'Sketchy' Behaviour: Izzy Stacy Johnie - Love is Blind S5

Therapist analyses Izzy, Stacy, Johnie and Chris from Love Is Blind Season 5 based on personality types and cognitive functions.
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In this video, I also elaborate on the following personality types and how their cognitive functions correlate with relationship chemistry and behaviour:
Fe extraverted Feeling,
Ti introverted Thinking, Te extraverted Thinking,
Si introverted Sensing, Se extraverted Sensing,
Ne extraverted Intuition
ESFJ, ENTJ, INTP
00:00 Intro
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[@SHIVAAAA100]

I plan to start dating soon and can’t wait to get another session with you. Another amazing video!

[@weronikakonieczna1856]

So well explained! What Johnie said to both men wasn't incohesive or contradictory to me either. I hated seing her being accused of lying. It was her truth that she was figuring out along the way. Stacy is the epitome of a close minded meangirl.

[@LLLNNNVVV]

I wish people would stop vilifying a woman every season of love is blind. Calling Stacy a close minded mean girl when she had no issues with any other women besides the one that spoke ill of her first is a bit much…. These are real people, not characters. Was she insanely immature at the bbq, yes. But it definitely reads more as her feelings were hurt and she could’ve communicated that in a more mature way, even though the things johnnie said about her were equally as immature.

[@weronikakonieczna1856]

@@LLLNNNVVV yeah, I'm definitely being biased and judgemental here. I get extremely triggered when I see the kind of unprovoked violent behaviour that Stacy and Izzy showed at the bbq. Calling someone a shit person at a social gathering, trying to convince them everyone thinks this way, not being open to listening to what the other person has to say in their defence, aggressive language and tone of voice.

[@katherinedelafuente6030]

@@weronikakonieczna1856 I'm not sure how that is worse than belittling and degrading someone behind their back the way Johnie did. They both talked shit on each other. One did it behind their back and the other did it to their face. I can't see how one is worse than the other. They were both clearly triggered and responded by attacking another woman. Both are equally flawed.

[@YukiKonan]

@@katherinedelafuente6030i agree with you. I dont understand how people excuse Johnie behavior. To me thats a mean girl too. But a silent one. The hypocritical one. I much prefer someone that calls me out in my face than someone that talks shit behind my back. Maybe they see her as more conventonally beautiful and thats why she has the hallo effect on her. But i wasnt fooled. Johnie is mean girl too.

[@mrswhite645]

@@weronikakonieczna1856 while I appreciate your ability to own where you might have some bias because that is rare online, I question the use of the descriptor of any of their behavior at the BBQ as violent. No one was at their best, I agree but I did not witness any violent behavior. I also believe Izzy had a battery in his back from off-camera conversations with Stacey and was partially using the confrontation with Johny to display his passion for Stacey. It didn't work but he tried.

[@JSinuYasha]

This video was refreshing. Alot of reviewers have been so biased between Stacy and Jhonie. I think you accessed the situation the best and casted a spotlight on Izzy role in the mess.

[@raqueldiego313]

If Izzy put this much effort into making money, he wouldn’t be in the position he is in with his finances 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@AnnieKhurana]

This is such a great video! I love the fact that you don't villanise anyone and have the ability/skill to pin point why people are drawn to each other and why they behave the way they do. I was so tired of people making Stacy or Johnnie or even Izzy (my least favourite personally haha) the villain- but this really does add more nuance to it without judgement.

[@sarahswede]

I agree that Johnnie didn't deliberately give two narratives. I could have done the same. Both scenarios were true for her. I wish her new boyfriend is neither the safe choice nor the unavailable man, but something completely different.

[@je.suis.prisci]

Finallyyyy someone who noticed what I saw. This is why I turn my notifications on for you.

[@MissKashira]

Stacy and Izzy scammed each other in the pods. They both hid parts of themselves they thought the other person wouldn't like and so when they got to know the real versions of each other, they didn't like each other very much. Some might think Izzy liked Stacy because he said yes, but no, Izzy like that house. Dude was homeless. He showed her an Airbnb which means that either he staged the lost and found or he travels from place to place carrying around trophies from women he's slept with like a serial killer. If it was the former, Stacy is right and he went above and beyond to try to make her feel insecure and if it's the latter, he really was showing her the real him because that's like Dexter showing off his blood slides. And you're right. Johnnie was not acting sketchy, given what she stated about her history, both patterns are true for her. Izzy is the new drug addict boyfriend that excites her but that she has to carry on her back because he's a mess while Chris is the guy she marries without ever being in love with him. However, I don't know what you're supposed to do in that situation besides get copious amounts of therapy to deal with whatever makes you dangerously attracted to hot messes because it sounds like a lose/lose situation to me.

