A woman who learns to control her emotions is a powerful woman.
@venusela Жыл бұрын
@@Xxhdhdh learn your hormones, learn how about your cycle, study your triggers
@janedesoda3787 Жыл бұрын
That’s me
@aliceg6747 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that🙌
@maryfrances1307 Жыл бұрын
@aaliyahtheinvestor1044 You are so right. About once a month I get EXTREMELY lonely and want to reach out to a less-than-qualified man. I finally realized that it was my cycle causing me to feel this way.
@africangirl189 Жыл бұрын
💯
@HavInspires6 жыл бұрын
"Women mistake their maternal instinct for the love of a man." Damn......that was powerful.
@LaBellezaMorena6 жыл бұрын
Really powerful
@TheMorganVEVO6 жыл бұрын
👏🏽 I FELT THAT SHIT. Omg. 😐
@Kristina-zt2op6 жыл бұрын
I'm shook
@shesusl61505 жыл бұрын
ms_hav 1 so powerful
@theSpiritofTamzin5 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!
@Jenny-zo9lu6 жыл бұрын
Get emotionally attached to goals not THE MAN..
@BOZACKSKY6 жыл бұрын
Thats being masculine.You will only attract a beta male who is not interested in fucking you around anyway.For that he will live off your success while he allows you to brow beat him.
@christinemanger3756 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!♡
@missball4046 жыл бұрын
Luna Bhattacharya you got that right!!!!!👍💖
@Jenny-zo9lu6 жыл бұрын
BOZACKSKY The goal is securing the bag
@cammiosis6 жыл бұрын
BOZACKSKY that’s what we want lmmao .. why would want men who dismiss us? That’s a rookie move .. getting with a high & mighty alpha .. naw
@mari-zp9ed7 ай бұрын
She’s the reality check you wish you had years ago…
@kristianahook1764Ай бұрын
Yes
@Iamclassycamille2 жыл бұрын
“Fall in love with yourself and marry the man who treats you the best” These words are now my wallpaper. Thank ya ma’am!♥️
@adameve6623 Жыл бұрын
What a profound statement damn
@intentionalgreatness6 жыл бұрын
"Fall in love with yourself and find the man that is going to treat you the best!"..that statement is GOLD!
@Pelo_Mongale Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@flawlessbylola Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@Hahahaha-7 Жыл бұрын
That’s a dumb and stupid quote.
@Emiliah1996 Жыл бұрын
How if I’m ugly? I am for real
@marieava47411 ай бұрын
@@Emiliah1996that's your problem you believe your ugly no such thing as an ugly woman
@melindaroop13466 жыл бұрын
Do not act like someone's wife until you have a ring and marriage license and a house.
@artsyhyd5 жыл бұрын
Melinda Earl-Roop 💯💯💯💯💯
@toomuchinformation5 жыл бұрын
@lemmieatit Of course, but if they have all that, why be in a relationship at all? (unless you want children)
@dikachiekeke44265 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@happinesssomewhere185 жыл бұрын
I realized this finally
@juanzavala90235 жыл бұрын
So you can divorce and win half of the men’s assets
@Astrologcomedy5 жыл бұрын
I listen to this twice a week for maintenance
@_heyimbritt5 жыл бұрын
Zodiac Wars That’s good!! I started dating a guy and realized I fell off a bit! Watching these for maintenance currently!
@LexyMonty5 жыл бұрын
Same here! Gotta keep being reminded.
@Ang.1435 жыл бұрын
It’s A MUST
@Simply.Homicide5 жыл бұрын
Lol. I know that's right.
@ninah59385 жыл бұрын
Zodiac Wars, I am joining you but first recovery then maintenance! Damn Shera! This is so good...
@Nicksgf094 жыл бұрын
“When women don’t care is when men care the most.” No truer words have been said. Ladies: Don’t give them too much too soon. Keep your standards VERY HIGH, this will weed out dusty men. Don’t be TOO nice, people will notice this and take advantage of you. Don’t commit EVER until you’re married.
@طموحبلاحدود-ب2ث3 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@Queen-ConsciousYa Жыл бұрын
Yes. I was too nice at one point and men and women took advantage of me.
@l3onorg Жыл бұрын
That saying is so true. I remember I liked this guy for 3 years, I was so emotional for him, but then one day I completely pulled back and told myself to move on. A year later he hit my dms and basically fell in love with me
@MonochromaticBlues Жыл бұрын
yh thats true until the game has no more oil then becomes rusty n breaks
@kgunique Жыл бұрын
Agreed a 💯
@soredollz Жыл бұрын
I was only 13 when this video came out, and I was watching it because I was stressing over my first lil boyfriend 😂. Years have past and let me tell you, this woman has really helped me enjoy my youth with and WITHOUT men.
@Shortstacksandticktacks Жыл бұрын
If I saw this when I was 13 my life would have gone completely differently. Im 36 now and married with a child. It doesnt change after marriage, you still have to keep your emotions in check and not be too nice.
@labeezly6080 Жыл бұрын
@@Shortstacksandticktacks I don’t want to live a life like this… not yours per se but if I have to hold back then what’s the point?? It’s just dumb to me -edit: my cycle came. I was PMSing. My head is back in the game
@britneyspears8286 Жыл бұрын
@@labeezly6080 u r a pickmesha
@thegoodnews6682 Жыл бұрын
@@labeezly6080 I'm glad you ok sis. The point is having someone pay your bills while you live as you wish ❤
@bohemianqueen_ Жыл бұрын
Dang you are lucky! Many many years could have been saved in my life had I'd been in your position.
@gina729165 жыл бұрын
I heard a motivational speaker say "If you don't control and contain your emotions, they will use you."
