Behind the Scenes at Dressed for My Day

[@charleneclour9478]

Thank you! I never comment at all, but felt led to tell you how much I enjoy EVERY aspect of your videos, emails and posts. God is definitely leading you and using you in this space. Thanks again and keep inspiring us all!❤️

[@marionchew1415]

Kay, Thank you for taking the time and energy to create today’s video. It has been so fascinating to learn about what goes on behind the scenes in your work. You are so fortunate to be the “face” of such a wonderful team. I love how you check in with the “Boss” everyday before you start your working day. You may not view your work as a ministry, but I definitely believe that you are ministering to everyone of us. In every area of our lives, we need to have people who demonstrate true human values not only in their personal lives but especially in their work. The clothes that we wear are an integral part of our daily existence so we need to have role models who embody fashion sense and style as well as ethics and moral values. It is not necessary for you to mention your faith or religious preferences because your integrity comes from that foundation and then, it pervades everything that you do. I truly believe that the most important aspect of your work is not the outfit you are wearing today or the styling tips that you are sharing - the most significant contribution of your work is the Love and human compassion that is underlying everything that you do. Thank you.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you, Marion. That's so kind.

[@lkey4045]

Very well said and I agree.

[@carrieuzelac22]

Kay, I’m a 60 year old empty-nester with a recently retired husband and a daughter getting married in the spring. I so identified with your comment about feeling “invisible “ at times, and one thing I’ve definitely taken away from your videos is to “show up” each day looking my best- just as motivation often follows action, I’ve found that “dressing for my day” is often followed by a boost of self-esteem and self-confidence. Thank you for your genuineness and for representing those of us in our second act 💕

[@rrhines3151]

Kay, I had never thought about what happens “behind the scenes!” Thanks for sharing this video and for making a difference in so many of our community’s lives. Your authenticity drew me in and your content, diversity of presentation and charming personality brings me back! 🙏🏻

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Ahh, that’s so good to hear. Thank you for sharing. And for watching today’s video. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 💕

[@ladyp5511]

Kay, this is my absolute favorite video of yours. You've covered everything so beautifully. Many of us appreciate all the hard work you put in your videos. It does not go unnoticed with me. You are a wonderful inspiration! Wishing you a wonderful day! 💕

[@kathybriscoe1474]

Your videos are so professional and your knowledge and experience add to them. I look forward to your Wednesday vlogs.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching Kathy. 🥰

[@hjburns]

Oh Kay! Your video is an honest and raw dialogue with your community. I know DFMD is one of your passions, and I even saw you tear up. I'm happy that DFMD is providing an income and you're saving for your retirement - but, please don't retire too soon! Big hugs! xoxo

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Hahaha! No I’m aiming to slow down at 60 (in a year and a half) and to retire by 68. So I’ve got a while to go. 😉

[@lauriehancock920]

I loved this video- it was so interesting and I love your attitude/motivation. I have definitely felt served by you and I appreciate all the time and prayer you give to this community. I’m 66, retired music teacher and just moved last year out of my home state (CA) to the Seattle area. It’s been a year of feeling invisible and wondering what the Lord is doing!! Your words brought me hope today so thank you!

[@gillsimpson4976]

Thank you Kay. I am 66 yrs of age and you were the 1st influencer I watched on KZbin. Watching you made a difference to me. I have always dressed modern but had just retired from my professional life so had lost my way in how I should dress. I now watch many other influencers because I am in the UK so cannot access the companies you show. But I still tune in and love what you produce. Well done Kay. Xx

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much, Gill.

[@cathylehman7538]

Kay, thank you for sharing the “why” of what you do. I love that your spirituality is such a big part. God bless!

[@marvawiebe4364]

You are such a blessing to so many women our age. You are truly helping us to show up and feel confident every day. God is using you mightily to lift us up and encourage us. Thank you!

