EASY Way to Influence and Connect with ANYONE Instantly! | Ed Mylett

[@EdMylettShow]

What's 1 of your GO TO words that you use?

[@TySuite]

I say “Definitely”... another great video. It’s always a pleasure to listen 👂 to what you have to say Ed. Thanks again for blessing the world with valuable content that can be applied to life. Blessings! #MaxOut

[@mikebolus3041]

"Definitely" or "absolutely"... Normally in response to them asking if I understand them.

[@embraceyourpearls7391]

One of my Go To words thy I use is “Wow” along with eye contact and a nod.

[@vincewainwright3802]

“Interesting”... “would you please dive deeper regarding x?” That works well.

[@ryanfrisella5626]

@@embraceyourpearls7391 Ed does this in all his interviews

[@nicholewent]

"People are gifts, and the way you open them up is by asking them questions." THIS EPISODE IS GOLD! This is the kind of content that needs to be taught in communication classes!! Imagine this level of authentic teaching to youth to help them become strong leaders, develop conflict resolution skills, connecting to collaborate, become better listeners for family, partners, etc. Mylett University👊🔥

[@EdMylettShow]

Glad you found such enjoyment from the video! Appreciate the feedback!

[@maribethcondrillon1079]

Wow hopefully you can help.me.because I have big wealth I need t come there

[@maribethcondrillon1079]

I love it motivation

[@maribethcondrillon1079]

Yes I'm working on enfuencer 😳😲

[@maribethcondrillon1079]

My Instagram is the same on my wattsapp

[@melfes525]

Great content and reminder. 1 Speaking less is doing more. 2 People don't need you to solve their problems. We want a friend to trust, in a journey figured out and paced at by ourselves. 3 Can always be more humbled. 4 Let them finish. Stay put. #maxout #edmylett

[@osse1n]

Remembering *NAMES,* places, conversations and what people were saying to you some time ago, makes people feel *VALUED* and their emotions get engaged even deeper. When that happens, they will open up even more and become loyal followers.

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! That's what i'm talking about. Love to hear you're already on top of things!! Curious, do you have a favorite interview i've done so far? Would love to hear your thoughts!

[@jra.x2enxtlvl]

great points

[@annettefluit3496]

Super true. Remember different facts about them. I've said that to people and they question how I remember. 🙂

[@brandonb4559]

EdMylett The interview with GC

[@josettgordon9374]

People LOVE the sound of their own name

[@KevinBrown-ss9hf]

"Talk to a man about himself and he will listen for hours. " - Benjamin Disraeli Great video, Ed! My biggest challenge is shutting off my internal dialogue so that I listen better. Often people say things that inspire me and I'll think on those things while they continue to talk instead of continuing to listen. Thanks for the wise instruction!

[@vadimtuchila9059]

Try meditation! It's a great way to gain control of your mind.

[@nicola-socialmediasuccess8687]

This video will absolutely help me to do better business meetings! 🔥🔥

[@masonfern7387]

Your comments are so unauthentic

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! That's what i'm talking about. Love to hear you're already on top of things!! What's one thing said that really resonated with you?

[@jackieofee1921]

Nicola - Business Tips For Success I agree... my first thought was I can’t wait to try some of those tips with my clients today.

[@jrodliving]

@@EdMylettShow ive listened at least 10 times and will listen MANY times more and i cannot tell you how many times ive nodded my head, chuckled a little bit and just plain get excited about how much growth i have left in front of me. Its amazing that a few years back i thought that " i was who i was" and thats how its going to be the rest of my life.....SO not the case......again, Thank You.

[@nataliemikhail9136]

Wow, Manipulation...suuuuper cool🥳

[@UltimateGoldenGirl]

I just want to say you are fantastic. I listen to all of your videos....I have been reading self-help motivational books since 6 years old (actually before they really had such a thing as this goes way back)...I have listened to the best of the best throughout the years and I must say you are on my very top list of the best...I love your energy....I love your presentation. I love your honesty....I love that you give from the Soul and not to get something....You are blessed...Keep being you....You are amazing and fabulous...God bless.....dianna-brianne

[@vianeykat]

These are the type of living & practical skills that should be taught in basic education!! #MaxOut

[@MandiMillerMakeup]

Wow! I'm not even done yet and I've written 4 pages of notes. I didn't realize that I could admire you more than I already do. I watch every video, every Instagram, listen to every podcast etc...people's feedback to you at times have said, "Stop interrupting, let them talk." You, who I feel is one of the #1 in motivational speaking, growth guru, everything great have just admitted your weakness in this area and your desire to grow in this. THAT'S WHY I LOVE YOU!!! By teaching it, you learn it again. I love that you admit your areas that need growth. Makes me even more of a follower. I love your desire to grow and it gives me more of a desire to do so also. One of the people I admire the most, sees areas he can do better and it motivates me to be better! THANK YOU ED for your humility. Love ya man!!!

