The day you decide to have a successful marriage is the day you take a hard look at yourself ! This was great wisdom.
@Zee_C4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@sharita72704 жыл бұрын
AMEN.....INDEED!!!
@clarkclarke4 жыл бұрын
It always starts with self ..
@singfamof64 жыл бұрын
Profound message!!!!!! Baby..
4 жыл бұрын
I need a better, more loving relationship with myself FIRST, to have a better, more loving relationship with my spouse and others.👍🏽
@completely_me753 жыл бұрын
He's such a calm man. They balance each other's personality so beautifully 😍
@kellco4 жыл бұрын
An older gentlemen told me one time that he not only loves his wife, but he LUVs her and this is what is missing from most marriages. LUV: listen, understand, and validate. This was such a confirmation, Chance and Tab. I'ma go give my husband some suga'! Praise God for the brand new mercy we get everyday, we can start over with our spouses, ask for forgiveness and forgive, and start all over again. Amen!!
@saywhatondat4 жыл бұрын
beautiful statement and amen love this!!
@queenofweaves9163 жыл бұрын
Amen I had to screen shot this Listen Understand Validate 🥰 I will celebrate 22 years of marriage in February and I know and that God everyday for the blessing He gave me in my husband.
@kellco3 жыл бұрын
@@saywhatondat Amen!
@kellco3 жыл бұрын
@@queenofweaves916 Congratulations on 22 years. Yes, thank God for YOUR husband. So many spouses complain about what the other spouse isn't doing, or being, or who they are not like. When we stop complaining and start praying and praising, what the spouse is doing or not, isn't at all what we thought we were seeing or hearing. The Lord has a great way of showing us ourselves. Then you're right Sista, we can see our husbands as blessings!
@ashantimitchell3 жыл бұрын
Will Smith said the same thing on Red Table Talk
@lytraylor334 жыл бұрын
Best couples counseling ever! Y'all need to write a relationship book and have a tv show.
@jeanmason43953 жыл бұрын
Whew!!!
@chicagojenn69303 жыл бұрын
Yes this comment
@antinciafoster79793 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@godsgirl72013 жыл бұрын
My pastor said we should dedicate a whole day to our partner cater to them mate everything about them do it often not just on birthdays♥️
@vblacka41173 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Tina_3304 жыл бұрын
Chance: ..to me she is an extension of me (I felt that!)
@jeanmason43953 жыл бұрын
Wow!!
@kimberlyjackson13373 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@maydavalle3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@crystalr68953 жыл бұрын
Powerful💯❤❤
@sofumba3 жыл бұрын
Just met these TWO beautiful Black People today, and am now a Fan!! Every HUSBAND needs a WIFE like this to push and encourage him; the statement about knowing yourself first, before getting married is also my mantra-
@sweetthang46354 жыл бұрын
My husband is my best friend....and we can talk about everything. We Wana be happy....so we don't always have to be right....and we practice investing in one another. Thank you for this Black Love.
@TheSecretDwellingPlace3 жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful! 🥰
@lisamitchell25013 жыл бұрын
I can tell this union is genuine because their spirits are similar!! 😍😍😍
@charmainemarshburn54624 жыл бұрын
I cannot begin to tell y’all how much I love this!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for sharing.
@sharita72704 жыл бұрын
Communicate....Invest.......Remind him that he's safe and can be vulnerable......Relax!!!
@agendiamercy65834 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thank you so much for sharing such priceless truths and giving hope to those who might have lost all hope. God bless you and heal our families🙏 Can anyone see what I'm seeing? Beautiful stuff like this online...praise God. The internet is not all bad, depends on where we choose to focus, on value or trash. May we choose right.
@valeriegolden56543 жыл бұрын
Omg I just found you through the controversy regarding Wendy Williams comments. Your response was so classy and spiritual. After watching this inspiring video, I feel so new. Btw. I also saw the video on your becoming a Vegan. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you
@maryade44164 жыл бұрын
Please have them on the show next season 🙏🏾
@robinbelgrave35543 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the comment she always sees the best in people. That's a God heart ❤.
@msnandimarie70233 жыл бұрын
I'm here after Wendy Williams talked negatively about Tabitha and Chance.
