*EMOTIONAL* ADOPTION Q&A | Interracial adoption, foster care, infertility and more...

In this video we open up and get real about foster care and adoption.
Why did you adopt?
Do you struggle with infertility?
Will you ever get pregnant aka have a biological child?
Why did you choose interracial adoption?
Why did Tyanna enter foster care?
Do you have an open or closed adoption?
Do you want more children?
Did your family support the adoption?
How do you keep Tyanna connected to her culture?
How old was Tyanna when you adopted her?
Are you going to adopt again?
What do you wish you knew before adopting?
Is fostering/adopting expensive?
Have you met Tyanna's biological family?
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[@Paulster1969]

I am fostering a white child and I am black. I don’t care about a child’s color. My DSS gave us a child in need of a loving parent. We love our foster child and hope to adopt him.

[@andrewbailey788]

You beautiful soul! I pray you finally adopted your little boy. Sending you love from the UK❤

[@hunna5849]

😂

[@kpj2224]

@@hunna5849you miserable soul you 😢

[@towannadiggs8774]

Congratulations and may God bless you all. Prayers to the other family that whatever they're going through God will walk with them and let this journey be a force of strength and growth.❤❤❤

[@mariamogano-ob6bt]

❤

[@mellymell7849]

I am an African-American woman, and let me tell you this...You two give me butterflies when you speak of your baby girl. There aren't too many families that consider how transracial adoption affects the child and their future as they grow into adulthood. Transracial adoption could be very traumatic for African-American children. However, it can also be beautiful. I love how you love Tyanna and how protective you are of her. Haircare, her education and being surrounded by peers that look like her, teaching her about African-American culture, removing yourselves from unsupportive family members, and residing in a diverse area; you two have made these changes because your love for Tyanna far exceeds your personal needs. Y'all are amazing! I wish you and Tyanna love, peace, and many blessings! 🥰

[@sarahwyn2739]

Well Said.... very well said

[@user-od9qm1kw2v]

Absolutely & we'll said🙏

[@emilymula645]

Well put 👏🏽

[@sayuriera199]

Well stated. Thank you for taking the time. It’s too emotional for me. ❤

[@Estrellitawilliams]

Jon doesn’t play when it comes to his wife and baby! Love it!

[@metsl1870]

....amen!!!

[@terrihuntcornelius1118]

AT ALL!! That is HIS, BABY GIRL 😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@leothaking3007]

I cannot believe these two beautiful human beings have to explain why they adopted a black baby. Wow. Can’t it not just be that they fell in love with a human being and made her THEIR CHILD. Rihanna and Jon GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR KINDNESS!

[@jossala1572]

Exactly

[@coppersulphate002]

exactly! Im so fed up with this race talk!! Its racist and unnecessary

[@magnificent6668]

They adopted her because they're sterile and it's extremely difficult to get a Caucasian baby, unless you have tons of money for private adoption.

[@cca2932]

@@magnificent6668 are black kids cheaper to adopt than white kids? Are you serious,? How sad. There should be no difference

[@Lovella5]

@@magnificent6668 umm not at all. They explained in a video that they are NOT sterile.

[@siam4016]

Jon is so protective of Tyanna and his family as a whole. It is so so sweet. Y’all are such great parents, and Tyanna is so blessed to have you both!

[@livetoloveandlaughlivefora6800]

So true the pain in his voice the fear of instability of history repeating itself He's 1 of his biggest concern He's protective nature like papa bear He's very strong and I I applaud him I admire him there somethings he may have to calm down and come to terms with the relationship with her mother biological mother So she can have some closure that he will have to come to with but I agree with him when it comes to Other people in the family

[@kayennis123]

Jon is the father every little girl needs in their lives, Rihanna is a great mommy too, but Jon is the Alpha male every woman and child needs.

[@susieallen2307]

They have a the sweetest family!

[@goldieb6696]

Good morning parents. First let me say as a human I love this man with all my heart and hope he never gets hurt in any way by not having his adopted daughter in his live for all times.

[@littlemissrobyn]

They are so precious God bless them

[@saved123]

As a African American man. I love you for adopting her. God bless you.

[@coppersulphate002]

what does your race have to do with it?? Stop with the race politics!! We are all humans !!!

[@cca2932]

@@coppersulphate002 exactly

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

@@coppersulphate002 Take your fake rage and go tell dwights/no blk people.. RACE HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH EVERYTHING.

