This is groundbreaking, better than actual therapy I went to
@naomiogemah3288 Жыл бұрын
Anybody see the ball move fast for 1 second or even slow for a second too or am I just going crazy...
@someoneees Жыл бұрын
Nah me too
@EnergyreaderempathMary Жыл бұрын
Me too
@annieyoon3410 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@amandadeppe636 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@danarellek2431 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@lolak7438 Жыл бұрын
Just remember- for thoses who don't know- keep your head still- just move your eyeballs from side to side. Also, make sure whatever device you using (hopefully a laptop or large screen) and elevate it to your eye level , so you're not looking downward.
@rose_gold_hera Жыл бұрын
That was so helpful! Thanks.
@lolak7438 Жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Hope it helps.@@rose_gold_hera
@henriquetasilva443911 ай бұрын
Obrigada pelas dicas🙏
@emelyne22327 ай бұрын
Oh i was watching on my phobe to see if it would be different from watching on my tv, and i think it was less effective.
@marjoleinluca54093 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this comment. I was looking downwards the first time.
@wendykodhiambo2655 Жыл бұрын
This video has saved me from a lot of pain. I listen to it thrice or four times a week, and I have been to release a lot. A lot of the shame and fear is gone.
@diwakardayal95413 күн бұрын
Hi there! Just curious as it worked for you did you watch the video any specific time like morning or any time in a day?
@melissadsilva60622 жыл бұрын
When you have the most neglected formative years….you are set for cptsd as an adult .Don’t be a parent if you are gonna be a deadbeat mother or father.
@sierra9713 Жыл бұрын
I have an ACE score of 10. While I have been on my own since 14, was a hs dropout, and teen mom - I have never been a deadbeat. It IS possible to heal with children and not continue cycles of abuse.
@roseandlucky5 ай бұрын
I have two kids and went through every type of abuse imaginable. Neither were by choice, but I fully embrace the challange and see them as an amazing gift without which many lighter qualities and parts of myself would have remained deeply buried. But I do get where you are coming from, and many children are born into really shit situations where the trauma is being perpetuated.
@brianclark74123 жыл бұрын
I tackled the issue about myself that I was taught to be most ashamed of as a child. In just two sessions most of the sting has gone away. This seems to work for me. I suspect this form of EMDR it works for me, specifcaly because it can be kept a private matter. Also because I'm older, wiser stronger and understand it was their issues not mine. I definitely wanted to let the self-hatred installed in me so long ago.
@ithil-maril91413 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you!
@wendykodhiambo2655 Жыл бұрын
Do you feel like the healing was permanent? Or do you still face the same issues 2 years on?
@MjF809 Жыл бұрын
Im incredibly proud of you Whoever you are!!!! Im healing completely too! Thank you for saving others with your post
@LalondeFilms Жыл бұрын
How long did you watch video for?
@beshooketh933311 ай бұрын
Checking in. How're you doing now bud?
@19wael962 жыл бұрын
My heartbeat is so fast while and after watching the video, I was tearing up too.
@paletanner Жыл бұрын
Mine did too, then it would slow down and the sound didn't match the pace of the ball of light. It was very interesting
@amyyyamy Жыл бұрын
I felt my body physically,relax after five minutes or so
@markfinney86478 ай бұрын
I've done this therapy session a number of times and often find I'm quite anxious before I start watching it, but after a few minutes I'm so relaxed I can hardly keep my eyes open! I know that's not the goal, but that's more than ok for me to feel a wave of calm come over me. Thanks so much to the creators of this great content! I'd love to watch it without the annoying ads though. And yes, you're not going crazy! They do sometimes have the ball move faster and maybe slower too every now and then.😂
@MjF809 Жыл бұрын
So many thanks for the freedom you give others with these videos. Healing minds and hearts of this world!!!
