Dating Over 60 - 3 Tips to Give You Confidence| Engaged at Any Age| Jaki Sabourin

[@humbletrader5479]

I’m a 65 year old man, haven’t been with a woman since my ex left me with two young sons 13 years ago. I tried the online dating thing for awhile, but nobody was interested in a single father, and I rarely even got a response when I reached out, so I gave that up. My youngest son is now 21, and I’ve been hoping to meet someone special in an organic setting, but so far no luck. I’m financially stable, own my home, have zero debt, maintain good physical and mental fitness, and live a comfortable retired life, yet romance still eludes me. I’ve resigned myself to growing old alone, but wish everyone well that has found love late in life.

[@MacMcCaskill]

I know these tutorials are aimed at older ladies, but as an older man having difficulty meeting single older women, I find them very helpful and full of commonsense and positive advice. As a man, however, some of the Comments posted by other men are embarrassing. I'm not surprised that they can't find partners. Thanks again!

[@silvermont331]

Mac McCaskill it looks like you are a gentleman Sr 😆 I’m 49 looking for a life time partner 😆 I’m glad you are educating yourself too over here just like me 😆

[@pogatajosephine6688]

Hi Mr Mac I want know u as a friend I looking a love life too I looking a men over 60 +

[@laurab9867]

@@cullyschmetterling3963 ????

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

@@silvermont331 Welcome! I'm happy you are here. I may start adding videos for the gents about women. Would you find value in that?

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

@@laurab9867 Not sure what @Cully is referring to?

[@bobmoore6248]

I am 65 widower. I miss my wife. Am looking forward to finding someone new but have the idea it may not be easy. I appreciate your advice. Am not going to give up. I have faith that incredible woman is out there.

[@tomh3652]

Im 64 lost my wife of 40 years 9 months ago im so lonely knowing I will never be kissed again.

[@susannesilber3046]

Finally someone who understands what it’s like to have matured from insecurities, still trim, easy on the eyes, but bewildered at how to date at this age, after being married a hundred years! Worked hard to distance myself from this. So willing to do what it takes to finding romance! Thank you!🌹

[@johnreed9050]

Are you willing to put out frequently? If not don't waste your time

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

@faultroy I suggest you stop commenting. You are very negative and she's just being honest about how real the struggle can be when you've not dated in decades. Try to have more empathy and stop judging. Thanks

[@dianaevans7102]

@faultroy you sound like the typical old fart that hasn't been lucky in the dating pool because of your negative attitude. That's too bad. Maybe lighten up a bit and give the ladies a chance. You may have went through a bad divorce, well haven't we all!! Don't let that make you a bitter old man or you will die alone at an early age.

[@fredthomas4342]

@@dianaevans7102 hello Diana..

[@tammyward4532]

@@dianaevans7102 Hello

[@rickl3386]

i am very positive and talk to everyone i have been single for many years. i did date a woman for about 5 weeks but she never smiled and made me feel lonelier than i am by myself. i live on the oregon coast. i havent met too many here as many dont want to be bothered with. my only downfall is i still smoke but i am healthy and fit and i enjoy the simple things in life. i am 65 years old and it isnt easy as one would think.

[@echowalker2153]

I haven't done any serious flirting for quite a few years. I tried out a few things that might help my self confidence. When it brings a favorable response it helps! It did and it did.

[@paulkelly4731]

I'm 70, newly single after 44 years of marriage. I'm looking for social and recreational companionship. Somebody to travel with, movies, dining out, cruises, but many women of my age aren't really healthy enough for an active lifestyle. I fear living the last chapter alone, but I'm at peace with it.

[@ianbrown5955]

Pretty difficult at our age. I was happily married for 21 years. I'm still at a loss of why, or what happened. Maybe for some, love fades with time. Anyways, I'm healed up and ready, but it's tough. I've always looked after myself and been into living a healthy lifestyle. It's very hard to find a woman who cares about herself, as well as having things in common. Maybe I should join a gym in stead of working out in my basement at home :-) I love riding my motorcycle, but women that ride and look after themselves are far and few between.

[@peaceandhumanity5705]

I suggest you go out there! I have quite a few helpful tips

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

@@peaceandhumanity5705 what are your tips?

[@deejaye2647]

Nope! We are out here?

[@ianbrown5955]

Update: Not long after I wrote this, I found my person and she found me. We have a very healthy and understanding relationship. She works out and loves to go out for an occassional ride with me on my motorcycle. We are growing together.

