Be Different, Be Unique… Be You

[@nathancarranza9860]

When you’re literally just sitting and talking - no editing, no special effects, no clowning around to entertain, no talking fast to keep people engaged - and people attentively listen, watch, and subscribe, that is what happens when someone actually has something of true value to say. This guy is the real deal. I’m not fan boying; it’s simply refreshing to see this still exists.

[@charmedprince]

You can fanboy, boyo!

[@austingensler4226]

Thats exactly right theres not enough men like him any more

[@serenakoh136]

I couldn’t agree more! Well said! 👍🏻

[@randallbatson611]

Nice!

[@cletusjones9411]

He’s a real man. Dang ol’ cowboy.

[@Katzz33355]

You're a good man, Arthur Morgan

[@Timothy_Himothy1]

😂

[@DrTreYoutubeMusicOfficial]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought about Arthur lol.

[@KuKuDJiK]

I know it!

[@luiss5125]

"You're an angry and feck ugky man, but not a bad one"

[@yasserkaid]

​​@@KuKuDJiKme too 😅

[@kevinyanezmartinez6121]

This man is the uncle we all wish we had

[@noble_lemon]

Arthur Morgan we all wish we had

[@dallassunsru1187]

I can’t wait to watch him get ads can’t believe there’s no ads on these videos

[@jaymartholytree4639]

the uncle that doesn't have lumbago

[@klumpit1230]

@@noble_lemon brudda took a different life in rdr2 and is now making youtube videos being a wise old man 🙏

[@williamm4442]

I had a uncle like him. Hes he's gone now but he was just like him.

[@IraolaShushi]

You’re a good man Arthur Morgan

[@danilavasenin2135]

Thanks mister

[@danilavasenin2135]

I'll catch you later then

[@maxshowler]

This man is the Uncle we all need, without Lumbago

[@CurrentNetPriceTanaka]

He may not have Lumbago, but he's still the One-Shot Kid

[@yickjas]

Have a little pitty will you?

[@j.f.productions2463]

@@yickjasyou don’t get it do you? 😂

[@EvianDurden]

​@@yickjasUncle es un personaje de Red Dead Redemption que tiene lumbago, no se refiere a que Dewayne tenga lumbago.

[@yickjas]

​@@EvianDurden No entendiste

[@Military-gradenutella3068]

“Be yourself; everyone else is taken.” -Oscar Wilde

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

That sounds so high schoolish

[@10draperful]

​@@joshuabuchanan1141that's alright. Simplicity is good

[@piperlmao]

i love oscar wilde.

[@dravenn2632]

Not bad. I’m a blood Wilde myself.

[@Stormborn_717]

Thank you, uncle Arthur.

[@Geico23]

Are you here

[@BrightHero_Ultimato]

He do resemble arthur morgan a lot 😮

[@takezodxr]

Arthur Morgan

[@justusmakesstuff]

Monehh

[@claypierce6967]

@@justusmakesstufftahintah

[@Feed_The_Kids]

Being yourself is less stressful, no need to keep up with trends. No anxiety when it comes to impressing others. Just walk thru this world to the beat of your own drum. And make sure you build that drum. Therefore the beat will forever be true to who you are.

[@bhm_b00zemanz35]

Hit the nail on the head. Being as raw as possible has helped me out as well. Think what you say and say what you think sorta dealio

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

Pretty impossible to do so since they're are billions of people in the world

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

I'd rather do the exact opposite, you know why, because a lot of people don't realize is that being "different" or "unique" is actually really boring

[@brothercarlos6944]

Being yourself is so much better then follow a bunch of kiss asses, people pleasing loser and simps… follow your own how cares what society does

[@noba239]

@@joshuabuchanan1141different ways to think about it.

[@serkg4672]

Real Life Arthur Morgan. This is beautiful.

[@Watamelon-yx1mj]

Except this guy is a good man

[@YourLocalR3NecK]

“I would rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not.” -Kurt Kobain

[@22RosesGrow]

👍🏻

[@enzomahalo2433]

That's what killed him. But I understand what you're trying to say

[@georgemarko8403]

Cobain!!

[@Buddlebot]

This dude makes more sense than my entire generation.

[@jpytvid]

I appreciate your unedited, calm, empathetic, straight talk style, it feels like a conversation with someone I want to learn from. Merry Christmas

[@clareeastman337]

Our college son showed me this gentleman while it was blizzarding out.

[@raularmas317]

@@clareeastman337 Great descriptor. Cowboy gentleman fits him to a "Tee" as they say.

