Ladies, don’t operate from this space!

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“You don’t put a boyfriend before your livelihood because you and this boyfriend ain’t got no vows!” TG

[@VauveAnais]

He has a very long round and about way of making points, but he always eventually brings it home. Lol A true old soul x country man. Lol

[@AudaL]

Lol so true

[@mktva6103]

True, but that's what makes him uncle Tony. And every long round about that, he takes ministers to different people. It's all on purpose and in purpose.

[@reginareneerobertson]

😂

[@tarahbruno3793]

This is so accurate. What it is too is the next woman always thinks they will be the one that he won’t do wrong… and then they learn the hard way.

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

I have seen it and definitely believe it.

[@purplelily6950]

Thanks for this Tony. So many women are taught, that the role of a good woman is to suffer, accept everything and put ourselves second to everybody else.

[@blingedbytashanna1111]

That’s exactly what they were taught.

[@adjoahossou454]

that’s why i don’t like the term “traditional woman” . i think that’s what it implies now.

[@Realasf5]

Right and I just think you should treat somebody as you want to be treated. We all are imperfect so we can’t be all positive and perfect all the time but it’s limits to what a person should accept to me

[@deerivera4213]

Unpopular opinion. I refuse to be a ride or die... I have too much to loose financially. Nah sir, you can go on your merry way. ..

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

Facts Tony. Nobody should ever sink their own ships for anyone. It’s insane. And for a boyfriend or girlfriend?! No way.

[@tieonne]

Yes, stop praising girlfriends and boyfriends! Facts, Tony! 💯

[@valeriehumphrey9043]

Amen!!

[@Carolina480]

Tony this hit me I was very supportive in past relationships specially with my ex husband and just relationships thinking by helping them financially he would put me in a pedestal but no this men will just take advantage of yu and take more and more he ended up divorcing me I was left broke with nothing and he to this day verbally abuse and never admitted I stood by his side and helped him trough bad times he’s very ungrateful ladies NEVER help a men NEVER in any situation NEVER let him figure out Take care of yu even if yu make great money NEVER let men MANIPULATE YUO

[@ladybugradio1988]

Honestly Tony I felt this way before and as a survivor of abuse I'm glad you're talking about this.

[@marykelly8409]

Amen preach it Mr. Gaskins. Yes I have been in a situation like that but thank God I learned from it but no one can pay to do that again. Thank God for you Tony

[@trinamatthews4752]

Amazing insight!!! I love your mind, Tony! Praise God for you and your family. Thank God for your wife holding this family down! 💯🤎🙏🏾

[@TrishaBurris]

😂😂 Tony keep calling him Johnny.

[@manoniemoments]

Many people have a misconception regarding salaries/income, especially in certain fields. Then they automatically attribute good money management and good investments to people that work in those particular fields. If a person is not disciplined and does not have wise counsel that they are adhering to, then he/she can easily blow thousands and millions of dollars. Thank you, Tony, for addressing this.🙌🏾

[@DeniseM4698]

“People be so ignorant” 😂😂😂

[@TiCaraCymonee]

21:47 Tony so nosey 😂😂😂 But it’s me looking in his shades tryna see what he looking at tho, like what’s going onnn 👀 😂😂😂😭

[@TrishC5280]

😂😂😂

[@TiCaraCymonee]

@@TrishC5280 😭😂😭😭

[@donnajeffreys8252]

When his trial is over and if he didn't go to jail for whatever, he'll go right back to his same behavior with his girlfriend or wife before the trial . Same thing when a man isn't feeling well and you help nurse him back to his health. He'll be nice while your helping him to get better then as soon as he gets better he's treating his woman the same selfish, bad way he did before he got sick or hurt 🤕 Do not be desperate for no man ladies, do not be desperate for no money 💵

[@THEANOMOLY1]

I Had to comment on this because I Am a average women and this happened to me in almost the exact manner, I had been with a company 21\2 years had just been promoted in pay and the distance i had to commute,I was what most would call the top of my game, and an incident happen with my boyfriend and about Month1\2 later on my off day they called me and told me not to come in that they were doing an investigation about and incident , long story short I ended up quitting ,but life has not been the same since ,God is good,he has taken care of me and I believe because I repented and forgave the people and the Company All upper management I heard have been fired since my resignation and I should have retired from there.I just felt someone needed to hear this. Thanks Tony!