@Nat05285 жыл бұрын
Regina Craig profound!! 👏🏽👏🏽
@dg-qn5mi4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
Yes...they used me for 12 years😪😔😌
@Arlene_witha_y5 жыл бұрын
Attachment is the cause of suffering
@phanda78775 жыл бұрын
So very true as I have recently experienced. I forgot this strategic tip, lost sense of my goal and became emotional with this guy. Thankfully there was no sex to be even more attached! He ghosted after 4 strong months. Viewing SheRa was initially harsh. That was bcuz I was still hurting which I blamed myself for. Now, U see her as sharing valuable relationship info to save many many heart sick women! I am appreciative of her insights and ur comment. Thank you much.
@sherriespencer21155 жыл бұрын
I agree.....it was a gut punch......I've learned now. The good thing is, it's never too late too learn and I WILL NEVER forget the lesson!
@Abundantlyreceiving5 жыл бұрын
The root.
@roses4me4515 жыл бұрын
i.pinimg.com/564x/ad/7a/49/ad7a493a2ede458de2fff1c04b176266.jpg ("Attachment" by Buddha.)
@ninawestlake50054 жыл бұрын
Buddha!
@mataylor56 жыл бұрын
No one should marry for love. Marriage is more than love
@umsiee5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jchris40905 жыл бұрын
I so agree
@angelae17914 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree they need to provide stability & consistency
@olgachafeeva28284 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a contract. Love may or may not come. It doesn't matter, ultimately.
@Urla3984 жыл бұрын
Man marry when they are in love with you, so make sure you make them fall in love with you. That's why they don't see it as a contract like we do.
@alisajamieson4065Ай бұрын
Who listening in 2024??
@DianeUmuratwaАй бұрын
🙋🏼♀️
@victoriamonariАй бұрын
Meee !❤😂
@sarahxo654629 күн бұрын
Twice a week for maintenance
@busylane23 күн бұрын
Meeeeee! 💅
@nanastrybe18 күн бұрын
Wheew
@Lfavored7776 жыл бұрын
Be with a man that treats you like royalty 💍👸
@unapologeticella45405 жыл бұрын
This reminds me when he said I'm not a princess.im not a princess im a Queen👸 boy bye
@anastasiaumegbolu74564 жыл бұрын
Do they exist?
@nefelibata41904 жыл бұрын
gl finding that, that's living in a teenager girls delusional and unexperienced head
@jkherring8 ай бұрын
@@anastasiaumegbolu7456hell no 😂
@elena76596 жыл бұрын
My emotional attachment HAS definitely been my downfall. NEEDED To HEAR THIS
@theSpiritofTamzin5 жыл бұрын
Same
@JeannetteAbrahamson5 жыл бұрын
Me too. I vow to be engaged this year. I’m so glad i found her video.
@lavellesikhosana6041 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Skeforevr11 ай бұрын
Hope you’re better today
@anushkashreya6965 ай бұрын
Same gurl It took me whole lotta inner work and healing to stop being so overly emotional 😵💫
@tmacrooks316 жыл бұрын
"...if you feel guilty, keep doing it until you don't..." #BLOOP
@CherrellMishelle5 жыл бұрын
Tekara Mia Okaaaay! LOL
@TheQueenishere915 жыл бұрын
Tekara Mia 🤣🤣
@londaa.98785 жыл бұрын
Tekara Mia 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@laleezy774 жыл бұрын
Riight! Haha
@thaisadutra983 жыл бұрын
sprinkle sprinkle
@2trunay11 ай бұрын
Men value themselves so much they don’t take half the BS we deal with
@RescueAlwaysOfficial3 ай бұрын
🎯
@suesue1107Ай бұрын
Bingo
@temprance96402 жыл бұрын
"Even the ugliest woman can be worth more than any man" 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@tiktokfamous3446Ай бұрын
Period
@S132146 жыл бұрын
Your reasons for selecting a mate are priceless...the man should cherish, protect, provide and support on all levels.
You hit the nail with this, I’ve witnessed men falling for me/ doing more things when I’m not emotionally attached. So, it’s in a woman’s best interest to put herself first and this is one of your best videos thus far.
@eyeofra40596 жыл бұрын
Jdore Couture yes!!!! I broke it off last year in December with this dude I was dating because he was in a situation shop where he still was living wit his ex. So I’m like I’m not stupid I like you but I want more for myself so I’m ending this period of dating you because I want marriage and someone for me. Girlll in today’s present day. He moved out ended the relationship and telling me daily to pray for us and a longevity in us building and maintaining a relationship
@JC-ce8uw6 жыл бұрын
How did u change ur self from being emotionally attached to them chasing you?
@jdorecouture166 жыл бұрын
aneema chowdhury I started to not make myself too accessible and still had hobbies. So, it made them think I have a life and it was a honor to talk to me.
@17yogabbagabba5 жыл бұрын
@@eyeofra4059 He must be broke living with an ex but dating other people. Run girl. Get someone on your level or higher with no baggage. Don't let someone guilt you into being with them. Date up. He already showed you his true colors. Believe him.
@joannaatkins5565 жыл бұрын
Yes Maam... I've always had men under my Spell....And yes I'm Married now
@JB-hj3xj6 жыл бұрын
“If you’re cooking, throw out all your pots.” 💀 🤣🤣. I love this woman!!
@mustikamaharani75685 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@kellykittinger59695 жыл бұрын
Haha, right?! So funny I used to cook gourmet meals. Never again
@faceofantasy11945 жыл бұрын
BAhahaha !!
@Stephy_E5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😅 so lovely
@janlive65735 жыл бұрын
Shirley Jean-Baptiste and turn off the stove immediately or just let it burn and say ooops🙊😂 according to Sheraseven1
@princessbaffour Жыл бұрын
I found shera at 24, what she's saying about controlling your emotions is absolutely true. listen to her , I wish I found her sooner
@nanaamakyerewaa6656 Жыл бұрын
Hey girlie.. you Ghanaian?
