The Power Of Walking Away

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Why walking away is a powerful method to regain sovereignty over your life.
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@krokodyl1927
@krokodyl1927 4 жыл бұрын
‘Don’t stay where you are tolerated. Go where you are celebrated.’ 👍
@kennypham3856
@kennypham3856 4 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah!
@nickfranco2915
@nickfranco2915 4 жыл бұрын
I kinda disagree on that, based on my experience, I prefer to spend my time with my "real" friends, who see me as an equal, knows my failures and accept me for my flaws, sometimes going to people who celebrate you is often, boring, you dont feel yourself, you feel trapped and maybe they dont like the same things as you.
@magentamoonchild
@magentamoonchild 4 жыл бұрын
Being "tolerated" while safe, for a better word....is still, not good enough and quite frankly, hurtful !
@Nymphetiquette
@Nymphetiquette 4 жыл бұрын
True. But it is hard when you have limited options for socialization. It's either being tolerated or being depressed at home (need to work on that!)
@WinterWolf99
@WinterWolf99 4 жыл бұрын
Most people probably aren't celebrated anywhere
@elisamuels8331
@elisamuels8331 5 жыл бұрын
If your absence brings me peace, I did not lose you.
@lvi8957
@lvi8957 5 жыл бұрын
👊😂
@viktor821
@viktor821 5 жыл бұрын
I like this quote, thanks
@2legit2Kwit
@2legit2Kwit 5 жыл бұрын
Eli Samuels amen
@jamiewulfyr4607
@jamiewulfyr4607 5 жыл бұрын
😎👌💯
@monkmode4030
@monkmode4030 5 жыл бұрын
Never saw it like that, you literally explained my situation
@marziadiba1063
@marziadiba1063 5 жыл бұрын
Walking away from toxic people becomes easy when you love yourself
@src4526
@src4526 5 жыл бұрын
oh yes self esteem. yawn.
@loonylinn8824
@loonylinn8824 5 жыл бұрын
Marzia Diba everytime i walk away from my toxic family my sister in-law is like an FBI or CIA who always know where i am eventhough i didn’t tell anyone where i am going. when found they always blackmail me to people i am in associate with.
@marziadiba1063
@marziadiba1063 5 жыл бұрын
@@loonylinn8824 Dont worry you will be fine. There will be a day when nobody will dare to treat you wrongly. Beleive in yourself that only you can control urself. Love yourself unconditionaly.Trust me you will be fine. Tc buddy
@V_For_Vigilante
@V_For_Vigilante 5 жыл бұрын
Perfect comment
@snowwalker9999
@snowwalker9999 5 жыл бұрын
Just make sure you do it calmly and with dignity.
@AB-vc7ox
@AB-vc7ox 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never regretted walking away from anything or anyone. What I do regret, is not having done it sooner than I did.
@mxbadboy263
@mxbadboy263 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! Both in a long time friend and in walking away from a long time job. Should have walked away from both five years before I did.
@thedjc100
@thedjc100 3 жыл бұрын
Preach it brother (or sister)!
@robbyalcas4565
@robbyalcas4565 3 жыл бұрын
I do feel the same!!..:/
@richardhernandez8937
@richardhernandez8937 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@phil4863
@phil4863 3 жыл бұрын
Stole my words
@mariellencressman9624
@mariellencressman9624 4 жыл бұрын
My new favorite line has become: "We don't share common values. I wish you the best on your journey."
@carribgirl007
@carribgirl007 4 жыл бұрын
I love your line it is so true🥰 Mine is "we're not vibrating on the same level. I wish you all the best on your journey"
@hedonismandhoney1112
@hedonismandhoney1112 4 жыл бұрын
goin use that
@InayahDaneen
@InayahDaneen 4 жыл бұрын
I’m using it now ✅
@ianw7816
@ianw7816 4 жыл бұрын
Although, I think it's proactive to have further discussion, to keep open to consideration, expanding the reflection on their and my values. It might prove to serve you, and or them. I see this period characterized by personal, prideful bubbles. I realize such a tact is simply democracy, yet before too long we will find ourselves with no other to discuss and reflect with, and there is no such dishonorable a condition.. Because I've gone there, I know. Peace
@mariellencressman9624
@mariellencressman9624 4 жыл бұрын
@@ianw7816 I give chances before I resort to this. Not a fan of cancel culture. But I am a fan of protecting my peace. A lot of toxic people get away with transgressions bc "we should just forgive" or "just give them a chance." If there are numerous red flags, patterns and repeated offenses, you handed me the scissors ✂️ so don't be mad that I cut you off. This isn't done out of spite or hate. It's self love.
@kitcloudkicker72
@kitcloudkicker72 4 жыл бұрын
Time is something you will never get back. Don't waste your time on people who bring you down.
@I-Am-Prospering-I-Am-Grateful
@I-Am-Prospering-I-Am-Grateful 4 жыл бұрын
@Sharon Jensen omg... you are so right! I never thought about that until now, and looking back, those negative people were always late, and didn't realize (or care, or apologize)... so disrespectful.
@humilis42
@humilis42 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. What I do for a living is not common. I am yet to meet people who are 100% supportive. They either want handouts or treat me like I don’t know what I am doing. It’s insulting. Those people I immediately cutoff. There are no announcements made, just “BYE” 👋
@Dragonfly_magictarot
@Dragonfly_magictarot 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@thealientryingtobeahuman7709
@thealientryingtobeahuman7709 4 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is, sometimes the people who bring you down are the people who you are stuck with
@dasmaniac1
@dasmaniac1 4 жыл бұрын
It's somewhat simple to do that, unless you are bringing yourself down.
@julierobinson8173
@julierobinson8173 5 жыл бұрын
self respect is better than seeking respect from others
@D1987Gd
@D1987Gd 4 жыл бұрын
WORDZ
@ariescandelas4855
@ariescandelas4855 4 жыл бұрын
julie robinson very true
@CosminPerisan
@CosminPerisan 4 жыл бұрын
There is no other way. If you don't respect yourself you will never have the respect of others.
@ohmytoshi
@ohmytoshi 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question. In order to maintain self-respect, what do you usually do?
@ohmytoshi
@ohmytoshi 4 жыл бұрын
Jewel Clark Thanks! I will keep them in mind.
@opedromagico
@opedromagico 3 жыл бұрын
“You've got to learn to leave the table when love's no longer being served.” - Nina Simone
@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 жыл бұрын
Such a good quote Pedro
@rajeshrsutube
@rajeshrsutube 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, beautifully said👌😇
@Gk2003m
@Gk2003m 3 жыл бұрын
While Nina is correct from the standpoint of this subject, if you are in a relationship to ‘get’ love you need to re-think your priorities. Because then you become the person who is demanding the time and attention of someone else, instead of giving freely.
@ferdrewflores3612
@ferdrewflores3612 3 жыл бұрын
Uuuu ! 💯💢💥👏🏼💪🙏
@tyardovdabulldht2340
@tyardovdabulldht2340 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Profound!
@msfcabrita
@msfcabrita 5 жыл бұрын
Walking away is an act of freedom. My time, my energy, my will, my life.
@zoyjoy4567
@zoyjoy4567 5 жыл бұрын
Can't walk away from death
@adfsteug
@adfsteug 5 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@Racso88e
@Racso88e 5 жыл бұрын
ha he he he but death is our destiny. So In a way everything we do is a step closer to it. It’s what we do before we get there.
@anitacarter8060
@anitacarter8060 5 жыл бұрын
Mariana C ....luv that!!!! ❣️✨😉✨
@fredericmoresmau4303
@fredericmoresmau4303 5 жыл бұрын
Evem if i find a thing to do and try to put it fourth...p they will just overwrite overwhelm me and make my thing futile as soon as they wamt... i ll feel that and get depressed
@viningscircle
@viningscircle 5 жыл бұрын
Losing a friend who turns out to be not genuine is not a loss, but in fact a gain. 👍
@Cynane27
@Cynane27 4 жыл бұрын
Just hurts when you've got history
@amormina3904
@amormina3904 4 жыл бұрын
My goodness this is my experience..i need to walk away😭
@Benzyl_Penoxide
@Benzyl_Penoxide 4 жыл бұрын
:’) I hope so, but the trade off is having no friends
@flord7240
@flord7240 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@anaparada7219
@anaparada7219 4 жыл бұрын
greetings from Arkansas my family and I are Christian now thank God make Jesus Christ your best friend not people on this Earth the Bible says curse is a man who trusts in man......people need to be all so comfortable with their own skin and be able to be alone and be all right and do things and travel and everything if they have no good family or no friends to help them and whatnot in their lives.... You find out who your true friends and family are when you have nothing
@sadafshaikhh
@sadafshaikhh 4 жыл бұрын
If you can attach, you can detach too. So walk away even if it's hard, I know you can :) I wish alot of abundance in your lives.
