How to Build a Bond With a Man

[@difal7335]

Ignore men commenting things like "thanks for giving up the game" or "I watch videos like this to see womens tactics" Men with real resources arent looking for youtube videos on how women get men with money because they are out there getting money. No disrespect to the youtuber but men making serious money or are focused on their careers arent going to spend their time watching 1hr + youtube videos. So you men can calm down, we arent after your £12 p/h paycheck. Keep that.

[@djangomarine6658]

Keep telling yourself that. I'm an attorney with 2 patents and a flourishing e-business. While I don't watch these videos in their entirety, picking up tips to weed y'all out is well worth my time.

[@difal7335]

@@djangomarine6658 as if anyone is going to believe you...

[@djangomarine6658]

@@difal7335 Believe what you will. Veritas vincit.

[@difal7335]

@@djangomarine6658 😘

[@qjtvaddict]

Lol people looking for relationships are always learning to think otherwise is moronic.

[@lacandysandy]

1. Remember details that are important to him 2. Bring these details up 3. Look innocent like an angel 4. Share a secret with him you told no one about 5. Mention a problem (he can solve) alongside, however just care about how his day went and he feels. 6. You can call/text, but always leave them wanting more 7. Pretend you're under pressure and do not expect they to be 8. Ask how his day was, how he is doing and that you miss him 9. Don't be always available, but suggest an alternative

[@trachbeba3488]

Shera petting a black cat is the most powerful feminine visual I've ever witnessed.

[@jeneka0989]

To be honest, as long as you look good and you are pleasant and feminine, and have never come too hard at him asking for funds non tactfully, he will always associate your name coming across on his phone screen with positive feelings. You want to maintain this perception by fostering positive feelings. And Shera is absolutely right when she says you must be their weakness.

[@makarnfeesirleaf8677]

You said it all 👍❤️

[@ajmosutra7667]

You must look much bette rthan your sugas

[@deeeana4783]

Did she say in the video on how to be their weakness?

[@MsPrestige2009]

This is my bible when it comes to dealing with men. Best way to gain a man's trust, is to first be his friend. Take time to understand him, as a another person😎

[@xoxotiffanyj4001]

best thing to do is whatever you do once u will do again don’t be private about it otherwise u keep them private u make yourself seem like the other woman and less than pretty much bye

[@f3042]

"I just wanted to talk to you because hearing your voice makes me feel better". "How much do you need?" LMAO SheRa is GOOD.

[@xoxotiffanyj4001]

How did it turn out aka can you see it whatever info u tell them at your own risk

[@SouthernBelle323]

This is 100% accurate. My old sugar daddy, he ALWAYS talked about his daughter and how he loves her. And before i asked for some money i would say "Hey baby. Have you talked to your daughter lately. How is she?" Worked EVERY TIME....even tho, to be honest, i didnt give a shit about his family lol

[@naomikinyanjui2728]

SouthernBelle323 😂😂😂

[@catchaliar1317]

SouthernBelle323 key word in your post. "OLD" get it while the getting is good because nobody can tolerate yall. The baby trap is your last hope to keep a SUGARDADDY

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Catcha Liar sugar daddy aren't forever looool

[@ThatnegroOutta]

Kufre Akpan 🤔shera kept her SUGARDADDY 😅🤣🤑all the way thru her twenties. Lol..all those unhappy embarrassing years for house n car keys..lol.. yall so stupid following her. Here in the south, that's a 350k home, 500k tops. Women buy those homes by they lonesome after a divorce or half successful career. Smh.. This group pathetic

[@SouthernBelle323]

"All Those years for a house and financial security" - a nigga commenting from his mamas basement using her free wifi LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@77danamae]

girl I even created tears when he started talking about the loss of his parents....

[@puddintame5742]

😂😂😂Damn y'all good!

[@mona-lisa1187]

desperate times call for desperate measures.. 😥😭😜

[@kayciable]

@Lana Lightman think about something that makes you sad.