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you for sharing with all of us! Massively appreciate it! Your words are far too kind!

[@pasquinilli]

Ed, please make this video ten more times! I plan on listening to this every day for the next month. Thanks brother, this is why I subscribed. I always get so much out of these talks. Thanks for sharing!

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you so much! Happy you took the time to listen, and enjoyed the video. Give me a few topics I should talk about !

[@pasquinilli]

EdMylett thanks. As a topic suggestion, I am sure you have found that being a better listener to others helps you listen to your authentic self. When facing a tough decision or taking action in the face of uncertainty, how does practicing the act of listening to others, help you find the strength or courage you need to live more authentically? Virgil said “fortune favors the bold” and Samuel Mockbee said “proceed and be bold” maybe the root of that boldness is a quiet calm that has been cultivated through the act of “listening until the other person has finished talking, then responding thoughtfully.” Ed Mylett said that last one.

[@estherharing4235]

This man not asking you one question about you on a three hour flight is a great example off that your value isn't determined by how other people interact with you an the amount of interest that they show. A good reminder especially trough hearing this kind of experience from such a well spoken, interesting and carismatic man.

[@captainhuckleberry7428]

I’ll sometimes say lovely or “I hope you have a lovely day” when parting . You would be surprised how many people are seemingly starved for that kind of emotion.

[@EdMylettShow]

Exactly! What part of the video really stood out for you the most?

[@leifcron8054]

Ed... I actually can not believe that you put things like this out here for free. BUT, you make me feel connected to you, you want me to learn even MORE and want me to have access to the context, which is you, that means investing into coaching. That really became a new goal for the near future. THANK YOU for contributing SO MUCH!!

[@kostakupanov5527]

To be a present while someone is talking to you is the most important thing. This is how you show that this person matter !!! Great video , Thank you !

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! I couldn't have said it better myself. What other topics you think I should go over next time?

[@kostakupanov5527]

You have helped me so much and I am very thankful specially for the topics- How to build self confidence, The secret to Growth, Control your Identity Change Your Life , Blissful Dissatisfaction all these topics gave me different prospective about life and how to approach certain situations with a confidence and believing in myself. I didn't realize that I have all the power in my inner world while waiting for the change to happen from outer world. Thank you once again , God Bless You ! #MaxOut

[@romainsanderson4158]

You deserve an award for blessing people with your knowledge.. long life and continuous prosperity Mr ed mylett

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you very much, your words are far too kind! What's one thing you'll remember from this?

[@venessasnowmadisonco.prope7242]

I feel like I’m a pretty good listener but this was a great refresher! It’s a good reminder of all of the subtle things we do in our interactions daily. It’s easy to take for granted when someone is speaking to us but are we really listening? I want to share this video with my office and family and friends. Thank you for great content as always!

[@QueensCuisine]

I have really Maxed out because of ur good teaching and encouraging words. I hv Maxed out really good and am still Maxing out. Thank you for the effort u put in for bringing us all this😢😘🥰

[@martyjohn007]

Dude what I like about your korero is that you are humble enough to admit your short comings #Maxout

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you! Appreciate the love and support. What's 1 thing that resonated with you in this video?

[@martyjohn007]

@@EdMylettShow Be present in the moment and master the art of listening thanks brother

[@NexaTerraGaming]

You are putting out pure gold content for absolutely free ! I love you Ed :) One day, I will meet you for sure ! Thanks a ton lot

[@EdMylettShow]

Anything is possible!

[@KavyneSean]

Listen more than twice as much as I speak. I’m going to learn more.

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! What other topics of discussion do you think I should talk about?

[@VirtualWorkspace]

I used these listening techniques on a sales call today and it made a HUGE impact.

[@toolsforthesoul217]

Few weeks ago it occurred to me that I was being a major douche to my wife. I did a fantastic job confessing it and apologizing and assuring her that I was going to try to do much better. I thought I killed it on the apology and we could move on. Nope. She needed to express how she felt about it. Even though she was pretty much restating what I had just said, she needed needed to go over it with me from her point of view. It was wicked difficult to keep my mouth shut and not defend myself. Super hard to look in her eyes and not say anything while staying interested in her speaking with my body language. It was a pivotal moment in our relationship. I know it's difficult but if people could just listen to each other better it would save marriages for sure.

