This is where I'm stuck at. I want to be on hormones, but I also don't want to lose my sexual function. I'm neutral about my genitals and don't like the idea of surgery because of the pain and various other things that come with it that I don't feel is worth it because of my neutral feelings. So I still want to use what I have, but I also don't want to lose function of it and my libido. It also doesn't help that my "love language" is touch, where I'm always in contact with my partner, so sex plays a large part in bonding as well. So I feel stuck between two strong desires and I don't know which to choose.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Talk to you doctor about ways you can try to preserve as much as you can.
@jeffreyalfier46212 жыл бұрын
To bring the libido back up I've also heard about micro-testosterone treatments for MTF transgender people.
@Genevieve111 Жыл бұрын
Diane... what do you hope to attain from HT... ?
@cryptolio52732 жыл бұрын
You are literally the first doctor I have heard who has talked about how different trans people feel differently about their genitals in terms of dysphoria. It seems like all of the doctors I have dealt with think that genital dysphoria is a required symptom for all transgender people.
@jwenting2 жыл бұрын
depending on where you are in the world, this may well be the case legally. It certainly used to be where I live and still may be used as the main indicator for diagnosing gender dysphoria (and thus as the primary if not sole indicator whether to approve someone for transgender care).
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Not accurate at all! And it is also quite binary view that negates many concepts of gender formation to begin with.
@Genevieve111 Жыл бұрын
Right... dysphoria comes in many different guises... my dysphoria is my genitals... some one else may have a dysphoria about their facial hair... or their voice etc...
@patrickhealy2706 Жыл бұрын
I will be glad to be rid of my penis. It's only gotten me in trouble
@ciaraloch41072 жыл бұрын
My libido didn't really go away, it just kind of changed. it's not overbearing anymore and it feels right now. It seems much more nuanced and healthy than it did before and progesterone has only helped to further that sense of wellness. However, when I do get aroused I get more dysphoric than I used to over how my bottom area still sometimes reacts and it doesn't help that it is uncomfortable physically when that happens... I have a year before I become eligible for bottom surgery, It is also now more so all over, whether that is a sensation of tingly warmness or like I have lightning coursing through my veins and across my skin, rather than beginning more localized and muted feeling like it was prior to starting hrt. I think the thing I love the most is it never feels coercive like it used to but rather it feels inviting, gentle and fulfilling(which isn't to say that it can't be intense at times). Overall, how my libido has changed has been for the better and makes me much less dysphoric in it's current form. Sorry if this, tmi. I just wanted to relay my experience with how HRT changed my sex drive after a year.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Glad you shared your experiences as they will be helpful to others.
@marscha44582 жыл бұрын
Your video started without sound and I saw you making gestures (referring to the shorts on IG and TicToc) and I thought: oooh, dr Z is being very graphic today! 😂
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha ohh thats funny given the first gesture I do.
@acsweetham75582 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dr Z. Do you know how encouraging it is to hear this being discussed? It likely applies to a number of people, and if, like me, it’s not easy to talk about such things, even though it matters, seeing someone else getting the ball rolling is really helpful 🙏🏻
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Ohh this is very important topic. The younger generation will feel very different about their genitals too. The nature and effect of dysphoria will and does change.
@stevencarlton5541 Жыл бұрын
Very happy for you to figure out what what was happening to you continue on the success live free ❤️
@Chuckles3782 жыл бұрын
Hi, doctor! Thank you for posting this video. As a trans woman who fits into the category of those who have not been able to have confirmation surgery because of economic reasons, I really appreciate this post. The dysphoria inducing prospect of Viagra has been a hurdle for me that I have not been able to clear. I do long for sexual intimacy with my wife, though. I'm still not sure how to reconcile my dysphoria with my longing, but this has certainly helped. Thank you.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Hope you will find something that works for you. Many have to find a way to re-late to their genitals in a more gender neutral way.
