Don't Self Sabotoge In Dating and Marriage

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SheraSeven

SheraSeven

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@simmysimmy1108
@simmysimmy1108 6 жыл бұрын
Ways of self sabatoge -talk down about self -not being able to accept compliments -Not having standards -believing words over actions. -Talking self out of wanting and doing better -Moving backwards. -Talking with self defeating words. -Reacting instead of thinking calm and thinking. Not controlling your emotions. -Investing emotionally before the man is invested in you and giving you what you want. -Overthinking too much. -Always finding a reason to argue with a man. Mistaking that as emotional investment. -Listening to men or pick me chicks who cant do anything for you. -Changing for a man. Unless it benefits you not him. -Being too critical of yourself. -Rejecting yourself first so that the man does not reject you.
@Trailblazers323
@Trailblazers323 6 жыл бұрын
simo Cora 👍🏽👍🏽
@justbeingveetv3423
@justbeingveetv3423 6 жыл бұрын
*Thank u for the list😁*
@DivineSight88
@DivineSight88 6 жыл бұрын
gracias
@continuousself-improvement1879
@continuousself-improvement1879 6 жыл бұрын
You da real MVP.
@wowso4
@wowso4 6 жыл бұрын
simo Cora wow great list
@thedineindiva4073
@thedineindiva4073 4 жыл бұрын
Getting rid of friends that are pickme, stagnant, downtalk you, etc. is one of the most important moves during your journey. Cleaned up my friendships and feel like a weight lifted.
@TheHeartOfStyleOfficial
@TheHeartOfStyleOfficial 9 ай бұрын
Learn RESILIENCE from this boss right here. Take notes. Study. Do EVERYTHING she says. Even if you don’t want to. She will raise your consciousness and your vibration, she is activating your divine feminine. This is priceless thank you Shera 🙏🏻
@mommaashtalks
@mommaashtalks 5 жыл бұрын
The hardest part of the level up is mental. I self-sabotage and have to deprogram so much of my thinking/actions
@Revengestar
@Revengestar 6 жыл бұрын
I start to think that a lot of the popular relationship psychology is written to turn women into pick mes. All of this "talk to him about the problem" stupid advice. If I need to explain to a grown man why he needs to be able to provide, then he is not a man, he is a little boy and I am doing what his pick me mom should have done years ago. Nowadays, if someone fails to understand basic concepts in any area of life, I just move on. No explanation needed. Great video as always!
@heyitsme663
@heyitsme663 6 жыл бұрын
I agree completely! You have to have the same values and beliefs. If a man doesn’t feel he should have to provide for a women he’s in a relationship with....that is his belief! People only change their beliefs when they cause them enough pain that they realize that must change them.
@heyitsme663
@heyitsme663 6 жыл бұрын
I was actually replying to Revengestar.
@sashavictoria2405
@sashavictoria2405 5 жыл бұрын
Ladies should start listening to shera from 16 years old
@BlackCulturalPreservation2023
@BlackCulturalPreservation2023 4 жыл бұрын
13
@manunascimxnto
@manunascimxnto 3 жыл бұрын
i'm 16 and just started listening to her 🙋🏻‍♀️
@charlita25
@charlita25 9 ай бұрын
12
@sofiabianchi5284
@sofiabianchi5284 6 жыл бұрын
I think we women naturally are used to self sabotage and putting everyone else’s needs before our own. It’s time for us to love ourselves more than anyone else ever could. We only live once, live your best life. Thank you Shera for reminding us every day that we are worth it. Have a happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁🍽♥️
@valeriegaddy8833
@valeriegaddy8833 6 жыл бұрын
OK
@lilmsmoni12
@lilmsmoni12 6 жыл бұрын
Learning to keep my emotions in check. I attract lots of men, but recently realized this is my problem. I'll get there, I'm on my way! 👍👑💰💸
@melc_91
@melc_91 6 жыл бұрын
imagine when i told a dusty he has no car no place and that real men provide, he laughed? dusties have nooo shame
@Kitkatluv33
@Kitkatluv33 6 жыл бұрын
Mel C exactly because he knows there will always be a pickme to help him build
@melc_91
@melc_91 6 жыл бұрын
@@Kitkatluv33 so pathetic. I blocked and deleted him. Dusties serve no purpose
@redroselace9545
@redroselace9545 6 жыл бұрын
The amount of time that happened to me id be millionaire. It's all the fault of pickmeshas and Bob the builder that make men so FUCKING weakkkkkk and pathetic
@nylaspeaks7272
@nylaspeaks7272 5 жыл бұрын
Mel C yeah run and never look back...he should have been embarrassed smh
@DivastarGoddess
@DivastarGoddess Жыл бұрын
I had a friend who constantly put herself down, saying the most self-deprecating things and I avoided her like she was the plague and still do! Shera is so on point, I can't stand people who say negative things about themselves.