@ezequiel5260
@ezequiel5260 3 жыл бұрын
It took me a while but I did walk away. I was really in love so all my life plans and goals were betting on her to be there. It felt SO lonely when I finally left. It felt like even if I achieve a lot in life there would be no one to share it with. So I started talking again to her, but did something different. I respected myself while I kept giving her rope. Long story short she hanged herself with the rope I gave her. Now I KNOW I dodged a bullet, and I feel so much better.
@vishalrprajapati3375
@vishalrprajapati3375 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@angeliquereg
@angeliquereg 3 жыл бұрын
needed this
@oisinmccormack8195
@oisinmccormack8195 3 жыл бұрын
@@ezequiel5260 Jesus 😳
@fumarate1
@fumarate1 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't start walking from people until i hit the age of 42.
@rachelm2041
@rachelm2041 4 жыл бұрын
Don't cross oceans for people that wouldn't cross a puddle for you.
@cathihargaden1608
@cathihargaden1608 4 жыл бұрын
Great phrase
@Davidcavazos77
@Davidcavazos77 4 жыл бұрын
You can’t cross the ocean if your afraid to lose sight of the shore. I thinks that’s one?
@karenmenendez7469
@karenmenendez7469 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@irfanraza-lz3ye
@irfanraza-lz3ye 4 жыл бұрын
This meant a lot
@mjolninja9358
@mjolninja9358 4 жыл бұрын
Rachel M I blasted my medieval cannon at my neighbors house yesterday
@thumpertorque_
@thumpertorque_ 5 жыл бұрын
Never make the mistake of caring for someone more than they would for you, it will haunt you for life.
@northstar5919
@northstar5919 5 жыл бұрын
But people do, they enjoy that love pain
@thumpertorque_
@thumpertorque_ 5 жыл бұрын
@@northstar5919 You wish you could either erase that memory or ideally everything would've worked out but it's not a great feeling when it leaves you with only scars.
@injujuan8993
@injujuan8993 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds true but when you care for someone you don't know how much they care about you, you just do it out of love. And yes, when they betray you it hurts forever
@thumpertorque_
@thumpertorque_ 5 жыл бұрын
@@injujuan8993 Well, in my case she showed 10 time more emotions than I did so it felt like she genuinely cared. Heck, she's the one approached and showed attraction towards me first. There was a time when every decision I made revolved around her and I gave it all to her when I thought her feelings were genuine. So when she was gone, it felt like I lost everything. The stereotype about "males have less emotions" is completely the opposite. Men just express it less while their feelings are stronger while females like to show more than they care. Not to generalize too much because everyone is different but I'm judging this based on my experience.
@injujuan8993
@injujuan8993 5 жыл бұрын
@@thumpertorque_ Men are pure, yes, and their energy is strong. God bless. Take care
@dude4173
@dude4173 4 жыл бұрын
I learned this in my mid 20s. I’m 31 now and as soon as I sense toxicity in someone, I just leave. Our life is short on this planet, don’t allow toxic people to consume any of it.
@joshcoyne2983
@joshcoyne2983 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 24 and I’m so glad this happened to me. I’m cold hearted now, if someone so much as reminds a gives an off vibe when they respond to say me asking them a question I won’t make any effort with that person couldn’t care less about them
@dude4173
@dude4173 4 жыл бұрын
Pondering Life worked for the same employer for 12 years, have four strong friends that I met at 5 years old still. Nice assumption though
@neutronronnie9343
@neutronronnie9343 4 жыл бұрын
@@PonderingLifeToo We get better at jobs cause we don't waste energy on dealing with drama from others, we constantly get more and more experience from past jobs, most of us always have money in our pockets!. You know, I personally enjoy solitude more than anything!.
@KaRiNa-pj9sb
@KaRiNa-pj9sb 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this excellent advice.
@aori583
@aori583 4 жыл бұрын
@@dude4173 Thank for the advice a lot. It kinda proved to be useful in the long run cuz it helped me in 8 months
@alterzz2121
@alterzz2121 4 жыл бұрын
When respect is no longer served on the table, you get up and leave that table.
@moanapooh9726
@moanapooh9726 4 жыл бұрын
couldnt have said it better:o :p
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@keithmccaslyn2527
@keithmccaslyn2527 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Ding!! Bonus round!!
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 3 жыл бұрын
@@keithmccaslyn2527 facts
@thegworlsarefighting
@thegworlsarefighting 3 жыл бұрын
And that’s that on that
@lynnechin7789
@lynnechin7789 3 жыл бұрын
It wasn’t until I was in my sixties that I gave myself the following two gifts: 1. Stop being nice to people who are not nice 2. Stop trying to ‘win over’ people who don’t like me
@d.l.l.6578
@d.l.l.6578 3 жыл бұрын
OMG. I never did any of those things. Not from day one.
@mikerainwater6154
@mikerainwater6154 3 жыл бұрын
Real eyes realize REAL LIES 🥵😜
@shamshadsyed9482
@shamshadsyed9482 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks great advice
@letsgobrandon3007
@letsgobrandon3007 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t be nice because of who they are, be nice because of who you are.
@sallylemon5835
@sallylemon5835 3 жыл бұрын
They say kill em with kindness. No, I just verify people with kindness. Only those who deserved shall get it again from me.
@aswithinsowithout8374
@aswithinsowithout8374 5 жыл бұрын
One of the worst feelings in the world is being around people who make you feel lonely. It becomes easier once you let them go. Thanks for the video.
@sherryhall6946
@sherryhall6946 5 жыл бұрын
So true. I find myself in this situation.
@pattonkirkpatrick6521
@pattonkirkpatrick6521 5 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@davecullins1606
@davecullins1606 5 жыл бұрын
If they make you lonely, becoming actually alone can't really make that worse for you.
@Artaxian_Debacle
@Artaxian_Debacle 5 жыл бұрын
AsWithin SoWithout over time my ex was being distant from me and I felt more alone being with her than whenever I was single. I felt worthless and insecure the relationship was more stressful than enjoyable
@bklynslipnjimmy
@bklynslipnjimmy 5 жыл бұрын
True!
@deetrout7623
@deetrout7623 4 жыл бұрын
Have confidence in yourself even when it makes people uncomfortable.
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 4 жыл бұрын
Does my confidence make you feel uncomfortable?
@StargazerYo
@StargazerYo 4 жыл бұрын
Especially when**!
@richtofensanchez8233
@richtofensanchez8233 4 жыл бұрын
@Karakaš you nkhnjxfsk das k go To eiikikc Mfkdksl
@leonardodujali3431
@leonardodujali3431 4 жыл бұрын
Least you can do ❤️😓
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 4 жыл бұрын
Facts I had to learn that
@lorettaatencio7796
@lorettaatencio7796 4 жыл бұрын
In the past I have disrespected myself by not walking away. NOW i WILL walk away.
@irfanraza-lz3ye
@irfanraza-lz3ye 4 жыл бұрын
Next RUN
@Qwertyasdfg123
@Qwertyasdfg123 3 жыл бұрын
@@irfanraza-lz3ye NEXT FLY
@ezequiel5260
@ezequiel5260 3 жыл бұрын
how did it go?
@LonerStarGirl
@LonerStarGirl 3 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@bindasschannel6840
@bindasschannel6840 3 жыл бұрын
Yaa
@optimisticallyskeptical1842
@optimisticallyskeptical1842 4 жыл бұрын
Being able to walk isn't about disrespecting another, it's about respecting yourself.
@nahidkaramali3823
@nahidkaramali3823 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, thank you for this- It is about respecting yourself and your time.
@Handz4NatureProject
@Handz4NatureProject 4 жыл бұрын
And don't mistake loneliness for love, ever!
@moanapooh9726
@moanapooh9726 4 жыл бұрын
righttt and i enjoy my loneliness!
@jkk4666
@jkk4666 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed...I did that mistake twice..
@sophiegonzalez2841
@sophiegonzalez2841 4 жыл бұрын
SOOOOOO TRUE. LOVE HAS LOTS OF MEANINGS N SOMETIMES WE CHOOSE THE WRONG MEANING . TODAY IVE LEARN BETTER LONELY THAN MISERABLE . 🤶☕😀
@prabhakaranbaskar1400
@prabhakaranbaskar1400 3 жыл бұрын
What? What does this "dont mistake lonliness for love" mean?
