my best friend's mom is my bully | STORYTIME

[@ShadowisAlive]

your life is like the main character of a movie, you're a very good person but for some reason everyone hates them

[@PiperPersenaire]

Exactly!

[@Toasterhonk792]

Srsly we need a whole documentary. Like every story, all 17 years, interviews of childhood friends and family members

[@ShadowisAlive]

@@Toasterhonk792 ikr like period let’s make a petetion

[@asarishepard8171]

They see him as new and want to crush him. Hate these people, I had this happen at many jobs!😂

[@AceFnafFan]

Fr she is in a movie!😂

[@PiperPersenaire]

It feel bad for enjoying listening to these. I love your savage humor and these scrumptious abusive people stories.

[@dorkbait]

I am basically Jake Weddle. Humor is my coping mechanism.

[@emmittthegoblin]

​@@dorkbait Sammmeeee 😃

[@totallystable]

@@dorkbaitfrrrr smartass remarks and humor just do it when all else fails

[@Astral_Clover]

It’s probably therapy for getting it out there… like a release of the trauma. Very entertaining tho! Great personality despite the 💩

[@emmittthegoblin]

@@Astral_Clover ?

[@ThatLazyL1zard]

Your bestie needs to confront his mom and set boundaries. ITs NOT ok that he lets her have so much sway over his attention and morals. Whether he understands it or not, both of YOU are the shared partners in the house. That means both of you need to prop each other up when it comes to your authority. She may be a mother, but now she's a guest, and she needs to acknowledge her place. Her son is sharing authority with you. That means she needs to respect you. If she doesn't, that means it's her sons place to back you up and set her strait. If he refuses to do this, then he's failing at his role of keeper of the house. He may not like that idea, but he needs to grow up and understand his responsibility in this. If his mother loves him like he thinks he does then she'll eventually yield. Also if she's reading this, she needs to know that her behavior is downright embarrassing. If you're too messed up to stand on your own two feet, then you don't have the right to judge anyone. You should feel shame and humbleness. If you don't you need to leave. HAVE SOME PRIDE AS A PARENT AND ADULT and stop being a nuisance. This is just some advice from an older woman who's had to go through this. It was difficult to endure my husband not standing up to his parents for me. We were a 50/50 couple, but his heart allowed his mother to disrespect me. You're not married, However! your place as a paying participant MUST be acknowledged and respected. This is hard lesson to learn growing up. But both of you will regret it if you dont learn this valuable lesson of protecting your authority. And spoiler alert, your parents will only get more older and more needy which means the sooner you establish this the easier it'll be to manage the regression of the parents. Your parents will soon become your kids, wich sucks but if they become too awful to deal with, then they better prepare for facilities, abuse, and loneliness. That's just a dark fact they need to face.

[@dorkbait]

Thank you for your advice. My friend is a really good person. He’s in a hard place here with this.

[@VedaSciacca]

Honestly sounds like a great friend, but he needs to step up. Iys not your responsibility to deal with her and risk relationships with his friends because she cant keep her mouth shut

[@mellessin1191]

second this 100%

[@pennymeekings-en8no]

​@@dorkbait I agree if you are having a hard time then dealing with high maintenance parents is really difficult and overwhelming to deal with. Not to mention the fact that you are told from a very young age you must not disobey your parent(s) making it harder to Stand up to them

[@otkucorner8274]

yeaaa.. I *FINALLY* recorded my emotionally abusive dad screaming at me for "blaming him for everything" when I don't. and hem saying I'm using him. when I don't. And I had my therapist listen to it, and in therapist terms basically said, "yea he's emotionally abusing you" He even thought she'd side with him when I go and talk with her next week. I was just tired of his crap, told him that I don't like how he's treating me, he blew up at me and then said I was the one using him when he's the one who treats me like a maid. Long story short-ish. But, I got the idea to record him from you jess. Thank you *SO* much you basically gave me the courage to expose his BS finally. Because before I did that, my therapist never believed me. I have since deleted the video from YT. I only uploaded it to show my BFF as it was too long to send as a text.