[@lightworks3172]

Stacy got way too angry about Johnie for no reason. I think Izzie was in Stacy's ear about her, but as soon as he called Stacy sketchy, I knew he was up to something. I've seen men do this before: they put their current girlfriends on a pedestal in comparison to other women they've been with, as if it's a compliment. But I'm starting to think they do it to convince themselves, because this isn't the first time I've seen men date or sleep with women they were adamant they didn't like or respect. In all honesty, I think Izzie saw Stacy as having higher societal value/a prize/came with an easier life than Johnie who's been through struggle.

[@MissKashira]

It wasn't for no reason. Stacy was able to read Izzy like an open book. She could tell from the way he was acting that he was still hung up on Johnnie. Her reaction was out of jealousy.

[@souldiving4197]

@@MissKashiraexactly johnie is hot and more chill than her so ofc she’s going snap.

[@unicornL]

I agree

[@MomandBuggs]

Izzy triangulated Stacy and Johnie by comparing them and telling them about his relationship with the other women. Triangulation is a manipultion tactic, not saying he's doing it on purpose but it still hurts the women involved and is abusive and it may have been done to him in his childhood. Triangulation keeps the one in the middle in a position of power because the other 2 are competing/fighting and can never compare stories of the one in the middle

[@MissKashira]

@@MomandBuggs Even if he's unconscious of what he's doing, he admits he likes it so much that it makes him sexually aroused. Stacy has her issues, but she was definitely able to pick up there was a lot of stuff that was off about Izzy.

[@lyndsie92]

Yeesssss I thought the same exact thing about Johnnie's realizations about her patterns and thought it was so unfair of everyone to tear her down for her self discoveries. Totally understand that girl and what she was processing at the time.

[@JValeska]

You are brilliant! I would love to hear your take on Will and Jada.

[@teicu4530]

Lol, she is gonna need a 12 hour KZbin show for them

[@JValeska]

@@Maria-qh5hrliterally what I said lol, her take/analysis. Similar to the rest of her videos.

[@nicolettebell5646]

​@@Maria-qh5hrYes, but Jada is a liar.. You can't tell what's truth and what's fiction...

[@IndoorTabbyCat]

I would love to see you and Dr. KIrk Honda collab on a Love Is Blind video. It would be such an interesting conversation to hear two psychologists work out their final thoughts on the season together! (Plus you both are awesome.)

[@tkhachi]

That would be great. Most likely would be such a thoughtful and nuanced collab!

[@IndoorTabbyCat]

@@tkhachi Right?! I posted a comment like this on Dr. Honda's channel last season of LIB. Maybe one day. haha.

[@DrCherieTypes]

Aww I think my channel is too small potato 🥔 to work with Dr Kirk 😳

[@acquadiamore]

@@DrCherieTypes Your insights are valued just as much though 💛

[@IndoorTabbyCat]

@@DrCherieTypes Nooo!! Your channel is an excellent large potato! :) For what it's worth, your view counts per video aren't far off from his, but I understand what you're saying. Thank you for being you!

[@outoficecream2740]

Agreed showing the lost and found was a signal of ... hey women want me so you better step up. Plus i think he chose her because she was all over him. A challenge

[@weronikakonieczna1856]

"Izzy can't handle being second to a.. dead person" LOL xD As much as I dislike this manchild, I'd hate that for myself too ;D

[@DrCherieTypes]

😂

[@MissKashira]

Well, there was a chance he could have surpassed the dead person, but Izzy is the type who wants to be fought for, not the type expected to fight for someone else. He over there like, "I'm the prize. Imma need you to woo me. Imma need you to buy me dinner. And as my role models once sang, 'Can you pay my bills? Can your pay my telephone bill? Can you pay you pay my automo bills? If you did, then maybe we could chill'."

[@lucillespider]

you are a wizard at giving clear explanations of personality types- i love your content- please keep posting! you’re educating the world!