[@GofundYour]

Man, I'm committed to listening to at least one of these videos for 5 days a week. Soo many gems, so many pages of notes, much love for you Ed. Love how genuine you are, and how down to earth you are, and you are super relatable, it's why I love you ED!

[@ameliale5575]

I love your content Ed! You are a very engaging teacher. New sub!

[@EdMylettShow]

You're welcome! Happy to deliver it to you. Did you have a favorite part of the video?

[@kipj9900]

It's funny how we see ourselves. One thing l really like about your interviews is that you let people talk and you DON'T interrupt them often. But do what you feel is necessary. "The best room in the house is room for improvement" Japanese proverb

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you for the kind words! It really means a lot to me reading comments like these. THANK YOU! What other topics you think I should go over next time?

[@kipj9900]

@@EdMylettShow more on influencing people. 👍🏾

[@gustavolazio8]

Yes! Pair this with Robert Greene's Laws of Human Nature & you can master the art of listening. 🗣👂

[@michaelreed5831]

I first listened to this on Spotify and I just HAD to watch and take notes. I need this skill SO much.! I used it at a network meeting this week, which I co-organised and everyone was like "Michael, why are you so quiet today?" And I replied "I'm practising what Ed Mylett taught me"

[@LuisTorres-co3fl]

Great tips hey Ed I started watching your channel like a week ago thank you for all your contribution I love your show greetings from Orlando fl.

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you so much, happy to have you on here! What's another topic you think I should cover?

[@LuisTorres-co3fl]

@@EdMylettShow I think you have so much potential there's a big latin America community in the USA I thing you should translate your videos to Spanish the followers will love this gracias.

[@76sassyonly1]

Presented in a group and this has helped so many individuals to listen better and support appropriately during communication. It's never to late to get it right. Be coachable to do better!!!

[@coldwarunicorns]

Great stuff brother , very insightful and well spoken. I recently changed how I administer advise , and have taken to only speaking of things that I know from my own experience , in hope that others would see and hear the truth and sincerity and not ever feel like I'm just pointing or waiving a finger at them , so to speak. It has not been going so well. It has been brought to my attention that I talk about myself too often etc. my thing is, I and my personal experience , my testimony is truly all I have to offer. Perhaps at times , others are not seeking truth or wanting to learn from me but simply wish to spend time in speculation . Any thoughts? I'm listening...

[@LTD2011able]

1:50 There are a lot of people like that. They want to be the center of every conversation. A gossip is the one who talks to other people about you. A bore is the one who talks to you about himself. A brilliant conversationist is the one who talks to you about yourself. Love listening to you Ed. Thanks!

[@karimnanji4163]

Every body should read "How To Win Friends and Influence People" timeless clasic. Thank you and have Awesome Day!

[@EdMylettShow]

Great suggestion! What was your favorite takeaway from the video?

[@karimnanji4163]

@@EdMylettShow do not interrupt someone when they are talking, looking into their eyes.

[@jksalem]

Another Great Lesson. A Slogan you might of heard in your home at one time is, LISTENT TO LEARN AND LEARN TO LISTEN. People love being heard when you allow them. This was a Game Changer for me in all areas of My Life. Thank you JS

[@TheChefroscoe]

I use these videos in the morning to activate my brain on positivity. As you say at the end "They are EXACTLY what I need." Thank Mr Mylett for giving me strategies that are applicable. MAX OUT

[@joshvrem7490]

Ed Mylett I have watched many different interviewers and you are by far one of the best! The reason for me is truly your pure and honest excitement. It isn't fake and I can tell that even though it's only through video. So often I will see a guest you have on say something and you will be genuinely ecstatic about what they said. You will say things like"wow that is so powerful," along with other sayings and it truly makes them feel important. That is one of the best things I have learned about communication and I learned it from you. You also say amazing things about them and give high praise as well. You truly are an inspiration and a great coach at this stuff. Thank you soo much for making all of these videos and truly caring about all of us. It is greatly appreciated!!!

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you for the kind words! It really means a lot to me reading comments like these. THANK YOU! What other topics of discussion do you think I should talk about?