[@lazarcatalina1176]

Now were talking!THats what i call a fucking showw!

[@katrinataylor600]

😂😂😂💯💯

[@blackdahlia4232]

I adore shera's "man" voice lol. "How much do you need?" Lol

[@IamKiaraZayas]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lmao righttttt is the best ever

[@HouseOfCardsTarot]

Literally just worked. I did what u said step by step and he was putty in my hand and made it his mission to inconvenience himself lol and fix my issue lmaooooo I had to bury myself in his shoulder to hid my evil laugh because it worked so flawlessly lol

[@Girlygirlsread]

honey bunny lol 😂

[@HouseOfCardsTarot]

26 for this guy. But I do not recommend guys in they're 20's. I just wanted someone to practice on really quick

[@HouseOfCardsTarot]

It was extremely easy and he was young!! A old man will give u the world doing this!!!!!

[@catchaliar1317]

honey bunny stop lying!! It's only been 4 days. He knows what you about. He complied because he wanted head. You and your sneaky laugh will be replaced shortly. Report back to this chat when he shakes you

[@HouseOfCardsTarot]

Lol @catchaliar Im happy to report that no head has been given and he happily did what he promised. Mission complete. Over and out

[@wonderful543]

lmFao bahahahahahahha " I lost my job, but tell me about you" dead AF .

[@DD_MENEN]

The easiest way to create a bond from my experience is simply making them work for you and invest in you.... yes it's over simplified but people always feel an attachment and deep bond to anything they worked hard to earn or get

[@mireillebernheimer11]

Of course. Its the only way

[@beautifulsoul6535]

Invest meaning what? Men I date always spend a lot on dates and give me their time. Should they also be paying my bills. I don’t agree with that unless we are past the dating stage.

[@DD_MENEN]

@@beautifulsoul6535 yes they should be paying your bills or atleadt some of your bills until they can pay all of them

[@noahzero9380]

@@beautifulsoul6535Because you still have pick me ways.

[@xoxotiffanyj4001]

Make sure they invest all their time and effort and then lie and never follow through

[@lenatutowa5181]

LMAOOOOOOOO "Oh...hey baby, ......it could have been better...I lost my job..." all angelic looking hahaha you´re such an amazing actress

[@flavourpunchh]

"you gotta ask about the crap that other people don't care about" 😂

[@rickieslashbrowandbeauty7026]

After watching you videos for two weeks I met someone last Thursday (tomorrow will be a week) I’ve already had him take me to the highest end restaurant and bought me 3 gifts!! Finally learning how to get a man see my worth and show me he sees it! Thank you Shera!

[@danarain332]

Wow thats amazing Can you tell me what videos you watch that helped you? I really want to apply this but i need strategies

[@djangomarine6658]

@@danarain332 Watch them all, but actions have consequences. Most of these females will be replaced with newer models once they hit the wall at 30.

[@sharonjohns1686]

Whats her best videos that helped you.

[@naviifra2374]

Django Marine who hits the wall at 30?

[@MaximumTruuuth]

He took you to the best restaurant because he played his best card up front… now anything else will have you feeling like he isn’t doing enough.

[@lenatutowa5181]

I love this fresh, innocent look on you as well. And the softer eyebrows :)

[@elena7659]

Lena Tutowa yes like a glowy Pocahontas lol 😍

[@tanjagordon1352]

'When you have given - fake trust - to a man" this woman is a genius - lol

[@beautymee40]

True words from SheRa "if you fall in love with him, you can fall out of love for him.

[@kyshac81]

Building this bond is the best way to get a man to do for you for the long term. This is how I’m getting my rent paid. And why I have another man as my target for something more than rent. I’m building a strong bond with this new man. He has more than the one paying my rent.

[@hunny585]

can u share how did u build the bond wid the man

[@wurlycurlygirly]

Omg, pray tell 🙏😭

[@KingofgraceSARA]

Wow, I'm naturally like this. This is crazy as hell. I can't fake a damn thing yet I appreciate sharing this. Well wishes, beautiful.

