioning in her masculine energy, it’s inevitable. Being able to abandon that energy is a game changer!!
@eac-guy7272 Жыл бұрын
What is masculine energy and feminine energy?
@1Loveneverends Жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s a good feeling.
@kekesanders6063 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has to take on masculine and feminine role in life right now, it is extremely physically, mentally and emotionally draining..Being independent is not always as great as they try to make it
@BoswelliaLuna8 Жыл бұрын
Y’all!! He called em FLEAS! I can’t with Tony Gaskins! 😂😂😂
@MichelleNagir Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😅 I’m still waiting for that part while scrolling through the comments.
@gretiquemartin Жыл бұрын
I was like “YES!” That’s what they are 😂😂😂
@BoswelliaLuna8 Жыл бұрын
@@gretiquemartin 😆
@marshaholmes8412 Жыл бұрын
Don't let the jezebelic sisterhood keep you from a good man and marriage.
@KNickole Жыл бұрын
As women are becoming more financially free, women are becoming in competition with men for the wrong things. Who can be more hyper-sexual, who can be more heartless, who can get away with being the most vulgar, who can be more dominant. It’s one thing for a woman to present masculine energy around men she doesn’t feel safe around. But bringing that energy into a relationship with a man that works to makes you feel emotionally and physically secure will backfire.
@hotties3v3n Жыл бұрын
Most men aren't those good men you described. That's the issue here.
@MissPetrina1 Жыл бұрын
Good point and it is crucial for women to stop settling, stop being desperate and stop settling for men who bring out the masculine side to them because they going to Defence flask protected mode because they do not feel safe because they have chosen to be with a man who is not loving and gentle.
@MissPetrina1 Жыл бұрын
@@hotties3v3n this is true that most men are not those good men and that's why women need to stop being afraid to be single. The reason men have so many options with women is because women will settle for less with men. That's why there is an imbalance in the dating scene. Women influence is and balanced because we're so desperate and thirsty and we don't know our worth and we have aided and abetted men who are bad men. They can have any woman they want and still act whatever kind of way they want. Women must stop settling four and accepting these types of men. A large number of women need to do this. To change the trajectory.
@KFontLab Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely correct! And we have to stop saying “most meant aren’t good”. There are billions of men in the world and we all have not dated thousands or even hundreds of them. Many times it’s a few bad people we have spent significant time with and/or we hear stories from others so it seems that’s what we are surrounded by only. That is why we have to keep our eyes open but also having boundaries of what you allow in your space. I’m not saying there is not scum out here but to say “most men” or “most women” about any topic is a wrong generalization.
@KS-lu8nm Жыл бұрын
You speaking truth Tony. I will never, and I mean never walk out of my house showing my goodies. Married or not married. Amen!!
@marshaholmes8412 Жыл бұрын
You don't have to wait for marriage to show mutual respect
@glendajohnson7124 Жыл бұрын
Mutual respect is not submission.
@famt2156 Жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with submitting to a good man. The problem in today's society, there aren't that many good men to submit to. They don't follow Christ, they aren't providers, etc. but they want women to submit to them. Most women don't listen to their boyfriends because most women have boys not good men. Most of these men that complain about women not listening to them, are not good men themselves.
@candygirl1990 Жыл бұрын
Amen to you. So true, I am a good woman,but I can't find a decent man. Most are weird, porn obsessed or married or maybe all of the above. I am classy and don't sleep around, just fed up with a lack of decent men to date and make a life with. God bless you xxx❤❤
@Polygyny Жыл бұрын
The bible doesn't teach that a man has to be "good" for his woman to submit to him. That's like saying that a wife has to be "good" for a husband to demonstrate love. There is no "good" condition for love/respect - that is not biblical Submission is given because of the position (man/husband) - let God deal with the man's sin. A husband is not accountable to his wife but to God because He is his head, while a woman is accountable to the man because he is her head
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. When a man is truly masculine women will want to follow and listen naturally. You don’t even have to ask. Problem is that is not something that 99% of men have. I have only seen it a handful of times personally
@hymnodyhands Жыл бұрын
@@PolygynyNo, sir. All Christians are accountable to God but also to each other. That is settled by Matthew 18... but read all of Ephesians and all of I Peter. I Corinthians goes so far as to say neither the wife or the husband have authority over their own bodies, but each over the other's. The headship given to the husband is that of a servant-leader on Christ's model, not a European dictatorship or African dictatorship. Therefore, YES, the man must be good -- he is to be a model of Christ, and submission from the woman stops short of enabling that man in sin, as her first loyalty is to God also, and she can point him to where he is falling short based on who they are both accountable to. Now, sir, by your screen name I know you want to break women down into a harem for you... but you are out of order with Romans 13, which commands Christians to obey the laws of the land (with the only exception noted in Acts 5). Fornication is sin because God says so, and bigamy is illegal because the law of the land says so AND GOD BACKS THAT UP, per Romans 13. Therefore your whole purpose here is to lead women into sin, so no woman should be submitting to a man like you. You want submission while being EVIL, which is why you wrote that twisting of Scripture in the first place. No, sir. God forbid.