@leamissyoy2 жыл бұрын
I had thought about this problem but I realize that having an erection bothers me because it is a clear outward sign of domination and for me the loss of erection due to my hormone intake will be rather a benefit, on the other hand I hope that my libido will not disappear, but I have a very strong sexual appetite, so I expect a reduction but not a total cancellation. Thank you for the video. :) 💅
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@1swalsh2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Dr Z! I have been transitioning for 8 months now, am on 75mg estradiol (and no T blockers), have noted only a slight diminishing of libido and function, but still have acceptable functionality of my genitals so far. I do fall into the category of those who don't hate that part of my body, and at first thought maybe I'd keep it. I'm now thinking I do want the bottom surgery eventually, but hope to remain functional and able to engage in a healthy sex life regardless. I've already addressed this with the physician who prescribed me hormones and they had no problem whatsoever with issuing me a script for Viagra when and if I need it. The issue of if am really right for transition if I want to keep my 'original issue equipment' never came up and I don't gett the feeling she is doubting my genuine need and wish to transition at all. To all those who worry about this... Don't worry. It's not usually (in my experience) an issue. If your doctor does begin to doubt you because of this - perhaps it's time to find a doctor who better understands the complex and interwoven issues involved, or to educate them (politely) yourself!
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@gaylepaschke55912 жыл бұрын
Always very informative. I just have a different type of feeling which now I understand. Some people have different reasons for what they do. Right now I feel comfortable in my stage of transition.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thats great. Its all so personal.
@roman-pz2ft2 жыл бұрын
You are incredibly smart and intelligent! You deserve more than a million subscribers🙏🏼❤️
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh thank you!
@christiejean18552 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Z, Please consider posting your 'video shorts' from Instagram and TikTok here on youtube as well, maybe under a playlist. After over 2 years on HRT I started Cialis about a year and half ago for 2 reasons. First my spouse was still interested in intercourse and second I had some concerns that my genital material may not be enough to use for vaginoplasty and read at least one case of a trans woman using Cialis to maintain penis size for later surgery. It kind of through the pharmacist for a loop when I came in with an updated prescription for Estradiol, and scripts for Spironolactone, Progesterone, AND Cialis but with the help of a supervisor all my scripts were filled. Good Times! Thanks for all you do! Christie
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Hi. Ohh I would but I am already posting them on TikTok, FB and IG and thats just too many place ;)). And I am one woman show here Glad to hear Cialis worked out for you!
@user-nd7rd8jo6h2 жыл бұрын
I'm a very sexually active person. 😌 now I don't use mine in a penetrative fashion but I do have a healthy relationship with it and don't want to lose out on my sexual expression just because I'm gonna be on estrogen. So I'm gonna 100% make sure I express if I'm having discomfort or feeling that malaise. Thank you.
@simplyjusteric2329 ай бұрын
This is the boat I’m on. Which is why I haven’t started estrogen
@user-nd7rd8jo6h9 ай бұрын
@@simplyjusteric232 You know what's funny about Comments from somewhere over a year ago? I'm currently 7months post op 😅 cause apparently "I'm on good terms with my junk" was a mask The solution I did come to while I was pre op to maintain my libido was a combo of Progesterone and Testosterone via TGel (basically just enough to keep my libido So I wouldn't let that stop you from trying estrogen if you are feeling dysphoric
@GLITeryGutZ2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the information!I just started e and I wanted know more about the side effects that I wasn't told about
@Yaboijack5 ай бұрын
Im mtf, my dysphoria is almost everything but my genitals, i like my genitals to be honest, I have no intention on bottom surgery, but i hope anyone else here gets the procedures they want. Good to see someone else highlighting that it's not essential to dysphoria, because i really dont like how masculine my body is. My libido has dropped a lot, but never went, it was a bit much before going on hormones 😅 but function has dropped a fair amount, not completely though, luckily.
@IzzaKoshkina2 жыл бұрын
omg, you're literally glowing in this video ;D
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!