@princessbaffour Жыл бұрын
@@nanaamakyerewaa6656 hey yeah
@Virgy__ Жыл бұрын
Kenyan here. Happy that African girls we are about to level up
@vanessamakela2943 Жыл бұрын
I’m 24, and I just found her. I’m the biggest pickmesha I know with no emotional control.
@steffi4164 Жыл бұрын
@@nanaamakyerewaa6656 Nigerian here 🙈
@model512 Жыл бұрын
This was a HARD pill to swallow. I’ve been a pickmeshia and overly emotional. Whole time wondering why I attract “top tier” men only to lose them. Shera, you’re the missing piece I needed!! THANK YOU SO MUCH❤
@Ihatecornballs Жыл бұрын
Not easy to face the fact that you were a pick me, wishing you health and wealth towards your new path.
@MegaLadylove2012 Жыл бұрын
How you know they were top tier?
@model512 Жыл бұрын
@@MegaLadylove2012 money, social class, how they provided and treated me.
@MahletSahlu-z3l Жыл бұрын
@@Ihatecornballs😂
@ElvinaLSmith11 ай бұрын
I have such a problem with what most women say is "pick me" behavior. Can you tell me what you mean by it?
@tammys7016 жыл бұрын
Dont COOK for them ya'll!!! Thats wife privilege! 🤣😂
@SabyShantelle5 жыл бұрын
Amen 😂😂😂😂
@AvyletStudios5 жыл бұрын
Thank you ,really powerful
@sheshez4christr3015 жыл бұрын
I love this channel🤣
@artsyhyd5 жыл бұрын
This 💯💯💯💯💯 I almost cooked for a fuckboi 🤣 Thank God I didn’t lol
@pelomk90225 жыл бұрын
Will stop doing that now
@candid.3036 жыл бұрын
Girl you are an excellent source of feminine energy.
@Nat05285 жыл бұрын
Candi D. I agree!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@xiyanavondereretein31756 жыл бұрын
yes!! one foot in and one foot out. think LOGICALLY not emotionally
@malmo83015 жыл бұрын
đ
@Latinaperspective4 жыл бұрын
“Being over emotional only gets you things temporarily.” This is sooo true!!!
@watchyamouth225 жыл бұрын
If women don’t listen to this , they’re crazy 💯🤷🏽♀️
@ennvee1989 Жыл бұрын
**✍🏾Cliff notes for the newcomers ** - If you are 25+, Date for money and lifestyle, NOT for love! Also, don't date for looks. ((- If you are under 25, just date for fun. Date for looks and for puppy love. Experience that "dusty phase" while you are still young. Just don't pay for dates and DON'T get pregnant.)) - Pick the correct targets (make sure he likes you way more than you do) - Getting a provider is a numbers game...u gotta be out and about in public several times a week! Almost everyday! And make sure u look good from all angles. - If he starts playing games, just get another man (preferably multiple men) - Dont give the 🐱 up unless he is paying all your bills - LEVEL UP !! Look GOOD every time you leave your house (hair,makeup,nails on point) - Go to the nice side of town for happy hours. Go by yourself. - Online dating is a waste of time - Never pay for dates -Don't cook don't clean - No 50/50 roommate situation! He needs to provide 100%. - Date OLDER men, preferably 15 years+ older than you - Do not tell them upfront that you have kids - ALL men cheat (you can cheat back 🤷🏾♀️) - Men fall in LUST, they don't fall in love with women - Start making up sob/damsel in distress stories to encourage men to spend on u ( "I just paid my granma's rent, I lost my job, my aunt is sick i gotta pay her hospital bills"🥺...) - Stay unbothered and don't let other people's opinion affect u - Always prioritize yourself - Never play fair in an unfair world - When men give you money, save it to invest in yourself (start your own business so u dont have to work a 9-5 anymore) - Sprinkle Sprinkle 💰
@ms.jacques8 ай бұрын
Thank you, darlinggg
@number-uz1es6 ай бұрын
Ya I’m tired of playing the nice “I want to make you happy type of person”. Because for some odd reason that always leaves me feeling unhappy. Sorta sad how we can’t just make each other happy- someone always loses- I don’t like being the loser.
@kaarinahamalainen48674 ай бұрын
💯💯
@iidjkg4 ай бұрын
👎🏾
@sarahh45173 ай бұрын
Girl 😂
@SleepingHarmony6 жыл бұрын
What Tupac said “I don’t want it if it’s to easy “
@kirsten10074 жыл бұрын
That is powerful
@hairfanatic876 жыл бұрын
my mom never talked about this stuff
@omgitsalexis10006 жыл бұрын
tee my mom did but she called these women floosies lol, these are the women she warned me about but now I’m taking their advice 😂
@joilynjoilyn6 жыл бұрын
tee I'm a mother I always thought this was a bad way of thinking until I got walked on like a door mat you got this information now use it young lady....
@TheMorganVEVO6 жыл бұрын
She probably didn’t even know about it herself. Women are groomed to be taken advantage of lately. This type of advice has been lost because people associate it with malicious intent. It’s not malicious, it’s just a realistic way of protecting yourself. We are conditioned to make ourselves available all the time, but that is what eventually makes us seem “used up” over time. I’m glad that many women have learned to appreciate this info more.
@giggles12196 жыл бұрын
tee Mine neither 😕
@conversationswithcookie10326 жыл бұрын
tee My mother was a Pick Me, unfortunately!!! Listen to her young Sistren she's dropping 💎💎💎👌🏾
@jenna_parker_036 жыл бұрын
Been far less emotionally invested since I've been watching Shera. Saving me a whole lot of heartache. Thanks girlfriend!! 👌
@oliviacastellano15585 жыл бұрын
Jenna Parker JPTV for reall!!