[@Just_a_small_penguin_with_soup]

I’m glad you are working to be free from his abuse❤😊

[@Maiishus]

I'm glad that you're finally getting some peace! And, just a tip, I know things are hella expensive rn, but if you can, please look for another therapist. Your psychologist should believe you with or without proof because it's supposed to be a safe space specially for you Anyway, good luck🤍

[@sillieinyrcity]

It’s amazing you were able to do that and you’re so so strong, but it’s kinda concerning your therapist needed proof to believe you.

[@Just_a_small_penguin_with_soup]

@@sillieinyrcity yeah I read it originally as they didn’t need proof but they seem like a bad therapist

[@Syndropss]

So so proud of you for standing up for yourself by recording his abuse. I also agree that you should find a new therapist. Having someone you are paying to listen and help you say something that you are experiencing isn't happening is not right at all. They should believe you with or without proof, that's their job. I hope your journey to healing gets better, and as someone who also has a abusive parent, I can say whole heartedly that it does get better!

[@marvelpovs2412]

Bestie, you need out of there. ‘Best friend’ doesn’t sound like the best. Like prioritizing mom over you when it was your car. Or just not sticking up for you in general. It sounds like a situation I was in a while back where I stuck around with my ‘best friend’ bc that was my only friend bc I didn’t want to be alone. You need to either set boundaries with your best friend about his mom and he needs to stick to it or you’re gone. You pay for 50% of that house. You get input. If he’s adamant that she stays then you go with your 50%. And is she staying there for free? Just bc someone was there for you when no one else was, doesn’t mean they’re a good person now.

[@hairoakrei8802]

Jess please please step out for your own safety and health.. And report her from giving a death threat You should never give someone a chance after they give a threat.... I've been attacked several different times One of those times i was pinned with my back against the fridge with a steak knife to my throat by my childhood abuser. He also beat me so bad my side where he hit me hurt for years.. (never got it checked cause i was convinced when it happened that i didnt matter to anyone.. I was also choked by another abuser because i dared stand between him and his target ( whom was a young child!) When people show you signs or give threats you believe them and need to distance yourself...

[@TheBigJayAgenda]

The difference is that your abuser was a man and his was almost always a woman. Women are far more likely to get away with abuse.

[@NibblitsCorn]

@@TheBigJayAgendanot for death threats

[@Forgettable_Sp0on]

I always listen to your videos when I go to sleep. I honestly feel so bad for you. You have so much bad luck it’s insane. Dude, you need a podcast. Your a wonderful person and a great storyteller.

[@eveismeme]

I saw the short, I saw this was posted one minute ago, I click faster than ur best friends mom trying to see what to be angry at you

[@Avery-wz7cw]

I’m so invested with this Chanel, it’s crazy 😆

[@PiperPersenaire]

Sammmme

[@SwiftlySwiftie1322]

channel* Chanel is a designer brand

[@katherinegeroy3687]

@@SwiftlySwiftie1322 DUH

[@scarydiscounthorrorstorys2859]

@@SwiftlySwiftie1322 its giving grammerly 2.0

[@Bunny-jq4ki]

Same

[@Syndropss]

As someone who has had a friends parent talk shit about me behind my back, it concerns me that your friend doesn't stand up for you as much. Like I know you can handle yourself ((Very well mind you Im very envious of how you can thrust yourself into a confrontation to defend yourself)) but she thinks its okay to continue because your friend hasn't set healthy boundaries with her. You are paying to be there, it's your house too. I hope yall can have a good constructive conversation about this because being threatened in your own house by a guest is not acceptable AT ALL. I really hope your friend can see what is happening and how much it is hurting you.