[@pamelasookermany7175]

Wow and wow. Thanks for sharing this, fantastic!! I'm 75 yrs. Widowed for 28yrs. Always wanted some romance in my life, yet. here I am! Still waiting!!! I just know it will happen. God continue to bless you you richly. Luv.

[@goodwillbunny5773]

More! More! More! All us baby boomers are turning 70. We married 50 years ago and have been out of the dating game for a half century! Please bring us up to speed. You are a god-send! Thank you for the encouragement.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thanks Goodwill, more content is coming your way!

[@nancynahnigoh3550]

I am always dating with my husband when we are not babysitting our grand children, he is 62 and I am 58 years old , and we never feel old at all cos we are always happy and enjoy life even very simple dating out , thank you

[@mistymoor7114]

In truth the rules have not changed, assume they have at your peril !

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

@@RobinZipporah I disagree with you! My goodness! If you plan on be a life long learner it would be good to let others do what they feel they need to do to feel empowered. I need support after my divorce years ago and feel so grateful I found numerous coaches to guide my process to healing and empowerment.

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

@@nancynahnigoh3550 you’re lucky

[@margaritakleinman5701]

Simply fantastic, Jaki, every single thing you said was spot on, loved it!! I have a dear teaching colleague/friend who always used to say, "What others think of you is none of your business", I love that saying and had never heard it before, and now I just heard it for the second time, from you. Great advice! Thanks again for an excellent video and wonderful tips.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thanks Margarita

[@nanettelongno7185]

Hi!i'm from the Phil and 69 yrs old...i've been alone for over 20 yrs and i want to love someone again and be loved..is there any chance for me to feel that feeling again?hope so!!! i love your video it gives hope to women like us!!! God bless!!!

[@lauraacosta5515]

Jaki, thank you for these tips. I'm definitely going to put them into practice. I am ready to meet my wonderful handsome soulmate. Thank you so much.

[@mahmoudabdelhay4355]

I'm here ready for you I would like to be your soul mate can we be friends give me chance

[@brahmin13579]

Great advice Jaki...especially for women. The problem is so few women in New England ask questions or flirt with men to make it happen....their too busy glued to their cell phones and are generally so preoccupied that romance is not on their mind...its a real drag....American women particularly.

[@peaceandhumanity5705]

Have you considered moving/travelling?

[@natashadickson4819]

These are tips men can use

[@maritesbarredo2371]

Nice topic. Im 56 years old. Always im watching your video love it

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thank you!

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

This happens also to me,we’re friends for 10months. Since we’re making masks I offered him,he bougth,saw me personally,that’s the start ,now we’re engaged,were67 already but happy even if there’s covid.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Congratulations Josefa! Wish you the best in your relationship! You're invited to join the conversation in a more private platform in our Engaged at Any Age Ladies Club Facebook group! Go here to join: facebook.com/groups/engagedatanyageladiesclub

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

@@EngagedAtAnyAge thank you mam,I will tell john about this

[@lighthouse222222]

Wonderful, thank you for sharing. There are so many older singles now, thank you for reaching out to inform because dating after 60 is an entirely different experience. So many dating coaches entirely ignore with their advice singles 50+.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

I agree! I too was in my 40's when I met my husband so I understand.

[@tonysam1955]

The problem is you do eventually age out of the "dating market." The end of the line is before age 50. This is true for both sexes despite tons of nonsense about older men nabbing young women. After that, it is mostly an exercise in futility. Many men have chronic health problems, and those are the ones who are still alive. In my life, younger men just don't make the grade; I have never been attracted to them. If I ever meet somebody, great, but I am sure not at this point in my life wasting my time pursuing a man. I want to do my thing in the time I have left.

[@remyvill6666]

I'm dating 61 years old and I do love him so much... My problem is that he doesn't wanted to get married anymore it breaks my heart but I honestly understand ang respect his decision.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

That must be very difficult especially if you want to get married. Are you going to stay with him? How long have you been together?

[@remyvill6666]

@@EngagedAtAnyAge were dating for 9 months. He is literally single he never have a wife nor children. We have 25 years gap I think that's the reason why he doesn't wanted to get married anymore. But I decided to stay and still hoping maybe he'll change his mind.. And yeah I wanted to get married.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I Am Seriousely need real happy loveing life partner for get marriage or you really Seriouse INtrested get a Marriage l Amready .. l Where is My queen meet me now I AM single ❤❤😍😍

[@mahmoudabdelhay4355]

Tomy I'm here ready for you I'm interested I want to marry you I don't play games I'm single man 44 years old I'm from Egypt I looking for long term marriage relationship and and true love forever give me chance I wish to you be my wife try me I promise you I don't leave you and I don't hurt you ever and never

[@peaceandhumanity5705]

@@remyvill6666 What measures are you taking to change his mind?

