15 Signs of a High Value Woman

[@alux]

Hello Aluxers! This is the most controversial series we've done so far. Get ready for the people with the pitch forks. If you haven't watched our LOW VALUE WOMAN video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gIWnmqajgqd-mrM

[@memeentertainment1]

I don't need to know about a low value woman they are not worth my time

[@caiusKeys]

This topic is hitting awfully close to home, which indicates it's an important topic...

[@dillydallydollo]

Theres nothing controversial about it, It's just silly! Most people know value is subjective not objective. What is deemed as 'of value' to one person, could be a huge liability to another.

[@alux]

@@dillydallydollo saying that value is subjective is absurd. Value comes from UTILITY, SCARCITY, DEMAND and the extent other will got to in order to acquire it. Once again, you are conflicting your personal experience with statements that are statistically true at scale.

[@caiusKeys]

@@OnMyOwnJourney1111 You don't know that

[@felipeguzman9078]

While i agree these are all high value traits, it is very difficult to go 15/15. A high value woman, is the best version of herself that works to better herself and her loved ones.

[@akshatahegde7754]

Very well said👍

[@marciawade9101]

Amen! 👍

[@preciousruby4366]

Exactly

[@ktryushi4744]

You forgot low body count as well. It also lowers your value person if you have a high body count. It means she don’t respect herself and get tossed like a ragdoll….It apply to men as well.

[@Truth-wonder]

Well and not a 304 obviously but I’m not sure you are capturing that.

[@anipopescu]

#16 Bonus: Who’s valuing you? I remembered the example with the violinist at the metro station who wasn’t given any attention by the passers by. In the evening he played for million dollars audience. It’s also about where you are positioned. When you’re down everyone thinks you’re worth less then them … 😉

[@BestLifeBagLady]

🔥🔥

[@indi2174]

I love this time line

[@annehedonia156]

​@Lauren Michelle Lynley And Beyoncé??? Give me a break.

[@jameslim3850]

A girl may be perceived to have many men wanting her, but most won't commit to her (or marry her) or see her past the bedroom. this is what most women misunderstood and over-evaluate themselves.

[@Tessabrianne2017]

I was a 36 year old single mom of 1 and couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong and where all the men were.. i came across videos like this and apparently I was the problem.. now I have worked on myself and still working on myself battling this ‘independent woman don’t need no man’ mentality… it will take time but so far I met my husband this year and got married.. it is possible don’t give up❤️🙏 My advice , watch videos and get more in touch with your femininity and it will let go of that masculine energy, also drop the F boys and stop entertaining them, tell men what you REALLY want and stick with it, don’t change your mind if something doesn’t work, that’s how I met my husband I was straight up told him I wanted marriage and he did too and we were friends for a year first then dated and married this year, it is possible! ❤️🙏

[@catmou9225]

i admire your honesty and humility in sharing this comment about yourself. wish more women were like this; the world would be a better place for it. Thank you.

[@iposhformoney]

That's awesome! Congratulations on standing your ground & to your marriage! Many happy years to come!

[@pain5627]

Wow this is incredible Way to go ! Very proud of you

[@MelinaH]

No! Being an independent woman is so important, because they don't stay in shitty relationships.

[@candykain3957]

Well, I flunked this high-value woman list. No elite family, social skills are okay, and no longer youthful. Yet I know I have the grace and maturity to understand problems; I listened with intent to others' issues, and know when to cut it short. I speak well, no slang. I am not wealthy, but I know my financial parameters. Where do I fit?

[@heyjude2109]

Right in!

[@vkrgfan]

You are enough and highly valuable productive member of society. The video is for “billionaires” which is shallow in itself as it places more value on money and status and divide people by economic class.

[@Truth-wonder]

HVM is rare, not being that is no knock against you. Be true to yourself and you will find where you fit in.

[@janani1812]

You don’t have to fit in societal criteria. Are you happy where you are in life? If so, you have made it.

[@a.s.8650]

("YOU ARE ENOUGH!") I have a degree in humanities. People come from Various backgrounds so whether you are high value women or low value women . "YOU ARE ENOUGH!"

[@NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extent) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[@user-qw3gz9qx4y]

That's 100% right.

[@SKIMSPersonalStylist]

So true

[@AG31594]

cringe

[@KyrstOak]

*extent

[@PassengerFifty7]

RIP KEVIN SAMUELS. He made this shit popular, now everyone on the band wagon.

[@nenesibanda4171]

A high value woman is a woman who understands herself and who does not feel as though she is more worthy than others. It's a woman who shares her light and who is purely aware of her purpose. She is a woman who understands the essence of a woman, which is being a nurturer but also who comprehends that there are times of vulnerability and with being vulnerable it doesn't reveal a lack of strength. She is a woman who enjoys life and understands that there will be some bad days in between and that is perfectly okay.

[@lutchieperegil7857]

WRONG.. High value Woman means, she knows the price of her VAGINA AND the PRICE OF EVERY HOUR OF SEX. YES, VALUE MEANS MONEY. and you asked me as a Woman, I knew the price of my OWN VAGINA. not because of WHO THE MEN WHO TASTED IT which is, it also counts. VIRGINITY HAS A PRICE TOO. WIDOWS HAS A PRICE TOO. SINGLE MOM'S PUSSY, AND HER CHILD HAS A PRICE TOO. RAPED WOMEN HAS A PRICE AS COLLTERAL DAMAGED. LIVED-IN/ SEPARATED HAS A PRICE TOO; COMMON LAW MARRIAGE means money. marriage women vs annulment fees and including paying the HUSBAND/S to signed the paper has a price. sex prostitutes has a PRICE. COLLEGE STUDENTS HAS A PRICE COLEGE DEGREE HAS A PRICE AS YOU AS A MAN: HOW MUCH IS YOU?