[@qjtvaddict]

629 that makes you better than the competition girl

[@zomzilove]

The Tshirt gift. So me! I bought my ex this black & gold black pantheresque $14.99 Tshirt for his birthday. He complained that he did so much for me blah blah blah and all he got was a tshirt. But everytime he wore it he got compliments. One waiter at a fancy restaurant even asked if it was versace. We kept a straight face and said Yes 😅

[@quelquun2018]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsDaniels]

I have been so played....lesson learned.

[@youaremagick5935]

Your videos have helped me get over a break up and feel empowered again. 💹

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Dear SheRa. This authentic caring behaviour does work. It is a form of respect form him and these are prime instructions in HOW to respect ourselves. This way we can judge whether or not he respects us and it can weed out the creepers and abusers. Wonderful advice. Thank you so much.

[@kimmie9793]

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[@jaybae7315]

This also works with women. I've done this with my toxic mom who has for most of my life has been abusive as well as manipulated and finessed me. And now she thinks we have a bond which gave me leverage to flip the table on her. And now she is going through emotionally some of the stuff I went through and I have a front row seat to her getting a taste of her own medicine. Now that I have the upper hand and taken back my power, my self-esteem has increased and my depression and stress has went away. I feel like I have more control over my life.

[@pinqfriday2490]

I’m so proud of you

[@samxsara]

Once ur takin back ur self esteem from any narc in ur life ur just leveling up right away, stressfree life

[@jredbone11]

Forget paying for hair and nails lol help me with these credit cards boo lol

[@lilpinkbubbles6592]

Right!

[@aminah761]

StarSolaris 1111 n these bills

[@NOLAbae91]

That part!!!! I don't need help getting superficial shit, I need help with these bills lol

[@poodle3927]

@@NOLAbae91 A Black woman would be interested in hair and nails only probably

[@awilliams7796]

@@poodle3927 yes that’s our only concern in life :)

[@trinasworld9377]

She definitely has her game in check.

[@Jubileejones]

This is easier to do on men you aren't attracted to lol

[@toriaalove]

Lol true

[@arivera268]

just read HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE!

[@freenfit6177]

Your my best friend in my head, lol

[@amazingyummy2]

lol

[@aminah761]

Me too

[@lionessofpeace]

Mine too haha every morning i get ready to her to get my thoughts right for the day

[@weirdalpleasenoticeme]

I'm in the beginning of this stage with someone I met doing one of my hobbies. I'm not necessarily interested in him taking care of me financially or even dating him long term, its just nice to talk with a man who has his shit together for once, owns his own home, has a college degree from a prestigious university, is bilingual, reliable car, investments, etc. Its just refreshing.

[@soluvlyxoxo]

I dont have a problem doing this I just have a problem when the man starts to think that I should give him some. I just cant mess around with someone I'm not attracted to or have true loving feelings for no matter how much money they give me or offer me.

[@marbuyfixed2185]

Good. Don't sell out your soul.

[@ChamStar625]

Same issue I'm having right now...

[@jt3409]

I don’t think she is saying give yourself away for some coins. She is rather saying hold yourself to a certain standard and men will always follow you. Period. Now not Every man will be quick to want some ass but rest assure they are thinking about it.. just be nice and remember if you choose to give him some you choose not him.

[@AK-dh2mu]

soluvlyxoxo then find someone you are semi attracted to .. I imagine these guys feel USED .. inhear what you’re saying tho

[@maddie6189]

Lol that’s literally my problem

[@dantesinfierno89]

Lol authentic. Most people aren't even authentic with themselves 🙄

[@catchaliar1317]

Most BW aren't authentic.. EVERYBODY else happy with themselves the WAY they are

[@Bam905]

Catcha Liar that part ✅💯

HELLO -- you know that's right

[@anonamous6320]

@@catchaliar1317 Yeah I blame society for that & awful humans like yourself. Other races can relax and rely on their men to protect and provide unlike blk women.