@bangelic64714 жыл бұрын
I need this every week
@shaw9851 Жыл бұрын
So be like a man is what you're saying
@tyd8077 Жыл бұрын
@@shaw9851 Yes
@melarie205 Жыл бұрын
@@shaw9851 yeah what ab it
@tre96567 ай бұрын
Shera is right about everything, if you don't believe her there's a man out there who's going to make you realise and you're going to learn the hard way
@veliciawilliams1018 Жыл бұрын
You cannot meet every guy believing that he is the one. Take it slow and follow the signs. Go out on day dates, lunch dates and reserve dinner dates for the person you are some what interested in. All alone the way , you are looking for signs of 1. Who is he as a person. 2. Is this person reliable, can you count on him? 3. How does he handle love, grief, loss , when things are not going right. 4. Is this man responsible? Does he have financial order in his life? And never lend any money at any time to him.
@AK-dh2mu6 жыл бұрын
The pretending you don’t want a relationship works so well had my ex going crazy and then I REALLY didn’t want him lol
@aniah34255 жыл бұрын
Lol true dat.
@sexyladyakb5 жыл бұрын
Brianna Keen she literally said “you’re the one he can’t have a relationship with”
@sassylanab702 Жыл бұрын
It works 😝😅😂& I swear I’m so “Unapologetically Unbothered”💕💕🍾
@MonochromaticBlues Жыл бұрын
so why you didnt break up with him lame b?
@ReefDawg Жыл бұрын
Why is this funny?
@missball4046 жыл бұрын
sad but men seem to prefer games lol!!! Oh well let the games begin😂
@pridefulebony39056 жыл бұрын
missball404 exactly. If they did not we would not have to be playing the mind games.
@shirlsshirls85946 жыл бұрын
Lol!!!
@SleepingHarmony5 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯✅
@Tyrannosaurus_Wrexx5 жыл бұрын
May the odds be ever in your favor 🏆🥇
@TheSunshineplace105 жыл бұрын
💯
@LoneStyleTribe6 жыл бұрын
A man’s energy (masculine energy) is similar to a line; it is straightforward, to the point and action oriented. As compared to a woman’s feminine energy which is the spiral and is complex, swirling, and more spiritual and emotion based. A man is BASED ENERGETICALLY on ACTION, a man shows you how you feel based on action on doing on building If his ACTIONS don’t show you he “loves” you then he doesn’t care about you point blank period no excuses. Want to know what a man’s version of love for a woman is? You know how your parents, which is undoubtably the ONLY TRUE FORM OF LOVE on this earth is, take care of you? Feed you, clothe you, let you live in their home and not pay rent, and all of those parent things they do for you? Yea, that. If a man doesn’t provide for you, protect you, take care of you similar to how your parents do, he doesn’t give a shit about you. Sorry but that’s the real world
@escyartemis69136 жыл бұрын
@shogun harlem look, we are not here to keep men loyal..we cleaned and cooked and they still cheated and didn't even give shit. Its okey let him cheat, as long as my bills are paid to the T, and the insurance, and the upgrades. Coz I can still cheat too..everybody got private parts..
@michaelallen39996 жыл бұрын
@shogun harlem My nigga!
@HoyaZak6 жыл бұрын
shogun harlem my man is exactly how she described pay bills for me and his kids and is a true man. He is alpha and respected
@HoyaZak6 жыл бұрын
Michael Allen broke dusty
@HoyaZak6 жыл бұрын
shogun harlem the other thing is if transgender can get the princess life why can’t true women can’t 😂 get ur dusty out here
@reallifetopicsrevealed72952 жыл бұрын
I just LITERALLY watched a podcast with men bragging about how regular looking women, single mothers and cougars treat them like kings. Yet they were talking about how the INSTAGRAM types don't do anything but they still wanted them. What you're saying is 100% true.
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Men brags so much
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
😂 😂 is ironic but true
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
Just go back to times , u weren’t feeling the guy who wanted u. Then when he gets u 😅 😂 starts acting lazy and mean 😭 sometimes ghosting
@Chauchatness Жыл бұрын
Ofc they would they are rutheless and we should be too. What podcast?
@TravianKardashian Жыл бұрын
Majority of men who desire instagram type women only do for pleasure, not to marry and build happy lives with. The instagram type woman spends time investing in things that won’t matter in the long run. Look for men with husband characteristics and who are dating to marry, and stop letting these entertainers (podcasters) steer you in the wrong direction.
@Bugialifestories Жыл бұрын
Every woman who has mastered the art of emotional stability and all the other skills to become a high value woman has a personal responsibility and obligation to teach every young woman close to her these skills and knowledge. Sprinkle Sprinkle revolution 🎉🎉
@cammiosis6 жыл бұрын
Men know this men know anyone who is overly emotional is a basket case and easily subdued. All humans are emotional. Emotion is energy in motion. They use this to manipulate and control women. That’s why they constantly drive it in our heads that we are emotional and get hella pissed when we are strategic, a strategic woman is extremely powerful men know this!
@ITech20056 жыл бұрын
Moneybags Anderson I'm sorry but you guys are terribly misguided. A good man does not want a power struggle with his wife. If you have a good man, then there is nothing wrong with being submissive to him.
@sephoravo5 жыл бұрын
Imonous you can be strategic and submissive at the same time
@teemadarif82435 жыл бұрын
Super true!!
@sexybrown7385 жыл бұрын
@@corsicanlulu no there are alot of good Men they just not looking for your masculine ran through black behind😉
@haitiangal13615 жыл бұрын
S. Vero Exactly. It’s possible to submit to a man and think logically lmao.
@Elitta3256 жыл бұрын
In other words, have a life and better, a goal, outside thirsting for a man because u can bet their lives don’t revolve around u.
@teemadarif82435 жыл бұрын
Trust and believe.
@angietrujillo56106 жыл бұрын
I'm throwing my emotions in the trash thx Shera!
@avnijamwal98505 жыл бұрын
Doing D same
@bayarmaavongjesda35555 жыл бұрын
Me 3lol
@Qasde4235 жыл бұрын
Dump that shit, bae🗑!!!! 💪🏽😎
@774623775 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️💯
@Nat05285 жыл бұрын
Me too pooh!!!
