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[@Odidi_Bee6ix]

I'll never be poor button🙏🏿

[@illvminated]

💸💸💸

[@AsANigerian]

A button wont change anything, go and make money

[@giftij]

​@@AsANigerian A button made you type a comment, pls park well 😂

[@AsANigerian]

@@giftij you sound like an idiot, what's your point?

[@JensVanDeAarde]

some people are so poor the only thing they have is money

[@RomeoFinance]

“You can feed a woman for 50 years,but if she feeds you for 5 months the whole world will hear about it”

[@NileGoddess]

Because it’s the man who is responsible and meant to feed the woman not the opposite

[@jimone732]

That's the realest line ever heard

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

Lies. I know many women who stand by tgeir men during hard times. But pursue your money and don't complain when kidnappers want same money. Useless advice.

[@xsatudarah1388]

@@ancientwisdom-ty4nbthat’s not the majority🤡

[@afrobeatlyrica]

I really hope young men don’t destroy their relationship and marriages by believing this. It is well sha

[@mariohinds4113]

Never underestimate the wisdom of a old black man

[@OkiemuteKalusi]

True talk but not all old black men

[@RozayMalikOG]

❤🤝🏽💯

[@MrJ183]

Big difference between a African-American and a African

[@danieleric4850]

Not old black man has wisdom . Out of 100, only 60 has the wisdom

[@god563616]

He is African, Nigerian precisely. Being old does not bring wisdom. God does.

[@jasonwells3643]

Moral of the story dont be broke

[@monchogee]

Thanks can berly understand my black brotha 😊

[@leonteboho877]

Or don't have a wife at all

[@xFlared]

Yeah, just don't be broke. If only people in nations that have corrupt dictatorships and no jobs could follow your beautiful rule.

[@gabito8752]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/omPLdnawppKgiLssi=QUsoeN9MkU4bTiOe

[@Jimmy-e6r9x]

@@leonteboho877 😂😂😂

[@apextrona]

Am crying right now...for the young ones coming from a poor background, please let's make money but through decent means

[@nnajidaveed9896]

If only I was indoctrinated into this from an early age. Our own na gospel dem use full our head.. Even now indoctrination still makes it hard for one to focus on making money..

[@moonshinershonor202]

The struggle is real frfr.

[@peteradeniran2952]

E no easy oo but I will strive hard to get wealthy

[@SonOfMorning]

🗿✊

[@Échecbusiness]

That is the struggle of our life brother 💪🏿

[@newtonarori7344]

I was dumped over brokeness. Singlehood is surprisingly peaceful

[@catherinemlughu4666]

Very true... single wood is very peaceful

[@nuhu7354]

Your “sin” was dealt with very harshly. Keep grinding, you’ll surely get to the top!

[@newtonarori7344]

​@nuhu7354 Thank you brother

[@TruthTriumphs777]

Very peaceful

[@codeclockyt]

Don't celebrate it; get angry, make money and find a better love.

[@prachetasnayse9709]

When a poor man acts like a crazy person, we call him insane. When a rich man acts like a crazy person, we say he’s weird/eccentric.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Nonsense. I call them insane both times. You must be really dumb to do that. Wrong again.

[@bensheard3969]

Never been treated more like an animal than when I was living out of my car

[@Primatenate88]

When a poor man travels, he is a wanderer and a lost soul. When a rich man travels, he is cultured and open-minded.

[@a.m.4154]

Basically what media says about some guy who bought some platform by the name of a bird and called it a letter of the alphabet.