[@abundanceflowsthroughme8353]

I swear Shera is my online best friend. Girl!!! Thanks for always dropping gems. We appreciate you so much

[@trinasworld9377]

We all can relate to alot of wisdom she shares on her platform.

[@makaylahanson1373]

shera’s a fuckin genius. she really knows her psychology

[@alexitillery7512]

The little skits that you do are HILARIOUS! 😂

[@SellingDubai_maria]

Ok but mama Shera where were you when I just turned 21😂😂 I could have avoided a lot of dust from the beginning but the knowledge is timeless. Love you soon much mama❤

[@SellingDubai_maria]

So*

[@LinguistAmbie]

A wig thicker than what it should be!!! omg I'm screaming...

[@litawi7869]

I'm so glad she addressed this!!!!!

[@arealwoman1534]

Ambie Gonzalez TV 😂😂😂😂 coming for me

[@yagirltoreyleigh1165]

LOL, she ain't lying though about those extra thick azz wigs...I can't! What got me dying was "Put some extra lip gloss on so you can't feel the crustiness" of his old chapped lips. 😂

[@WilliamsPinch]

The disrespect 😂🤣

[@destinyadell1]

dating cute and broke is definitely way worse than ugly and rich

[@isagoldenjewels]

How ugly are we talking tho😅

[@i.m.7710]

You are hilarious!!!!!!! I've only watched a minute and Wow! Please do stand-up comedy. There's a big empty spot open for you to fill it right now. The great female comedianes are too old or gone now. Also Dr. Toni Grant's book, "Being a Woman" based on Carl Jung's female archetypes is where you are coming from. I highly recommend you read it. The church lady you speak of is the Madonna / Courtesan which is the combo of archetypes that inspire a man to marry for good. The pay for my nails, pay for my hair girl is the Amazon / Courtesan. There's also Mother / Courtesan, plus other combos. You've nailed them already. P.S. You're so naughty!!! Please be sincere down deep! Lol.

[@_madame_sene]

Just added Dr. Grant to my ‘must read’ wishlist 😊

[@meni8919]

I love you, Shera! Your videos came to me when I needed them the most! 💕

[@BrandiXo]

Hope your doing well

[@trinasworld9377]

Shes so funny I really like her laugh

[@shanelwealthy5272]

This is modern day healing 😌

[@SoldByCindyGen]

When I see pretty boys I see trouble, heartache, headaches and stress……..I have no attraction at all. I like to look but like I would a pair of shoes I’d know I’d never wear……..

[@truthexposed839]

Lol they might even slip up and say: 😍 I Love You! 😂 haha!

[@brookeashley1369]

Justice mines did 😂

[@AK-dh2mu]

Justice mine did on like day 2 ! Lol

[@shyrinTM]

You always give good advice.

[@Emprxssebonytv]

Shera is my hero I wish more young women’s like me would take her advice!!!!

[@boitumelokeabilwe946]

the beauty of charm.. it can give you a YES and without asking. Thanks Shera!

[@46foryounger]

Lmao at the Cat opening the door behind you😹

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

OMG her little laugh have me Hollering

[@oliviamasindi4300]

🤣🤣my uncle has a Benz and he let me drive it 🤦‍♀️⚰

[@psat21]

Wow I really got to stop actually trying to have emotions in this game. My emotions make me a big loser. Getting the guy is not the problem but the moment I start catching feelings they lose interest. But the ones I don’t care for are on my case so I need to change my target to guys I know I won’t like that much 😂😂😂

[@thetrdrlg]

Girl yessss lol it’s like they know when you’ve caught feelings and they start to pull back! I’m like okay what happened!? 😬😂

[@mariaaaa1128]

​@@thetrdrlgi think they believe they finally *got* you, they want the chase

[@dec0de141]

This was exactly my problem and that I’ve always been the ‘nice/sweet’ girl… not anymore sorry dusties 🙏🏽

[@46foryounger]

Also how do you balance between being interested but not coming off too nice like a push over.