[@RobertIsmyname]

@@coppersulphate002stop being a baby and grow up. Everything does need to be said perfectly. This is why most people are afraid of expressing their feelings because they always get someone to judge them or trying to correct them

[@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD]

I love you for adopting her too. Maybe it’s just my eyes but she looks like mommy to me 😉

[@laurens.5733]

Jon I love the way you are so protective of Tyanna. Black daughters needs strong dad. You are doing a wonderful job.

[@lisasamuelson8774]

He will always be there for her and love her unconditionally!!

[@coppersulphate002]

ALL daughters need a strong dad! ALL children are vulnerable! It does absolute injustice to children by bringing race politics into it!!!

[@lisasamuelson8774]

@@coppersulphate002 You're the one who is bringing race into this. All daughters need strong dads. In fact, ALL children need strong dads. That's all she is saying. You are the one that is bringing "race" into it. She needs parents that love her unconditionally and will do right by her. Nothing else matters. And she fucking has that with her parents!!

[@coppersulphate002]

@@lisasamuelson8774 hello there! That's exactly what I said. Go back and look at my comments!

[@coppersulphate002]

@@lisasamuelson8774 its the other commentator that brought race into it. Not me! You and I are on the same page! So there is no argument there

[@randomjustrandom1509]

You can tell how much Jon loves his daughter. It’s honestly so heartwarming 🙌🏿

[@patsavage2714]

He is such a good father

[@1stheiress]

I’m a 54 year old black woman. The #1 reason why I watch your channel is seeing the love you guys have for Tyanna(plus she is sooo cute and sweet). I see you love her so much that you go beyond your comfort zone to incorporate her culture as much as possible. Also, there are no perfect parents except for our father in Heaven. Those that are critical really don’t understand that it’s better to be raised in a loving biracial family than to be raised in the system.

[@e.m.5489]

I watch for the same reason- she is super cute -you can just feel the happiness & security she feels when she smiles-

[@Sci-Fi_Fan296]

That’s so true.

[@NB-tm7xm]

Hello guys, this is coming from a African American woman. I Love Love, watching your videos. I would like to commend the both of you for looking past Tyanna's color and loving her unconditionally. Your love for her is so evident. And please, Don't worry about people and what their opinions are on why you adopted Tyanna. People are going to think what they want to think anyway. She's yall daughter now. Jesus Loves you guys and have a Blessed Day. B

[@barbarapeller]

AMEN!

[@sanr6816]

Couldn't have said it better love. Beautiful comment💖

[@crystalpleasant1108]

Agree 1000% you are giving her the love and protection she needs!

[@abosedemargret8068]

Love u guys

[@gileadlane]

Preach!!

[@des8336]

I found myself siding SO hard with Jon on the open adoption topic. I don’t care WHO you are, I’m not letting a single toxic person around my babies. BLOOD OR NO BLOOD. You guys do you though. Blessings ❤️

[@aquilaclark814]

I agree with you.. no toxic people were allowed to be around our son ..it was a closed adoption.. thru the state..37 years ago…..we are African American.. he is likewise..

[@JonSchoeller]

👏👏👏

[@BJ-eh4ol]

@@aquilaclark814 The world needs more protective parents like you guys.

[@melissa-Sabatino-Threet]

Amen 🙏

[@TheRobinRedbreast]

The two of you ARE Tyanna's parents. End of story. The fact that you happen to both be amazing parents is a plus.

[@metsl1870]

Amen!!!❤

[@giftezeoke880]

Tyanna is gonna grow up a disciplined girl. She has a daddy who is firm and fair 😀. His response to open adoption shows Tyanna’s gonna be so protected, supported and loved 🥰

[@m.f.francis2664]

I love that family you guys patient lovely you guys more than perfect I like to watch that channel

[@kevweegbegbedia2056]

Yes, so true

[@doreenrose4080]

​@@kevweegbegbedia2056 +❤❤

[@dorisweems1390]

As an African American woman, I commend you for adopting your baby, God bless you both. You have my love and prayers.

[@scarlyducatel6530]

U guys said u don't want to have biological children? Why not?

[@cynthiadixon1591]

Just love this couple and what they are doing guys good job God will bless you both and your baby girl

[@id3ntity401]

@@scarlyducatel6530 they answered that already. They said bc that’s just not in their plans watch their other adoption qna

[@Roller324]

@@scarlyducatel6530 literally why they don't have biological children is none of your damn business. Like seriously who the f*** are you? No one owes you a g*dd*mn explanation.

[@nancie.]