@Bellemorte999 Жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does the sphere keep changing it's rhythm? 😮
@ats-369310 ай бұрын
For me this an amazing way to practice mindfulness, i cant really think of anything while following the ball back and forth, actually the only real thought I had while watching it was "wow i can't really think of anything else while watching the ball" As someone with lifelong adhd and anxiety and who is trying to learn mindfulness through meditation I usually find it really difficult to keep my attention on my breath or a mantra etc but with this it is exactly the opposite, i couldn't really think of anything else while following the ball.
@marliesbunker260110 ай бұрын
ADHD here as well. I cannot think about anything else when I try to follow the sphere with my eyes.
@ats-369310 ай бұрын
@@marliesbunker2601 I can do breath meditation and sort of keep my attention on my breath after taking my ritalin once the med effect has come on but it's still a big struggle, with this moving ball meditation I can easily keep my full attention on the ball even without taking my meds. Kinda cool really.
@chrissilcnt71966 ай бұрын
same same!
@crazylara07025 ай бұрын
Omg same with adhd!! I had no thougts what so ever. Wonderful relaxation😂
@EricBryant2 жыл бұрын
Gripping terror comes over my body. An internal scream tries to get out but can't. I cant remember all the traumas from age 1 to 5 but there's def something there that comes up
@user-bk1ez4sz8t2 жыл бұрын
Dude, whoa. That’s intense. I’m only 2 minutes in and I feel like throwing my fucking iPad across the room. Did you do a whole session? How is it for you now?
@EricBryant2 жыл бұрын
@@user-bk1ez4sz8t much better now. Different emotions come up now. Much less terror/dread.
@user-bk1ez4sz8t2 жыл бұрын
@@EricBryant oh good. I've only done 2 days of it..i def need to keep going, but forsure something has shifted.
@EricBryant2 жыл бұрын
@@user-bk1ez4sz8t oh yes. It def shifts energy around in the body. I don't know how it works all I know is that it does!
@rmp9417 Жыл бұрын
Find a safe therapist
@ithil-maril91413 жыл бұрын
At some point I felt like I was going to die but then it got easier and easier. I've watched other emdr-videos too and this was very effective. Will do this again
@marylnmonroe2 жыл бұрын
Same
@m.starro9015 Жыл бұрын
sending love
@juanitadiaz778111 ай бұрын
All the dormant bad memories came out a series of events back to back came to the forefront of my mind and was brought to the surface..holy cow 🎉celebrate 😢letting the pain of the past go
@liluloidantanit360511 ай бұрын
Oui exactement cela 😢.
@dazha2882 жыл бұрын
Wow I can't believe how much I was able to process that I never have before! This is wild! and in such a short time I'm so grateful. I didn't just sit in the frustration, anger, hate, tension I actually processed it so easily. I never knew I could think like that... I mean on top of years of reflecting and observing others after my issue as well as accepting certain things. This is just the cherry on top. Everything came together.
@iitzr1ngo Жыл бұрын
Can you tell me how EMDR process? Do I only have to watch the ball moving and thinking about my trauma event ?
@lisawoodruff3805 Жыл бұрын
@@iitzr1ngo yes
@natashahall-baran967 Жыл бұрын
Do you know if this at all helps to recover suppressed memories?
@dazha288 Жыл бұрын
@@iitzr1ngo yes you just watch the ball and allow yourself to think it doesn’t have to specifically be on the trauma even or else you might be limited in your ability to think outside of it. Allow your thoughts to grow towards it naturally like you would on a regular day when your think about something that then triggers that trauma
@dazha288 Жыл бұрын
@@natashahall-baran967 I don’t know but it help me piece my thought together I honestly haven’t been doing this since the time i commented
@lynsamfortas Жыл бұрын
This was so relieving and made me kind of untie a knot in my brain... Thank you very much for this video. It was already helpful and I'm sure it'll keep being helpful in the long run.
@cookiesandcreamyummi Жыл бұрын
This is incredible for ptsd and ocd
@dianecleary10542 жыл бұрын
My cat is fillowing the ball as well. She keeps trying to stop it with her paw.