[@ramonapullum284]

Awesome advice!!

[@brahmin13579]

Jaki...You must be from California where women are friendly. The chances of a woman approaching a guy in Boston are next to none. The women here are emotionally repressed. Your advice is good.....Boston needs you.

[@j.7153]

Hi thanks for this advice. Im single 63 yrs old hopefully i can find mr.right soon. Stay safe

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

If meant ,it will come,

[@roseyocklin5415]

Does this really work??

[@j.7153]

@Peter best hi Peter

[@j.7153]

@Peter best hi im good thanks and how about you?

[@j.7153]

@Peter best i'm a single parent of 2 sons and how about you ?

[@carolfay1122]

Asking for help is like a magic elixir. They help you, you look better in their eyes, and they get to feel like a hero. Who knew? ♥️

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Exactly!

[@ursamagick6110]

One of the things I find annoying and know this is pretty common, particularly among married women, is men's need to solve women's problems. Who knew? Really? It's shown constantly in every sit-com. Up until now I always thought a woman wanted a man to listen to her, show some empathy, not change the subject or try to jolly her up. But I guess it's alright to use your helplessness to lure a man into your web. Or is it only okay if you're over a certain age? It's manipulation, plain and simple. Is this what it's come to? How to trap a man circa 1970? I suppose it's easier if you live in an affluent area with lots of eligible wealthy men and you have the wherewithal to get nips, tucks and frequent salon visits. Nothing new here.

[@AJSL88]

MEN ARE BASIC , EATING ,SLEEPING, SEX THAT'S OUR WHOLE DAY!

[@Sarah-es2qf]

@@AJSL88lol I think women are pretty much aware of that.

[@throughthestorm3852]

I love your advise; I guess it would help us guys too. Basically, just be a friendly and positive person.

[@reginap942]

You are a pot of gold. Thank you, I need all the confidence that you can give me.

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

Hi Regina, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

[@davelaz5582]

I got married in 1987 and my wife died in 2014. I never divorced, never broke up with any woman and carry no emotional baggage. I dearly loved my wife, but I must say at this phase in my life I just have no interest in dating or a relationship. I set up my retirement at 65 to have just enough money to pay monthly bills, not to have sufficient funds to travel or go out dating. I am just quite content at living alone and just relaxing at home all day. So don't be insulted if you approach a man in the 60's that just has no interest in any type of relationship with a man. It's no reflection on you. It's just that some of us men are happy with the piece and contentment of living alone and being a couch potato. Don't want women flitting or showing any interest in me. (Surprised to hear about men over 60 going to the gym, I never went to the gym in my life.)

[@lifeslessons9889]

Great video thanks. I'll try to remember those useful tips .

[@chrisoconnell2556]

Very helpful to both sexes. If you're a man simply substitute the word 'woman' every time 'man' is mentioned . The whole piece remains valid. Try it.

[@millions2nette]

I don't think men understand "friendliness". They'd just think you're open for hooking up.

[@Sailormoon2222]

You are so goood I have used your tips and they work ♥️

[@terrietackett8964]

I'm 64, and new to the dating scene. Joined a 50+ dating site. I'm fairly attractive, educated, and friendly. Reached out to numerous men I considered my premium choices. Nothing. After a few months, lowered my standards. Not as handsome, shorter, older, ( up to 73 ), farther away. Reaching out, sending smiles, etc...Nothing...So frustrated. What's the matter with these guys??

[@lloydpulver2104]

Terrie Tackett nothing wrong with the men. Reading your comments I see the problem

[@bradbitzer924]

Hello Terrie I'm Brad, 56years old I would love to know you more as you could be the woman i would spend the rest of my life with ❤😊.

[@bradbitzer924]

Replying this would mean a lot to me 😊

[@Sarah-es2qf]

I joined a dating site. I'm 64 been told I'm a good looking woman. .....that's seems to be my problem I guess not sure. I get so many beautiful compliments but no hits. Lol. I'm 5'11 and that seems to pose a problem as well. I'm taller than the average male. I'm gonna try smiling more if I can find someone to smile at. A lot of men my age seem to want to wait for the women to make the first move. I tried that too. Never hear back. I'm lost. Lol.....and lonely.

[@Sarah-es2qf]

@@lloydpulver2104 I don't see her problem help us out here. What are we doing wrong?

[@divinetimeastrology]

Are you a naturally slender woman or do you have a regime that you follow that keeps you so slim and beautiful?

