I wonder if the "equalizing" is some sort of internal defense mechanism, so people may find it fair or helpful to project that..

Still wild, she said she looked like Megan Fox 😂

Dr. Cherie, at this point Chelsea in my opinion has BPD

I love intps very funny humour, we get each other entp😊

I just watched the last episode where they do a reunion. Hannah belittled him so horribly and was causing him emotional distress. While this was happening, the camera showed her face. She was getting pleasure and smirking, trying to contain her laughter. It showed her doing this a few times. I feel bad fir Nick that he had all those women attacking him and running him down. So viscious! Hannah is a narcissist. A really cruel woman. She showed her true colors.

But fi can see fe as superficial. Having a infp son and a isfp son , fe can people please, and fi can cringe at fe and lose respect.. fe is harmony ethics based, so is fi, but fi is moral values and who they are.. fe can se fi as selfish

I have been searching through your videos to see if you found an INFJ on Love is Blind, no luck yet. Have you identified one on any of the shows you analyze? Thank you!

Sorry, my bias is, if you're on tv to find a marriage partner, you're in it for the exposure and potential celebrity / endorsements. drama. i haven't watched any of these episodes or shows, but if Hannah is indicative of the typical female behaviour out there, not a wonder men have no interest in marriage! Hannah is manipulative, condescending, arrogant, angry, and her self deprecating remarks are attention seeking

Just watching thos review, i didn't know you cover singles inferno and I remember been very annoyed with that gwanhee guy while watching last year

Hannah is a terrible person. She has a lot to work on and she’s looking for a pet not a partner l.

As a NE dom,who wad seeing an INTJ , his Ni yes can see future, but projection interfered .

Missing Cherie's insights on LIB Germany 😢

My question is if you feel like you have what he has what do you do

I look at Shun as a INTJ but could this be just his trauma talking ?

Im alistener on a therapy platform.. a infp came to me saying I'm lonely, i was like wtf does she need.. i honestly had no idea

Holy cow, as a entp.. I can do this.. I think l'm happy fe chatty, I can change to ti and it's like yep nope, detached ,clinical

Hannahs parents didn’t even seem to like her 🤷🏼‍♀️

OMG. yes!!

Can two people with Si as their top function be successful in a relationship? Curious .. I'm trying to find a couple you feature with Si as hero functions.

If you pay attention to HOW Zanab says things in the show like, "I wouldn't be here if I didn't want to marry you," etc, she says it seething mad at him. There is an incongruence between what she says and how she says it. She has absolutely no grace for Cole in this awkward "Love is Blind," experiment where he felt a connection with two women in the Pods, in a lot of these couples they don't realize people need time to process their thoughts and feelings; especially when making a decision about a life partner. The show it set up to cause drama. How many times did Cole try to repair the relationship with Zanab and the whole time she was clinging on to any negative interaction they had as 'that must be the truth,' that is a sign of low self worth and confidence. It's not a balanced perspective. Cole could have had plenty against Zanab, when he was making a meal for her she was like, "finally you're making a meal for me," then a second later she criticizes how he is doing it and then takes over, Cole tries to stay positive and have constructive dialogue to solve the problem, and Zanab storms away. I am sorry, but Zanab cut Cole down a LOT and is more negative than Cole ever was to her, and what she did to him at the ALTAR?! There is NO excuse for that, that was brutal and hateful of her, he didn't deserve that.

As a entp i get on well with intps, but we think alike, so i like intjs better romantically or work ,tho challenging i like their way of thinking as it helps me grow. I like infps, my son is one,but i find esfps difficult, their fi and isfps .. love enfp and infps as they really do help in how i feel faster.

This video should be given to parents who abandoned their daughters to show them the damage of their parenting.

Please make a video on the healthier relationships! I’d love to see your insight in when people are modeling good behavior and how to recognize that

She’s a textbook narcissist and I can’t watch anymore of this because I’m so triggered.

I just finished watching this show. Your take on Gwan Hee pretty much confirmed mine. It was hard to watch these women twist themselves into a knot for this deeply insecure, toxic man child. What does it say about these women who fall for his tactics. I suspect that the compressed time, artificial setting, the women's own emotional immaturity, and their desire for fame contributed to their choice.

As a white minority, stuff like this makes me nervous that dating a guy could have my race involved somehow.

Marissa’s mother already knew what type of person Ramses was & as soon as a prenup was mentioned you could see he was ready to leave. He wasn’t going in it for love, it was sex & money.

Just out of interest; isn’t this how a covert narcissist communicates with the world?

You are great!!!!! You should (please please please) also look into doing the same for “couples therapy” on showtime!!!

Having dated equalizer ISTJs, I find that it comes back to their internal mental environment. They always have negativity being thrown at themselves from their internalized shame, so when someone is experiencing shame, they can sympathize, and they spin positive. When they see someone being positive, they feel an internal feeling that the person is being naive, or that their experience is lacking this shameful internal alert system, so they provide it.

Oh okay so his family and friends are racist cool cool cool

Jimmy’s worst crime is that jeans/shoes combo

I think if Catherine was nice to him and didn’t talk down it would’ve worked even if their lifestyle was different. To me it seemed like she could talk down to him and she dida d he knew it but was ignoring.

For Jessica to say that having a child doesn't define her, yet she says that her child is the most important thing in the world for her, is misleading as well. Having a child is a major part of your identity, but not your personality. Both fields need to suit a potential partner.

Perfect example of narcissist, manipulative, selfish, emotionally abusive and psychologicalally unsafe behavior

Dr. Cherie can you please review LIB Germany? Or at least 1 couple?

I already said it she easily could be a narcissist and i don't even want to know how she is behind the camera's she will destroy people from the inside out.

Ramses, low T beta male who was insecure and needed constant reassurance and a codependent relationship

Natalie wants people to think that she is so sweet and innocent when the opposite is true.

she honestly seems like a narcissist

Wow seems uche and lydia were an equally yoked match in many ways

Lydia is very conniving!

Besides your wisdom on mbti I trruly Love the way you adress race themes in interracial relationships...

Nick is gorgeous and fun, what's not to be attracted to?

Single women will always keep other women single.

Mathew is so INFP.

Yeah I would have left the first sign of disrespect. She is a horrible human being and will be single the rest of her life. She is insufferable.

This is literally top tier content. You nailed this. Can’t wait to watch and learn more!

so sad