Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on fraustration. it's built on fear that you have to overcome. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
@carlgarza556 Жыл бұрын
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@carlgarza556 Жыл бұрын
And I can even say she is the sincere broker I know....
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@@carlgarza556 O' Yes I'm a living testimony of Mrs Victoria Alejandro.!
@rebeccagilbert7691 Жыл бұрын
Victoria has changed my financial status for the best.!
@rebeccagilbert7691 Жыл бұрын
All thanks to my aunty who introduced her to me.!
@JentonAktinwson16 күн бұрын
I recommend everyone to find the book titled Tate Mindset; it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life
@suhhh95016 күн бұрын
i try to find that ebook last week and finally. find it on your channel. thanks dude
@TheXunwu4 күн бұрын
Dog sht
@user-em6ie2be7x Жыл бұрын
Keeping a straight face in any stressful situation definitely helps you exude Confidence.
@cal1b31 Жыл бұрын
Can you explain what you mean
@aru-YT Жыл бұрын
@@cal1b31 try not to look away from their eyes too much or down at the floor, look at their eyes when they're talking and switch looking at each eye. open gestures look confident. also take slow breaths through your nose to calm you down, you can even do this in the middle of listening to someone talk just don't make it too obvious. i also heard some people take ashwaganda to calm their nerves, i haven't really tried that but some people say it works well
@quanvo3883 Жыл бұрын
@@aru-YT ashwagandha helps calm your mind, relieves stress and better sleep. One of the side effects is that it kills emotions, however, it depends on the person.
@aru-YT Жыл бұрын
@@quanvo3883 I actually have been trying them for a few days to deal with stress and anxiety, I'd agree that it depends on the person with the completely killing emotions part, as of yet it just makes me feel less stress and a little bit calm, kinda like I don't really fear or stress about things even social anxiety.
@RainbowBandana Жыл бұрын
@aru you was saying wise words until you threw in drugs smh
@Sebbir Жыл бұрын
Another fun thing Tommy does is always knowing the names and whereabouts of the love ones of people he is talking to. So if the conversation goes south he can always bring it up to lighten the mood. It’s very effective
@timossynodias4688 Жыл бұрын
yes cause he is actually capable of doing something harmful to them unlike you and probably most of us, he is actually threatening them in a way
@hellopiecake1234 Жыл бұрын
@@timossynodias4688 well yeah, that was the joke.
@edppcz11 ай бұрын
You keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
@amiteshdashsamant63204 ай бұрын
@@timossynodias4688 That was the joke man. You can be really not wise, can't you be?
@Writingaid4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@noahhradek5426 Жыл бұрын
The ability to turn a difficult situation into a resource is difficult itself but very helpful.
@OmarHamza-nz9ob9 ай бұрын
Please tell me how can I deal with this difficult situation... How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Please reply
@noahhradek54269 ай бұрын
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob tell them you're not muslim and it would be an issue with your own religion if you went.
@noahhradek54269 ай бұрын
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob tell them you're not muslim and it would be an issue with your own religion if you went.
@focuspocus52367 ай бұрын
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob in this sort of situation, I personally would state that just as they have their own beliefs, so do you. Just as you have chosen to respect their religion and not to push your beliefs on to others, tell them that you also wish they would respect your beliefs. If they still pursue you on this issue, should ask them, if they were willing to leave behind their religion for yours. And once they reply they aren’t, you can inform them that you feel the same way.
@OmarHamza-nz9ob7 ай бұрын
@@focuspocus5236 Nice suggestion thanks..
@StormClaws7 Жыл бұрын
I've been binging a lot of Charisma on Command videos and then after a while I sort of realized, maybe we've been doing it wrong; just copying their behaviors don't result in the confidence portrayed by the exemplified characters -- they are the way they are because of the situations they were put in. I was about to critique it in the older version of this video and then you put the first point addressing exactly that. Bravo!
@SeanLunny Жыл бұрын
I always take a deep breath and respond - I think that’s the difference - respond vs react.
@DonnieBrascoo Жыл бұрын
Breathing deeply worsens anxiety. You should practice slow breathing..