@greyroof3120
@greyroof3120 3 жыл бұрын
@@prabhakaranbaskar1400 After googling it for some time I still can't explain it in my own words but found someone else's answer to that question. "When you're lonely and you meet someone you can often confuse your loneliness for someone as love"
@RetroHabit82
@RetroHabit82 4 жыл бұрын
Walked away from a go nowhere relationship, best decision ever.
@fabulosa002
@fabulosa002 3 жыл бұрын
same, amen to that!
@fumarate1
@fumarate1 3 жыл бұрын
yes I learnt that the hard way.
@b.k.r.doggielover5449
@b.k.r.doggielover5449 3 жыл бұрын
I walked away from someone who was pushing me away. I went online, a dating site and met a wonderful man, who is a Sergeant and serving now. More than that, he's gorgeous, well built and so sexy. It was a huge blessing walking away from someone who didn't want me.
@dumm3578
@dumm3578 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@tinag7506
@tinag7506 3 жыл бұрын
@@b.k.r.doggielover5449 sexy doesn't last long, but love and real connection does. Good for you!
@heavymeddle28
@heavymeddle28 4 жыл бұрын
"I don't have to be what you want me to be" Muhammad Ali
@awakenthegreatnesswithin
@awakenthegreatnesswithin 4 жыл бұрын
👊👏😎
@TheOpinionGuyy
@TheOpinionGuyy 3 жыл бұрын
But I want him to be healthy
@heavymeddle28
@heavymeddle28 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheOpinionGuyy aaah yea a healthy living Muhammad Ali... But in many ways he's immortal. He's a legend. A semi god. Or... A god 💪♥️🥊
@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265
@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 3 жыл бұрын
Ali is such a good example of following a path .. being himself .. his lessons make him immortal
@raquelserrano2403
@raquelserrano2403 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever be afraid to loose something you love, if you lost it, it was never yours
@paulfitzpatrick6566
@paulfitzpatrick6566 3 жыл бұрын
Wise words
@jamesortmann6587
@jamesortmann6587 Жыл бұрын
Lose*
@lawgx9819
@lawgx9819 4 жыл бұрын
the "aight, imma head out"
@Alexisvibe
@Alexisvibe 4 жыл бұрын
Lawgx haha facts
@MagisterialVoyager
@MagisterialVoyager 4 жыл бұрын
big mood
@aimanharith5817
@aimanharith5817 4 жыл бұрын
yes
@sudaarshanrajasekaran
@sudaarshanrajasekaran 4 жыл бұрын
*of life
@GuuMonster
@GuuMonster 4 жыл бұрын
literally haha
@abdulqudz89
@abdulqudz89 5 жыл бұрын
if your presence costs me happiness, integrity and dignity, i don't need your company.
@angelagoubeaux5591
@angelagoubeaux5591 4 жыл бұрын
True dat
@Jleed989
@Jleed989 4 жыл бұрын
And money!
@waldensiansylph4869
@waldensiansylph4869 4 жыл бұрын
Integrity.
@yuniq9gaming930
@yuniq9gaming930 5 жыл бұрын
Learning to say 'no' is an important lesson for us all.
@Angela-ee4ik
@Angela-ee4ik 5 жыл бұрын
True
@V_For_Vigilante
@V_For_Vigilante 5 жыл бұрын
True
@sorrychangedmyusername3594
@sorrychangedmyusername3594 5 жыл бұрын
True
@Mii.2.0
@Mii.2.0 5 жыл бұрын
Burglar: GIMME YOUR MONEY! Me: No. Burglar: *shoots* Me: OOF.
@KINGjulian32000
@KINGjulian32000 4 жыл бұрын
It can make you uncomfortable at first, but after that brief discomfort clears, you feel so good about making healthy moves for yourself. Stay strong, everyone. ✊🏼
@christinewimer5523
@christinewimer5523 4 жыл бұрын
I recently ended all communication with an abusive, toxic, monster of a stepfather. My mother passed away so no need to ever see him again. Some family are upset, think I'm selfish, but they didn't live through the abuse I did since I was three years old. I feel such peace I never have you see him again. I dont care who likes it or not.
@maryjoana5954
@maryjoana5954 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Humans are animals at the end of the day, and step-parent abuse is much more prevalent than abuse from actual parents. It's because the kids are of no use to the stepparent, they only use resources. The other people are mad at you because you're ruining their wish of a perfect family, and they dont care how much it hurts you. But the reality is that you dont feel good and the family is rotten, so let them have their tantrums. God bless.
@avicennitegh1377
@avicennitegh1377 4 жыл бұрын
It's okay to give bad people the sack even when it's family
@dominikarojek740
@dominikarojek740 4 жыл бұрын
So happy for you for having the strength to seek your peace. Yes, your peace, not theirs x love xxx
@byee
@byee 4 жыл бұрын
why u givin an attitude?
@annas4191
@annas4191 4 жыл бұрын
I did the same a while back. He would harass me and say I was a disgrace for not helping. You did the right thing!
@inatolirochil7742
@inatolirochil7742 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the best decision in life is to walk away with dignity and integrity. Life is too short to waste on the wrong person for the second time.
@markwhittaker6866
@markwhittaker6866 5 жыл бұрын
PREACH!
@yap7656
@yap7656 5 жыл бұрын
@pete knicks 2 people same story saying how bad the other person was no reminiscence about themselves I'm sick of it Then why? why we live in surreal world full of lies if we are so pure
@barshalala4829
@barshalala4829 5 жыл бұрын
Very true dear
@blobofconsciousness
@blobofconsciousness 4 жыл бұрын
Wow the last line ❤️ cleared my head!
@Mr543twoone
@Mr543twoone 4 жыл бұрын
Or third hahaha
@inkedollgutierrez6055
@inkedollgutierrez6055 5 жыл бұрын
I walked away from my toxic family . I’m happy I have peace is been a bit lonely but I feel good , left all the dysfunction behind
@breselexiapsychicmedium346
@breselexiapsychicmedium346 5 жыл бұрын
This is what I'm currently trying to do right now.
@TrangDB9
@TrangDB9 5 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to both of you!
@inkedollgutierrez6055
@inkedollgutierrez6055 5 жыл бұрын
TrangDB9 thank u .. so much 🙏🏼
@inkedollgutierrez6055
@inkedollgutierrez6055 5 жыл бұрын
You're Sweet i feel ur pain is not easy but I believe it is the best decision for your sanity and peace
@parampalsingh2669
@parampalsingh2669 5 жыл бұрын
I am also in this situation ...god bless you all
@orfeas8
@orfeas8 3 жыл бұрын
Even if you feel alone in the beginning, don't be afraid and return to the same people or routine. You are simply undergoing a transformation. The right people and the right activities will start to show up. Walk the road
@ketanmeshram83
@ketanmeshram83 3 жыл бұрын
Great brother 👍
@soundmoneystacker2787
@soundmoneystacker2787 4 жыл бұрын
My job was abusing me day in and day out I resigned yesterday I resigned and walked away
@maiaallman4635
@maiaallman4635 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! I wished you well on your future.
@ariesmoon4892
@ariesmoon4892 4 жыл бұрын
Sam
@ZachariaZuehlke
@ZachariaZuehlke 4 жыл бұрын
Can definitely relate except I just ghosted the job entirely and stopped showing up lol
@diannerivera2845
@diannerivera2845 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I can do that. 😓
@melissai.2659
@melissai.2659 4 жыл бұрын
Inflation Destroyer I had the same experience with my former job....I got used up like toilet paper in a pandemic! I had to walk away.....
@isgIIGrupo9
@isgIIGrupo9 4 жыл бұрын
This goes for your family too
@magentamoonchild
@magentamoonchild 4 жыл бұрын
That is my struggle. Did this mean family? But they are the ones that hurt the most.
@aquariousenigma70
@aquariousenigma70 4 жыл бұрын
You feel guilty....but damn....th slow burn of being around them is killing me....
@e.a.jeanson2772
@e.a.jeanson2772 4 жыл бұрын
A fucking men. I have a philosophy as relates to kin or blood relationships. Allow me to explain. There are scores of people walking around this planet who have been stained emotionally, psychologically and physically due to the brainwashing we've all endured that has conditioned us to believe that we have to hold on to these relationships because blood is thicker than water. Well, blood may be thicker than water, but when clear water dries, it doesn't leave a stain. When blood relatives, or kin, are toxic, CUT THEM THE FUCK OFF.