[@kaitlinmontgomery2750]

Shera, just letting you know I'm creating a list of people I see as my mentors, and you have most definitely made it to that list! Thank You for your efforts, sassyness and impressive intelligence! 🦋💙

[@kaitlinmontgomery2750]

I'm realizing how semi cringey my previous post was lmao. It's cool to see the transition from pick me mentality to leveled up Goddess. I no longer feel the need to let Shera or anyone know my next steps. I think it's valid to want that and it comes from a place of :" look at me! I'm doin it yall! "Eventually your level up will progress to a place where seeking that external validation diminishes. I am by no means out of that frame of mind and neediness; but I certainly am on the correct path and branching away from it. I no longer relate to mindsets I've had even just 2 months ago. Sherah not everyone will like you or what you have to say; I am a big fan of you and your work and even still some things I hear you say I'm like what no that can't be right. But regardless lmao.... one day when I'm on my own two feet I will repay it forward to you. The impact you've had on my life alone has been profound. I even catch myself being like "sprinkle sprinkle!"💫 When someone upsets me yet I choose not to react.... or when I get my makeup just perfect lmfao. 🤣Much love Sherah darling thank you so much for everything you do. 😊❤💛💗

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

This works when one is sincere of course.

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

LBC Ulrica You must read my other comment. I agree with SheRa. We don't doormat ourselves and this is sincerely a great way to weed out creepers/abusers.

[@TellyTingz2000]

I do this remeber stuff from what people said , im genuinely interested lol being a good listener helps too

[@memelife8]

I laughed so hard during the first hour of this another great video!

[@ten25.]

What a beautiful woman

[@yourerightileft6764]

56:06 "My baby bought me this😭." *smears on chapstick* 😂😂😂

[@46foryounger]

This is a very important topic!!👌🏻👍🏻

[@truthexposed839]

Shera you have me 😂 cracking up over here!!!

[@tiffanyjoyner3012]

So if you have s photographic memory to any instinct. You are very intelligent. I am too Sis! Black Power!

[@1DNETTA]

When I heard She Ra Seven pronouncing the name "Neville Goddard" and mentioned she has to "check him out," I was immediately shocked that she didn't know about him😮, Since she often talk about LOA, spirits, etc. I say this because he is 🔥🔥= meaning powerful, like the commenter stated. When he'd lectured, all of his lectures are about the God mind, LOA, visualization, etc. He was brilliant! I love that man's way of thinking and wish he was alive in this lifetime☺.

[@wurlycurlygirly]

Yess!!

[@wurlycurlygirly]

He is basically a god

[@eleanor7242]

You are the best. All women should pay attention and get some free education on your Chanel.

[@cosmospray]

How come all those games came naturally when I was young like 19yo and now i feel out of tune !???

[@thatlovegirl12]

Lmao at Mikki’s spreadsheet 😂😂

[@boldandcourageous4176]

How's your dog rover ✍!!!!!😂😂😂 girl your too funny luv ya !!! Taking notes.Great video.

[@vibeswyoud1422]

omg im dying laughing. you are so crazy!!! that skit was hilarious

[@mzprettyniya]

I don’t need any advice except from SHERA 💗💗

[@trinasworld9377]

We needed to be school on this one on one Charm school practices in our teens

[@ladytok1]

I love your videos ! You be giving the best advice!

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Connection is good

[@xodavis1955]

I be cracking up when I watch your videos 😂

[@HausOfAdonis]

“What it was like being married to this fool” hahahaha

[@tiffanyjoyner3012]

Authenticity is important just as was stated once you are in the relationship (s).

[@carmelcutie7665]

You the truth.. One of a kind!!