@Polygyny Жыл бұрын
@hymnodyhands the bible does not teach that men are accountable to women - there is no scripture that teaches this. Christ is not accountable to his church God the Father is not accountable to his son A husband is not accountable to his wife A master/boss is not accountable to their servants/employees Parents are not accountable to their children All are accountable to God Someone that is subject is always accountable - again it is not scripturally or even taught anywhere that a husband and wife are accountable to one another like equals - rather a wife is under her husband as he is under Christ (this is what is clearly taught in scripture) You've got it majorly twisted - fair enough you may not agree with God's order but you can't use the Bible to twist clearly teaching to suit a modern mindset that is contrary to sound doctrine 👍
@misslexismarie Жыл бұрын
Preach!! I’ve been watching your videos everyday especially at work ( 10 hr shifts ) ! U have changed my life , i feel like your the dad or brother i’ve never had . Stay blessed & thank you ❤
@TonyGaskins Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@misslexismarie Жыл бұрын
you’re ***
@tequilliasmith4934 Жыл бұрын
@@misslexismarieMessy, But True🤣
@maliamarsh02 Жыл бұрын
@@misslexismariehe actually had the correct “your” . 😂
@CurlMeLots Жыл бұрын
@@maliamarsh02she’s correcting herself. “You’re the dad or brother…”
@susanakaan810 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, there's nothing wrong submitting to a GOOD MAN
@tarahbruno3793 Жыл бұрын
“ if you’re a good woman your gonna attract a good man” Lord help me to remember that and be patient. This issue here too is that men and women settle and choose wrong. So many men choose women who are not wife material then learn the hard way.
@CoachTinaRane Жыл бұрын
But if she respects her husband and herself she will not go out the house dress like.
@ieshjust16 Жыл бұрын
Who?
@MissPetrina1 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Godly submission will always be relevant for wives and even women listening to their loving, caring fiance's or boyfriends. In addition, it's up to women to choose wisely a man who loves like Christ loved the church. A man who is not controlling. Too many women choose men who don't submit to Christ and then they want to go against God's design where a wife submits.
@nadinemcpt Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment ❤
@MissPetrina1 Жыл бұрын
💜🙏🏾
@ThatGirlMoi Жыл бұрын
That’s true. I’ve submitted to men who weren’t submitted to Christ and it has created a lot of issues for me. I now recognize that and I am praying/working for complete and total healing. I do not want to be a bitter Betty and then miss out the man that God has for me.
@Feej81 Жыл бұрын
God Bless you
@RRthee1 Жыл бұрын
I’m a woman who agrees w/this crucial video 100%!!
@LadyAngela678 Жыл бұрын
Amen. I will only submit to a good man.
@kimberly0717 Жыл бұрын
My problem with the Keke Palmer thing is he boasted LIKE he was her husband and he wasn’t. Plus he showed her body off himself. It was when SHE did it he had a problem because she was on stage with Usher. Additionally, handle things behind closed doors not on social media. Lastly, I got my Booty grabbed and I had jeans on. Teach men to keep your hands to yourself.
@LP--- Жыл бұрын
Both parties should be receptive to sharing some of the household duties! Each household will be different!! Respectful Communication is a Major Key component! Speak the Truth Tony!