[@sreyanandhini3944]

Nonsense

[@eddiealva4453]

I met a girl I used to know long ago, she didn't look as pretty as she used to be but when she mentioned she goes to a prison to read to the illiterate... Made me think she's really something.

[@ErikaRachel]

I so love this. Thank you. It totally validates all my views and ambitions. One of the pitfalls of being a HVW is when you’re around people who do not understand your standards or rules for yourself. I’ve been told I can appear bitchy when in a pizza shop at 2am that caters to the after bar crowd…in those moments I’m doing my best to be poised and patient but my patience runs low in a situation like that. I’m always glad to hear the truth in these videos. Last week I was a little nervous about the low value video because I’m an only child from a middle class family who appreciates vision boards. Ha! Thankfully I have no similarities to any of the other 14 on that list. I’m all HVW, thankfully, and where I fall a bit short I’m actively working on it. I’m always looking to improve. This channel is great for that, thank you! ❤️☺️🙏🏻

[@annehedonia156]

Oh, brother. I'm so glad to hear you made it out of that pizza joint at 2 a.m. with your HVW superiority still intact. That was a close one, huh?

[@annehedonia156]

@Sunny Lynn I know, right?! Don't they return to housekeepers and pumpkins after the stroke of midnight?? I could be wrong, but.... 🤣

[@lloydreid3936]

That sounds like a juicy rationalization - poised in a 2am pizza parlor annoyed by drunks, then relieved that you're not LVW because "you" checked 14 boxes. Sounds like you're on the right track but breathe, and accept no one is perfect....continue to be better every day. Good luck.....you're well on your way!

[@annehedonia156]

@@lloydreid3936 #16 on the HVW List: Humbleness

[@SanctifiedLady]

@@annehedonia156 😂😂😂😂

[@imternizamccartney3739]

I would just add these few soft social skills 1.fear of God/moral compass, 2. has integrity, 3. treats others with respect irregardless to their position in society (golden rule).

[@ChairmanPaulieD]

#3. Ability to raise strong children and a flourishing family 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 “My mother TRIED to be the best she could to provide for me and my siblings. It was SO DAMN HARD because my father was out on the road as a OTR Trucker and A LOT was placed on my shoulders to help my moth with my siblings. As things progressed into High School and we all we’re graduating and growing up it was easier yeah to be self-sufficient and we all started having our FIRST jobs and making our own personal money. And learning how to manage money and paying regular bills while still living with our parents. I definitely wasn’t ready to leave the nest of my parents yet because I was in my partying stage of my life. 19- 22 and it didn’t last long till I became a father at 24 and my partying phase was DONE 😣😖 I had to buy diapers and clothes and baby formula instead of things I needed for myself. I’ve had to pawn my personal belongings to pay for more diapers because at times I was UNEMPLOYED and shit was VERY BAD, VERY HARD and it was just TOO MUCH to live with. That was in 2015 .. it’s 2022 and these last few years it’s been REBUILDING and RESTRUCTURING my life by getting HELP and not being afraid to ask for it. My mother and father FAILED ME to be who I should have been destined to become BUT I just started my NEW CHAPTER in 2020 by starting a NEW START company and getting into Government Contracts to become a Professional Government corporation contractor in the small business private business sector. I know where MY LIFE is FINANCIALLY going and my children are growing up FAST now and their seeing it and I can tell that “I’m Their Hero”

[@2blackcatz426]

Wow you're on it. Great inspiration for those that need to hear that finding new ways to activate positive change. Love your honesty and courage to get where you are today. Best wishes for your future🌼

[@ChairmanPaulieD]

@@2blackcatz426 thank you for your response and feedback

[@sibitasoinda7908]

May God bless you 🤝

[@ChairmanPaulieD]

@@sibitasoinda7908 I hope he will and you as well 🙏🏽

[@SanctifiedLady]

Children? How many did you have?

[@jarkachalmovianska7812]

Be you. Always. The best version of yourself. Do it for you. Not for partner. Parents. Career. Dont be fake.

[@Judgement220]

Beautiful, discerning, socially skillful, self-accepting, quiet. High value women I knew have all these qualities.

[@traceylee5674]

Fitness falls under good health. I’d rather know someone practices a healthy lifestyle instead of focusing on their looks. Many model-esque women can’t run half a mile. Even more smoke to stay skinny!

[@CLAttorney]

I equate a HVW with someone who can show compassion, love and kindness towards others. I think most people are evolving and must seek validation from self over others. That self validation is the true power to change yourself into a HVW. Good luck to all.

[@odettesmith5475]

I agree 👍 to that the other stuff is just prosthetics

[@lethabopsalm5844]

"Nobody cares about your side hustle" is a violent statement😂😂🙆🏿‍♂️

[@lorettaknoelk3475]

I thought it was nobody KNOWS about your side hustle

[@lethabopsalm5844]

@@lorettaknoelk3475 still worse😂

[@sucy9912]

I think there are so many things wrong with this video. The things said in this video contribute to an additional imposition of gender roles on women - a men's idea of a 'perfect lady'.

[@Consistent_markets]

ye but thats what we want though. this is facts

[@anipopescu]

Yup… this is so much more is wrong in this vid uhhh

[@tshaolin971]

It’s understandable that low value women will be triggered by the truth, it’s not pleasant to hear.