[@CarverRoberts]

ahh perspective

[@dredre6553]

If you don’t have money don’t get married simple don’t let anyone put you under any pressure

[@Thebest-wz7uf]

exactly

[@ohyouloveit8599]

Facts

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

I disagree. I had a room mate on campus poor as a pagan rat. His girlfriend stood by him. I told him if u don't marry this woman don't invite me to your wedding. They happily married today. Catholic women for some reason hav d winning formula and protestants should learn: meditation, self sacrifice and a mindset of surrender is what is missing cos fear of God lost years ago. Many women singing praise Jesus would hav been far from hm if they lived in his days on earth. Cos he king now with riches to give right? Learn from the catholic woman of meditation and decency

[@otobo7641]

@@Thebest-wz7ufBingo

[@adeolaoke4165]

@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb That is the way it should be ….. I hope the man’s extended family don’t surface when the money comes to push the wife aside, recount to the wife and the whole world the story of how they suffered with the man growing up and turn the husband’s back against her using every means…..

[@Digildon]

I was planning on being poor, but after this video, I changed my mind.

[@personalprofile1939]

😂

[@Ojuglas]

😂😂😂

[@ChristianAbr]

As a young man with little money I can tell you forget these girls and keep your money 🤣🤣

[@cynthiadickerson5403]

I told my son the same thing!

[@MokaneMalone-z2d]

@@cynthiadickerson5403 ❤😘😍😂💕🤣🌹

[@victormarcus6951]

😂😂😂😂

[@oluwaseun3771]

You are a wise man

[@VincenzoCrawford]

Dat is it

[@mystykalmn4434]

If you're wealthy and have a good health you're living heaven on earth

[@ngaronero4691]

wealth and heatlh

[@saidmeku707]

@@ngaronero4691 Health is part of Wealth that is. And there are other three parts which makes up Wealth.

[@nanfwangdabiring1520]

😂❤

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

U saying there are men out there who don't think they need money and need u to remind dem? Jesus said beware d deceitfulness of riches. Isnt it sad you know your wife respects your money not u? Your society is in trouble so don't blame poliand kidnappers chasing money by all means. Sad really for an old man to make a video teaching what David and zlatan sang in 5 minutes. When u 90 years old remember this useless post old rich man

[@kofiduku934]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯😎

[@hunterxcobby]

there are millions of languages but this man decided to speak just facts

[@TikuTuga]

Underrated 👏

[@TrancEndingMedia]

Only couple thousand languages but yeah..man on FACTS!

[@hunterxcobby]

@@TrancEndingMedia as a programmer I have rights to include the other languages 😂

[@JmanDidit]

Be original this comment is over played

[@NostalgiaforInfinity]

Well, aren't you original.

[@ifeanyigohard3054]

“You start introducing yourself to your wife 🤣🤣🤣

[@JayChuna]

😂😂😂Lol 😂😂

[@philipmawira]

😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thealchemist1951]

😂😂😂

[@thealchemist1951]

😂😂😂

[@Thebest-wz7uf]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@CollarID]

“When a man has no money he has no respect from his wife.” 👏🏾👏🏾

[@EmauelTaylor-er8vh]

YOU GUYS ARE 🤡 THERE IS NO MONEY ONLY DEBT FIAT MONEY COLORFUL MONEY BACKRD BY "FULL FAITH AND CREDIT"OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA"WHICH IS A CORPORATION..

[@M.SA93]

This is why I love that God created me as a man and not a woman because we have better temperaments than them in terms of materials. It is impossible for me to disrespect my wife because she has no money or because she cannot get pregnant. What a gift from God.

[@Qualeomais]

The Sad Thing is that not only your wife disrespects you but also the people around you including your family and friends

[@robertojimenez3673]

Ask Will Smith if being rich and famous gets him respect from his wife 😉

[@indiasupportsthereturnofth1475]

not true... my wife married me when I had nothing and I stay at home and take care of the home while she is a vet. We are doing just fine for 8 years.

[@JossueND]

If I ever get rich, I won't let people know and study how they treat me. I'll know who's real and who's not.

[@megabuilder2861]

You may just discover that no one is real.😢

[@Zlatan..]

No one is real bro Only God and your mom Know this and know peace 😊

[@homodeus8713]

Then you have understood nothing.