[@judybeck8313]

I have always appreciated the quality of your blogs and videos but never fully appreciated all the hard work that went into creating them. Thank you, Kay, for your service to your community. You are an inspiration. Thanks to James, Abigail, and the other influencers for their support.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s so kind, Judy. Thank you. 😊

[@lindastutsman26]

Kay, Thank you so much for this video. Your faith, your thoughts, and your talent for writing and presentation is a true blessing and inspiration to me and I'm sure to many others. Please keep up the good work and know there are so many who truly appreciate you.

[@sharonmulliken1785]

Kay, I can't think of a word to add to what has been already said about your sweet personality, your honestly and authenticity and your wonderful content with each and every post. I have followed other blog posts, trying to find down to earth, practical fashion sense and suggestions....but most are kind of "idea" based outfit of the day things that are pricey and not who I really am. YOU hit the nail on the head each and every day. I can connect with your lifestyle, your fashion taste for real living and just so much more. I am SO glad I found your blog and eagerly look forward to it daily! And you know what REALLY connects with me? Your Blessed For My Day meditation each day! Sometimes I scroll to that first! Your reflections always seem to be just what I need and worded in a way that feels like I am talking to a dear friend. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for all you are and all you share. You are truly a daughter of the Lord and you are a huge inspiration to me and you help me focus on what is truly important in living a meaningful life.

[@debbiemckendry6666]

Thank you for sharing your “behind the scenes” with us Kay. Your hard work and professionalism is certainly evident and appreciated by this community. The investment in the equipment definitely adds value to your channel; the lighting, sound, and picture quality makes a huge difference to the overall enjoyment as a subscriber…a big shoutout to James for his great work in this! May God continue to bless your work.

[@Kim-ek7xy]

I can't imagine why you would get ugly emails or messages. You are genuinely one of the kindest, sweetest, most humble, gracious woman on KZbin. Probably because you profess your faith, you're attacked. Thank you for your videos, I enjoy them immensely.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I’m sure everyone on KZbin gets their share of hurtful comments. It just goes with the territory. But it does take a toll some days. Thanks so much for sharing your kindness. 🥰

[@abigailharms114]

You are the hardest worker I know!!! Thanks for always being the best role model and encourager. You lead by example for me everyday in every way. Love you Mom.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Ahh, you’re precious! Look at you showing up here today. I love you! 😘

[@terry1090]

Abby, thank you for what you are doing for DFMD. The amount of interesting, educational and fashionable content that your mom generates is amazing. The community that she has grown is a beautiful thing. You are very blessed in the mom department!

[@terry1090]

Kay, congratulations on your success with DFMD! I so appreciate all that you, James and Abby put into the blog on a daily basis. I found your blog at it's inception and I'll admit that I left for awhile. Sometime not long after that I found you again and have been with you for most of the four years. As another commenter mentioned...you are very talented at this. You are an excellent writer and speaker. Thank you for praying for those of us in your community and my God bless your future in this endeavor.

[@gingerhiller389]

Kay, Thank you so much for putting this video together! I had no idea about all of the work you do for your blog and the weekly videos. You are such a blessing in my life, in more ways than you will ever know. May God continue to bless you and this business. Like you, I have to start every day with reading my Bible and several devotions, while drinking some coffee. That is a must for me!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing, Ginger. It’s always nice to hear from you. 💕

[@mariemull5739]

Kay, you are a joy and blessing, thank you for enriching our lives!

[@jettrenning1651]

Thank you for all you do for us, Kay. Your hard work makes a positive difference for me and I appreciate the effort you, your husband and daughter put into it. And it’s so good to hear that it’s paying off for you! I use your links whenever possible as my small way of giving back. You’ve earned your commission and I’m happy to play a small part in that. Have a great day and get some rest! Maybe give yourself a break on how much you give us. We’ll all still be here!😊

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Jett. Very encouraging. I was just talking with my husband about my plans for an upcoming vacation. I definitely need one and have never really taken a full week to unplug completely. So it’s in the plans!