@virtuous-one684
@virtuous-one684 6 жыл бұрын
Shera this is one of your best videos, you really brought it.. especially about controlling one's emotions and also how a man with money is useless if they're not spending it on you! Wow, so much truth! I love how you tell it like it is but you're also caring like a big sis. Much love! 💙
@minniemouse8389
@minniemouse8389 4 жыл бұрын
There are too many ads in this video, but I agree that this is one of the best videos.We as women do talk sometimes talk about too much stuff with men.I tried a sugar daddy website, and had to get off because so many of them want to brag about their money,but don't want yo give you much of it,unless you are willing to put yourself in the dangerous situations of going to their homes etc.I have met guys too who want yo show off their house,car etc,yet they are so stingy with women,so I judge ignore those types.
@baddestalivecom
@baddestalivecom 5 жыл бұрын
This Video is long but trust its worth every minute. She's changed my life and self image. I'm grateful
@ElonNicole
@ElonNicole 6 жыл бұрын
Learned these lessons the hard way, but it was all for the best. Shera speaks truth.
@abc78920
@abc78920 6 жыл бұрын
I agree Shera ! Men are picky online, but more forgiving in person! Great tip!!
@IamKarryanne
@IamKarryanne 6 жыл бұрын
And smoking ganja is self-sabotage. Speaking to my old self.
@joyceg7859
@joyceg7859 6 жыл бұрын
Softfire for sure lol
@tayashley3539
@tayashley3539 6 жыл бұрын
I agree, I wish I had never been into that years sgo.
@simplynatural4063
@simplynatural4063 6 жыл бұрын
Please tell me more. I'm actually curious to know about your experience, luv.
@tinasnow2006
@tinasnow2006 6 жыл бұрын
I still smoke, privately tho lol
@MaryJane-tr6uc
@MaryJane-tr6uc 6 жыл бұрын
Why do you think it's self sabotage?
@Karenmariepombagira
@Karenmariepombagira 6 жыл бұрын
It seems that ex's come back to see if your level up is really real. They want to see if you are still stupid. We all need to level up mentally and emotionally always. these men and society will try to test you. It will try to bring you down. Case in point-- my ex is a real estate broker. We are working on getting me a tenant. I feel I need his help because he can do a great background check. He keeps trying to get sex and since I am now more secure I do not let him. I limit him to his job. I plan to ghost him after I get the tenant because he is still an emotionally unavailable player. When a pick me thought comes I remember these videos. Today the pearl of wisdom is see what I can get out of him even though I may not know if he really likes me to give me what I want.
@AmaLoveGoddessTV
@AmaLoveGoddessTV 6 жыл бұрын
I was going back and forth with diet and hair but I'm just gonna change and keep it up. I already attracted a man of means today😄
@SacramentalASMR
@SacramentalASMR 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@AmaLoveGoddessTV
@AmaLoveGoddessTV 6 жыл бұрын
thanks
@nylaspeaks7272
@nylaspeaks7272 5 жыл бұрын
I hate arguing too it’s dumb and wasted energy...men do start arguments to get out of doing stuff...lol
@sonyab2u974
@sonyab2u974 5 жыл бұрын
Yes they do! Shera married for a while so she's been out the game, men love to argue!