[@niki-mars955]

I love that Tony gives you a script of what you cna say. A helpful for anyone who is in this type of situation. As usual, great advice and perspective.

[@renitacody8841]

😆 21:22 When Tony is in his car, talking online, it is too funny. LORD have mercy. I fully agree with this message to the ladies and the gentlemen.

[@ysyntricity]

Hilarious and he been cutting up bad since he got them glasses

[@NinaAngelina25]

​@@ysyntricity😂😂😂

[@l.dozier1984]

​@@ysyntricity😂😂😂

[@renitacody8841]

​@@ysyntricity😆 It's more than those shades.

[@1racethehumanrace946]

Meagan Good is putting her brand and name in jeopardy. That's giving boyfriend husband benefits. Tony teaching and telling the truth.🙏🙏🙏

[@Thentherewasbim]

Thank you for addressing the comments from the Lawson video. The human heart/mind is a dark place. I pretended celebrity relationships didn't affect me but your recent videos cause me to reflect and be honest with myself.

[@reinaafricana6423]

Mr. Gaskins, your analysis of Meagan Good and Jonathan Majors is exactly spot on. It is very detrimental when you place yourself as a female in front of a storm in a situation that you don’t have any clue as to what the outcome will be and can possibly affect your reputation and livelihood just to prove your loyalty and protect your partner. It’s not a wise decision and will come with dire consequences that may or may not be repairable. The sad part is if the roles were reversed, her partner may not put the same or any effort to defend her. Only God knows how this situation will play out. 😮😢😔

[@ahavashalom4093]

LIIIISSSTTTEENN this is real talk! On point sir 💯!!! And best believe what this man is going to court for-99.99% he will be doing it to the one on his arm!

[@joannehightower4242]

God Bless You! Tony...We call it desperation; for "breath and britches" ❤ Peace, Minister Hanifah Hightower, Detroit

[@dianaapo3776]

Tony, thank you for reaffirming my decision to just stay single!

[@jayray420]

Thank you, Tony. God bless you. ❤

[@sandrawilliams6164]

Hey! Brother Tony, you are correct about Megan Good, she is not healed period, not just from her last married relationship, but with facing her "dark side" of her spirit self. She need to heal her dark side and learn to find balance and hope in Christ Jesus. Tony the enemy has a battle going on in the mind this moment. Peace ☮️ Love 💙 n Life😇

[@Anahboo96]

Listening while I work.. thanks Tony!

[@MayfairJones]

Tony! Men like Johnathan Majors don't care if Megen Goods career is over..As you say: point blank period!!!

[@christineporter9914]

Blessings and strength to you Bro Tony, am here for the wisdom as always 🙋🏿‍♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@geneva6445]

Can you do a video on signs of desperate/ not healed from past relationships.

[@Dr.Elaine1]

Just search: “Tony Gaskins and desperate” or “Tony Gaskins and healing”

[@ellee.444]

Johnny LAWSON.???? Haha 😂😂😂😂

[@vahaunb8851]

Johnny Lawson....them celebrities be sharing a cup of coffee & on food stamps ...🤣🤣🤣

[@bettyhenderson2090]

Toni you are right my grandson is going through this similar situation the young lady want to drop the charges on him and the state is taking over but they suppose to stay away from each other because they have a restraining order by the judge, and neither one of them is obeying in the restraining order praying for them Jesus help them both God Bless you today & family

[@VirtuousWoman1143]

YOU BETTER PREACH TONY !!!!

[@daneski]

Hahahahha i loved the “what’s goin on what’s goin on…” segment. Thank you😂😂😂

[@Courtwords]

Not sharing the coffee on food stamps 😂

[@bobbiegarner8087]

Richard Lawson 😂😂😂

[@misssterling3094]

Johnny Lawson.....🤣🤣🤣

[@thokomatshiga5051]

Mr Haskins I genuinely thank God for you. You need to keep getting prayed for. This is casual talking but it's ministry! This is God's work for sure. Not many people are committed to telling the truth like this.

[@ladykhalia85]

Gloria Allred is the famous lawyer who champions women whom Mr. Gaskins is referring. Richard Lawson is Ms.Tina Lawson's spouse with whom there is currently fracture. Mr. Gaskins, you give excellent advice. It comes out so country it's hilarious.