[@studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272]

And ... 😳trustworthy 🤠🤗🥃

[@mariaclaradeoliveira5307]

As a 23 year old woman I'm just now starting to fully accept myself - I don't care for clubbing, drinking or dressing in revealing clothes like so many around me seem to do. It's truly freeing! Thank you for your videos! :)

[@SlayerRiley]

God bless sis, stay strong, stay pure :)

[@RagnarLothbrok2222]

Find a good man, get married, have a bunch of kids. You will be WAY happier than your peers who party away their 20’s.

[@aisling3765]

​@@RagnarLothbrok2222 I think only she knows what could make her happy. Your advice is no different from the influence of the media, it's just on the other side of the spectrum.

[@jiama8628]

realizing those things in early 20s is a bless

[@dinosaursorsomething6940]

@@RagnarLothbrok2222 only have kids if you truly desire them and know you can give them your everything. "just have kids" is bad advice. some people are better being aunts and uncles to other children, caretakers, etc. it's ok to not have kids. just be a good person.

[@Josh12877]

I am a 15 year old that has lived on a farm in Mississippi my howl life, and I dress the exact way you do sir and so does my dad. And no matter what they say to me I will not change my mind about the way I dress because it makes me feel happy, and thats what important. Yall be who you wanna be don’t let the sheep keep you on their level.

[@tarus94]

Hey man dont change how you look, people may call you strange or bad names but remember that its better to be different than to be "normal" but becoming souless and unhappy. Im 15 too and hope everything goes good with you.

[@Samppa_linna]

I turn 20 this year and I decided that this year I will start finding myself - figure out who the hell I am. I wish you all the best on your journey! Oh and by the way - there could be a girl from the countryside who is looking for a man like you. So your style could very well be an advantage ;)

[@claypierce6967]

I want to see a farm and live there it seems interesting. I live in a small town in Massachusetts around 30k people so it would be very different

[@pootisbird7280]

In my experience, the more eccentric you dress, the better you look. I've recently started wearing great coats and button-down shirts, and using pocket watches and wearing trilby hats. I've received more compliments in the last two weeks than I have my entire life.

[@Rhin0Din0]

I think this style is very charming and the older you get the better it'll look. keep being you!

[@kingjunkyview]

Confidence=Knowing Yourself. Such a practical equation to live by. Thank you for sharing!

[@catanzop]

I am 57 years old and am a two time cancer survivor. Not particularly confident with myself lately. But I am appreciating your wisdom. Thanks.

[@G0D_1]

I wish you a great life ahead. I hope you find your confidence sir. Confidence is a thing which comes and goes. It’s matter of time, have faith in god and yourself. Good Luck 😇🙏

[@w.w.8535]

Destroying cancer two times?! Sounds like a warrior if you ask me, takes a lot of strength to push through that. Keep at it brother!

[@ItsMercerBaby]

You passed on death twice. You shouldn’t be worried about confidence. You are confidence itself

[@bcsc1255]

Bro you’re 2-0 against a deadly disease, that’s seriously badass. I get being down on yourself and feeling less confident, but you’re damn near bullet proof. 🫡much respect

[@tonyallen829]

Dont trip about being unconfident. Alot of us are but you are courage itself as long as you manifest it in your own mind. God bless you and I'm sure the road ahead for you will be good. Just remember your courage itself that's what helps me. ❤ *Grammer edit

[@LongdistanceRider22]

When I grew up …Being Different was a sign of Independence! Merry Christmas to everyone who watches this channel !

[@hijackedmemes6988]

I’m a leader and I like to build and create, help inspire people. It’s good to be comfortable with yourself and not stress about what others think it never bothers me. That’s how I live my life keep that positive energy and my circles small. Only the real ones with me. 💯

[@chefgiovanni]

@@hijackedmemes6988 Same here. I am a Chef , a teacher and a fearless leader. I have travelled around the world and seen so many cultures. Social media is a huge problem. In reality, however, it is far much better to build a small inner circle. This is because quantity does not always translate to quality. By opting for a larger circle, you are less likely to have strong bonds with these people, which in turn means that these people are going to have a smaller impact on your life.🌞 💯 Dwayne, Thank you for sharing these positive thoughts.

[@MrTobi013]

Thank you Uncle Dewayne for apparently coming into my life when I needed an older male figure to help me through things. I didn't know I needed you, but God knew and said differently and thus, here we are. I hope you and Ma have a very beautiful holiday season and may you be and stay blessed for the rest of your days. Thank you always for all your wisdom kind sir!

[@georgedanielsbiz]

That’s basically Arthur Morgan who survived and got old ❤

[@mitcHELLOworld]

@@georgedanielsbiz 🤣

[@woahglass49]

@@georgedanielsbiz yeah without all the killing 😂 merry Christmas and praise God

[@levigivens]

@@georgedanielsbiz Ugh. A sheep who only knows video games. Keep it to yourself

[@horned_Eschelon]

Agreed!

