Tabitha Brown and Chance Brown Talk About Their Marriage | A Black Love Q & A

[@paigestroshine6814]

The day you decide to have a successful marriage is the day you take a hard look at yourself ! This was great wisdom.

[@Zee_C]

Amen!

[@sharita7270]

AMEN.....INDEED!!!

[@clarkclarke]

It always starts with self ..

[@singfamof6]

Profound message!!!!!! Baby..

I need a better, more loving relationship with myself FIRST, to have a better, more loving relationship with my spouse and others.👍🏽

[@mimig7737]

She's so gorgeous and i can feel her good energy is contagious i need a friend like her.

[@_ladiosanegra]

A LIE

[@Akeswill]

She seems soo sweet

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

Gdm. Thts a word I'm luk'n for. Gr8t, Sweet, Godly Energy as well.

[@sharonrobinson8320]

Amen to that

[@ivyjackson8695]

We all need a friend like her.

[@Blessemm-c26]

Love them! Chance was on it today!!! I admire a man who can speak this clearly and honestly about the topic of marriage. They are a beautiful couple!

[@miamia7633]

I totally agree!

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

I agree as well 💯!!!

[@geetaramlochan2647]

Well said they have matured over the years she's beautiful and he is handsome bless them with health love more understanding

[@kellco]

An older gentlemen told me one time that he not only loves his wife, but he LUVs her and this is what is missing from most marriages. LUV: listen, understand, and validate. This was such a confirmation, Chance and Tab. I'ma go give my husband some suga'! Praise God for the brand new mercy we get everyday, we can start over with our spouses, ask for forgiveness and forgive, and start all over again. Amen!!

[@saywhatondat]

beautiful statement and amen love this!!

[@queenofweaves916]

Amen I had to screen shot this Listen Understand Validate 🥰 I will celebrate 22 years of marriage in February and I know and that God everyday for the blessing He gave me in my husband.

[@kellco]

@@saywhatondat Amen!

[@kellco]

@@queenofweaves916 Congratulations on 22 years. Yes, thank God for YOUR husband. So many spouses complain about what the other spouse isn't doing, or being, or who they are not like. When we stop complaining and start praying and praising, what the spouse is doing or not, isn't at all what we thought we were seeing or hearing. The Lord has a great way of showing us ourselves. Then you're right Sista, we can see our husbands as blessings!

[@ashantimitchell]

Will Smith said the same thing on Red Table Talk

[@charlesclimineda8080]

•What’s thing you wish you would have known before marriage? •Myself Now that’s powerful

[@brunonhandu9927]

"there hasn't been any issues we haven't resolved but there are issues that take time to resolve"...... wisdom

[@kortenisamoses7313]

Deep

[@completely_me75]

He's such a calm man. They balance each other's personality so beautifully 😍

[@paigestroshine6814]

Also I LOVED how you talked about honoring your husband by creating a space for them at home where he can be vulnerable, feel safe, and relax. 🥰

[@sharita7270]

I think that's so important because they wear a hard exterior outside the house. When they get home, that should be their safe place, haven and place of peace!!!

[@pauloskidane2819]

Sharita 🙌🏾

[@tiararn]

When Tab said she sees Chance as better than he sees himself, I felt that!! I feel the same about my husband 🖤

[@jininberry8204]

Preach. We gotta let these men know they are valuable and loved! Let them be vulnerable because we got their back. I'm my partners biggest fan.

[@julianathompson173]

I'm crying tears of joy. Oh my God to see too black people in love like this it's so refreshing. It's so good. Black kids around the world need to watch this power couple and follow them.

[@lytraylor33]

Best couples counseling ever! Y'all need to write a relationship book and have a tv show.

[@jeanmason4395]

Whew!!!

[@chicagojenn6930]

Yes this comment

[@antinciafoster7979]

Agreed

[@godsgirl7201]

My pastor said we should dedicate a whole day to our partner cater to them mate everything about them do it often not just on birthdays♥️

[@vblacka4117]

Yes

[@inthisworld414]

Beautiful couple and they have the best teeth

[@KJOURNEY]

Right their mouths lol 😆

[@mushtaaqahmed2466]

Black people beautiful teeth always

[@a.p.9387]

@@mushtaaqahmed2466 not true lol not always

[@a.p.9387]

Yes they do 😍

[@mushtaaqahmed2466]

@@a.p.9387 but must off times

[@blessedladyrobinson5674]

I tell you that was the most REAL marriage info I have heard. I love how yr husband talked and communicated so well. So many times u all always hear the women over talk the men. It was refreshing to hear what really goes thru a man mind and point of view. Love Love this!