You’re Tyanna’s parents. You know what’s best for her. Protect your baby and learn as you go. Proud of you guys 🥰😍

[@XolzRandomWriting]

I love how dad loves his daughter with every fiber in him. I love how emotionally connected he is to her. I love how protective he is of her. I love how he'll never think twice of choosing her over everything. I love how mom is emotionally strong. I love how open minded she is. I love how she's fearless and so sure of her position in her daughter's life that she is not shaken at thought of opening doors to her biological mom. I love how she let's Tyanna be, she allows her to make her mistakes in whatever they do together, be it cooking or whatever. I love how she doesn't think with her heart and that balances her and Jon a lot because when it comes to Tyanna, his heart is ALWAYS a voice of reason You guys make a great team. You are awesome parents. You don't owe anyone any explanation. People's opinions of you are not your responsibility. Do YOU and the world will adjust. Lil mamma is happy, you guys are happy and that's all that matters 💖

[@anneeb8869]

So well said this is a win win for both Tyanna and her parents she loves them as much as they love her...God's unconditional love is the best love...

[@XolzRandomWriting]

@@anneeb8869 thank you 💚

[@aliceriley1173]

VERY WELL SAID, JUST HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU.

[@XolzRandomWriting]

@@aliceriley1173 thanks Alice 🙂

[@erikalittle3676]

COULDN'T HAVE BEEN SAID IT ANY BETTER🎯

[@goodenergi]

I freaking love when he gets emotional ... you can tell he really cares .. have yall done a video on how yall met? im tryna take notes looool

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

We did! Lol it's called "our love story"

[@deidracanty5417]

As an African American woman I thank God for you and the great job that you’re doing.

[@cherrelie11]

When Jon got emotional about him saying “goodbye” to Tyanna mother in court that had me on the verge of tears. I love your videos and your family!! 💕

[@aquilaclark814]

Exactly..I cried with him….these 2 parents are truly amazing 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@The_Crafty_Counselor]

I was crying. I simply love how they love their daughter. And Jon is the kind of dad I wish I had.

[@frugalfashionfun]

Children don’t see color just love. You guys are giving your baby girl what all kids need, which is love, period!!!!. Keep up the good work 😃.

[@frugalfashionfun]

@@lotus3161 Absolutely

[@katpage9378]

When I was 4 years old in kindergarten I was first introduced to a couple black kids. I completely saw color. But I was simply fascinated by their different appearance.

[@ms.miraclewalking982]

That's so true kids see love.

[@crystalortega2156]

@@katpage9378 just for clarification, what we mean when we say kids don’t see color is that they don’t define color with specific attributes or stereotypes that society makes of those with color. I say this because my family is mixed and my daughter who is 6 is mixed. She is very light skinned (can pass for white) but her hair is a give away when it’s out because she has mixed kids hair. My daughter literally goes up to anyone because she doesn’t define any color to be “bad” if u will. As you said, yes you did see black kids different than yourself but you were fascinated by it not labeling them without even knowing them. I hope this helps to understand our perspective when we say kids don’t see color and love has no color.

[@mekamenifee285]

​@@crystalortega2156you explained that so freaking amazing 🤩

[@JonSchoeller]

I hope our journey inspires others to give a child a forever home. It's literally the best thing we have ever done. Tyanna has changed our life for the better in so many ways. Also, I wasn't crying, I just had something in my eyes 🙄🤣

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

The sweetest daddy in the world ♡

[@suus_says]

😊❤

[@domingabacoco761]

U guys are blessed to have each other and Tyanna baby. I like how John says the word "educate".

[@sungirl2656]

So glad she has you and her Mom, great emotion from the heart! Thank you!

[@optimisticsoul2338]

😭😂😭🤣😭

[@janegrey4374]

I agree with Jon. He's a very protective Dad and he wants people in his daughter's life who will actually be part of her life.

[@jayineetaylor5040]

Yes true

[@terrijackson2536]

Okay that is the relationship you have with Tyanna's mother.

[@Harlan_1]

As a Black woman but first and foremost a human being…THANK YOU for providing a loving home for sweet Tyanna. You all are so lucky to have each other 💜💜💜

[@ministergwenestrada2392]

Jon is a compassionate, empathetic person.

[@lizcoleman5229]

I can't imagine how anyone would have anything negative to say about you guys adopting a little black girl. You guys are amazing people who didn't even consider race in your decision. I wish more people thought like you. You are doing something so wonderful by adopting rather than having a biological child because there are just so many children who need parents. I have so much respect for you! And BTW i can't stand rude and ignorant people..