[@jettrenning1651]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms So good to hear! A well-deserved vacation, Bravo Kay! I love to hear that you have vacation plans. Enjoy!!!

[@joansmith3990]

Kay, you are such a blessing in my life! Your style is so classy but it’s your sweet spirit that wins me over every day! Thank you for being a true “light” to so many of us. May God continue to bless you!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s so kind and encouraging Joan. Thank you. 💕

[@kathyweist9236]

Thanks for sharing this inside video! I appreciate all the time you put into helping us ( me! ) to dress for our day. It has opened my eyes to dressing “ up” and not ignoring “ me”

[@cathyb52480]

Very interesting! I love hearing about people's stories and about behind the scenes. Thank you for taking the time to film this.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 😊

[@robertasandhorst739]

Thanks, Kay, for this fun and informative video.I have always wondered what went on behind the scenes - a lot of work, I found out! Thanks for sharing and helping us to feel confident and comfortable in what we are wearing. I've been retired for several years and thought it didn't matter what I looked like anymore and that no one cared. I mostly dressed in a very relaxed way (grubby is a better word - ha!). Your videos helped me realize that I DO matter and how I dress for my day does make me feel better about myself. I'm sure my husband appreciates it as well 😉

[@donnacollins3311]

I would never know all that goes on behind the scenes, and especially how much work is involved, and the difference between sponsors and affiliates. This was very interesting. I look forward to you Wednesday videos and the daily email. Thx

[@rhonaklipp]

Why would anyone send you rude comments? You are so gracious and polite.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Hahaha! I don’t think most people think they are being rude, but just “speaking their mind.” Unfortunately some people just don’t have a filter and they write things to me that are hurtful and honestly inappropriate. I’m just an aging woman doing my best to adapt to the changes that come with age and to look my best like everyone else. I get very sensitive occasionally about my appearance like most women do. So when someone emails me and says, “What in the world did you put on your face? You look all shiny and pink in today’s video. Just horrible!” I take it personally and it hurts. Hahaha! And in the same email they tell me how much they love what I’m doing and how they’ve been watching me for two years and just love me. So I don’t think they mean to be rude. They just don’t have a good filter. 😉

[@angelabolen7343]

I am 56 years young and love your videos and blogs! Thank you so much for sharing the behind the scenes video! I knew I was drawn to you for some reason now I know it’s more than the wonderful content but your love for God! I too try to start my day with God’s word and prayer but if I don’t because I get busy with work (I work from home) I can feel the effects. Keep being a blessing as God so faithfully continue to bless you!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I’m so glad you’re enjoying my videos. Thank you for watching and for leaving a kind comment. 💕

[@loriandrews6805]

I look forward to your blog every day and the video every Wednesday. This was very interesting to get an idea of the behind the scenes. You've helped me so much understand what makes a good outfit and how to put different items together. I'm now methodically and consciously building my wardrobe with items that truly reflect my style instead of buying items with no plan in mind. You've helped me do that. Thank you for all you do!

[@lkey4045]

I can’t imagine who would find something that would make them use hurtful comments! You are so sweet and honest and helpful. I have only been listening for about 2 weeks and I love your channel. You are a blessing already. Thank you for serving🙏

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. That is very kind of you. 😊

[@susanlittlefield3291]

Your so encouraging! Ignore the haters! I was told by someone recently that I always look pulled together! I have switched my wardrobe out & look better thanks to some of your fashion advice

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s so encouraging to hear. Thank you for sharing. 😊

[@sigridpriebe5734]

Greatings from Germany. I am so glad I found your videos, at first just to improve my English I learned many years ago in school by listening native speakers. For me, a women over 50, in the last months it was wunderfull what you have too say and always interesting. Thank you for your work.

[@julietv6161]

You truly have a gift. Loved this video. Thank you for what you do.