[@NibblitsCorn]

Babes, that’s NOT a friend. I’m sorry, but your trauma has taught you it’s ok to be treated less than and it’s not. I understand is expensive to survive. I’m 38 and have 4 kids. We love your videos. Your videos about your mom break my heart because my mother is the same way. We are no contact as of 2022. I’m also disabled and can barely afford keeping us alive. It’s worth it because I’m not dependent on people that treat me like a door mat. You need to get out of that situation. We love you and wish the best for you! Please be careful and stay safe.

[@dorkbait]

He’s a good friend, I promise! But no friend will pick someone else over their mom. So I’m not giving an ultimatum that I would just lose.

[@NibblitsCorn]

@@dorkbait I understand why you would feel that way and I’m very sad about it. Read what you said to me, though. You are always thinking of what’s good for other people or their feelings. What about you, hun? When are you going to let yourself be the priority? You deserve happiness and safety. If it was the other way around, would you choose your mother?

[@chromesthesia]

​@@dorkbait no one tell my mother but... I'd definitely pick various friends over her. She hasn't always been very nice....

[@Lazarus_G]

I think I like these on Sat, because it got my blood flowing and now I'm ready to get to work. Me and my kids mom had to rely on her mother through most of our 20's and it do be like that. I'm not a violent person and I don't like to argue, but that b***ch knew exactly how to get on my last nerve. That hatred got me through college, working 2 - 3 jobs at a time, trying to find time for studying, taking care of my kid, and trying to get more than 5 hours of sleep for at least 4 years. Find a way to love yourself, self care is mental hygiene. You need more than just hatred, because it may give you energy, but it also burns you in the process.

[@Rain_With_Bones11]

Congrats for being 4 years sober!! Also this a hard situation to get out of. Hope you can get out of it. Some people in your life are just awful 😞, I hope you can find your rest of these people.

[@eller1853]

Jesse, I really hope you read this and take it well. Please think about it for sometime and don’t just dismiss it please. Saying this with love but you are going to have to leave that house. It isn’t a safe place for you. You can’t heal in a place where someone reminds you of your mother. You deserve to have a safe place/bubble. Your friend not defending is a huge red flag. He might be a good friend to you but him just sitting back and watching his mother treat you like that means he sees it as normal and will never defend you. He will choose her at the end of the day. Him telling her what you said to him in confidence means that he’s a flying monkey for his narcissistic mother. He’s acting like the toxic mama’s boy where they don’t see anything that their mother do as wrong. They will always listen to them, their advice and rules. Really question why he’s the only one who is cool with her. Is he like her in any way ? Why does he not defend himself or you? And ask yourself if your mother was to call him every name in the book , would you defend and protect him? I know you will say yes because you’re a good person then why doesn’t he defend you especially knowing your past. Edit: I just finished the video and I stand by what I said. In fact I'm doubling down. It's a huge red flag that he's not denouncing the rumors his mom is spreading and he's an enabler. I mean this when I say you are not safe in that house. You have to leave. She is his family and he's willing to throw you under the bus just because his mother told him too.

[@GuyAnimate]

I wholeheartedly agree. Jesse, nobody who gives you a death threat deserves a second chance, and if your friend isn't holding his mother accountable or keeping confidential things confidential, then he's really not the kind of friend who you need. Some way or another, you need to get out of there, I'm sorry to say. I promise there's a better solution. I found myself an affordable living situation by browsing on Facebook Marketplace. Idk if that would be a good idea for you, but it worked for me. Sending love, buddy 💙

[@hey_thatsmyname]

Yeah, the best friend needs to do some work and grow. Distance (from the mom) will probably give him some clarity.

[@jillyfish1]

I've been thinking this too. I am worried for you. Please try to find a safer place.

[@DaniellaTousson]

Exactly. He is what we in the world of psychology call a narcissistic enabler.

[@asarishepard8171]

This, this right here. I hope you find a new roommate or friend so you can just live a chill life!