[@Bob-fj7lr]

I lost my job a few years back and was really struggling but I put my nose down and I've actually seen years of my hard work pay off. I'm not rich but I have a leadership position in a tech company at a young age, but all of those people who said they were rooting for me and all of that jazz, they did not fucking smile or even congratulate me after years of knowing I struggled and years of supporting them even when I was broke.

[@disisaz]

Moms aren't equal, mine is my mortal enemy ​@@Zlatan..

[@ekeminiekpikot7502]

This man can convince any man to behave well and invest 😂😂

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

Speak 4 yourself.if he is right d wives of rich men will never cheat. But they do. See how easy it is to wind your mind. Fear God. Find a good woman. Good women usually have few friends cos they on d straight and narrow path where few people walk.

[@THABO-wc1cl]

😅truth be told

[@kofiduku934]

He had me glued😂

[@Brazen_knight]

@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb so at least you have the money to help comfort lol. Any women can cheat. And that’s not the point here

[@Yaruandromedano1998]

@@ancientwisdom-ty4nbTrue 💯

[@MrUnfamilia]

This video didn't come to my recommendation by chance, The World is telling me something

[@dennismwangi7260]

true

[@Asmrcompilationsss]

😂

[@Mukhtar-tube01]

❤❤❤

[@swymbss]

The world doesn't control itself for it to tell you something.

[@reallhoxhoes8935]

You’re not special bud

[@vantage0]

“You must enter her gates with something in your hands… and there will be thanksgiving in her heart…” 💀😂

[@P8860]

Gem after gems

[@carltonwashington2779]

bars

[@orapelengrakaru401]

A true poet✨

[@TheDYNAMITE001]

You caught that too 😂. This man is ruthlessly funny 🤣

[@donnamikasa3404]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mcdollarsfreeway1549]

I will never settle for less and i will be work my way to wealth

[@Oyzatt]

That’s a lot of hard work 😅😅

[@Steve_IkI]

"I will be rich" button 👇

[@captainchaos1741]

I had to hit the dislike cos I'm gonna be broke till the end of days

[@Iwillwin88]

Amen

[@Iwillwin88]

​@@captainchaos1741I understand this.

[@FirstTen-w8q]

Where is the wealthy button 👀

[@Kidzavage]

Type shi ngl eternal riches

[@sbmartinson]

This video is too deep, comical and extremely valuable at the same time

[@patrickibeogu7400]

I saw hell when I came back to Nigeria after my masters... i could barely manage a relationship past few months...God willing... I own houses now...I don't wish poverty on any man... its hell on earth

[@fullmetaltheorist]

Poverty is the worst thing a man can experience.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Sheep needs their grass to not feel sad.

[@KYLETISZAI]

How did you get wealthy??

[@yousfiabdelali]

​@@KYLETISZAII have the same question

[@MultiBillionHeir]

That church was vibrating very low.

[@thewatlingtons6047]

Ive been married 13 years..the first 3 i was so broke. For ten years now i have never cooked, cleaned, or prepared my outfit for the next day. I am blessed to have my wife. I am blessed to be able to provide amd maintain. Thank god! I am by no means rich..but as a young man at 37 years of age..you have to find a livable income!

[@JensVanDeAarde]

Golddiggers everywhere

[@Keitumetsemulaudzi]

Fr

[@-John-Doe-]

Ironically, women always compare themselves to the wives of wealthy men, and wonder why they cannot find a wealthy man. They never consider the wife‘s role in their success. They were together before becoming wealthy.

[@Ammut6]

Damn bro. Help your wife out once in a while lol.

[@E2Gtube]

Ur not a young man

[@zvikosams933]

Who needs Tate when you have Sir Apoki

[@chumilemkaza4037]

Both are important

[@playinglifeoneasy9226]

Tate will get you arrested. He has no solutions.

[@aigleking9950]

Dr Apoki is opening our eyes and ears wider! He broadens our thinking and completes our manly growth.

[@sherrygate3666]

Tate has impacted my life positively. The big brother I never had

[@prosperemre5610]

Dont play

[@levonschaftin3676]

this explains why there are so many scammers in Nigeria, I guess.