@angietrujillo5610
@angietrujillo5610 6 жыл бұрын
💖The Strongest Women Are the ones that Can Control their Emotions 💖💋💋💋🤔💜💕😘yess, Gracias Ashera Love you
@MySecretJourney
@MySecretJourney 6 жыл бұрын
Thank god this is no longer me. Thanks Shera🦋
@HoyaZak
@HoyaZak 6 жыл бұрын
Secret Journey 😂 good old days
@mamamagere
@mamamagere 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you SheRa. I've been the scraps chick for so long - accepting so little and giving everything. Your message helps.
@PeacefulTea-qb4js
@PeacefulTea-qb4js 11 ай бұрын
So true, my emotions were getting the best of me. I figured out that I had a hormonal imbalance, which made it very clear as to why certain times of the month I was losing control of myself and letting my boyfriend get to me completely sabotage the entire relationship just by that thing.
@69Fabulosity
@69Fabulosity 6 жыл бұрын
I have 2watch this video numerous times everytime i meet some1 new n feel myself getting negative & insecure!!! Best video ever bc im a Queen of Self Sabotaging
@oziamara
@oziamara 6 жыл бұрын
You are changing my entire life. Thank you Queen
@janessasade2777
@janessasade2777 6 жыл бұрын
“It’s a life change” best way to put the level up saga! Thanks Shera 😘😘😘
@Kitkatluv33
@Kitkatluv33 6 жыл бұрын
Janessa N I like you’re makeup/hair/outfit. I can tell you leveled up
@Kitkatluv33
@Kitkatluv33 6 жыл бұрын
You should do makeup tutorials. I would watch
@janessasade2777
@janessasade2777 6 жыл бұрын
user name I’ve always been good on the outside but needed to get my mental right. I was wayyy too nice! I remember I asked Shera to join the Level up group and she told me I needed to be in the gold digging one instead 😅☺️....thanks for the compliment dear 😘
@janessasade2777
@janessasade2777 6 жыл бұрын
user name I will do a makeup tutorial soon! Ima shot you out too!
@Kitkatluv33
@Kitkatluv33 6 жыл бұрын
Janessa N looking forward to it. I like your personality and real ness
@chechiwa_nyangu
@chechiwa_nyangu 3 жыл бұрын
"Being over emotional can get you shot" 😂😂😂
@SunriseTango
@SunriseTango 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so fortunate that I found Shera's channel. Her wisdom is invaluable.
@kerry7163
@kerry7163 6 жыл бұрын
All women need to watch this video. It is brilliant and extremely useful for your entire wellbeing and life. Also correcting yourself straight away if you say something unintentionally mean to your target so as to lure with honey not vinegar. Otherwise that is self sabotage too.
@fineadelphia
@fineadelphia 6 жыл бұрын
I gotta figure this out. I act like I can't take a compliment to save my life. However I'm working on this everyday
@summerbreeze5758
@summerbreeze5758 4 жыл бұрын
I love Shera!! You really just conditioned my brain into a new person. I’ve always believed in all of this but no one was reminding me and giving me the advice and since I’m addicted to your videos. I’m watching you all day long and only taking a little break here and there but back watching and listening until I go to sleep. I am so grateful that you exist! And I love your Goddess channel too! I just found out about that last night and hooked on that now! I’m so happy I will be busy and enjoying and learning for a while because you have lots of videos! Also I just got into the spiritual stuff yesterday and bought some oils and will eventually have a collection of all the supplies I need.
@archanabhardwaj6348
@archanabhardwaj6348 6 жыл бұрын
in my entire life if one person i will say i look upto...thats you Shera !!
@sun-801
@sun-801 5 жыл бұрын
Shera always snaps me back to my senses. Thanks a lot.