@LP--- Жыл бұрын
I totally agree Tony, and that's part of discussions he and need to have beforehand! It's a way to approach your Man or Woman without appearing to seem controlling or like you're speaking to a child! That's why being Equally Yoked, Respect, Great communication, and Understanding is very Important from the gate! Speaking to one another in a manner that's respectful to each other!
@dantoinettetaylor1663 Жыл бұрын
There you go again with those words “controlling” and “speaking to a child”. Women are really spoilt nowadays
@takingcarellc5737 Жыл бұрын
Amen! This was a great word. Help us Lord! I thank God that I was raised by women (mom, grandma and aunts) who taught modesty and order. Why would you want the world to see what is private and sacred. I would never disrespect myself or my man in that way. When you dress sexually like that, sexual is what you will attract period!
@aiviewsandnews Жыл бұрын
Love yourself to love someone else. Thank You
@octaviamoore5194 Жыл бұрын
U are definitely correct about the jezebel spirit!! It's running rampant.
@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын
It’s easy for any man to marry any mammy. It’s hard for a good man to find a good woman. This is what God said in the Bible.
@julianatenia-mccollin4833 Жыл бұрын
The thing is people get into relationships thinking they can change people. If you meet them doing it then live with it. Pick better, pick a woman or man that won't do certain things, pick your standard.
@staceythorpe7938 Жыл бұрын
Tony ain't lying, where there is a woman with the dominatingJezebel spirit, she attracts or wants a man with an Ahab spirit (emasculated).
@ARareGEM2890 Жыл бұрын
... AND ITS 5-6 THAT HUDDLE UP NEXTDOOR IN AND OUT: TROUBLE ‼️🤢🤮.. DISGUSTING‼️
@overcomerbtboj Жыл бұрын
I’m seeing that dynamic with a couple i know she dresses disrespectfully showing a lot of cleavage even though they’re married- she’s very insecure and does it for validation
@thmoney25 Жыл бұрын
I have no problem submitting to a man who is God fearing and has establish himself in life. I do not know about what other women like, but for myself I need someone to be able to bring some type of new knowledge to my life. I get tired of being the one that has to knowledgeable about different topics. Ladies do not let society make you feel as if you think you are to good for a certain type of partner. I have tried to date down and it was horrible. If I meet someone and the first phone conversation is not giving me a new perspective on a topic, I will not be talking to you a second time. Learn to cut people off and stop wasting time with situations that do not serve your purpose in life. We should be helping each other to grow in life. It is hard to find wise people these days. A lot of people are just so superficial. Be blessed everyone.
@loismartin9634 Жыл бұрын
Well said and true! Thank you ❤
@shantalstone5196 ай бұрын
You sound like me my motto is “If a man can’t add value to a conversation there’s no way he could ever add value to my life”
@meganbrooks7370 Жыл бұрын
I had a very controling father (he was abusive, didn't have the best intentions), so sometimes I can rebel. So, yeah, maybe there other reasons why woman act that or another way. I think when man is respectful and has a good intentions, than it's nice to listen what he has to say.
@bridgetteteapp Жыл бұрын
we need to talk about unrealistic expectations or expectations in general. i feel like that’s where that trend is also stemming from
@chindarose47 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony for sharing this. You always speak FACTS!!!
@Feej81 Жыл бұрын
Mr Gaskin I thought I talked southern but you have me beat.. 😂😂 God Bless you
@inkonp-Able Жыл бұрын
So needed! It’s so hard sometimes but as a woman that’s an area that’ll continue to be improved on. Let that ego go!
@QueenSamiyah Жыл бұрын
It starts with recognition. We just have to keep healing and get the right influences around us. Keep up the fight
@melindaroberts6843 Жыл бұрын
Yes, spirits of division are operating between men and women, and we have to be aware, resist, and purpose to follow God's design instead.🙏❤️
@birdiebear1394 Жыл бұрын
Respect is key. My fiancé makes it very clear what is loves and appreciates and what he disapproves of and why. I honor his opinion and want to honor him because I love him. And vise versa. We love and honor each other.
@Reshae_ Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this message. Will definitely reflect on it. Thank you
@ms.rutledge7836 Жыл бұрын
Let's teach submission so there is no misunderstanding. Because some men think it means taking away our free will and this is where a disconnect comes into place.