@beautifulawareness17072 жыл бұрын
🤣must be so adorable 🥰
@9LuckyTatties3 ай бұрын
I’m a psychologist and EMDR practitioner and I stumbled upon this video.. I initially came to the comments section to respectfully put it out there that this isn’t EMDR therapy (in the evidence-based form), as almost all of the key elements are missing. Whilst this still stands, I scanned some of the comments and it’s wonderful to see that it has helped people!
@Frau.PАй бұрын
To be real, some therapists also just want their client to follow their finger from left to right with nothing else and claiming, that its EMDR and they have a certificate to use it so. 😂🤨
@CCInDis Жыл бұрын
Whoa!!! So I did my first session with this video. Only had a minute left but I feel so much better. I’m gonna continue to do this because Whoo! A weight lifted off my shoulders.
@Mor_decai11 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for the soothing word up in the end. At the beginning my thought were fuzzy but i kept on and got on of the most painful memory i have, and insist staying there, ive manage to recall so much more details and cried my heart out. it is amazing - this is really helps my part of child adult to grows out of my situation, through somatic work. there is better quality (resolution&fps) out there. it made my eyes painful.
@teamlovepanda Жыл бұрын
I read (the body keeps the score) that this is a great therapy for people that tend to disassociate and Don't really want to talk. Like talk therapy. This is effective. And much more effective than placebos or medication
@danielarainrain9173 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is amazing… i feel great than ever i feel all the clouds in my head began to clear
@christopherebhabha6 ай бұрын
Amazing, some random due just stared at me just as I started watching this in my car in the mall parking lot, like giving an evil eye. I was not pulled to react to his unspoken aggression, I just calmly looked away as the good energy within me prompted me away from staring back like I often do. Wow, I neutralized his aggression with a higher vibration without intending to, just by follow the higher impulse that guided me away, and he backed down lowering his eyes, softening up and walked away. That’s amazing, and I am only at 3 minutes
@BadAxxBree Жыл бұрын
Whew...tears were rolling down my face
@abhishekvyas92223 жыл бұрын
Wow..got tears rolling down..amazing 🙌😇
@zod59663 жыл бұрын
Huh? What? How? There is no information on how to use this video.
@ayuanggraini24363 жыл бұрын
@@zod5966 there is info in the start
@Momof2gurlz79 Жыл бұрын
Same here tears coming down
@lapislazuliphoenix Жыл бұрын
Thank you for providing this! So many people can benefit with this. In Utah EMDR practitioners are hard to find. Found this yesterday wondering how I could do it myself and thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤😊
@jackieross2044 Жыл бұрын
im in Utah. my therapist does EDMR virtually .
@StompMom5 Жыл бұрын
Not sure what part of Utah but in southern Utah there's quite a few.
@lapislazuliphoenix Жыл бұрын
@@StompMom5 Northern Utah, dang it! It has been a few years since I looked though. Be well!
@TheBakingGirlShow10 ай бұрын
@@lapislazuliphoenixu can find the ones that do it virtually-
@GabrielR8.83 жыл бұрын
Esse movimento com os olhos dá um reiniciar nas memórias emocionais guardadas nma amídala cerebral. Obrigado pelo trabalho!
@lidianerodrigues99362 жыл бұрын
Um comentário em português, incrível...
@luanfreitas230315 күн бұрын
Quais os passos?
@madamebutterfly8518 ай бұрын
Emdr trained therapist here. This is not BLS, i have a pair of expensive bose headphones on and the audio tones are not alternating between each ear. At least not distinctive enough. The dot alone works though
@stardavies62029 ай бұрын
Namaste & Deepest gratitude to you for your love, caring and creating & sharing this. YOU are a GIFT to the world & you may never know how many people you help with this, Greatest Blessings May All Life come to you and Yours with Ease & Grace & Fun & Joy & Wonder Forever Blessings to you Bless all peope watch this video Namaste to all
@eddmtz40282 жыл бұрын
Starting using it tonight. Even i Want to study EMDR as a specialty when finish My psicologhy degree. I would like to overcome My trauma with this
@mafdatsertet41172 жыл бұрын
Love this
@mustseevideos7777 Жыл бұрын
Lmao. What kind of degree is that?