[@cristie4117]

Yes! I couldn't agree more...I'm so glad she let him talk. What a man! What a couple! I wanna be their neighbour ❤️

[@shirleychampion9553]

Love this serious side of Chance! He well represented himself!

[@mdooms76]

He's always serious.

[@lokeyborders]

He fine too.

[@feliciawatson4829]

It’s a give & Take in a Marriage, me & my husband had some low down arguments , but we was very young I was 19 & He was 21 navy man , just young & immature , but we love ❤️each other & We was Friends ❤️ we’ve been together now 35 years ✝️thank GOD

[@pauloskidane2819]

🙌🏾

[@filmadcamp1512]

That's awesome

[@mikelee428]

I’m crying right now because of bad decisions I’ve made in my life and all I’ve ever wanted is what the two of you have…true love. God Bless you both.

[@lovingkingjesus4822]

You can still have true love Mike! Trust God and give it to Him and let God work on you and prepare you for your wife and then wait on Him to show you who she is. God has forgiven and forgotten whatever you did in the pass. He loves you just that much! Go forth in Jesus, He'll show you what to do.

[@mikelee428]

@@lovingkingjesus4822 God Bless you and Thank You. I need to simply let go and let God.

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Mike Lee. Me too! God is faithful though. He will give you the desires of your heart.

[@mybrianlips2387]

This was so refreshing to watch. The epitome of black love.

[@sii9423]

The fact they both said "connected" while telling their stories. Is beautiful.

[@sweetthang4635]

My husband is my best friend....and we can talk about everything. We Wana be happy....so we don't always have to be right....and we practice investing in one another. Thank you for this Black Love.

[@TheSecretDwellingPlace]

That’s beautiful! 🥰

[@Tina_330]

Chance: ..to me she is an extension of me (I felt that!)

[@jeanmason4395]

Wow!!

[@kimberlyjackson1337]

Yessss

[@maydavalle]

❤️

[@crystalr6895]

Powerful💯❤❤

[@veronicaatkins4417]

It’s amazing how one video that was intended to be negative from Wendy Williams could bring me here. I’m so happy I found your channel. The love you have for your honey responds me of the love that I have for my beloved🥰

[@empresslimited3437]

I absolutely love how they love each other.. The way they look at each other, means absolute happiness between the two of them.. Soul-ties is very real

[@sofumba]

Just met these TWO beautiful Black People today, and am now a Fan!! Every HUSBAND needs a WIFE like this to push and encourage him; the statement about knowing yourself first, before getting married is also my mantra-

[@yedediyahkingdavidson]

Wow when she rubbed his head and was talking about him being safe did you all see him transform from a man to a little boy.... That is a powerful woman...!!!!

[@charmainemarshburn5462]

I cannot begin to tell y’all how much I love this!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for sharing.

[@lovinmeand4]

Tab is glowing! 💫

[@stateofmindtoday6193]

This is such a real depiction of Black Love. Most of us come from Love and it is not displayed. Thank you for this positive real energy!

[@Titanic8436]

I had to laugh out loud when she said, unless you want to count the day you hit me in 5th grade, we connected.. LOL Tab is too funny!! LOL

[@sheridanm7935]

I love their love. They compliment each other so well……

[@pamv3012]

Tabitha and Chance Simple Beautiful!!!!💜

[@lisamitchell2501]

I can tell this union is genuine because their spirits are similar!! 😍😍😍

[@leanwallerify]

I enjoyed this video tremendously! I especially liked the part at the end where Tab talks about making our men feel safe. Too many times, women are creating conflict due to insecurities and past hurts that have not been resolved. Reflection and healing needs to take place. Our sons included....our men need a sanctuary at home. Not a battlefield bc the world is chaotic enough..