@Emilyramirez-bm7qf
@Emilyramirez-bm7qf Жыл бұрын
Yes always ☝🏼
@continuousself-improvement1879
@continuousself-improvement1879 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera, just wanna update you that a man had insisted on proposing to me. Yes, as in marriage proposal. He is not filthy rich, just comfortable. I turned him down because I asked myself: how will he benefit my life? A: he can't. So I said no. And it feels so easy thanks to the confidence I learned from you and Ms. Mikki; simply by constantly striving to be my best self, putting my best foot forward when I step out of the house everyday. It may seem unrelated, but I have so much confidence because my face was beat and I was like (inwardly) "Boy, GTFOHWTBS. I am too good for you." Love and kisses. P.S. he proposed though I nvr gave him the p. Lol
@SM-op8li
@SM-op8li 6 жыл бұрын
"Why are there demonic pictures in my medical book"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 killer
@lilbabytears
@lilbabytears 3 жыл бұрын
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@chandanaag1294
@chandanaag1294 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent guidance - only that a woman is her own woman, just as a man is his own man. Women and girls should never compare themselves to one another (i.e. "compete"/"competition") or fight each other over a man.
@asktheuniverse231
@asktheuniverse231 6 жыл бұрын
you are changing my life
@bossladymsp2885
@bossladymsp2885 3 жыл бұрын
Re-listen to the beginning, 9:00 +, be proactive instead of reactive, the person who angers you control you, 12:00 +, 15:00, 21:30, 35:00, 44:00, 51:00, 53:00,
@Keiiii8732
@Keiiii8732 6 жыл бұрын
Seems like ladies are listening to you more these days Ashera👂🏽👂🏽👂🏽 Sad part is if your videos were on how to love others more than yourself there'd be less objection. However I am pleased to see ladies taking care of themselves 1st💫💫💫 Keep it up and endless thanks Goddess 😚
@HausOfAdonis
@HausOfAdonis 6 жыл бұрын
B true
@nylaspeaks7272
@nylaspeaks7272 5 жыл бұрын
B you can’t love others until you fall in love yourself...Eartha Kitts told m interview that she love herself so much thy it will be an honor for any one to have her to share in her greatness but not the other way around
@lm2082
@lm2082 6 жыл бұрын
I love your confidence and ease!!!
@JasminePiinkQueen
@JasminePiinkQueen 6 жыл бұрын
As always a great topic. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
@ms.bizlady2956
@ms.bizlady2956 6 жыл бұрын
Wish I had saw this a month ago. I tried to stay unemotionally involved but he broke my defenses down.
@turnthepage867
@turnthepage867 2 жыл бұрын
This is a high impact video, I saved it and will replay it several times.
@havegrace9111
@havegrace9111 6 жыл бұрын
This is soooooo good ! Thanks Shera, for helping us ladies keep on leveling up regardless of marital status!! Ladies never stop the level up 👍👍⤴️✔💯
@HausOfAdonis
@HausOfAdonis 6 жыл бұрын
Demonic medical classroom skit had me ROLLING 😂🤣😂🤣🤣you’re so clever Shera hahahahaha
@elenap2215
@elenap2215 5 жыл бұрын
I love the way you think! 😭
@sweetgoldenbrown
@sweetgoldenbrown 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you addressing this. I struggled with this and I am finally taking steps to change.
@bethbethanny6425
@bethbethanny6425 4 ай бұрын
Shera your advice is timeless ❤💎
@iGottaLitSpirit
@iGottaLitSpirit 6 жыл бұрын
Shera plz do a video on pastor john gray n his wife. He said his wife did more "birthing" with him than she did birthing their 2 children. They are promoting struggle love and raising grown man boys. Then derrick jackson did a video telling women they dont have to be rehab centers for me. The pastors wife did a video response to DJ rolling her neck talking bout "dont come for my man". And the pastor sat quietly while his "mom-wife" defended him against another man's opinion. They looked and sounded like a mom at a parent teacher conference. It was ridiculous. Would love to know your thoughts
@diamondgoddess5914
@diamondgoddess5914 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera, Could you please make a video on your channel about etiquette living with your boyfriend before become his wife? I recently moved in with my boyfriend and of course he’s paying the bills. I want to maintain my mystery and myself without getting too comfortable. Thanks! Loyal Subbie
@BlackCulturalPreservation2023
@BlackCulturalPreservation2023 4 жыл бұрын
Have a pamper or beauty regimen day while he’s out and about/at work or sleep that is secret to him. Take a class to upgrade your skills to keep bettering you and your home life.