@travisgrant5608
@travisgrant5608 4 жыл бұрын
I've tried with all my heart to be a good, caring, kind, considerate and compassionate brother and uncle. But they have drained me of all my energy like vampires. I have nothing left to give. So, to save myself I've had to slowly turn away and move ahead on my own without them anymore. No matter how painful, they are now just people that I used to love. I'm not better then anyone else but I AM to good for THEM.
@robynrobyn7070
@robynrobyn7070 4 жыл бұрын
@@travisgrant5608 keep going 🥰
@TheAngryAgent
@TheAngryAgent 4 жыл бұрын
In other words, delete social media
@شمسالتبريزي-د2ف
@شمسالتبريزي-د2ف 4 жыл бұрын
I'm still trying everytime i put my fb account into deletion i keep stopping it it's so hard 😭
@macsimiliam
@macsimiliam 4 жыл бұрын
@@شمسالتبريزي-د2ف I feel u bro
@macsimiliam
@macsimiliam 4 жыл бұрын
@@شمسالتبريزي-د2ف delete the app If you have iPhone limit the time you use an app in configs If you have android I think you'll have to download another app
@Zerovity
@Zerovity 4 жыл бұрын
All done . Not delete but uninstalled and has been free for 5 months now . I feel more happy now.
@RinAsami1
@RinAsami1 4 жыл бұрын
I removed twitter recently and it's amazing how much better I feel. That platform especially is toxic and full people starting hurtful drama with cancel culture.
@medicinekeysformrcps5025
@medicinekeysformrcps5025 3 жыл бұрын
Always be ready to be alone again. You came alone and will leave alone.
@gymrats6633
@gymrats6633 4 жыл бұрын
At the first sign of disrespect just walk away.
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 4 жыл бұрын
Cindi Thomas I let it slide once. Second time I’m gone.
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 4 жыл бұрын
Cindi Thomas walking away isn’t spreading hate.
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 4 жыл бұрын
Cindi Thomas cutting their throat with a machete = hate.
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 4 жыл бұрын
Cindi Thomas so let them take antidepressants not take their shite out on me.
@AshwiniR.007
@AshwiniR.007 4 жыл бұрын
@Cindi Thomas your comments is getting in my nerves. Stfu with ur Bullshit
@dmitrysamoilov5989
@dmitrysamoilov5989 5 жыл бұрын
Keep walking away until you find someone who's compatible with your frequency. There are many traps in the road.
@surajahire744
@surajahire744 4 жыл бұрын
Love god!
@nowanobady
@nowanobady 4 жыл бұрын
this is exactly what im thinking right now... walk away from whats not for me, change direction and go towards what is for me... repeat
@SuperValaVala
@SuperValaVala 4 жыл бұрын
Are U being Sarcastic ? Think needs to be more awareness there... some toxic relationship u do need to walk away. Some u need to work on ! If we keep walking away “until” finding someone ..... by the end of ur life u will find urself so tired of repeating the process of keep walking away and keep trying to find the persons who is compatible with u. This process is sooo tiring, plus there is ought to be problems between people. We can’t keep giving up every time something happens.
@dmitrysamoilov5989
@dmitrysamoilov5989 4 жыл бұрын
@@SuperValaVala i see what you're saying. well, it's not for everyone. walking away can be tough if you have a feeling that you can't "do any better" or, for the less machiavellian of us, "actually care about someone". but, i for one, have walked away, and, everytime, my life got better. not just a little bit better, but, 1000x better. one million times better. that being said, i am an introvert who prefers being alone and my lessons can't just be applied willy nilly to all people in the world. maybe for you, it's better not to walk away. only you can decide. and only you can suffer the consequences of your own actions. good luck to you!
@artchem1
@artchem1 4 жыл бұрын
You are so spot on ! What out for the traps, they could be so minute’. You may step right into one.Exceptional advice🌟
@estelinhamz
@estelinhamz 4 жыл бұрын
I've walked away from people, things and jobs that were no longer fullfilling me so many times and I tell you: IT FEELS GREAT. Do it for your own sanity. This is called self love
@mxbadboy263
@mxbadboy263 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! I walked away from a successful professional job at high pay because the work environment was toxic. I was becoming mentally ill.
@lucassmith4524
@lucassmith4524 5 жыл бұрын
If you are going to walk away, it should be with the goal to walk away and stay away, not to gain some sort of imaginary upper hand in some relationship. That is to say, it’s not really looking away when you looking back for a reaction.
@alfredkaizirege
@alfredkaizirege 5 жыл бұрын
I Personally need to work on that especially with my ex's.
@AntonioWolfpack
@AntonioWolfpack 5 жыл бұрын
Lucas Smith I agree. Sounds like something you had experience with
@lucassmith4524
@lucassmith4524 5 жыл бұрын
Antonio Wolfpack 1990 You bet. Struggling with it now.
@Olena.P.
@Olena.P. 5 жыл бұрын
Totally right. Whether you walk away from the person/situation or decide to stay, either way you have to deal with yourself. This seems to be the hardest part. To let go of old unnecesary beliefs and mental rubbish. And to start to hear voice of reason behind screams of suffering ego.
@markbutterworth8257
@markbutterworth8257 5 жыл бұрын
@@Olena.P. well said
@GeekTheGecko
@GeekTheGecko 4 жыл бұрын
"If you can't negotiate then you are a servant" - Jordan B. Peterson
@octaneartllc
@octaneartllc 4 жыл бұрын
You are genius to post that! Truth indeed...
@JadedJade_
@JadedJade_ 4 жыл бұрын
Wise words
@trees915
@trees915 4 жыл бұрын
Negotiation is often daunting and exhausting...for me.
@WormholeJim
@WormholeJim 4 жыл бұрын
I disagree wholly with that statement. The word "no" seldom has place in negotiations without a set of conditions that needs to be accommodated to turn the "no" into a "yes". And the feet don't need a set of conditions to be worked out in order to put distance to the person trying to make you a servant. If you are in a negotiation, then an objective for all parties is trying to gain the upper hand in order to negotiate the best result for themselves. This means that any negotiation once complete will have resulted in all the parties being both master and servants in varying degree because of the compromises that will inevitably be made by both under the conditions of the negotiation. So Jordan's statement should rightly be "Going into any kind of negotiation will result in you being a servant to some degree."
@davelawson2564
@davelawson2564 4 жыл бұрын
@@WormholeJim Not really. servant cannot negotiate. Those who are independent can negotiate to get acceptable deal that they agree on. Its deal between equals no servants
@manorod1451
@manorod1451 4 жыл бұрын
I also just decided to walk away from my only friend who I thought she was real . After she's back from a 10 day vacation And makes no attempt to text or call . I started thinking about our friendship,she only saw me when convenient to her ,never dropped anything for me ,I always had to adjust to her routine. I finally understand she's holding me back.I made my self too available to her
@MastaSmack
@MastaSmack 4 жыл бұрын
Lol, I quit a job when the chick I loved was ditched by her boyfriend of the time to go to a holloween party she was attending...she had me so worried about her for years with the stories she would tell me, I never wanted her to have to be alone...what a waste of my life. Drained my empathy to the bone...don't have any to spare anymore.
@christinebeames2311
@christinebeames2311 4 жыл бұрын
Mano rod hi same with me , 20 years always being the one to go the extra mile , then she threw a fit when I had to move the time I took her shopping as I forgot a hair appointment , this was the last straw after many such times , I miss her when I go garden Center shopping but the pressure to be her taxi is off
@octaneartllc
@octaneartllc 4 жыл бұрын
Friends are real when... You call at 4am and they show up to help dig the hole...