[@shazzer1812]

Kay - I thought I would drop you a note to let you know how much I appreciate the time and effort you and James put into your videos. You are an accomplished and professional communicator with an authentic and charming style. This northern lady is pleased to be “influenced” by a sweet southern lady. Good taste has no boundaries and I genuinely enjoy yours. My sincere best wishes for your continued success. Keep up the good work, Kay!❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. That is so very kind of you. I really appreciate your encouragement. 🥰

[@deboraharchuleta9896]

Hi Kay!!! I found your KZbin videos and I really appreciate your content!! You are so authentic and real about what we women over 50 can wear. I look forward to your videos each week. Thank You and Bless!You!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you! 😊

[@elizabethharris371]

Kay, love your grace and authentic spirit and your transparency about your work life. You are a true blessing!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you, Elizabeth. That’s very kind. 🥰

[@lorenvivero6222]

Kay, you do come across as very genuine. When I first watched a video, “What a sweet lady”, was my first thought. And yes, your information is helpful.

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

I found your journey so interesting....it mirrors my own journey as well from teacher, to mother, to freelance writer, and then I started my own PR/MKT/ADV firm doing promotions for small businesses. I did that for 20 years until we moved to the country and I designed/built and ran an art studio selling my own artwork and the artwork of about 25 other artists. For me learning the trends is so important, thank you. I was wondering how and when you had time to cook!!!

[@dianehill4043]

Thank you Ms Kay ~ You’ve definitely helped me see I don’t have to stay stuck in a rut! I am that grandma that’s lost a sense of style, and will need all the help I can get to find what I should be wearing… you are a dear. Thank you for praying for us. I’ll pray for you too! 😌🌷 ~ Diane

[@patclaus8510]

This was so fascinating! I had always wondered how you got started in this… I applaud your sharing of your many insights here “in the shallow end” where we spend our days ❤

[@karenport3192]

Grace, Humility and Excellence…that’s what I see in your work and ministry for the Lord and for us as you serve every day. I agree with so many of these comments, but I especially thank you for the reminder to not let the “musts” of the day to crowd out my time with the Lord FIRST and foremost. Steady on sister!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much, Karen. 😊

[@andreacartwright6194]

Thanks Kay for a honest and informative video. Appreciate all the hard work done by the Team.

[@maryriggert1167]

I appreciate your coming to us using this style of ministry. I would like to serve you by keeping you in my prayers. I have a similar, personal background concerning the ministry/ pastors wives. Blessings to you. I have been able to use so many of your suggestions. I am feeling better just trying to get back to using makeup!!! God bless your day!

[@joanwright4993]

I’m really happy to discover your KZbin videos. Your advice is outstanding, but you seem so genuine and experienced. Loved hearing about your background and daily work.

[@joanwright4993]

Thank you for offering this to us.

[@ruthbrown3111]

Great information as always. And I love the way that you talk about body shapes so respectfully. Love your channel x

[@dodievanwyen4793]

Kay, You're always so pleasant and I trust your opinions. Over the last 2 years I have come to appreciate more and more your thoughts on so many subjects, from packing to perspiring, as well, the height of my heels to how to make it a habit to dress for my unique day. I think of you more like family than an influencer. I pray God keeps you right where you are for now.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. Indeed, I feel like this community of women is family, too. Thanks so much for being a part of it!🥰

[@annamichelle3248]

I'm a little late to watching your video because of a busy season, but I'm glad I had a chance to see a peek behind the scenes. It's so sweet how your husband supports you through your business and that you are able to work together. I'm a bit younger than your target demographic, so I always add (and under 50) when you mention women over 50. LOL I'm always encouraged by your videos, no matter the topic. I appreciate that you offer so many general style tips and advice so that they can be applied by anyone, even when their style, body type, or budget may be different than yours. Thanks!

[@olivebobo6885]

I love your videos,I look forward to them each week. Your fashion advice is always interesting and you have helped me with my fashion choices. Thank you Kay.