[@deborahisrael1927]

That was so beautifully and well said many years ago, I said my husband have to fight the world home is where he should have peace now I'm not saying we didn't have arguments but i can honestly tell you i can count them on one hand it's been almost 30 years,,,,,I'll tell you something funny just yesterday he came in the kitchen and said remember when it took you all day to cook because you used one eye on the stove, I said yea i didn't like you then LOL we laughed i said i love you so much now he said i love you more, I know it's long but i got a bit emotional.

[@godsgirl7201]

True I think it's on both sides I'm glad we can take accountability

[@completely_me75]

This almost brought me to tears. So beautiful and every word so on point. How could you not love them both. Their energy meshes so well. Awwwhhh black love

[@mimig7737]

Listen this gave me a hope for real love, there's actually men out there like him.

[@ShineForlyn777]

Husbands answer to "how did you overcome" authentic, beautiful and encouraging. Thank you both for sharing your life with us! Tears.

[@runettemccrea5392]

“I agree! I’ve been with my significant other for 35 years and still am learning about one another every day. Amen!”

[@holistically_nicki]

Please KZbin invent the LOVE button, a like is just too small for this kind of transparency and beauty! This couple are so special, would love to see a whole episode with them

[@snewman777]

This is what real, true love looks like. Thank you for sharing.

[@mrs.camilliajones3560]

Because my husband and I were teen parents, together since high school and had to go through very hard times alone and figure things out along the way, is the biggest reason I tell my children to date & get to know themselves before they try to do it with someone else! Relationships are tough and work but it's harder doing that when you don't even know who you are. To all the babies out there, take your time and don't feel the need to rush into relationships before your mature enough to handle it especially if you have any personal healing you need to do!💜💜

[@valeriegolden5654]

Omg I just found you through the controversy regarding Wendy Williams comments. Your response was so classy and spiritual. After watching this inspiring video, I feel so new. Btw. I also saw the video on your becoming a Vegan. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you

[@deannec3989]

Marriage is work, but oh so worth it! When the love is real from the door you’ll make it through! You’re a beautiful couple!!

[@godsgirl7201]

My pastor said we should dedicate a whole day to our partner cater to them mate everything about them do it often not just on birthdays♥️

[@sylviabryant1019]

When I looked at you two, I can feel the heartfelt love you have...that kind of energy passion give me life to maybe really give relationship another chance. May God continue to grow in the center of your family, marriage and businesses. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

[@nozipomabuza4586]

Thanks for sharing. I've really learned a lot from this. I see a lot of respect and love for each other which is very rare nowadays. May God continue to cover your union.

[@nozipomabuza4586]

❤🙏

[@robinbelgrave3554]

I LOVE the comment she always sees the best in people. That's a God heart ❤.

[@sherrybrown8608]

I love the clarity that you have in your marriage!!!!

[@sharita7270]

Communicate....Invest.......Remind him that he's safe and can be vulnerable......Relax!!!

[@agendiamercy6583]

Wow. Thank you so much for sharing such priceless truths and giving hope to those who might have lost all hope. God bless you and heal our families🙏 Can anyone see what I'm seeing? Beautiful stuff like this online...praise God. The internet is not all bad, depends on where we choose to focus, on value or trash. May we choose right.

[@abif9716]

I absolutely love them. They are down to earth and talk about real issues.

[@theaprilglasgowshow]

I accidentally hit the thumbs down and I am struggling to forgive myself 😫 this is such a beautiful couple ❤️❤️

[@ccnygirl]

You can tap on the thumps down again to remove it.

[@amwilliams76]

Go hit thumbs up

[@Miss_Tika1]

Heyyy MY FAVORITE FAMILY - Tab girl you are wearing that lipstick hunni - that color looks good on you!!!

[@ishawright5246]

I love the transparency in your open conversation. I wish as a community we could share our hurts as well as our successes in marriage. Chance spoke a word!! The day you decide to have a successful marriage is the day you take hard look at yourself!! Keep encouraging folks Tab & Chance❤️

[@mrsbrownsugarsweetz]

Chance sir u are changing my mind bout these men❤️❤️❤️❤️! 🤔😂😂😂 Y’all have awesome chemistry! Chance I am grateful that you are willing to be open with us. U can really be an agent of change. I loved y’all kevonstage interview!