[@Song_about_a_girl]

I fully agree i think some people fell as though people interracially adopt because they want to use the child as a virtue signal. Think Madonna or Angelina Jolie. however, i think this is dangerous to think this way because we should always be searching for the best in people.

[@caterinas6863]

@@Song_about_a_girl the celebrities you mentioned adopted internationally which is different again… has its own ethical issues… while adopting a child of any ethnicity from the foster care system is just a beautiful thing to do.

[@karinanosike3874]

That’s exactly what I was thinking you took the words out of my mouth.This is at the end of the day is their life and if they choose to share these intimate information with us then so be it.People can be so ignorant and NOSY 🧐 geez 🙄

[@lizcoleman5229]

@@karinanosike3874 exactly. They are so generous to expose their lives with all of us and then you have those who are judgmental, nosy and just bad news. Probably a lot of jealous people too.

[@terrihuntcornelius1118]

And By the Way, GIVE THAT BABY A BROTHER OR SISTER, TAHAT SHE CAN SPOIL AND LOVE TO DEATH🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘😘😂😂😂😂

[@Bukutu315]

Rhianna is supernatural woman she will go in history books for that child care amazing woman

[@janicet2665]

True man and Daddy, will not let anyone hurt thier child. My hats off to you to buck your family, to make your immediate family strong. You both need to be applauded. I love that you open your heart and mind to Ms.T.......Don't mess with little Ms. T.

[@missneoxoxo4553]

Jon will kill you for Tyanna & it made me tear up. You guys are an answered prayer for her❤️

[@BeautyUnraveled]

I agree with Jon on the open adoption. I too had an inconsistent parent and it was really difficult. It led to regular feelings of rejection. Ideally, I would want them to have that family connection, but not if it may cause any pain or instability for the child.

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

Thanks for sharing your story and feelings on the situation. It's definitely a grey area.

[@des8336]

@@TheSchoellerFamily Can you explain your side, because to me it’s not a grey area. Maybe I’m biased because my mom was abusive and I preferred not having her in my life, so I just don’t get why anyone would be okay with opening that door when they have a choice of keeping it closed.

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

@@des8336 I meant it's a grey area because some open adoptions are healthy for both sides involved. I didn't mean it towards your situation!

[@Ellie-jl3vk]

@@des8336 We don't know the backstory, Tyanna's bio mother may not have been abusive or had a negative impact on her, it could've been something else that lead to the fostering/adoption. Since they are keeping that private (rightfully so) there is no way for us to make that judgement.

[@pamtaylor3009]

Rhianna and John Schneider you are the best parents princess tyanna is in the best home 🏡 ever John I agree with Jon you both are so beautiful love ❤️ princess tyanna she your r joy your sunshade she means the world to you two parents thanks you sending my love ❤️ thanks for sharing keep up the good work and don't let negativity comments s

[@patsavage2714]

This is a special family with so much love for there daughter she is blessed

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

Thank you Pat! We are so lucky ♡

[@tashasutherland2373]

As a Social Worker I can appreciate and say thanks for creating another healthy home for this gem. She is definitely your daughter. 🥰

[@stacystubbs5944]

Don't pay attention to the negative comments. As a black woman I am soooo proud of you both. You are outstanding parents and this child is very happy. Keep up the splendid job! Blessings.

[@lisasamuelson8774]

This child is amazingly happy!!

[@wandajenkins9426]

Amen!!!

[@jaybird1301]

Let me just say , I am a African American lady, and I thank you for adopting Tyanna and giving her such a wonderful life, and being the best mom and dad a child can have. I tend to agree with Jon on open adoption, maybe when she is older and ask and understand than look into her meeting them.

[@mozellstephen3140]

Agree.with you Jon .it has to be real.because the love y'all have for y'all daughter. beautiful.don't let people get in the way of you all raising .🙏🤗

[@ivee3999]

Tears rolled down my face. Baby girl is so blessed to have you. She’s a beautiful baby and I am so glad you always put her needs first. Thank you 🙏🤧

[@kiannasooblessed]

I was adopted and I appreciate those who can truly give children a better home! Love this

[@summerparsons4416]

Those tears are indicative of pure love for your daughter. My eyeliner is running!!

[@cuzinstobe123]

You guys are great parent to Tiana . Don’t let the internet trolls get to you ❤️

[@linellwilliamsadams4276]

They are great parents

[@jaybird1301]

I had to reply again Jon your such a protective loving husband and dad, and the bond you and Tyanna have is beautiful. Never be embarrassed about your emotions when it comes to your family.