[@joshvrem7490]

@@EdMylettShow Absolutely it means a lot to have you share so much wisdom with us! Greatly appreciated! The first thing that popped in my head for future content would be discussing how socially anxious people and people that are more introverted can effectively communicate. They have a lot of knowledge but their fear of social situations can limit how they come across. They may seem rude when in fact they are just nervous. That would be my recommendation. Thank you for asking it truly means a lot!

[@mrotinsulu1]

I love it that you are secured with yourself by letting us know that you're also working on your listening skills. It makes me feel that I can relate with you and that I can grow together with you Ed, my mentor, in the area of better listening. Thanks, Ed. God bless!

[@johntrindade]

Ed Mylett, thank you so much for your teaching and the energy you spread from your heart through your words. I am so grateful that somehow - I am sure it's a gift sent by the Universe - i listened to you and gave me hope to carry om fighting and look for new opportunities.... At 71 I've been seriously considering "throwing in the towel and give up life. I will follow your videos and just bought your book through a local (Portugal) bookshop. My GOD bless you always for being the "light and the salt" to me and many others.

[@mikebolus3041]

Give me three hours with you and you'd be annoyed with the amount of questions I'd ask!!! #MaxOut

[@EdMylettShow]

haha Was there anything I said that really caught your attention in a positive light?

[@mikebolus3041]

@@EdMylettShow definitely NOT saying "uh huh", "right", etc during someone's sentence. Also NOT completing their sentences or replacing their choice of word with another word. That's a HUGE thing that I have a habit of doing

[@zyx963]

@@mikebolus3041 exactly or correcting a word with what I believe would sound better.

[@stevencooper4483]

I listen to this video while I made my calls today and I made 4 appointments. This is very tactical and must be added to the arsenal. Thank you Mr. Mylett

[@IsaacBlencowe]

Almost every point you made I realised is something I do a lot with people. Especially ending people's sentences. I now realise that is very much an ego thing. Thank you, Ed, this has been so valuable. I was listening to this on your podcast but got so much value I came back to go through it again and make notes. Honestly, every time I listen to your content I come away from a better person. So thank you.

[@stephenwomack3776]

This is huge! I’m that guy that jumps in before they finish, never thought about it as being an ego thing. I love learning about people and having fallow up questions.

[@rhondabenson4898]

Such a great lesson, learned from my dad. He will not be talked over if you do you end up not learning a thing. Only way to be better is to let the teachers talk. Thank you!!

[@EdMylettShow]

VERY WELL SAID!! What's another topic you would like to hear me talk about?

[@girlscout3105]

Ed, you are an incredible listener. I see how engaged you are when people speak. You remind me of my best friend since 2nd grade w whom I've since lost. He was always inquisitive and went deep into conversation and you could honeslty feel he cared about the deeper issues of what's going on inside Manny.. as I'm listening to you and writing this, you are perfect even in your interruptions.. lol. Your engaged in the mind.. you feel the next thought. It's a gift you have.. and you WILL change the landscape of this country. You have already put a huge dent in it and I think your just getting warmed up! God bless you my amazing new bestie! Ha!

[@maggiolivier9855]

Oh my goodness you've hit the nail on the head...I talk too much when I'm nervous and always finish people's sentences for them. Hmmm food for thought! Thanks Ed!

[@EdMylettShow]

Glad you found such enjoyment from the video! Appreciate the feedback! What were the top 3 notes you wrote down from this video?

[@maggiolivier9855]

@@EdMylettShow most certainly to be more patient when listening and not finishing sentences for people, to be more present in the conversation and lastly to speak less and listen more. Thank you for your time and support much appreciated!

[@charlesherrera6535]

Ed I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate both your content and the passion behind it. I’m glad I found you. Keep up the great work brother!!

[@EdMylettShow]

My absolute pleasure ! truly appreciate it. Beyond humbled by your words. What do you think I should talk about next?

[@charlesherrera6535]

Ed I would say finding a business mentor and how to approach him or her without wasting their time? If you’ve covered this already, I apologize for not seeing it yet. I’ve just started following you. Thank you again Ed! Totally appreciate you taking time out of your day to respond.

[@Govaertskim]

Great info! Thank you! I think three of my weaknesses here are : Body language, I cross my arms often coz I don’t always know where to leave them. Not being fully present, I tend to already form a reply in my head when they are still talking Asking questions, when it is a silent person ( like me) I don’t always know what to ask to keep the conversation going. So lot to work on. Thanks again. I love your conversations with your guests.