@charronsmith1795 Жыл бұрын
Tony I don’t listen to you as much as I used to but I learned many lessons from you shortly after my divorce… as always you’re on point and I really appreciate the work you and your wife do with helping young couples… There is an agenda aimed at keeping us severely misguided!!! Keep Speaking Truth!! ❤❤
@c.l.9344 Жыл бұрын
Lots of great point. Presentation matters. Dress classy and appropriately. Submission is God's way. But the man needs to be a man submitted unto God, a protector, a provider and ones God ordained spouse.
@Nikita_848 Жыл бұрын
Only women with a queen spirit will understand exactly what you are talking about. It's in fact those wonen who call themselves emancipated who don't know how to be feminine and the real value of a woman. Praise to you, Tony.
@QueenSamiyah Жыл бұрын
You spoke facts! It's Queen energy that helps us think in line with order and synergy between men and women. When I see women arguing with Kings I know they just haven't gained understanding yet
@bijouxbijoux Жыл бұрын
Yes, agreed.. my hubby explained this to me and I appreciate it and let him Excercise his role in being my protector. I don't see the problem.
@butterflyteflutter012 Жыл бұрын
Just looking at this message Mr Gaskins ...Thank you it upholds Biblical Truth through the eyes of someone who lived this & can SHARE in it's TRUTH!! 👑👏🏽
@goodvibez337 Жыл бұрын
Remain Abstinent. Fleas out here.😂😂
@ghaywood902 Жыл бұрын
Very knowledgeable and needed message. Especially for the woman that want to take charge of the relationship and take on the male roll. I see that with a lot of relationships now.
@latisaholm5700 Жыл бұрын
Speak on Tony. Speak loud and clear. Many blessings
@TheCaliMatchMaker Жыл бұрын
couldnt agree more!❤ celibate and happy. I give advice on how to be celibate and in this season good men only come to me🧿 Thank you Lord 🙏🏿
@NoCappingSportsLegend Жыл бұрын
Man Tony I’m sorry it’s barely any good men out here… Good women catching hell on earth these days smh
@toombs6287 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@monae1852 Жыл бұрын
Let us know Bro. Tony! EVERYONE must be held accountable! ☝🏿
@beatriceruttagah6305 Жыл бұрын
That’s why it’s important to understand every relationship is so different. Focus on each other tune out the noise from social media
@nickab2691 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for this wisdom.
@smileyglitter852 Жыл бұрын
Amen brother we're humans and flawed...
@beatricehudgins2836 Жыл бұрын
💗💃 You make a lot of good points my brother.
@spiritualqueen3423 Жыл бұрын
I’ve learned that you have to make sure that is the right man to lead you, women will feel more comfort knowing that man is a good leader.
@crystalweston12 Жыл бұрын
Thank You Tony always
@adaoraokekeocha Жыл бұрын
I agree with you Tony.
@millidw807011 ай бұрын
Tony you are right brother 👏🏽👏🏽
@sweetie932 Жыл бұрын
Great video, “communication “ is very different from arguing. That real man with good intentions can take the lead any day! I’ve been grabbed at the clubs back in the day, out of the probable 6 times, 4 of those times were women. Go figure. Good bless you and your wife Mr. Gaskins
@simonemays8413 Жыл бұрын
God Bless you Tony. This is the truth. Women listen.
@ruru9400 Жыл бұрын
I think sometimes that part of the issue with submission is that men keep talking about it till ad nauseum. Literally every year all year it is the main topic of conversation and a lot of women get sick of it. I know I do. The other issue is that a lot of those same guys constantly talking about it are not willing to talk about the verse after it where it talks about both the man and woman amsubmitting to each other in reference to the Lord. It's clear that this is an important to men with how much they talk about it; but I have also noticed that many talk about it becuase other men do, not because they understand what they are saying,others do because they hope for a good woman to hear their message, and others seem to do it becusde they don't know what they are talking about but want to control women. A good woman will submit naturally to a good man who presents as a good leader. I can say that a lot of women do not care about submission becuase they don't think there is anything to submit to out here.i wish more men would stop talking about this topic and just model what they are trying to preach about.
