Embarrassment and Growing pains in your relationship | Fridays with Tab and Chance

[@bestkksser]

If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸

[@Vickyduckworth491]

This is facts!

[@marcialee508]

Amen! Needed to hear/read that. God Bless you🙏🏽✝️💜👍🏾

[@jacquelinelawler6142]

Yes, so true!😊

[@shakeiraaydelott1148]

Yessss 🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@decoratingwithjazigreen]

So so true 👍🏼Be grateful

[@DoughDashWord]

I love how chance is more comfortable with the camera and talking. He gets straight to the point so much quicker now.

[@AllThingsSoul]

I love how Tabitha does not interrupt him and allows him to express himself in his own words on his own time. Us ladies tend to want to interrupt and put our 2 cents in or finish his sentences, but we have to learn how to be good listeners. Myself included!

[@purplepantheradk]

These are great comments 😊I concur. I need to work on that too.

[@awardtour93]

I hope Chance understands just how valuable his voice is. Thank you for sharing your experiences, brother.

[@laymic8944]

Why pay for a therapist when we can just watch this real couple? I love yall❤

[@decoratingwithjazigreen]

Right 😊

[@Sheninabroaders]

I agree I need it every week

[@betternay9165]

Exactly my thoughts ❤

[@tboykin13tb]

Rgt, but I am Blessed to have free session, THANK U YAHWEH!!!! 🙌🏽💯

[@BiancaTheAlchemist]

No fr 😂❤

[@zerandrianmorris]

I ADORE how Tab slows down time for Chance to get his thoughts together. To think in first draft and arrive at his point. I ADORE that. She does not rush him. She allows him to explore where he is trying to go. To arrive at articulating what he’s saying. THAT is amazing to me.

[@lynntodd2845]

Honestly she has gotten a lot better. She used to interrupt him a lot

[@autismmomjoy]

❤

[@sleepytimesoundsnightnight]

Tab and Chance talking about they momma's had me laughing so hard that i couldn't even close my mouth. I had that silent open mouth laugh!

[@queenofweaves916]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@clariseharrington8252]

😅

[@GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina]

I sincerely appreciate your and Chance's transparency.

[@ajrose1245]

The beginning was the perfect Segway to the topic!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BibleTalk2]

I really enjoy these Tab and Chance Fridays. So encouraging and uplifting

[@KiaFlow]

These topics give my husband and I things to discuss, learn and grow from. Thanks for your wisdom.

[@communitydancetheatre9841]

🥰🥰

[@gwenmack5108]

Love the way you two look at each other with so much love and respect for each other! ❤It’s FRIDAY!!

[@joanncrabtree4354]

😊🎉

[@LeLand2112]

Chance was waiting till the coast was clear to ask if Tab was alright 😂

[@minervadouglas7576]

😂😂

[@TayReneeTips]

Right 😂. Now that we have text, mine would probably text me that 😂.

[@carolynlong8701]

Embarrassing moments just make you grow in your relationships ❤

[@gabbymommie2]

Your mom is my hero! I love how sweet and cool she remained but still demanded that respect. I love it! 😂

[@tonyaheaden9199]

😂😂😂 I can only imagine what Chance was thinking that entire time between the slap and the time y’all got back in the car!😂😂😂

[@luvnyaalwayz]

Every week I feel more love for the two of you, it's the transparency and the hard conversations for me. I love to see it

[@helenellis1045]

Thanks for sharing your lives with us…. It’s funny, touching and so relatable. My husband and I have been married almost 28 years- thru the good, bad & ugly. God has been faithful and prayer got us here 😊

[@TayReneeTips]

Yes, I love them. I wish I was able to watch them back in the beginning of my marriage. We're going on 22 years now. Happy early 28th anniversary 😘.

[@divastarr35]

I felt a little embarrassed when my wonderful Significant Other & I “tooted” or burped in front of each other the first time. We always say “excuse me” or something polite when it happens. He said something to me that really made a lot of sense & speaks volumes: “If you can’t be comfortable ripping one in front of each other, then you’re not comfortable being around each other!” (or something close to that. I don’t remember the exact wording, but you get the idea.) That’s real truth right there! You gotta be able to let the embarrassments happen to allow to becoming comfortable to happen! You gotta take the good with the bad & toughen up! Thank you for your realness Tab & Chance. I love this show & you guys! Keep on being awesome & your best selves! Blessings 💖

[@Virtuouswomanproductions]

I love how you're dropping the episodes earlier in the day. I just hit like before it comes on. I know its gonna be good. I just talked to God about this topic with someone

[@sfr9722]

Chance’s hair looks really good.