[@beautyforashes23]

What makes us unique is having the courage to follow the convictions of our heart. Great reminder!

[@UncleGo67]

The Hardest Person to Ever Be is YOURSELF

[@richardwilkinson2388]

Another wise, calm, thought out, simple, intuitive, no drama, life lesson, keep teaching us, thank you.

[@Dimarious.G]

Or which is more likely: Keep giving you the feel of have been tought of something when actually you haven't 😂

[@maianhdao986]

Feels like I'm a little girl sitting face to face with a warm and friendly uncle sharing experiences and wisdom about life. True. With social media everywhere and pressure from society and people, I feel drowned and exhausted trying to follow. Thank you for making this to give assurance that it is okay to be different to be YOU.

[@cropsey7412]

I'm a European and I like listening to your videos a lot. Something about cowboy self-help philosophy... I can't explain it, it is strangely soothing, even for someone who hasn't been for one second in the US. I have been trying to work on myself for almost 3 years now, and I plan to improve significantly in 2023. I'm planning to quit porn forever, improve my physical shape and learn and read and meet new people. I'm quite lonely, but your videos have helped me feeling better about it. Thanks a lot.

[@DavidLopez-rk6em]

Good luck stranger. Im in the same position as you. You're not alone!

[@gideonmele1556]

Stay strong internet person, it’s a journey. Well wishes, mate. I hope this is the start of the best chapters of your life Cheers from a youtube commenter

[@Badreddine96]

Good luck friend as they say you're not alone

[@rogerluizdenardi2575]

Wish you all the best buddy, the world is yours

[@olddini]

wish you luck man

[@imjustmekai6176]

He seems like a calm and reasonable person

[@Arthur-dq6cv]

Thank, you Arthur Morgan.

[@ClaireA-b9o]

Santa Clause is 75% of the reason to be a Christian. Love grace mercy and compassion are the other 25%, because even nonchristians value that if they’re smart

[@ClaireA-b9o]

(Teasing)

[@NasirEMU]

The strong sense of honor, integrity, and freedom that I feel by being myself is priceless. It’s something I will never regret having.

[@kristilu1987]

I am 35 year old woman and I love your videos. You have so much wisdom in you. Sometimes I watch your talks and think that my uncle would love that. Sadly, he died two years ago from cancer, but I wanna tell him right now: dear uncle, great men is still out there and you would really enjoy what this man have to say. Bless you and your family! Greetings from Lithuania

[@AZrakoon]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@kristilu1987]

@Ernestas Lūža smagu matyti lietuvį :) Aš net pati nesupratau, kaip šiam moderniam efektų ir įspūdžių pasauly buvau pasiilgus žmogaus, kuris tiesiog visiškai paprastai sėdi su cigaru ir kalbasi apie gyvenimą

[@mccameralt8535]

Užuojauta dėl netekties. Nuostabu, kad matau, jog ir kiti lietuviai žiūri šio kaubojaus video. Raminantys ir įdomūs.

[@sunnni_]

I'm 26 and for the first time in my life, I am happy with doing things that actually make me happy. I love the quirky, nerdy things that I love to do and finally have met ppl who will accept that when growing up, I was a people pleaser and was miserable. Nothing like being yourself and loving yourself truthfully

[@obedbizoshika]

What's your ig ? For some reason I'm curious bout you

[@Mzlady1212]

💯💯

[@treverthompson1384]

Im turning 50 and hearing what you said in this video has me tearing up cause. I have lost everything i owned in this world and lost all so called friends and now buried in debt. while tryin to keep up with the jones's trying to fit in. Im in process of trying to find myself and my heart is leading towards the country life after whole life if being a city slicker. Thank you for your words of wisdom 🙏🏼

[@luissalas5594]

You don't lost everything...if you got yourself! Im 50 too!

[@MargaretLPike]

Blessings to you, hope you find yourself and happiness.😊

[@philomenamagill700]

I hope you are okay now, Keep your chin up ❤

[@sosa41604]

Very sweet video. Thank you Arthur Morgan

[@jonesaffrou6014]

being unauthentic also leads to relationships destined to fail, can't fake it forever and you become a different person all of a sudden and mad respect to you for reading about christmas and deciding that's something you don't embrace, changing your mind in light of new information takes bravery many don't have

[@HappyPawsUK]

In todays world most people are playing characters

[@cashcalum3140]

@@HappyPawsUKit’s strange because I know I’m sort of doing it too? I’m not really on social media, so I’m not doing it to the full extent, not so much playing a character as restricting my own out of insecurity or fear people won’t like me. Sad but this video kind of made me conscious of it, maybe I can work on bringing me out of me.