@Polygyny Жыл бұрын
The bible nowhere teaches that submission/respect for a husband is earned. It is commanded by God (it is not a choice - the same way loving a wife is not a choice for a husband) The verse about submitting to one another is about the assembly, it is not about matriage. A husband does not submit to his wife - he is not commanded to do that, only the wife is because the husband is her head/lord/baal hence the wife is commanxed to submit (obey) in everything. The husband is commanded to love his wife only None of these commands are conditional. They are commanded and they do not depend on whether the husband or wife is "good" 👍
@s_nita1655 Жыл бұрын
The Jezebel spirit is very very strong, right now it's best to spend less time on social media to avoid being easily influenced
@gianelogan9841 Жыл бұрын
He has to be respectful too . Making a Baby Mama with 2 women in a row and not marry either. He’s not a husband or a decent good man.
@BlancaRosa79 Жыл бұрын
I agree with that Tony! We need to be humble and accept our part in things as well.
@Sunlite16 Жыл бұрын
Love the way you pointed out first how man is suppose to love his wife like God loves the Church……this makes submission so much easier
@Chosenaire Жыл бұрын
So true when I use to dress inappropriate out of ignorance. I attracted the dope boys and dusties. 😂 When I changed my dress code to more of a classy and modest look. I attracted old white men who wanted me to be arm candy.😂 Lucky for me I was already taken. The old white men were bold too😂
@ladybugbrack2834 Жыл бұрын
You ain't lying, because I've had a few old white men try to holler at me, & yes they are very bold. Smh
@Actavella Жыл бұрын
Omg same with the old white men! Still single, I’ll stay that way until I’m called home if no one suitable arrives!
@ladybugbrack2834 Жыл бұрын
@@Actavella Me too!
@brownshugakale2410 Жыл бұрын
@13:07 - God gotta be in it for husband and wife 🙏🏾
@RosasResources Жыл бұрын
Ephesians 5:21 said they should both submit to each other.
@TonyGaskins Жыл бұрын
That’s what it means
@TonyGaskins Жыл бұрын
It’s the same chapter. Keep reading and it explains HOW they should submit one to another
@RosasResources Жыл бұрын
@@TonyGaskins I know but it seems like people always leaving out that man too should submit
@ketakool11 Жыл бұрын
You right ✅️, if you single you can where what you want 😏 but not in a relationship definitely not married
@Patricia-vf2bj Жыл бұрын
Hope and pray that things work out for you you and your wife are in my prayers ❤️
@KimberlyReviews Жыл бұрын
It should be illegal for married men to be seen in public until 2-3 days after a haircut/ edgeup 😅 you've made great points, we have to do better as people in general
@Terra_inthe406 Жыл бұрын
Why do you say that about a haircut?! (Sorry I'm dumb!)
@KimberlyReviews Жыл бұрын
@@Terra_inthe406 I was joking but it's like the gray sweat pants that Tony mentioned. A man with a fresh haircut looks extra attractive to us ladies who like well groomed men. Just like when us ladies get a new hairdo.
@Terra_inthe406 Жыл бұрын
@@KimberlyReviews Oh gotcha! You actually just confirmed to me that women were coming on to this guy on another channel after he finally took his beanie off. Lol He had messed up his haircut and was wearing it. But then cut his hair again after it grew back and women were making passes at him. Lol
@KimberlyReviews Жыл бұрын
@@Terra_inthe406 sounds about right 🤣 I've seen it happen many times.
@Terra_inthe406 Жыл бұрын
@@KimberlyReviews I talk to him off of his channel; he actually doesn't like it when they make passes at him. Lol
@jacquelinerussaw6967 Жыл бұрын
When I was in the club I have had my booty grabbed, but I have had my booty grabbed at work when I had on a pair of jeans and a sweat shirt. I turned around and hit the guy in the chest that did it. I told him he better not ever, ever put his hands on me again. It made me feel as if I had been raped. To this day I get emotional when I think about it. It’s the way he did it. I should have reported him, but I hit him and I felt I may lose my job, also.