@manorod1451
@manorod1451 4 жыл бұрын
MastaSmack often men don't talk about it which make it even harder to get over them .they on the other hand immediately form a support group
@beertoday6506
@beertoday6506 4 жыл бұрын
I found out sometimes the one you trust the most is the most dangerous one.Make no time for them ,especially when in that persons spare time they try to belittle and or hurt you. Be careful of when all is well then out of no where they are trying to put you down, I found that this other person is good at letting you believe all is fine then boom out of no where for no reason crap happens and ill never understand it . Anyone who believes they are always right , that they need to sway others opinions on you well time to start trying to get away from that person. No matter what you do or say they want to use it against you .run
@thecount8254
@thecount8254 4 жыл бұрын
I personally think of people like clouds. It's nice when they go away
@awakenthegreatnesswithin
@awakenthegreatnesswithin 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@doeharris5363
@doeharris5363 3 жыл бұрын
That is a lovely expression. X😊😊😊😊🐱🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
@DarknessIsThePath
@DarknessIsThePath 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao nice
@nahidkaramali3823
@nahidkaramali3823 3 жыл бұрын
@@doeharris5363 Agree
@theweirdflex4041
@theweirdflex4041 4 жыл бұрын
The more I’m getting older ,the more I’m realizing how important boundaries are ..so is loving and embracing yourself truely before showering others with love 🦋
@manoramareddy4662
@manoramareddy4662 4 жыл бұрын
i have learned at 75 that showering love to family member who dont love you back ,it was waste of time
@matthewmcvicar7755
@matthewmcvicar7755 5 жыл бұрын
Life's one big negotiation. I often walk away from negotiations, and quite often they come back to me with the deal I wanted in the first place. Indifference is a powerful tool.
@bloodmajesty414
@bloodmajesty414 5 жыл бұрын
Very true, I also found if they say something like "You are a lazy piece of shit", and you "agree" with them and throw it back at them "Yeah, I am a lazy piece of shit, so?" - there's really nothing they can do to control you. Every attack they make are a new shining weapon for you, and they are left speechless.
@rhanasun7264
@rhanasun7264 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wisdom 🙏
@jeananne2408
@jeananne2408 5 жыл бұрын
I think you are missing the point. It's not a game.
@TomFromYoutube
@TomFromYoutube 4 жыл бұрын
@@jeananne2408 point is- there is no point
@primroserosemary8862
@primroserosemary8862 4 жыл бұрын
Walking away from my entire family is the best thing I've ever done🙏
@punish0
@punish0 4 жыл бұрын
I haven't contacted them for 3 months now. I see some good sides of it, but sometimes it feels wrong.
@aori583
@aori583 4 жыл бұрын
@@punish0 it is kinda wrong
@lacycutler4376
@lacycutler4376 4 жыл бұрын
I walked away from my family 11 years ago. It was the bravest and best decision I have ever made.
@gustavgans7966
@gustavgans7966 3 жыл бұрын
It feels wrong but sometimes its the only option caring yourself.
@hotice8885
@hotice8885 3 жыл бұрын
@@aori583 , you would not be able to explain why it is wrong without simultaneously admitting that you don't know if this is the last resort after exhausting all options, or if this is the only way to be physically safe/mentally stable/financially sound, etc.
@DelightedSoul130
@DelightedSoul130 4 жыл бұрын
Learning to walk away is hard but staying to suffer is harder.
@jim-se5xc
@jim-se5xc 11 ай бұрын
Every man is jealous of a man who walks away from his wife.
@basicbase749
@basicbase749 5 жыл бұрын
Walking away is no less than an act of courage, especially when you’re still emotionally attached to that person
@shrikantborde8143
@shrikantborde8143 4 жыл бұрын
True 😭
@shrikantborde8143
@shrikantborde8143 4 жыл бұрын
U may be out now
@Kerchucked
@Kerchucked 4 жыл бұрын
Once you learn to love yourself for who you truly are, walking away is a win, never a loss.
@lorrainerodriguez2134
@lorrainerodriguez2134 3 жыл бұрын
Preach
@romeblanchard3419
@romeblanchard3419 5 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me
@archangul
@archangul 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. This expression/comment is my favourite out of all because it gave me a visceral felling. I embodied your comment instantly.
@Guappbeatz
@Guappbeatz 4 жыл бұрын
I love that. It feels powerful for all the times you were powerless.
@ilyesnoah782
@ilyesnoah782 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful sounds like a quote 🙏
@MuhammadAliGOAT
@MuhammadAliGOAT 3 жыл бұрын
When you have lost the people who meant the world to you, you become deeply aware of how truly and spiritually valuable time really is - you no longer waste a second more than what is needed when you feel the intuition of your soul on the wrong people.
@lifesymphony2024
@lifesymphony2024 5 жыл бұрын
We show our standards when we walkaway from toxic people.
@GoogleUser-wy2vv
@GoogleUser-wy2vv 5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@AprendizDeLoQueToca
@AprendizDeLoQueToca 5 жыл бұрын
And that feels AWESOME
@jonesfredrick94
@jonesfredrick94 5 жыл бұрын
@@four-x-trading5606 escape that pit
@yolag8872
@yolag8872 5 жыл бұрын
Sharmella Krishnasamy way to go then.
@lifeslessons9889
@lifeslessons9889 4 жыл бұрын
Sharmella Krishnasamy . You are absolutely right. Standards that say " NO, not anymore " .. If you don't perpetrate standards they continue to abuse . Walking away says " I don't need your approval " .
@frankmuller596
@frankmuller596 5 жыл бұрын
Most people just let you down so just focus on yourself and your own happiness.Know your worth.
@catlady7135
@catlady7135 5 жыл бұрын
frank muller Yes I have been once again reminded of that… I was trying to be a better kinder more compassionate person to people who were in less fortunate situations and myself only for them to suddenly with no logical reason turn their backs on me walk away in the middle of a conversation so now I am done I will only care about my immediate family
@mohitshyamkunwar408
@mohitshyamkunwar408 5 жыл бұрын
The
@zarakvoguezk571
@zarakvoguezk571 5 жыл бұрын
A lot of ppl used me including ppl that I loved, so I decided to walk away and I'm very happy being alone
@泰勒-u1h
@泰勒-u1h 5 жыл бұрын
Fallofcharmsboutique / K.H Same ✌🏻
@jawadahmed2520
@jawadahmed2520 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@writegirl2937
@writegirl2937 5 жыл бұрын
I am very happy for you!! Be fulfilled! Take care of yourself!💕
@OlivaSullen
@OlivaSullen 4 жыл бұрын
@1:41 "The thing is, when people notice that you lack direction, for example in the form of commitment to a personal goal, they will see your time as less valuable than theirs. This observation legitimizes you doing stuff for them instead of doing stuff for yourself. In their eyes, you're at least doing something valuable with your time, which is being a utility for their interest." That is narcissistic abuse.
@Nobody-fy7tw
@Nobody-fy7tw 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think I've done this to my cousin for a long time but now I'm sorry for it And now I'm going to give him a direction in life Or At Least help him to find his goal
@Hugging_Cactus
@Hugging_Cactus 3 жыл бұрын
this absolutely nails it.
@7hilladelphia
@7hilladelphia 3 жыл бұрын
Tops insight.... very good.
@tonyromano6220
@tonyromano6220 3 жыл бұрын
S
@victorteran9766
@victorteran9766 3 жыл бұрын
Not quite, sometimes what happens is that they see you so clueless that by trying to help you they end up imposing their goals on you. They have the best intentions, but it has happened to me that I was so metally weak, so lost and without direction that I practically set myself up for their "abuse". As with most things in life, the problem is not other people, but myself.
@manny349_0
@manny349_0 5 жыл бұрын
You’re happier when you learn to say no because saying yes to everything can drain you
@tinateews9494
@tinateews9494 5 жыл бұрын
Manuel Nuñez Agree with you, for me it was mostly my family. Also relationships. Years ago I didn't know I was a people's pleaser. It really drained me.
@thecowboy9698
@thecowboy9698 4 жыл бұрын
“It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” - George Washington. "Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength. The universe is change, our life is what our thoughts make it." - Marcus Aurelius.