@tishah81508 ай бұрын
"If they want home cooked meals, call their Momma." 😂💯
@pynklady115 жыл бұрын
Been there done that she speaks the truth🤷🏾♀️. Also when you remove your feelings you see the situation CLEARLY for what it is. Men dont operate like we do the sooner women realize that the better.
@lillianacampbell16815 жыл бұрын
She’s so unbothered 😂 I love it
@isisagood5 жыл бұрын
My Mama always told me never give a boyfriend Husband Privileges!!! Thanks Mom, RIP!!!
@candysade6 жыл бұрын
I remember this guy, my ex when I was young like 21 brought his laundry to my apartment talking bout do my laundry for me, we had a huge argument, I was like we don't live together, you pay no bills or rent, we aren't married.. he demanded I did his laundry so I pretended like ok lemmie get this laundry and I dumped it down 3 flights of stairs and said, go get that.
@theSpiritofTamzin5 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄😄
@idencee75 жыл бұрын
Amanda Sutherland 😮 😂 should have done that too
@inasyal63115 жыл бұрын
Lol
@GoogleUser-wy2vv5 жыл бұрын
What happened after you threw his clothes down the steps?
@gigijanae14605 жыл бұрын
@Amanda Sutherland GIRL HOW DID HE REACT LMFAOOOO DKDKEJ I'M CRYING
@createbuildautomate2 жыл бұрын
“Fall in love with yourself and choose the man who is going to treat you the best”❤️ this wisdom is unmatched
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
Unmatched🗣
@tiktokfamous3446Ай бұрын
Wow. Mic drop
@caughtmeontheflip5 жыл бұрын
"fall in love with yourself and choose the man who's gonna treat you the best!"
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
I followed all this advice and I'm proud to say I landed a sugar daddy who is spoiling me. He's ready and waiting and I'm filing my nails and rolling my eyes lol thanks SheRah we need to get you a pulpit and a choir for these sermons they are invaluable. Dropped my dusty on Wednesday got a sugar daddy on a Friday lol no longer letting these stupid ass men waste my time, #stay winning...listen ladies her advice works and when we change these men change.
@babymoscato17826 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! I'm dropping mine tonight. I have an older electrician who owns his own company, former military and chilin' who has let me know he's interested. I kept putting him off while the DUSTY my age kept finding ways not to spend money and kept trying to get some. I haven't given it up yet and now I never will. He's dust. This electrician, however, may get it after he gives me what I want. We're having that conversation tomorrow over brunch. Hehe. I have lots of things that need to be done around my house AND I need new tires for my car. Let's see how badly he wants it.
@babymoscato17826 жыл бұрын
S. C. Yes! Thank you for the advice. I'm practicing batting my lashes. 😂
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
Baby Moscato yep the more feminine and girly the better. Compliment him like it's so nice to see a hard working man shit like that work on his ego...you have to boost it up so that if you leave he will end up in a sunken place lol his self esteem should depend on you...I'm so happy you got rid of that loser...you deserve better all of us women do.
@Sigmanovar6 жыл бұрын
too bad i dont care for compliments
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
Dark knight trust me boo your type is not on the radar you have absolutely nothing to worry about lol
@hopscotchgiggles42886 жыл бұрын
"When some people hear your situation from a distance, they just want to slap you." I fell all thee way out. Her humor is the absolute best!
@munamohamed21164 жыл бұрын
I felt that 😂😂
@ashuradailyy Жыл бұрын
IM EMBARRASSED
@hearttoheart33176 жыл бұрын
You can get a marriage license and still end up loosing. Getting married doesn't guarantee a man will treat you right.
@athanasiatzr3855 жыл бұрын
It never ends.. I m exchausted
@teemadarif82435 жыл бұрын
Yeah but at least the law on your side.
@diamondunicorn24215 жыл бұрын
Been married before. Now divorced, won't do it again... Being a wife isn't an end all goal... It's the beginning of torture and he'll emotionally. Why would I want that? From a man? Just to say we are together? Just be yourself that's all a man wants, and don't play games with them... Especially if you have feelings for them, and they are petty? Your feelings will be hurt more.
@krissteenah3185 жыл бұрын
Takisha Ricks this is truee
@elizabethmonica23075 жыл бұрын
And when he does not treat you rite ..... law intervened and Eureka you get paid for it ..... and then the magical word comes in the becoming “Financial Security”
@flowers90s Жыл бұрын
She's right 💯 been there done that. The more you do for a man the less they respect and appreciate you period. Its sad but listen to what she is saying, if i had this video a few years ago it wouldve saved me from alot of heartache.
@kimberlybrowndiaz9293 Жыл бұрын
disagree
@lavellesikhosana6041 Жыл бұрын
You can say that again
@HealedChakras7775 жыл бұрын
"if i come back as a man in my next life, I'm going straight to pick me's" lmboooo sis is right
@lalarodgers31416 жыл бұрын
I TRIED THIS TATIC AND IT WORKS! I GOT THE GUY THAT I WAS MADLY IN LOVE WITH CHASING AND DOING EVERYTHING FOR ME ...LOL ITS LIKE THEY LIKE THE WOMEN THAT DOG THEM OUT BUT HEY IF THATS HOW U WANT IT LOL I LOVE IT ..I JUST HAVE A I DONT CARE ATTITUDE NOW ( WHILE PAINTING MY NAILS) LOL
@teemadarif82435 жыл бұрын
They need to be challenged. It makes them stronger.
@ninasantiaga9105 жыл бұрын
💅🏾
@stylebydng5 жыл бұрын
💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽
@tbg60705 жыл бұрын
Can't wait for "he started showing his true colors" update. Yall pretend to want good guys, but will play dumb ass games...YET act brand new when the dude is a playa as well. And that's why people say women can't think logically............