@nicoledanielle8400 Жыл бұрын
You should make more videos like this. I’ve been listening to you for years. Your videos helped me attract my man, but now I’m being a lil too hard on him. I’m so quick to stand firm and not listen because of my past obviously and I took it to heart when you used to say stuff like “goin about yo business” and whatnot. Now, I be ready to walk away over the slight hiccups. Even my dad told me I have to be less critical towards him. My man keeps saying he wants to marry me but he’s worried I don’t feel the same. He said he doesn’t want to take a chance on marriage just for me not to not feel the same. I say that to say, I liked this video and I hope you make more instructional’s about how to be understanding with men. it. Your old content helped us get our men. Now we gotta know how to love them and lighten up. At least I do.😅
@andreab4202 Жыл бұрын
Now we need content on how to keep them 😂
@renitacody8841 Жыл бұрын
Don't be what woman? He still knew Single Ke Ke Palmer mind about a relationship before he got her pregnant and decided to be in a serious relationship with her. If he cared so much about her protection security all around, then he would have put a ring on that wedding finger of hers and married her. I believe he got him someone else. Tony, you are so married, and that's great when you're talking about marriage, engaged going to be married, and waiting on GOD to meet your husband. LORD Have Mercy Jesus. You can't compare non marriage relationships to a GOD fearing marriage.
@renitacody8841 Жыл бұрын
@tj8444 Yes, and he knew this. Most men usually take things lightly when you are too nice or have such a playfulness/fun spirit like Ke Ke Palmers. As far as her bottom showing, I didn't take no offense because it's common for the worldly folk in the USA. She probably doesn't view him as a real man anyway. LORD knows what she has been through with him behind the scenes. After all, look how he embrassed and disrespected her publicly.
@SharondaMichell Жыл бұрын
Here again another awesome topic that is MUCH NEEDED!! Woman, and men, we all have to know how your meaning maker can have you BELIEVE what is simply not there. We all need to realize what our triggers are and deal with those traumas that roll into your relationship and beyond. When we fall into our feminine essence, it takes the LOAD off. I was a woman stuck on strong and changed my life to receive and open up. 🙌🏾🥰If you'd like help, I'd be glad to help.
@SharondaMichell Жыл бұрын
It's so true! When I elevated my mouth, my mind and my heart, as a result The caliber of men I attract with ease and without intention, is amazing! I'm learning what I like and want . I feel love will come to me when I'm ready for it until then, I got big things to do to fulfill my purpose❤
@discerningtruth6848 Жыл бұрын
Its unfortunate for some women trying to imitate celebrities and their lifestyle changes. They followed celebrities and end up dead from plastic surgery to extend their popularity to the outward appearance. 😮
@CoachLadyD Жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking about that... Im was the woman who would do the thing I'd ask my man to do if he didn't do it quick enough. But in my situation, i was waiting WEEKS fir him to help me put stuff in my storage unit while tge boxes were sitting in my tiny apartment living room. Idk if I was unreasonable.
@Actavella Жыл бұрын
That was not unreasonable. He dropped the ball!
@CoachLadyD Жыл бұрын
I noticed this as well. I commented on an IG reel of a man asking if he was wrong for telling his woman that he'll basically leave if she takes a job working for her ex (5years seperated) even if the job will earn her 100k. A lot of woman said he was insecure, immature, not het husband so he has no right to make requests, demands, and that no boyfriend should come between her and her bag. I commented that the girlfriend should respect abd listen to the man's words because he's a man and knows men better than her. Also, if they believe that they are to be married, then she will have to choose between money and her relationship; in general, it's her mand feelings and the relationship. What's more important?
@purposedpatience6597 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! This came on my thread!! Ty I appreciate this word. Confirmation
@yc5141 Жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about DOUBLE STANDARDS?? Why are women judged by men , when they do the exact same (sexual) behaviors or much worst??? I’m puzzled by this.
@jessicagriffin7974 Жыл бұрын
That's right Tony..! ❤ That's the word..
@Kmillions77 Жыл бұрын
It’s real crazy to me if it’s let! it’s let! you represent your man and vise Vera when you step out the house. It’s called respect and boundaries. I can’t stand these new generation of women it’s like the women are hating the men and the men are hating the women smh.