[@Smpk12]

Something is wrong with you for sure. Men has a "perfect lady" in their mind and Women has a "perfect man" in their mind. When both of them find each other, thats how a new generation is born. PS: Thats how you also is born and now commenting in this video

[@Truth-wonder]

That’s literally who the list represents, would it make sense when doing a documentary on a dairy farm that they ask about the horses? It is men that establish what is valuable in a heterosexual woman. It’s foolish to think otherwise.

[@nandinigupta2152]

These are the characterstics of *perfect* woman and perfect doesn't exist for man and woman either. You don't have to be perfect for someone else, be who you like to be not the one which others want. You'll get the perfect fit for yourself only when you appreciate that you're imperfect in others vision but perfect in your eyes. BE YOURSELF GIRLS AND IGNORE WHAT OTHERS WANT 😉

[@AbhishekKumar7]

Lies. This will make a jezebelized low value woman.

[@smokenojoke8182]

You can be yourself but you’ll also be alone

[@marciawade9101]

EXCELLENT comment! 👏👏👏

[@marciawade9101]

@@smokenojoke8182 Not necessarily.

[@AbhishekKumar7]

@@marciawade9101 nope. Lies made to make low value women feel better.

[@mashumichelle]

HVW Maybe you mentioned this in a certain way(s) HVW are adaptogenic. Calming, inspiring, healing. Also HVW don't generally attract low vibrational "situations" They tend to be balanced individuals that demonstrate perseverance, modesty and most of all compassion❣ Thank you

[@avenginggoddess]

Are you going to do a video on high value men and hold them to the same exacting standard?

[@alux]

Of course! Next Sunday!

[@imateriumimages2211]

I’m tired of this type of contents and the tone. Teaching a growth mindset and advocating financial literacy to the plebeians is a good thing. But, repeating ad nauseam that old money aristocrats and their manners are the finest and those who aren’t that are silly and trashy people is false. You are biased and you are snob. Coming from humble background, i’ve started my financial education through your contents (thanks for the Millionaire fastlane though) but the more i became literate and the more i saw and understood what your business really are and it’s ok. Nothing is free and this is just the entrance of your sales funnel. But i desagree with your judgements. Wealthy or not, people are human beings. They have their qualities and theirs bad behavior wealthy or not. I’m a wealthy business owner and investor, my wife is from the upper class and my new circle is very wealthy but they are more humble and less judgemental than you. No one is perfect and the perfect or superior man / woman you sell to your audience doesn’t exist. I will unsubscribe. To all, they are plenty of useful contents including universities that will teach you what you need to know without trashing on you and your love ones and all of their imperfections according to Alux! 100% of you aluxers are from middle to poor background so have some self respect and stop watching this disrespectful content.

[@shhh...2092]

Well said 👏

[@rodneypate1693]

HVW. Thank you for the awesome content. Great communication skills, empathy, and knowing your self worth is important. Men let their actions speak louder than words. You will see how love truly endures through tough times. Thank you

[@Swann1410]

It's not how to be a HVW but make yourself a HVW indeed.. 😊 Thank you Alux for the positivity and motivation that you're always share..

[@FinishLineSlim]

Highest value is Love 💕💕💕 self love and love 💞 for humanity 💜💜💜

[@ceciliagranados6989]

A high value woman is educated and knows how to express herself…in more than one language❤️

[@IGthelovelylois]

Thank you The Crimson Cure and Kevin Samuels (RIP 🙏❤) for bringing these terms into the psyche of so many spaces .

[@kransencrates]

Facts..

[@tororuben9664]

Straight facts. KS is where this all started and CC continues to push it FWD.

[@curlyqween34]

@@tororuben9664 and they never mention how males should improve

[@tororuben9664]

@@curlyqween34 well the topic was women. If the trend holds they'll be doing one on HVM. They already more than a few videos focused on men. As for Kevin Samuels he spent the first few years of his effort focused on men standards and outcomes.

[@curlyqween34]

@@tororuben9664 no he didn’t really abs when he did it was very soft and not as hardcore

[@carolinapaez2309]

Missing points here: 1) Be able to put her man as her first priority. And, of course, walk two feet behind him. 2) Wake up earlier than anyone else in the house, dress nicely, put on make-up, and make the perfect breakfast for all family. Every day. 3) Get married to the first and only boyfriend she has. 4) Never, ever, no matter what happened in her marriage, think about getting divorced. Just carry on. 5) Never accept an income higher than her spouse's. 6) Take care of the kids. Every time they get sick, she and only she will be responsible for taking them to the doctor, waking up in the middle of the night, and missing her job. 7) Don't even think about gaining weight. Not even after having all the babies the husband wants. Please don't eat. 8) Don't have birthdays. Stop at 35. Don't forget that women are exactly like cars: they depreciate every year. Yeah, her value will be a million bucks...

[@Haiirrrr]

😂😂 yup

[@zaclin8855]

I applaud you for taking the time to write this out. Every point here is well thought out and it seems like you’ve done a lot of research about men and women dynamics. Perfect example of “missing the point”.

[@mist4134]

thank you for pointing out the absurd, sickening stupidity of this video.

[@piubha]

Do not forget to get botox and other silicon implants to please your husband.

[@dianaschoen4485]

True dat!🤣

[@sprezzatura8755]

Amal Clooney, Grace Kelly and Monica Bellucci. A high value woman is cultured without being pretentious, takes care of her health and is beautiful in a sophisticated way. She is feminine with excellent manners, can hold a compelling conversation and is a committed spouse and mother. She is at home anywhere in the world and can move seamlessly in a wide range of social circles. She is a complimentary presence to the gentleman of her choosing. She commands respect, but does not Inspire fear and is never overbearing.

