Ego Death: How my Trauma Humbled Me

Let me take you along today how my most painful story humbled me. The Ego is a wonderful thing, but breaking my Ego helped me out so much further in my life.
How do you treat your ego?
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Thanks for watching, more to come!
Love, Mischa
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[@Lilablaublassgruen]

🖤💜🖤 Looking at life from a further persoective, looking back, I would say, that's the bad, painful and sad situations which tought me the most. Out of my perspective from NOW ;). Jepp, trying to cover, hide, numb or supress feelings - especially the painful - consciously or without any knowledge of your coping mechanism - doesn't bring you forward or just doesn't make you feel well, complete/ whole, happy, satisfied ... yourself. Its just like a patch which doesn't hold forever. But, I mean, something which was broken once, never will be 'perfect' and without 'wounds', BUT thats life and experiences and if the 'wounds/defects' are threated well and nit just covered up by 'more or less destructive' coping mechanism, there is something quite beautiful and unique coming out of it! 🖤 I really do believein it! I personally believe in 'the universe' or 'something including all', 'connecting all' and which also mostly send us the tasks we need to connect and find to our 'true self'. But thats just put in simple words. That topic is, I think, not so easy to put in words. Definitely, the one who has 'true friends' is a lucky, suported, truely loved and 'rich' person. Friendship and love also includes to speak out ones personal truth and opinion. Of course in a respectful way and always in the sense of love and not for any ego or hurtful reasons. I call it authenticity. And its not easy always! Especially if you experienced a history of 'neglect or equal hurting and damaging behaviour' when talking out your personal truth or opinon or needs or ... . Hope its undersandable. I think, its always helpful to get different input (if meant helpful and caring and loving) and you just also can grow through 'well meant critics' and of course, you can always decide how to deal with it and if you take it 'in' or just listen and 'leave it out' and keep your perspective. True love, not just the 'romanic' one, but also friendship, also includes differences, 'conflict' (I mean, being able to hace different opinions, perspectives, views or sth.like this - of course, for me personally there are also borders in my acceptance of different 'opinions') and always feeling free to truely (always with respect) behave and say what you think, feel, want or don't want. ... Have a great weekend ☺️! (What kind of summer might the universe send to us this year? I am a little afraid. Not just of the development of the weather! ' ;) ' )

[@Anonymous-nj2ow]

some wise words here. i'm middle aged and couple challenges for me was death of my mother and a career change forced upon me. I try to remember the "a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step" a lot, because lifes that way for a lot of things, either waiting for a promotion or saving up some money. Rarely anything substantial happens overnight.