[@linequeenpublishing]

That interview was off the chain!! Loved hearing their story!

[@speaknoworforeverhold9576]

Someone needs to send this to Ms Wendy.

[@Arun71150]

Thanks for being real with your answers. Going on 10yrs and its a struggle at times but people don't be talking the truth and uplifting each other. Y'all that was gems of advice; your book is waiting to be read by us 👏🙌 IJN 🙏

[@Speake5rboxx]

This need way more views than this this grown people stuff I like this content it’s real

[@WhollyLivin]

Let's not forget about prayer!! 😚

[@Sheena_the_Lite]

P.L.U.V. Prayer.Listen.Understanding.Validate Now that's better and in order 😘

[@sandraevans4820]

I'll love your life we got marriage 19 all so hard at free but got to put God first husband second children third life will get better relationship will get stronger we was married for 46 years 2016 he died I miss my husband so much my best friend my partner and my lover I was an elder at our church my husband was a deacon we praise God together we walked hand in hand together he carried my books in school he cared my books at church for 46 years now tell me that ain't lovee

[@sandraevans4820]

Also we had a praying life we ain't family prayer we raised two children 1546 my oldest grandson is a pastor and a real estate I have a granddaughter went to South Carolina state I have a grandson is playing basketball in college now I have a granddaughter that's going to UNCC she's 14 I have three younger grandsons so tell me God is a good God all the time and all the time God is good

[@sandraevans4820]

Trying to save my daughter is 50 and my son is 46 sorry I missed that up in those letters that I just wrote please forgive me thank you

[@marysloan2310]

I just love the way Chance communicate. Soo many of our men don't know how to,and not willing to even try.

[@Iaminfinitealmightymaster888]

This is beautiful!! I wholeheartedly agree with everything they shared!! This gives me hope!

[@Daya1828]

Wow, Chance, that growth moment was well explained. This is rich!! Thank you both for sharing what you have overcome together and apart. When I see you both, I just think perfection, honestly!! Your chemistry is so beautiful. So healthy. I love it

[@maryade4416]

Please have them on the show next season 🙏🏾

[@talldc]

Love these two! I patiently await Friday’s with Tab and Chance!!

[@LadyDeeCee]

Me too!

[@relllove3813]

Same here

[@AleighaNicole]

These 2 are truly a divine union 🖤💫

[@doreen.rruvuza566]

Those earrings...the ankara outfit. Oh my! Loved the candid answers and honesty.

[@codishaa]

WOW. They preaching. looking at yourself before marriage is such great advice. looking back, I wish I had looked at myself more deeply. So much to unpack in yourself before marriage. Continued growth though.

[@thetruth5402]

Oh wow to hear a MAN articulate his feelings!!!

[@blessingsbest6838]

So so true!!! I love how they respect each other and how she stroke his head x

[@getachewtesfa9227]

Wow! This is what an ideal couple sounds and looks like! Your demeanor, understanding and love to one another is next level. Many can use you two as a model for marital relationship. You guys are so young with old souls, you really get this life thing. God keep blessing you both🙏🏾

[@marymiller6188]

I love how you can hear the love in his voice when he says “My Wife”. This video is wonderful to watch. So encouraging to see positive, honest, tested, proven, and FUN, healthy love

[@alisonassanah-carroll1957]

That was the most beautiful expression of love and marriage that I've seen in a long time! Thank you for the inspiration, the possibility, the hope that this can be my joy-even if I don't get to experience it as long as the two of you have!🙏❤

[@minniepeete4659]

You guys are just realist and relationships are work, we see where you are now , but not what’s been behind the scenes, thank GOD you made it through. Love your honesty and how you encourage each other. Great when you can be as one.

[@audreyjones203]

I enjoyed this conversation. Marriage is for grown-ups and you and your husband have that going for you. Black love is something so beautiful. God bless you and always be an example young and old couples alike. Stay together. You are blessed.