@davidblack4909
@davidblack4909 4 жыл бұрын
“It is better to say something your own way, that to misattribute quotes” - me “Although this quote is attributed to George Washington, it is actually one of 110 Rules of Civility & Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation that George Washington copied by hand at the age of sixteen. Although many people attribute the 110 rules to Washington, because the rules were found written by his hand, Scholars today believe that the rules were likely copied by Washington as a penmanship exercise. The actual quote is #56 of 110 rules and reads… ‘Associate yourself with Men of good Quality if you Esteem your own Reputation; for ‘is better to be alone than in bad Company.’ The 110 rules are based on a set of rules composed by French Jesuits in 1595, and they were first translated into English in 1640.” - Doug Staneart | Leadership Tips
@angel0fangelsangel504
@angel0fangelsangel504 3 жыл бұрын
Encouraging words👩‍🦳
@Mkqvtlll
@Mkqvtlll 3 жыл бұрын
The loneliness make you crazy, everyone need compañy
@JoiRandom
@JoiRandom 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mkqvtlll bull💩 .. everyone needs healthy good company .. not toxic company .. toxicity from anyone including family is 100% unacceptable.. period
@JoiRandom
@JoiRandom 2 жыл бұрын
👍
@deeprollingriver5820
@deeprollingriver5820 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t get angry at people, I disappear
@Maria7Maria
@Maria7Maria 5 жыл бұрын
Bella Bijou me too, I feel no need to argue - if they’ve crossed my boundaries, I’m gone
@northstar5919
@northstar5919 5 жыл бұрын
They dont know why you went so start calling and asking, even more anoying
@BLessed758
@BLessed758 5 жыл бұрын
thought I was the only one 🤷‍♀️
@AqierDesigns
@AqierDesigns 5 жыл бұрын
that's soo dumb. If you don't argue you will never fond common sense. You'll never understanf otherthinking people and they will never understand you. That's the dumbest and most ignorant way to solve disagreemnts. One of my best friends does that to. Everyone in our group hates his attitude, but we still love him cause he's our friend since a decade. But trust me, you missed many opprrunities for good relationships. I walk away to, but only after I understand IN AN ARGUMENT that this person won't understand my point of view. Befor that I am open minded towards otherthinking people and hope they are to, cause that's the only way to find common ground in society.
@shaniquegrant5758
@shaniquegrant5758 5 жыл бұрын
Yep, this is me. Just...disappear.
@hanford65
@hanford65 4 жыл бұрын
Some time ago I realised I don't actually have any close friends. Nobody calls or visits. Only my parents. Good thing I enjoy my own company. I only help close family with anything now.
@BorrachosInterdimensionales
@BorrachosInterdimensionales 5 жыл бұрын
Do you want the power to walk away? Get ready to feel lonely or left out sometimes. You'll have to learn to love solitude.
@ladyliberation3852
@ladyliberation3852 5 жыл бұрын
Not only am I learned but prefer (solitude).
@writegirl2937
@writegirl2937 5 жыл бұрын
AMEN. Solitude is a beautiful thing!❤️😄❤️
@VilleGardian
@VilleGardian 5 жыл бұрын
I freakin LOVE my solitude.
@traffy269
@traffy269 5 жыл бұрын
I prefer solitude to pretending to be happy around people who dont care about or they dont ever try to help or support me when I tried to give them signals that I need some helps. It is better to be alone and be happy about yourself than living among toxic people/narcissists
@korger1481
@korger1481 4 жыл бұрын
VilleGardian Me too!
@pscrafts192
@pscrafts192 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes...it is very difficult to move on even after you leave a toxic person once you loved...but not impossible! I am here to remind you that keep moving forward and never look back! I know you can do it❤
@marjorierushie7737
@marjorierushie7737 5 жыл бұрын
When you walk away you take their power and you get your power back. Never allow anyone to make you feel less than no matter who they are. Who they are is their business and who you are is your business.
@annebooyse1112
@annebooyse1112 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Totally.☺
@sz7689
@sz7689 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend or five years disrespected me so much that I had enough and walked for good.. it’s tough but I no longer am being abused or have anxiety ...
@raebenson6165
@raebenson6165 4 жыл бұрын
Marjorie Rushie no one can take your power. U are giving it to them
@kimtillett8037
@kimtillett8037 4 жыл бұрын
I walked away from an abusive relationship because I chose love instead of anger, hurt and resentment. When you choose a high frequency of love ,toxic and negative people will stay away from you. I live in a state of peace and bliss for the first time in 55 years.
@saiconicfitness
@saiconicfitness 4 жыл бұрын
I've learned as someone ho has spent most of my adult life putting others wants above my needs, one of my greatest gifts is my absence. My light is that powerful and now that I know this, I am more mindful and purposeful on who and what I shine it on. These days I'm spending more time shining on myself lol.
@hopeh1095
@hopeh1095 4 жыл бұрын
That’s good to hear honestly. Your message is so encouraging. I know it had to be very hard to just find the courage to stop serving other people needs and put your needs first. I’m in my adult yrs as well all I been overly focus on trying to chase after so called friendships. I will be there whenever, but for me never show up. I helped and listened to all their needs but my needs was never met at all. Recently, I cried because everything is falling apart. God knows I tried, but God knows it wasn’t heathy for me. Glad you refocused your mind and your light 💡 started to shine bright. Adult years is so important and precious. 💯👌
@lorrainerodriguez2134
@lorrainerodriguez2134 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@freezo244
@freezo244 3 жыл бұрын
Yay! Your comment makes me so happy. I hope we can all learn how powerful our light is. My name means “light” in Greek and I hope to be that always. Blessings to you.
@darkexcalibur87
@darkexcalibur87 5 жыл бұрын
I just walked away from an abusive boss. The job was a dream job, something I had been working towards for most of my life. I finally made it to my dream, and turns out it was unbearable due to my tyrant of a boss. I've been in abusive relationships before and I wasn't going to let it happen again, so I left. He sent me a very rude and condescending email after and I didn't respond. It feels so good to be out.
@foodbutter225
@foodbutter225 4 жыл бұрын
The email was his ego talking
@marypizzolato4801
@marypizzolato4801 4 жыл бұрын
Walking away from people who have no respect for your boundaries is necessary. They have proven there's no possibility of change because they have proven they have no interest in change. They will continue to manipulate, take advantage, and use you as long as you let them. Time to respect and love You .. It's very freeing. You will come back to center, where yoy will find joy and contentment again. It's beautiful!
@karatekid6977
@karatekid6977 4 жыл бұрын
I am living proof of this.
@ashkesh1551
@ashkesh1551 4 жыл бұрын
Wow yr so motivating😍
@appleberry1024
@appleberry1024 4 жыл бұрын
💕
@shinutokoro
@shinutokoro 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ChanelCoco-pk7mp
@ChanelCoco-pk7mp 4 жыл бұрын
“Stay away from anyone who makes you feel as though you are hard to love” was one of the quotes that changed my life. I used to think I had to have everyone like me and would do things I really DID NOT WANT TO DO to simply appease someone else. I would tell myself that life is about sacrifice and that is a sign of maturity etc etc but omg it’s not and if you have people in your life who try to tell you that it is you need to seriously consider limiting your time with them and if possible eliminating them from your life completely 😔 Sending love 💕
@valerie7224
@valerie7224 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these words 🙏🏼
@MiKeMiDNiTe-77
@MiKeMiDNiTe-77 5 жыл бұрын
I walked away from a demoralizing job that got me down recently and I feel great...👍😁
@traffy269
@traffy269 5 жыл бұрын
Yup me too, and I dont gaf to burn the bridges with them, because I know they dont gaf about me
@fenris8179
@fenris8179 4 жыл бұрын
Good move. I waited too long in the same situation. It almost destroyed my soul.
@psyenergy1
@psyenergy1 4 жыл бұрын
Mike Gilder samehere I feel so free
@gabhandebrun1871
@gabhandebrun1871 4 жыл бұрын
Mike Cool Advice join a Mlm company there’s good to great money to be made and work frm anywhere
@hendrikschluter959
@hendrikschluter959 4 жыл бұрын
Mike Midnight I still need to find a new place before I can walk away from my toxic job :(
@angel772921
@angel772921 5 жыл бұрын
I walked away from my entire dysfunctional family...and to another country...sometimes it's the only thing we can do to save our sanity and life's. ..love & blessings to all here..get those walking shoes on and walk far away....xxxx
@modernsavage2584
@modernsavage2584 5 жыл бұрын
Take that courage, and continue to utilize to create a wonderful life for yourself. Bless you.
@kevintv5688
@kevintv5688 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I can do the same
@marsalansajid
@marsalansajid 5 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing
@joyfulj1663
@joyfulj1663 5 жыл бұрын
Good on u!!!
@CleverGirlLP
@CleverGirlLP 5 жыл бұрын
Same here 🦋
@Dd-po2ij
@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын
Truth. I've walked away. (2020) New me new life. New blessings.