@eddmtz4028 Жыл бұрын
@@mustseevideos7777 lmao bad spelling
@Anna_Banana1239 ай бұрын
Great video - I just wish KZbin would not show and ad in the MIDDLE of the session…
@Priya-Sanda6 ай бұрын
Same, it shocked me badly. before there never was an ad, you know a video without any ads?
@aprilMaeDАй бұрын
Enjoy the advertising at 5:25 minutes in - that was awful and my heart is racing
@paromitadesarkar16774 жыл бұрын
This video is highly underated. Was useful to me. Wanted to try this method after reading the instinct to heal .👍
@justshowmehow3 жыл бұрын
Hi Paromita, Would you take at look at my question and share your experience. Thank you!
@yve56593 жыл бұрын
@paromita thank you for answering the questions and sharing your knowledge. It’s very helpful.
@AddictedToCandyx3 жыл бұрын
Im going to need help easing into this i get really distracted in my head. I stopped thinking about the trauma and started to imagine a timer, the old kind with the ball i thought, then i thought about greek mythology. I'll do it later, im very sleepy
@Stephanie-by6rm2 жыл бұрын
I was looking at the pattern the ball shifts and makes. 😂 monkey mind at its best!
@marylnmonroe2 жыл бұрын
I started zoning out thinking about what i was gonna eat for dinner halfway through
@DraconiInfernalus Жыл бұрын
i was getting so sleepy by this ^^ very relaxing
@KawaiiPinkPunkStar3 жыл бұрын
Should I think about the bad/stressful thing while looking at the ball or only BEFORE looking at the ball?
@Julia-gr8pi3 жыл бұрын
Both
@wtfhappenedtome Жыл бұрын
The instructions are incomplete and confusing to me
@ballerina5876 Жыл бұрын
You cannot think what or when you want,dear.Thoughs come to the mind any time.
@candicebissessar254911 ай бұрын
I didn’t want to believe everyone in the comments, but yeah. It’s true. I unpacked something I couldn’t in therapy and I cried. I got the answer, it all made sense. Just one session. Will come back and continue maybe once a week per event.
@youseferwaimi25064 ай бұрын
Why am not feeling any thing
@candicebissessar25494 ай бұрын
@@youseferwaimi2506 I mean… I dunno guy. I didn’t make the video.
@yujionearth5 ай бұрын
The fire was replaced by a prayer. Wonderful video!!!❤
@Adjei88 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful first session today, will keep having some more every other day. To me it feels like it was a good way to go over the traumatic episode, and the eye movement is a way to desensitized yourself from picturing and imagining scenarios which scarce are the pain of remembering.... By occupying your eyes you can re think and look at it objectively
@sekischro50938 ай бұрын
how are you now
@asiyah-nour Жыл бұрын
My head was loud. It’s silent, and the world doesn’t feel like it’s swallowing me. I don’t feel extreme happiness nor extreme sadness… I’m confused… Is this how normal people feel?
@hasinapatel12338 ай бұрын
Go by Emdr therapist to get best result as it already helping you it doesn't work for everyone
@nietzsche43423 жыл бұрын
I believe that for small traumas (memories of offenses or insults etc ..) it can also be done alone but for serious traumas (violence, earthquakes etc) then you have to do it with a therapist.
@suziecreamcheese2113 жыл бұрын
I agree. I had a relatively minor incident happen to me a few months ago and it kept bothering me enough to become a considerable annoyance in my daily life. This has helped take a lot of the sting out of it. I wanted to get it off my mind before Christmas and I won’t be bringing it with me into the new year.