[@pattimilton2737]

DivineTimeAstrology I am petite and slim!

[@allencrider]

Go vegan if you want to be slender and youthful looking.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

I work out every day since I was in elementary school. I always had a lot of energy. After moving to Hawaii in my early 20's I learned to surf and that kept me fit for 2 decades. It's a part of my lifestyle now. My husband and I work out together, we ski together, we hike and bike.We want to spend out life outdoors as much as possible. Working out is a form of meditation to me! Thanks for asking.

[@tammyward4532]

Hi

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

Hi DivineTimeAstrology, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?? Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉

[@diggarcia5190]

I have been trying to practice all these things. But I don't have the "ask a question" down, so I need to practice that. I do smile at everyone. I am 63 and do want romance.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Excellent, keep it up!

[@tonysam1955]

I am 63, too, never married, and I learned LONG ago, before I reached thirty, that I didn't need to center men in my existence. I had to focus on myself, when I moved to another state, and few men were out there anyway, and this was long before there was online dating. Too many Mormons, a very transient population (this was in Nevada). Went back to college as a nontraditional student instead, going for both a bachelor's and master's degree while working full-time for most of the time I went back to school, and I now do work I enjoy doing. I never looked back with any regrets. Only one person I should have had when I was in my early twenties, and I passed him over for an awful relationship with no future. I have reconnected with this person only in the past year, but whatever happens, happens. I have no desire to go out and waste my time otherwise "dating." NOBODY is entitled to "love" or a relationship. That is the thing you have to learn, and many women never, ever understand that simple truth.

[@graniaobrien2912]

Susan Nunes

[@graniaobrien2912]

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[@skidmarks4152]

dig Garcia ,hello,im single,59southern gentleman,looking for a wealthy lady to get me through life!I'm very gentle,an cute.

[@Backwardlooking]

Great understanding of human psychology. 👍🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿❤️

[@Backwardlooking]

You are performing a really useful service. A happy relationship together at whatever age, makes Life more meaningful. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇺🇸

[@suzanpeters1093]

Go to the grocery store on a Friday night! Single older men galore. xo

[@stacielara3937]

Susan Peters great tip. I’ll try it😊

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Love it!

[@dianaevans7102]

Also Sunday mornings!!

[@allencrider]

Wednesday morning for the retired guys.

[@laurab9867]

...buying wine. LOL

[@gigi559]

Men really do get a kick when I flirt with them and it is fun. Love your red lipstick!! I need to buy myself one :)

[@skidmarks4152]

gigi 55 ,I just want to eat a good meal an talk! cricket's,i hear crickets.

[@englishmaninfrance661]

Would you believe a lot of men HATE lipstick - me included

[@allencrider]

I like women in red lipstick.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

@@englishmaninfrance661 Yes, I know! but I wear it for the videos. I don't wear much makeup when I'm not in production mode. Perhaps it's to make the videos easier on the eyes. Thanks for comments.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I love u u I like u u really I Am Single ❤❤

[@nzee770]

Tip #1: don't bother - enjoy your own life #2: if you want unconditional love get a dog #3: if you can't be happy alone you'll never be happy with another person.

[@millions2nette]

HmmmHmmmm Makes sense.

[@NM-fd3jo]

If you need a companion get a dog dont get a man.

[@nashortega76]

Change your way of thinking,give yourself a chance you will be surprised

[@hump1953]

I’m a 67 year old guy and these are good tips

[@stellaaldrigde9337]

Very true

[@yousefhusainsawabrah8503]

I love meet fat older wemen to engoy himxxx thanks

[@priscillalovato7674]

I'm 67 years old that's really hard for me to do to be up front but I'm going to try it. I used to be upfront when I was much younger but it's the confidence I haven't had a date and over 27 years and I know I'm ready I haven't found that right person and I don't know if I ever will and that's okay too but I am going to try to flirt a little bit LOL thank you Great tips

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

@@priscillalovato7674 I’m 66when I meet him,unexpectedly,now we’re engaged

[@xanshineallam723]

@@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601 am 61 years old....

[@cynthiageskes1457]

What if you can't smile for new reason in front of a person you don't know? I don't do random for no reason smiles.

[@pastoralexiaburgesshuart2020]

Thank you for these tips!

[@joeburkett8861]

This is an amazing video it's really helpful thanks a lot❤

[@maureenhannivan8043]

I’m 67 and over weight. What you see is what you get!

[@fredthomas4342]

Hello Maureen..

[@lauraacosta5515]

I'm your new subscriber. Love your videos.