@btown418 Жыл бұрын
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space”
@ryankavanaughreal Жыл бұрын
@DonnieBrascoo usually deep and slow breathing are the same thing in this context
@AliVoe Жыл бұрын
You want to know what's better than looking confident? BEING confident! 😎
@chrissmith45685 ай бұрын
"I am my deeds and everything I do is a reflection of self" I think this fits what you said.
@user-rz9bk4of7v3 ай бұрын
How bro felt commenting this: 😈 Vs What bro actually is: 🤡
@AliVoe3 ай бұрын
@@user-rz9bk4of7v So true though🫥
@WilliamJonesChess Жыл бұрын
Key Moments [square brackets= own thoughts] 00:20 He does not overreact. [Wow. It shows that he has leverage. You need him more than he needs you.] 1:19 Exposure Therapy 2:00 Ask a question you know you are in charge of. What is your dog’s name? [ Tom shows that he does not care what you have to say. He has leverage.] 7:40 Turn a bad situation into a great one. Tommy makes a bad situation better than if it never happened in the first place. 9:12 How can the thing I least want be valuable to another goal?
@joshuaa9517 Жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@WilliamJonesChess Жыл бұрын
@@joshuaa9517 You are welcome
@FroggyPrince Жыл бұрын
he literally made the timestamps in the video when he posted it
@joshuaa9517 Жыл бұрын
@@FroggyPrince no but this guy summarised it
@Cormac-jd2kx3 ай бұрын
00:00 how to be so lost you think a video showing a Hollywood star can improve your life 😂😂😂😂
@twentydixoncider7443 Жыл бұрын
Fear is a perfectly normal to feel sometimes, it's what you do with that fear that can make you great
@maximesauvage53011 ай бұрын
I use my fear as it is meant to be used for in the first place, keeping me from putting myself in dangerous or uncomfortable situations.
@ianneon65096 ай бұрын
Few people have said this out loud. WE know because WE listen, watch and feel. Bravo friend, Bravo.
@bonitalehtonen12545 ай бұрын
FEAR: the only way out...is through
@jayceazar147610 ай бұрын
"He who remains calm in the face of adversity, while all others fall apart....is truly in control"
@kennethbedwell59659 ай бұрын
Or does not understand the gravity of the situation.🤔
@nicolpineda86327 ай бұрын
@@kennethbedwell5965 That's why in addition to being calm, you also have to show that you know where you stand. You can show concern and insertion at the same time without losing the façade of tranquility and security.
@TLW3692 ай бұрын
Yep!
@timaf4458 Жыл бұрын
Tommy Shelby suffers from shell shock, or what is known today as PTSD. A lot of people who suffer from that have that cold look in their eyes, it’s not confidence it’s feeling dead inside. I’ve had it and I know people who have it too. It’s nothing to romanticize, don’t try to be a fictional character, they will never live up to the potential of reality. Better a life well-lived with love then trying to cultivate respect through alienating behaviors. Trauma isn’t sexy.
@carsonbrown536611 ай бұрын
Step 1: develop PTSD. Got it👍
@KingNez8910 ай бұрын
I'm going to do what works, fck love it's a over rated emotion that gets you know where....I'd rather be respected then loved all day any day of the week....
@fahkrudin989 ай бұрын
@@KingNez89Damn who hurt you?
@AZK919 ай бұрын
@@carsonbrown5366😂😂
@CV2T7 ай бұрын
Same bro same😢 you king keep on rocking! I really need some luck shits so fking rough rn, i couldnt say or understand what my emotions are rn, its switching fast 0-100 @KingNez89
@garybeltrand5802 Жыл бұрын
Ha, I've always done the off-topic question when someone's being confrontational, overly emotional, aggressive, or trying to flex authority on me. Never thought of it as confidence, more just me being weird. Even since back in school, just do it naturally. I'm quieter and somewhat smart but I grew up with dysfunctional people so I'm dulled to drama. I developed a "I don't care" type personality and maybe it's part of that. Just trying to level things down, but in kind of an awkward manner. Throws people off and I get mixed results - sometimes people just calm down, sometimes it pisses them off more, or confuses them.
@jayepstein1908 Жыл бұрын
It's a different vibe when the person going off topic is a reputable gangster that can have you killed at any moment because you ticked him off.