@Arun711504 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being real with your answers. Going on 10yrs and its a struggle at times but people don't be talking the truth and uplifting each other. Y'all that was gems of advice; your book is waiting to be read by us 👏🙌 IJN 🙏
@ishawright52464 жыл бұрын
I love the transparency in your open conversation. I wish as a community we could share our hurts as well as our successes in marriage. Chance spoke a word!! The day you decide to have a successful marriage is the day you take hard look at yourself!! Keep encouraging folks Tab & Chance❤️
@doreen.rruvuza5664 жыл бұрын
Those earrings...the ankara outfit. Oh my! Loved the candid answers and honesty.
@minniepeete46593 жыл бұрын
You guys are just realist and relationships are work, we see where you are now , but not what’s been behind the scenes, thank GOD you made it through. Love your honesty and how you encourage each other. Great when you can be as one.
@alisonassanah-carroll19574 жыл бұрын
That was the most beautiful expression of love and marriage that I've seen in a long time! Thank you for the inspiration, the possibility, the hope that this can be my joy-even if I don't get to experience it as long as the two of you have!🙏❤
@getachewtesfa92274 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is what an ideal couple sounds and looks like! Your demeanor, understanding and love to one another is next level. Many can use you two as a model for marital relationship. You guys are so young with old souls, you really get this life thing. God keep blessing you both🙏🏾
@blessingsbest68384 жыл бұрын
So so true!!! I love how they respect each other and how she stroke his head x
@donnastotts68163 жыл бұрын
She so pretty and looks very happy. You two make a great combination... I LOVE black Love. I wish me and my hubby were in this stage of our marriage.. we LOOK good but we are not vibin
@Laria4life3 жыл бұрын
Black love is EVERYTHING
@audreywarmington23683 жыл бұрын
Just finding your channel and I'm in love i can feel the honesty the purity the love the sincerity coming from you guys. stay blessed.
@konfidentlothevirgo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 2 so much for touching on "gut punches" & growing together through it..as well as many other key examples in this chat. You dont know how much this just helped me❤. Everything you all have said is pretty much the holy grail of relationships & this video needs to be sent to everyone in a relationship...( I just shouted!)
@princesssmart96564 жыл бұрын
When he said , "Myself". Deep brotha 🤯
@cherylhopkins37883 жыл бұрын
I just ran across this Tab and Chance show on my UTube. Well I am. Hooked. I have been married for 47 years now and we're so happy. To see the two of EVERYDAY. I learn so.e to spice my marriage. You're never too old to learn. Blessings and Love to you both.
@TheLovePowerGoddess3 жыл бұрын
This was real good! Chance is just one of the good ones! What a beautiful couple
@willmartinez54962 жыл бұрын
I think that response to the marriage question would make any man rethink " shacking up". That was beautiful - you don't care , you just want to be with me? That would make me fall in love if I wasn't in love.
@codishaa2 жыл бұрын
WOW. They preaching. looking at yourself before marriage is such great advice. looking back, I wish I had looked at myself more deeply. So much to unpack in yourself before marriage. Continued growth though.
@valeriemaddox97702 жыл бұрын
Tabitha and Chance, you are such a beautiful and humble couple. You all complement each other so well. Thank you for sharing. May God continue to lead, guide protect and bless you abundantly.
@spaxdlamini62542 жыл бұрын
I just love this couple. I'm in South Africa and you guys are my American buddies who are super cool. Learning a lot from you. 💯❤️
@reginadright25814 жыл бұрын
You two are so beautiful. I felt ya'll loving and genuine energy that you love, like, and are in love with each other..I see that natural couple glow. God bless you both. Thank you for sharing.
@doreathaannhighsmith28083 жыл бұрын
Mr and Mrs. Brown , you two are a beautiful couple. Your union is indeed a beautiful ministry.
@SG-kp5hi3 жыл бұрын
They put in the work, n this is the result that we all r admiring.
@manthony7773 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful couple. God bless you and your marriage. Many more happy years together. ♥️♥️
@feliciab.87103 жыл бұрын
I love you two together. You balance each other out. It's a blessing to have that type of love. God bless your family
@dorothymatthews66902 жыл бұрын
This was so good! Thank you both for sharing these golden nuggets that sustains a marriage for the long term! Awesome advice!
@klstepney3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this talk!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️
@melinachieng3473 жыл бұрын
She's the prettiest woman av ever seen!!!!!