[@carolynlong8701]

You guys have stand the test of time especially because you were very young and God has blessed you to still be together ❤

[@TOMMYBITESTVHOMESTEAD]

We have had so many embarrassing things happen in our 21 years married. It is something a kut being able to trust that you can go through those things and know that your partner is truly there for better or worse and you can laugh about it later.

[@christinabaker7021]

I’m going through perimenopause as well, and having the conversation with my husband is a challenge sometimes because I’m afición being too needy. But….men go through andropause, and me being willing to open up about how my body is changing has helped him to open up as well. That said, the struggle is real. But, Tabitha, listening to you and others who have a spiritual perspective has encouraged me, and prayer is my constant companion. Lord, lead me to the solution for this issue. Help me to keep things in perspective and to know that you want for me to be happy and healthy even as you take me through this lesson.

[@LoveFireWellness]

"I'm grown, in my Choice voice" LMBO! 🤣😭😂🦋😍🥰

[@lorinunery2353]

I love your relationship and how you kept it real for 20+yrs.

[@valeriedorsey7527]

🤣🤣🤣 I cannot believe this. I had almost the exact same experience with my mother, at around the exact same age, and my boyfriend at the time, who later became my husband also, had the same response that Chance had. He asked me was I alright too! The only thing different, was that indidn't cuss and hang up on my mom. She just didn't like my tone of voice. I shudder to think what would have happened had I cussed and hung up the phone, but I was so embarrassed. I'm now 68 years old, and my mom is 91 yrs old, and she still doesn't play. You really took me back with that story,vand believe me, it never happened again!😂😂😂😂

[@Srhubanks]

I cried laughed through this whole episode…Chance couldn’t even keep it together and I was Chance while Tab was telling her momma story! I couldn’t keep it together! 😂😂😂

[@GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina]

Chance... "They watching me in my house." 😂

[@InTheRecoveryRoom]

Ms Tab… u and ur husband’s vulnerability brings tears to my eyes … #thankubothforshowingup

[@denisescott6469]

Man, y'all be making my day! When I really need a laugh I look the honeymoon recap. 😂😂😂😂 I'm going to look at it now I feel like laughing! ❤

[@melaniehicks7815]

I’m post menopausal and just realized I was in a depression. Adjusting to my body and life changes. I’m plant based and I know that helps but I didn’t realize I was depressed until I came out of it … didn’t know when it started . Awesome you both are speaking on this

[@jnellp9362]

I really appreciate this conversation. I raised three sons as a divorced single mother. And it saddens me to say they don't know how to do things that society and "other" males believe they should...

[@dthornton1107]

Love the relationship that you and Chance has, very open.

[@donnathornwell1068]

Y’all have some great conversations which turn into teachable moments. Thank you for the lessons 💜

[@tyuanacoates273]

This was very good conversation thank you both; may God continue to bless you!

[@nikkil1212]

Hey Tab and Chance. Have the day you deserve 🙏🏽❤

[@AudreyBerry-jw2sd]

Don’t feel bad the first time I tried cooking pinto beans didn’t put enough water in and my husband told me to never cook them again because they were hard as rocks 😂😂😂

[@sayless1445]

😂😂

[@valeriedorsey7527]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TayReneeTips]

😂😂😂

[@curlylyric]

i love you both so much ❤️ so much wisdom and love 🙏🏾

[@dymjackson713]

Not somebody shooting 😭😂😭😭😭😭 I love Yall god 😂😂😂❤️

[@kelleyjones2899]

OMG!!! Cooking Pento beans in a deep fryer!!! Tabitha, I am dead!!!

[@rolitajames6978]

Wow! Yikes 😬

[@bernadettedarden9520]

Menopause can be very harsh I went through a rough time in 2011. My mother being a nurse for over 35 yrs told me not to take the pill the doctors give you it can cause cancer do I went natural way by using the compound cream. Tab please set down with your doctor concerning this matter it really affected my entire body. Praying for you and I hope your husband understands and be very sensitive towards you. 😢❤

[@jamuq3589]

THIS was Excellent! Thank you, Tab & Chance!

[@shebapowers7235]

Y'all are so refreshing. Thank you!

[@beautyinme360]

To be able to hear the maturity and growth between you two is a blessing 🙏

[@Kita_01]

I love y’all sooo much ❤️❤️ I pray to have this type of love, energy, laughter, understanding and everything else I’m forgetting lol .. one day with my husband.

[@TulseeDeen]

Love this couple’s friendship, it’s a beautiful thing to watch😍

[@marshabowens9253]

Hello There! Tab & Chance what a bless Friday it is. I’m going home from the hospital today. Much Love You Both ❤️💙❤️💙

[@mamakarin8592]

Awesome! Praying for your health to be fully restored!💜

[@alphaandomega1332]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 ..that momma story had me rolling 😂😂😂😂. I keep going back to the momma story 😂😂😂.