@Genevieve111 Жыл бұрын
I noticed this also... 😊👍
@ChristianCatboyАй бұрын
I'm not having any trouble with lowered libido or arousal. What I'm having trouble with is the fact that my genitals have gotten to be so much physically softer now, and I'm still used to treating them quite roughly. Sometimes I wonder if I'd rather reduce Spiro, to moderate that effect. Maybe the topical T idea is one for me to consider...
@TravellingOntario Жыл бұрын
OMG YES!!!! i love the feminization but when i had my T Lowered i missed the sexual side of things, love your videos!!!
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and talk to your medical doctor, there are options there.
@spartysmile5243 Жыл бұрын
Perfect earrings, enrich your style. So wonderful.
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@dekudum9929 Жыл бұрын
I'm non-binary... I've kinda been interested in starting HRT but I don't fully want to be feminine? I want to be more androgynous and hopefully keep my sexual function (because I personally have no dysphoria related to my genitals). I read something about taking normal dosed estrogen with a mirco dose of testosterone (no androgen blockers iirc) and how it can be possible to keep sexual function + become more androgynous rather than feminine... is this true/safe if your opinion?
@davidchalabian4698 ай бұрын
heeey.. have the same concern, but seems to me there's not a lotta info abt it here..
@gwendolinegoetz92242 жыл бұрын
I took an appointment with my psychiatrist regarding this topic. To fix my bladder cancer, I had a chemotherapy followed by a prostatecystectomy with an urostomy. Since then the effects of my low dosed HRT for menopaused woman, that I am, seems to be huge physically, but also on the psychics. My genitals shrunk and worse cannot be used anymore (side effect of the surgery). The psychics is even more affected: dysphoria, libido, sexual orientation, etc.
@EtherealGoddess_Ent2 жыл бұрын
Definitely in the neutral group this popping up at the time you uploaded it is so well synced in my life and my current experiences
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@nathanbernards Жыл бұрын
Viagra could learn a thing or 2 from the razor industry, just sell the same pill but pink and at a markup! Lol😅
@user-qo9xu6fe5x2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. Z.! Thank you for all this amazing content that you create. How can you deal with having to wait a couple of months before being able to take hormones? I had my first doctor appointment about hrt today and I still need some psychological evaluations and medical examinations. Now I'm excited, because as it seems, I might be able to go on hormones at the end of the year. But how do I deal with the waiting period? It seems to me that now i'm somehow in greater pain than before because I have a better understanding of what it is going to be like and I'm getting impatient.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about the wait. It seems to be a real issue in many parts of the world. Here is a thing, while its hard, recognized you already took a step forward and its just a matter of time. In a meantime, see if there are other things you need to put in order such as support system.
@gorgeousnoxy4812 жыл бұрын
I would recommend doing what you can do in order to help you feel as best as you can right now. I don't want to assume what you are transitioning to, but as an example if you are transitioning from male to female and your facial hair bothers your, keep your face shaven clean as much as you can. Start growing your hair out if you want to, play dress up in private where you feel safe and comfortable doing so. If mirrors bother you, cover them up. If you're going female to male, then building muscle or something might interest you. Do what you can and do the best you can. You could be taking the time to research and plan your path forward as well. There is a lot to do. Transition is a long long road, so plan for the long haul.
@user-qo9xu6fe5x2 жыл бұрын
@@DRZPHD thank you! I'll try to focus on other, smaller steps now!
@emreduygun9 ай бұрын
Why would that be a problem, if the individual wants that to happen anyway
@Christine_Robyn Жыл бұрын
I am not worried about sexual function at this point in my life. I just want to feel better.
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Totally hear you. Health comes first.
@Katemccutcheon12462 жыл бұрын
How does one raise their sexual desire?