[@HappyPawsUK]

I doubt 99% of people in relationships these days are authentic ,most of you people are playing character merely clones of your idols wether it’s looks or character.being authentic will lead to relationship break downs.your comment is proof of the mediocre.the fake (or generic ) are loved while the real authentic critical thinkers are hater .in Todays world generic behaviour is favoured over true authentic humans

[@jonesaffrou6014]

@@HappyPawsUK basically not true unless your "real self" is saying socially unacceptable and hateful things, then yes you will be ostracized, and it's kinda how human society always worked

[@StewartFletcher]

"You won't find confidence in yourself if you don't know who yourself is" THAT is so profound and yet, so simple that it blows my mind. THANK YOU

[@godsangel67able]

The truth!!

[@Dimarious.G]

If you impressed by that then this should blow your mind: the sun is hot and water is wet -- 🤯 Srsly: some living stereotype guy is just chewing up some obviousity and pretending it is wisdom 🤭

[@hellothere3609]

@@Dimarious.G I'm not so sure about the 'pretending' part, if I'm being honest with you. But everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

[@r.a.l.27]

@@Dimarious.G Pfffftt I'm sorry but I just had to commend you for making me laugh with that comment 😂 To be so triggered about what random people are saying/reacting to on the internet is wild 😂

[@Bloodworia]

Enlisting in the Military really changed my perspective on civilian life. I grew more confident in myself, it gave me the foundation to develop a personality i am satisfied with. I just don't give a shit about popular things, it is all irrelevant. People are busting themselves up over things that don't matter. I am just happy with what i am doing and that i can finally show my parents that i can support myself and even give back to thank them for feeding this piece of meat through many troublesome years. People care too much about other people and too little about themselves. Don't be an egoist, but do what makes you happy.

[@ltcajh]

26 1/2 years of Air Force enlisted, and Army officer, definitely made a difference in my life. Painful? Oh yeah! Was it worth it, looking back? Yes.

[@patrycja2696]

Beautifuly said :)

[@potatogaming4570]

Thank you mr morgan🙏

[@ToshiSanglir-qx3cn]

Being you, the real you, the true you is an effort in this highly influential social media craze world, but worth every effort. Thanks for your wisdom.

[@I_Dislike_YouTube_Handles]

As a teenager that used to have social anxiety, I was trapped in that mindset of, "I'll just become more confident once I fit into the image that people think I am." and it made me miserable anytime I actually went and talked to people, only once I accepted all the parts of me, both good despite my humility, and ugly, despite my ego, and was able to show those parts to all, I was able to be much more relaxed and confident. Sometimes all it takes is someone like you to tell it how it is for us to break through our false perceptions, thanks for all the advice Dewayne :D

[@WyomingWonders]

You are "the Salt of the Earth" --- my deceased partner would have enjoyed your channel. He passed 2 years this month, January 2021, of a massive heart attack. He was a cowboy. We enjoyed riding in the Wyoming Wilderness, where you could be yourself without needing to impress anyone. I appreciate your channel and teachings of integrity and grit.

[@PressureTvReviews]

My condolences, I have heart issues myself.

[@deanwood4261]

My condolences, I've been one 9 yrs I can relate with you

[@deanwood4261]

Alone

[@TherealSIRenity]

May he Rest In Peace and tranquillity ☀️🙏🏿

[@TherealSIRenity]

@@PressureTvReviewssending healing energy your way ❤️🙏🏿

[@cjcustomwelding]

It took me years of discomfort and failure to realize how to develop as my own person. Especially when it comes to my art or the way I work, even down to how I like to cut and cook my bacon. Got rid of the booze and drugs, quit all social media, and saw a massive improvement over the last couple of months. Life is what you make it, so make it yours!

[@s.shlagen9773]

“I guess there’s about 8 billion people on this planet but there’s only one “you” “ man you really killed it with that sentence

[@josematheussw5007]

Anyone Brazilian here? Really a good video! Thanks from Brazil!🇧🇷

[@LEOJFAC]

Manys🇧🇷

[@marianamartinez4106]

I am Muslim women, I am mom and that’s my career. I like slow living but I’m not there yet. I really enjoyed this video it helps to get remainders specially raising little ones to teach them to be them now rather than getting influenced by their peers or media world. May God protect our world 🌎

[@BeamingTerror]

May Allah bless you sister and protect and keep your family on the straight path🤲🤲

[@Rip_in_son]

your a dying breed your family is lucky to have you god bless.

[@waterkipje4023]

You sound like you're a great mother!

[@grimsobad8545]

@@BeamingTerror can i remove my hijab now?

[@grimsobad8545]

@Zhizha just curious…can they?