[@HeavenIsHome22]

Thank you Tony 🎉

[@faye_bulous]

21:16 😂😂Tony’s scratching he’s cheek on these young men interaction 😂😂

[@thechic-chat]

YOU BETTER SAY IT TONY🗣️🗣️🗣️💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@UndeniableKeziah]

Thanks!

[@TonyGaskins]

No problem!

[@Carolina480]

THIS IS TRUE LADIES DONT NEVER NEVER LET A MAN MANIPULATE YU ABUSE YU UTS SELFISH AND EVIL MAN WHO USING YUOR DESPERATE FOR A RELATIONSHIP THIS IS RIGHT I HAD MEN TAKE A LOT FROM ME DONT FALL FOR THEIR SAD STORIES MEN CAN BE FREE LOADERS

[@AbundanceAndPurpose]

This might be a PR / Media relationship to help him stay relevant after the bad press.

[@cierramotley8979]

Very important video. Thank you Tony!

[@denisewilliamson4749]

Great video, Tony Gaskins! Looking cool 😎!🙂

[@kivasimonecarroll1403]

You’re speaking hard cold facts!! Somebody needs to hear this and heed your advice!!

[@LadyAngela678]

I can see that relationship becoming abusive.

[@FeminineVibez]

Yes!!!!!

[@LadyAngela678]

@@QuiteTheLady The foundation is there. I’d put money on it’s all ready happening. We’ll hear about it in her book down the road.

[@canditate740]

21:43 Tony know he nosey🤣😂😂

[@lima_28]

😆

[@margarethailey1040]

These tactics are used heavily in the church. You have no idea!!!

[@tulip4169]

Oh Tony, you should see the men or grown boys I should say on social media lying, making up stories that JM is innocent. They are fighting hard for him. This brings your point to life how we subconsciously connect with what we see celebrities do. I guess it’s their way of fighting their own “innocence” vicariously through celebrities.

[@tiffanymoore3297]

"Robbing Peter to pay Paul!"😂

[@jam1369]

Amen.

[@lotusflower7267]

Wow wow wow talk about some ppl do not know?! Eyeopening wisdom thanks Tony

[@Lisa-nt7wt]

Real Talk

[@scooby1970m]

People get A-listers and working actors confused. Working actors make SAG rates. A-listers are in another league. Johnny Lawson is not Edris Alba status. Different contracts😂

[@IvyElizabeth918]

I’m just crying at everyone calling him Johnny Lawson 😂😂😂

[@scooby1970m]

@@IvyElizabeth918 Couldn't help it. Tony so convincing😂🤣

[@IvyElizabeth918]

@@scooby1970m he really is 🤣

[@misssterling3094]

LOL!!!!🤣🤣

[@Raquel-de8ni]

Richard Lawson aka “Johnny” LOL was a huge and popular actor in the 80s on the soap opera ALL MY CHILDREN. He was a main character for at least five to seven years- maybe even into the early 90s. Back then, it was rare to see black actors on soap operas. I remember watching him as a kid with my grandma as she loved watching soap operas. Richard may not be big now but he sure was in the 80s-90s. 😅

[@christineallen450]

Life is full of Lessons & I Don’t care How Rich a Man is (or) How beautiful a Woman is? Dating (or) Married The Devil is on Stand By ready to flip the table 🙃 upside down. Have Purpose & 🛑 Putting others on a Pedestal: Especially Celebrities Your videos are so informative & RC Blakes❤

[@flighgyrl1595]

😅😅😅 the way he got distracted and off topic is hilarious 😂

[@reginadavis1028]

Why we always gotta forgive Tony for something in the video for one reason or anther? 😂😂 T, you're forgiven, we got you!

[@Fel_e_Chronicles]

From DF wife to an alleged abuser's court chaperone-holding hands. Any logical person would ask MG 'why are you here?'

[@myuniqueweddings3847]

When you have chance, can you make a video specifically on how to denounce things properly from your subconscious please ? I’m not sure if I’m wording it correctly. Basically, how to work through it to have a healthier subconscious. 🙏🏽

[@ebonyfinklea6858]

Thank you!!!

[@Chosenlaur]

Yes they need to take the course on self love, and also read the Bible.

[@valeriehumphrey9043]

When you Read the Bible and apply it in your life , The book will help guide you in life. Thankyou Jesus!!