[@marybethray9481]

This is all about being high value to men. There are many high value women in the eyes of the world that doesn't require beauty or youth: think Pulitzer and Nobel prize winners and female leaders of nations.

[@genepitts4665]

This has given me the what I need to talk to my girls off of the bimbo path. This is how community works, it is good when people share knowledge

[@Truth-wonder]

If they are already on the path there is no use in changing now. “You are who you surround yourself with” so you are lowering your own value by associating with them.

[@imageadvisorsinternational7935]

Kevin Samuels content...

[@SKIMSPersonalStylist]

Everyday, I work on becoming a high value woman. 🌹

[@heavenlyinvestorspath4157]

A high value woman for herself or a high value woman for a nuclear family. These two are usually very very far apart 😒 A big apology to Alux. I’ve been watching for many years and this one time I made a comment without ever watching the video. I’m sorry, as your video was very balanced and informative. Again, sorry. 🙇🏾

[@vaderwilcox7398]

No. They arent. Bc a woman without a family, is not high value. A woman that no man wants, is low value. Same with a man. If no woman wants him, he is low value.

[@heavenlyinvestorspath4157]

@@vaderwilcox7398 haha. Say that to modern day women🥱. They are all about “SELF”

[@arielaflower]

This is such a shallow perspective of what a high value women should look like. You already lost me at starting putting value of a women according to men's expectation (beauty, motherhood) focusing in women's physical attributes and emotional ability to please others. Women can (and are) be so much more than looks and nurturing mothers. Please do better, this is the 21st century, at your video about high value men you didn't reduce men to looks...Sigh.

[@cluggyahoo]

I agree with all that. Now on what planet do you find these ?

[@kransencrates]

LOL

[@Agentxile]

HVW who kept a copy of the LVW to make sure I never creep over the line because that video was intense. When a friend or organization enters my circle they become part of a collective that stretches beyond the norm. They become family. No, I'm not a mafia. However, family is forever.

[@KitKat-ob6nz]

Just because someone is above average in height doesn't mean that it is a sign of good genes, it just means that your parents or parent were tall.

[@kymnichols9343]

High value people multiply and replenish all the blessings they are given and they are good stewards of all for which and whom they are responsible.

[@m.s9146]

Beauty is currency, so true. Beauty for a woman is like money for a man. Beauty will open doors for you.

[@danishahmed1029]

Big W for alux to bring this topic up ..... in these times this topic has circulated a lot ...... showing your pov was kinda a good move n necessary

[@ChrissyHomeschooling]

I’m working on it ….

[@alux]

Good for you Christine!

[@chumajamesnxele106]

Please enlighten me on your process, cause I think you neglecting masculine guidance in your life. How you serving my purpose, baby?

[@ChrissyHomeschooling]

@@chumajamesnxele106 😂😂😂

[@MsKDennaetheDiva]

I can admit I’m in between being High and Low Value (I guess that means I would be considered Low Value, by society standards). Some things on this list describe Me well. Others, I admittedly don’t fit in. I’m very self aware. Thing is, I’m also someone who doesn’t place much emphasis in the views and opinions of those around Me. I’m well aware I have My good and bad attributes. For the things that would otherwise deem Me as Low Value… if that’s the opinion others have, I let that be their view, to which they are so entitled, but it doesn’t change how I feel about Myself. To Me, the extent to which the standards in this list hold weight, also depends on the outlook of the person in question. Regardless of how much the standards on this list do or don’t apply to you, when you love, value, and respect yourself, and choose to be yourself and be happy with whatever you naturally come with, you won’t overly concern yourself with what society thinks… but, that confidence and self-assuredness will radiate to those around you, and that will have its own unique way of making you High Value, simply because you’re powerful enough to not let anything or anyone around you define you BUT YOU, regardless of your financial circumstances, your standing in any social circle, or anything else which may otherwise be technically superficial. I will say, overall, this list makes for a great conversation piece. Nice work.

[@viriacssa2003]

Stop judging yourself, you're not a machine, you adapt to your circumstances and your environment. If need be, you'll go out of character, it's called survival mode. Who do you become high value woman for, it depends, if you're not abused, you flourish. Let's be kind to ourselves. Your relationship with God is more important than being a high value woman, be what God created you to be.. I've seen many so called high value women trampled upon. Jesus is the answer

[@a.s.8650]

"YOU ARE ENOUGH"!

[@hcrystalh]

The type of women who are like this are the type of women I don’t like lol it’s very difficult to hit all 15. If they do, they’re usually not humble and kind or self aware. Because it becomes their goal in life to be one of “these women,” they start becoming arrogant and dismissive of others who don’t fit into the mold of friends they wanna surround themselves with. It usually doesn’t happen naturally for most people, and it’s those people who care too much or try too hard who believe they’re a high valued woman. If they are themselves and are naturally charismatic and kind people, many of these will follow but not all 15.

[@michelled6296]

I agree with at least 14 of these traits - but if you are dating when you are over 40, there’s a very good chance that both you and the potential partner will have children and a “past”. Try telling my 48 year old CEO cousin, divorced with 2 teenagers after her C-level executive husband (yes, they were a power couple) ran off with an intern, that she is not “high value” because she has kids. She’s now in a very happy relationship with an investment banker 8 years her junior. She knows her value and has nothing to prove.