[@rosemaryharper4347]

Ty so very much, I never thought about doing that. Awesome 👏 video 😃👍

[@traceycorry4151]

Great advice as always!

[@abbdas22mohammed]

Are you still dating traceyl

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Shasha8674]

I don't want a guy who wants me only when I am happy/flirting. I want an equal relationship and someone who accepts me 100% of the time even in my good/bad/ugly etc..

[@colleenboll9438]

Of course you do, we all do! Out in public how do you plan to meet someone (which takes one minute) and give him all that? First you must meet. I think that is the point.

[@francisfaust4325]

Shasha8674 day hue

[@architecture.w]

Delusional feminist.

[@AllPro777]

Amanda Kiehl Trust me, Amanda, you yourself won't be winning any Miss Congeniality contests any time soon...

[@suejuede525]

Shasha8674 you are so right....I agree completely with you...I am an "Empath" unfortunately , I have attracted Malignant Narcissistic men all my life "Jeckle & Hide.....when they learn you are not the "magic Ferrie Gon Mother" they are searching for they break your heart and move on to their "new Supply" as if you never were there.

[@annharrison4774]

At our age, we are either a nurse or a purse!

[@gailjohnston9253]

I'm a woman and both. In waiting for a man who isn't in it for the money.

[@johnreed9050]

@@gailjohnston9253 You'll find that about the same time you'll find a female who isn't in it for the money.

[@millions2nette]

@@johnreed9050 :laughing emoji

[@joelwilliams5576]

Ann Harrison I agree 💯 per cent

[@zenepseville6823]

Nice info..yeah i like older men..cause they are more mature..than men on my age..hope find someday soon..

[@peterredit9556]

OMG You are gorgeous Where was I when beautiful you was single… 😁 I am pleased you found someone amazing to share you hopes and dreams with… 🌷

[@mercymaliwa2816]

Very interesting. Happy to hear these amazing information.

[@thommartin2741]

I'm a widower....12 years now. My experience is that most of the women I've met are divorced multiple times, heavily in debt, angry, entitled, and looking for someone with resources and assets to repair or improve their life. If they own property, they want you to be a "for free" handyman. Thanks, but no thanks. I date within 5 years of my age (65) and really enjoy the companionship, but I find I'm happier being single. Having said that, it sure would be great to find someone that brings as much tangible value to the relationship as I do....an equal,

[@AJSL88]

HEY THOM MARTIN YOU MAKE A VALID POINT good point

[@hump1953]

Yes, I’m swm 67 years old, dated a pretty 60 year old woman who I was initially attracted to but she was married 4 times, broke, on social security disability and had tons of emotional baggage and was just looking for a sugar daddy....

[@virginialeano5308]

Hi Thom! I’m also single, about your age my marriage with my husband had been annulled for almost 20 years now.. I find you an interesting man I think we are of the same wave length.. Im from the Philippines..I’m Virginia Leano

[@Peterbilt359]

I'm a two time widower 60 now. Had 38 years of marriage never divorced. After my 1st wife died I asked out 7 women they all said no. I said I'm done, then a woman came after me. We got married, had 10 great years till cancer got her. So this time I've learned how this is done. I'm not going after anyone or try to win them over or prove myself to a woman. I'll wait till one comes around then she will be trying to prove herself. It's much easier to get someone when they are curious about you. I use no social media, no dating apps. Women talk to each other they know all about you. They are curious and sneaky.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Well your strategy is working, good luck with your next love!

[@alain0323]

Gosh, your lipstick is amazing! I am positive you're not single

[@aamnach4609]

You're simply amazing!

[@laurab9867]

OMG! Everybody is so jaded! How did I get here?

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Laura B I’m reading this thread and you’re right! I’m going to delete the negative comments.

[@MsCorina222]

How about not feeling so much sexual atrakrion like before? Are mens confroted with same as us after menopausa??

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

I can't speak for all men, but their levels do decline after 60. John Gray says that mena become more loyal when this happens. Just saying

[@marykarle9592]

@John Holeman...Most women reach out for drama? In my case, that’s a big no we don’t! I know quality when I see it!

[@ibrahimhamada5751]

You are not dream, you are mautre woman, i would love to learn more about you but that is if you don't mind sending me a friend request

[@terrybruce5923]

1. Remember that you have already raised your adult children...let them live their own lives...you will always be Mom...but not mother hen. 2. Don't raise your Grandchildren...you raised your kids....let them raise theirs. 3. Skip the soccer games, dance recitals. kiddie lunches at school, choir performances, baseball games, water park outings etc etc …. you are not the Mom 4. Don't baby-sit you hired a sitter let your kids do the same. 5. Stop family vacations...it was fun when the kids were little....take vacations with your man and reinvent romance.