@BlitzEGG6 ай бұрын
Same here boss
@TheRealYou-su1qw Жыл бұрын
You have the ability to survive anything that is why despite all the storm made of pain, loss and chaos that you've had to endure, you are still alive and going strong. Gone were those days when a problem shared was a problem half solved, but today, a problem shared is a topic for gossip and discussion. I know you keep a lot of things to yourself b'cos it's difficult to have a friend who understands. Lighten up, laugh more, and don't get so worked up about things. There is so much inside you, and you have what it takes to make the most out of life
@LASMONN Жыл бұрын
Sometimes not doing anything is the most reasonable thing to do.
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Жыл бұрын
Very true 🙌
@AshleyMWilliams8910 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you used Peaky Blinders, they are perfect demonstrations for this video. Tommy and Alfie are my favorite characters of any show ever, love seeing them featured here❤
@johnvarnadoe4231 Жыл бұрын
How to be confident : always hold you’re pinky out when drinking anything. -Patrick star
@Jkim890 Жыл бұрын
When in doubt pinky out
@BigMcLargeHuge125 Жыл бұрын
Don’t forget those sentence enhancers!
@pinkyless Жыл бұрын
What if you don’t have a pinky?
@maryjanerx Жыл бұрын
I thought that was for putting on airs
@Jkim890 Жыл бұрын
@@pinkyless That’s just fancy talk
@INSANESUICIDE Жыл бұрын
The character suffers severe PTSD and has some serious issues with repressed emotion. There are many cases of people surviving war finding out it is over, they sit down and lower their guard and is overcome and straight up die from repressed stress or just have mental breaks. There is a time and a place to put your emotions to the side, but you always have to sort it out sooner rather then later, stress has a significantly higher interest rate than the bill you missed a payment on. Stay safe folks.
@Superhero-Motivation Жыл бұрын
I have not seen the video but I agree. When you have PTSD or any mental illness, repressing emotions is probably the most counterintuitive thing you can do
@PLsexpicklePL Жыл бұрын
@@Superhero-MotivationAbsolutely. Self-isolating is horrible if you have ptsd. You’ll simply get worse and worse.
@maximesauvage53011 ай бұрын
I don’t have any mental illness and still it is very hard for me to show my emotions to others, I am just like this. In the beginning I never noticed this myself until I did theater at school and the teacher wanted me to show her anger, joy and sadness and at that moment I realized that I never really displayed these emotions an open manner, even though I still felt the emotions inside and the result was I didn’t know how I could possibly simulate it, I was completely lost and I didn’t do the exercise with the other students, which kind of pissed the teacher off 🤷♂️.
@Loirn-onajourney Жыл бұрын
Being calm is a superpower. Be super.
@KristaPerera3 ай бұрын
This is true.thomas is so confident that even it says in his eyes
@baka2040 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting, subscribed. I have spent many years in customer service. About five years in I determined that the only successful people in this line were sociopaths. While that sounds harsh, it really depends on your motivation and sense of morality. I need to get what I want, at the same time convincing you that I know what you want, and how to get it. This is what I am missing in my current situation. I need to draw from that so that I may achieve success. Disclaimer, I don't what to screw anyone over. I just want things to work out my way once in a while. Maybe even help lift someone up along the way
@alertgasper6 ай бұрын
Another factor in exposing yourself to situations. When you resist using your money, looks, or status to get past a difficult situation, you take your strengths and weaknesses out for a ride. you learn more about yourself. You learn what you can handle and what you can't, because you left your comfort zone. "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" because you lose your fear of the unknown. Often, a leader we marvel at for "always knowing the right thing to do" has just guessed correctly all these times to make it this far. doing something beat doing nothing. "align your needs with others" is classic win-win scenario. sometimes you can do your research of their needs by listening rather than hearing. as the nuns used to teach, you have two ears and one mouth to listen twice as much as you talk. Let the other party fill in the silence. figure out why people do what they do. what is their ultimate goal?
@Creophagous7 ай бұрын
When it comes to the actions of others, engaging in fake flexing is exactly what it sounds like-fake. Under pressure, those who adopt this behavior tend to crumble. I've encountered individuals who embraced the "fake it until you make it" mindset, and truthfully, it's quite discernible. Observing others interact with these individuals always brought a smile to my face, as it revealed something that many people failed to see objectively: the susceptibility of individuals seeking attention from those who engage in fake flexing. The moment their insincere acts were exposed, the fake flexers would swiftly and cowardly turn on people, revealing the absurdity of their actions.