@candycamus
@candycamus 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for speaking on this SheRah
@rosamariaspage8204
@rosamariaspage8204 6 жыл бұрын
You hit it dead on. Lesson learned.
@nmc1859
@nmc1859 5 жыл бұрын
Wow...just realized...through what was said in this video...I had (maybe have) been in 'survival mode' for too long ...
@vanessakilvin285
@vanessakilvin285 6 жыл бұрын
U r like a big sister i always learn somuch when i listen to u
@aprilcoursey4533
@aprilcoursey4533 6 жыл бұрын
Damn, babe! You are spot on.
@jetsetwm
@jetsetwm 5 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with owning wigs or other hair pieces. A lot of women use to wear them regularly. To enhance same with makeup.
@jeneka0989
@jeneka0989 6 жыл бұрын
Great video with great teachings. A must watch!
@CiaobellaAmour
@CiaobellaAmour 6 жыл бұрын
You favor Nicki Minaj😊💕 really pretty. Appreciate your content & refreshing to hear relationship & female advice from an actual married, mature & classy woman who apply to be doing well for herself 🙏🏽. Happy thanksgiving 🍁🍽🦃 in advance
@deet340
@deet340 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am very emotional now i think and plan instead of acting right away.
@charlita25
@charlita25 9 ай бұрын
I wear makeup 💄 because it’s fun , glam , and makes hold on to my femininity. Not because I thought 💭 I needed it. I will wear it because I it’s my passion.
@thelastunicorn7373
@thelastunicorn7373 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. I'm a beautiful exotic woman who delt with alot of physical and emotional abuse at 2 years old till 15. I'm trying to rebuild myself thru your channel. I know you speak of leveling up your appearance. I have very delicate feminine gold/ruby and gold/diamond jewelry that is on my face.. is this something I need to remove?
@theserpentcharmer1313
@theserpentcharmer1313 6 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Thank you love. 🙌
@NewAwakeningShifts
@NewAwakeningShifts 6 жыл бұрын
When will you discuss your take on Kim Porter?
@tawandamckinney3035
@tawandamckinney3035 6 жыл бұрын
Death will happen to us all so not to sound rude, but no discussion of unnecessary gossip. Keep edifying us instead.
@continuousself-improvement1879
@continuousself-improvement1879 6 жыл бұрын
I think that we shouldn't discuss her negatively regardless of how we may feel about her choices and lifestyle. Her children may somehow see the negativity and that would not allow them the chance to grieve and heal.
@theladybossempress4997
@theladybossempress4997 6 жыл бұрын
I caught pneumonia twice and lived. Kim porter was rich. I don't get it.
@girlsnetworking5363
@girlsnetworking5363 6 жыл бұрын
Love your channel!!! can you make a video on sexless relationships/marriages and what women should do. I have some friends that need to hear your message, as me being a friend all I can do is give my advice and listen to them vent but at this point they need to hear it from someone else.
@josephineblom
@josephineblom 6 жыл бұрын
This video was everything
@charlita25
@charlita25 9 ай бұрын
“Beneficial and miraculous “ 🤦🏾‍♀️
@janetg8545
@janetg8545 6 жыл бұрын
Happy thanksgiving to you and your beautiful family💕
@theladybossempress4997
@theladybossempress4997 6 жыл бұрын
I sabotage myself in dating everyday. I tell myself I am not beauty or good enough to attract a soulmate. Based on past experiences I don't want a man close to me. I feel history of abuse will repeat itself.
@naureenwalji485
@naureenwalji485 8 ай бұрын
shera u give me so much strength
@AdrienneStarr
@AdrienneStarr 6 жыл бұрын
The cross is a symbol of love, sacrifice and eternal life.
@charlita25
@charlita25 9 ай бұрын
Who is this person obsessed with Shera’s wig. Pure comedy 😂
@jamesmiller3663
@jamesmiller3663 6 жыл бұрын
You right girl - no dusties- Guys work hard & stay waxed up = Ouch- & please your girl+++3 times a lady!!!
