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@tinajbrown1867 2 сағат бұрын
Hannah's bad behavior was unacceptable. Someone should have called her out on it. Nick should have walked on date two. She is a narcissist who needs therapy. She's a bully, a drama queen, vile, rude, nasty and abusive. He is better off without her, too nice of a person for a person like her. That was potentially a lifetime of pain and agony for poor Nick. She is the type who preys on weakness. Sorry, Nick she saw a weakness and went for it. Shame on the producers for letting that go that far.
@FF4Ever15 3 сағат бұрын
Great video Dr Cherie! I found your channel recently and have been binging the whole catalog XD. Love the work. Hope you keep it up. This is the only one where I think you might have mis-typed. I have to wonder if Milton might be an INTP as your description of him seems to match it more. I understand you're explaining this in the context of him suppressing his emotions, but the way he described the world through science and math seems far more "Ti" than "Fi".
@TheMothernerd 4 сағат бұрын
Ugh critical thinking is such a breath of fresh air.
@SwedBaben 7 сағат бұрын
Nick would be such a catch. If he was secure in a relationship I believe a woman would get an amazing husband and father with the heart in the right place. Hanna has no depth as a human. She is not attractive, smart or kind.
@muma6559 8 сағат бұрын
in this situation the ISTJ's Te is very faulty. They should verify that the external is in fact the reality especially when it comes to people. they think they know but they don't, they don't have Fe
@micey-33 8 сағат бұрын
Chelsea is obsessed with control and manipulation, and no sane man or person in general would share her mindset because it is crazy. It all boils down to preoccupying another person's attention. Not healthy.
@YK-mn2nd 10 сағат бұрын
Please analyze Tyler and his obsessive mentioning of children despite his circumstances.
@nyamedorpd 10 сағат бұрын
She’s a great woman, I hope she truly finds her man 😕🙌🏾✨
@muma6559 15 сағат бұрын
how nasty the girls who support her too..., ISTJ disorder, yuk!
@pammyt360 16 сағат бұрын
She’s beyond gross
@mamasann7636 20 сағат бұрын
My husband and I used the fertility awareness method. Our youngest and last just turned 9.
@nightmareoracle 23 сағат бұрын
The way you say " and she made him birthday cupcakes" is so cute
@ENTme Күн бұрын
Great analysis 🧐👏🏽
@Andrea-cy9pn Күн бұрын
She confuses vulnerability with maturiry. He wanted a mum. And she agreed. I don’t get it.
@Andrea-cy9pn Күн бұрын
Why does she pick up a fight when she is safe or at least, should be? I dont get it.
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
How is Kenneth 25?!!
@firefly7826 Күн бұрын
I was shocked that she was so cruel to that man I say lucky escape to Nick.😅 I'm a woman, and that was uncalled for, she is TOXIC
@neskebeks Күн бұрын
Thanks Dr. Cherie. One question... is there a specific reason that you did not analyse their personality types and function stack?
@sstarjoyy Күн бұрын
Just found your channel and I am loving these love is blind videos. Good work!
@Vloggingwithrosalyn Күн бұрын
Hannah was intimidated by him and wanted to break him - I love your insights❤ so on the head
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
A lot of the women on this show have heavy masculine energy. And the men are so effeminate.
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
What the hell is he wearing in that shot
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
She is exhausting. Holy fuck Edit: also all the drinking is like throwing fuel on the fire.
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
Why would anyone put themselves through this 😂😂
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
Her mother seems decent and kind...what the hell happened with Hannah
@saladfingers. Күн бұрын
Wow. She's cruel.
@SaltyBeach Күн бұрын
I hope Nick sees this video! She was horrible to him. I hope he came away from this experience with a clear picture of what NOT to accept vs. feeling insecure about all he has to offer someone. I hope she gets some counseling so that she doesn’t continue to break down the people who try to love her. ❤️🩹
@guesswhosbackg6616 Күн бұрын
i dont like hanah's personality AT ALL. i knew she was bad from day 1. too confrontational, so aggressive. competition. puts down, she boring and fake. a nars or socio. her honesty is not "from kindness" lol yikes, i feel sorry for her real boyfriend lol
@vanessap8717 Күн бұрын
Ummm, you said that because someone is black and someone is white, you are a bit out there lady. Good luck.
@gallagrrr Күн бұрын
I loooove that you clocked him on the military thing. I am also anti-military... so I simply do not date people who don't hold the same beliefs! The way he was willing to marry her on the condition that she essentially shut up about her past was more virtue-signalling than principled. And instead of allowing her the space to reflect on the complexity of her experience, which already included remorse, he just put pressure on her and made her feel ashamed, which ultimately made her double down on being proud of her service. If it were really about his values, then he would have seen it as HIS responsibility not to enter the relationship in the first place instead of her responsibility to conform.