[@Desertdreamer24]

9:40 “Here she comes to wreck the daaaaayyyyy” - Jim Carrey from the film Liar Liar 🤣🤣

[@moonbeam0099]

7:20 Her son and you were/are both adults! She should leave y'all alone even if y'all are drinking (or smoking). None of her business omg. I'm sorry your friend hasn't gone no contact with his mom by now...

[@salvie777]

I’m living for these, it surprises me you say you have a lot of kids that follow you bc I’m 22 and these seem a bit mature for them kids. But I love listening to these and relating to your life’s chaos while I clean or do obligations and errands 🙏

[@marukazyrevich1577]

11:01 "I wasnt sharing" 💀💀

[@My_DreamTeam]

Jesse, you r my saviour. Your video just gave me an excuse to get out of a family gathering for an hour and a half. I'm excited to see what happens in this vid bc ive been intrigued since u ran away ❤

[@shannond1511]

It actually makes sense that many adults you’ve come across have narcissistic traits. That’s part of what brings many of them to pageantry, sports, extracurricular type activities because many of them live vicariously through their kids and/or demand perfection and the spreading too thinly of their kids.

[@tired_baddie1630]

Listening to these story times is like my therapy from the real world, I love it

[@littlegembigcasket]

you have so many wild stories it's insane. thank you for being vulnerable enough to share these online. im going through a lot of your family stories in the current moment and it helps to be able to watch and know i am *not* alone. thank you!!

[@jackhmtv1239]

i feel bad that this is happening to you but I got distracted by the heartstopper bocks in the background I'm glad I'm now not the only one who likes those books.

[@salemlynn8225]

I highly suggest looking into narcissists - she’s trash talking when she knows you can hear and “accidentally” texting her kids because they get high off people yelling getting upset, makes them feel like they win

[@OTZI_BOI]

Dude I've been excited for Fridays and Saturdays because of your videos 😭

[@Drunk_Ranpo]

Same X3

[@obvioustrollisobvious7028]

The "bad aura" type people you mention at the beginning.. I feel that so hard. "I had to deal with it with my mom for 17 years, and now I'm back at it again." 100% with you. I left home at 17 and now I'm back at 23 because shocker, I couldn't make it on my own. And there was nothing more freeing then being away from it. Now it's back. I've had people walk into our home and immediately feel the energy without seeing a single person yet.

[@dorkbait]

hope you find a way out soon friend💛

[@darling.v33]

i am so invested in your life, you deserve so much more.

[@DaniellaTousson]

I have met a lot of narcissist too! I seem to be some sort of magnet for them. Glad to know I'm not alone. Also, 'The person who sucks all the energy out of the room' yeah I know someone like that - my narcissist of a father

[@Nickyswisss]

BEST PART OF MY DAY>>

[@tropicalsugar]

Have never been this early!! Great vid :3

[@swirlingdimension]

Gonna be honest, your "bestie" sucks here, too. Sounds like he's just using the fact that he helped you out in 2020 as leverage to force you to agree to let his mom live with you guys. There's no way you're gonna heal with Linda 2.0 in your space. You gotta take care of yourself. Here's hoping that she moves away sooner rather than later, but it seems like she wouldn't be against staying long term. Love your videos, Jesse, and please take care of yourself.

[@dorkbait]

Bestie is not holding that over my head. I am holding that over myself. I feel I have to deal with it because he saved my life.

[@kytheband]

​@@dorkbait I feel like I do the same thing and i relate to that feeling of making myself uncomfortable and/or unsafe bc i feel guilty that i can't do all these nice acts my stable friends do for me all the time. ​Having major guilt and learning what we owe to eachother is something I'm working on tho (: it's hard to have cptsd lol

[@GuyAnimate]