[@paigeheartly8936]

Exactly. A KZbin video cannot define peoples worth. That story is very inspiring :)

[@Me-mn4nw]

Married or a piece for now until something better comes along?

[@CS-bu7lo]

​@@Me-mn4nw Divorce is easy to obtain in the civilized world, so a marriage is not a guarantee he/she won't leave you. She was married with 2 kids with her well-off husband and he still left her for a young intern. I know many widowed or divorced single moms and dads and they want a good relationship, not necessarily marriage ( unless they are religious) with a good man/woman, even if they plan on having more children ( most places don't put a stygma on kids out of wedlock anymore).

[@Me-mn4nw]

@CS More and more people are putting stigmas on only parent households because studies are proving how dysfunctional those homes really are.

[@CS-bu7lo]

@@Me-mn4nw Studies can be ordered by groups with a certain interest. I can make one right now if I want to. I grew up in a traditional family in the 80's, in a religious patriarchal society, in southeastern Europe. It looked good to the outside, but was full of abuse on the inside. The kids at my prestigious school had the same families, as divorce was rare back then. We were told as kids that "arguing and fighting parents and/or a beating once in a while is better than divorced parents". And yet, we saw with our own eyes, how much happier and carefree the kids of divorced parents were, after the divorce. Their single-parent households were quiet, without 2 parents yelling, fighting or abuse and were poorer only if the spouse didn't pay the kid alimony ( only the kids get alimony in my country). The only bad single parent household I knew were the ones where the parent/s continued to be abusive toward the kids, like they did before the divorce- domestic violence and childhood abuse laws were lacking in those days. Millenials in my country are not snowflakes because they were spoiled, they are so because of childhood and teen traumas inflicted by traditional parents that encouraged corporal punishments and made Millenials be good liers and actors to escape punishments. Ah, back in that day, contraception and abortions were illegal, so most of my generation was unwanted and thus treated badly. Unwilling parents will keep the Baby if society demands, but will not love him/her and will at best neglect that baby. I've seen it happen many times. I was wanted, but the traditional education was harsh and abusive. Parents can be good mother and father figures if they are divorced, but if they are bad people, they will not be good mothers and fathers even if married.

[@tshaolin971]

This video will trigger a lot of low value women, it’s a good thing for their awareness.

[@daydream2609]

Hey, we all can’t be born into the Rothschild family. If me being raised in foster care makes me low value, it is what it is. I still made something of myself: 3 college degrees and a 6 figure tech sales job.

[@blackkcinamacritic]

U guys are awesome love the honest positive & realest negative vids.

[@briancordero7674]

A high value woman has the attributes of respectful ,trustworthy and loyal.

[@tbilod]

Check out her mother and her circle. She will turn out just like them. Especially her mother.

[@ibrahimmusah408]

This is beautiful and highly appreciated. High value women, understand sacrifice is necessary, and success can only be measured from the metrics of the achievements of the family in life.

[@sindhuprasaddubey9070]

17. She cooks very delicious. 18. Monthly income expenses budget. 19. Well organizer of home interior. 20. High empath to all family members. 21. She knows first aid. 22. She is a good listener. 23. She is aware of her rights and duties. 24. She keeps herself clean and hygiene. 25. She has a smiling face maximum times. 26. She has a good sense of dressing skill. 27. She knows various kitchen hacks. 28. She is so brave enough that she can jump into a fighting to protect herself and the family. 29. She encourages other family members to strives for a good life. Thanks for reading.

[@Barbara-te7xz]

A 1960s mom

[@mahipatidar8656]

One of the point in this video states that high value women have good reputation...but i had done something in my past for which i am ashamed and i do regret it....i knw i will not repeat that mistake again at any cost and i m changing for better....am i not high value women then ?....i just turned 19 a week ago

[@thecoldhardtruth1390]

1, she can cook 2, she can clean 3. she can provide children 4. she's meek 5. she's loyal 6. she's loving 7.she can make your house a home 8.she looks after you 9.she supports your dream 10. she is modest

[@helenread5767]

Age looks or fitness are not a marker of a high value women

[@brison9972]

having a lack of access is a cop out and a victim mindset. while having a headstart is beneficial it's not needed. everyone has a phone or computers and internet to learn and educate themselves. if they don't they can go to the library and use their computers. I live in a blue collar meth town with the most country family ever, not that thats a bad thing cause i like being country(there's a difference between being country, a cowboy, redneck, and a hillbilly btw). I don't do drugs, and I'm constantly learning and growing financially/professionally, personally and my health. I will be a high value man with a high value woman in a high value relationship. keep growing men

[@eo6637]

I wish I could say that I ticked off all of these, but unfortunately not. I have autism which means that 1) I have below average social skills/charisma and 2) A lot of things that are obvious to other people (eg. stuff you shouldn’t do) are, well, not very obvious to me. I just wanted to throw out the question if anyone has any advice for me? I am still young, but have been through some rough patches. I have been and am taking steps to heal and move past it, though. Also, the thing you said in the beginning about nobody caring if a woman has a masters/phd made me a bit sad, though, because I’ve always taken pride in being a good academic. Well, I guess in that area I know my worth - I know 100% that I am a better person for having studied at university and wouldn’t undo that experience for anything in the world.

[@raecurran1212]

When you feel you have met that special man make sure you love each other. WITH OUT A SHADOW OF A DOUBT, YOU CAN KNOW. I WAS MARRIED FOR 52 YRS. WE SAID I DO AT , 17 & 18 years.

