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Clay Andrews explains emotionally unavailable psychology in dating and relationships. If you want to learn more about how to have a great successful relationship, be sure to check out modernlove.life...
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What exactly are emotionally unavailable men and women thinking in the dating dynamic?
Each is searching for some form of perfection from a created and manufactured ideal in their mind of what a perfect man or woman looks like.
And it is true that emotionally unavailable women are attracted to emotionally unavailable men, so don't think that this is just a one-way street of you being perfectly impeccable, while the other person is emotionally unavailable.
The truth is that people who are emotionally available would not have the patience to deal with emotionally unavailable people, therefore the only people who would be caught in the spiral of an emotional unavailable person would be people who are emotionally unavailable themselves.
Emotionally unavailable women are attracted to their male counterparts because these men and their emotional inability to commit validate the beliefs and insecurities that these women have about themselves. They remain stuck on the fantasy of getting men who can't or won't commit, to do the impossible -- commit to them.
Thus this cycle plays out over and over and over again.
It's only when a person decides to take control of their life by becoming emotionally available themselves, that these issues resolves themselves.
Sure, there will still be emotionally unavailable men and women out there. But you won't be interested in dating them or investing lots of time and energy into them and trying to gain their approval.
Instead, you will let them live their lives the way that they choose to, and you can go forward and find a relationship with emotionally available people yourself.