[@bianca5375]

I appreciate how intentional this video was and how intentional you guys are in general about raising T, even taking into account your location and how having diverse neighbours and friends affects her well-being. It's the little things that really add up and make a difference.

[@ms.miraclewalking982]

I am a new subscriber and I can see God chose y'all to be Tyanna parents on this earth for a reason. God picked you guys because he knew y'all would love her unconditionally and care for her. I love y'all adoption story God bless you.

[@yvettepeterson7163]

"NEVER ASSUME YOU WON'T DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT; SHE CHANGED YOUR MINDS. GOD BLESS YOU!!! TYANNA HAS TWO INCREDIBLE PARENTS.🙏✨💫🙏✨💫

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

100% ❤

[@princessphillips5584]

John is not playing when it comes to protecting his daughter and I’m so happy for her. I’ve experienced first hand on how tough and strong my husband was until we had a baby girl, wowwww the change in hm is ridiculous. So when I see John get emotional when talking about Tyanna I totally understand. It’s really cute to see him being a girl dad and I’m so here for it! Rihanna you are an amazing mother who totally understand what and how to be a mother of a black child. I’ve seen your other videos regarding different aspects of raising your daughter and you are doing amazingly well. Unfortunately there are going to be unfortunate comments and encounters with closed minded individuals but I’m confident that John knows how to handle these situations. Congratulations for the continued education journey on the behalf of your daughter Tyanna. I’m so excited for your family’s future. Be blessed and highly favored.❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@veronicaachieng8652]

If all of ours just loved without looking at our colour this world would be beautiful .you guys are good people you can never please everyone love everything bout you guys .thanks for loving that little angel .happy new year everyone.

[@sondrahard756]

The world would be a much better place with more loving people like you two. Thank you for having such a loving, kind and positive attitude, hoping the positivity will have a permanent effect on many !!

[@Bukutu315]

God gave you that black child for a purpose to show the world that we are all the same and teach the world race has no place in today's life . Listen guys your are the role models of the future world . When my family watches your videos we all have tears in her eyes to see your love towards the Queen Tyanna lots of love from London UK

[@domingabacoco761]

Amen.

[@willowtree9548]

I know u mean we’ll but for future references please use the term African American when describing Anyone that is black…🙂

[@BJ-eh4ol]

@@willowtree9548 She's from the UK, hence her using a more general yet still respectful term.

[@youlienard7524]

@@willowtree9548 Not everyone in the world knows or is familiar with the term “African American”. I refer to myself as black woman because that is what I am. There’ s absolutely nothing wrong with the terms “black child, black woman, black man. Keep in mind not all black people are American

[@kaianb2405]

@@willowtree9548 Black is correct. There's nothing wrong with that. I personally refer to myself as a Black woman, and I take pride in being a Black woman.

[@jnicholas3474]

You two are amazing parents. The love you have for Tyanna is powerful and real. I love your channel because of the obvious love you have for Tyanna. Because of the love you have for your daughter I fell in love with the both of you. You two are amazing people. You are doing your best

[@caribbeangirl7876]

I wish you guys were my next door neighbors.

[@lucitaferguson1025]

Why do people even care about the race! I’m glad you guys are doing such a great job!!

[@kristinbuhl3996]

Closed until ITS HER CHOICE. They have to EARN her to WANT them in her life. JUST MY THOUGHTS . ❤️❤️❤️ she is beyond blessed. Ya’ll were meant to be family.

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

That's a great perspective Kristin.

[@erinkitner7978]

I agree, as long as it's safe, non-toxic & a healthy environment & relationship. We all know pre-tenns & teens can tend to want what's not good for them. But I have no doubt that Jon & Rihanna will always make the best decisions for her! That's their baby & always will be! ❤

[@diannekerr2357]

Tyanna is so loved by her parents !pleas let the rude questions roll,of your backs ,no matter what you do people will be negative….keep on doing your best for your family 🇯🇲

[@jamesross7048]

What an eloquent, educated and fair-minded couple. Wonderful parents

[@joyariffic4217]

Jon's sensitivity is soooo adorable

[@rhemawilliams4983]

You guys are the walking personification of true, unconditional love 💕

[@corrielawson3437]

You're doing a terrific job raising Tiana regardless of her color continue to be the best mom and dad to her.