[@donnastotts6816]

She so pretty and looks very happy. You two make a great combination... I LOVE black Love. I wish me and my hubby were in this stage of our marriage.. we LOOK good but we are not vibin

[@dovetales3]

INVEST in each other! 💜💜💜 In the south we call this "sweeping around your own doorstep." 😁😁😁

[@willah.brewer6571]

Love, Love, Love this!!! Thanks Tab and Chance for sharing your "Black Love" with the world. Peace.

[@msnandimarie7023]

I'm here after Wendy Williams talked negatively about Tabitha and Chance.

[@sheliataylor7177]

The two of you are genuinely Blessed and a Blessing to so many! May you continue to focus on living life in various areas of abundance! I listened to the Q& A's regarding your marital relationship and was truly inspired and blessed!!! Continue your LOVE JOURNEY! SHELIA T IN KCMO

[@theresadavis7604]

This is one the most beautiful (inside and out) couples ever! 🖤🖤🖤

[@deborahdawson2234]

CHANCE! That fountain of wisdom was flowing! I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Substantial nuggets coming from you both, but it's something special about seeing the husband speak on such somewhat emotional topics. The "hard look at self" comment. Whew! Thanks for your transparency! Praying that God continues to bless your marriage.

[@laneyjackson5916]

My two favorite people! May God continue to increase the love, communication, and fun in their marriage....AMEN

[@greenegreene6042]

I just love Tab’s aura! It’s so strong it comes through the camera 😩❤️❤️❤️

[@myajones529]

Love them! Have them on the show we need it!!

[@erinmariemason139]

This is what makes a strong marriage. You guys hung in there truely for better or worse. Blessings

[@sonyafmoore]

Chance is very anointed. The words that he speak and his wisdom. He can reach and help so many lives.

[@lajoycealdridge5386]

The both of you have a Sparkle in your eyes. Too sweet. Tabitha Brown. Yessss honey. Simply Beautiful 💕💯

[@DesiLu4Life]

He's very attractive! Beautiful, down to earth couple!! ❤️ It!!

[@reginadright2581]

You two are so beautiful. I felt ya'll loving and genuine energy that you love, like, and are in love with each other..I see that natural couple glow. God bless you both. Thank you for sharing.

[@aliciaknott8109]

This was so powerful, they are dropping real nuggets. Is the Black Love show coming back on?

[@jeanoliver2680]

This is the kind of Love that will last a lifetime. Continued Blessings Tab and Chance. 🙏❤🤗

[@sybilwilliams6937]

YOUR SMILE ANSWERS ALL THE QUESTIONS, GOD BLESS U BOTH

[@lindaallder3662]

Profound ! These two are sharing some honest valuable nuggets!

[@audreywarmington2368]

Just finding your channel and I'm in love i can feel the honesty the purity the love the sincerity coming from you guys. stay blessed.

[@Laria4life]

Black love is EVERYTHING

[@aldyja]

Beautiful pearls of wisdom shared by Tab & Chance. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️

[@sadielove8845]

You both are such beautiful people & you inspire me to wanna do better🥰

[@konfidentlothevirgo]

Thank you 2 so much for touching on "gut punches" & growing together through it..as well as many other key examples in this chat. You dont know how much this just helped me❤. Everything you all have said is pretty much the holy grail of relationships & this video needs to be sent to everyone in a relationship...( I just shouted!)

[@sharonrobinson8320]

I love her spirit and her husband. This is what black love is. This is what God can do. Pay attention to what they said we need to hear this Bless you guys always

[@kayamalenda2483]

Loved the down-to-earth interview! Black love is authentic!

[@Daya1828]

I do love how you encourage him. I follow on IG, and I love Fridays so I can glean some of that energy! You support one another very well from what I can see. Know each other very well, consider each other very well. I see how Tab speaks life into Chance and he slowly comes around as he trusts her. I love to see it honestly!!

[@jsturkey2935]

Wow wow wow The beauty of black love. Thank u for sharing & being who y’all r. And the statement bout investing in urs... I appreciate that so much. Thank u again. -Please give us more.

[@NewlifeNewbeginnings2]

Ya'll are SO CUTE!!! And I mean that you both COMPLEMENT each other so well!! I pray I find that before my last breath!!

[@TheLovePowerGoddess]

This was real good! Chance is just one of the good ones! What a beautiful couple