i’m also a SP 1w2 and woooowwww this was so crazy to listen to!!! it felt like she was reading my innermost thoughts!!
@enneagramandcoaching Жыл бұрын
Haha! Love it!
@trustyourself-ashleyching36462 жыл бұрын
Failures don’t make you bad. They help you get better.
@enneagramandcoaching2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@elenaharris93412 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing about the subtypes! This is the first place I've had it explained to me before. I am so similar to Claire. I am a 1w9,SP,SO. I loved learning all this! THANK-YOU.
@enneagramandcoaching2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@elizabethparish62233 жыл бұрын
We don't see everything that's wrong, we see potential!
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@louisbilman5953 жыл бұрын
Nope, One's definitely see what's wrong. But it's very much true that one's see potential. Being that they are idealists One's are all about that. But they are often plagued by an obsession with what's wrong with everything. In a way I think they enjoy it!
@Coneman32 жыл бұрын
She's gorgeous.
@njules64282 жыл бұрын
She started talking about grace and brought me to tears...this girl is so gifted ❤ And I'm so glad i saw this video...it gave me a whole new outlook on type ones. They are really super cool, at least this one is! She said so many things that were just WOW. I am a type 4 and go to a 1 in health :)
@trustyourself-ashleyching36462 жыл бұрын
What a different energy than the 2!
@MommieVentures4 жыл бұрын
As a fellow 1, she hit every nail on the head. I really enjoyed this and look forward to part 2!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! When we are out of quarantine we will record part two!
@MommieVentures4 жыл бұрын
@@enneagramandcoaching Looking forward to it!
@traceymerton45772 жыл бұрын
Hadn't realised how complicated it gets
@gnirnia17733 жыл бұрын
This is such a great series! Please bring on part 2 with Claire! She's so insightful.
@jenniferleigh16743 жыл бұрын
Girl, you NAILED IT. It's funny you said that you identify or think you're this or that depending on what you did..making you think well "Im bad" but that's not true. Im stuck in this cycle right now and have been as years (obsessively) identifying with my old self with blonde hair as my rough, rebellious, bad person SO I dyed my hair brown..but because of that I feel like I lost my self trying to hide? You truly helped me with that one line. because I made bad decisions with blonde hair as I worked on my personal growth process I thought dying my hair would change me entirely but still until I accept what my life was like it wont actually dissolve. Running from my mistakes and past arent going to disappear and I just need to accept and be ok with what was and grow from there,
@lindsayboss75223 жыл бұрын
Wow Claire! You are amazing! Thank you for your wisdom, inspiration, & making the world a better place! 💗💗🥰
@ellea25413 жыл бұрын
Yep, slackers REALLY annoy me! And yep, we bring the fixing on ourselves... But the alternative is to watch others do it sloppily or not at all! 😅 🙈
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
😂
@Cordelish3 жыл бұрын
1w2 - OMG, I LOVE TRAVELING! I love the prep work where I get to "pre-vacation" by researching sites, pre-booking reservations, and considering packing. It is like a puzzle for having fun. I will "schedule days" with loose themes and create fun printable itineraries. It is like having an assistant with the whole family the entire time. Then on the day, we can decide if we want to stick to the plans or opt for an adventure day where we just enjoy where we are. It is like two vacations in one.
@Journey19684 жыл бұрын
At such a young age, your guest was exceptionally eloquent and phenomenally self aware. As you two discussed things, I heard something I hadn’t heard before. I didn’t know we need all three subtype instincts. That all 3 instinctual subtypes can be very beneficial and useful. Who knew 🤷🏽♂️? I thought that the repressed instinct was either irrelevant or unnecessary. Exceptional content...Thank you!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Loved reading your comment :)
@Gracejkay2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been trying to find out if I’m a 9w1 or a 1w9 recently because I must have a really strong wing so it’s hard to find out my core. I’m leaning more towards my core being a 1 now though, since watching and hearing a 1 speak from experience. I fear failure and making mistakes on an insane level, especially because I know God expects us to improve as people and to be good doers of the word. The most ironic part is, my name is Grace, and God has let’s me live up to my namesake by the fact I often give Grace to others who do me wrong, but I very rarely give myself the same courtesy. It’s something I’ve been trying to get over pretty much my entire life, because I’ve always known God was Gracious and forgiving to me, but I keep telling myself to not even get in a position of making those mistakes that require forgiveness, and then when I do something wrong, I feel awful. I’m always second guessing and checking my intentions and actions to make sure they are pure, and am constantly asking guidance and wisdom from Yahweh in order to avoid making bad decisions. It was really helpful to see a 1, although still very different from me, have so many similarities. Not only do I feel like I’m not alone, but I was thankful to hear another 1 repeat something I’ve always told myself: To give ourselves more Grace. Sometimes you can have other people who don’t struggle with the same fear tell you that, or you tell yourself that, but I felt it was really most helpful for me to hear it come from the perspective of another who understands the fear I have. This is my very long and complicated way of saying: I thank you both for this video!