[@KarmaQuads]

This is probably the best video on listening I’ve ever seen

[@tlschair]

Just moved out from a bad relationship of 4 years today, and while I’m getting organized I thought I’d listen to “Ed Mylett”. Everyone at WFG has been talking about this guy. I watched the 9year old WFG talk first. Then I watched the video about closing. Then I watched this one and he told me to comment, so I am. Hello, I’d love to be lucky enough to have a training call with you one day so I can truly learn how to WIN in WFG. I have big goals, need to be big enough to give money away. Coach able and willing to listen.

[@HelloDarling73]

I have stopped saying statements and started asking questions. It has improved my communications so much better! Thank you!

[@IvyLaughton]

My friends have told me I'm a good listener and I think I am. People always end up telling me their whole life stories and secrets (both men & women) even the ones I hardly know lol. But I still learned a lot from this video. Thank you for what you're doing. I love working out in the morning because I get to listen to you. I love you Ed!

[@jasonroberts7256]

Watching this again in 4/21 and still amazed at the value here. There are so many gems! I’ve watched this a few times and get more value every time. The timing is always spot on too. Appreciate you Ed.

[@ShaliniDolli]

What I appreciate about this video and what makes it powerful is how you are open and honest with us about the areas in your own life where you can improve in. It shows that you are self reflecting and not perfect (in a time where everyone tries to be), and it helps us as the audience put down our egos to take a better look at ourselves. Thank you!

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! Absolutely said and summed it up perfectly. Great stuff. What's another topic you would like to hear me talk about?

[@guyjean7159]

I gained so much from this video. It will help me become a better communicator because I will listen more. That's very important! Thanks Ed!

[@EdMylettShow]

That’s so awesome! Happy you were able to find some enjoyment in it! What do you think I should talk about next?

[@fitnesswithadriana]

I can’t believe I *only* recently discovered who you are several weeks ago. I’m blown away by the clarity of your message, thank you for what you do .

[@jenniferdennis2632]

As a writer, I can get really focused on specific words people use. This video really inspired me to focus my attention on tonality, body language, and non-verbals. Thank you!

[@PracticalInspiration]

I agree with you totally on listening, I personally find that where I speak less I often get and learn more from the conversation.

[@EdMylettShow]

Great stuff, looks like you're really trying to Maxout all areas of your life! What's one thing you'll remember from this?

[@LovelessHealthSolutions]

Ed I am truly enjoying and learn a ton from your videos. I own two wellness clinics and listening is the most important part of my job. These videos are helping me focus on this . Thank you for what you do!

[@RestorationofallThings]

Caught some of the things I do in conversations that show I am not listening. I often want to finish the other persons sentence or thought. Thanks Ed for this content and helping me to improve my sphere of influence!!

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you so much! Happy you took the time to listen, and enjoyed the video. Give me a few topics I should talk about !

[@RestorationofallThings]

@@EdMylettShow I've been binge watching your content and I am grateful I have found it. You just resonate with me. I love your passion. It shows on every vid. Thought of some things; Building rapport Staying hungry after success Developing a "why" Would love to see you and Patrick Ben David do an interview. You guys ROCK!!

[@Craftomatic212]

It’s incredible that this content exists for free

[@josettgordon9374]

WOW ED!!! Thank you so much..... Being better at listening is a personal goal, and a lot of things you said that occur with nervousness or excitability have been my challenge. For me, it is that I am so excited! I love people and to serve them and it makes me so happy that I get to the end in my head first and forget to listen along the way. I am an EXCELLENT listener when people have problems, I let them vent, restate, and emote when appropriate. AKA great counselor. But then I often forget these things when it is ME who has a lot to say. So I am trying to adopt "counselor" role as I engage with people.... and it has been working! We all just have to find our way, and I am so grateful that I have you to listen to, Mr. Mylett, because my whole life people told me to calm down, slow down, chill out, etc. and you make me feel like it IS the blessing that it IS for me to be ME!!!! (Also, they just don't know what we know and are jealous or insecure or whatever so I just send them love and light) THANK YOU, ED!!!!

[@PournimaB]

My instant reaction as the video started was, to think of a list of names I'd be sending this video to. But as I listened intently to everything you had to say, I realised it is me who would like to improve my listening skills much more than making people listen to me talk my hearts content. Thank you for such beautiful content that you share, I am addicted (of course in a good way), to listen AND apply these powerful things in my own life. Hoping to have a chance to connect with you in person some day! Wishing you much more success, and love what you're doing for spreading such powerful messages. God Bless!