[@trusno7751]

LOYALTY is everything above all! CONSISTENCY is key, so stay focused out here women! Don't lose your value, & become a depreciated asset💥 "HVW"

[@curlyqween34]

Just like old males become depreciated sooner or later

[@trusno7751]

@@curlyqween34 No Doubt!💥🕶

[@matheuscorsino3644]

A high value woman values you because she values herself first, that is the summary of it all.

[@ThrivePinoy]

I am a HVW. Thank you ALUX for this wonderful video. From the Philippines

[@atenas80525]

if she's amazing she won't be easy if she's easy, she won't be amazing

[@sophiasmythe6221]

Your statement that a 25 year old woman has more value than a 55 year old woman is highly offensive. Regardless of your intent, this could have been a complete presentation without making that repugnant comment.

[@Lars-A.]

Rest in peace Kevin Samuels 🙏🏼 he would be proud to see his impact.

[@kellykerr5225]

So a high value woman is willing to listen and hear about your problems. But a woman who has problems is a low value woman. I see how you are.

[@timidowu]

RIP Kevin Samuels

[@jerrykid4972]

Kevin Samuel smiling down after watching these last two videos.

[@meialua7124]

Lol Meghan markle is not a high value woman,she just manipulated the prince so hard he's whipped as a bee sniffing honey.

[@patriciapeever9560]

Meghan markle...no

[@heatherheadley1704]

Value is where you can and will excel

[@merlinsreturn]

It's really obvious that this list was written by a man who thinks he is high value because he has some money. There are plenty of men with money. Women with money and who have their own life don't need a man or commitment because she already has the material security and life purpose that marriage traditionally provided. She has really high standards in terms of qualities of character and morality in terms of a partner. I can assure you she isn't just looking for a man with some money and a sharp suit. So most of the men following this channel won't make the cut. Whoever wrote this just doesn't get it.

[@taoprosperitycounselingpll5779]

Tao Prosperity Counseling -- "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."

[@pumkinpie27]

They fought listening to Kevin Samuels, hopefully they'll listen to you. Great vid!

[@pumkinpie27]

@@OnMyOwnJourney1111 said the "low value" woman 😂😂

[@pumkinpie27]

@@OnMyOwnJourney1111 you're not taken 😂 you're a low value woman. And if you are you're a side chick. You came for me dear!

[@lindachamuel5098]

I am a high value woman. I walk in slow motion all the time!

[@anouskamishra8464]

HVW! True alux everything u said in the vedio is in our control we must always try to be the best version of ourselves!

[@Tokomak_5]

Maybe you can make another video about where to find this days such rarityes?

[@kransencrates]

They are unicorns

[@Tokomak_5]

@@kransencrates 100%

[@SellingontheSpot]

HVW. I enjoyed this video and all that was covered. I continue to work on myself every day, to increase my value to myself and my community. Thank you, Alux! 🙂

[@AnthonyKellett]

I can't agree every single point is necessary, but it's generally accurate. My biggest disagreement is with your list, at the end. Halle Berry, beautiful as she is, has been divorced three times, for goodness sake. As for Megan Markle... Seriously?

[@Toneload11]

A high valued women are never feminist but always feminine. There a big difference between those two

[@Toneload11]

@@OnMyOwnJourney1111 I do not reply to mindless responses. If you think feminine is weak. Listen to this again and all the features a woman of value must have you are missing in a feminist as you. And feminist nowadays can be weak men as wel ll. If you are a men responding with this stupid response

[@dodji582]

Agree

[@bluedalia1114]

Lies

[@FluidMotionFlow]

Can't wait till next week!

[@ShalanLee1688]

It’s important to Love and respect of one self and others. Loyalty is a must. Always focus on short and long term goals, doesn’t matter what age you are!

[@akirayano3677]

Aye the women from last video will now get mad cuz they don't have these qualities XD

[@alux]

Most women will not relate to either video, that's how statistics work. 10% high value, 80 average, 10% low value. There's nothing wrong with being middle class or average; what hurts is realizing you're not that special.

[@akirayano3677]

@@alux hey this gave me an idea make an idea on how to be beyond average or how to be ok with being average?

[@untouchable360x]

@@alux More like 1% high value. 19% average. 80% low value. Same goes for men.

[@MaccMidas]

@@alux no one is that special...regardless of value😆 Anywho, have a good one!✌️

[@ivorycoast8487]

HVW. I simply understood the Assignment. Thank Goodness for You

[@anipopescu]

This is by far the worst video of this channel… I never thought I’d hit thumbs down 👎 on 😒

[@arturinrabag5683]

It’s good to not always agree with everything, otherwise they would only bye q carbon copy of you. Learn from it and see the bright side under the circumstances. If you don’t like what she’s saying at least think that there is a lot of people that think like that so how can you use that to your advantage.

[@anipopescu]

@@arturinrabag5683 it’s not about agreeing. Lots of points are unrealistic or total nonsense. I’ve fallen from a good life down to homeless and back. I might even tick some of those boxes but the … concept of those points is wrong. It just reminded me of the example with the violinist at the metro station who wasn’t given any attention by the passers by. In the evening he played for million dollars audience. It’s also about where you are positioned. When you’re down everyone thinks you’re worth less then them … 😉

[@arturinrabag5683]

@@anipopescu I get what you are saying but I also belive your exact example applied perfectly with the video, she states in multiple of her examples, reputation is everything, walking to a room and everyone knows you is another, etc etc. if people don't know you you cant have those, when that violinist played for the audience these examples are true, think about it. it's a multivariable score with multiple touchpoints, you are only referring to the quality of the work, also as you said you have jumped back between some of them and not so much between others, this apply to 80% of people, neither high value nor low value. you don't have to cross off all of them.