[@jimwilliams9841]

Excellent message! I spent many years just trying to figure out who I am, now at age 53 I've figured out that it's best to stop trying to be somebody else and be happy with who God made ME! Now that I know who I am, I can spend the rest of my years being the best ME that I can be!

[@firebird77clonefirebird89]

I'm 53 too. I'm still figuring it out. I've never had the money to follow fashion. And I really don't care. I try to look nice but I tend to stand out.

[@archaicwisdom69]

Same horse my friend, I've lacked quality mentors in my life, and I'm 53 as well

[@dethslaker1990]

How do you determine who is you, is it following your emotions or is it about just dpijg what feels right?

[@anneaudino1111]

Merry Christmas! Gonna be 40 in March, still a young lady. As a women I enjoy your talks. Many men need to here what you speak on.

[@JoePAcalaughs]

Pisces or Aries?

[@neutralobservation9418]

40's are fun. Enjoy them.

[@charliemike13]

Agreed. They absolutely do.

[@anneaudino1111]

@@JoePAcalaughs Pisces

[@anneaudino1111]

@@CBiscuit420 why!

[@littleman4888]

Thanks, Cowboy. You hit the nail on the head.

[@santiagohernandezespina2645]

Life can seem so complicated nowadays, but this dude makes it look simple. Cause it is

[@demid232]

as a 19 year old male trying to figure out my place in this world, your advice is some of the best that I use to remind myself of who I am. Thank you for constantly sharing generational knowledge. One love my friend. God bless.

[@mnt7125]

read books ! creature from jekyl island .. read it

[@RickyBobby42069]

Exercise regularly. Weight train or martial arts. It is amazing. I'm glad I started lifting when I was 19. After 8 years I feel like a God.

[@511cel2]

Just don't follow..

[@poptort2082]

@@RickyBobby42069Currently working out and doing kickboxing. I’m not in the best mental state but, both of those things for sure help especially having balanced meals on a day to day basis.

[@RickyBobby42069]

@@poptort2082 me too man, going on year 2 of kickboxing. I had hypochondria for while, but it went away after doing cardio (just regular running for distance) I don't know how that worked, but it did. I also got super lean, like 80 kilos of muscle with abs. So I think that really boosted my ego and confidence. Weed helps too dude 🤣. Good luck my friend

[@arthurpetrin3653]

Dutch: Where's Arthur?!!! WE NEED HIM TO DO THE LAST SCORE!!! Arthur in New Austin:

[@madayis9707]

In New austin💀😭🤣🤣

[@Arthur-dq6cv]

HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA

[@dynamic-d2539]

😂😂😂😂

[@jackiek4159]

Being yourself is your only superpower in today's world where everybody is trying to be the same! Thank you for your wisdom! Happy New Year everybody! 💞✨

[@mikaeltsimbidakis6980]

Everybody sucks thats why Everybody is Trying to be the same

[@Soloman_1800]

Being different is unique

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

So what if everyone is the same, nothing wrong with that

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

Being different and unique is super boring, nothing wrong with being the same, it's not a crime, fitting in and relating to people is so much better then standing out

[@leahale]

@@joshuabuchanan1141 Trying to fit in is pathetic and weak. You lose yourself and you become a sheep. Clearly you are.

[@user-pv5oz5mg2h]

Imagine having a conversation about life with this guy.

[@ghost_2501]

Я смотрю это видео из России, моей Родины, но Ваши слова близки мне по духу. Люди, которые свободны в душе, найдут общий язык, несмотря на различие в языке, культуре и государстве. Будьте здоровы и Господь с Вами! 😊😊

[@mattchugunoff1805]

Привет, земляк. Я согласен с тобой

[@NitemairMedia]

Thank you for this video. I figured out in my 20s that I didn't want to be like the rest of society, mainly after I lost my grandfather who was a huge influence on me. He was what you'd call "old school" in every way. Didn't have a cellphone, didn't even wear a watch after he retired. He loved his fine clothes, his felt hats, and his old cars. When he was gone I started finding myself wanting to carry the traditions on, but I knew I wasn't my grandfather so I altered what was comfortable to me and ended up with my distinct look and my on view points on things. This finds me at odds with today's world because I still believe in common sense and doing what's right no matter what. I like my vests, my baseball caps, and my boots. I like classic stuff, with a few modern things thrown in to make life a little easier. Really though, the more I go back to the basics of what my Grandfather taught me, the easier life is. Believe in God, take care of your family, do what's right and forget about what everyone else thinks or has to say. Like you said, be yourself. Take care and Merry Christmas to you and your family.