​@@dorkbait​Jesse, I understand that you can feel indebted to someone for helping you in a time of need. But the truth is, Jesse, that your safety is in danger, and you do not owe it to your friend to remain in a situation that is actively harming you. This woman is retraumatizing you and has made a direct threat on your life, and she is not going to stop. And while your friend may be a nice person, his wishes for you to be there do not take priority over your own well-being. Not only is your physical safety in danger, but your mental peace is being taken away, and that is not fair to you. Even if this lady says that she's going to be homeless without your friend's help, then I hate to say it, but that's just not your problem. She is manipulating your roommate to avoid accountability, and she's getting away with it and at your detriment. Don't light yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. You do not deserve to experience another Linda, so please think about what's right for you, regardless of what you think your friend would say. Your friend is not holding his mother accountable for her treatment of you, so you are not really safe with them. She is a narcissist, and your friend is a narcissistic enabler. He is continuing to make excuses for his mother and accommodate her to your own detriment. He does not have your back. Domestic violence escalates, so this lady is going to pull more crap when she has the chance. If she has the gall to threaten your life, then she may very well attempt to harm you or harm your pets. And again, I really want to emphasize that you are NOT indebted to anyone to be in a bad situation. You deserve to be in a place where you are both physically and mentally safe, and since this woman has moved in, you will not have either of those things in your current situation, so it's time to shop around elsewhere. I love you and want to see you safe and happy. I've survived abuse, Jesse, and these people do not change. Talking it out with them has not worked, so you need to get out of there before further harm results.

[@asarishepard8171]

​jesse, you dont! Thats a crippling thought. And if he keeps harping on that one good thing he did, well, sounds like he's using you. Maybe not outright in his mind, but he's using that as an ultimatum in its own right, to get his mom to live there. I know its hard, but you can't be afraid to say bye to friends like this. Two things could happen , you'll never talk to them again, or one day they'll come back and apologize. Friends are good things in this world but you have to have good ones that want a healthy living environment.

[@asarishepard8171]

This is a life lesson, never help goblins that hate your guts. Also dont let anyone hold anything over you for helping you, cause with your best friend all im hearing is he held that he helped you out as compensation to let her live there. Never let anyone hold anything on you! 😂 i get it, youre a good person, i do. But goblins will take advantage of good!

[@The.Weirdos590]

OMGGGG OUR KING HAS POSTED

[@xoxlog]

first! also I am very sorry you had to deal with all that

[@SillyWolfGuy]

Why are there so many toxic people 😭 it’s like they all went to you bro I’m sorry

[@asarishepard8171]

Hes the shiny light these vampires fly at 😂

[@RivertedYT-]

He’s always giving us the best storys

[@Genderless_pawn]

I love these storytimes, hope your doing well jesse, you are literally one of my inspirations, I LOVE YOUR CONTENT, great to see trans representation

[@Mediocre_Pip]

Jesse, you are one of the most brave and resilient person I know on the internet. I am so sorry you have had to go through so much. Stay strong :)

[@Batcat1144-je]

Oh my gosh I’m so sorry that you have to deal with that

[@tinypinkturtles5943]

This sounds like a toxic situation for everyone involved

[@jenna739]

You seem like such a nice guy. I'm so sorry that these types of things keep happening

[@debidallacosta5736]

Thank you it takes bravery to shed light on these topics courage to admit the hardest times of your life especially to help people who don’t have the courage to speak on these topics thank you

[@ShilohxSimmer]

dear god I can relate to this so hard, my fiancé's grandmother lives with us and couldn't list the amount of problems she has caused without this comment being a paragraph lmao

[@annalisesmith3400]

"nugs" is hilarious i died laughing

[@Randompersononttheinternet]

Don’t forget to drink water and or take your meds if you have any and eat some food!

[@dorkbait]

thank you!

[@Randompersononttheinternet]

@@dorkbait your welcome

[@SunflowerCat1]

Im gonna snach this reminder aswell tysm ^^

[@Randompersononttheinternet]

@@SunflowerCat1 You’re welcome

[@Katherine-yq3hy]

Great video love you !!!!

[@gothgirl2218]

I wish your besties mom was like my mom who just comforts everyone about their issues ❤

[@BiancaMall]

You know it’s a good day when Jesse posted ❤❤❤❤

[@chromesthesia]

Dang that woman is more toxic than chernobyl's reactor.