@theconsciousentrepreneurs1982 жыл бұрын
Small things like insults over and over or emotional abuse Over and over for years can be worse. Just saying. It’s not a small trauma it crushes your soul
@sevysnapz2 жыл бұрын
What size should I be watching this video in? Would a phone turned sideways cause enough eye movement, or would a larger screen be more effective? Does it matter?
@LivingOnADime10 ай бұрын
larger screen is better.
@TheBakingGirlShow10 ай бұрын
Phone is fine
@shamelesssheamis5453 ай бұрын
I looked this up out of curiosity because I’m about to start this type of therapy next week so I gave it a try and I just don’t know how I’m going to make it through 10 minutes of doing that with my eyes lol
@LalondeFilms Жыл бұрын
Can someone tell me the visualizing technique they do while watching? Im finding it hard to hold onto a thought. Like how long do you watch video for while thinking?
@heatherharstad37063 жыл бұрын
This type of therapy is extremely effective when done correctly. My husband spent several years addressing his trauma via EMDR and it's amazing how much it helps. He can talk about events now without even getting a fast heartbeat! This video is a good demonstration of what it is like. I would never ever suggest trying it without a trained therapist with you. My husband spent about 6 months to a year learning effective coping tools before his psychologist even began the EMDR. After that, he still struggled many times with re-living his trauma events during a session. Doing this type of therapy should never be done alone. It makes me wonder about the credentials of the person doing these videos. I didn't see any warnings and I have a hard time believing any accredited therapist would suggest this be done alone.
@DashieNCheekie3 жыл бұрын
What's gonna happen if you do it alone?
@RelaxingFacts.com_official3 жыл бұрын
@@DashieNCheekie When you do EMDR it tricks your brain into fully feeling and "living" your trauma. Your fears, emotions and physical sensations can be overwhelming. You can have PTSD symptoms linger from just having a session of EDMR so it is important to have a trained therapist who can help ease you into the trauma, cope with the trauma during the session and handle the after effects. For example, after my first sessions I started to experience severe hyper-vigilance. I started to see things that were not there. If I did not have a therapist, I would have believed that I was schizophrenic however hyper-vigilance can be a very common after effect of EMDR. The hyper vigilance is constantly scanning for danger so the trash bag that the wind ruffled on the side of the road; all of a sudden becomes a possible danger. The hyper-vigilance eventually went away as I processed more traumas but this example demonstrates what can happen if you do this alone.
@judeannethecandorchannel21533 жыл бұрын
Great points
@abishaicampbell21872 жыл бұрын
@@DashieNCheekie Your therapist isn’t gonna get more money that’s what gonna happen. I’ve done around 10 sessions for 150 dollars each, and all they do is tell you to think of traumatic events and then ask you how much distress you feel before and after. It didn’t do much and I literally could’ve done it by myself. I have complex ptsd where I’ve experienced trauma every day for years as a young child. EMDR therapy isn’t plausible for prolonged trauma only for a few single events. If you can self administer EMDR without needing to spend thousands, do it. Unless you have COMPLETELY unprocessed memories that cause you to become suicidal or something. But I’ve thought about my past enough, not really by choice, to the point where I can relatively safely delve into past trauma.
@ShadyLadyTarot2 жыл бұрын
@@abishaicampbell2187 I have C-PTSD and I swear by self administered EMDR. I read a book on it and did a couple sessions with a therapist before pandemic hit and I taught myself how to do it, and honestly I like self guided better. Is it better for everyone? Not necessarily. But I hate this gatekeeping that says it should only be done with a therapist and we can't use these tools to heal ourselves if we don't have access to thousands of dollars for clinical treatment. If I'm triggered I can go do a session myself and clear it instead of waiting a week to see a therapist to the tune of hundreds of dollars.
@Stogdad1 Жыл бұрын
To be honest, I found this video challenging as my eyes continually wanted to lose their focus on the silver ball, but I stayed with it. It hurt my eyes to create almost a kind of headache. Did anyone else have this reaction?