@Lexiesimone33
@Lexiesimone33 6 жыл бұрын
What's the deal with people coming for the woman's wig. That's her prerogative.
@lc-il6wr
@lc-il6wr Жыл бұрын
Wigs are hot and itchy and a mess..😂
@charlita25
@charlita25 9 ай бұрын
“But we need to get naturally paid 💰 first” lol 😂
@funmilayoaina2658
@funmilayoaina2658 6 жыл бұрын
So in summary shera, you dont tell him the L word unless he declares it to you and it doesnt have to be true?! Hmm. You have given me something to think about. 🙀🤔🤔🤔
@tunjilegba
@tunjilegba 6 жыл бұрын
funmilayo aina What if you both play the same game and both end up none the wiser 🤦🏽‍♂️
@funmilayoaina2658
@funmilayoaina2658 6 жыл бұрын
@@tunjilegba that is why you choose your target wisely and it is obviously not you
@redroselace9545
@redroselace9545 6 жыл бұрын
You forgot to say "immm baackk " 🤣🤣
@MsPrestige2009
@MsPrestige2009 6 жыл бұрын
No need for the 🍝🥗 and 🍸🍹 guys, just show me the💸💰💍😎
@PoisonelleMisty4311
@PoisonelleMisty4311 4 жыл бұрын
wow what a beautiful necklace. I'm waiting for the next life stream. I'm planning to give a donation, and probably buy your book 💚....
@AlpheaMariae
@AlpheaMariae 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 50 K
@essenceaquarius9958
@essenceaquarius9958 6 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and I would love your advice about how to be 100% confident, dating in your 20's, etc. I found your channel yesterday and it's one of my favourites already! Also can you please give tips on how you can attract a successful man at my age? I don't mind dating older but older guys tell me I look too young lol. I would really appreciate your advice and thanks for your other advice videos, they are GOLD. ❤❤❤👏👏👏
@AjayMilan
@AjayMilan 6 жыл бұрын
You're so cute and yea you have such a baby face lol.
@essenceaquarius9958
@essenceaquarius9958 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Michealtetani
@Michealtetani 6 жыл бұрын
thanks for this video may God Bless you.
@suneelk3439
@suneelk3439 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashera Goddess 💃🏻👸🏻 Such a Lovely Video 🌷👌🏻 But why the video got cut off? 🌺🤗
@vanoylifestyle
@vanoylifestyle 6 жыл бұрын
Love this.. TEAM SHERA... all day? Have you seen the show "Ready To Love"?
@nylaspeaks7272
@nylaspeaks7272 5 жыл бұрын
First off it looks like her children’s room..people are idiots...SheRa I love your come backs
@charlita25
@charlita25 9 ай бұрын
“Pickmiesha is at work right now “ 😂
@lollers1833
@lollers1833 6 жыл бұрын
When does she usually stream????
@champagneho1538
@champagneho1538 6 жыл бұрын
OKAY...Yasss aunty Shera!
@MyAeq
@MyAeq Жыл бұрын
37:46 This woman cracks me up
@celestialtomas882
@celestialtomas882 9 ай бұрын
I dont go by words i go by actíons 👋☑️✅
@jaylove2442
@jaylove2442 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice!!!
@LaLa19801
@LaLa19801 6 жыл бұрын
So true!!
@jozzz222
@jozzz222 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Shera ❤️
@globalsetdarkpool8276
@globalsetdarkpool8276 6 жыл бұрын
What up big sis Shera....
@lorriekelly964
@lorriekelly964 6 жыл бұрын
agreed. moma. got. a. new. bag
@MiriS-bf5xk
@MiriS-bf5xk 8 ай бұрын
Those words should just be used to manipulate people not for real 💀
@amazingyummy2
@amazingyummy2 6 жыл бұрын
Good one!
@leaperm3433
@leaperm3433 6 жыл бұрын
Like I’m listening & at the same time I’m doing the complete opposite ..