[@EvelynandBreelee]

Yayayaya my favorite posted!

[@Ashlyn_Banner_dogs]

Hi your 1 of my role models you inspire me so much💗

[@pk3852_]

Jesus Christ, can this man live years of peace without just chaos happening in his life, seriously no one deserves to go through this at all. I feel bad for you.

[@dorkbait]

hey respectfully, i’m not a woman. 💛

[@pk3852_]

@@dorkbait oh sorry I keep forgetting 😅

[@Tovi_Wilburs_version]

Perfect long video right when I needed it

[@strawberryharuka]

I lowkey pretended we were on FaceTime while having my lunch listening to this story Hope ur doing okay tho

[@nataliaalfaqes3329]

I just found this channel yesterday but Jesse’s story times are so interesting and I already binge watched like half the channel… I can’t wait for the next video!! Take care❤

[@camico5015]

I love your videos. I hope it gets better ❤

[@TheBigJayAgenda]

I enjoy these so much. I love hearing you talk.

[@beaniebootuber13]

34:56 the voice I drooped to the floor laughing

[@Litterally_zeppo]

Wake up guys Jesse dean posted!

[@chillenjenni]

I love your videos, and your hair slayed

[@victoriousbooks]

Hugs. Oh that's nuts

[@SugarCookie-XoXo]

This person helps me through so much

[@lacifacer92]

I love you man. I'm sorry you gotta deal with so much shit in this life fr but you got this

[@salemlynn8225]

I’m so sorry you’re too kind for this - your honesty is fkn awesome

[@happyoctopuses]

I hope you’re able to find/create your own family with people that care and support you!

[@nuclear_reactor5x5]

very important to see. perspicacity is the foundation of life

[@cherry2261]

POP OFF DUDE

[@SMCloud]

Damn, I'm sorry bruv thats terrable, we love and support you jesse

[@LemonLimeSpline]

Jess, your videos make me feel very conflicted with myself ngl. On one hand, a new post gets me excited because you’ve still got stories to share and aren’t leaving us behind anytime soon. On the other hand, you’ve still got stories 😭 Also, I really really don’t like your roommate’s mom, and if I were you, personally wouldn’t deal with her, but I understand you may not be in a position where leaving is an option for you, however I still think you should try to convince your roommate to at least get her somewhere else to live because you really shouldn’t be around that

[@Yassified_Shoto_Todoroki_]

Your videos have actually been helping me so much, my stepmom was a narcissist and everyone around me knew that, but she always was kind to my face and knew that I struggled to see bad in people so I never believed it and defended her, but now she’s out of my life and I’ve been watching these videos, I keep seeing her behaviour in your mum and your best friends mum and it’s helping my brain to click and be like “wait, that wasn’t okay-“, so thank you lol /lh (light hearted)

[@BENOFTHEWEEKS_POOKIE]

Best thing is waking up in the morning and DRAMAA

[@Life_baite]

Nice Spyro plushie it looks very cool

[@mirazzzz]

I’ve never been so invested in someone’s stories

[@Yayaxxi2.0]

You weren't kidding when you said that she was bad. Like damn even I who tries my best to be polite would have snapped. It's just shitty that you have to relive that again after leaving that toxic household, You really are a champ. Also you were not lying when you said that your face turned red when you are emotional

[@MilqueAndToast]

Any reason you haven't told your friend "you need to start correcting her and she needs to behave or I walk"? Because your friend not speaking to her is enabling, whether they intend that, agree, etc or not... And if his correction, assuming he does it, is met with her behavior persisting, she needs to be told to leave. Narcs can argue and justify when you argue. They can't argue with ultimatums that are carried out, esp with legal backing. (Evictions.) Your friend's complacency is greenlighting her abuse. I'm sure you know that. And your inaction/lack of insistence is... Unfortunately, allowing it as well. You pay 50%, you have power. ENFORCE IT OR WALK. You have a fanbase here and many willing/able to aid you. You can keep a friend but remove yourself from the bad situation they foster. Leave, allow him to deal with the mess he allows (we all have to learn eventually), and just hang out elsewhere. You love him as all should love their friends, sure. But he needs to learn, perhaps the hard way, why none of his siblings are helping mommy with her pwobwems. Source: Me (and many others) dealing with similar situations.