[@jakefoster2736]

This video is pure gold I truly appreciate everything you do I binge watch all of your videos your the truth you speak nothing but pure facts and I am blessed to be in your presence threw the phone I hope to meet you one day truly blessed for your knowledge keep up the great work your a god send have a blessed day

[@EdMylettShow]

WOW... powerful words. Thank you so much for this comment. Reading these kind of comments get me pumped to create more !!

[@bushidooffaith4706]

Good advice. My dad would always say that it' s not what a person had said to you that counts but how you feel when that person leaves. What that persons presence left you feeling will tell you more than their word you heard. So the next time you see them your ready for who they are. God bless.🙏

[@EdMylettShow]

That's what i'm talking about! Couldn't have said it better myself !! What's another topic you would like to hear me talk about?

[@bushidooffaith4706]

@@EdMylettShow thank you first for your comment, dad was a smart man and his words live on long after he's body has left us to be with his love ones. In the code of Bushido one of the laws is KO which means Filial piety is a virtue of respect for one's parents. A person can not respect one's self if they don't respect were they come from. You cannot be successful in anything unless you're foundation is strong. You can't have honour which is MEIYO in the code without first having CHUGI which is loyalty and duty to carer and respect and lookout for your parents. So I think that will help the young people to learn respect, and you know thats very Important. What I know has taken years of battles to learn, but unfortunately the younger generation need years of battle to appreciate. As the Bible tells us to build your house on a rock. Foundation very important. God bless you Ed and keep trying to help. God sees what your doing and He is happy.🏆🙏🏆

[@bushidooffaith4706]

Thank you

[@willowwillow1969]

Lightbulb moment for me! I have prided myself on speaking well. I also enjoy (pridefully) winning arguments and being a verbal ninja. I just realized how much damage I may have done in relationships. I will begin using these tools immediately. I am guilty of assuming I know what the other person is saying before they finish. I am grateful for this lesson. Thank you.

[@pattystoor]

Thank you, Ed! I'm going to incorporate all of it, one step at a time. It's all about having control of not only your brain but your body and soul!

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! That's what i'm talking about. What's some more stuff you'd like me to talk about?

[@jeremymerrill2248]

Ed, this is money! I love how you use SO many if not all of these key tips in your podcasts. I believe these work cause of the progression I see from a podcast a few years ago to one you do in 2022. That right there inspires me to put these into action. Thank you for being so authentic I feel like you are my friend.

[@bozjohnson4915]

Great video. I used to finish people's sentences for them. I thought that indicated I was listening. As Ed said, that's not typically true. One time, my girlfriend said, "Let me finish". She was annoyed I was feeding her words and finishing her sentence. I shut up and listened thereon. Our communication was way better. Ed's advice is spot on.

[@carlchilders6069]

Yes! I love this topic. Fortunately it’s one of my super powers but I still have much work to do. Nobody is ever perfect. I have trained for acting for 8-9 years to be an expert listener, to truthfully connect, to respond truthfully in the moment. When you clarify what you heard then, as jim Kwik says, you are learning to teach. Body posturing is more telling than someone’s words. It tells the truth. Someone with closed arms saying they “love you” is telling you they don’t love you; or are mad at you. #maxout I would have driven you crazy by asking questions...ha ha...it’s because I am comfortable with myself...He wasted that time...3 hours?! Oh man...@edmylet when we listen and respond truthfully we can heal ourselves and others...most people just want to be heard...to be understood... Finally...waiting for your turn to speak is not listening. It’s not hearing. It’s deflecting.

[@freshlifecounseling]

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and this is spot on and incredible!!! I will use this to sharpen my counseling skills and share with couples and parents to better their important relationships. You’re the #1 teacher in the world Ed! Can’t wait to read your book!

[@brookecoach]

Wow! This made me realize some hard truths. A lot of the time, I genuinely DON’T CARE about what the person is saying. Or I already know where they’re going and it’s taking too long. I think it’s time I find smarter people to talk with. I need a better circle.

[@davidcraig7771]

Smarter people may not actually care what you have to say.

[@brookecoach]

David Craig that could very well be true 😉 But then I could at least be interested in what they say, use these listening skills, and learn something.

[@trouble722jg]

Wow! I absolutely love this! I struggle with being heard in many conversations. So many love to talk about themselves and cut me /others off. These are great reminders of true communication. Thank you 😊

[@MrXimbicas]

I think I have accomplished everything I wanted in my life. But I still watch these videos to have it Very clear these lessons to pass them to my 2 sons. I am amazed how you can pass your message so effectively. I am basically using your videos for my personal relationships. I just think people should watch more than once and write their notes down to make sure they follow the lessons you pass. God bless you man !