@DW-zd7sc5 жыл бұрын
You reap what you sow. Your only making hard for youself lol. Laugh now cry later
@dietrabenton59075 жыл бұрын
He should not marry you for your maid skills!!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Hallelujah
@refilwempanzori6 жыл бұрын
Wife Priviledge...Don't cook for that man.
@sophiemoreau30495 жыл бұрын
M
@ladylady78482 жыл бұрын
I had two friends that cook for guys immediately. It's one of the first things they do
@lananicole95454 ай бұрын
Did the guy stay🤡@@ladylady7848
@MsLolaTaylor4 жыл бұрын
Top 5 videos EVER created. Nothing but damn gems. I used to be this girl and since I’ve started investing in myself rather than men and stopped getting emotionally attached to the people around me my life has done a complete 180. Now instead of being the chaser I am now the one being chased. All the guys I used to sweat over now look at me like the missed opportunity and been trying desperately to double back. Y’all better listen. Shera is God sent.
@myeshak51052 жыл бұрын
Can you please share next 4 videos as well
@goddessglow699611 ай бұрын
Which are the other 4 videos?
@MsLolaTaylor4 жыл бұрын
"You're playing a role he ain't even ask you to audition for"💯 Shera we love you lol
@ruseriuos39895 жыл бұрын
I don’t even save numbers anymore. I text back like who this???🤔
@elverdaderocanserbero5 жыл бұрын
good idea
@Di_7775 жыл бұрын
😆😂😂
@tezwall25274 жыл бұрын
,,😂😂😂😂😂
@inthemixwithleahbpodcast4 жыл бұрын
That’s me... LOL
@himayasam49044 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂😂
@Isha-bh5tz5 жыл бұрын
Watching this at the age of 20 at the perfect time. Thank you for the great video !!!
@xeniastephenson80765 жыл бұрын
I'm a little late 23😂😂 but we here lol
@pear1ycur1y835 жыл бұрын
Im 22 mang. We can do this. Les get this bag 💰
@princessmayaharriete.omowe16564 жыл бұрын
Im 27...and im taking the streets by storm. Too mucj of ny heart broken aint nothing left no more but the bitchy part
@catclown82588 ай бұрын
Gurlll, you lucky 😂
@anushkashreya6965 ай бұрын
I'm 19 lol
@QueenBees4565 жыл бұрын
You cant pretend to have one foot in and ine foot out....you really have to feel this way. Don't be invested in it be willing to let it go if it's not a good fit. Women invest quickly and get dumped just as fast.
@claudianabura869310 ай бұрын
I feel like ever since i started listening to sprinkle sprinkle lady i feel soo beautiful and powerful and noticed all my mistakes i made in my passed .i maybe single but i have learnt alot thanks girl
@flaviadzimbanhete62317 ай бұрын
Same here, girl. we're in this together ❤️
@BeautefulSha3 жыл бұрын
I literally had a guy tell me that I give too much. I also do laundry, cook, and clean and my kids father called me desperate. First time I've ever been called desperate and it was amazing to me how stupid and ungrateful people are.
@adrianarenee33313 жыл бұрын
It’s human nature to take people for granted. If you have a man paying your bills for a year and he stops you’re going to feel some type of way. Never put yourself in that position because men are not appreciative of that. They want a pretty princess that THEY cater to and can show off. Men don’t fall in love with what you do for them they fall in love with what they do for YOU. Promise
@AkwaIbomDoll3 жыл бұрын
why were you doing all that? did they pay you to do it? 💀
@adriennebrown6823 жыл бұрын
He called you desperate, because sadly you did all of those things & you still aren’t a wife. It’s a harsh truth, and be glad he told you. Now you know better & will never make that mistake again. You’re BEAUTIFUL 😍💕
@omolevincentia34472 жыл бұрын
No,your baby daddy likes you,that is why he is telling Truth,he doesn't want you to continue your desperado in the next relationship, because he had absolutely nothing to gain and a lot to lose to be honest with you
@omolevincentia34472 жыл бұрын
@@greatestever80sbaby dusty alert
@lillylu20655 жыл бұрын
I believe that emotion is a feminine power. You don't EVER get rid of your emotions. But, with everything in life, it's a about management.
@Queen-ConsciousYa Жыл бұрын
Emotional intelligence
@Azizajewelry5 жыл бұрын
My mom taught me the exact opposite of this very valuable information. Had to untrain myself from her pick me behavior where she is the alpha and is basically paying my dad to be with her, paying most of the bills, cleaning, cooking for him and says she is happy just because she can boast 50 years of marriage. I deserve better!
@LovejoyJourney5 жыл бұрын
Oh my, break the cycle sis 💟
@secret-garden5 жыл бұрын
So many elders are this way. They're proud of their marriages but those marriages are built of the blood and sacrifice of the wife. It's very sad.
@reflections4me5 жыл бұрын
azizajewelry Gosh.🤐🤭
@victoriasnatch53114 жыл бұрын
Same boo
@olgachafeeva28284 жыл бұрын
ohhhhh yuck!!! I'd rather be single.
@cannadybell82196 жыл бұрын
oh how I wish you were around when I was a teenager
@allglorybetogod64166 жыл бұрын
Cannady Bell Yessss@cannady Bell u and me both
@Bre_Inspired_6 жыл бұрын
GIRL. Would have saved me years of time wasted.
@honeybfly19805 жыл бұрын
Cannady Bell me too! This is the kind of mothering I needed
@eccho15 жыл бұрын
Right?! If only!
@margaretmouka55525 жыл бұрын
thank god she is around here, i just became 20 and im becoming a boss ass bitch compared to the other girls i know
@schedirvenus4 жыл бұрын
When you said “some women are just too nice” , I felt that. Damn I needed this video.
