Emotional Dysmorphia: Regaining What Was Stolen from You

[@suzaneleveld3290]

The term makes such sense to me. I am 62 years old and suffered severe depression since I was 17. I always think I am not good enough, I don't work enough and I am no good.

[@jennifer78756]

This makes sense. We can gaslight ourselves or dissociate from being around a narcissist's own negative perception of reality.

[@HUYI1]

hmmm, i have to agree, it seems like some kind of flight or flight mechanism, pretty much partly why i have PTSD i think

[@jennifer78756]

​@@HUYI1 same here, I was diagnosed with C PTSD

[@ValerieBorrego-s3c]

What a beautiful soul. His heart is with serving the people through his ability to disseminate the truth that sets us free.

[@suzaneleveld3290]

Tbank you Ross Rosenberg for all you free information on youtube. I have studied you videos and it helped me so much. My father was a narcissist. I know believe that my sister has a narcissistic borline personality disorder and my brother has a narcisistic anti social personality disorder. My oldest brother has scizofrenia. They are all very creative and talented people which makes it so hard go have to distance myself from them. But I moved for away, 25 years ago, to find my own live adventure and started a carpenterschool for children and adolescents that live in poverty. I was so happy at the art academy to work in art workshops that I wanted to offer this to kids that have so little lportunigies because of their economic situation. I still suffer but at least could built a live around my depressive disorder. You have helped me a lot. Thank you for that

[@Michelle-uz2ch]

This is so accurate and horrible - very destabilizing and destructive. Thank you for explaining projective identification. It takes absolute strength and courage to reidentify oneself in the face of this dehumanizing behaviour. Never give up on oneself! Thank you Ross Rosenberg.🌱

[@tiatorus]

You are the best therapist on this subject on KZbin in my opinion. You woke me up to everything

[@nhmooytis7058]

I’m 72 and just fully realized that my upbringing has made it impossible for me to become truly attached to anyone except my cats. It’s not that I don’t care about people, but I can take or leave them. I’ve never actually understood loneliness. I’m an extrovert so I enjoy people if they’re around, but if not, I have so many interests I’m never bored. I’m the only person I know who had no negative feelings about being unable to see people during Covid. I didn’t enjoy not being able to go wherever I wanted but being with people....I was like “whatever. “

[@lexbest]

I have DID. I wish so desperately you could help me. I've been, for several years now researching narcissistic abuse. I understand cerebrally everything you're saying. Your compassion is really coming through. I keep searching for therapists and they keep making things worse. I just can't get the help I need. The more I try, the worse it gets. When I reach out and I'm pushed away it just reinforces the belief I have that I will never be loved. Intellectually I realize this can't be true. But I exist in a million pieces and I can never hold this belief in my mind. I've reached a point of desperation. I don't think I can escape

[@HUYI1]

simular feeling for me too 😥😥

[@lexbest]

@HUYI1 💜

[@theeJZ]

New healing prayer unlocked 🔓 🙏🏾 thank you Ross you're a brilliant genius lifesaver

[@janicebeauchamp61]

Thank you for clarifying codependency. I don't know how to spin that so much ! I stand up for myself now!

[@ShelliKarnes]

I appreciate your LifeWork in describing normal people vs. the inhuman NPD in so many differing ways. Now it is time to step up to remove these banes on society. My abuser's current source of supply's blood is on my hands if I don't stop him. It is time to step up folks... I wish the woman before me (now missing and presumed dead) had taken steps for incarceration. My life would have been spared. NPD discard=spousal abuse, its as simple as that.

[@jwiki1]

I think emotional dysmorphia could cover many conditions by definition of both emotion (a wide range of strong feelings) and dysmorphia (abnormality or deformity).

[@lisaduhrssen7741]

It appears to be rooted in the patriarchy

[@enyavissepo]

^^^

[@kristinmeyer489]

This is insulting, as a gang stalking target of decades, having lost all genuine career opportunities as well as the chance to ever have a family of my own. I will NEVER be able to regain EVEN HALF of what was GRATUITOUSLY STOLEN BY FREAKY EVIL PSYCHOPATHS.

[@ruckerbrady8342]

I don't know what you believe in or not but reading your comment I feel a heavy weight in my heart. I went through it for a couple years and it was making me homicidal and I'm a kind caring animal lover. It has left lasting emotional and behavior changes in me. Anyway I'm praying for you. Don't give up. You're coward enemies WILL pay for there crimes. They will not get away with these crimes against humanity. They ALWAYS target the most special of God's children. You have probably seen some of these phycos get sick, or die, or fall one way or another because of God's wrath. You will be rewarded for enduring till the end.

[@Martina-wn1sr]

❤NEVER SAY NEVER... EVERYTHING THAT RISES MUST CONVERGE...THE POWER OF INTENTIONS...I ENJOY EVERY LITTLE THING, NO MATTER HOW SIMPLE IT IS. THEY CAN'T TAKE WHAT'S IN YOUR HEART..💜🙏🌈

[@sunshinenyc007]

Always great ❤

[@violetruthless1121]

Who would not fall into this category? Every human has an image of either their physical body or their emotional sphere that is not correct to who they actually present themselves to be to the world that's kind of the point in the whole three self-perceptions at the same time thing it creates dichotomy

[@SimonPagano-k1c]

Thanks for sharing such valuable information! Could you help me with something unrelated: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How can I transfer them to Binance?

[@HUYI1]

i feel no self love within and with others, i don't know if it's hard to describe or not 🤔

[@Lola54117]

This sounds like my ex. He had ptsd and is bi polar. He was sexualy abused when a teen. He found his mother dead, then it lead to drugs, alcohol and sexual encounters with any gender. I did so much research on him to find so many things he did. He is a great liar, gaslight, and love bomb. I read that he stated in a book he left behind that he didn't connect with any women. I feel he is mentally not all there.

[@Ross_Embossed]

Lovely how compassionate women are to Male Victims of sexual ( & psychological) abuse 👌

[@GodTurnItAround]

Do you work with people with schizophrenia?

[@bluebrizas5477]

😱😱😱😱😭💔🥶💥💥💥💥 so accurate!!

[@timothythegreat6294]

mr ross YOU HAVE HELPED ME sooooooooooo much man my life is starting to become sturdy again and you teach in a way that shows me how to be nice and not hospitalize my stalkers and induced convo narcs not sure how to thank you but bless you and your outstanding 🎉💯🪽😎