@venuselectrificata
@venuselectrificata 4 жыл бұрын
Dorothy Green 2020 is perfect vision 🤓
@patricianoll1229
@patricianoll1229 4 жыл бұрын
Me too I start to feel happy
@tianathompson2725
@tianathompson2725 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 🙏🏽💜🌟
@JackVox
@JackVox 4 жыл бұрын
"Travel on alone, rather than with a fool for company." Dhammapada 23
@tinlaa7519
@tinlaa7519 4 жыл бұрын
You only know what someone means to you after they are gone. And vice versa, you will know what someone means to you after you left them. 3 groups of people 1) when you are away from them, you miss them, you realised you value their presence. You are better with them 2) when you are away from them, nothing changed. Your life go on as usual, no setback. (coworkers, acquintance, colleagues etc) 3) when you are away from them, you are happier, their absence give you inner peace. You may miss them sometimes (or not at all) but you know you will be a better person without them. The 3rd kind of people, trust me, if their absence give you peace, you dont lose them, they lose you 😊
@miirasaika6437
@miirasaika6437 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wisdom
@aliabdallah1926
@aliabdallah1926 4 жыл бұрын
Saved this
@christinelawrence4315
@christinelawrence4315 4 жыл бұрын
#3 .. One of my closes friends constantly judging me or misunderstanding messages and causing me alot of grief. I've always said "if ever there's a problem and you wish to clarify just pick up the phone".... After telling my friend "I need space from you" it's been 3 weeks on and I'm at peace and have no dramas in my life.. not good to avail yourself too much and getting dragged into other's personal dramas.
@tinlaa7519
@tinlaa7519 4 жыл бұрын
@@christinelawrence4315 i walk away from someone who i considered a bestfriend too. She always misunderstood thing with me, i constantly have to walk on eggshells around her, but she didnt do the same. She didnt care that she hurt my feelings, but if im the one who hurt her feelings, she would be in rage. It drained my energy being with her. After months of thinking about leaving, i decided enough is enough and walk away.
@christinelawrence4315
@christinelawrence4315 4 жыл бұрын
@@tinlaa7519 Good for you Tin LaA sometimes we must look after ourselves first but not in a selfish way. Tbh I find people draining and crave my own space.
@harukawa295
@harukawa295 4 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard to live in the world where you feel like you have to fight to protect your relationship with others. I’m tired.
@abrahampalmer1153
@abrahampalmer1153 4 жыл бұрын
Yea but you have a choice end of the day
@Blessed.2.Teach.4God
@Blessed.2.Teach.4God 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, I completely understand what you mean, 100%.
@ezequiel5260
@ezequiel5260 3 жыл бұрын
@@Blessed.2.Teach.4God don't simp bro
@Blessed.2.Teach.4God
@Blessed.2.Teach.4God 3 жыл бұрын
@@ezequiel5260 Idk what that means, I just made a straight forward genuine comment... so no need for advice - Thanks
@williamhuynh4851
@williamhuynh4851 3 жыл бұрын
You can fight for other, but dont fight for relationships. If it means to be, you dont have to fight alone..there will be that person standing by your side.
@GAZDA_DMM
@GAZDA_DMM 4 жыл бұрын
It's never too late to change direction! "The last best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is today." - Confucius.
@artchem1
@artchem1 4 жыл бұрын
Did that this Arbour Day. A Pink tabebuia. :)
@d.l.l.6578
@d.l.l.6578 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice! I once heard: “Don’t ever try to con someone who isn’t afraid to be alone.” I was in a cult when I was young and gullible because we all desperately needed to belong somewhere. When we matured, we walked away.
@curtistinemiller8038
@curtistinemiller8038 4 жыл бұрын
Walking away is nesscarry ,especially around toxic stubborn manipluators called family....
@marinzovko7113
@marinzovko7113 4 жыл бұрын
Oh i feel with you... I feel with you..basterds.
@LyssieLysse
@LyssieLysse 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I walked away and I’m not going back!
@forever6606
@forever6606 4 жыл бұрын
Cuz they know u, know ur triggers and exactly where to push to make u do what they want... off course they installed those buttons..why wouldn't they know?... unfortunately!
@reefspirituality3210
@reefspirituality3210 4 жыл бұрын
they are ignorant in their lack of self-love ... you guide them
@miirasaika6437
@miirasaika6437 4 жыл бұрын
@@reefspirituality3210 Hell no! I've wasted 24 years of my life trying to guide them. Their manipulation and mental emotional abuse only got worse. No more killing myself just for the sake of trying to help people who deep down inside, don't want to improve!
@eriv8598
@eriv8598 5 жыл бұрын
Love yourself, don't let anyone take advantage of your greatness.
@aprilparsons8498
@aprilparsons8498 4 жыл бұрын
Abused as child/ young adult by my parents, rejected and betrayed by my 3 children. Ended my toxic marriage. After 53 years of abuse, I stood up to my family and friends. Today and every day. I walked away from all off it, Today I am prove of myself. This video is awesome. resonates with the impact. Thank you.
@FRITZI999
@FRITZI999 4 жыл бұрын
I dod the same.... my best wishes to you. Live your new life now !!!
@niyiapooh6168
@niyiapooh6168 4 жыл бұрын
Pray for me I'm walking away now❤❤❤
@WalesGaming86
@WalesGaming86 4 жыл бұрын
Well done April.
@crystalwilliams1462
@crystalwilliams1462 4 жыл бұрын
April if you see this I hope you’re having a great day and all your days from now continue to be great. You deserve love happiness and most important peace!!!! You’re worth it!
@fallindowndrunk
@fallindowndrunk 4 жыл бұрын
You’re sounding so strong now, you’re such an inspiration! Go on with your bad self!
@MrWaterbugdesign
@MrWaterbugdesign 3 жыл бұрын
I've often been called anti-social in my 63 year life. But never by anyone I respected. Beng called anti-social always seemed like a compliment.
@mubarakstayblessmohammed546
@mubarakstayblessmohammed546 5 жыл бұрын
Real truth, lone wolf I spent a lot of my time alone but I have never feel lonely.
@mubarakstayblessmohammed546
@mubarakstayblessmohammed546 5 жыл бұрын
@Abhijeet Anand hey who the Fuck are? Gtfoh 🖕🖕🖕
@jbro8934
@jbro8934 5 жыл бұрын
I think Einstein said that. I'm always alone but I'm never lonely. ,😄😄
@esw9750
@esw9750 4 жыл бұрын
Walk away from people or situation that robs u of your inner peace cuz it aint worth it. Love yourself.
@davemoody4517
@davemoody4517 4 жыл бұрын
I learned this truth after 28 years of marriage . . . Don’t be a slow learner.
@magentamoonchild
@magentamoonchild 4 жыл бұрын
I'm the one who has been slow...32 years ! :( its time.
@gabhandebrun1871
@gabhandebrun1871 4 жыл бұрын
Dave Moody Something tells me you were very well Moody...!!? Only messing pal Hope it all works out for ye
@Ilopez0411
@Ilopez0411 4 жыл бұрын
You are not along, I learn this after 27 years of marriage...,
@dashingmay
@dashingmay 4 жыл бұрын
What did you do instead of walking away?
@thomasche
@thomasche 4 жыл бұрын
It's never too late. We are all in the same boat.
@lingzelu4597
@lingzelu4597 2 жыл бұрын
Any of you reading this comment, always listen to your gut feeling, it tells you when you meet a wrong person many times, don't ever ignore those feelings. Leave those people as fast as possible, no matter how charismatic they may seem to you, walk away.
@pamelakelley3098
@pamelakelley3098 4 жыл бұрын
It takes more strength to walk away than it does to remain in a situation that is counter productive to your on life.
@avicennitegh1377
@avicennitegh1377 4 жыл бұрын
and less energy than it takes to stay in it
@lorrainerodriguez2134
@lorrainerodriguez2134 3 жыл бұрын
True
@berkeleybenje
@berkeleybenje 4 жыл бұрын
One of my best friends at work walked away because our boss was driving him crazy. He was literally losing sleep. For me the best decision at this time in my career was to stay and set some firm boundaries with our boss. As much as I miss working with my buddy I’m so glad he made the decision to go elsewhere. He’s much happier. Miss our coffee breaks, brother.
@jbsmith3556
@jbsmith3556 3 жыл бұрын
Miss our coffee breaks, brother......thats nice of u.
@drunio1504
@drunio1504 5 жыл бұрын
It takes guts to walk away from a bad job, a bad boss, a demanding wife, an abusive military non-career... be free!
@markbutterworth8257
@markbutterworth8257 5 жыл бұрын
Well said. Especially the bad boss. These idiot's think they own you.
@underrated7725
@underrated7725 5 жыл бұрын
They really do. I'm walking away from my job soon and not looking back
@ericbonaparte9790
@ericbonaparte9790 5 жыл бұрын
@@markbutterworth8257 Yessss👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 F#ck Em To Infinity....