[@pennyrussell8062]

Yess the helllll u r a dammm good dadAnd don’t forget it John. Love yah truly Stay strong

[@turkscaicosgal]

It seems as if you are making every reasonable consideration to give her the life experience she deserves. You are loving parents. I look forward to many more vlogs. Blessings.

[@turkscaicosgal]

Thanks for bringing her out at the end. ;)

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

We try to do everything we can!

[@BriaBarrows]

I’m black and I can tell you guys have a pure soul. She’s living and loving a beautiful life.

[@daphnelegall8303]

Omg Jon is so emotional this goes to show how much he loves his daughter and it shows in all your videos wow! It brings tears to my heart. This little girl is so loved you guys are awesome and doing a great job.

[@harinidivakaran276]

You both are GREAT parents. Happy for Tyanna. Love this family.

[@prettyricky9147]

I know that God brings people together with purpose and the three of you are meant to be. I feel you are doing a wonderful job as parents and all of you are very special. I also think this channel can be a blessing for Tyanna’s birth family by giving them a glimpse into her life and hopefully that brings them comfort. God bless you 💕

[@dria100]

I love that John shows his emotional side. Tyanna will have a full understanding of how she is supposed to be loved. Her dad (and mom) set a great example for her.

[@moniquestrachan4437]

I agree with Jon. As a father he still needs to protect his daughter. So I believe in a close adoption .

[@Nicole-si3ck]

I watch you guys videos but after this Q & A I fell in love with this family even more! You guys are doing a great job and Tyanna isn’t missing anything even the black culture because you guys are making an effort. She’s well traveled and well loved. I pray god continue to bless you guys🥰

[@elsiebalasbas7195]

I like how John's so protective to little baby tyanna,this man really love their kid and so Rhianna too.

[@SammyJ96]

" we're doing our best." You guys are excellent parents! Tyanna displays that constantly. I mean, you can tell when a child is being loved. Don't listen to ignorant people. That's the next thing we should start wearing a mask against. Ignorance.

[@kerridavis86]

I just found this channel. My youngest brother was adopted at 6 months old but he came to us at birth. I was 18 when he was born and I automatically fell in love with him and couldn't imagine life without him. The whole process of adoption is very emotional. We stayed with the birth mother at the hospital and when it was time to go home my heart broke for her and I also think of her often.

[@ladebright8901]

Wishing everyone watching this video a successful and progressive year ahead 🙏❤️

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

Love it!

[@gaildouglas9712]

Tyanna could not have been more blessed to have been adopted by more loving parents she is so loved may you all continue to be the best parents you are giving her a life full of everything Jon you are right keep being her protector.💞💞💞

[@LanAndMila]

I honestly appreciate you both so much for giving us the privilege to be apart of your lives. I do believe in my heart, listening to you both that whenever or if the time comes for baby girl to meet or bi-relatives that you both will make the best decision possible for her because of how evident it is on how much you guys love that little girl, your daughter. You are wonderful parents and human beings. However, I kinda do agree with Jon on this because we don’t want baby girl to be heartbroken if they turn out to be unreliable. It is important to protect our children from that kind of hurt and disappointment. And if they turn out to be such, she can choose to be apart of their lives when she is old enough but for now, it’s y’all’s job to protect that sweet little girl. Great video. Have a happy and true 2022 ! True happiness, True success, true joy & peace, true friendships etc . Not because the year is new, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true. (Words from Pastor Franklin). Sending so much love from Guyana 🇬🇾

[@NATESGIRL286]

I totally watched this with tears in my eyes. As an African American female, I commend you for giving this little girl all the love she deserves. I know that you will seek out the support you need to ensure she is culturally aware and I am cheering for you both.

[@bonniecornish1022]

I think y'all 2 are wonderful parents y'all interact with her all the time and can tell she's loved.

[@TheSchoellerFamily]

Thanks Bonnie ❤

[@helengriffin2010]

I'm so proud of you as parents, and at the end of the day, a child wants to be loved unconditionally. It has nothing to do with color.

[@rosaespinal7698]

Thank you Jon and Rhianna for being Tyanna's parents, it could not be anyone else but you two. Keep doing what you're doing cuz at the end of the day, it's all for your love of Tyanna and that's all that matters.