[@zachtrainor8371]

I don't mean to sound antagonizing, but I don't understand how someone can find themselves and become unique but see others around them as "the rest of society" or as "sheep" as Dwayne said. I believe we all have different ways of finding our uniqueness, and maybe sometimes the uniqueness we try to find for ourselves isn't apparent or obvious to others around us. What we show to those around us (clothes, accessories, cars, tattoos, whatever) may only be a small part of a person's uniqueness for themselves, but there's so much more that we can't see or understand just by looking at or talking briefly to a person.

[@LukeofEarth]

Buddy, I know you may never see this but thanks for all the videos. Im 29, work on a ranch, and I’m about to marry the love of my life. You have taught me so much about how to be a better man, a better ranch hand, and a better partner for my significant other.. my best friend. Wish I could sit down in person with ya and ask you questions. Maybe one day! But in the mean time thanks so much! Keep making videos. Many folks like myself find answers through you.

[@ColoradoStreaming]

Congrats man! Marriage is the best thing in the world. Especially when you have kids, you will feel things you never knew were possible as part of this human experience.

[@sheilabowerman183]

Congratulations

[@KingMcAl]

No matter what anyone tells you or think's about you, you're the most important person in your life!

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

Nope

[@Nathan-yf8bf]

this idea is basically my filosofy of life. i bring this with me for a little time, but i'm getting better, i am more happy and see more sense in life. i have 18 years old and i am very proud of me, because a lot of people with my same age don't have this thinking, i feel more mature with this, and i have sure that i am.

[@Nathan-yf8bf]

sorry for my bad inglish im brazilian

[@tacticalidiot175]

It's pretty good English! My only critique is that 'filosofy' is spelled 'philosophy'. Have a great day!

[@Nathan-yf8bf]

thank you! in brazil we say "filosofia", thats why i spell wrong. have a great day too! @@tacticalidiot175

[@EricJohnsen-r3d]

For being a young man you have great wisdom

[@mynamejeffgaming]

Dudes like 87

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

@mynamejeffgaming Born in 1967. You do the math.

[@mynamejeffgaming]

@@DryCreekWranglerSchool you look 20 years older than my dad while being 7 years younger and he hasent exactly had an easy life so I can't imagine the stress you've been through to have aged so poorly.

[@jamesion6651]

Couldn't have come at a better time when I realized I was letting other people's perspectives define me all along. This helped drive it home. Thanks a bunch Dewayne.

[@jocelynllamas6600]

Man, I wish we were related. I say this because I feel like my immediate family cares so much about what society and outsiders think about them and then project that onto me. They tell me what I should do; how I should behave; how much money I should make; how I should look so I appear successful, or so others perceive me to be a certain way. On the outside, my family appears perfect, always smiling, always "happy", always fitting in, but my family is far from these things behind closed doors. I refuse to be anything other than my most genuine self. So, anyway, I appreciate this video.

[@livetomanifest2272]

That’s a hard type of family to grow up in and it’s toxic. Not sure how old u r but the older u r the more you’ll see how full of shit they are and no one really knows what they’re doing. Also it’s not their place to try to steer your ship

[@spacebar9733]

oh em gee i feel this. my family is obsessed with looks in all the wrong ways, it makes me so self-conscious

[@a.p.5429]

Its a rat race to nowhere having people putting their expectations on you. I never measure up and everything has conditions on it. My only place of being just me right now is with Jesus.

[@G0D_1]

Ah my parents are the same. It hurts to see when your parents are thinking more about others than you. That’s the problem nowadays….many parents are not doing the job they should do properly and that’s parenting. I am not saying every parent is like that…..but many are and it sucks pretty bad. Well as they say ‘Every thing has a reason’ soo I take this as an opportunity to improve as an individual person….to not become what my parents are. To become better than them.

[@daniel.holbrook]

as a younger guy your words of wisdom are one of the best Christmas gifts I could ask for. Thank you for continuing to do what you do

[@nicholasvargas6397]

I feel it man he's helping a lot of us out and I'm grateful for it

[@kcpauz]

Today is the 31st of December 2023. I got recommended. What a way to face the new year 2024.

[@piperlmao]

he asked the question and for the first time, i didn’t know the answer. as a young female, we’re taught to fit in and be like everyone else. “sit/act like a lady” “you can’t do that, you’re a girl” “what are you wearing? that’s so weird.” etc etc. i’ve tried all my life to be just like everyone else but now i realize i actually DONT want to be.. today i decide my new quest is to find who I AM. props to this man. he’s like the grandpa we all never knew we needed.

[@TheOnlinePlaza]

This particular type of content is so simplistic, and yet so very valuable to us all, thank you sir!

[@Macsrus5]

40’s club here😊 the day I decided to quit living my life to please others, was the best choice I’ve ever made. It was fun watching ALL of them with their mouths open wondering why I wasn’t kissing their butts anymore 🤣 !!!!!!GREAT video!!!!!