[@annaodea7974]

Terry Bruce Best advice so far

[@velmawright6618]

Terry Bruce by

[@donnaeve6084]

Terry Bruce are you available😜

[@JM-yf5rt]

Good advice and nice plane.

[@sallybon8701]

tnx jaki..im 63 yrs old .single.mom .i just enjoy..yur tips.huh..

[@bradbitzer924]

Hello Sally I'm brad How are you doing?

[@michelec3921]

Nice video I like it thank you

[@pattimilton2737]

I am 65 but look like 50 and found my BF thru online dating! Yes, I like flirting and smiling. I am also called a "text queen"! I compose poems and use it to communicate!

[@Richjunior1]

disgusting

[@robertgiese4913]

No guy wants to date a text. I’ve met a few of you. It seems your are afraid of coming face to face with a real, live, red-blooded person. You go on the dating sites to what? Text? I don’t think so. Unless you’re skeert!

[@pattimilton2737]

Robert Giese Thank you for a very polite comment! You cannot just judge a book by its cover! I met scams online and was very careful. I became so daring and brave because of it! I even challenged one to meet me at indoor firing range!

[@pattimilton2737]

MP thank you for your polite comment!

[@fredthomas4342]

Hello Patti..

[@goodwillbunny5773]

I'm 70 and the guys who are available have either been divorced for awhile OR they are more recently widowed. This is the reality for us aging baby boomers. The last 2 guys I dated had been widowed for a year. My girlfriend says that widowers are a wonderful catch. She says, "Strike while the iron's hot!" ...meaning widowers are used to being married & miss being married & are a good bet to get married again. What's your advice on dating a guy who is widowed? B.

[@jamesakerrigan8055]

Am a widower and with a daughter of 7 coupled with my job... All I wish for is to be married again...am 50..and I want someone older

[@xanshineallam723]

Hi, am new subscriber .Your topic is very enteresting....👍Am 11 years widow did'n't have boyfriend after my hubby died .

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

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[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

Hi Xanshine Allam, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

Where are you from?

[@xanshineallam723]

@@richardsmithpenrod6736 hi am from philippines

[@xanshineallam723]

@@richardsmithpenrod6736 yes why not it's my pleasure to have friend outside Philippines 🙏😊

[@breezyvibe]

. . a charming, always helpful, channel . . .

[@SSGTA440]

I'm a 63 old guy.., into body building and fitness, have been for years, I take care of myself.....I look incredible....that being said...most women I've seen after 50 tend to let themselves "GO" are overweight, with short hair, unkempt, full of baggage, and out of shape. Due to this, I have little interest in this age group...this makes it tough for me due to my high expectation level. But good luck out there.

[@dianaevans7102]

Ha!! I bet if you really looked in the mirror you'd see a 63 yr old man not the 30 yr old one you keep pretending you see. You are too in love with yourself to love anyone else!! No woman wants that!!

[@SSGTA440]

@@dianaevans7102 Sorry...don't know where you get that from.....After my heart attack, I really took stock who I am, learned to appreciate the short life I have left and and have embraced many aspects of self compassion, I know what I'm all about......I am careful not to offend others, but I will NOT degrade myself..I'm gonna continue to up my game...and yeah, I do look real good!!

[@pkthane]

Not all have full of baggage I see some men have full of b too😍

[@JM-yf5rt]

All the best to you as well: keep running in the "fast lane." Be sure to catch your breath...if you can.

[@syedanzar7044]

I use your tips 👌👍

[@annharrison4774]

I joined meetup to meet and socialise, But Covid has put paid to that.

[@annharrison4774]

@@mattspaulding5042 Nice Body! Is it yours?

[@annharrison4774]

I think I am a bit too old for you, I'm old enough to be your Mum (But thanks for the compliment). ( Did you know that Google has a dating app?) Give it a try! Good Luck!

[@fredthomas4342]

Hello Ann..

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

@@annharrison4774 Hi Ann, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

[@marshiathomas8804]

"Making plans for a future together???" After ONE FREAKING WEEK!!?? Oh please, they don't live close enough for her to KNOW what kind of life he lives in his country! He could have 5 girlfriends, please stop the Pollyana BS!!!