@TaHrPa Жыл бұрын
Step number 1: Be a fictional character played by a professional actor with 20 experts writing your every line, movement, thought and facial expression.
@notoriousbig3652 Жыл бұрын
😂
@VikashKumar-yr5xf Жыл бұрын
Exactly 😌
@paulseigeldorf94615 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking. It helps when the other person has a script telling them how to respond. lol.
@ianchesney9639 Жыл бұрын
I did this exposure therapy with women, always awkward and weird around women when asking for their number for a date or whatever.....the only way to achieve things in life weather it's money, talking to girls correctly etc ..is repeating failure until failure is no more, it's really the beauty of life you can mold yourself into anything you desire.
@jimhalpert0 Жыл бұрын
How to Win Friends and Influence People is a good book regarding this topic
@gortimustidditus Жыл бұрын
It helps a lot to maintain composure if you were a tunneled in WW1
@piuli95 Жыл бұрын
Were so anxious to look weak so we avoid mistakes and slow our trial and error learning process.
@archive6094 Жыл бұрын
Fun Fact: David Bowie was a huge fan of the Peaky Blinders and gave permission for music from his final album to be featured in Series 3
@dillonhastings84387 ай бұрын
#1 be a WW1 veteran
@ThisIsCexary28 күн бұрын
Bro u be ded if ur a WW1 veteran
@lukerXIII4 ай бұрын
Walking around the job site before an interview gets you into the field of the vibe that's going to be the routine you're going to be hard for if you walk in with that mindset you automatically get the job every time, trust!
@verynormalyoutubeuser3 ай бұрын
this has to be the best video that i have watched all day, you earned a subscriber bro
@velttokakka Жыл бұрын
When someone is about to punch me i just block the shot with my face and look cool. Works just like in movies
@syedali1401 Жыл бұрын
the best and quickest thing you can do before a fight or when a girl approaches you, is to keep your eyes relaxed and soft but focused and look both of their eyes very slowly.
@makoshark69x96 Жыл бұрын
SOFT, RELAXED EYES... THAT'S GREAT ADVICE ! I CAN FEEL IT ALREADY !
@bellastone-le9eb10 ай бұрын
Sounds like you have experience. 😂
@broadcastingtechnogtech1283 Жыл бұрын
Please make a video on how to protect self-respect while being calm and non reactive
@Steadyawake6 ай бұрын
The vato loco look and mad dog stare never fails, trust me and try it, practice and perfect it on that grandma that walks around the neighborhood
@sable5517 Жыл бұрын
Charlie! You have a way of speakin man. Thank you for the words.
@leadsolo27516 ай бұрын
Tommy Shelby is an Imaginary Character in a TV Series - And Portrayed by a Good ACTOR following a Well Written Script !! 😅
@lyndonbauer1703 Жыл бұрын
I've never heard of a state breaking question, but I realised I do this often when dealing with customers at work. 'what's your dog's name' I've said more times than I can count. Great video!
@mxria.azzxhra2 ай бұрын
I'm curious. Well, actually this is really helpful on being confident - keeping a straight face, calm, witty and the power of eye contact, etc. But the thing is that i believe we are living in a society which values feelings of others so I think, it'll be better if we can balance the facts and the emotion to have more respects from others. You know, when people are trying to mess up with you, you'll try to argue with them about the rights and wrongs. And of course, you'll win, but don't you care on how it will affect the person? - they will be sad, depressed, and ashamed and these things will lead to hatred. Don't you think of that? They'll try to start a war with you endlessly. But what if you actually values the person's feeling (after they lose)? You try to comfort them by saying things like "you're not that bad", " be proud of yourself*, or "stand proud, you're strong"? I think this method will more likely to lead you to more respects from not just the person, but the world. Everyone have feelings, right? Nah, this is just my opinion abt how to gain respects from others but do take on what really matter most in this world. Heart.
@MichaelAussie05 Жыл бұрын
How to be fearless under pressure? 1. Step one be a sociopath with ptsd. 2. Step two read rule 1.