@continuouswave34
@continuouswave34 6 жыл бұрын
Every man should watch this. Seriously. Too many men are raised with this Walt Disney illusion that women are kind, loving and nurturing. Your videos are an excellent example of hypergamy in action. It would help male / female relations so much if you just taught your sons how important money is to you, and how women define love by resources. Too many men think that being themselves is enough. Too many men refuse to think that your concept of love is consistently re-evaluated based on his resources. Too many look for “the one” when it should be “the one you can afford.” Now, I haven’t dated an America women since I discovered that women from Asia and Central America can still cook. This was some time ago. I’m curious, what exactly do you think you provide men? Another way to ask this is: what do you think men find attractive? Not in the “I want to get laid and run” way, but in the “I want to put a ring on her and want her to mother my child” way.
@CaramelCali
@CaramelCali 6 жыл бұрын
Let me guess you are a black man? My 11 year old son is taught that real men provide. REAL MEN PROVIDE. Even a child understands this. My son wants to be a scientist. So as a mother, I will be ensuring I help my **child** reach his long term career goals. This will ensure that he is successful and he will have not problem getting the woman of his dreams. He will offer her stability and a foundation to build a family. I dont teach him the latest youtube dances, hes not going to learn how to game women like losers. He will have the self esteem to know how to build himself to be the best version of himself and he will need no woman to validate him. You're honestly a loser. I'm just keeping it real. We live in a resource based world but yet men want us to close our eyes and act like we dont live in a material world... that MEN created... OMG THE STUPIDITY IS 100
@continuouswave34
@continuouswave34 6 жыл бұрын
N KIK, with a 2:1 female to male ratio of college graduates today, and the male number is dropping like crazy,. School systems are treating him like a dysfunctional girl, loaded up on adht medication. The odds are really stacked against your son. Sorry, but as long as you want to blame everything on men and ignore this issue, that’s you are going to get. I hope I’m wrong. Oh, by the way, I love the shaming language. Women almost always use it when something is too close to the truth. You will do a great job making sure your son is conditioned for it. As for scientists, best wishes. Do you know the under 24 suicide rate by gender is 1:7 female, male? These are kids not adults... women’s answer is to ignore, to protest men speaking up about it, to say “girls are stronger” or telling their young sons to man up. Real men provide, I agree 100%. Real men protect, 100%. You will never hear different from me. It is the job of a man to make sure his family has everything they need to thrive. When there is a breakdown it is on his shoulders. Young boys absolutely need strong men in their lives. They need their fathers. Women cannot do it alone. CANNOT. Young men need male role models... period. It is impossible for a woman to raise a man. You try like hell, yes, but look at these latest generations of “men” dropped out, laze, so weak and feminine that they will hide behind their girlfriends. Pathetic. We are supposed to have each others back. We are supposed to be each others bedrock. We all used to understand this. What the Fk happened? When did women become the perpetual victims? You were the strength of the family, the last line of defense. When did men fall so far? Women used to prioritize on character because money can come and go, but character is everything. Character rebuilds when mistakes are made. The answer cannot be “you go girl” it cannot be “boys have to man up.” You cannot keep training young fatherless sons to be good little girls. We are training these new generations to hate each other, to be each other’s victims or oppressors. WTF. Your own sons are failing in mass. Coach and LV are not about your sons. It is about YOU. You ladies keep saying things like “my man spends x on me” that has nothing to do with your children, stop pretending it does. You say you have an 11 year old son. I fear for him, and if you are doing this alone you have my sympathy. I don’t know if you just had to have the bad boy, or if something bad happened to his father, but it cannot be easy for you. You might not need no man, but your son sure as hell does. You hear me complain about the state of the modern women here because its mostly women here, but I will do the same to any man that just walks away. We are both the problem. It’s not just men. Besides, when was the last time you even saw a real man under the age of 50? Probably the last time you saw a real woman. Wake up. Both our shit stinks. We have both fallen. Priority has to be on the children not on LV or on sneakers. WTF. Ok, rant done. I actually wish the best for you and your son. Remember, the NIH has a lot of resources for education in the sciences... www.nih.gov/research-training/science-education Don’t let him slack too much with video games, and make sure to set boundaries. Young men need them as much as their scars. We learn best by doing. I’m not a black man. I’m the byproduct of a shitty father and a perpetual victim of a mother. Thank God I had a strong grandfather. I graduated high school functionally illiterate, spent years in the army and then college thanks to a gulf war scholarship. Today, if you have ever traded a stock, etf, bond or have a mutual fund, odds are it went through something I built. I say this not so show off, but to let you know. Character is the most important thing you will ever teach. Character is what I learned from my WW2 grandparents, and character is what will let him survive when all else pulls him down. That character is what allowed me to go from food stamps, and functionality illiterate to building trading floors. Stop lying to yourselves. Prioritize character not LV. That pocket book doesn’t do shit for your sons and daughters.
