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[@karladaldry5613]

You don’t owe anyone an explanation! Everyone deals with these things in their own way & no one has the right to judge you for doing it you’re way! Sending you & your family lots of love x

[@CursiMusic]

agree

[@onlycanbeoneofme]

100% agree. You do what you need to do . This is your life and your moment Georgina! 💕

[@CockneyRebel1979]

Exactly!

[@joannsylvesterjones5340]

Oh dear, dear Georgina! you owe NO ONE an explanation for what you’re going through. It pains me to the core that someone is hurting you even more with an insensitive comment to say the least! You are going through so much right now and maybe this person isn’t following you with sincerity and is just a grump! (to put it mildly.) you are handing and balancing so many activities and feelings with grace and dignity. God bless you! I love you for being such a beautiful person, wishing you the best. ❤️.

[@AZZnJAZ]

very well said. the person who posted that comment is just IGNORANT beyond belief. I think you are a very strong and inspiring woman. you have my full support. ❤

[@mikeykm1993]

The worst thing about grief (I have found) is that it just randomly hits you just as you think you are OK. I hope you’re alright

[@AniWatX]

So true. X

[@theflynn5421]

Yep. I used to get hit in the shower with it. My ex-husband took his own life and I was left to sort out his affairs and household stuff etc. I was judged by his workmates as cold cow etc bc I just got on with it but I cried and cried each night for months! It took years to be in a comfortable place to deal with it.. he died 8 years ago! Nobody knows what somebody else is going through when it comes to grief. I can't even imagine losing a child. She might have been 23 but she was her baby! How can people be mean?

[@Jan-ss9tm]

Indeed

[@downtown82]

My mother died 10 years ago. I dived into my work and after several months I had no energy left. I sat on my sofa for 2,5 years before I got up and was able to say: it’s ok now. Sending you love.

[@Jennasound]

I have personally found your strength and ability to move forward as best you can absolutely mind blowingly inspirational. To get yourself out of bed every day at this time when the pain must be unreal is a giant achievement in itself, but to then be able to do things for yourself, to smile when you can and to continue to serve the community that enjoys your work is beyond incredible. You have shown to me that it is possible to live even after such a terribly sad loss and I will remember you and your beautiful strength should unfortunate times of grief face me. You’re doing amazing ❤️

[@georginavlog]

Thank you ♥️

[@MrAaliyahfan01]

Some people are just horrid. Grief is different for everyone. And we all deal in different ways. Sounds like this person wanted attention! We know how heartbroken and upset you are. But you are choosing to live! And honor Ellie's memory. More power to you! Sending love and positive vibes. X

[@PaulMCsky]

Nobody knows what you're going through..You don't owe anyone any explanation...we love you

[@AngieiCam]

I was upset listening to this , how dare a horrible person choose to impose on your grief , what was their intention? That’s the only trouble with being in the public domain I suppose, keep making these lovely videos , I love watching you’re bubbly personality you are a lovely lady xx

[@strangerthings88]

Normally I would say don’t bother wasting energy on people like this. They just don’t have empathy which too many are lacking. However you’re using your platform to bring awareness to a huge issue and you’re helping soo many other people just by being your honest and vulnerable self. It’s also good to let out frustration in any way. It will get easier and all you can do is take it day by day , hour by hour and sometimes minute by minute. Which is how we all should be living anyhow in the moment as much as we can. ❤️

[@georginavlog]

That’s what I thought. Grief is rarely talked about and we all we have to go through it at some time in our lives. If my video shows people they are not alone then I’ve done a good job x

[@Chriscoleman55]

How dare anyone judge! Of course you are heartbroken and I’m so glad you got to experience happiness again! You will go through the grief cycle in so many ways! Sending so much love to you! You are so strong and brave for sharing your story 💚

[@KatherineHoward_Queen]

People think it’s ok to tell people how they should feel, their parents should be ashamed of themselves.

[@thegreenmanofnorwich]

Grief is a very strange thing. My partner died 3 years ago and I almost don't remember the year after, but apparently I was a bit all over the place. You do things as best you can and muddle through as best you're able. For whatever it's worth, in my (limited and egocentric) experience, it's better to try to enjoy what you can. Being miserable doesn't achieve anything. If you are miserable at any one time, fair play and it's good to let yourself feel, but if you're not, then don't force misery. Anyway, that's a long winded way of saying that just keep muddling through and doing the best you can under the circumstances, even if that's just having a shower.