[@2CorgiMom]

Thank you for this peek behind the scenes. I loved your comments about your hubby and how he helps you and takes care of you when you’re tired. So much love❤️

[@bobbiecalgaro5888]

Wow, what a lot of work goes into your content. I am impressed with what you do and that your husband assists as well as being a pastor. But mostly that you take the time to answer all the comments on your blog and you tube. You are sweet and supportive as well as being encouraging to all of us here in your community. I pray that God will continue to bless your work. Thank you for all the encouragement both fashion wise and spiritually.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much, Bobbie. You ladies are a blessing to me. 🥰

[@bobbiecalgaro5888]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms as you are to us!

[@ellenross1947]

Thanks for sharing your story...i loved it and that blue looks so pretty on you....

[@nancyjong4437]

Hi Kay, I'm glad you found your sense of purpose in life and your calling. Keep it up! Your videos are helpful and inspirational.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Nancy. So kind. 💕

[@suepeka7116]

Thank you Kay! You are such a blessing to all of us! I appreciate your authenticity and the joy your bring to my inbox daily!

[@katejohnson7393]

Hello Kay and thank you for such an inspirational video. I admire you so much and it was so interesting to gain a little insight in to how much time and effort goes in to your work and how integral your values are to what you put out on your platforms. I’m going to turn 50 this Christmas and thanks to you and Marie-Anne Le cour, I feel ready and excited for this new phase. I think it was you that called it Act 2? I am so very lucky to have a wonderful husband and 3 children, 2 of whom are university now and I am excited to show up as you put it as I progress forward. I work as a staff nurse and of course that means I wear a uniform but I am enjoying developing my style and I am making sure I get dressed for my day even if I wear uniform for part of it! I hope to have time going forward to join some groups or engage more actively with friends or go out with my husband for a meal more. I love how you keep up with technology and how you are always learning and progressing and bringing in the pay check. I hope I can continue to be my best self too.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing a little about your life, Kate. I love hearing about my community members. 💕

[@suzannehall5200]

This was amazing. It’s so interesting to see how much work goes into your videos and other platforms and how professional it all is. Thank you for sharing this with us.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much!

[@sandihansen8743]

I knew it!!! I could tell that you had the spirit of Lord in you. I would love to read your devotional book. I've been a Christian since I was about 5 years old. But I've had a hard time being consistent to have a daily devotional time with the Lord. I've really made an effort the last 2 years, to spend more time in the word. I've found having a devotional book to get me started is a real help in being consistent. I've so enjoyed watching your videos because of your loving spirit. So I'm sure I would love your devotional book. You are a love!

[@pbarry5041]

Kay I am so glad you enjoy doing this and you have the help and support of your husband and daughter. It is a lot of work, more than I understood. It made me tired just watching.😊 This would helpful video for anyone considering doing what you’re doing. Blessings on the fruit of your labor.

[@kathyhartsell4383]

Good afternoon Kay! Thank you for sharing all the details about your work. I am thankful that God has directed you and James to do His ministry to reach so many women in this type of platform. I’m thankful I found you about three years ago on your blog. Along with your styling fashions for women over fifty, it is your kindness and fun, sweet spirit that resonates with me. I believe God is leading you in your business and that He will see you through as you persevere through towards your retirement. But, not yet! Love and prayers! 🙏🏻💕

[@singinginthedesert4001]

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You do indeed speak into the world and you have shared a message that I so needed to hear today . . .a divine gift from a sister in faith! Keep on doing what you do as you Bless Up!! Peace, friend.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much. I really appreciate the encouragement. 😊

[@leilanihimmelmann9190]

I really enjoy your content. Thanks so much for your encouragement and graceful support.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 🥰

[@LT-im6pj]

Thank you for sharing all of this. It was interesting to learn about your journey. I think you do such a nice, sincere job of offering so much more than just fashion advice. Not minimizing your he fashion advice I love that as well!!

