Feeling rejected and despondent and wondering how to prevent or overcome this?

[@evagrosz1621]

It's amazing how you understood the human soul .The way you deliver a message is an art . It's probably a quality acquired through hard work. Thank you for your generosity in sharing your wisdom with others❤

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@evagrosz1621 Pleasure.

[@katiemynette4285]

❤ Good evening EMMY! Pink looks beautiful on you. I like the way you dress. KATIE ❣️ KENTUCKY😊!

[@JW-mg1sk]

I’m SO GLAD there are elders using KZbin. We need this variety ❤

[@millydouglas1850]

This was so helpful, as always, Emmy! Thank you. I am in awe of how you can get to the heart of matters so concisely. I tend to fixate on rejection (or perceived rejections). Tomorrow’s project is to focus on what I can bring to the world in my own small way. Sending my gratitude

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@millydouglas1850 I learnt to seek the essence by practising phenomenology for fifty years. Read my book Everyday Mysteries.

[@juliahhhhh]

You are such a positive and inspiring person. We need more people in the world like you :)

[@PotsandPansWhatsPotsandPans]

The video started playing sound 10 seconds in for me and I had to rewind because of how your warm greeting of Hello Friend makes me feel instantly at ease. Thank you.

[@the_notorious_bas]

This is an annoying KZbin 'feature'. To turn it off, press on your profile icon (top right) > settings > playback and performance > switch 'video previews' off. Hope this helps.

[@deathorsovngarde69]

thank you for your videos Emmy! I'm in my 20s and having a hard time finding my way ❤

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@deathorsovngarde69 it becomes easier to find your way once you have a clear idea of where you are heading.

[@circled_by_swallows]

The timing of this couldn't have been better, I really needed this...!

[@Onthe9thlife3730]

Yeah, this explains why nothing I've done has helped. I have no value or potential. "Just find your people" there aren't any. I've done so much and searched and it's all just a giant freaking joke. I hate this planet and I hate humanity that rejects me just because I'm me. Autistic/ADHD and disabled.

[@pwhitz]

Press on comrade, I often think this way as well but I always have to check myself. Our tribe is out there and the search will take as long as it does

[@livingartdesigns06]

Connect with nature often. Animals, plants, and all other natural elements project unconditional love and positive energy. That is what keeps my strong and happy inspired of what other people do. Focus more on the plants, animals, water, mountains, and the sky around you instead of people so much. You will grow and be much happier. I guarantee it. Take care, typing from another human who loves you unconditionally 😊

[@chandiniregidi8942]

You are so lovable. Your wisdom is amazing. I guess your experiences taught you everything. It’s comforting to hear you in my time of discomfort. Thank you.

[@yoswayoflife]

Thank you for this message. I needed this today!

[@peterplotts1238]

You, your channel, were recommended to me by someone I trust. This was very good, indeed. Thank you.

[@morganweidinger]

so great

[@mariellegrant6248]

Thank you so much Emmy, for such an encouraging video! It will help me a lot, in my difficult relationship with a family member!💐🙏🌅

[@Cybervue]

You are the best!!

[@CHUNGAandNANOOK]

Thank you, Emmy. Beautifully put by a beautiful lady.

[@leeannparry9234]

Just what I needed in my life right now. Thank you ever so much for your message and delivery 💛

[@lisamendoza-rodriguez1968]

Well said Emmy. Always love your wisdom.❤️🫶🏽❤️🫶🏽

[@nawafpsy]

Although your videos are short while I usually like the videos to be longer than 13 or 15 mins, but your videos are amazing and beneficial, they summerize a lot of teachings which are needed

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@nawafpsy There are longer presentations of mine on KZbin, if you look at my conference presentations.

[@nawafpsy]

@@EmmyvanDeurzen I meant compared to a lot of youtubers 😊

[@1Strawbz1]

Its time for change like summer changed to Autumn almost overnight. Kids going back to school. September is surely about new beginnings, the biggest step in self-development & progression you've ever felt. Deep awakening & new exciting experiences. That is September for me. Let go of the dull & torpid, the energy zappers & negative people and rebuild ourselves & our communities & networks this autumn... im on the start of my own journey on a psychology degree. 2 weeks in and already challenging but i have to persist & prove i can do tough stuff...release lots of hours in a mundane job & reinvest in my future. Shed that apathetic skin that held me stuck, friendless , uninterested & disengaged.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@1Strawbz1 Fab.