[@ItsClarkbar]

Wow, I can’t believe someone had the audacity to say that. Grief is not linear, it hits you at different times in different ways and you don’t owe anyone an explanation but we all appreciate you sharing this loss with us. You have no obligation to share but it’s nice letting us know what’s going on and for making us more aware of epilepsy because it is a condition I feel not a lot know about well. Again, I’m so sorry for your loss and do whatever is you need to do to deal with the grief. Best wishes!❤️

[@ZiogasGeorge]

Well said! You have all our support!

[@liam00]

There's no right way to grieve. You just have to ignore the strange people in the world : )

[@frentbow]

So sorry you have received negative comments during this difficult time. You are not required to justify your grief process to anyone. Do whatever you need to. Sending you support.

[@Theholyone999]

So what that comment basically said was when you are grieving you are not allowed to smile or be happy, when those things are so important when going through it. Stay strong ❤

[@246721]

Georgina, you do not have to justify your life and what you have to do to cope, grief is terrifying, 1 day you can face life, another day you can't, you are a fantastic lady and very genuous with your time talking about Ellie, you were fantastic together, you will never forget her and you are still alive and Ellie would want you to carry on, the best thing for you is the fact you have a lot of Ellie you can see, she is singing, you are together doing your vocal coaching, so she will never be out of your sight, and you will be together again, God obviously really wanted Ellie for a reason and you will find out when you also go to Heaven, God Bless you Geogina always.

[@12missmolly]

Sending all the love xxx

[@antoniofr14]

Much love to you.

[@missgood5355]

I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m sending you warm hugs. You have many supporters and most people really love what your doing.

[@nathanward8374]

Beautifully said! So sorry you had to deal with that.

[@carolcoates3750]

Love and hugs to you Georgina. Sorry for the loss of a lovely lady.

[@May-te2kp]

Keep being so strong georgina 💛

[@elenajouliou9092]

I’ve not commented on any of your videos as of yet although I’ve been watching your channel for well over a year and love your content. But I want to comment now to let you know that I admire you so much for being so dignified and polite to this person who clearly has no understanding of the complexities of grief. You held/hold yourself so well and frankly, you don’t owe a single person an explanation. Do what you feel is right for you. I’m so so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine your pain. Sending you so much strength and love ❤️

[@jaysolmusicofficial]

I’m so sorry for your loss, thank you for continuing to be a shining beacon in a lot of our lives. We love you Georgina ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jayfree4979]

You’re so loved , never forget that . Your baby girl would be so proud of you, she is so proud of you.

[@jirachieon]

❤️ well said.

[@natalieoreilly830]

You’re amazing ❤️

[@SITN]

Sending lots of love ❣

[@bengrace1670]

It's so important for people to do things that make them happy when they're going through grief, let alone a grief such a devastating as the one your facing right now. It's equally important to share those moments of joy and celebrate them as they come. It can be so difficult for us to see the light in darker times so we need to put those good moments under a spotlight so we don't forget they're their when things get a bit too dark. You're doing incredibly well and are an inspiration, thank you for your vulnerability. Edit: I have to say as well I've experienced a lot of loss in my life and I'm suffering with some quite intense grief in recent years. You sharing in the way you have has helped me quite a bit. So thank you for sharing.

[@jodie736]

Sending strength & love ❤️

[@lesleywilson1133]

Sending love 💕

[@sophiesophiebeebee]

Sending you lots of love 💗

[@revolution9095]

Sending you ❤

[@THAT_magicalman]

Sending so much positive loving energy your way!

[@emmacollett2629]

Sending much love. 💖

[@robbydebeuf6405]

you are doing a great job handling yourself. stay strong girl

[@craighobson9329]

Grief is such a personal experience. I cannot believe that someone would even stoop so low. Shame on them!!! Sending you lots of love and hugs and keep shining your beautiful light with us all Georgina xXx

[@dennisbroos77]

Well said! ❤️❤️❤️

[@binkygirl6]

Sending tons of love and healing energy

[@HamishSteele]

You really are the best! ❤️

[@fishcake82]

My heart genuinely breaks for you your coping with such grace can’t even imagine loosing any of my children sending you a massive cuddle 😘

[@nelsondesousa9304]

I can’t imagine the enormity of what you are going through. We all grieve in our own way. Stay strong gorgeous lady and look after yourself xo

[@Lala96Dolly]

I’m sorry to hear about your loss, I’m sorry you have to make this video! May God watch over you and your loved ones! I love your channel!