[@giaholmed2626]

Yes!Yes! I literally said this to a friend. But I took it a step further, they choose eachother because they are both “frauds”. Stacy totes “work ethic” and “success” , while being employed by her wealthy father. She projected the insecurity about this onto Izzy. And Izzy feeling insecure about MANY things, continuously lies by omission. And hoped Stacy , would help him hide his insecurities ( based on her performance in the pods). Really makes me wonder if she told him her Dad was rich ( in the pods). 🧐

[@reflectsonlife]

Yes, Johnny was never sketch, but both Stacy and izzy were. (Turns out Chris was too.)

[@giaholmed2626]

@@reflectsonlife GIRL! I think they both had a negative reaction to Johnie because she is what they are pretending to be . She’s a relatively successful lawyer , from humble beginnings , who is very attractive . They are both envious of her not being frauds like them!

[@_heyimbritt]

Ooohhh great points.

[@maggiedk]

I really appreciate your perspective on this!!! I had the exact same view of Johnie's "contradictory" statements but you were able to explain it in such a concise and clear way.

[@chrissyshae]

I honestly thought while watching the show that they were entirely too hard on Johnie... it was frustrating cause I was questioning if I was missing something

[@acason4]

You are really great at analyzing people & their behaviors. I feel like most psychological analyzation is pseudoscientific grifters just spouting nonsense, but you really do a great, unbiased analyzation of what motivates people & their underlying behaviors.

[@leono7380]

THANKYOU. You are the best.

[@connie27100]

That was a really good breakdown of Johnies behaviour. It can definitely seem like she was being 'sketchy' but it takes more work to actually understand whats going on. And of course, the cast did not have the video interpretations of what she actually said too, which is why its so easy to go for the obvious conclusion. I didn't think Johnie was as bad as they were making it out to be. Stacey definitely noticed that Izzy was still into Johnie and took it upon herself to transfer her feelings of frustration not onto Izzy but onto Johnie, who was a target. There was some displacement going on for sure there.

[@breemds]

I hope you do videos just discussing personalities and traits so we can learn about ourselves. Your way of describing them is great! 🎉🎉🎉

[@Nita_Key]

At 23:49 am I you or are you me!? I thought the same thing about Johnnie telling the men 2 different stories. Both were true, she goes for the emotionally unavailable guy which never works out then she uses the safe guy to get over him. She repeated that pattern in the pods with Izzy and Chris, but Chis was a wolf in sheep's clothing.

[@elenakalliste]

And Izzy knew this because she told him about the addict and rebound husband!!! Maybe Chris didn’t know, but Izzy was literally just shit starting to meddle

[@annanims7876]

Or was he humiliated after he realized the truth and then chose to be vindictive?

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Izzy was also a wolf looking for a woman to take care of him financially. This may be because of his absentee Dad. Mom fulfilled both roles and he looks to his partner to do the same.

[@milenabrouwer-milovanovic8556]

The best conceptualisation of the people involved I’ve seen. Including the drawer incident.

[@sosowat7379]

Thank you for breaking down the "Johnie is sketchy " narrative. I was so confused on this. I looked at that as her reflecting on her actions and learning from it. I still believe she handled it wrong but I don't think she was being sketchy

[@agoodreadsgirl]

I said this exact thing in a comment section. I got heat for saying Johnnie is not lying but just has a different way to phrase things that others misunderstand. I’m like that as well, so I understood what she meant. I’m neurodiverse, so my phrasing is often misunderstood. Man, my KZbin degree is paying off. 😊❤

[@Nita_Key]

Thank you for validating all of my thoughts about these people. I love how you use personality types to analyze and predict a person's behavior. This is all new to me.

[@samsham2295]

I can't even begin to express how amazing your breakdown of the personalities is. Never seen anyone else have that much insight and knowledge. Running to the Subscribe button!

[@ellegmye]

I love these videos. They're so informative and Dr. Cherie explains their behaviors in a very non judgemental way.

[@bookastar4]

I literally stop what im doing when I see a new video of yours pop up!

[@pussycat_we_love_you_rescue]

Incredible. I was an Izzy fan he seemed vulnerable...you've highlighted stuff I really missed. Your video is better than the show! Pow!

[@DrCherieTypes]

People are multifaceted. No one is 💯 saint or 💯 villain

[@pussycat_we_love_you_rescue]

@@DrCherieTypes not sure why you wrote that. as it ts very condescending. Spoilt my viewing experience somewhat.Take it as that a synopsis of perception.

[@EstherAnegbe]

At this point, LIB crew need to invite you to the reunions because your analysis makes so much sense!