@maygayming52752 жыл бұрын
Or some people like me are salmacian and yeah. But like I need my T and E to be on the high side lol but need T low for a while. Fortunately I don't have any problems functioning when my T is like zero. The experience is very different though. Not any better or worse for me but my body feels very different when having sexy time
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@eli4shawt8 ай бұрын
I do have a lot of gender dysphoria, I don’t necessarily want to be transexual regardless. I’m in between the ideas that either maybe (I’m a man) taking testosterone could change my mind or that taking estrogen could help me further embody how I feel as a man if that makes sense, I’d like to be beautiful in my own right and I wonder if doing the hormones without the surgeries could help me do that. Something I’ve been open to the idea of lately but I’m not sure how all of this works and if maybe I simply could lack testosterone I don’t know
@fiamedknuff2 жыл бұрын
I definitely plan to have bottom surgery as soon as possible. Dysphoria makes it impossible for me to have healthy sexual relationship. I get too much anxiety by the thought of penetrating a female partner which makes it impossible for me to maintain an erection. I also don't want my partner to touch my male genitalia which makes it even harder for me to have healthy sexual relationship with a cishet woman who sees me as a man due to my male genitalia. I haven't had successful PIV intercourse for almost ten years and little blue pills don't help.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@atheistbewildered2987 Жыл бұрын
have you considered testosterone if your T level is not in the high normal levels for a male your age
@fiamedknuff Жыл бұрын
@atheistbewildered2987 Why on earth would I ever want that?
@jwenting2 жыл бұрын
Used to be here until a few years ago that you could by law not be recognised as transgender (and thus not legally transition) until after you had undergone gender reassignment surgery. At the same time it was impossible to legally get gender reassignment surgery until after you had legally transitioned. As a result it was impossible to transition get either unless you got the surgery on the black market abroad (as no surgeon in the country would provide it for fear of losing their license)! This was changed only in 2015 and an apology for the inhumane nature of that legislation wasn't forthcoming from the government until 2021. I've never been sexually active except attempts at masturbation, which never did much for me (I've never had an orgasm afaik and I'm in my 50s). I guess that's a result of suppressed gender dysphoria. I don't "hate" my genitals, I just don't have any real use for them, they just get in the way most of the time :) I'm not sure whether getting gender reassignment surgery is worth it for me as a result, especially since with my severely negative past experience (both personal and through experience of family members) I have serious trust problems with the medical profession as a whole and specifically hospitals. I've nearly lost 2 toes due to botched surgery, my mother lost a leg due to botched surgery and later lost her life due to another medical error. My father suffered a lifetime of chronic back problems due to botched surgery and later suffered from more medical malpractice. My sister suffered through 10 years of having incorrect medication because of several doctors misdiagnosing what in the end turned out to be a simple but uncommon food allergy. The list goes on and on. So even thinking about spending several weeks in the care of a hospital to undergo major surgery, plus the months of regular visits during recovery afterwards gives me serious anxiety already, and that surgery (were it to happen at all) is 7+ years in the future for me because of the waiting lists here...
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Horrible what we do to people with laws. I am sorry you experienced this.
@Genevieve111 Жыл бұрын
Your terminology is incorrect... it's not Gender Reassignment Surgery... it's Sex Reassignment Surgery...
@jwenting Жыл бұрын
@@Genevieve111 uh, nope. That is an old and incorrect term that's long been superseded
@Genevieve111 Жыл бұрын
@@jwenting Surgery on your 'bilogical' body part(s)... 'Vagina/Penis/Breasts' are biological... Gender is not... Gender is more linked to our personalities... you cannot have a 'surgical procedure' on your 'Gender'...
@Miniwheat-j9z Жыл бұрын
Here's a question; as male to female transitioner, should I use viagra ofr men or viagra for women. I have heard that they work differently. It makes sense to me to consider this is Im already taking estrodial.
@Rebecca-ys3cb5 ай бұрын
Men
@shyanneoshea62822 жыл бұрын
you are absolutely amazing , thank you
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
You are most welcome.