@puddincup98794 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful couple. Chance has BEAUTIFUL eyes and lashes.
@aldyja4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful pearls of wisdom shared by Tab & Chance. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️
@everythingyou20452 жыл бұрын
I love you guys this interview brought tears of joy to my eyes!i I’m grateful for you guys and you sharing your relationship with us .I know God will continue to bless you . ♥️
@alphaberryxo3 жыл бұрын
She reminded him of the time he hit her in 5th grade! Lol. I LOVE them! I'm mad I just found out about Tabitha today, binge watching her is added to my plans this week
@chocodiamondjewels34033 жыл бұрын
Tabitha girl, you have it LOCKED.
@michellegreen84003 жыл бұрын
True love is placed together by the Most High God and you two have given us great advice God Bless.
@barbaragilbert823 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, who are these people? I love it!! This is how it's suppose too be.❤️❤️
@tazaman20092 жыл бұрын
Wow, I smiled through this whole interview.... You two are Beautiful individually & together. 😎👍💜
@lolojen7944 жыл бұрын
Oh that part about the day you decide to have a successful marriage is also the day you’ve decided to take a good hard look at yourself and grow!!!!! Oh wow! It’s true! Marriage truly tests you to take a look at yourself! If you’re not doing that... I don’t know how you can grow, be stronger for yourself and give back to the relationship in a way you were impatient or stubborn prior. I’m telling you, that’s true!
@catherinefrye72693 жыл бұрын
Tabitha you and Chance are a Beautiful Couple and I truly admire your relationship with each other. Following the guidelines of Father God will insure victory of an Awesome Union, God Bless!❤❤
@keepitmoving7772 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks for the advice. I love you all! ❤️💙❤️
@sheliataylor7177 Жыл бұрын
The two of you are genuinely Blessed and a Blessing to so many! May you continue to focus on living life in various areas of abundance! I listened to the Q& A's regarding your marital relationship and was truly inspired and blessed!!! Continue your LOVE JOURNEY! SHELIA T IN KCMO
@joannapilgrim4 жыл бұрын
These are excellent questions and answers. Thank you for the gems. I'm engaged and I need this right now
@jewellsuber8433 жыл бұрын
Oooowheeeeee, This is some POWERFUL DIALOGUE RIGHT HERE!!!! MY LORD AND MY GOD!!! Chance, my brotha, you have an obvious CALL on your life!!!!!! Gives me chills....HALLELUJAH GOD!!!
@camilleandriette3 жыл бұрын
Listening, taking notes, and learning. I love the transparency and connection Tab and Chance have. Great information! Thanks for sharing. Love, light and peace to all 🙏🏽❤️
@lolitamichael69394 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Authentic Marriage! This is one of the reasons God created marriage. Two people growing and learning to become one. Through trials and error, if both parties are willing, you learn to Love, forgive, respect, support, and serve one another. It can be a rough journey at times but a beautiful ending if both parties are willing to pray and work through the rough patches! As they say, there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow(promise)🌈, and it looks like you both were willing to work through problems to the end. Congratulations and may Father God continue to keep His covering and protection over your marriage.🙏🏾 Beautiful just simply Beautiful! Love it!🥰💜 Romulus, Mi
@bronzefire49993 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple!! " The Blessing in Marriage"💓
@katiew37313 жыл бұрын
These two!!! So wonderful and heart-centered. I am grateful beyond words that they ended up as partners for life! I am also the product of a high school sweetheart marriage. ❤️ sometimes when you know, you know!
@bellalee69273 жыл бұрын
I truly love your relationship,very transparent which alot of people dont have. Many blessings to you both.
@prettysmallz3 жыл бұрын
I jus love watching these two and hearing them talk about their journey. Beautiful couple 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@alexandriahatten21672 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful. Thanks for sharing your experience
@tempesttcoleman40093 жыл бұрын
Yes Marriage takes Time
@shmawh3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful couple.