[@PrincessDiamondCut]

Tyanna is blessed to have y’all and y’all are blessed to have her. Loving a child no matter their race is what’s important. People who asked you why is closed minded. 🦋

[@SCUUBDO]

I am African-American and I love your channel!! It is interesting for me to hear questions pertaining to, "What are you doing for her to learn about her culture?" Learning about several Black historical figures are what we were taught in school, watching Roots gave us a better insight into how slavery looked and felt, but "Black or African-American" was not a "taught" thing in the household, it was just a title, "We are Black and mixed." If people STOP looking at color and look at a child or children needing love, nurturing and stability, these types of questions would not need to be important. Should she know she is Black, sure, but that does not have to be such a glaring point. There are two other families that I watch where the colors are reversed. The insulting question they were asked was, "Why did you adopt white children?" NEVER were they asked if they would teach that child about their white history. We are more than our color. As I have grown older, I have found out WAY more about African-American greatness, than was EVER taught in school. She will study more about herself when the time comes, but for now can she PLEASE just be a loved little girl, who has her Daddy wrapped around her little finger, and a spunky mother who loves her baby girl?

[@lisasamuelson8774]

That was a beautiful response!!

[@erinkitner7978]

Love this well said comment!

[@ciearamaigan3889]

Wow! You are guys are amazing! I don’t even have the words. The support you have for not only tyanna but for each other is so refreshing. The way you guys disagree on tyanna & her biological family, but at the same time are open to each other’s ideas is so refreshing to see. I think that’s what a relationship is all about. I’m glad she is growing up with emotionally stable & loving parents.

[@jeanbanks5242]

God Bless you both. My sister adopted a biracial girl at 1 years of age. She is now 27 and a teacher. Her mom lives down the street from us. She gave birth to 7 kids and gave them all up. She is in contact with her mom and siblings. We are blessed to have her.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@robinbutler7863]

Your choice is Beautiful! We are a human race, not black or white or etc. God created use to love each other. You guys are so so awesome and just know that our creator is smiling down on you both, your a beautiful blessing and don’t let anyone tell you anything different.

[@ArielleChristine]

Rhi, Jon, and Ty…Thank you for sharing your family and journey with us. Thank you for ensuring Ty is at the forefront of every decision you make. It is truly a blessing to see how far we (the internet aunties and uncles who love and support your family) have all come together. I hope we can continue to see you all travel the world and experience the wonderful things life has to offer. Xoxo and cheers to an exciting 2022

[@rolniquelewis-nedrn5633]

I cry with tears of joy EVERY video.. I really truly LOVE yall.. You are truly BEAUTIFUL people! Not because you adopted a black child but because of all of the sacrifice you make to make Tyanna happy, to keep her connected to our culture and to loooooove her adequately! But what's more beautiful is that as much as Tyanna is blessed to have you as Parents YOU feel that you are the blessed ones to have her (and you are of course).. that's what you call TRUE TRUE LOVE ❤️

[@MrWhat25]

We're in an interracial adoption process too, so we understand and appreciate those informative videos you do. You both are doing an amazing job as parents thanks for sharing a bit of your journey here. Be strong and don't give much of attention to distractive comments, those usually come from those who lack self love and understanding of themselves.

[@simplyvego9622]

Jon is so protective it's unbelievable. I love that!! You will never know how your future will turn out Tiana could be a gold spoon handed to u by God and u guys maybe not know now! Continue to do what u r doing you are blessed. I was adopted in my teen yr and that was the best time of my life that's the time I get to experience civilization. The lady that adopted me called bme her daughter although I was looking different from her and people use to look and wonder how!! She never explain to them, she just love and nurture me as her own blood. So shout to adopted parents, u guys are God sent!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💯

[@jojobean5382]

It is very obvious that you all love each other and that is why I enjoy watching your content so much. People who have something negative to say about your family are ignorant and really should just keep their comments to themselves. They would not open their homes to a child in need and would just say "someone else will do it or the state will take over", without considering the children and their needs.

[@traceyrobinson7502]

Tyanna is in a loving home. You two are amazing parents.

[@estephaniap9027]

It really warms my heart to see this video and to see the genuine care you show for Tyanna. Since I was a child I considered adoption, lol. Learning at an early age about so many children who grow up without family broke my heart and it was always on my mind. I am so blessed to be able to see videos like yours and to know that the World still has good genuine people like you. Thank you so much for sharing your lives with us!

[@gigin430]

I love the honesty, transparency and truth in this video. It's incredibly refreshing and encouraging. I've felt called to adoption since I was younger also and it helps to hear you all's journey with it. Thanks for sharing!

[@laquitamack1221]

I’m really late to this party! I just want to tell you guys I think you are amazing parents no matter how it started only that you have a heart to. You guys embody the perfect love!