@tonyarmoore894 Жыл бұрын
Oooh teach my husband how to do that😂 call me and ask if I need him to pick up something for me 😅 nah for real though, my husband does do that. He, like you, is one of the good ones. 26 years and growing in Christ everyday ❤
@Whisperwarrior Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony ❤
@MelissaGardnerRealtor Жыл бұрын
Amen! Spot on!!
@nitag2187 Жыл бұрын
@tonygaskins do you offer counseling for teenage boys??? Age 14-17?? I’m a single mom and I would love for my 15 year old son to have some one like you in his life. 🙏🏽
@mercedesmontgomery9094 Жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Amen God’s plan is the best plan
@Danreael Жыл бұрын
Any woman in they right mind wouldn’t leave the house in that outfit if she got a man.
@Boxerella Жыл бұрын
❤🔥 Absolutely love your videos. I also love the imperfections in the videos and the tips you throw in for both men and women ie: calling your wife in case the house needs something. ❣👏
@jenniferbrooks6924 Жыл бұрын
I 1000% agree. The problems these days are these trifling grown boys who proclaim to be a Christan and talk about God this and God that. Want a woman to submit to them but don't want to submit to Christ. They forget about that part in the scripture. Plus, these grown boys want you to submit to them, you pay all the bills, you cook and clean, work one or two jobs, give them sex when they want to, they want to do what they want you to do, and you not ask any questions. But don't want to do nothing but beat their chest "I'm a man". I can't. I have no problem submitting to a man who is submitting to Christ and leading us to Christ daily and not away from him. The devil is really having a field day with this world, and I blame social media and peoples lack of self-control and discipline. Nobody wants to be a helpmate. People just want what they want and don't care out the others people's feelings. It's just sad.
@shainamadai Жыл бұрын
To be fair, to take the trash out or cook a meal you need different prep time. That’s why we get snappy. Majority of the household chores are left to the woman. Home is a man’s peace and a woman’s workshop. But we love it with a healthy balance🩷
@carolynlanette33 Жыл бұрын
Another great video! 👏🏾
@Ptah1130 Жыл бұрын
Cant respect my SUGGESTION, dont deserve my PROTECTION.
@toombs6287 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@ayanaresellerqueen1685 Жыл бұрын
Ciara and Russell Wilson is an example. He let's her wear barely anything in public
@carolyndaniels386 Жыл бұрын
KeKe Palmer has never been married so she’s never had a husband. She only had a baby daddy.
@TonyGaskins Жыл бұрын
Missed the point
@taehyung6889 Жыл бұрын
I’d like to see him and Priscilla chop it up. I ❤ both of them.
@hannahbrown5069 Жыл бұрын
Yeesss! “Speak the Truth Mr. Tony Gaskins!”
@sherryc.1673 Жыл бұрын
I personally think it's about being respectful with one another wife & husband should respect each other❤
@pumpkin.spiced Жыл бұрын
3 minutes into the video (I don't know what's addressed/discussed afterward). You start with a "good woman" should be able to discern a "good man", and if she discovers said man isn't good, she should be able to walk away. Then proceeds to discuss how a MAN is being mistreated in a relationship dynamic. It begs the question... shouldn't a "good man" be able to discern a "good woman" and if said woman shows differently, have the courage to walk away from said woman??? Am I missing something? If men are in dynamics where it's evident that the woman doesn't care about him, shouldn't you be telling that man that he deserves better.. this isn't love.. this won't end well, etc?
@luevondataylor6286 Жыл бұрын
Praise God for you I have nothing to say just listen the truth needs no talk.
@teresaroquemore670 Жыл бұрын
U talking bout a women’s dress code T u are right I agree
@ThatGirlMoi Жыл бұрын
0:53 if you’re a good woman you’re going to attract a good man. Also pick up on a no good man and have the strength to cut it off
@MsOrganic1 Жыл бұрын
It's about having wisdom and discernment when going out now a days because of the high sexual energy due to social media, music, etc. In a healthy relationship, a partner is supposed to have your best interest.
@bernetajohnson3296 Жыл бұрын
The adversary is busy and I agree we must learn to submit to a good husband. Communication is key. If a woman wants to show her butt in public she doesn't need a husband. Love value and appreciate one another and everything will work out fine. Trust God as the head of your relationship.