[@V4Vonnie]

I absolutely love this channel. It takes conflict and things that usually overwhelm me and explains in a comfortable safe way. Really praying to be able to schedule my individual meeting with Dr. Cherie in November.

[@Daijxo]

Explained so well!!! I love this and your way of explaining personalities. I felt for Johnnie and you were so fair with her.

[@sweetjalight]

This is good. I feel like you were spot on with everyone especially Johnnie

[@scentscheaper]

I wish you were analyzing candidates after the pods but before they meet and try to help them prepare for a relationship. The network should have you on staff. Frfr

[@sj6546]

Thank you, you articulated a lot of my thoughts and explained the psychology behind it. I also believe Stacey’s need to “win” Izzy over Johnie was the driver in the relationship.

[@jorgefeliz77]

I absolutely love the way you read peoples personalities these videos are so interesting!

[@trafficcontrol2420]

Izzy was drunk the whole taping.

[@ningyding]

So fabulous! I cannot tell you how much I love your videos! I discovered them last week and binged them all already.

[@ericaavery9382]

Spot on. Once again 👏 so well said.

[@bonjourbui]

I like how when you analyze their myer briggs and their compatibility based on it but also talk about things that make a couple compatible that it not related to their myer briggs. it just goes to show i guess that myer briggs is not everything and a person’s upbringing/ external influence plays as much as a role as well.

[@shireenkhan4747]

This cleared up so much about Johnie for me. Thank you!!

[@michellegrantvaughn1561]

Another great video Dr Cherie! I love when you said something like she has the BS meter. Also great observation that Stacy wasn’t living up to the fun loving person she presented in the pod. Really fascinating. Your work is the perfect blend of science and art.

[@cardozoinator]

Damn Houston this was the worst cast so far. I hope I never have to accidentally run into any of these losers. What horrible people (except Milton). I'm embarrassed for Houston!

[@MissKashira]

Hope you're not dating. From what I saw, it's rough out there in Houston!

[@LovingFlowers]

I absolutely love hearing you perspective, Dr. Cherie! Thanks for the video!

[@FateDelamorte]

This was way more interesting than the show itself.

[@Co-Co-Jo]

Johnie is as traumatised by her past as Izzy. Stacy's biggest challenge, according to her dad, is worrying if someone can make sure she always flies First Class.

[@franceparis5714]

They need you on the show… as a therapist ❤❤❤ maybe they will have more success rate.

[@karladacosta]

Wow! So well explained! This analysis was the best I have seen. It was genius!

[@lauraa1219]

You’re brilliant. Immediate subscriber here 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@AnimalsDressedasHumans]

Great work! Waiting on to see if you’re this nice with JP 😂 that’s gotta be a challenge

[@cheetara25]

I appreciate you for this deep analysis!

[@lelele3]

This was so insightful! This would be so valuable to watch for any of these 4!

[@emolly93]

I LOVE ALL YOUR VIDEOS! Great analysis 👏🏻! Keep them coming Dr. Cherie 😁♥️

[@anyadarlingg]

Your explanations always make so much sense!! What you said about Johnny's perception changing is exactly what ive been trying to tell people. She was confused. Stacy was misinformed by her enemy, Izzy, and getting heated by his energy. Stacy did way too much imo

[@tplouis]

You are amazing!! Love this analysis❤

[@writeousrhema]

You are amazing at this!

[@ViviCyberBubble]

At first, I thought Johnie was emotionally messy, but then I've realized that I relate to her when more came out. Some ppl think INTPs are only stoic but I really am emotionally messy myself. When Ne connects with Fe for interacting, especially because Johnie is on a show where you have to make connections, it gets overwhelming and chaotic. I'm surprised we use the same functions, but it makes sense. I thought she was Si-Fe dominant, but the way you describe her Ti-Ne is exactly how it is.

[@ndumisomagwenzi2552]

This is brilliant, excellent analysis!!

[@LizNeptune]

I love your channel so much!! I need to break down my Personality!

[@CoolKidLex]

Yo 😮 I love this lady/dr./Ms Cherie. This breakdown is amazing ❤😊 the information/clips to match the personality/thoughts/emotions. On point

[@44nk96]

Thank you! I could watch hours of your content ❤ I always wish there was more.

[@turnitupwithnelly-2337]

I agreed completely🎉

[@MoschinoAmore]

Love your analysis! It’s very insightful. I hope you cover Love Is Blind Sweden!