[@shan4145]

Love from Canada! Yes, I’m 39 Chinese women listening to you and mamma bear💖💎🙋🏻‍♀️

[@daikimizu9324]

Words of wisdom, a very humble man. Also, he looks like old man Arthur Morgan with High Honor. Kudos for ya!

[@giguwesley493]

Feels like he's trying to hide the fact that he's santa🤔

[@fernaureason7150]

I love this subject! It's one I carry with me all day every day because I love myself, am proud of myself and am my own bestfriend. The single most thing I'm most proud of is that I've never been drunk, high or ingested any kind of substance (pills, smoke, vape, psychedelic) in my 29 years of being alive and I don't plan on ever starting. Have I had alcohol before? yes, but never drunk. The Idea of me being out of mind and not knowing how I got home scares me to death. All my friends and family respect me for it as well. One of my best friends will always text me randomly saying "Out of the people I know your the only one that has been sober their whole life." and it's a wonderful feeling.

[@profundus8946]

These natural one-take videos where you have an open train of thought, like a genuine conversation, is precisely why your videos are so calming and refreshing. You are pioneers in going against the stream of all that overly edited extravagant video content. You stand out just by not even trying, well played.

[@thattimestampguy]

0:00 Merry Christmas 🎄 ☦️ 0:38 What makes you uniquely you? 1:38 There are roughly 8 billion people on this planet, and 1 you. Would you stand in a crowd? 2:03 Alaska, Wyoming, Colorado. Finding what makes Me, Me. What makes Dwayne, Dwayne. 4:11 You’ll not find confidence in yourself if you don’t know who yourself is. 4:49 “Young ladies, if there‘s any young ladies watching this, right now - society. - social media says you should conduct yourself like you are making money on a street corner in L.A. somewhere.” “Don’t do it! Be you, be you.” However, don’t misuse “Be You” to “Be Bad” 5:56 Nole, A Name Meaning Christmas. 7:04 If A Christian is only a Christian on Christmas and Easter, is he really a Christian? 8:46 She never has any trouble finding me, Cause I’m Me. I kinda stand out. What I want, I do. You won’t find another guy like Dwayne at Dry Creek Rangler School or anywhere in this world. 10:40 It’s not a bad thing to be comfortable with yourself. (And it’s not a bad thing to try to improve who you are either) 10:57 An Undercrown Maduro Cigar • sent to Dwayne by a cigar place • put out by Drew Estates • special blend of rolled cigar • San Andreas Maduro wrap 12:49 Have a good rest of the season 12:57 Momma’s got a channel too. Dwayne’s wife of many years. 13:28 Patreon for those able and willing to donate to support. All the best.

[@jenandchris6089]

Why? Why.not just watch the video? It's not that long ?

[@thattimestampguy]

@@jenandchris6089 I don’t disagree. It’s good to watch the full video in its entirety too. (It’s kinda my thing though.)

[@mad0uche]

@@jenandchris6089 kids and young adults these days basically have the attention span of a squirrel, it's the norm to have ADHD nowadays - thank phones and tik tok.

[@airadaimagery692]

@@jenandchris6089 I do watch the videos in there entirety. But it’s nice to be able to go back in the future, for future reference, and pick out specifics that I’m looking for. What’s wrong with someone doing us a service for free? What the hell is the big deal?

[@airadaimagery692]

@@thattimestampguy thanks that time, your efforts are appreciated.

[@ikechukwuchristian7551]

Thank you for this lesson

[@shawnduma]

Thank you from South Africa

[@stringbender3]

So true. You are making great change and doing great help in the world.

[@brandonkaminari]

It's not the message itself but how it's executed. We hear these kinds of advice all the time, and we thought as children, but as we grow we hear the same kind of advice and we learn more. And people tell you that lesson in all kinds of ways, all different paths of life. Your execution of advice is so level headed, not just "down to earth" but sage like, like a relative from beyond the grave pushing you forward saying, 'enjoy your freedom, don't worry so much.'

[@highplainshollarhomestead3188]

I was 25 before I really settled into who I was. Always growing of course, but I was married at 23.....my wife loves who I became more than the man she married. We've grown together.

[@curtiscarpenter9881]

I think the more lose the more we forget how naked we already are. For the future to be better then the present we do in the present what we never did in the past. ❤

[@AnthonyWade7]

10:46 Amen. I get a sense of peace from your style of videos that I have not felt in a long time. Thank you for being you.

[@DJBenjoyer]

I appreciate this sentiment a lot as a queer dude. Different strokes for different folks, I cant be caught up in what somebody else thinks about it. I've got enough problems just trying to make it through the stuff everybody deals with to worry about what somebody else thinks about how I move through my life. As long as I'm getting better at being comfortable/confident in who I am, that's good enough for me

[@tomabareza4879]

Propper message, from a propper man. Hard truths from a man who lives it. Thank you for being you, keep fighting the good fight, wish you all the best, may you help many more. Thank you!