[@glantedavid9728]

Dr. Apoki. Today's video is very deep. Even the dogs in your neighborhood will disrespect you when you are poor. I will watch this video again and again. Thank you.

[@drcharlesapoki]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Even the dogs😂😂😂

[@CharlesOnikosi-ql5sb]

Quite true with the dogs; they try to assault a rich person. They would squamish instead of attack. The story of wives frustration over unsuccessful husband, is due to her not sharing her knowledge, and communicating with her husband to be successful together. This culture is prevalent with Nigerian society only, and not a general opinion of human state of affairs. A loving husband and wife are supposed to build metrimony wealth together, if that makes sense. I wouldn't want my partner to be in poor condition, with time to develop money making projects. Mind you, unlike Nigeria, in comparison to the rest of the world, is the most extroverted commercial society in the world. Rich Nigerians, prefer to acquire wealth with foreign friends, than their own country citizens, it appears to be a custom that needs changing. Women shouldn't fear rich men,it's always a pleasure to have a rich woman as a friend of rich men, both academically and business moguls or magnates.

[@someoneelse1895]

😂😂😂😂

[@kofiduku934]

The word hit me hard in my heart and I subscribed 😂powerful. Looking forward to more inspiring and encouraging messages to ginger is out of poverty 💯

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Those who value wealth above everything else will lose their soul if they already did not. Those are not human but sheep eating grass their whole life having nothing else behind their empty eyes. Repeating the same nonsensical thing over and over thinking it will make it true somehow.

[@charlesagho891]

I agree with you my oga 100% If a man thinks that having financial capacity doesn't matter, this mindset he has is at his own peril. He shall SUFFER ALONE.

[@drcharlesapoki]

❤❤❤❤

[@nanfwangdabiring1520]

😅😂 "He shall suffer alone"

[@TheZuluman7]

The adultery case got me rolling on the floor. Hypocrisy in the church is sickening 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marcdumont2275]

The first thing I ever heard you say was "I am your friend". My heart melted when I heard that.

[@k99876]

So trueeeee…not having money destroyed my marriage. Going through divorce now.

[@jeremyarchibong8620]

She was never meant for you sir.

[@pdlrkpdlrk9971]

Sorry to hear that man. What is your plan of action going forward

[@k99876]

@@pdlrkpdlrk9971 trying to further my education and rebuild my life after that.

[@TheGreatVerlin]

Sorry for going through all that. Keep your head up and remain strong. Sending love brother ❤

[@NBaa2123]

Uhm dont put the divorce on u wtf

[@osezelejohn3214]

I like the mix of humor and true talk😂

[@TheDYNAMITE001]

Exactly 😂😂😂

[@EnvyJosef]

4:45 he said they will marry what is available. not who is available. 🤣 wiseman🤗

[@dushibeats]

i liked him forshoo

[@kofiduku934]

💯truth

[@nqobilenyathi7699]

what is available not what you want

[@nkosikhonafanaphi7480]

That line killed me😂😂

[@EnvyJosef]

Great Minds sure think alike.

[@XQRobertz]

Don't you know I'm your husband 😂😂😂😂 Dr Apoki's wisdom is unique 🎉❤

[@Thebest-wz7uf]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@felixuzomaokereafor]

Dr. You are bursting my brain. I will make money so that my children both male and female will live a better life.

[@buttaflyski]

As a poor man this is absolute facts. And hearing it feels terrible.

[@rjensen9295]

Your words may not be popular especially in western cultures where I come from but what you speak is a universal truth. I wish your teachings could fill the classrooms of today’s youth to inspire an additional reason why a good education will propel our young men into the professional workforce thus helping them be better husbands and respected lovers to their wives. Dr. Bob

[@chavonazary264]

He is right. My brother had no money, and he was miserable. It showed in his behavior. He felt less of a man because he couldn't provide for his family. G-d rest his soul though.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

If you associate anything external with being a man you are a fool. Those two are completely separate. Needy behavior for external validation. Lacking moral strength of character.