@CygnusX-11 Жыл бұрын
I roll my eyes everytime he use clips and characters from a hollywood movie or a show to back up what he's saying! i mean Cillian Murphy is one the most introverted and reserved celebrities in real life...
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Жыл бұрын
Hollywood vs Real Life right?!
@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 144 subs and almost 75 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
@fatking2612 Жыл бұрын
Wish you have success 🙏🏻
@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
@@fatking2612 Thanks so much! I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos. Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
@katie365711 ай бұрын
Just subscribed!!
@nathananderson872011 ай бұрын
@@katie3657 I am so thankful for each person who subscribed and engaged with my content and any other creators who silently work hard behind the scenes despite countless struggles that are not being shown in the videos. As long as someone gains value from our art and creations, that’s really what really matters at the end of the day. This really truly makes me happy. When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us. Continue to grow as a person and I’m so glad that you’re part of this journey! I’m hoping to upload my next one this month, which is more than an hr long. I’ve been working hard for many months now to present it in the best way I can. I hope that you’ll enjoy it! Thanks so much again for your support! ❤️
@evansreels610 ай бұрын
This video will upgrade your standard of living
@ianberry5879 Жыл бұрын
It helps to have a script writer that draws out your personal scenes for the camera, and to be a good actor, so confused men can idolize you like a fictional character badass in a Hollywood production and picture themselves as being the same, as they post Joker/Shelby/Reacher/Taxi Driver/ memes about pushing a good man to his breaking point, then go right back to doing absolutely nothing.
@vandeezey Жыл бұрын
Is that what happened to you?
@adolfhipsteryolocaust3443 Жыл бұрын
I find the allaining your needs with the other person's usually doesn't work because most people don't want to be happy and like having problems
@nolesy34 Жыл бұрын
Your probably reich
@djtdawg87 Жыл бұрын
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
@michaelisonyoutube Жыл бұрын
Hi! I love your videos. Thank you for motivating me to start my own KZbin account.
@jamiepike69095 ай бұрын
I can’t stop thinking how many people will fail in life trying to act this way😂
@jamiepike69093 ай бұрын
@@seyiesetuosopfii3153 nope, but you most definitely are. 🤣
@nosisckymusic2 ай бұрын
If you lack understanding
@jamiepike69092 ай бұрын
@@nosisckymusic I’m sure some 5ft 2 8 stone guy is going to benefit from this🙄😂
@sss_0.6 ай бұрын
The thing about me is, I do pretty much all of these. I'm quite observative and idk if this will seem weird or not but I can tell how someone feels with their face expressions and tone of their voice really easily (I'm pretty sure a lot can do that aswell anyway). So ik how to behave around ppl to keep them comfortable or to fit in their moods. Not many ppl understand that from me and exclude me out of things
@King-Chick Жыл бұрын
Thank you for teaching me to be the man. Btw I am gonna say 1 fact, if you struggle today, exercise today, feel pain today, etc., that would be the reason of your success tomorrow.
@WitnessesSay10 ай бұрын
Yikes🤹🏻
@user-ad01f Жыл бұрын
In order to achieve calmness in stressful situations l think you have to learn how to respect death and pain for those are the biggest punishments the world can possibly give. Once you learnt seing death and pain as a lesson instead of the end or a failure you won.
@bridaw8557 Жыл бұрын
There are also the other fears a person needs to resolve within themselves; social rejection/ ostracization. It’s feels like actual pain and most people go to great lengths to avoid this outcome as well.
@wuzaishoa2016 Жыл бұрын
You can't ever be fearless but you can mask your fear as if you're unaffected
@yamz1156 Жыл бұрын
Facts, fear is felt through the entire body. Wether you accept it or not
@OmarHamza-nz9ob9 ай бұрын
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@OmarHamza-nz9ob9 ай бұрын
@@yamz1156 Yes Exactly, it is true... How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@monchichipower6334 Жыл бұрын
Do a video on how to combat getting roasted or bullied
@marendse6561 Жыл бұрын
Step 1: Fight in a war.
@alizwajinikwa433311 ай бұрын
😂😂I’m with you
@Lloyd_Florence10 ай бұрын
Step 2: Get PTSD.