[@NicxNic]

Watching Tab and Chance at work 😌 these paperwork can wait and that’s my business

[@lawandamoore7743]

This is so funny my husband and I have been together since were 17. Together 31 years married 21. Tab and Chance listening to y’all stories brings up so many memories of me and my husband. My husband is not the handyman but I can fix some things he can’t because of my dad and brothers. I definitely couldn’t cook either I would call my mama, grandma and my aunt Sister 😂😂. My mama used to come to my house to cook for us and I would tell my husband then boyfriend that I cook 😂😂 until he caught my mama leaving one day. 😂😂 We got this now! ❤

[@TayReneeTips]

I'm strolling down memory lane too, and loving this conversation. I definitely have to watch this with my husband.

[@lineegiles815]

Oh Tab, you got GOT! You are never too old. I say this to my 31 yo too.

[@ladylashleytt]

Such a real real conversation. Love you two! 🤎🙌🏾

[@JulisaNicole]

Omg! The “aye you alright” 2 hours after sounds just like Chance 😂 that was a good story.

[@CeeFitz]

I love your union, you compliment each other so well. I enjoy the way you love and support your family. Blessings and continued well being to you all.

[@Batirtze-b6x]

Stevie Wonder can see they love each other. But most of all, I looooove the way they listen to each other. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@tracysittinpretty1381]

I am crying at the beans in the fryer! 🤣

[@stellac.e2086]

FYI ... 😂 we are here for TAB & CHANCE.

[@btownes5632]

Absolutely a needed conversation. Thank you so much for sharing and always being so transparent about everything.❤❤❤

[@sdc1116]

Great conversation❤love it!!!

[@mt5472]

Oh I needed this!! Thank you!!

[@shawquilalogan344]

Learning together! I love that!

[@msmashelleanderson5876]

I loooooove you both! So very inspiring 😊

[@betternay9165]

Chance yes that was a mouthful. If young men are not educated about it they have no patience for it. Thank you

[@vernelllevingston1800]

Embarrassment is a part of life, it is how you. Handle it And come up with a resolution. How to solve the embarrassment And move on Just don't embarrass me in front of a whole lot of people. Because you could have pulled me to the side and told me what I did wrong At that time and we can discuss it later And revive it. Just not in public. You're different and public is very important

[@carolynlong8701]

Thank you for sharing your experiences with the world 🙏🏾♥️

[@melbaknowlton]

I really enjoy y’all conversations!! Every couple can’t talk like this!! Keep them coming give the people hope!! 😁

[@anndavis1142]

Going through growing pains builds a wonderful relationship

[@pringles0111]

I love ❤️ the fact that no matter how many years they have been together they still look at each other with love 💕 in their eyes 🥰

[@maryhiggs8444]

You Two have Been Chosen to Help the Masses at the Point of their Needs

[@mosue3200]

Wonderful storytelling! 😊 Thank you Tab and Chance!

[@aneatrice28]

I really enjoy your transparency as a couple. I am going through a breakup with the man that was supposed to be my husband and it’s been really hard. Hoping I can have a healthy relationship one day.

[@LowkeyMikeyyy]

My favorite Friday podcast! ❤

[@terrelllanier-fox2028]

You guys are a true blessing to me. I am learning so much and I have some goals now to make my marriage stronger and more joyful.

[@iamshe3275]

I did the exact same thing to a chicken breast. I was making my BF, which is my husband now. LOL, I thought frying chicken was all about the pretty color on the outside! He bit the chicken LOL He screamed and spit that crap out like Hun! I'll fry the rest of the chicken LMAO up until he went vegetarian he never bit into a piece of chicken!!!😂 He'd break it open with his fingers first!

[@yvonnewilliams8800]

Alright Mama! We love you Tab❤ But my mama would have done the same thing. I understand Chance too. I had a teacher that used to make the whole class stay after even if you had nothing to do with. Well my daddy used to dress like Sammy Davis Jr on Sundays for church but during the week my daddy worked hard and when he picked us up from school after working hard, he usually would be wearing his house slippers and when he had to pick me up from school late because our teacher held us over. I could hear his feet scooting down the school hallway and I would be so embarrassed because I know he was already saying in his mind what the F is going on that my daughter had to stay after. Chile, I like to have gotten my behind blazed over some other kid and my teacher😂

[@clariseharrington8252]

😅

[@1valerie_oakley]

Your willingness to work out EVERYTHING together is golden. Everything is figure outable if you just give each other grace. Thanks for sharing❤❤

[@houzhead6588]

Absolutely Chance growing together early ...figuring it out....this is real talk and its talk that most folk dont talk about so thanks to you both Tab/Chance.