@Mor_decai11 ай бұрын
same for me. the quality here is not the best
@rsokol7111 ай бұрын
I had that issue
@Timeless_tales123-f5o Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this EMDR
@gabbygagner92567 ай бұрын
I loved it! Focusing was great.
@yujionearth5 ай бұрын
The fire was replaced by a prayer. Wonderful video!!!
@teamlovepanda Жыл бұрын
Although this is my first time here. I did read the amazing effect that this has on people. From the book "The body keeps the score" such eye-opening information. I'm not gonna lie. I did feel sleepy and saw 2 balls at one time. But I will continue to see what happens.
@sierrargehring Жыл бұрын
All this did was give me dry eyes and a headache. Idk what I did wrong. But I can’t focus on the ball, the sound, and on my thoughts all at once
@Craticall1 Жыл бұрын
This activated the front of my brain so much I feel it
@shontierrawilliams7341 Жыл бұрын
As i would think of my past, it felt as if it was reliving pressure from my head
@TheSentientCloud4 ай бұрын
I watched this as I listened to a hard drive defragging sfx, and visualized myself defragging my trauma. I don't know if it helps long term but it seems to help rn.
@oliviaelements Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this opportunity ❤
@alexkuieh15653 ай бұрын
I AM NEUTRALIZING THE FOLLOWING FEARS: Rejection Humiliation and Embarrassment Failure Being Exposed Expressing Gratitude Not being admired Death Feeling Remorse Being offended Responsibility Losing Control Not being the center of attention
@oumaouma36722 жыл бұрын
i still didn't figure out which are my traumas from childhood that caused me social anxiety and i couldn't keep focuse nor thinking of anything during this session
@dazha2882 жыл бұрын
then you might need additional help with a professional because someone needs to help you map out things, accept, reflect, observe, etc.
@katherinemp43442 жыл бұрын
I tried this video, but struggle with the irregularities that appear to bounce from the side and the speeds up and then slows again. This does not help me at all.
@ModernJewelryMakers2 жыл бұрын
there are others on YT that are done correctly - it can be really helpful, but as someone who has done this, you're correct, this video is a bit out of sync & it's annoying
@lynnmuthoni27863 жыл бұрын
Can someone explain to me why I was smiling at the end of the video? Why my head started moving, eyes a little heavy... why I got happier? From watching a Ball move?
@queenbean55732 жыл бұрын
Now you know how dogs feel. Not calling u one, but they get so happy!
@lynnmuthoni27862 жыл бұрын
@@queenbean5573 Haha... Indeed... it's so good
@dianatena20922 жыл бұрын
I don't know. During the first 5 minutes I recalled negative experiences and emotions and i felt a knot in my head Suddenly i felt like my brain exploded, the knot dissolved, i couldn't recall anything, i was just here, looking at the ball Then i forced myself to remember and got some images but dud not feel anxiety or the knot as tight as before. Who knows how? I didnt know i could feel free like that, snd I liked it
@nocapbussin Жыл бұрын
Because you are a crazy person believing a video of a ball moving back and forth is actually doing something
@lynnmuthoni2786 Жыл бұрын
@@nocapbussin awww, thank you so much!
@namonox2 жыл бұрын
This would be effective if the left and right audio were actually isolated.
@koalamama22 жыл бұрын
Or if the sound and audio were actually synced ;{
@CaralynJoLynn2 жыл бұрын
Omgggg thank you for this comment I thought I was going crazy. I couldn’t think about anything but if my eyes were tricking me or not
@Lifsam Жыл бұрын
When I suffer from repeated shocks and bad situations such as verbal abuse from the same people repeatedly what do I do I remember one situation in each session or do I remember only the face of the bad person!
@carolinekelley9473 Жыл бұрын
Good question!
@marciehilbert7166 Жыл бұрын
Wow it made me sleepy!