@sosa416044 ай бұрын
Thank you for reuploading!
@jennat776 Жыл бұрын
Cillian Murphy is living proof that there's such a thing as Too Handsome.
@olderbadboy Жыл бұрын
Saw your talk on Destiny channel and i think you're a very nice human . I am stalking you now and my guts were right. You give valuable and entertaining content .
@brigittegeorg Жыл бұрын
What??
@swarnabhg4721 Жыл бұрын
so as we say.. *"Dont mess with Peaky Fooking Blinders"*
@BnDTV Жыл бұрын
I love the way you do your subtitles - what software are you using to create the subtitling in your videos?
@Mr_TommyGun_4 ай бұрын
0:07 holy crap I have that exact haircut. Now all I need is a long coat and a flatcap, oh, and a pocket watch to wear on my coat
@Planetary-15 ай бұрын
The fact they blur the weapons, but not the most deadliest, which is Tommy Shelby himself.....
@Huhj3053 ай бұрын
"Whats your dogs name" 🤣
@kevinb.86494 ай бұрын
Another trick is speaking in a low voice where it’s not mumbling but hard to kinda hear u can control others by making them move to you drawing them in and when they do u know u have them in a way or interested for sure but what you say and the words you choose to say it in matter.
@TheCUBARY Жыл бұрын
Fun fact- the intro may or may not have been an AI generated Charlie voice👀 (Podcast listener here!)
@Francis_UD3 ай бұрын
Stay far from weak 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
@BradAcquilin Жыл бұрын
Best way to be cool under pressure is to become a psychopath. Jk 😂
@reddragon4482 Жыл бұрын
He pretty much is a sociopath is he not lmao? It's been that long since I watched it lol.
@KevlarKoat Жыл бұрын
Study psychology if you want to see what manipulators work with. I like to guide them toward truth and empathy until they end the conversation in frustration! I love being one step ahead of them! Also, The 48 Laws of Power is a book which explains the techniques of his machiavellian style.
@shaunm9025 Жыл бұрын
he's almost similar to reddington. need to start watching this show, seems promising.
@Erick-xk4ug Жыл бұрын
I really love Tommy. He is so cool and inspired.
@nealmaxwell7905 ай бұрын
I developed the state of calm by being in a factory setting after being laid off from an engineering position. I was around guys who were Crips, some of them would get in my face or brandish weapons over minor offenses. I learned to stay calm, remind them of what they had to lose.
@nasirmehmood4228 Жыл бұрын
I can't imagin how this guy went this far with his channel by just taking a clip and just explain it as it goes, if an actor blink he'll say '' the guy blinked because he wants to show to the interviewer that he's not sleeping he's awake and attentive and this is how you show to the people that you are always aware of your surroundings blah blah'' and if the actor doesn't blink he'll say '' the guy didn't blink and kept staring at the interviewer this is how you show them that I am not just giving you an interview and answering your question I am giving you a warning that you should be careful with your questions and treat me respectfully or you'll be the responsible for the consequences, this is you let them treat you as you want'' Well done brother I must say
@wilmavantrier2998 Жыл бұрын
Things you will learn at acting school and playing your part in a movie, after 50 times doing it wrong than suddenly it is successful ❤❤❤
@OmarHamza-nz9ob9 ай бұрын
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@Wallace-rv1pi9 ай бұрын
Hi dear how are you doing?
@OmarHamza-nz9ob9 ай бұрын
@@Wallace-rv1pi 😥Yesterday, I had a dialogue with a Muzlim👳... Like this 👳: *"Accept ezlame, otherwise you will go to hell."* 😓: No, I am not interested. 👳: Not interested in what. 😓: In changing my beliefs. 👳: Why? 😓: It's none of your business. 👳: How its none of my business? 😓: I don't wanna have a dialogue on this topic.. I will not accept islam.. That's all don't waste my time.. 👳: *Is that the level arrogance you have with Allah?* What would you have replied if you were there in my place? Please tell me.. Also tell me about some humours responses that can be given at such incidents.
@wilmavantrier29989 ай бұрын
@@Wallace-rv1pi Hi Wallace I am doing great thanks, wrong foto not trustworthy, doing body language now 😎
@Wallace-rv1pi9 ай бұрын
Are you a man or a woman?