[@arturinrabag5683]

@@anipopescu Also, what does your last statement has to do with anything, don't look at things from the victimization perspective, if people think they are worth more of less than you that has absolutely nothing to do with the actual worth. you can try to sell a dollar worth of gold on 100 dollars and no one will buy it, but that does not change its real value, in fact it will naturally adjust to its real value. so in other words your value also contribute strongly to where you are situated as this also incompensates your way of thinking and acting.

[@tanliz17]

Maybe you are scared because the video is true and you don’t want to believe it

[@SharonMerced]

HVM High value is something dignified and wise that humans can hold forever.

[@iamzazel]

HVW 🙋🏾‍♀️. Definitely checked some boxes here but currently working on others. Super informative video. Thank you so much! Btw, I think anyone Subscribed to Alux and watch their videos should be considered “high value”. I mean… it’s where future billionaires come to get inspired 😉

[@degenyogi6140]

My first daughter came when her mom, now ex-wife, was 40 and second daughter came three years later. The girls are brilliant, beautiful, and driven so I'd say the biological clock is overrated (yes, my sample size is two).

[@sweetsimpleslowlife2709]

High value people are classy, elegant, kind and refined.

[@jazminolivari5554]

Really enjoyed these valuable facts of a HVW.

[@Foreverzen88]

I was once a low value women, I became high value when I became a better human, by being sincere, loving caring, and truly a hard working women.

[@jamesnorwood4084]

A high value woman to me is one who keeps me up in the lifestyle I've become so comfortably accustomed to. I must hasten to inform you, by the bye, that I reside in a trailer park here in sunny Florida. Please, don't judge or let your mind wander too far afield. For I'am actually that "high value" man, not withstanding my current rather shabby down at the heels & out at the elbows circumstances, who you've been searching for unknowingly all your live long life.. Your quest my dearest ends at last, here in my warm, tender & sincerely loving embrace. I assure you my lovely, if you will have me I'll be eternally yours & yours alone.

[@keturah113]

What I've seen of women with all the characteristics listed in clip, they end up having a breakdown from the growing expectations of those around them. And this is why anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medications are prevalent amongst 'high value' women. One can only live up to the idea of perfection for so long.

[@priyahalder3431]

Just found out my mother has all these qualities.... she'as been with my dad since last 23 years, and they're in a happy marriage....she keeps the whole family intact, she's inspiring, caring and oh God the list is endless..... She's definitely a high value woman!!

[@drearydancer]

Huh, I could never admire my mom like that.

[@savedmp3]

Exactly, it is not impossible! Bless your high value mother

[@wandasanchez551]

Low value woman, alone and my time has passed. I've never been loved or cherished by anyone. At least I love and cherish myself. Wish there had been content like this when I was young. Unresolved trauma but at least I can work on that. That will be my focus going forward and a gift to myself with the years I have left. This has been an eye opener.

[@anipopescu]

Oh Gosh Stop That!!! This vid is sh*t. Go out get some nice food, a good laugh and a Zumba class to lift chemicals in your brain! You’re as much worth as the Best Of Us!! 💪🏽🪩 💃🏼

[@Thrill_Hou]

Thanks for your openness

[@Swann1410]

You're a HVW for sure.. Good luck for your life.. 😊

[@kabwekasonde1348]

Acknowledging is where the healing and development begins. Wishing you all the best.

[@angeliquequiquerez483]

No. Do not let the society decide if you are low or high value! Just impove youself to be the best version of you and open your heart for love! ♡♡♡

[@nikkil764]

One of the saddest things I see all the time is the rejected “first wife” who no longer fits her husband’s vision of his lifestyle now working at a menial job. They find themselves selling cosmetics, hostessing, or working in reception. Jobs that normally are entry level for someone half their age. They all have the same haunted look like they just don’t understand why they can’t have the life they planned anymore. My dad saw many of these in the workforce. He made us promise that we would have our own career and ability to make money. Not because we need the money but because we need to know we can do it ourselves.

[@danielland3767]

shit imma dude and that's my biggest fear, mf 42 this November and god its either thr front of a bus or success because I refuse to be under $30k at 50

[@michaelmartherus]

@@danielland3767 damn man that's rough. Is that average where you live? Even entry level where I am on a bachelor degree us usually near 30k, at the very least. Where are you looking for success, what region?

[@nikkil764]

@@danielland3767 So true. It used to be just women but men are seeing it happen too. That’s why you need multiple streams of income and passive income. Even if you get that great job, the industry can change and suddenly you are out with no skills anybody wants. That happened where I live. Oil and gas used to be the top career path for wealth. Then the government got obsessed with climate change and decided fossil fuels are evil. Suddenly, petroleum engineers, geologists, and others are serving coffee at Starbucks. Until the Starbucks closes.

[@josetheman239]

A guy's wife crashed her car last month and now he has to leave work early to pick up the kids from school - they live in a suburb 30 mins out of town. She is a housewife and he works. Can she not get a Uber to the school pick up the kids and then Uber back home with them? Yes some men are evil but some women end up in those jobs because they get too complacent in marriage. A lot of the hard working men I know with young families are stretched too thin by either incompetent, lazy or complacent women. What do you think those men will do once the kids turn 18 and leave the house?