@leaaba29652 жыл бұрын
I always wished hrt to lower my sexual desire but it made it worse , I don't know what to do now, I am so isolated that i can't be active sexually.
@davidglez10097 ай бұрын
I have been a few years in hormones and I feel really frustrated when in relation with my partner I begin to get an erection. Is there a way that I can feel erased only as a woman? I am waiting for the date of my operation but will take at least two years. In the mean time what can I do?
@weilaiyvn_DEACTIVATED2 жыл бұрын
I'm neutral, but despite before I been addicted to it, today I barely have libido. A real change. So I think there's a chance of my libido almost vanishes.
@Cradle2dagrav Жыл бұрын
I can say that I wish i was further along and could already have the surgery, but i can also say i dont hate my penis. I think that has alot to do with understanding that i will need it for the surgery. I can also say that i dont get aroused in the same ways as before. I also have developed a stronger desire for men to the point that i am no longer interested in women. Performance wise, i can have erections but i dont enjoy the acts that would provide pleasure for a male. Instead I have enjoyment when i am treated like a woman with my partner
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@ralphs882 жыл бұрын
I have bad genital dysphoria and can't wait till I can have gender affirming surgery. But with that said after I take my estradiol injection I am very for lack of a better word horny. This lasts for 24 to 48 hours. I don't get a super hard errection but to satisfy my self I use toys. Is this a normal thing to experience arousal for an amount of time after injection or patch changes. Also did it with patch changes when I was on the patch. Also your on line sessions does it matter where I live.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Yes you must be resident of CA, FL, TX, or NY.
@davidmicheletti62922 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this presentation. I have a bit of a different situation that I deal with. You see I was born with a profound intersex body type. As a older adult this has caused me a whole life time of issues starting as a child when I had surgery to repair a undescended testis that resulted in several additional hours of surgeries as a result. I really do not know exactly what was done during these surgeries but the effect was profound. Ive never been told but as an adult this very same testis became malignant with stage three testicular - ovarian cancer. in addition several more germ cell mature teratoma were removed from my body. One was 17.5 cm long and the one removed from my lower abdomen was 10 cm. In addition it was apparent other things were removed from my abdomen as a child as voids were found in later surgeries that suggested it. As you would expect ive never seen myself as a standard model of what a male should be. With one testis proving to be a fetal ovary with an attached germ cell teratoma and the other testis having grown to about half of normal adult size. Sexually I am not attracted to males nor females but for some reason I did fall in love with a young women and we have been married for over forty years. We enjoyed sex but as you can imagine I have major issues. One is I am not well developed sexually and two Ive always felt uncomfortable preforming sexually as a male. Having said that I do enjoy our time together and we make my over all short comings work, so we must be doing something right. Clearly Im intersex but also I am transgender. I vision myself as a sort of a male female hybrid, for lack of a better word. Over all I have never cared to pretend to be male, I don't care for males. But l lived as one while hating ever moment that I had to preform as one. Ive seen phycologists over the years and have weight the ideas of transitioning to female on some level. But as you would expect ive had so many questions. Ive love one and only one person during my whole life and will forgo anything I do that will in anyway harm our relationship. She is very comfortable with me presenting as a female. what I fear if if I take estrogen will I risk losing my attraction for her? What action can I do to help me , for example should I try just taking a low dose of estrogen? If I should not have bottom surgery yet still wish to have some degree of sexual relationship with her could something be done to to maintain the use of my own penal tissue? Could you list those options. Surgeries a a child and later as an adult with cancer surgeries has caused some side effects sexually.
@Sagewyn2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, need to be careful partner isn't inadvertently exposed to topical hormones.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Also, I believe you apply it prior to let it absorb on the skin. Talk to the doctor.
@Sagewyn2 жыл бұрын
@@DRZPHD Thanks for all your hard work and generosity of your time.