[@danleonelli]

We all grief in different ways and no matter which one it is, the goal is to be happy again. A warm hug from here! 🧡

[@aaronbuckland2767]

Your a wonderful soul x

[@robertarthur6470]

Everyone experiences grief in their own unique way. I think you’re doing amazingly well. There is so much love out here for you. ❤️

[@escnerdau]

Stay strong Georgina!! You do what you feel is best for you. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Sending love ❤️

[@bradleymix]

I’m so sorry x

[@madgefan09]

This is one of the worst things that a person can go through. I’m so sorry for your loss. You honestly don’t owe anyone an explanation. You’re such an amazing and strong person. You have my support. X

[@greyworm1791]

What a beautiful human you are! ❤️

[@inxa8617]

Sending love❤️❤️❤️

[@christianxlopez_]

You're such an inspiration !

[@mitchellmanicone190]

You are so special; I have watched you for the past few years and you're a bright light on the internet. You deserve all the love and kindness ! Big hugs

[@DrPsYcHoSiS]

Everyone’s grief is personally different to another’s. I couldn’t imagine ever losing any of my daughters especially so sudden. You deal with it how you can. We have so much respect for you and still loving seeing you smile. People are just uneducated. We appreciate this video.

[@adzmonroe5274]

You're amazing end off! And incredibly brave and strong. I can't even imagine you're grief you have been through and thanks for keeping you're channel going because, you never cease to put a smile on my face. You're mint Georgina. Keep being you xx

[@MarkOakesDyersburgTennessee]

I have so much respect for you, You remain in my daily prayers….

[@adamjames5027]

I love you I can’t tell you how awful I feel for you I’m still in grief and it comes in waves everything you said makes sense love from myself xxxxx

[@itsyaboymyatto9373]

georgia youre doing brilliant i am really impressed with how youre doing you are keeping so strong yet not pushing away your loss. youre doing amazing and i am so proud of you :)

[@warren1564]

You have every right to enjoy life the way you feel is best for you. In grief I've learned, having lost my father in March, that my emotions are all over the map. I have really great day then next thing I get moments where my brain just feels heavy and I can't think about anything. Like, literally, anything! I saw a counselor just after his passing and she explained to me that it will come and go for a long time and to just experience the emotions. People on the internet hide behind their avatars and some literally don't care about anyone else, but themselves. You are a beautiful person and I send you all my love ❤

[@annabm95]

Sending you lots of love and positive energy from Poland. I can’t even imagine what you are going through right now…. ❤️

[@shel5684]

Thank you for your amazing kindness! I don’t know if I could be so strong. You are doing so well xxx

[@marianomartin1777]

So wise, so strong, so human. I admire you endlessly.

[@Virginia14919]

Sending love your way 💜 I'm so sorry for what you are going through. To lose a child is horrendous. No one should judge you, and how you are processing your grief. There is no rule book for grief. If someone can still find moments of happiness in dark times, it's a good thing. We should never want people to be in a state of grief to the point that they can't find any joy in life anymore. I really hope the person who left that comment, watches this video and is able to learn and grow, and be better.

[@mama456100]

Thank you for making a video on this. So many people only see grief from an outside perspective and want to judge how others feel. You have every right to move through this loss in the ways that work for you. Sending you and your family love ❤

[@nabsmad]

We love you and sending you lots of healing love, I lost my mom during the pandemic and I would go up and down sad, happiness, emotional and in the end we get to move forward in our grieving process and journey. Live your life and I know they want us to live and be happy! We love you ❤️

[@ShanesEurovisionReview]

Keep doing what your doing. Your an inspiration for anyone who has experienced the sort of grief you have. Thank you for showing everyone that it is possible to move on after such a thing. Thank you for being you xxx

[@davidlevy792]

Well said! Let it go now. Not worth the wasted energy. We love you x

[@TheFantasy73]

So true 💜

[@amandanixon7819]

Everyone has a different way of dealing with grief! I think you are amazing how you have dealt with losing your daughter and the way you have been able to go on holiday and carry on and still remember that you have to live your life and laugh. Your daughter would want you to! Keep doing what ure doing you are wonderful xx

[@matheus8530]

Thank you for this ❤️

[@vikkiLH77]

I actually really admire you for trying your best to keep it together despite the heartbreak you’re feeling . It’s so much harder than people think to not fall apart and lock yourself in a room. It’s obvious that you’re suffering inside and missing your daughter incredibly. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MissHappyPigs]

Grief is with you really forever, everyone is different, you just learn to live with it. Making your videos obviously helps you to get through it - sending hugs and comfort to you and your family xx

[@brandosando]

My heart goes out to you in this time, nothing can take the hurt away but with time it will get easier. I love your content, never commented but this video struck me. Lots of love to you and the family through this tough time ❤️