[@tinanaz4916]

I love the fact that you’re so real. Thank you for all you do 🙏

[@EdMylettShow]

THANK YOU!! Did you have a favorite part of the video?

[@DiscoverIgnite]

Man, I would have asked you everything under the sun! You are more than just an entrepreneur, you are great down to earth guy.

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you for the kind words! It really means a lot to me reading comments like these. Did you hear a particular golden nugget that stuck with you?

[@KingaGorski]

I can feel the authenticity and genuine nature of all that you’re expressing here, Ed. It still floors me how so many people are completely unaware of their body language when they’re supposedly “engaged” in a conversation with you, yet really they’re totally checked out. Drives me some type of cray 😬. Great video!

[@SashaLipskaia]

I think this was one of the MOST motivating videos I have seen by you. And here's why: you are humble, present, and LISTENING, while you are coaching us to get inspired to become more of our best selves through listening to others deeply and thus serving them and us! They get to be heard and learn about themselves, and we get to learn about their gifts. People are presents that are meant to be open by listening to them: that alone made me feel heard by you. Again, just gold.

[@charlesmurray8408]

This is EXACTLY what selfish me needs to hear. Thank you Ed. Charles

[@sandrabennett4300]

Excellent tips! Reminds me of this saying that I have always heard in banking. ‘People bank with people- not banks.’ Connecting and showing empathy & validating people has always come very naturally to me. I have found that very few people have this ability. Most conversations leave me feeling not validated. Most people are missing what I call the ‘sensitivity chip.’ I hope this video goes viral. :-))

[@HiAmandaEnglishCoach]

Ed I started watching your content regularly about a month ago. I’m a life coach and an influencer (humbly starting haha) and I want to say THANK YOU. It was my boyfriend who showed me your channel, it’s been very interesting. This video in particular hit the nail for me. But all of them bring to surface conversations I’ve been having in such a great light! Thanks so much for doing this for us!!! God bless ya!

[@raulrodriquez3404]

Thanks Ed, more great coaching and tools I could use . I know that I sometimes find myself pushing through conversations instead of letting the other person continue at their pace. 👍🏼

[@EdMylettShow]

What were the top 3 notes you wrote down from this video?

[@kristianmalinovic50]

Your content is Amazing. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 Thank you for making this world a better place.

[@EdMylettShow]

You’re so welcome! Thank you for the kind words! Happy you liked and enjoyed the video!

[@duncanaguilera80]

Ed, youve made important points of disconnecting and connecting with people ... In other words. A meeting of minds have a common feeling in believe and influence.

[@EdMylettShow]

Glad you found such enjoyment from the video! Appreciate the feedback! You have any more topics you'd like me to cover in future videos?

[@mekkafly]

Wow 🤯🤯🤯 everyone in the world needs to listen to this at least once a week.

[@jra.x2enxtlvl]

#MAXOUT Ed Your words of wizdom, Leadership, & pure Passion for helping others is nothing short of inspirational! I want to just say thank you for all that you do! #MAXOUT #beinspyrd #NXTLVL

[@EdMylettShow]

My absolute pleasure! Thank you for the love and support. You keep showing up, and i'll keep putting videos out! What was your favorite takeaway from the video?

[@jra.x2enxtlvl]

@@EdMylettShow I liked the 3 parts of how listening it makes people like you more, cause i have no friends, & i have no family so i need to learn to be a better listener. Other than my sister & my GF i have no one to listen to nor to listen to me, & like you said we all want to be heard, & for some reason no one seems to like me! Not because i interupt even though im sure that they are probably sick of hearing me though, but we all can do better all the time & you are my #1 go to guy when it comes to pretty much everything! Im just afraid this place is going to Lock me up for no reason before i can learn how to get outta here before its too late! Anyways off track but thank you for everything Ed! I am jealous of the guy who spent 3hrs with you, & didnt ask you 1 Q! I wouldve had my note book out or recorder, & asked your ear off! lol #imjstsayin #MAXOUT #NXTLVL #beinspyrd

[@jra.x2enxtlvl]

@@EdMylettShow I just watched it again, wow everyday im going to try to at least listen to this episode daily! I just want to say i appreciate U i appreciate all of the time U spend with us all I appreciate you Ed! TY #MAXOUT #beinspyrd

[@albertnel_ATMGardenRoute]

Ed you have helped me so much. I am a struggling entrepreneur in South Africa, and by just hearing someone tell me straight up what im doing wrong is upping my game 1000%. hope it ups to the point of us one day meeting state side. keep up the brilliant work man

[@Principleporcha]

Mirroring is so important. You are right Eddie!