@bliep85 Жыл бұрын
Respressing your emotions is the most unhealthy thing to do, it will cause stress in the body and make you ill. Love yourself for who you are. If you are an emotional woman, love yourself even more. Let it out.
@lydia3139 Жыл бұрын
I agree! I think it’s more about controlling emotions & protecting yourself than repressing emotions because the latter is definitely unhealthy
@dopeyasmrdemoimoi3057 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@amber52258 ай бұрын
I think this misses the point, control emotions doesn’t mean suppression and you can go pay someone to help to talk about emotions.
@its_whatever_dani_d8635 жыл бұрын
Well my emotions have been disconnected.... right about.....NOW LOL
@MoniqueKindle5 ай бұрын
Mines too
@tarawillis11136 жыл бұрын
I’ll admit this was hard to listen to but I needed to hear it. Thanks a lot.
@Unapologeticallyme896 жыл бұрын
You are so right with these tips. I used to be that over emotional girl at some point. But I have learned that is worst mistake ever because men will take advantage of you like nothing. My current man is always telling me that he don't think I really love him the way he adores me lol. I love hearing him say that because I love him, I just don't show him that much so he keeps guessing.
@hogantheredpill92316 жыл бұрын
QueenD that's because you're dating a bottom feeder beta simp man
@Unapologeticallyme896 жыл бұрын
Hogan Mgtow who cares what you think dude. Afterall opinions are like asses everyone has one😊.
@hogantheredpill92316 жыл бұрын
QueenD apparently you care... you responded back to my comment
@Unapologeticallyme896 жыл бұрын
Hogan Mgtow nope I really don't!
@hogantheredpill92316 жыл бұрын
QueenD your little weak minded beta male simp boyfriend must not be giving you attention because you're still writing me
@cdpglam8895 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been saying this even in my teenage years. I never understood why women are so emotional in relationships. I’ve always been told that I am a man at heart. This video says everything I’ve been saying since day one. You don’t cook, clean, do his taxes-- nothing! Use your intellect and wit and not emotions. Pull it out!
@Safespacekewithmonini6 ай бұрын
I'll listen to this daily until I get it..until it sinks in my mind .and I'll keep listening to more.. I'll keep learning..this world is harsh to emotional people .all my emotional decisions led to trashy results..am done..am the user now
@elia17896 жыл бұрын
Watching this with teary eyes. Wish i could go back in time and knew about this channel. Thank you Shera you re my mentor ❤
@BlessedVivi6 жыл бұрын
elia1789 Don't beat yourself up. Move forward
@elia17896 жыл бұрын
BlessedVivi 😘😘
@silale20155 жыл бұрын
Me too
@TheCamgirl255 жыл бұрын
I feel you it's time to move on....
@LashayneHampton4 жыл бұрын
elia1789 🙏🏾
@brittanynorbert10666 жыл бұрын
Seriously I hAve been listening to this woman for a month now and since then I have stepped my game up 😀 I have just went on my first shopping date I used her tips and got designer heels and a fur coat. I also got all my bills payed for the money. And yesterday he brought up a monthly allowance 😍 sit down and watch all of her videos level up and get ur money
@risabell045 жыл бұрын
Brittany Norbert seriously do tell
@mickelined54475 жыл бұрын
Where do i find these men??
@boosiechic13 жыл бұрын
How old is the lucky fella?
@xxmegababygirlxx3 жыл бұрын
Halfway through them all now!!!! 500 more to go
@annissakapor Жыл бұрын
What did you do and how did you get designer heels and coat?Share with us please❤
@princessmia68326 жыл бұрын
I think I needed to hear this ... it’s time to level up I’m a diamond and I’m priceless
@ΑΙΚΑΤΕΡΙΝΗΚΑΠΟΥΑ4 жыл бұрын
yes you are!God made us to be queens!
@dee29194 жыл бұрын
It seems as though roles have been reversed. Nowadays you see guys wanting girls to “prove” themselves to guys so guys can make the decision to keep them or not . Guys be wanting girls to chase them. I see it all of the time and experienced it . I will never chase a guy though 😂😂😂 🤦🏽♀️
@Cute_Stuffs3 жыл бұрын
They are smart 🙂 they know your weakness and make it work against you
@ladylady78482 жыл бұрын
@@Cute_Stuffs Big facts
@ajmpbangtanminyoongi5 ай бұрын
That's why i block 😂
@CiaraShavonne3 ай бұрын
This. I’m not finna chase these 🥷s like wtffff lol never again lol 😂
@mer23oz30 Жыл бұрын
“ Don’t let men make you feel bad for not doing pick me stuff , because if you feel bad for not being basic then you stupid “ 28:59
@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely Жыл бұрын
YESSS 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@SunniSide15 жыл бұрын
Everytime she says “okay?” I’m like YES MA’AM LOL
@CircumstancesNeverMatter5 жыл бұрын
And even when you get married girl you STILL have to make sure you aren't too emotional. Trust me I'm married and I have to keep myself in check. 👌
@Eyvette1124 жыл бұрын
Brit Brit this true
@ashleysmith4153 Жыл бұрын
True
@harrison3573 Жыл бұрын
Sad.
@KariFromYoutube Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to see
@felicia_rm Жыл бұрын
So much work?! My word
@candid.3036 жыл бұрын
We need more women like you in this world.
@foxxyldyfrca4 жыл бұрын
That's right, then these men will be forced to level up and be what they need to be.
@JourneytoJazmine5 жыл бұрын
This is a WORD!!!! I got emotionally involved with a dusty and he broke my heart. Luckily I started learning about hypergamy right as things were shifting between us. I’ve seen the light and now I’m moving accordingly and working on becoming the best version of myself.