[@ieshjust16]

They need more than just reading the Bible. The devil himself knows scripture

[@integrafreak1]

Tony Louis Vuitton Don Gaskins

[@CurvyKeto]

Tony nosey😂😂😂. The two guys from the soccer team and the other video the guy running in flip flops with Jazz hands😂😂😂

[@2B-Steele]

💯what grown boys do

[@celestej1058]

PREACH😢

[@GigiG-be4xu]

Umhmm....yes...I agree😍😎!

[@EsiriE]

"What in the tiktok is this?!" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Sunshine-r6s3w]

Very true!

[@chelseaelysium]

Omw to the gym to get ACTIVE😮‍💨

[@helenatroy33]

So many men wanting to identify as women actually says alot about the state of men in general.

[@iam_empresssage]

This is true. I've been that woman its now I know better

[@geneva6445]

Lesson learned made that mistake once was chased and what you said happend to me exactly... now i question every man that approaches me

[@TiffanyFG]

I was thinking (you know we have those intrusive thoughts) I know Tony is not in here with greasy/ fingerprinted sunshades… then I saw the Loui V monogram.. and checked myself 😂. I’m so used to seeing greasy shades I didn’t know the designer monogram shades existed.. get ya money right!! I haven’t even listened to the message, but the title already spoke to me! Operating from brokenness 😞 😂😂❤

[@ms.bellaboo2620]

Why is she throwing herself on the sword meant for him🤷🏾‍♂️….Something is very wrong with Megan😳…. Not a good look🍷

[@flydollronda1926]

Starting to make sense why they divorced honestly, honestly just seems like some deep rooted issues at play here

[@queentiffanytv]

Exactly

[@akilahbatyah6505]

Not wise. Gotta raise the self esteem.

[@imnoemit]

7:27 may i ask, someone could share what he says? Cannot understand...

[@chameljackson4512]

I am not supposed to be selfless in dating

[@blingedbytashanna1111]

You said a mouthful 😂😂😂

[@kishaarnold3953]

😎Absolutely

[@jessicarodriguez6276]

💯

[@VirtuousWoman1143]

RICHARD LAWSON

[@angelalynn4225]

Facts!

[@Casha459]

I met both of them at the airport I work and this fool hit my hand so I know he abusive like

[@teresaroquemore670]

Good advice video

[@nzingahoney]

Tony it is called PRIMING when your environment is filled with something on purpose or by accident with the effect that you begin to exhibit it or absorb and respond to it. Some also call it the power of SUGGESTION. No human is immune and we should all be aware of it. NZINGA from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 keep on

[@sharonkeggins927]

I don’t think Bill Cosby’s wife did that🙏💙

[@J_jewel91]

💎💎💎

[@michellelogan7273]

FACTS!

[@nashsis]

Hello Tony. I know your messages are mostly based on what you are moved to discuss and that this isbthe best way for you to do your ministry, but I do have a request in case you may be looking at comments and searching for ideas. How can we tell the difference between a rough patch in a relationship and signs that the relationship is actually failing.

[@donitaphilpot8537]

Richard Lawson

[@lawill3559]

Agreed!!

[@vahaunb8851]

Megan can be his friend but she need to let him go thru this...n see her on the other side of it & only if she believes he's innocent.

[@TheBulletzgottishow20]

Salutw family

[@maeghanglover6184]

my discernment tells me not only does is seem like she desperate she is,, HAVE NOT SEEN OR HEARD ABOUT HER FOR AWHILE SHE NEED THE BREAD. PLUS SHE CANT SAY NO NO WAY.I CAN ALMOST GURANTEE YOU THAT MAJORITY OF CELEBS COUPLE DONT BE TOGETHER FOR REAL AND THAT THEY GET PAID TO BE A PERSON HANDLER AT THE MOMENT .

[@mjohnson8206]

Right ….Hollywood is evil and run buy the blood of the innocent children and people that they sacrifice for fame and money. No one in that environment is sane or safe because you are operating in the devils playground. The stuff celebrities see and go through are beyond human comprehension on the spiritual side and they are literally a slave of their name and the supernatural forces that control Hollywood. We as the masses can’t see the evil that goes on behind the scenes and the media will make it look like it’s relationship problems but it’s only a distraction from the wicked sick people in Hollywood

[@lawill3559]

Present

[@TelliVision87]

Hey, Tony. Would like to hear your take on the Lizzo situation. Besides all the other allegations, her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend of 10 years spoke out. Seems Lizzo pulled an Ariana Grande. It's a mess

[@megcalidreamin]

Was just thinking this!

[@joiagenae]

Lawd