@mitchself18232 жыл бұрын
Something of a topicin future . Disassocisted identiy disorder. . For a cause of transgenderism. One of my alters is a sexualy active female. . so. Powerfull she isi feel. As i am her and behave ad so.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for future topic idea.
@princessaxel Жыл бұрын
so I am a non binary person (male hormones atm) who plans to take HRT to feminize myself because that is what I’m comfortable with, but I have noticed my libido is high like a normal male usually is. but I always feel uncomfortable with how much I crave sexual activities and I don’t know if that’s because of my age (22) or in general. I just feel uncomfortable with how much erections I get/how much i crave sex. and I have a question, does that have to do with myself or is that something that would help when I take HRT. what I imagine/what i want to happen when I start HRT is that my libido will be significantly go down and I won’t get as much as erections and to be honest I don’t really mind that. I still want to to keep my genitals for sexual activity, but I don’t really like having that much erections or just thinking of the idea of sex at all so because my libido will be very low, will my brain be OK with not having a lot of sex because my libido has gone down or will my libido go down and I won’t feel good that I can’t express sexual activity as much now?? sorry im just confused a bit.
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Hi, this is a great question and I will answer in my Monday Q&A videos.
@princessaxel Жыл бұрын
@@DRZPHD thank u! ily btw!
@ozam359 ай бұрын
Can I asck you Question ? Dose P Pureraria Mirfica + Wild Yam +Doung Quai Effect spearm production
@EtherealGoddess_Ent2 жыл бұрын
Wow😮
@DrayseSchneider2 жыл бұрын
I'm in camp 2, my genitals don't cause me dysphoria even though I intend to get GCS at some point. I'm on Cyproterone Acetate, reduced to 0.25 its original dosage when I began having erectile dysfunction, and estradiol. I realize a lot of it has to do with rewiring my brain but there are male and female partners that would like to be penetrated, and I them, and it's frustrating that I usually cannot. I've considered Viagra, and my MD was kind enough to prescribe some for me but I've never had it filled. Many of my sexual interactions involve the use of poppers and poppers are contraindicationed with Viagra and the like. I've been considering topical testosterone for some months now as I suspect my hypothalamic-pituitory-gonadal axis might be shutdown. I don't feel dysphoric about the idea as I don't believe that hormones are "male" or "female" as we all have the same hormones just in different ratios. Mainly, I don't want to disappoint my partner, whomever they are.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@paigemcloughlin49052 жыл бұрын
Estrogen has really attenuated my libido to the point that it is barely there. If I apply effort sometimes I can maintain an erection but it is a fifty-fifty chance that I will orgasm. I find if I work at it I can get some recovery but it doesn't come easy. I don't have much gender dysphoria around my penis but I do miss my old sexual function.
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to about that. IT does that for a lot of people.
@KamillaMirabelle11 ай бұрын
I truly HATE my genitals.. and østrogen and testosteron blocker arn't stopping them from workkng 😓 and my testosteron levels are next to 0.. My sex drive, has gone down in the way that i do not have the "male impulsiv need" drive.. but i most definitely have a sexdrive itnjust different
@RaymondRay-q1k5 ай бұрын
DR Z I want become like girl 😊
@patrickhealy2706 Жыл бұрын
How soon can I expect to lactate
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Talk to your medical doctor.
@patrickhealy2706 Жыл бұрын
I want to be like Anita Ekberg
@elsieparker8802 Жыл бұрын
Lactation is not a normal effect of HRT. Prolactin is necessary for lactation, and your body won't make that unless you have a prolactinoma, which is a tumor on your pituitary gland that makes prolactin. This is entirely expected of a female body, as no human body naturally lactates except after pregnancy or a few other more rare circumstances.
@RaymondRay-q1k5 ай бұрын
My gender 2inci DR Z🥺
@emmagetya9 ай бұрын
Im a mtf and would give up sexual function being great for looking like i want. I'm not dysphoric about my penis, but I would like a vagina. My wife is great and is very supportive either way. Its nice hearing you talk about dysphoria between people and how some are okay with thier genitals
@JayLeslie-v5j10 ай бұрын
i want o be a girl!