[@leighannsayen3436]

I look forward to Saturday at noon almost like a party 🎉

[@DestinyHope-jz9fw]

She's definitely insecure if she's being a hypocrite about drugs

[@jenniferlenfestey5335]

Jesse, Love your stories, I’ve been binging them all morning. Love your “That’s Another Story” shirts. I’ve stopped here because I don’t know your relationship with your mom now, but if she pays your car insurance, she always knows where you live. Maybe that’s not a problem, maybe that’s everyday information, but if it’s not, one insurance question is, “where is the car garaged?” Your house!

[@dorkbait]

that’s not how insurance works. she doesn’t have our address. she put my car under her plan with her address.

[@jenniferlenfestey5335]

@@dorkbait my insurance company knows where all my cars are garaged, it’s part of knowing how to assess the risk and bill the customer. At any rate, it should be information that you should be able to verify. Good luck.

[@heatherking6829]

BROTHER! Why is everyone in your fucking life so mean!

[@SillyWolfGuy]

And then when they aren’t mean they aren’t insanely helpful…

[@Sandypaws4eva]

First!!! I’ve been watching for a while ❤❤❤❤😊

[@Genderless_pawn]

kid shut up, i commented at the 13 second mark, refresh before you make a fool out of yourself, and just dont say first its annoying-

[@Kxzayplayz]

@@Genderless_pawn you do know there’s other people who do the same.

[@Genderless_pawn]

@@Kxzayplayz still just annoying

[@Sandypaws4eva]

@@Genderless_pawn not trying to be rude But I took advantage of the situation bc no one ever and I mean never looks at my messages and he has helped me through my trauma bc I also have a narcissistic mother so I wanted to let him know that he has been an influence on my life

[@Genderless_pawn]

​@@Sandypaws4eva and saying FIRST!, will help that, as far as ive looked anyone who says "first" is ignored and seen as annoying by the youtuber, if you want to show him he helped you put an actual message saying it like everyone else, he is one of my favorite youtubers, i have a Narcissistic mother, father who doesn't care about me, and cheated on my mom, im trans but i didn't need to say that, adding the Narcissistic mom part seems irrelevant like seems your just trying to guilt trip, pussy shit

[@Stari.Dreamz]

Your eyes are really pretty :>

[@GamingwithLeah224]

Longest video I've seen so far on your channel. Love it!❤❤🎉😊

[@faygo_cupcake]

I don't really care what day you post cus they are both the 2 days a week I work and either way I get to watch you before work or after 😅

[@CJROZZA]

21:06 daaaaam Matthew you meannnnn

[@Drunk_Ranpo]

save some trauma for the rest of us 😭

[@demonboi9300]

i hope you’re doing okay Jesse

[@SoupSpot]

Sounds like my ex best friends mom. Her kid is an angel, I should end (life) and be arrested because she PA someone. Or she did XYZ and got in trouble. I was her ‘kicked puppy’ her friends told me. She got me to be with someone and I had just gotten out of my first relationship she also got me into, and then got with him. She threatened to end me and my unborn baby, my newborn. Sent people to harm me and take videos of me. She did a lot, she used to pull up to my school too. Yet all the blame was on me- the autistic, teachers pet, straight A student who sacrificed their graduation to write her paper so she could graduate. Who dropped out (but now I have my GED) because she made me despise myself.