[@rollinthunder8671]

why did u block out God?

[@chavonazary264]

@rollinthunder8671 Because it is a sacred and holy word.

[@rollinthunder8671]

@@chavonazary264 that doesn't make any sense that's not his name God doesn't call himself God is the name that we gave him how is that sacred if we don't know his actual name and he never told us that doesn't make any sense that's a dumb answer

[@Pro_faam]

This man just dey attack me and my papa anyhow 😂😂😂😂 Make i shaa go double my hustle 😂

[@DannyVibes1]

I just tire, I just Dey think about my life since morning.

[@JuudChima]

Lol😅😅

[@gicilo386]

@@DannyVibes1 😂😂😂

[@gicilo386]

@@DannyVibes1 😂😂😂

[@cyriaquesache9627]

😅😅😅😅😅​@@DannyVibes1

[@Nour-hh7ok]

My mothers family consists of 9 children, the youngest one became the richest and works as a trainer for a national team in another country. The amount of respect and admiration he gets is immense compared to his other siblings. His word is absolute in the family even though he is the youngest exactly like you said. Thank you for the words of wisdome.

[@mycryptocurrency4584]

This videos is just sad and actually reality in itself... I pray Everyman wins in their respective endeavors

[@futurefarms3440]

If you were born dead poor like me and understand that struggle He is talking about gather here....The one of Temper is very True...

[@nnakauchenna4647]

very true 😂. Glad I came across this video.

[@EmauelTaylor-er8vh]

MAYBE A MAN WITHOUT "MONEY"KNOWS WHAT YOU DONT KNOW IF U THINK FIAT "MONEY" IS "LAWFUL MONEY"IS REALLY DEBT NOTES.AND HAVE NO IDEA WHATS REALLY GOING ON

[@EmauelTaylor-er8vh]

ONLY THE CHOSEN ONES EXPERIENCE STRUGGLE,HARDSHIP,ETC CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED NOW GO READ THE BIILL OF EXCHANGE ACT OF 1882 and NEGOTIABLE INSTRUMENTS TO START PROMISES ULL LOVE THESE THINGS

[@Bkfigs]

swear

[@kennedysoko2243]

Thank you Daddy for this profound information. Infact when you don't have money as a man your eyes will see your ears. Thank you the motivation..

[@kofiduku934]

You’ll see what your mouth cannot talk😂

[@grayzone4183]

Thank you for being there for some of us that never had a father to tell us this!

[@usamahisaacs8393]

Thank you for this. The man you’re speaking about is my father and I always felt he did me a disservice by not guiding me as his son.

[@clarity8296]

As a nigerian doctor, everything he said is 100% accurate.

[@bdoye4021]

Not exactly in all culture, not all culture worship money in Nigeria . But I get the message he is trying to pass across.

[@ange6501]

This was tough for me to accept of how shallow it is but is reality

[@ANTINATALIST_lewis]

Agreed

[@sandycheeks1580]

It is not shallow to want a man who can provide for himself, wives, & children. we women want men who are using their time and energy intelligently. That means they are out making money and decisions. They are getting power in this modern world. He can adapt and is not a lazy parasite. That kind of man is a leader. Yes, we women will serve him like the king he is in the castle he provides for us. This is an aspect of righteous living. There’s a passage in the bible that says, “I’ve never seen the righteous forsaken. 🙏🏽👧🏻👶🏽👦🏾🧒🏼🙏🏽Nor, his children begging for bread.”😮‍💨🍞 ✊🏾

[@mariaclassylady]

As an American lady Dr.Apoki, I enjoyed this video.

[@lawrencemalika9687]

Did you have to include "as an American lady"?!

[@mariaclassylady]

Yes, I did. I want Dr. Apoki to know that he has Respect and is reaching my country. Is that a problem for you?