[@NazFarah89]

Omg Shera! This is so true!! I got a couple of bonds loool!! 😋😍😎😆

[@fulfillmentsfoundinservice2051]

It is hard being broke 😩

[@firesign4297]

Then....Do....NOT...Be🙇‍♀️🙏🙇‍♀️❤

[@aminah761]

Lol

[@irmavanguard4097]

Very intelligent,rational brain , i See how much time you spent to analyze the Emotion and triggers, Shera are you behaving this Type of way Just with men or Generally with anybody? ,Do you Just need men For Money or the Power ? Your extraordinary in your Work xoxo

[@heatherschaeffer7625]

You look like a Egyptian Queen, with or with out makeup. Basically, I let those men talk and I remember their special people and events in their lives. Take notes and write things down when on the date, I do this with post it because of my learning impairment.

[@yunggblack25]

Egyptian queen? You clearly shooting heroine bitch look like a dirty sack of laundry tryna teach woman how to be "players" lmao

[@mariafranco6641]

but aren't we gonna talk about the cat opening the door hahaha

[@ashahasan]

Going back into the dating scene and I’m just a nervous wreck. Your vids help me a lot

[@tiffanyjoyner3012]

Sis I love I'm subscribed and I want the game from a women's perceptive. But you too much. Loving it and laughing. But know I got your back. Lol!

[@candylove9050]

Shera is beyond funny!! 😂😂

[@candylove9050]

So what you doin! What chu eat! Lol 😂 I

[@AlpheaMariae]

I really want to share your channel with my friends but each time i show them your channel when they see the lenfth of your videos they just forget about it. Can you make short videos like you did two years ago? :) Anyway love your video as always

[@HallmarkRocks]

AlpheaMariae her old videos are shorter send those to them

[@AlpheaMariae]

The Oprah of Leveling Up I did and will do of course :) Her advice is golden in all of her videos !

[@HallmarkRocks]

AlpheaMariae thanks because us long time supporters enjoy the long videos

[@AlpheaMariae]

The Oprah of Leveling Up I know me too :)

[@SheRaSeven1]

AlpheaMariae tell them to just watch the first 20 mins

[@elvia3068]

😂😂😂 Payless heels hahaha!! Not even Ross heels 😂😂😂😂....thanks Ashera

[@eveallusion]

I tried the “I appreciate your relationship with your mom” thing with my ex and his mom ended up breaking us up after 3 years together.

[@wurlycurlygirly]

If his mom could break you up, he wasn't shit to start with 🤮 3 years far too long

[@alomo3]

going to Africa in a week I have to get a sugar daddy down there,

[@josephBC3652]

alomo3 Good luck with that baby girl and be careful down there

[@alomo3]

I sure will Joseph and thank you.

[@meni8919]

alomo3 I heard Nigerian men love spoiling their women. Try it!

[@gloriamaiga2786]

Yet I am traveling to the USA to get me one??!! ,

[@AK-dh2mu]

alomo3 gonna fuck around and become a sugar momma thinking he’s going to take care of you lol

[@deasiasimone5302]

Can I try this on a guy that I don’t like ??

[@shesagoddess3592]

that look and the spreadsheet! aahaha I just can't haha yes I am following the ways

[@oia5882]

Shera😂😂😂😂😂 Again, you’re a true genius.

[@Sunny-cj5ic]

🤣🤣😭 SheRa is a mess! Love her, and her crazy personality! Thanks Lady!!

[@Lioness417]

Loving the Makeup look honey ❤️

[@kafierradouglas8797]

it’s like i have train to do this child i’m tired

[@sincerelystaceykaren]

I love and really enjoy listening to you! ♥️💋

[@Sunflower-kiss]

I like how you've been styling in this video

[@Kingcosmic88]

Setting the man up. Just great

[@luvisblindmarie6310]

Dope opening to your video had me doing the same thing on cue🤣🤣🤣... Luv u a bunch 👸💙

[@lifeventures4191]

Lol 😂😂This made my morning