@milesmayhem5440
@milesmayhem5440 5 жыл бұрын
Bad friends
@jasonvoorhees2982
@jasonvoorhees2982 5 жыл бұрын
Or a religion that opposes questioning. Question all supposed truths.
@nurainee688
@nurainee688 4 жыл бұрын
My elder sisters all bullied me since I can remember, said I should be given away as a baby. I only realise the extend of their continued hatred after 45 years. I did nothing wrong, only born into wrong siblings. I finally walk away, break off all ties last month.
@d.l.l.6578
@d.l.l.6578 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@gingerl6573
@gingerl6573 3 жыл бұрын
The same here!. Love to you
@plebmarvin3108
@plebmarvin3108 3 жыл бұрын
jeeez 45 years :(
@mxbadboy263
@mxbadboy263 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you. It was tough thing you did because I'm sure you loved and looked up to them.
@Kuncous
@Kuncous 3 жыл бұрын
From a karmic perspective usually our siblings were enemies in past lives. So there is that…
@angelabender8132
@angelabender8132 4 жыл бұрын
Just go away at the first cruelty. If you are being abused a second time: don't walk; RUN AWAY for ever. Do not forget a wrong because it shall be repeated.
@rachellockwoodle
@rachellockwoodle 4 жыл бұрын
Lol you don’t take prisoners 😂
@victoriathegreat1311
@victoriathegreat1311 4 жыл бұрын
@angelabender8132
@angelabender8132 4 жыл бұрын
@@rachellockwoodle Alas I waited until the second chance and I still feel dehumanized by the first! 😶
@littad7128
@littad7128 3 жыл бұрын
Very true. 💗💗
@snuggles1011
@snuggles1011 5 жыл бұрын
Powerful message! Never be afraid to walk away in life... unless it's the camera you placed on the ground to record you walking away. Then you might wanna walk back and get it.
@Einzelgänger
@Einzelgänger 5 жыл бұрын
Haha! Yes, unless you have a surplus of cameras (which I don't have).
@northstar5919
@northstar5919 5 жыл бұрын
Why to be afraid it is so liberating
@russjade9001
@russjade9001 5 жыл бұрын
😄😄
@dannymathis7275
@dannymathis7275 5 жыл бұрын
Did this Saturday at work. i was being used like a mule. Hounded & being leaned over. Once, i let it slide. Twice... i blew a peace sign kiss to the people i liked in the department put on my jacket and walked away. No sense in explaining to the slave master what he did... he knew & you can't (or shouldn't ) argue with a fool. This video is so true. To effectively love others you have to love yourself 1st. Thank you for the validation!
@markbutterworth8257
@markbutterworth8257 5 жыл бұрын
Well done. Hope you do well in all your endeavours. Never let the tyrants win. Just did the same thing. Not easy but had to be done to preserve personal integrity and sanity. The world belongs to the brave not cowards.
@dannymathis7275
@dannymathis7275 5 жыл бұрын
@@markbutterworth8257 Thank you Mark! Good for you! The right things are the hardest things. i will & you will too! Exactly! Most people that take disrespect are slaves to their fears for the retention of their idols. All the best to you!
@zakihussein3342
@zakihussein3342 5 жыл бұрын
I can sence sarcasm from miles away but thanx for ur undivided concern and I know you say these things so you feel a bit better about you and diliver your unwavering points although mostly are common sence
@ericbonaparte9790
@ericbonaparte9790 5 жыл бұрын
I Did The Same Things Two Weeks Ago✌🏿✌🏿💪🏿💪🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@dannymathis7275
@dannymathis7275 5 жыл бұрын
@@ericbonaparte9790 Good for you! There seems to be so much unnecessary negativity at the last two jobs i went to within the past 3 months. Both were global companies. The people worked & lived in a fear funk. i'm like, why be a company person here? They don't care. Sure enough the prior job laid off an entire shift. Then they released all the temps. Heard this because i'm clocking out one day i saw a former coworker that explained the situation. News will get back. There needs to be a balance and i haven't seen one yet. Companies are not going to get quality from old school slavery. It's just not going to happen. Good luck on your new adventures Brah!
@luisdireito
@luisdireito 3 жыл бұрын
I'm PhD in walking away. Sometimes a little bit too much, probably. It's just like you say, just because you love people, it doesn't have to mean that you need them. I feel that's my whole life in a nutshell. There's people I love but I don't need them, nor their drama, nor being around them. I love myself more.
@CleverGirlLP
@CleverGirlLP 5 жыл бұрын
I love to walk away because I love myself! You are worth it; know your value and add tax! Also, see walking away as personal responsibility.
@artysagastizado3496
@artysagastizado3496 4 жыл бұрын
I only feel alone when I'm around people
@PP-vf1kx
@PP-vf1kx 4 жыл бұрын
Arty Sagastizado Is An Introvert
@octaneartllc
@octaneartllc 4 жыл бұрын
Nextime you feel sad or depressed to be sure its not you check to see if you're surrounded by assholes first... 9 times outta 10 its the assholes that do it... Find power in who you are... Peace and blessings.
@ES-mc3cc
@ES-mc3cc 4 жыл бұрын
That's why the company of pets is so healing. What you see is what you get. They don't judge you. They are sane.
@mariajmc6557
@mariajmc6557 4 жыл бұрын
Find out why you don't like being alone.
@jolkraeremeark6949
@jolkraeremeark6949 4 жыл бұрын
I'm never lonesome when I'm by myself
@fineshrine1991
@fineshrine1991 4 жыл бұрын
"Can't depend on anything that doesn't come from within"
@rcche3778
@rcche3778 4 жыл бұрын
This video seemed super zen and then sudenly: "some people are cruel assholes"
@abrahampalmer1153
@abrahampalmer1153 4 жыл бұрын
Ik but you have to be positive aswell to
@fabulosa002
@fabulosa002 3 жыл бұрын
AHAHAHAA
@Gk2003m
@Gk2003m 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing more zen than grasping reality as it is. Some people are indeed cruel assholes.
@ishmaelali
@ishmaelali 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Uncommon_Sense01
@Uncommon_Sense01 5 жыл бұрын
I've walked away from just about everyone, i have no friends now 😂
@derrickg91
@derrickg91 4 жыл бұрын
If that's really the case: a handful of sincere friend is wayyy more valuable than a huge contacts of fake friends.
@Uncommon_Sense01
@Uncommon_Sense01 4 жыл бұрын
@@derrickg91 True!
@patrickmwangi2108
@patrickmwangi2108 4 жыл бұрын
I'd say the same thing. I would normally feel drained and not happy when I'm with them
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 4 жыл бұрын
U The Friend U Looked OVER for Others.
@L_MD_
@L_MD_ 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@tracieday8661
@tracieday8661 5 жыл бұрын
I've never had more satisfaction than I have the last few years walking away from toxic people.
@keystonedaytrip238
@keystonedaytrip238 5 жыл бұрын
Tracie Day Excellent !
@ianholmes3761
@ianholmes3761 4 жыл бұрын
Good on ya Tracie.
@octaneartllc
@octaneartllc 4 жыл бұрын
Bless your righteous soul! Peace, love and happiness!!
@JSheetzArtwork
@JSheetzArtwork 5 жыл бұрын
Walk away so that you can make your own path, but the path of happiness is also a path full of pain and challenges. Only those who have the courage and strength to walk away find peace while the cowards walk on the footsteps left by the weak. - Me
@JSheetzArtwork
@JSheetzArtwork 5 жыл бұрын
@Tom Garcia Words are just letters.
@ethioqueen5828
@ethioqueen5828 5 жыл бұрын
Deep
@JSheetzArtwork
@JSheetzArtwork 5 жыл бұрын
@Giannirey S Lines are just part of a display of a graphics card of a computer on the internet of an operating system in a microwave on a potato.
@yap7656
@yap7656 5 жыл бұрын
Now it's easy to walk away if you alone yes it's better to walk away from people or situation that make no good to you but lately I see people run away from each other because it's easier to run from the problem than challenge it they really think walking away will change something when they find new purpose but after while they come back to same spot because don't realise problem is within them but fuc ked up is the mistake they repeat is thinking you can do it alone
@ashleynathan866
@ashleynathan866 3 жыл бұрын
I recently walked away from a toxic job. It feels so good to walk away on top, Even if you don’t have a plan, walk away when the time is right... you won’t regret it. Do what’s best for you at ALL times. People don’t deserve all of you.
@simon.houseaccount4807
@simon.houseaccount4807 4 жыл бұрын
I rather live alone/. Then be around wrong people//. I am a introvert / and proud to be one ☝️
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