[@SoupSpot]

The mom also told me I was sitting on the curb bc I came with her for moral support bc she was about to be arrested (my ex best friend that is), because I belonged with the trash and should end. She posted about me on Facebook, etc. I followed her daughter like she was a God, everything she did I wanted to do. I so badly wanted to be her friend. We offered to take her in when things got rough, etc. she kissed me when I was drunk and I was in shock and I felt violated but I said nothing.

[@SoupSpot]

I did so much for her and when she was in jail because she didn’t pass her probation tests, I wrote a beautiful love letter to our friendship and said “I could call you a b, but I won’t. I cared about you a lot and you betrayed me.” So she proceeded to write to my kids dad about how much she loved him and how I called her a b. Lol. So much stuff. She’d pull me in front of people and humiliate me because someone said I was skinnier than her once, and she befriended me when I was big so that really miffed her that I lost weight. It was all really sad. I cared so much. I’ve solely been targeted by people she set me up with knowing that they’d hurt me, which is the worst part. She despised me and the fact I had open eyes and an open heart and believed everybody about who they were after a lifetime of being a hermit. Like, full on, hermit. I had so much faith in her and everyone. I am a bit coocoo bananas and have been mean before too. I really wanted to be like her. I feel guilty I ever hurt someone with her so that I could impress her. She was a monster, a cheater, a liar, and an pdf. File.

[@SoupSpot]

Idk why I’m spilling the tea here but who knows. Being on the spectrum was hard enough alone but after working through so much of what happened to me and how many people blame me and hate me over these people who I just wanted them to care for me, it is intense. Like mother like daughter ig. My birthday is in a couple days and I’m about to be 24 and this entire year has been me stuck in a. Nostalgia puddle in my free time.

[@SwiftlySwiftie1322]

Under 1 hour club👇👇👇👇👇

[@SebinzoTheMessup]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@dorkbait]

WOOOO under one hour gang ✨🕺🏼

[@star_kid10]

Usually I wash dishes while watching these, and I couldn't even focus because of how crazy this is! Every other sentence I was going "SHE DID WHAT?!"

[@thoughtfuloudmouth]

Just wondering, does your friend watch these videos? You mentioned his mom does, but how about him? If so how does he feel about this? Also, I love your content, and your voice is very calming (I feel like my interest shows just how good your videos are, you are a great story teller). Thanks!

[@Lolchicaisback]

I love listening to these while cleaning i honestly love your voice sm

[@Dragons2295]

Your bestie's mom is definitely... Not ok. I'm not even going to attempt to dissect that. I'm not licensed for that! My only suggestion for coping with her specifically is ignore her. Take the measures you need to take to keep yourself safe-a real lock on your room, look into an air purifier to help get rid of cig smoke, record negative interactions if possible(be careful with the laws in your area on that)-and distance yourself from her. If necessary(probably) you can have a conversation with your bestie, preferably after you've gathered evidence that his mom is creating an unsafe situation for you. Look for CBT and DBT exercises that you can do. Its not a solution, but it's the best advice I can offer.

[@fatemaaburashid2780]

I love watching ur videos when im doing my makeup and eating but man ur one tough soldier..

[@LuluchanARTZ]

YAY UPLOAD!!!

[@SebinzoTheMessup]

mowing the yarn🔥🔥🔥

[@Prior2Popular]

She sounds like one of those women that thinks housework is a woman’s job and comes over to her son’s house and gets onto his wife about the house not being “clean enough” but says nothing to her son about it, even though he’s equally responsible.

[@Tozziss]

I’ve always said that if someone hears something about you that isn’t true and they just believe it without question then you probably shouldn’t try to be friends with them

[@30jenniferg]

Your best friend needs to rell his mom either you respect jess or you will be asked to leave. Simple.

[@angel-2009-v4x]

Jesse I’m so sorry you had to go through that I realized i was going down the path of being a narcissistic little B like the moms and I’m working on myself to do better thanks for showing me how to not be a stubborned narcissist who only thinks about themselves i don’t even know if you read these but if you do THANK YOU!!! enjoy

[@NoahBlah-n9c]

You got a lot of stories this is a very good channel