[@melissakelley6073]

Kay, I really appreciate your sharing today’s video. I think you are an amazing person. Love of what you do and who you really are shines through your work. I’m a huge fan of Robin at Faith and Flour also. Thank you for all your hard work and prayers. What you do makes an enormous difference in lives. Melissa 🌼

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s so kind, Melissa. Thanks so much for your kind and encouraging words. 🥰

[@sherrytiller7172]

It’s obvious that you treasure us and I treasure you. You’re so authentic and you are both using your platforms in such effective ways. I knew that you worked hard but I didn’t realize the magnitude of your work Thank you Kay. You probably will never realize the effectiveness of your work. Just keep on planting seeds and on being beautiful in every

[@sherrytiller7172]

Didn’t finish: planting seeds and being beautiful every day

[@VivnVegas]

Thank you for sharing this wonderful behind the scenes tour. It was so interesting! I love your style and adore hearing your accent. I am so happy I have found you and can not thank you enough for showing me styles that will work for me. I am 67 and teach elementary school. I find your fashion tips so helpful for me as I need to dress comfortable but would like to look more put together (less frumpy). You're an inspiration! Thank you again!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much!

[@Sewlimitless]

This is a great video! As a blogger and KZbinr myself I just love seeing how others have gotten into this and how they organize their days. Thanks for sharing your process with us.

[@sheilalong2112]

You are a blessing. Thank you! Yes, you are making an impact!!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. You ladies are a blessing to me, too. 🥰

[@jenniferwatson6094]

I confess I had no idea how much work was involved in your presentations on ytube and other platforms! Thank you for all you do, for me it has really been motivating, educating, encouraging and confidence building. At 67 I never wanted to fall into the ‘who cares, why bother’ hole. You reinforce gently but firmly, our value as older women.I love your mornings beginning with time with God , it really does set us up for the day.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much for watching, Jennifer. 😊

[@nanrussell6423]

I really appreciate your sharing this video with us. Your videos and blog posts look so effortless, but I knew that there had to be a lot of work behind them. It is wonderful that you enjoy the work that you put in to it. I also start my day with some devotional time (after feeding the pets and other morning necessities). I am in my early 70s (how did that happen?!) and I began to realize that paying attention (again) to my appearance in the way that you teach makes me feel better and shows my gratitude to God for who I am and how He has blessed me. Thank you, Kay and family, for all you do.

[@susangregg1995]

Thanks so much for this video today, Kay. I really learned so much about what is involved in being so good at what you do! I so appreciate your honesty, and positive attitude in all of your videos. It’s so important to surround oneself with positive vibes these days so thank you for all you do for this community💕

[@patriciakeegan4228]

You Tubers show us entrepreneurship at its best. Wishing you continued success. 🌺

[@nancyurbanowski1072]

Your whole presentation, your sense of self, your mission and your feelings for your audience all shows through with Godly intent towards making a difference. I feel it and I believe your followers can too - right through the camera lens. Thank you, again for being the positive in my life and many others.

[@debbiesanders2634]

Kay, Thanks so much for sharing what you do every day. I never really thought about how much work this really is! I am so glad you are able to make a living doing this. You are such a gift to all of us. I instinctively trusted your recommendations right from the beginning and I try to shop via your links as often as possible. Your advice has helped me to adjust my style a bit and I like how I look now so much better. I have always been a clothes horse and have had a specific style and now at 70 it is even more refined. And I agree about spending time with the Lord every day. My husband and I try to read scripture every morning. It makes a difference in our day. And your BFMD posts are very helpful. Sometimes they hit right on what I’m worried about so I know He’s speaking to me through you! May He continue to bless you and your family. 💕

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Ahh, thanks so much Debbie. I’m glad you enjoy my content and find it helpful. Bless you! 💕

[@MrsHealer]

Thank you Kay for all the work you do, I appreciate what you do and listen with interest to all your videos, not forgetting we do not have to pay for your advice. Thanks also to your family, it was heartwarming to listen about the support and affection you get from your husband. It struck me today what you said about some hurtful comments. We all go through life and learn to be immune to that but still it is difficult to understand why others are being mean without any particular reason or purpose... At 43 I have recently experienced something similar when accidentally heard my sister in law gossiping about me and spreading some serious lies. She pretended to be my friend for 14 years... Well, family gatherings will be a bit different from now on I guess.