@bullshitcaller15412 жыл бұрын
Really. This was simple meditation
@phishcatt2 жыл бұрын
My heartbeat got a little faster but it was extremely difficult for me to keep relieving the moment the entire video - my mind would wander - and it was pretty difficult to follow the ball as well. I have unmedicated ADHD... Should I keep trying or is it pointless?
@lauri7529 Жыл бұрын
idk. i also have adhd and this video didn't work for me.
@spikeschilde621 Жыл бұрын
Same. I kept thinking of other stuff and getting drowsy
@FOURTEEFIVE10 ай бұрын
i imagne that part of the healing process is learning to refocus when one gets distracted. This is called meditation, you can never be free of thoughts or decide entirely what to think about. BUT everytime that you bring your thoughts back on track is working the muscle that gives you the ability to decide when and what you want to think about.. Doing this makes you a person more control of your thoughts and emotions and therefore life.
@brittniealibrahim81003 жыл бұрын
Hmm I like this sound it makes me sleepy because I already had a panic attack before I watched it 😃
@KendrixTermina3 жыл бұрын
Thx a bunch.
@elissa31882 жыл бұрын
I don't get it. I understand the idea of EMDR- but when I tried this one and another one- I just kept thinking about the ball and nothing else came up... I feel like it needs someone guiding it more or something.
@zia43622 ай бұрын
차분해지고 딴길로 새지않고 생각을 단순화 시키는 대에 도움되는거 같아요!
@user-bk1ez4sz8t2 жыл бұрын
Wait...I had to slow it down to half speed, and after only 2 minutes my eyes are sore and tired. Also, does it slow down and speed up randomly? When it speeds up it makes me nauseous. I want to keep doing this method, just wondering if anyone else experiences this?
@Stephanie-by6rm2 жыл бұрын
My eyes are killing me at the 2 minute marker. I feel like afterwards they are exhausted. I started having anxiety because I kept trying to keep up, but messing up. Yeah, how do you mess up a ball going back and forth?😂
@ЧеловекНиколай-ж2з3 жыл бұрын
Благодарствую!!! Хороша техника!
@justshowmehow3 жыл бұрын
PRACTICAL QUESTION: If I am doing this on my laptop (17 inch display) how far away should I sit? Is it important that the 'ball' is exactly at eye level? I am currently experimenting but am interested in hearing about your experience. Love & Light!
@paromitadesarkar16773 жыл бұрын
Hello dear, The book that i read and first came to know about EMDR, the setttings that were described were all doctors chambers. So focussing on the ball movement by sitting before a laptop shouldnt affect the therapy but i would suggest you use headphones to avoid distractions( in my case, it was on my cell phone with ear phones) . Because you have to focus on the sound and thw movement for emdr to work. That is visual and audible cues to help your brain understand that u r in the present and reminiscing about a past trauma or painful incident for your brain to process that thw threat you feel is not happening now. The books says to imagine the incident in details as though it is happening right now but also focussed on the present cues before you. I hope it helps. But ofcourse, if you can afford to go to a psychologist (unlike me), i would suggest you try it under his/her instrucyions for better results.take care.
@justshowmehow3 жыл бұрын
@@paromitadesarkar1677 Thank you so much!!! Stay healthy and take care!
@paromitadesarkar16773 жыл бұрын
I must also add, that as per the book regularity with this therapy has to be maintained. For instance, i get palpitations when i get lost in the past incident that still bothers me. So much so that it gets difficult breathing properly, so i would need to continue this therapy unless recalling the incident does not evoke an anxious response in my physiology. During the session one has to try to feel one's palpitations and try to bring it to normalcy by breathing thoroughly. Repeat this everyday it will show results in a few months. Keep trying. Even if it gets overwhelming. you want to sob ?sob, but keep trying to calm yourself by focussing on cues.The author says that if we try to control the physiological responses of stress/ anxiety the psychological responses will change gradually. It takes time. Dont lose hope. You are not alone.🙂
@geneva717 Жыл бұрын
This is neither healthy nor helpful. True EMDR has another step - you don’t focus the entire session on trauma. You put it in a box of your choosing and work on feeling safe.