@lmarie7243 жыл бұрын
You two are amazing 👏🏽❤! Thank you for being such a great example ❤
@taracampos24323 жыл бұрын
God bless your Union! It's so beautiful ❤️
@reginahutchinson40573 жыл бұрын
Praise God thank you Tabitha and your Husband for being so transparent. Thank you for helping us Amen
@motivatingvibes4 жыл бұрын
I thank you both for being so real. Your the cutest couple I ever seen. Right a book about relationships do a soft copy and audible and some coaching on the side. Schedule sessions via the phone do it for all ages. Create a website people can come to for scheduled session. Starting at a half HR to an hour. Put your price on it your info is priceless. That way they schedule on your website. You have a business going and don't even know you have the followers the community to support you you can do weekends only. They can pay online right on your website for their schedule coaching. I just see that you guys have a lot to offer and a lot of people can benefit 20 + years you are a relationship expert you know all the ups and downs in and out of a relationship what works what doesn't work how to try and make it work just like you did here today add more and get paid you guys are awesome and I wish the best always.
@jewellsuber8433 жыл бұрын
Tab!!!??? Wow!!!! Good stuff my sista!!! You guys are walking it out!!! My my my!!! ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@maronaprophecy5973 жыл бұрын
God Sent 🧁 SWEET 🖤 BLACK 💕
@eVWomanisttheology2 жыл бұрын
I love you as "the married couple!"❤
@patriciaminguel1203 жыл бұрын
This couple is so absolutely adorable u can see the love they have for each other in the way they talk look and feel for each other I love this black 🖤 💯💯💯💯👌💯💯
@Daya18284 жыл бұрын
Chance comin with the wisdom on KZbin!!! Please do not sleep on letting us know when he starts his own show. I have many men that could use these people talks as they choose to grow, for real
@7mamatao3 жыл бұрын
🥰 I LOVE YA'LL!!!! BEAUTIFUL COUPLE.... THANK YOU FOR SHARING THE GLORY OF WHAT YOU HAVE!
@ceecee3664 жыл бұрын
We need a series, a tv show, a book or something to get this knowledge out to the world. I love #BL 💘💝💌 #droppinggems 💯
@GillieRutu3 жыл бұрын
Her energy 😍
@godsgirl72013 жыл бұрын
Definitely a learning moment for me♥️
@godsgirl72013 жыл бұрын
My pastor said we should dedicate a whole day to our partner cater to them mate everything about them do it often not just on birthdays♥️
@caroloutler76414 жыл бұрын
Good content. Very informative.Beautiful couple!!!
@tamikaqueen12033 жыл бұрын
In the north we called it shacking up too.
@aleonard53593 жыл бұрын
Lord please send me one of these (him)......! They are a beautiful couple!
@joyogbonnaya90854 жыл бұрын
Tabitha is such a beautiful woman ❤️😍😘
@dyoung27393 жыл бұрын
Tab,Chance and Donna are awesome ❤️!
@pamelabarber10333 жыл бұрын
Great Advice thanks for the honesty
@shereesedaniels743 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple..I enjoyed hearing them tell their story together. I would love for Chance to write a book. His information would be useful to men of all ages. I would definitely buy it for my husband.
@marilynthomson95643 жыл бұрын
You both are so precious! Also, you are both so very wise.
@lindamartin66284 жыл бұрын
That was awesome! I can tell that u guys have grown to be able to share Lot’s of wisdom & growth! I enjoyed it!
@LG-kx8xl3 жыл бұрын
It might have seemed like a bad decision when you were young (ya'll breaking up as teens), but in the midst of things God worked it out for your good. Chance, your beautiful daughter Leah is an Amazing young woman. In all God had a plan & look at your family now with all 3 of your children. Chance, you talking good. Like my Grandma used to say, it doesn't matter where you start, but where you end up because God knows what he's doing!!!
@genniejefferson65883 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple, cute together.
@tempesttcoleman40093 жыл бұрын
That's Spoken right
@ildeeartha3 жыл бұрын
just enjoyed your year old video on bowtie pasta and vegan burgers and loved your personality...and daughter's. Then this video popped up and oh my what a lovely couple. God Bless your family and happy new year!
@mels52993 жыл бұрын
Love black LOVE 🥰😍🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@cheekscheeks58404 жыл бұрын
I hope some men are listening to you chance
@jenmiller22083 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for this!!!! ❤️. What a beautiful relationship.
@JATM5094 жыл бұрын
Have them come on next season 😭😭🥺
@tboykin13tb2 жыл бұрын
Love These Two 😍🤩
@walenawellness64494 жыл бұрын
I love this couple energy ❤️ side note...he reminds me of the singer Ginuwine lol.... they're a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE 🎊