[@2PuppyProductions]

I so appreciate that you directly addressed that it's ok to earn a pay cheque while doing what you love. Volunteering isn't the only way for us to contribute and make a difference. If we are fortunate, our work will pay us well and support others at the same time. Bless you Kay!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching, Kathy. 💕

[@sherioishi8299]

I always love your honest and positive approach to your videos. You are greatly appreciated. Thank you for all your hard work. God Bless!

[@carolhaynes3396]

Kay, I loved this video telling us of how you live and it encouraged me for my days. Scripture and prayer are also so important to me as well and I love hearing how important it is to you also. I just want you to know that I, and many others appreciate you and all you share with us❣️ God Bless you in all your endeavors🙏🏻

[@susanwebster9218]

Loved hearing your story! You are a blessing!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Susan. 💕

[@musicmom614]

Wow Kay, I didn't realize how much you do to provide a place for those of us in our second act of life to look stylish and contribute to our world. Your sweetness and honesty is why I keep coming back to your blog and website. Praying for you too. I look forward to your blog every day!

[@meditationgodsway1834]

This was an excellent video. You do a fabulous job on all your platforms! I do enjoy watching you!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much!

[@corazonestoesta7595]

Thank you for all your videos. Its gives me the idea and inspiration on how to dress up, make a change, not to be idle and try possible selling of beauty products. I'm happy to hear also that God with your prayers has been your inspiration. I'm 64 years old but It makes me as a watcher of youtube excited to learn and see the topics discussed. Again thank you, take care, stay safe and God bless you and your family. Continue with your videos the public is learning a lot.

[@gaylebanks-jackson6559]

May God bless you for all you do to help others.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Gayle. 🥰

[@sallyshares]

Your home office is beautiful! I love your computer stand. Thanks for the peek into your work life. Would love to see a post or video about how to set up a home office. With the pandemic, so many have had to do this. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

[@pamelafaust708]

Dear Kay, You are doing a wonderful service for so many - including me. Your authenticity clearly comes through. If you ever come to Rhode Island I would love to have you over for a cup of coffee, since I already feel like you're a friend. Keep doing what you do girl - you are a blessing to so many women. Pay no attention to any mean comments; they're irrelevant. Just pray (as I'm sure you do) that anyone would do something so petty and mean. Your encouragement is contagious. Plus I just love all the fun fashion tips. Keep rolling Kay!

[@kayjane2115]

I really LOVE watching your channel and appreciate what you give me as a fellow 50-something, recently retired, empty nester! It encourages me that you are a sister in Christ and put God first in your day. My own wardrobe style, is very similar to yours so, I look forward to watching your video each Wednesday to see what new thing I can learn! Thank you for all you do to provide an interesting, informative, and quality channel! Colossians 3: 34-24.

[@myrnarenoud3056]

You are very important to a lot of us! Thank you for sharing this with us

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much. That is very kind. 🥰

[@jmjanacek4335]

The quality definitely comes through strong Kay. Bless you and your family for all you do! What a beautiful ministry! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! That chartreuse sofa is gorgeous! May I ask where it came from?

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much! It's from Ethan Allen.