[@nikkil764]

@@josetheman239 I agree. But you also need to know how this happened. In 1963, Nelson Rockefeller gave a speech to a large group of business leaders. He said that they had a plan to substantially increase the tax base. They would create discontent in the American married women. Then the middle class women would go to work increasing the money to be taxed. They would higher lower class women to raise their kids and clean their houses. These women would also pay tax. In ten years, they would increase the tax base by nearly 50%. The new middle class women wouldn’t have to be paid as much as a family man entering the workforce. In ten years, they would accomplish this goal. But as the system moves to a two earner base, inflation would erode the buying power of the new money coming into the house. But the taxes would continue to rise. It worked. It was never about equality but about more taxes for the government.

[@Vijayvijay-uu9kp]

1. You are an asset to your partner and to those in your circle 2. Natural beauty and fitness 3. Ability to raise strong children and flourishing family 4. Comforting character and guiding light 5. Youth 6. She is desired by many high value men for marriage 7. Irreproachable reputation 8. Visibility and fame 9. Exuberant and inspiring 10. Self aware, discerning and she knows she is enough 11. Surrounded by high value women 12. She comes from an elite family or has achieved elite status in her career 13. Can both lead and support 14. In control of her mind and emotions 15. Loyal and focused on the long term goals

[@okhuibutala1640]

Thank you 😊

[@starblossom1370]

Thanks

[@chloewinfrey]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[@mr_willwhite8465]

Kevin Samuels laid this out 2yrs ago. Alux literally stole every last one from him. Bc he's dead 3 months now, it's free game to repackage it for primary white audience as a "new concept"

[@42Israel1]

Thank you!

[@peabeam6231]

This looks like a list written by a 20 years old guy in Malesia looking for a wife material to be birthing his kids... Don't forget that there are a lot of women in high society (Europe, USA) who are successful, gorgeous, live lives on their own terms, and choose not to be reduced to birthing and milking themselves but nurture their dreams and their potential. Also, most of them don't have these attributes but do have many other ones that are more valued in that class/group.

[@anipopescu]

One good Comment with proper arguments! Thank God

[@carolinapaez2309]

Oh, Thanks! At least someone is living in the 21st century. #3,5,6, an 12 are unbelievable. Is anybody editing these videos?

[@John_Q]

Then they need to stop crying/bitching about not finding a good man and feeling lonely, which most of them do.

[@Thrill_Hou]

Their value isn’t based upon what job they have, though.

[@kabwekasonde1348]

@@Thrill_Hou Good one

[@LoonarFox]

Know your faults inside and out so you can work on them or keep them under control. Know your strengths inside and out so you can keep them strong and know when and where to use them.

[@archielgallardo7517]

Love this. Thanks!

[@Real.Flowers.]

❤️

[@The88lightangel]

Like

[@DerrickJones19]

Kevin Samuels has been saying this for years, now all of a sudden it's popular. Even TDJakes is riding the bandwagon.

[@TheGingerJoye]

#facts May he rest in peace.

[@DiegoTomas]

So you basically took every major talking point from Kevin Samuels and The Crimson Cure, as well as many others in the manosphere, and particularly the black manosphere, and compiled it into a single video. Congrats.

[@cbiii9818]

THEY LOVE TO JACK THE SWAG!

[@CPT_B]

These concepts predate the black manosphere

[@f3042]

🤣🤣 Basically. But these things are pretty standard across the board for men and women. Basically, traditional cultures breed men and women like this. This is how my family raised all of us to be, and they aren’t from America. All my American friends from good backgrounds had the same upbringing, regardless of race. If you attend prep school, for example, your educators help mold you to pursue and fit these standards at as young an age as possible. Many girls I went to school with were doctors, attorneys, educators, etc before 30. I have guy friends who were in position or close enough to being able to afford SAHWs around or a little after 30. KS was sharing things with viewers who don’t come from families or circles who teach these things. I wasn’t a fan, but I give him that credit. The stuff he mentioned was stuff you’re supposed to be taught by your parents, because only your family will be that candid and honest with you.

[@f3042]

But yes, the “visibility and fame” was a dead giveaway that they literally stole the list. Lol Fame isn’t a factor for 99.9% of people 😩

[@colevandais]

Imagine everybody tried to be famous before they felt valuable. What a sad world it would be. Be ok with yourself

[@lavish169]

Men have a biological clock too. Sperm morphology. Two heads, no tails etc. That also starts at 30 for a lot of men. A lot of men Also start to deal with erectile dysfunction around that time as well.

[@anipopescu]

Haha! Good one. Struggling w donor IVF atm so yes, surprisingly no one wants to believe men need to rush too

[@Truth-wonder]

Well men don’t en masse. For women their is a definitive clock that starts opposite of 35 yo. In general the clock for men starts later and does not have a definitive drop off until mid to late 40s.

[@anipopescu]

@@Truth-wonder Yup! Now we all feel bad about age (hint sarcasm)

[@John_Q]

Viagra exists, and plenty of men have healthy children at 60; can't say the same for women.

[@John_Q]

@@anipopescu Women actually do, this is why they feel ashamed to tell their age.

[@BeatzByMK]

Watched the low value video to keep myself in check, this is to keep myself on track & what I should continue to strive for ❤️❤️ May all the ladies watching take this and use it!!!

[@kickitwith_kay]

For real

[@ThatGuy-mu2rr]

I watched both vids, too. Ladies like you give hope to our declining society. 👍🏻

[@TAMELTESTAROSA]

You make music

[@joycewatt800]

Good for e@MK. It shows you are teachable and willing to do the necessary work.

[@denises3779]

Don't let a video dictate your value or worth. Most of the ladies she mention got cheated on and left behind. So all that high value crap still didn't work.