@jamesward5721 Жыл бұрын
He developed this trait by reading the script. He's an actor.
@kalebwieland4938 Жыл бұрын
It's a really neat method even mentioning your own loss, then finish with what the other person's gain is.
@paulk1197 ай бұрын
He’s an actor in a scene of a movie. 👌
@jackreacher. Жыл бұрын
I'm the optimist. I do it because the outcome is rewarding in spite of my expectations. Risk everything and lose it all? The loss is a great lesson for re-defining value. Experience will always equal material gain. Only perpetual winners can enjoy goodwill and blue sky.
@SimpleaYoungBoy11 ай бұрын
Good information right here, thanks man
@russianbot4418 Жыл бұрын
*Charisma On Comand:* I'm going to teach people how to be better as individuals. *YT:* Gotta knock that shyte down hard before it ruins the narrative.
@ameersheikh9695 Жыл бұрын
In real life it’s hard to do this, we are not move set we don’t have a director or anyone who remains us we are just acting it’s good to calm every time but sometimes you lose
@MackTrainingAcademy4 ай бұрын
You build to success with each failure.
@xrafy23 ай бұрын
what i'd do to be mostly fearless is just act like im living my life and will respawn anytime
@Kate.Sangalang4 ай бұрын
It made me think that the Director of Peaky Blinders utilized the 48 Laws of Power for this series.
@jiena192411 күн бұрын
Could u plz make some videos about dealing with a job interview??😊😊 I love ur videos tho, learning a lot
@EmmanuelMentore-r4u22 күн бұрын
honestly who is disliking dis videos bro dis is a w
@Luckystoic2 ай бұрын
I am now 80 years old and when I look over my life I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles, never wavering from my core beliefs, has ensured my well being all along the way.
@ramazanaktas7482 ай бұрын
You are practically dead
@marteerens Жыл бұрын
I really recommend you analyse James Acaster... Most fearless person ever
@armageddonready4071 Жыл бұрын
Marine corps boot camp was my “exposure therapy”
@GregorPQ Жыл бұрын
Why was it banned?
@FitThruCancer Жыл бұрын
I was wondering the same thing.
@riderinsanjose337 Жыл бұрын
Maybe showed a gun or used the word. idk for sure.
@reddragon4482 Жыл бұрын
Because YT is cancer and punishes interesting content. They want everything dumbed down so they can put tampon advertisements on your videos.
@copycat21c7 ай бұрын
Outstanding summary clearly translated for real-world applications. Thank you.
@ingridclare7411 Жыл бұрын
Nahh, he looks ARROGANT. Totally different to natural confidence, which usually takes learning with age. Confident people don't make others feel intimidated, they make them feel comfortable, often using gentle humour. They show how they are comfortable with themselves and who they are, no matter their level of 'success'.
@Nylak-Otter Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I'm an animal behaviorist, and acting confident in a scenario with a fearful-aggressive animal that is at all bonded with you will make the animal more relaxed, less reactive and more responsive to instruction and direction. Being intimidating and overconfident instills fear, which pits you against the scenario or opponent rather than with them. This has a high chance of making them more aggressive and uncooperative in response, and no one will trust you or want to work with you. It forces a violent encounter, or complete and immediate submission, by your enemy, and they will always be your enemy. This is for lone wolf types who think they only need to be reliant on themselves, forever.
@yasirkayoom480910 ай бұрын
I should have downloaded your previous Tommy Shelby video........ please find a way to make it available to us❤
@iamthemoss11 ай бұрын
KZbin, the great protector of our feelings and safety.
@tonymn1985 Жыл бұрын
Its really easy to say but actually doing it is another thing trust me
@samserious1337 Жыл бұрын
What if there is no way for "exposure therapy"? It's either the situation or avoid the situation.
@williampowell3378 Жыл бұрын
3:42 changed his state.
@jodidavis6595 Жыл бұрын
What a great show. Loved this. Rip Pauly
@ReconVette19D Жыл бұрын
I like this one so please re up every 6-8 weeks
@derplad9040 Жыл бұрын
1. Get in shape 2. The rest will sort itself out
@SamDennis-vo7vh3 ай бұрын
Thomas Shelby over here playing 3d chess while everyone playing checkers...