[@lawrencemalika9687]

Not really...now I gey you better. He teaches well

[@PipsoffPain]

@@lawrencemalika9687lol superpower nation

[@HazeSphinx]

Lol America is a poor country

[@karabo3144]

Whether u think u can or can't you're absolutely right

[@nanayawbaah5283]

I don't really know this Old Man.....But I respect him already.....Much love from 🇬🇭

[@ththim7785]

As a man who don't have money, you should not be looking for a woman. Money answers everything. Not love. Period!

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

🙌🏽

[@crazypkm]

Money can buy many things. Love isn’t one of them.

[@Joshmanb1]

Money is useful and necessary for a good life but love is more powerful than money. Some millionaires committed suicide and some people go in schools and shoot innocent children. what do they both have in common? they are deprived of love. Money is necessary but LOVE is a Non- negotiable and Mandatory for life.

[@kofiduku934]

💯let those who’ll argue argue

[@ththim7785]

@@kofiduku934 Ecclesiastes 10:19 kzbin.info/www/bejne/mKeUq4CQi5J7atU

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

If you don’t have money, you will be at the mercy of everyone including NEPA, Neighborhood, & even strangers. Poverty stinks.

[@kofiduku934]

People who used to like you even begin to avoid you cos they know you’ll beg for money anytime 😂

[@Thebest-wz7uf]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@1saadx]

@@kofiduku934 Absolute truth my friend

[@gp-footy9319]

I’m a very ambitious and hard working man. I’m working towards something and if you can’t wait, free to leave. I’m not gonna speed up my process for anyone. My family worked hard for me to be here today so respect it.

[@zahrasaleh6672]

You have ambition and working toward your goals that’s all that matters

[@franciszoechituwi3369]

Old Age is a blessing when you have money ooh... SO HELP US GOD...

[@justicech3574]

Whatever we've been taught, the world doesn't owe us any kindness.

[@kennethgithinji5631]

Algorithm did it. I'm the lastborn here. Let me tell you, about the money. about the meetings. But I am inspired about the story of King David. He was the one the family least expected.

[@Elevate_Clips]

king David's story also inspired me as a last born, now at 22 I've already started doing copywriting

[@kennethgithinji5631]

@@Elevate_Clips what I've learned as a last born. Carry on, you do not know what God will gift you with what others might not value. David was practicing with a sling hunting birds before killing Goliath. I'm 31, going to study my masters in music

[@ChosenWun180]

@@kennethgithinji5631💪🏿💪🏿

[@craigkanyemba]

Grow up. Go and study STEM course. And do music as a hobby. Stop being a sol boy

[@clipsdaily.666]

That the dark things no one talks about but everyone thinks the sameway 😢

[@megasg75090]

My grandpa used to say "Poverty is a sin."

[@TheLocalStandard]

Sorry to say but your Grandpa is not wise, as it will imply poor people are sinners and even more. Poverty is a process, a legitimate source of wealth is honorable.

[@megasg75090]

@TheLocalStandard Many children inherit the sins of their parents and foreparents. Many times, our parents and foreparents don't share all their dirty deeds. That man was wise as a fox.

[@elethumatu]

a very big one.. root of all evil

[@Kayskinooo]

@@megasg75090 so if my parents did bad things can that actually effect me like this is 100% real?

[@RaptureHead1993]

Ima have to check the law of Moses for that. But then again I’m not bound by the law. My sins are washed.

[@danielmayomi3274]

Omo, poor man de really go through a lot😂💔 I’ll never be poor🙏

[@goodwop]

100% TRUTH. GOD BLESS YOU BRO, I WISH MY FATHER TOLD ME THESE THINGS.❤

[@Mrv011]

Dr Apoki, you are a bad, bad man. That’s why I admire you!!!!!