@CaramelCali
@CaramelCali 6 жыл бұрын
@@continuouswave34 Damn, I need a nice warm cup of tea and a comfy blanket to read your response. I assumed you were a black man because you sound like one. My son is happy. Hes not treated like a girl. Hes human first and I respect him and show him respect. How can you fear for my happy 11 year old son? Should I have him come on here and type what he thinks in his own words so you can understand? We are talking about basic logic in life. He understands mommy rent is $1900. He understands his dad pays zero for child support. He knows I will never date another loser. Stop trying to make my son feminine. He loves numbers. He loves logic and we talk. He has his own thoughts and thanks me for doing a great job. He sees my sacrifice and love and it makes him want to provide for his future kids. What are you missing about this? I'm scared we live in a world with men who are like grown men children. **NOBODY WANTS TO USE YOU SWEETY, you're just upset we dont desire men who couldnt make their way in life** Even my son would spend his last little dollar of allowance money on me if he could. My son will be a warrior that doesn't make excuses. I have 100% faith that he understand the laws of gender. As a matter of fact, I'm going to read what you wrote so we can analyze why excuses and justifications can make you weak in life. You equate wanting a man of means as a material desire and as of 11/21/2018.. women don't even care what you men think anymore. Happy Thanksgiving!
@CaramelCali
@CaramelCali 6 жыл бұрын
@@continuouswave34 Also my step son heard me listening to Shera and he was quick to call her a bitch.. I had to school him real quick. Hes a young man and his girlfriend used to pay for everything. After I got done with my step-son, he was so proud to tell me that he has two jobs now and hes buying *everything* they need for their home. So try again!
@continuouswave34
@continuouswave34 6 жыл бұрын
N KIK, you really didn’t read what I wrote, but it doesn’t matter. You probably don’t even recognize that I criticized men just as much. With luck you’ll read this. It’s not for you. I’m a big believer in mentoring. Put aside your anger for a moment and consider the following two recommendations FOR YOUR SON. Two recommendations for Christmas for a budding science major. 1 Ask him if he wants to build a robot from the ground up. The following kits will teach him basic electronics and programming while teaching him how to build a robot. He will learn about diodes, capacitors, and all kinds of electronics. The books that come with these are simple, color coded and readable by his age. Don’t be surprised if he builds a “mom” detection device. www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_5_8?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=arduino+starter+kit&sprefix=Arduino+%2Caps%2C161&crid=32WORP6HCEWSC 2. Ask him if he wants to talk to actual astronauts while they are in space. The international space station has an active ham radio station, and frequently talks to people as they pass overhead. An FCC license is needed, but it’s almost free. He will have to study for the test. There are a lot of local clubs that will help. They will mentor, have free hands on classes, and help teach him what he doesn’t understand. There’s lots of free material to read up on online via the link below. He will learn more about EM waves, antennas and communications by the time he is in high school than most college students ever will... while have fun in the process. You can get dirt cheap radios, hand built ones and stuff he can break without causing you much of an issue. See www.arrl.org for local clubs.
@celestialtomas882
@celestialtomas882 9 ай бұрын
Cérebro 🧠 não reconhece mentiras Informação e informações 💁‍♀️ não importa a fonte
@berniceg.8863
@berniceg.8863 6 жыл бұрын
Is that a Celtic coin from Ireland necklace?
@celestialtomas882
@celestialtomas882 9 ай бұрын
Não aceito está crítica Eu regeito e anulo essa crítica Isso é inveja disfarçada 🥸
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