@joumanabarazi576 Жыл бұрын
"You don t marry the type of woman who would do anything for you, who is a doormat. Because you will never truly respect her or love her." this one hit me hard
@anabarrios91435 жыл бұрын
“If you feel bad for not being basic, then you’re stupid” GOLD
@strongertogetherfitness1936 жыл бұрын
Ladies it has nothing to do with how young they are . I dated an older man that a 5 year old was more mature. It has to do with how there raised . Older men are very set in there ways. And quite frankly have been more burned in there relationships than a younger guy.. And by the way most of them are penny pinchers and paying child support .. and there PISSED 😡 about that . In my experience do not go for the older men . Unless he’s a millionaire.... run!!!!!!
@GoogleUser-wy2vv5 жыл бұрын
Interesting
@foxxyldyfrca4 жыл бұрын
OMG ..so right!
@sababaloch47575 жыл бұрын
Even the ugliest woman can be worth more than any man. Just sayin🙄 Savage shera❤
@baobypixar58414 жыл бұрын
It’s just biology. Women make life in their bodies, all they need is some sperm. A man can impregnate a woman, but the child is still inside her. It’s ultimately up to her who has the child. This is the ultimate biological advantage.
@tiktokfamous3446Ай бұрын
@@baobypixar5841 YASS!!!
@Cherryxbarbie92 Жыл бұрын
Controlling emotions is key. When you show emotions, he has control and sometimes take advantage - is also too much for a man to deal with.
@user-fm7vg4dv1k5 жыл бұрын
It seems like most men want a mother that they can sleep with, or is it just me??🤔
@princessmayaharriete.omowe16564 жыл бұрын
No its not Im a black girl dating a white man and even him has the mummy issues. Dumping him for other more grounded gentlemen
@JR-oo5rp4 жыл бұрын
I swear!!
@msshawn40484 жыл бұрын
@@truthteller8872 nope it's not you
@bxndo5ive4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@dmystfy3 жыл бұрын
Yes and women want a father they can sleep with. That’s psychology!
@CinemaDoll1376 жыл бұрын
Something I have always done and what my mother has taught me is to cook for your husband but stupid me, I felt like I was proving to boyfriends I could be good wife material by being so doting and cooking for them. Most times, I was left unappreciated and men trying to go 50/50. Not doing that again. I'm thankful for your channel.
@everythingbeautyboutique5002 Жыл бұрын
Right along with you
@fridar3267 Жыл бұрын
Omg I’m doing this right now with my boyfriend, I cook for him because I enjoy it and he loves it but recently seen him not trying.
@collectivecreators6312 Жыл бұрын
I literally had a guy tell me he had to eat three times a day at different womens houses that he was sleeping with . All these women thinking they the only one cooking for him . My husband cooked for me . I won’t cooking nothing unless we are married
@honeybadgernasty5 жыл бұрын
Her sarcastic giggle is priceless! LOL! Perfect reaction of her disapproval 😂
@tahirahj62824 жыл бұрын
nasty badger I was thinking the Same thing lol I laugh everytime when she does it lol she real tho
@Sanjutamang222 Жыл бұрын
Haha! Totally agree with you guys ❤😂
@shaylamaat6 жыл бұрын
This is golden information that nobody ever taught me. I need to book a consultation
@JemmaLiberte5 жыл бұрын
I initially rejected the first video I saw 2 days ago... “Omg is this lady for real talking about being a gold digger??” And then I kept her on and actually listened to her. Still in slight judgment mode for about all of 10 -20 mins AND THEN I realized that she is actually telling the truth and more importantly all our truths but we were taught that this is wrong. So yeah the lying part is not easy for me to co-sign on but ya know what??? She is good for those of us who tend to be “PickMeshas” or just too trusting and “lovedrunk” aka dumb. I’m listening to her 7+ hours a day and for 2 nights switch out my ASMR for her videos to help rewire my 💭 thoughts. I have swayed left/right for so long that @SheRaSeven1 will help me be more balanced. #ByeDusties #LevelUp
@CC-ub9cf Жыл бұрын
Hi! Any updates???
@abiodungift10611 ай бұрын
Sprinkle sprinkle
@user-wk4uq5bi4n Жыл бұрын
this is the first time I've heard someone say "you don't want someone to understand everything about you" and ironically I feel so seen.
@Mordeluxe.5 ай бұрын
Right?
@Arlene_witha_y5 жыл бұрын
Being with an emotionally abusive man for 15 years taught me that if i don’t put myself first no one will! I learned to love myself so much that i fell out of love with him. Because if he isn’t going to treat me as well as i treat myself, we’re done.
@toomuchinformation5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely and when you have strong boundaries, toxic draining people disappear from your life.
@princessmayaharriete.omowe16564 жыл бұрын
Repeat when you have strong boundaries, toxic draining people disappear from your life..FOR REAL
@meka10024 жыл бұрын
That's how I learned over 14 yrs ago
@gelleh.54563 жыл бұрын
Powerful!
@mirandachan52222 жыл бұрын
Yasss 👏🏻👏🏻
@samriaamor42106 жыл бұрын
Keep your emotion for your kids,friends family and goals hahahaha lol you are my girl
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
Leave these young stupid men alone date older seasoned men who are traditional and know a woman's value and who wants to provide.
@Trailblazers3236 жыл бұрын
They are old and dumb too
@Monaedeezy6 жыл бұрын
When you say older, what’s the age range?
@Monaedeezy6 жыл бұрын
Last asshole I met was 35
@s.o49176 жыл бұрын
Get you some pimpin
@williamwharton75046 жыл бұрын
I agree with you S.C.. An older Man more mature if you are looking for a provider/ commitment. "Older" is relative as well. If your in your 20's look for a guy in his mid 30's, if your 30 look for a guy in his 40's and so forth.
@janlive65735 жыл бұрын
Loool she just said if your cooking for your “man” right now turn off the stove.That’s right!😂😂
@passionscottslimes45965 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@moonmaiden41976 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I’ll commit to you when we’re married. 🙃😎💋
@daryna946 жыл бұрын
lol even when you're married you have to play games, unfortunately