[@josefinatoca9513]

Im older with my age 60 but not in my looks cos im still physically fit

[@princemomoh4800]

Hi beautiful, I would like to become serious with you if that's ok

[@douglasmartin6409]

If you governed yourself on a false belief system in your 20s and chose to be a busy trench for one or several bad boys (psycho's, narc's, drug addicts, smokers, alcholics, violent men). Do you want to govern yourself on false beliefs in the final chapter? Did you spit at the good Guys in your 20s were they too boring for you? There are men your age with money but its difficult to meet them because they don't want to meet you. If it seems men your age don't have game its because they are not interested in you.

[@angelapritchard6640]

I live in Dan Diego, now, and I haven't had a date!

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

Hello Angela How are you?

[@angelapritchard6640]

@@richardsmithpenrod6736 I am great because I moved out of San Diego! Lol

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

@@angelapritchard6640 Lol, I live in Cleveland, Ohio .where do you live now?

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

@@angelapritchard6640 It’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

@@angelapritchard6640 Are you there?

[@tami2595]

Im gonna fall in love with me.

[@nzee770]

I am my soulmate. No one has ever been as good to me as I am!

[@RealMe-sd9nm]

Yes, we should learn to love ourselves first before loving our neighbors.

[@douglasmartin6409]

Im only guilty of wanting. to know what the truth is.

[@teresacunningham270]

And how did they see a smile now that everybody wears a mask

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Through your eyes!

[@thinkthank.brievie5550]

Wow ..this is a nice site. Asian women like me grew up in thinking that women of age sort of find it less and less an oppprtunity to date .

[@teresacunningham270]

@Peter best great and u

[@teresacunningham270]

@Peter best yes

[@teresacunningham270]

@Peter best aren't free and single the same thing

[@Lightningbug122]

As a reasonably attractive, fit, snappy dree

[@fikilezungu4539]

Very interesting this topic.wish to have one to ease my loneliness. Just a friend.

[@lifeslessons9889]

I'm 60 in a few months . Been widowed 24 years ago ( wasted years on the wrong man , and another lot of years on a man with terrific insecurities) . My patent never gave compliments or encouragement in anything. My dad particularly has made me believe that everyone I'd judging me ..he judged everyone . Because of that ..I'm nervous of being gossiped about , so hide myself away when it comes to being UPFRONT .

[@mattspaulding5042]

You've had lots of bad luck with the men in you're life yet still here going strong. I do admire that

[@lifeslessons9889]

Wow ...what a lucky hit on the man in the airport ..I'm not that lucky. Unfortunately

[@gavindyer2428]

Learn 2 Dance. Men that dance do not drink or limit to 2. They want to build a rapoire over time. Improve the friendship and generally are patient before expecting intermacy. A dancing relationship lasts years and years. Bar hopping and Hotel parading is for one night Cougar.

[@carolgraham8564]

I always assume that they are married or involved already

[@lloydpulver2104]

carol graham we’re not

[@carolgraham8564]

@@joejones5837 I don't do drugs or live on the street. I don't smoke either. I am self sufficient but not wealthy

[@carolgraham8564]

@@joejones5837 no I have not been to Texas

[@carolgraham8564]

@@joejones5837 well I doubt that I will be going there any time soon

[@carolgraham8564]

@@joejones5837 there are many Texans here in Colorado

[@deniseyounger6004]

I'm just not confident! ! I'm not sure what to do

[@ningningprecious943]

Why do young men approach me but the olders ones are just smiling but never make a step towards me0

[@gravitationalwaverider]

Because you have a cat for an avatar.

[@KJ99otis]

Pirate Bill - LMAO! 😂 Although I experience way more younger men interested in me than men my age - 60. Sad, because I would prefer a man close to my age who also has a youthful outlook on life. So we all just keep on keeping on and enjoy the life we have, with or without a partner! 😎

[@jamesakerrigan8055]

Maybe you should try them,and stop wasting your time looking for old Mr right...am 49 though

[@alanpeach6101]

women like men have to put in a real effort to dress and look the best they can. most 60 year old women have just given up. so its always about the looks at any age \

[@alexanderlewis239]

All you have said here is very nice ,,, but unfortunately life is not as simple as that ,, it comes with problems which stop us from wanting to meet someone nice to enjoy life together.. Problems like grown up children that need help,, sick elderly parents ,, work , financial problems, , health issues,, and more.... I am 62 and i have experienced some of these problems,, dating a nice lady a priority at the moment,,,......