[@lilylomcari1750]

I like this type of breakdown from a therapist. There’s another on KZbin, won’t mention names, who reacts and says what they should or shouldn’t do/say and it’s too opinionated. This is informative. Glad more therapists/mental health experts are reacting to this type of content.

[@hashtagmate]

Once again I am left wishing there were more videos of Dr Cherie. No pressure or anything I'm just super looking forward to any future videos I love hearing what you have to say ❤

[@hashtagmate]

*by dr cherie is probably grammatically correct

[@geralb4u355]

I love this video. Thank for sharing your thoughts. Appreciate it

[@colorsmith5569]

Always a great video!

[@anatapia3640]

This is exactly how I saw everything but could have not explained it better! Definitely going to subscribe!!

[@beebee3624]

Love your evaluations

[@lhippocamperouge7845]

I think you should be at every love is blind reunion

[@TrueLoveCanada]

excellent analysis, thank you.

[@thepollenhater]

Another profound video by Dr. Cherie!! Have you ever considered typing fictional TV characters? I’d be really interested to see your take on the walking dead eg. explanation for each character’s actions and choices based on MTBI

[@pushinp157]

Honestly Izzy is a very odd individual. He is the physical manifestion of insecurity. He seems to just like the attention he gets from women but he doesn't like them. I've met ppl like him before and they'll never be happy because the attention whorism scares everyone away, no self respecting person that they would want would take them seriously.

[@mikeparrott8304]

Oh boy this was interesting. Great upload

[@loxsochic]

This breakdown is amazing - very eye opening for even myself. Brillant analysis!

[@yarishasingh4164]

I love these videos. Thank you

[@RedBunni1024]

Great video! When you put up the stacks can you also list the MBTI to the side? I don’t have the stacks memorized yet and am curious what their MBTI type is that correlates with that stack. I actually didn’t like Izzy at all and could tell he was lying and manipulating the whole time, I’m also ENFJ so find that funny. So interesting a lot of the girls liked him to. Thanks!

[@plutoniumcore]

I was waiting for this vid! It validates, through your perspective, all the things I was thinking as well.

[@angelmountain9688]

Wow you're amazing

[@liabstrait8306]

Ive always understood what jhonnie meant to say and this is why i didnt understand why eryone was mean to her for her statements

[@maybememory1]

Honestly, I think a lot of it stems from his heritage. Knowing is name is Ismael, but he goes by Izzy…I imagine that he had a bit of a rough time growing up, and now he needs to know that women desire him, to perhaps a f*ck boy level.

[@Mailechannel]

Your points were proven clear when Izzy calls stacy BROS!

[@MarinaAlbigiante]

I really like this 👏

[@zamo5200]

I would love you to hear you break down married at first sight couples. You give valuable insight ❤

[@ericaflak6525]

Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@266shango]

Any chance you could make some videos on Love is Blind Sweden? It's been such a good season for analyzing personalities! I've learned a lot from your videos and I can see why contestants are initially attracted but don't work out. It's fascinating!

[@grapevinez6026]

Hahaaa 6:49 is where fate decided Stacy was going to say no at the altar.

[@Lenastar23]

Izzy and Stacy are what i call an ideal 'friendship' pair- which is why it seemed like it was going to be fun- but it is not necessarily a good relationship pairing

[@DeanBeanSubmmarine]

Excellent

[@amparo3987]

Agree!

[@bachopinbee5991]

What a relief to understand Johnnie. Its sad we could construde her as a sketchy human being, while apparently all she did was to speak her truth. She could be bitchy when on the edge, but who doesnt at some point?

[@Deniseeee84]

Love your channel !

[@Co-Co-Jo]

Izzy wants the mother he never had being brought up in a hugh control religion. Not a judgement on his mom as her context was also tricky😂

[@CabinFever52]

Such an interesting evaluation, though I don't thoroughly understand the ----elemental symbols (at least that is how the coding strikes me).

[@DJ-lu5np]

You are so good!!! 🎯

[@bachopinbee5991]

Please Dr. Cherie, make us a Barnett and Amber video next. This could be an interesting one.

[@phenitagomes1292]

Bravo. This was a good video.

[@MomandBuggs]

You give great insights. I never thought about Stacy hiding herself I thought Izzy oversold himself in the pods. I could always see that Stacy wasn't a feeling person so I guess I kinda just blamed him for the downfall of their relationship because she never changed. But I still also think Izzy just didn't care to go deep and ask her hard questions. They both seem a bit naive and immature