[@drcharlesapoki]

My former P. A. said I was a bad guys , plural. 😂😂😂

[@5neronaldo501]

​@@drcharlesapoki😂😂 Return of King Solomon ❤❤

[@StoryTelahMind]

He is a very bad Bado

[@austinoko6420]

Real talk Sir. I sleep n wake up with this thinking, it's my BIGGEST MOTIVATION to grow. If u're above 26yrs n don't knw these things already then u're dangerously naive or from a very comfortable family n very inexperienced. Either ways u still need to knw it.

[@samjeff6063]

That's why everyone wants to do anything legally or illegally just to get this money😢

[@kofiduku934]

Sad but real

[@troythompson2]

Since the dawn of time

[@johnonoriodegodday5049]

If you don't have money, the gate is not properly oiled self 😅😂

[@adeworisamson4125]

It seems a lot of men aren't aware that as a man, u must seriously prepare for ur old age, and that means u must be financially capable to take care of ur needs, as we all as pray for sound health, so that even if u have money, ailments wont take it away! The man's life is such a conundrum!

[@MrMister441]

This is very true. Contrary to popular opinion money will contribute to 98% of your happiness on this planet.

[@paulstephen100]

Very brutal yet factual!! 🙏👏

[@chumamakasi6682]

...'money answereth all things' Ecclesiastes 10, 19

[@christislight]

“For the love of money is the root of all evil” 1 Timothy 6:10

[@Millionsloveme-sparzinedan]

This Message is solid 'button.

[@christianstill.6654]

I wouldn't say money, but respect resources and security

[@TKworldwideNet]

Ah the good Dr Apoki, dropping some serious wisdom. Brilliant Sir!!!

[@phindamagagula2577]

Very important message, men let’s listen. Let’s not be fooled otherwise 👌🏽

[@type2red]

100 PERCENT FACT$ WISH I SAW THIS VIDEO AT 18. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 THANK YOU.

[@Аноним-щ3н]

If a woman says you owe her something - never interact with this woman again.

[@user-rz1lh5hn9u]

Why exactly?

[@Аноним-щ3н]

@@user-rz1lh5hn9u if a woman loves/wants you she won't fuck your brains

[@dingus6317]

@@user-rz1lh5hn9u She does not like you for you

[@StringerBell-r1z]

​@@user-rz1lh5hn9u reeks of entitlement

[@johnadona3014]

Remember Brothers, its better to be born broke then to be born into wealth. You will respect the hard work you put in

[@starluzenja9861]

Big lies...

[@Island-Nation]

Dear Doc. Whatever you've just said is spot on.

[@Sko71]

Love Dr Apoki dropping gems of wisdom and truth

[@DeepDeepSouth]

The moment this video hit 1 second This man is speaking facts ! Thank you 🙏🏿

[@neomusik-xz4lh]

Every son needs to hear this as much as possible! My God! Thank ou for sharing!!!

[@Cinemachoicefilms]

Smh man you're right on.

[@mayabythesea]

"For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part."

[@nevilleraheemdavis5568]

This man spitting so much fire 🔥 🔥🔥

[@dexburwell]

Agreed - me have broken the poverty cycle- work 2 job (sometime 3) for many years inna me youth- now have rental properties and such- me children had better quality of life - while them were young watchin me build - them now older have several streams of income- me grandchildren are covered as well. Jah Jah Blessings pon all 🙏🏼

[@AbdirahmanAra]

well that's right man has work hard for his living .

[@potatokaiyote]

I want to believe that we live in a world where money doesn't a play a factor in finding a partner but the first thing they ask is "what do you do for work?" 😂

[@am-vy1fb]

And after that, you know already, what she is after. This is gold diggers advice form tiktok on - how to find rich man being discret about it. We know the game now...

[@alanm6o9]

Its sad honestly. We get our consolation prize at 35 i guess when weve worked ourselves up and have enough money to attract women. Still fuckin dumb

[@samwallaceart288]

If you don't value money, think of it as consistency, authority, discipline, and resourcefulness.

[@empirelinkx9930]

Is a must, that "You should enter her gate with an offering in your hands then she will have thanks given in her heart." Eeii 😂 True wisdom here.