[@dianneng358]

You are the best parents that Tiyanna could ever have. As a father, you are emotional and protective because you both genuinely love your daughter. I wish there were more parents like you guys, the world would have been a better place for all of us. I truly applaud you from the bottom of my heart.

[@MelissaJean143]

As soon as daddy cried I instantly lost it with him. I felt your ❤️ for real! So sweet.

[@SammyJ96]

10:00 yep, real " deep" and I love it. You're both genuine people. And I thank you guy's for being so vulnerable with us. You know, this might come across weird. But when I look at Teyanna, the only difference I see is the taker hue in her skin. Because her personality is in perfect alignment with you both. In fact , she even resembles John at certain times. God makes no mistakes, and He handpicked her for you both. She is your child.

[@LoveMiaMia]

I respect both of your views. I think it’s good to have boundaries and requirements if you want to be part of her life. Maybe starting to talk to them via the phone and then slowly incorporate visitation and make a schedule that works for you everyone. Love you guys and you guys are one of a kind for blessing her with an amazing home. It’s not easy to be in your place but it speaks super highly of everything you guys are doing for her culture, and staying in city limits and ect.

[@markilashonte5462]

I love the transparency in this video. You guys are doing amazing and I’m proud of both of you❤️

[@Angie-cm4si]

It was heart warming to see all your family and friends who did attend court in your Adoption Day video…this upload was lovely to listen to sending your family love ❤️ 🌸

[@ninajustice9535]

I've never teared up as much watching your vlogs as I have today. To me when a man shows his vulnerable side, which all came from speaking on the love that he has for his child is an amazing thing. Thank you for sharing even though to me and many others it wasn't necessary, but I'm sure you probably get constant questions. Christy Gior is an amazing mother with adopted children that I watch here on KZbin, if you ever get a chance to watch her Rhianna when doing Tyanna hair. I hope that everyone had a great holiday season with love ones and wishing that 2022 brings you all the things your hearts desire. Much Love

[@EEEDWARDS]

I appreciate your openness and your humility. Love don’t see colour and I see the love pouring out of both of you ❤️🥰

[@robynw8223]

Jon is so protective of your family. It's a great and importance balance to have. I think you 2 articulated yourselves well and there's no need to justify your personal decisions. God bless you all! Ty for sharing!

[@hawkeyehelen]

I teared up when Jon lost it gee you two are blessed for adopting this gorgeous little girl. She’s lucky to have such beautiful parents. God. Bless from down under 😘😘😘

[@fiona45flower22]

I came across you guys a few weeks ago and when I watched the adoption day I cried and cried. So so beautiful. Listening to you this evening I can hear that you do your research and most importantly you are learning. Adoption is huge . I was a respite carer for a foster family and what the family did for these children was just amazing. They gave them a home filled with love aswell as rules and boundaries. To see this just made me so emotional. God Jon I just want to hug you. And Rhianna and of course you have emotion you are amazing and such a natural mother 🥰.

[@My7747]

I absolutely Love you all. You are both amazing parents and are providing Tyanna with the tools that will help her grow, mature and navigate this life fearlessly and bravely.💯 This has made my day.🙌🏽 I look forward to your videos as it is quite the destresser for me...Love Tyanna...Her personality is Life💕💕🌻

[@oliviasmith8284]

I came across your channel by chance and after watching a few videos, the one that got me was the hair braiding video - you did an amazing job with Tyanna’s hair! First, let me say thank you for sharing moments of your lives with us. Secondly, I think both you and Jon are awesome parents. The world needs more people like you! xoxoxoxo

[@mantebaleng6Zmbe]

I came across your video's like others over here so they are all emotional and great to watch, so since watching I have to watch more and more because you guys are so great with what you are doing raising Tyanna so well. How we people ask questions should not bother you guys at all some people are hurtless that's that. You are great at what you are doing as long your kid is happy God is happy too. South Africa love you guys so much ❤

[@childressgiles7626]

I think so highly of you and Jon for the love and openness you two share with Tyanna as her parents. Always wishing you all nothing but the best as a family. Thanks for sharing. 😇😇💕💕

[@carolinecody8477]

I look up to y'all so much and would love to foster in the future! I'm not ready to be a parent anytime soon, but I'm already learning so much about parenting from y'all! I see both sides of the closed/open adoption. I think it's important to protect her until she's able to make those decisions for herself. Thanks for speaking about adoption so openly!