[@ChrisJones-sy7xg]

I would give anything to spend any amount of time with you. And this guy, a entrepreneur had this opportunity and blew it. Damn maybe he didn't realize he was flying in a plane with the legend. 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@billbryant6156]

Active listening skills has been a strong part of my success. It's all about mindset and this video helped me get the mindset I need for a new career I'm about to start. Thank you! I'd have a thousand questions on the golf course.

[@gary6006]

This is an absolute higher level of listening and coversationalism than I've ever hear. Mr. Mylett, thank you!

[@ttttttttttttttttt349]

Pur GOLD as always!! Thank you @edmylett for being so transparent with us. So important that you can be so humble and open about your faults! Back to the basics, we all forget. #MAXOUT Great message. God bless your heart, hugs from Texas!!! 🔥🔥🔥 One of my "GO TO" words "Symbiotic" and I DO talk with my hands... I'm Italian, can't help it, lol 😂!! #MAXOUT Can't wait to listen to this 2 more times, I learn more in every replay!!!

[@EdMylettShow]

My absolute pleasure! Thank you for the love and support. You keep showing up, and i'll keep putting videos out! God Bless!

[@ttttttttttttttttt349]

@@EdMylettShow amazing I sent this video to my mentor and friend who is at the highest level of our business. I expressed to her how much listening to you daily and also the 2 or 3 replays of each message has helped me so much, which she has seen in me as well. Here's the thing that blew me away, she was so excited I shared your words with her, of course she is at the top TOP ,but it made me love and appreciate her so much more that she was excited to hear what has been helping me so much. The fact that she is humble, as you are, even where she is at and wanting to learn more from you made my heart grow., She has the mindset of continuing her growth and willing to learn more and more(even at her level in our company)! I can't thank you enough for what you do! God definitely had a reason for me to stumble across your messages. @edmylett YOU are changing people! will continue to grow as well. Hugs from Texas!! 🔥🔥🙏🙏 I mean ALL of this from "my whole heart" as my 9 year old son would say!! #MAXOUT

[@JahzemaFitzHenley]

I am going to meet you someday. Your influence on me making decisions that brings out my best self is priceless. Thank you for so generously sharing wisdom. 🙏🏽

[@pimptastic0107]

Thanks Ed. I have read lots of books about communication and sales so it was great to find most of that content here condensed into less than 30 minutes. Keep up the great work!

[@EdMylettShow]

WOW!! Thank you. Seriously, comments like these really make me go harder! Was there something in particular that stood out to you the most?

[@heatherbrandt4539]

Amazing! Love your perspective and your openness to be vulnerable and real!

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you! Appreciate the love and support. What's 1 thing that resonated with you in this video?

[@smitpatel3319]

I love your humility! Every time I listen to you, I think back to what I consider my "strengths" and what I can do to improve them! #InspiredToImprove

[@EdMylettShow]

This was probably one of my favorite Personal videos yet !! What was your favorite takeaway from the video?

[@smitpatel3319]

@@EdMylettShow I have always been one to try to read people beyond their words. I absolutely loved how you focused on understand an individual's almost "hidden intent" rather than just focusing on their words. I find that extremely important for me as I continue growing and building my trust in people, especially in terms of business.

[@miranditabrava6124]

Ed, this is a game changer for me. I try to finish other people's sentence at time. This is my struggle. Thank you for the three tips. I will start implementing this tonight at training.

[@ohgodimgood]

Such excellent advice! I love how Ed admits he has problems with listening, too.

[@stuartbaucom8706]

Ed, I am going to watch this again and probably as many times as I watched your interview with Dr. Joe D. which at this point has been 5 at least and I find myself wanting to watch it again. With a Massive MAN Hug Thank you

[@lougaru2445]

This is a tremendous outline of a general conversation

[@jasonrice-ctksambassador]

What and opportunity that guy missed out on 3 hours in a jet with you Ed and no questions asked .I would fly from Australia 20 hours to sit and be able ask questions with all your amazing wisdom,knowledge and experience you have to offer and then hop back on a plane an go home again Thanks for all the powerful information you share you are making a big difference in this world in peoples life’s including mine i enjoy listening to all you youtube clips Thanks Jason

[@supercamargo]

Thank you 🙏🏼 Ed!