[@AJSL88]

just don't look on Silver Singles

[@patriciakirk5565]

I like how your not afraid to lay it all out on the table.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I Am Serching Serching real true Loveing relationship l Want to meet my dream of My Resl life l Am proud .. I AM SINGLE ... 🙋🙋💑💑😍😍❤❤

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

It will come at the rigth time

[@xanshineallam723]

Muhammad Imram if I was not mistaken was it your profile I've seen in channel ....dating after 60 & found love after 70 ? Just asking 😊

[@xanshineallam723]

Muhammad Imram if I was not mistaken was it your profile I've seen in channel ....dating after 60 & found love after 70 ? Just asking 😊

[@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601]

@@xanshineallam723 ,welcome,have faith and wish,

[@xanshineallam723]

@@agingbeautifullybyjosie4601 thank you 👍

[@tjahjaninggiemwarudju503]

Wish I meet the real prince in shining armour ....not those scammers!! Are there still real gentleman out there? With genuine love?

[@tammyward4532]

Hi

[@loganwilliams6589]

Hello 👋 dear, how are you doing, ur name looks so familiar

[@KJ-xc6qs]

I'm the queen of pithy banter, but it never goes beyond the initial moment.

[@gemmster14]

When you're bantering, make sure it's evenly back & forth, not one person sarcastically one-upping the other. I've finally figured that out. Plus, tone/voice/word choice affects men more than we realize sometimes.

[@KJ-xc6qs]

What you're saying is true. The bantering is always light-hearted and friendly. We both laugh while heading in separate directions. I've even had a lovely man spontaneously buy me a book at an art fair, then disappear into the crowd. A younger man told me that men assume I'm already attached so they don't pursue me. :-/

[@gemmster14]

I can completely relate & agree!

[@geetabhattarai9644]

Oh Bravo Mm ❤️ Bravo so Interesting Great 💕

[@marykarle9592]

@Thom

[@ninahuffman8100]

I am 59 years old female and my husband 69, and we didn't intimacy 7 years, he has no interest.... Should I stay married or look for date?

[@vc2219]

I’m 59. Would you like to do dinner and a movie ?

[@joeburkett8861]

It depends on what you really feel,if you really want someone to get intimate with you,you could go on and end your present relationship

[@JM-yf5rt]

Sorry to hear this Nina. But glad you shared it because some of these older men come in the comments and act like they are Casanovas or "Studs" when that is far from the truth; and oftentimes, they no longer want and many just CANNOT have sex with their "younger" women. Wishing you the best.

[@xanshineallam723]

Am watching movies on netflix😍

[@johnholeman8127]

Reach out ladies when quality comes by I am one but find most female look for drama. John

[@EnoI539]

Yep that's why i avoid them.

[@lifetobelived9102]

99% of the men I talk to my age in grocery stores are married. I guess all of them are good guys because at some point they mention something about their wives. It, also, may be because the median age in my city is 28. I am 57. And we have about a 60% married rate in general. In the larger city near me which is Dallas the median age is 30. My cut off I think is 45 and that might be low balling it. I just looked it up and nationally the median age is 37.7. I don't really want to move or at least now so I have to work with what I have I guess.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Those are dreadful statistics, I'm really surprised to hear about Dallas. I do hope things somehow improve for you and you don't have to move. I wish you only the best and I do hope you are able to find your true love.

[@lifetobelived9102]

Thanks

[@TheTerrypcurtin]

Life tobelived 45 is ridiculous. Wait for 65 and he's 52. Bye. 2 to 3 years max. Get the weight off. 1 problem

[@lifetobelived9102]

Weight whose weight? I wasn't sure what you were talking about

[@lifetobelived9102]

?

[@gwenscott535]

So feminism has now given us the right to have babies .....do all the house work.......bring an income..... do all the house repairs......taking the lead in dating FFS I want to date a man who can hold his own. Not someone who still needs his mother to hold his hand.

[@roadracer1584]

It seems the only women who want to flirt are married. I'm guessing they've been married a long time and are bored and want to know they are attractive to other men. Anyway, I' don't want to have anything to do with married women even if it's just a harmless conversation. A total waste of time. A quick hello and good bye and that's it. The way I look at it they made their choice now live with it.

[@trishagodfrey1846]

I'm 71yrs and a widow?

[@bradbitzer924]

Hello Trisha I'm brad, 56 years old How are you doing? I would love to know you more.

[@bradbitzer924]

A reply would mean a lot to me ❤

[@fredthomas4342]

Hello Trisha..

[@tammyward4532]

Hi

[@richardsmithpenrod6736]

Hi Trisha, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?? Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉

[@xavi9105]

You don't shoot from the hip.

[@jimsmith9981]

Question!!! Are you over 60? If you are then you look great for your age...

[@JennyB957]

Your teeth are very white and beautiful

[@johnnybegood5871]

volakto je ljubomorni?

[@williamriley2528]

You read resl well....