@danielbrowne9089 Жыл бұрын
Are you meant to think about the trauma whilst watching the video or just follow the ball from side to side?
@gulgunsensoy15122 жыл бұрын
🕊🌸🌞🌟thanks lida great 🙏
@StephanWilmes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this!
@mmcuser2 жыл бұрын
Makes me feel scared and anxious. Is that normal?
@rtucci36435 ай бұрын
Oh the cry therapy heals the body, let it all out, scream and cry like a toddler, but never loose sight of the ball, then reinforce this words as you do, "i did my best and that is ok"
@socawarrior1263 Жыл бұрын
Is the ball moving faster at times and then slower ?? Or is it just me ?
@carriecompton8641 Жыл бұрын
The sound effect doesn’t match the pace of the ball. Is there a reason for that?
@street_booler9026 Жыл бұрын
Should I focus on one specific event? Or just allow my mind to bounce around
@Orchideelady Жыл бұрын
Hello, I just tried it but I don't understand why I'm starting to have tears, can someone explain to me so that I can understand what is happening to me, please? Thanks in advance
@ashkeaval7931 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you remember something unconsciously during the time video is playing or something that you don't remember very well now but that incident has had important effects on your personality and by tears you can relieve yourself from sadness or shameful feelings.
@dartcree8185 Жыл бұрын
The movement of the ball is not in sync with the sound. Is this deliberate? If I just listen to it, it's fine, but the ball speeding up, slowing down, and the sound not happening at the point of reversal is vaguely upsetting.
@shopblossoms6 ай бұрын
So do I think of the negative memories while the ball is moving? Or just before?
@spekky9012 Жыл бұрын
Is this realy a legit session? I suffer from deep depression from PTSD and major anxiety that I can't go to work right now. I've heard of this EMDR. Will it work for this I'm suffering from?
@Jack.0ctober Жыл бұрын
No, it's nothing like real EMDR. =( Definitely look for a specialist or even try checking out other videos where they demonstrate it being done on a person. I wouldn't suggest trying it on yourself with a video like this, it can do more harm than good.
@ThkTwice Жыл бұрын
Patterns.. a lack of patters helps the brain relax.. patting a baby’s back in a non pattern help them fall asleep easier..
@thechannel7209 Жыл бұрын
This just hurts my eyes 😢
@shopblossoms6 ай бұрын
So some negative memories came up, but while watching it I realized I was also thinking about positive things. Is that good? Or will it suppress my positive emotions as well?
@jasontindell67342 жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves you all very much!!!! God Bless everyone!!!!
@patricia753 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!❤🙏🌈
@SusanaXpeace2u2 жыл бұрын
What do you do while this ball is clinking back and forth?
@AdreinMatthews Жыл бұрын
I just found it irritating. What did I do wrong?
@pweetypoo Жыл бұрын
Wow, I feel so much better.
@tsalite2 жыл бұрын
Mostly I was distracted by the movement not matching up with the sounds and couldn't focus on anything else
@lisayoung28422 жыл бұрын
What size screen is this meant for? iPhone? Laptop?
@CaralynJoLynn2 жыл бұрын
I was wondering this too
@hasinapatel12338 ай бұрын
Laptop
@kennedycorrea57995 ай бұрын
Does this work if you're neurodivergent bc all I could focus on was the ball losing rhythm
@br97915 ай бұрын
I don't like the ticking sound. Is it necessary or i can mute it
@alexkuieh15653 ай бұрын
Anger is powerless. I am STRONGER.
@eloiselovesdevi Жыл бұрын
How does the EMDR video compare to a live session?
@hasinapatel12338 ай бұрын
Live sessions are much better you need to do this with live therapist to get good results. Just my opinion though.