[@rodoxrangel]

Thank you Emmy for this beautiful and inner strong! I've hear from you in Brazil since I knew your channel and for me it's so great to listen you and learning from you! I've been studying every day from you and I've been preparing to go to Newcastle upon Tyne on october. Thanks a lot and God bless you with this beautiful job and mission.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@rodoxrangel Good luck in Newcastle.

[@marylynch951]

Thank you Emmy I have completely changed got rid of a lot of .negative people who were zapping my energy

[@1Strawbz1]

im in process with this too!

[@goosecreekcommunitylandtru8080]

Thank you Emmy, just what I needed, as is so magically your gift to us all!

[@Lord_Winston]

Thank you Ms Emily for your very positive speech

[@user-jn6jm4bb6f]

The video is excellent and if you allow me, I will "draw" something. There is a child inside us, and in life we ​​must be able to distinguish whether the person standing in front of us is a "playground" or a "busy highway". As we would keep a child away from a busy highway, so we would love for the child within us to play in a playground. This distinction helps a lot to filter correctly and thus, both to be happy in the company of worthy people and to prevent heartbreak. Also, in my life I have seen that there were people who I knew were good, but it took them a while to open up, but when they opened up, they became soul mates. In the same way, I saw people that something inside me prevented me from getting close to them, even though I wanted to, and eventually something happened and their true personality broke out and it was not a nice sight.

[@Minglewoodblues]

thank you Dear one.

[@phibby]

Thank you for this

[@Ann-sj4pt]

I’d rather be rejected than people pretending to be my friends,so many fake people around.

[@claradias4779]

Thank you ❤❤❤

[@ZzzKekeke]

thank you for your words 😺

[@mayagame]

Wonderful, thank you

[@ronvancleef]

♥ thank you

[@bink865]

I don’t fit in where I live. I used to fit in elsewhere. Making plans to move.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

Sounds like a good plan.

[@BobMinelli]

How.....HOW did you KNOW?!? (sarcasm...or is it?) 🙃✌ In all honesty, it comes and goes. I just ride the waves when I'm "Up" and chill while they're low. I'm gettin' better at it, as i age. 🖖 PS: (4:15) Unless, one would prefer to be left alone. I'm an introvert at heart, but would again re-enter the curiosity of "stuff" with someone new. But, that is not what is at play. The Universe decides, i just go with the flow...as an introvert. 😉

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@BobMinelli Learning to go with the flow is a great skill to have acquired. It supposes that you have trust in the flow and in your capacity to float. Finding some direction in that process will make it feel even better.

[@thescaledraven5482]

Thank you Emmy! Give Bruna a cuddle for me.

[@elizabethlatti6130]

Mr. Freud says that rejection is the most traumatic thing one experiences.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@elizabethlatti6130 he changed his mind after observing what happened in the First World War.

[@elizabethlatti6130]

@@EmmyvanDeurzen Interesting!

[@expectamiracle.406]

Hello, Emmy

[@briechilli4496]

I am 68. Very alone. I do not know where to begin anymore.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@briechilli4496 You have already begun by not just listening and joining my channel, but communicating.

[@Ann-sj4pt]

Begin by being yourself❤

[@Roobs7156]

I need to learn how to meditate its time to clean up my energy

[@Roobs7156]

For me is my family they are all very negative

[@shaash5236]

👍🏻

[@claire5951]

Hello Emmy, I'm a new subscriber to your channel so have only just watched this Vlog. Could recommend further material on this topic please? It feels very pertinent to my situation at present and I would like to do some work on this.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@claire5951 welcome: more soon.

[@MG________]

F**k 'em. Empower yourself. All the best to the mystery asker.

[@EmmyvanDeurzen]

@@MG________ That is a stronger and more emboldened version of what I said! Sometimes people do need to free themselves from the judgments of others and speaking plainly to yourself can help as long as you don’t actually start to relate disdainfully to other people.

[@MG________]

@@EmmyvanDeurzen I do agree that perhaps iI didn't word it the best way but I feel.sometimes I ramble on when I post! Although I have been working on that whole "serenity" bit lately. The serenity to accept things you cannot change and all that. You're the best, Emmy. Have a lovely evening! 😊

[@td7876]

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[@brendajcable]

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