[@robinfriend2042]

Kay, thank for your transparency and honesty. Somewhat rare in our world. I love that you were willing to share your journey with us honestly. I am glad you can make a living doing all that you do. That is a blessing. It sounds like God has been working in and through you and I am glad he continues to do that. What a beautiful testimony of His faithfulness. Your testimony has encouraged me today. Thank you.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Robin. 💕

[@glammiecullivan6747]

I realized from the start of subscribing that yours was the best of all the ladies over 50 blogs. I always attributed it to what you were too modest to mention, your TALENT. Now that I have seen all the work you put into what you produce I am even more impressed. Congratulations to you and James! Please make sure you always include those online links to your shopping. I sincerely hope to contribute something when I purchase at those sites in hopes of repaying you for all the education, insights, and just plain fun you bring me!

[@loriallen1300]

Kay, I've written several times to you here on YT, on your blog and on instagram. (often inviting you to meet up at Cannon Beach) :) I came to your channel and blog during the depth of covid. I was depressed, scared, tired, retired, feeling old, frumpy, fat and invisible. If you remember, I wrote you a long note after my 35th college reunion where I was to speak in front of classmates. Slowly I started to put a new wardrobe together and I felt free, beautiful and experienced so much joy just because I took the time for myself. I consider you a "friend". You and your ministry to women our age has surely and most definitely kept us going during these challenging days. One other thing...I loved how you shared how you feel your cup each and every morning. My husband and I sit and read scripture and a devotional each and every morning. Even when we were both working full time, we did this. I does make a difference and the practice of quiet and preparation for the day has changed my life. Thank you Kay! Can't wait to meet up sometime. ~ Lori

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

And we must meet in CB one day, indeed! Thanks so much for your kind words. You ladies are such a blessing to me. 💕

[@andreaporet2755]

Thank you so much Kay. Your videos are filled with relevant information, and have helped me to not feel so alone with the dressing challenges of a 56 year old. Keep them coming!🥰

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great to hear! Thanks so much for watching. 😊

[@jeanneroderick2596]

I love this video. I love your heart for sharing and helping women when we do find that we are in a new stage of life and are sort of "lost". As a 63-year-old woman, You have helped me so much. I appreciate learning about your day and how the business has evolved. Thank you for sharing the most important thing, reminding us to nurture our relationship with the Lord! I look forward to your daily blogs and weekly video. Thank you so very much.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching Jeanne. 💕

[@marlyssmith4831]

Thank you for recommending the West Baden Springs Hotel! Stayed there on our way home from vacation. Perfect way to end our trip!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! I'm so glad you enjoyed it.

[@aureliadasilva7884]

Thank you for all you do. God bless you and your family. 😘

[@thelmadalgety3319]

Hi from sunny South Africa. Can't imagine why some people would be rude to you. You are always so calm, professional and a joy to watch and listen to. Keep going, more love you than not. Regards Thelma

[@DebbieLinville]

Thanks!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You bet! 💙

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Debbi, I just saw your generous gift. Thank you so much. These don't always pop up on my comments platform. I'm very grateful!

[@Barbara-pz8ky]

First of all, you look absolutely beautiful, Kay…Love the blue on you, your jewelry, your hair color and style….Thank you for sharing this look behind the scenes …wow what a full time job this is. Thanks also for sharing all of the style tips and concrete ideas…I think of you often when I’m out and about “shopping”. Most of all thank you for showing what a truly Godly woman looks like!

[@patriciamorring1960]

Thank you for sharing all this info about your life with us. It was great!!

[@rebeccawoods4488]

You sure have been a blessing to me, and I really appreciate all you share with us.

[@maryking9238]

Thank you Kay for all the inspiration you provide! We appreciate you and your husband sharing your gifts with us. So happy to hear your business is doing well. I look forward daily to see what your next email or video contains:) I'm slowly building my wardrobe with all your excellent tips!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great to hear, Mary. Thank you for watching and sharing. 🥰

[@kathleenkissel2912]

I always enjoy your videos and was clueless as to how it was created. By the way blue is a great color for you. I am older but never really understood what my style is but watching you I have slowly started to change my wardrobe to select classic clothing of good quality and of course great fit and colors. I am grateful to have found your blog. Thank you so much.