[@anttt13]

I never respected someone simply because they had money. The ability to provide for a family is respectable, but it’s not make or break. I respect a person’s character first and foremost. Money or lack thereof doesn’t change that.

[@Keitumetsemulaudzi]

Agreed well said

[@ANTINATALIST_lewis]

Completely agree

[@kwamemeloy1070]

Lies

[@anttt13]

@@kwamemeloy1070 no lies told. I’m 100% real

[@ernestowui8524]

100% correct

[@TrueYarn]

Broke or rich, I will be happy regardless because happiness is internal. Nothing from outside can make you happy if you aren’t happy inside. Look at all the rich and or famous people that committed suicide, hooked on drugs etc. I want to come back to peace at home and not have someone because society wants me to.

[@kwamemeloy1070]

A man with asthma values oxygen the most. It's all a matter of perspective.

[@MylezNevison]

Real respect is supposed to be a CHARACTER TRAIT (who you are), not a transactional tool you earn, lose, barter or use to get what your Ego desires... You should respect others because YOU are a respectful person, and doing otherwise would be acting out of character (thus, no one should EVER have the power or control to make you be disrespectful & figuratively act out of your respectful character). If your kids don't respect you because you have no money, it means you failed at raising respectful humans. Once respect becomes something to be bought/earned, it is no longer character. It becomes a commodity/tool. And just like commodities and tools, it can be lost or controlled by external factors.

[@isaacakinsola5912]

This is wisdom on display. Thank you Dr ❤❤

[@fullmetaltheorist]

I did not expect to hear such wisdom when I clicked on this video. Thank you.

[@Yadel-so5ws]

The thing about temper being high when you don't have money is so true. I'm literally pissed 24/7. And the thing about women not respecting you is 100% correct. When you talk they don't even reply to you.

[@Lastride30]

The struggles for men are real.

[@karabomarata1795]

It’s so sad,May God lead us through

[@guaybique4210]

Casual , funny and Blunt 👌🏾

[@siphiwomzekandaba]

It has crossed my mind quite a few times that the true source of everyone's pain and sorrows is the expectation placed upon by the society, primarily parents, on them. Having money has become the sole driver of many men, and will thus be their downfall. Sad, really. My advice: just live your life. Yes, you need money, but don't burden yourself with unnecessary weight. Otherwise you'll be depressed for the rest of your life

[@Krisokafor]

...Finally!!!

[@Neryuis]

My parents lived during a time of war when they were only school children. They always tell me how they were hiding in basements and going to school during the bombings and shootings of innocent civilians. Well, they only got the most basic education (1-4 grade) and didn't have the chance to get more educated because the situation was getting worse. That's why I respect every cent my parents earn though their hard work and appreciate every little gift from them even if it is only a sock. I got a laptop from them as a celebration for finishing 9th grade. Now I'm aiming even higher to give my parents at least something back.

[@nnajidaveed9896]

Keep pushing my parents never got to any laptops, even see one, they both died working harder than any other human beings I have ever seen. Yet to clothe me, feed me, and give me an escape route was not negotiable. They both gave their lives for us, we never even got to say thank you, what did we know then, today there's money but there's no Daddy and Mommy.. Life sucks..i wish I could bring back my mom and just tell her she could just sit down for 10 minutes to rest without looking for problems to solve. 😢

[@cassiejacobs4197]

I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed forever. I'm a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, bought my first house in October and hoping to retire soon if things keep going smoothly for me.

[@MeaganGood-yn9wp]

Who is your financial coach, do you mind hooking me?

[@cassiejacobs4197]

Cryptocurrency investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.

[@cassiejacobs4197]

Facebook 👇

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[@bioshock9998]

My dad was never taught this so he is exactly the kind of person you described here. He’s okay with not doing anything and having everything handed to him

[@bayordegles8862]

Thank you Grandpa . May God keep you with strength so that you can continue guiding us with wise words like this