@onedirectionlover317 Күн бұрын
Idk, I’ll push back a little and say that she came off as more regretful about her military experience in the pods than out of them. Someone sounding regretful about it and emphasizing them walking away from that world and then turning around out of the pods and saying shit like “sorry your house got bombed but I support the troops”, and “I’d be proud if my kids served in the military” is a total 180 from regret about participating in military horrors because of necessity, and one could acknowledge the personal benefits / help while still holding their nose more at the horrors and not being so proud of participation in the machinery. Point is, I’d say I was taken aback by her difference in portrayal of her apprehension (or lack thereof) about the military. I could not imagine someone who articulates regret about the military and enough aversion to the culture to want to avoid dating military men then turning around and saying, so callously, blithely, “sorry your house got bombed, but I support the troops”. That callous energy did NOT come through in the pods.
@CDProclaim180 2 күн бұрын
Wow TI female watching this and never feeling more understood in my life 🤣. When I heard part that says “TI love instructions!” - I almost cried out of joy. I keep telling people “Tell me what you need from me” but often time people think I’m just lazy and don’t want to put in effort on being thoughtful. However, in my head I’m like “but taking the time to do what you want from me is the thoughtfulness” Honestly it’s a never ending circle 😭
@feministawry1600 2 күн бұрын
Alfter all is said & done Zaneb is a piece of shit, this is after seeing all the videos and seeing everything. Like she's actually horrible.
@thejasminebperspective 2 күн бұрын
17:20 was really helpful for me. Thank you for for this video. ❤
@Ramada66 2 күн бұрын
If Hannah was so in love with Nick, she could have been more patient with him, instead of belittling him so much. No one can change as fast as she wanted him to change in that little amount of time they were together. And especially not when she was so cruel to him as she was. So he didn't know how to boil water. Instead of answering his question if he should use 3/4 of a casserole of water, she was just annoyed and didn't reply to it, and did it herself. I mean, she could have just answered: 3/4 water, or double water of the pasta, and remember to put salt in the water and some olive oil... She did so many things wrong when she tried to make him 'grow up' in an instant. She KNEW he had a lot of help from his parents. Rome wasn't buildt in a day. She should have been patient with him if she loved him so much as she claimed. And don't get me started on all the embellisments she did about situations with Nick. She was laying it on thick to make it seem worse than it was.
@muma6559 2 күн бұрын
INFJ are more concerned with the values of everyone on planet earth. Fi high users are all about just their own values. Thanks for pointing that out
@MrsTruthTeller 2 күн бұрын
Oh wow. He is completely inappropriate and uses sex as a way to express vulnerability but she is also very cold and not very empathetic and she has a very childlike fairytale idea of relationships. They both have a lot to work on.
@insiracusa1111 2 күн бұрын
You are soooooo sweet❤Thank u 4 the video♥️🩷🤍✨️✨️✨️✨️🙏🏻
@gigasami 2 күн бұрын
The sole judge and decider of everything just become he doesn't with killing people (which she admitted she did ) . It is a critical difference in values.
@vivianita007 2 күн бұрын
So on point! Great analysis.
@vanessap8717 2 күн бұрын
I love the double standard of how ppl talk about dating white ppl🤣 imagine saying.. dating a black woman and getting the ick. So crazy.
@dirtydeetv 2 күн бұрын
Hanna was so abusive to him. I felt so bad 😢 22:57
@elsab5782 2 күн бұрын
Shane reminds me of my boyfriend. He has adhd and might explode and be really mean if I push him, which I do as a Ne Ti person..
@gemstar7447 2 күн бұрын
So very interesting, love theses analyses
@thesils3655 2 күн бұрын
I think Hannah felt "betrayed" by Nick when the door opened and he wasn't what he had claimed to be. Since that moment she didn't view him anymore as the man she imagined and dreamt of in the pods. And I believe Nick is nice yet also a bit passive agressive in my eyes. Saying yes to everything is highly unattractive to a girl especially when he acted as mister suave in the pods in which case you would expect him to be a bit dominating situations sometimes which was never the case. I am not trying to defend Hanna, but I am not trying to turn Nick as a poor saint either because he did pretend to be something else that what he truly was
@Icantstopcrafting 2 күн бұрын
It's interesting how one person's vulnerability can feel the opposite - intimidating, when you yourself feel vulnerable.
@dirtydeetv 2 күн бұрын
Omg thank you! Great explanation 🎉🎉🎉
@Silence-t8v 2 күн бұрын
Hannah is a narc!
@xcmaddycx 3 күн бұрын
What an honest analysis! I was HOPING for someone to call her behavior out. THANK YOU
@brittanydarby2824 3 күн бұрын
Marissa dodged a bullet, truly.
@EatersFan 3 күн бұрын
Good analysis