[@adalealea34]

I can remember those days 😅😢😂 keep doing what you're doing 😅 I thank you both ❤ God bless you both and your family ❤

[@yeslia2010Godis]

That's one of those old School pop in the mouth where your lips sting for minutes afterwards 😄 I like Chance's T-shirt !! Very good conversation!!!!

[@TayReneeTips]

Sure was 😂! I was on the receiving end of one of those when I was about 17. 😅

[@TR-hn6qj]

YES!!! Tab mama got her straight even at 21yo!! Come on!!

[@speakezforkids545]

This was good! Throughly enjoyed it! Thanks and love ya’ll❤

[@Sheninabroaders]

I love y’all I look forward to Friday with Tab and Chance I watch it every week

[@profmj7630]

One of my favorite episodes...❤❤❤

[@bonitabelcher1951]

My husband and I will be married 42 years in Nov. We were in the Air Force but I met him in college. After our wedding we were able to be assigned to the same base. When I arrived to our base housing we went shopping and I did it the way my Mama did it. I brought a whole chicken and didn’t know how to cut the chicken up. My husband cut the chicken up for me. I fried the chicken the same way you did. It was nice and crispy on the outside and bloody on the inside. I had to learn how to cook and I did. Thanks for that story it brought back a lot of memories. 😂😊

[@TayReneeTips]

Definitely bringing back a lot of memories. Congrats on 42 years. We were in the Air Force too. 😘

[@carolynlong8701]

You guys are hilarious 😂 ❤but when you are married there is no embarrassment especially after 37 years. Nope 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@marshabowens9253]

Thanks Tab and Chance for this topic on this Friday. Y’all had me laughing 😂😂😂😂

[@arianastetson5330]

Love you both. ❤ Thank you for sharing your lives with us 💯

[@TheCoastofMagdala]

Tab praying for you and your hip and any other alignments you may be suffering from. We love you and want to be able to have you here for many many more years to come! You make the world a better place to live in. Thank you

[@shellybirch8893]

You all remind me of that song by Mrs. Great Anita Baker. You Bring Me Joy!!! The Both of you💕

[@gomasworld7215]

I feel you Tab on the peremenopause its😮 no joke....😢

[@vanessadavis5934]

Less than ten minutes into the video and I am screaming!!!! My mother would have done the same thing. Then again, knowing my mother, she would have driven over the same day!

[@gabbymommie2]

Listen!! 😂😂😂 My mom definitely would have taken that drive!

[@hppybnstr537]

I just love you guys SOOO much!! Thank you for doing what you do so very well!❤

[@Jan-xp8yi]

That’s how you learn how to cook. When my daughter was young, she called me and asked if she could make biscuits, i said sure, but you have to clean up after. There were dishes and dough everywhere from her running out of room to wash everything up, but that’s how she learned! She’s a wonderful cook

[@unapologeticallydreizy958]

Can I just say I love Their Authenticity so much! Tab and the pinto beans Babeee - That is something I would have done. While learning to cook I was told you can make a great roast in the crocpot with minimal effort. Everyone said just throw it in the croc pot put it on high or low, cut up some potatoes, add some baby carrots and veggies of your choice after like 3hrs ... Babeee I did just that! Bought a roast, got some veggies & potatoes to add in. Turned the pot on high and dropped the pre-seasoned roast in the pot. It was Smelling so good I sat on the couch and dosed off. Can I just say I awoke a few hors later to a burning smell. Yep you guessed it - I didn't put any liquid in the pot so that poor roast didn't stand a chance. Nobody ever said put you some broth or water in the pot first 🤦🏾‍♀️ I cussed everybody out because not one person gave proper instructions 🤣😂

[@ThePInkLoungeWithKeyyyy]

I pray I find a partner as genuine as you guys 🫶🏼

[@pollyd612]

We sure need to talk about women’s and men’s issues. We need to look out for each other ❤

[@kingdomchild6392]

Just getting to this on Monday. Love this! The Lord Bless everything and everyone connected to you two ❤❤

[@workingthrumyissues]

Listen this video was needed. Especially her husband's comments about changing a tire and the locks. I learned to not be so hard on my husband for not doing "simple" diy stuff. This probably saved my marriage.

[@gerriaviles8865]

I LOVE you two!! ❤💖💕😊

[@alliyoung17]

I really LOVE y'all for this. Thank you, for sharing. This will help a lot of young couples and newly married couples in general. Y'all are The-Real-Deal. It's just a beautiful thing to watch the two of you!❤