[@derrickkreisel6321]

Always sending love and positivity your way ❤️ you are soooo strong and you will always have my support. Love you so much 🥺❤️

[@rflaherty9410]

Take as much time as you need, Georgina. I think you’ve been amazing throughout this horrid time. I lost my brother 16 years ago during our childhood, the affect on my family was astronomical and you’re right about what you said towards the end, you don’t ever forget them tho. You have all of our support. I wish you all the best. Take care 💙

[@alexhunter4460]

I'm so sorry for your loss. You don't owe anyone an explanation. You take your time and space to process what's happened. You are such a wonderful person and I wish you well 🖤

[@Henrique-ch3mn]

you are so strong, we love you queen

[@wanderlander.abroad]

It's so true: you can't judge someone's grief.. I'm so sorry that you lost your daughter and my heart goes out to you. As someone who lost someone very close to me recently, I feel the weight of your words and I can feel your pain. I hope this person has learned from this video..

[@joeyjoe7930]

I 100% support you Georgina! And getting back to work is important. Life does have to go on, no matter how hard it is. Sending love your way!

[@BlaBla-sl7lv]

Stay strong and keep going Georgina!❤❤❤

[@lvnarlotvs]

I am so sorry that you're going through this. I know it is a completely different experience, but I suddenly lost my brother in July, and my grieving process has been so different from what I expected. I went straight to anger and depression, but mostly anger. You have been so brave to speak out about what's happened to Ellie and spread awareness, and we are so so proud of you! Grieving is not linear and some people are just ignorant to that. Keep being you, Ellie is so proud of you

[@RyanXRyan]

Sending love ❤️ deal with it how you have to deal with it, no one worth worrying about is judging you. If anything you’re making her proud by doing the best you can, I was so saddened by the news and didn’t even know her personally so I can’t even begin to fathom what you’ve been going through. Keep pushing on how you are and continue to make Ellie proud ❤️

[@davids3878]

All the best for you ❤️ you’re lovely :)

[@RobbieRobRS]

Sending you love Georgina - you are wonderful.

[@anthonychilcote872]

What you are going through is unimaginable. You grieve your way, and pay these trolls no mind. My heart goes out to you.

[@evaulrikajansson2219]

Much LOVE to you. I admire that you dont let this tragedi consume you.

[@helentowse4990]

I honestly can't comprehend how you are feeling over the tragic loss of your beautiful daughter , Ellie . I really admire your courage and positivity which allows you still to produce your wonderful vlogs and videos . You are inspirational and amazing . Love and hugs to you from here in South Western Australia 💖

[@Regenboog151]

Take your time, it is your pain. I am so sorry people respond like this, hugs ❤

[@batista1981]

I went thru a long period of grief. I definitely understand the frustration when people question your grief process. Take time and heal yourself in your own time. She will always be with you ❤💛💚

[@judymarais12345]

Sending love and hugs. Ignore the haters, don't give them the platform on your channel.

[@danielhulin4433]

You do NOT owe anyone anything !!!!! Sending all my love ❤️

[@karenyeager]

Well said. You are such an amazing person.

[@johnnynotty]

I think it is incredible that you have been able to continue putting smiles on all our faces. It is exactly what Ellie would’ve wanted you to do. Pay no attention to the ignorance of others. Do you, you’re awesome xx

[@simplydepressed]

bless your soul georgina. keep on going the best you can! i truly admire you. positive vibes from slovenia

[@blueveganrat7304]

I was so glad to see you had a lighter time and a “break” for your trip to Wales, knowing that grief has an undercurrent and comes in waves. Your authenticity and compassion is what’s drawn me to your channel from the beginning to now. You keep having your authentic moments however they come. I remember as a kid seeing an episode of the 80s sitcom “Facts of Life” where Natalie feels guilty for laughing after her dad dies. Mrs. G had to remind her that it’s okay to have those moments and the person that loved you wouldn’t want you to be miserable. It sounds like that commenter could’ve used some compassion and that lesson here. You’re beautiful and so generous with your being. All the best to you.

[@DanViop]

This video is necessary cause some people truly needs to be educated. And I always found very brave from you that you're still working and doing what do you best cause, you don't have to be really smart to guess that work helps your mind and heart to be absent sometimes and it helps to get through the pain

[@traceypalmer4249]

Love to you Georgina. Hope you're ok xx

[@Tim_Shu]

Grieve in your own way Georgina, we're just happy you're still making videos and keeping Ellie's memory alive, she'd be so proud of you and your strength 💞