@patrickhealy2706 Жыл бұрын
I'm enjoying the estrogen treatment
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@iago97211 ай бұрын
Vedova con due figli quota disponibile
@HappyAstrolabe-lm5xt8 ай бұрын
My ex girlfriend and mother of our three daughters put estrogens everyday in my food and did this to me and now I wear panties mini skirt flat ladies sandals Bra and blouse and lipstick and nail polish every day and I am happy she did what she did lm a woman now and she laughs when I think her for making sure that I am a woman and my daughters are happy what Mum did to me I love shopping with my ex and doughters and her Mum and aunties and all good I love what she did to me
@christianmariaprinz8749 Жыл бұрын
Althoug a little late I want to share my experience with you as well asking you a question. I'm on Estrogen now for somewhat over 4 yrs, and have accompanied that nearly the same time with progesterone. My physical sexual arousal before HRT was somehow like a traitor as it seems to work "without permission". My intimate sexual life starts even after HRT. To be precise it really became awakened just about 9 month ago. Although an erection was hard to achieve my overall emotional feelings are the first time such as to enjoy sexuality. Bevore it was just something physiological, more or less aimed at reproduction. Well, starting my transition path, bottom surgery was not an issue, because I didn't have dysphoria against my male genitals. I just wanted to express my genuine being in a (my) feminine way and from a physical point of view I wanted to have breasts and a female appearance. But as the time went on, and I get into deep contact with my female self I couldn't imagine to have sexual pleasure with either sex having a penis. This is because it does o longer feel authentic for me. So it turned out that I had become dysphoric because of my transition. this is still ok and does not stress me in any ways. To summarize: HRT freed my sexuality and I never want loose it resp. I now want to celebrate having the right body for my female SELF. The brings me to my question: how does HRT affect libido AFTER bottom surgery? Will I be able to make my way to experiencing the joy of a sexual female life after "shrinking2 my penis to a clitoris? Is your suggestion for microdosing testosterone locally still an opportunity or are there other ways you know? Sorry if there are still some videos addressing this topic, I didn't scroll through the tons of great material you provided during all the past years. Greetings to you and all out there from Vienna/Austria Maria
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Hi Maria! This is a great question and I do not have video addressing it so def will do in Q&A!
@gargoyled_drake Жыл бұрын
oh yes, the outdated providers... like the official medical industry in almost all of europe! DIY is actually more effective than going to your doctor as it is right now in europe. The worst part, is that, we can see from other things that have become accepted more and more in the world. Europe is always the last place to actually follow up and follow along on the all over acceptance, when it comes to laws, infrastructure on society and such. unless our politicians stop thinking that they them selves know what's best for people who seek out hrt, this whole thing will be a lot more painless with DIY. Except those same politicians just made it almost impossible to do DIY, as it's just become even more illegal, just because of hrt and trans rights. i'm sick of this world and how the greedy and stupid are the ones being handed the ropes to control the stage.
@DRZPHD Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and I wish you all the best.
@myjohnsonnuranus80532 жыл бұрын
Well it can't have much of an effect because I've watch really good trans pourn & they are totally banging 💥
@DRZPHD2 жыл бұрын
For a lot of trans folks in porn industry it is often erectile medication.
@elsieparker8802 Жыл бұрын
Also it is very common for trans women in porn to go off of HRT before shoots in order to have that function.
@febrisalfie1649 Жыл бұрын
Make impoten forever
@manueld76432 жыл бұрын
😎 𝓟Ř𝔬𝓂𝔬𝐒ϻ
@shoop39636 ай бұрын
i've heard from other trans women that you might lose interest in certain sexual preferences. what scares me the most is losing attraction to my fiance. i wouldn't want to go through life without her, and losing attraction to her is something i just can't risk.