[@shawnm3626]

Dwayne is always out here with the realest advice you can get and always when you need it most Thank you Dwayne finding your channel has been such a blessing wishing you and your family all the best for the new year

[@aujla6726]

4:50 Young ladies are watching listening and agreeing with you sir🙋🏻‍♀️

[@carolsans5775]

I don't think anyone would see this, but I cannot thank you enough, your words of wisdom have made me change my mind on giving up on myself. Thank you !

[@333dog]

Hey I saw this good job!

[@Mamalives]

I’m so grateful for you and your videos

[@fredmello1704]

I stumbled upon your content here in KZbin recently and thank God I did! To find people talking honestly about things that matter without that "Mr know it all" way is always good. Thank you for being you, man. May God bless you and the whole family! My best regards all the way from Brazil!

[@Center79dt]

This is exactly what my wife and I plan to tell our daughters as they get older. Strong, free thinking, self reliant young women. I love all the content you and Mama put out. Speaks to my soul. Merry belated Christmas, hope it was a wonderful one for you and yours.

[@raularmas317]

As a friend I feel obliged to tell you that the mature Christian is reliant on God first, then self/ego, then others. Is it (the problem or issue) about substantive things like questions of love and truth or morality?? Or is it (the problem or question) more about style or the way something gets done or solved?? I happen to believe that God cares a great deal more about getting the substantive issues right than He does how something gets done or resolved.

[@Rocket9944]

But also teach him how to treat a man and hold on to a husband.

[@_dekanijo]

Great message! If you had a difficult time answering that question: "What makes you unique"? that's a good place to start with building confidence with who you are❤

[@bmls6793]

The cigar, the way you bring it; comfortable. You already got your editing...Its you. Its perfectly added to the picture. Tks

[@inevitablelevity3137]

This Hits me hard since my parents always force me (especially my mom) to do or act a certain way like, always going to our relatives' whenever theres special occasions (even though i'm comfortable just being by myself), Cutting my hair (even thou i like it long), and if i disagree my mom always says to me "What would others think of us, if you do this, or if you look like that etc." says that "its embarrassing" etc. She always worries about how or what others think of us.

[@yarrowco]

I find a great deal of warmth and comfort listening to you. Especially during these times. Thank you sir

[@raularmas317]

I second that thought.

[@davidc9135]

We like the way you do your videos too. Slow, thorough and all one take. Always a pleasure to watch

[@JDT126]

Nothing in this ol world resonates cleaner, clearer and louder than authenticity. Happy new year

[@patincomfaca9023]

Thank you Arthur

[@lorenzoantoniodeleon8002]

I feel like I just met Arthur from Red Dead Redemption II

[@Jules-fh4rf]

You and Momma are much loved being exactly who you are. Good guidance from two extraordinary people comfortable in their own skin. Wish you all the best as you head into the New Year!

[@michaelpawelka6074]

Thankyou Dwayne. Respect what you & your wife do. Admire & envy y'all's lifestyle!

[@stevetrivago]

Don’t envy him.. just appreciate him… You probably have just as much to offer as him… 🫡

[@linkssds]

Most people have lost their purpose and live according to the masses, ignoring their own “self”, either to hide their pain or to avoid feeling bad about other people's opinions. Further on, he finds himself in a deep abyss, as he has lost his soul, “essence”.

[@BergJager1]

Thank you for your wisdom and your time. You are an inspiration for simple people like me who’ve somehow got lost in a complicated world but am trying to find my way back home before dark. Thanks

[@pflo5683]

I am a 51 year old woman and recently introduced to your channel. I love the wisdom and honesty that you share with the world. Thanks for being you and reminding me to be myself!

[@dogstarstudios718]

Great video chat! I'll be 60 in April and I can honestly say that I have always been me since my teens, stood out from the crowd in my own unique style, even amongst my peers. On the very rare occasion that I tried to follow the herd, it didn't feel real or me, thus I went back to my longhaired, bearded biker/mountain man ways, and my spirit feels at peace within. Best regards.

[@Parker.Marconi]

Thank you Arthur Morgan

[@justinburkett5578]

Having to go back and find me . I got lost in money. But had to walk away to find myself. You’re exactly right always be yourself.

[@trickbusterstv]

This guy knows himself so much that he realized that it was his purpose to make people aware that they have to be themselves because that is an essential part of life, if not the main one, thank you for transmitting this important message, I too I've lived a long time outside the bottle trying to find my own way, a rebel so to speak, I'm a skater, greetings from Chile