@katiew85113 жыл бұрын
The inner critic about eloquence was my struggle today and why I searched and found this. It’s very validating.
@nikkipanella60743 жыл бұрын
I can relate to Claire soooo much! I am also a 1w2 SP. Everything she was talking about really hit home! Love how you both always tied in the Lord too!
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Love that!
@konataizumi83503 жыл бұрын
I'm a one wing two SP as well and I can relate so much with her.. so many people admire me for my "successes" in life yet I still criticize myself a lot. Insult me and it won't show that I'm affected but internally I think of what you said to me deeply. Because I always want to be good and perfect and i can be so hypocritical of myself.
@Cordelish3 жыл бұрын
Another 1w2 - It drives me crazy when my two closest friends start a project with me and 5 minutes in are talking about all the flaws we can't overcome. My response is always ... we are still building. We have to fully build to see where we need to perfect. Also, you have to believe it can be done to do it ... I get called Hermione a lot.
@jessicarogers27664 жыл бұрын
I love where you connected being God's beloved to no longer fearing failure. 👍
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@AbbyNicole24 жыл бұрын
First of all, I love this video so much! I’m a type 1 and really enjoyed listening to this interview. I watched the end of this video for the first time last night and my mind is blown. I didn’t know my subtype before seeing this but hearing them all explained for a type 1, I resonate so much with the SX subtype! The SO as well, but I’m thinking the SX might be a bit more developed. Thank you SO much for this, I just love your teaching on the enneagram and this episode was truly so eye-opening for me!
@Jessicaunarex4 жыл бұрын
I am a 4 and I just love 1s! (Granted 1 is my integration point but man, do I wish I could stay there.)
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@forthhallingas3 жыл бұрын
Also a four and I know what you mean! Ones are awesome.
@amelian96772 жыл бұрын
Same Jessica!!! I’m an INFP/4w5, and my cousin is an INTJ/1w9. I basically think she hung the moon 🌙
@bbjudyfit4 жыл бұрын
25:15 i am 9w1 and omgggggg she is speaking my life here. Criticism huuuurts my soul😖
@hectoralvarez3364 жыл бұрын
I find that turning failure into a positive really helps only because its something new that i can fix, but it feels very toxic.
@jennamarie14564 жыл бұрын
Love this! Yay Claire!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@KatanaKamisama4 жыл бұрын
I'm a 5w4 sx sp, but my 1 is quite strong. In my younger years I hated being wrong. I felt invalidated when I didn't get a perfect score on a test, or if I didn't have the right answer to a question. I think part of that was the 5 core fear, but it wasn't until my Jr. year of High School that I identified the irrationality of that fear, and actively crushed it. Since then I feel like I learn a lot faster from failure than I so from success. From failure you can learn what not to do, which often times shortens the list of optimal choices a LOT faster. I do make it a point to not repeat my mistakes, but as an imperfect being in an imperfect world I find it absurd to expect perfection. Perfection is the asymptote of life, you can approach it but you're never gonna get there... at least in this world.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Your right. Some of that would be the core fear. Fives hate looking foolish or not having the right answer. But you have amazing insight and wisdom. Thanks for sharing!
@cmpicha2934 Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say I love that asymptote of life analogy! It's been several years since I've had to do that type of math, but it made the nerd in me happy 🤓 (I am a 1w9, btw.)
@yourstrulylulu4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@mirandas_universe4 жыл бұрын
LOVE this!!💓
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! ❤️
@ppdelaba3 жыл бұрын
She scares me XD, but I also scare myself as we both 1w2.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@margaretjudice89444 жыл бұрын
Good information!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@katiew85113 жыл бұрын
I hated group projects. Just wait till you are a mom! You will get a lot opportunity to work that out.
@dandee66044 жыл бұрын
There is a video that jaiden animations talks about a group project, she did not do the work for them all, she just gave everyone acknowledgment in the credits 🤣🤗💛
@e.l.27344 жыл бұрын
Fake, angels don't make mistakes! Kidding. Great video, thanks! My beloved grandma is apparently a 1w2, and the enneagram is helping me understand her better, as many other people in my life, ofc.
@melindabardill14654 жыл бұрын
Is it possible for your subtypes to change when you are in stress vs growth. I really feel I am a 1 wing 9 sx. I feel in growth I am more social and in stress more self preserving.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Subtypes are each persons “instincts” that refer to our biological survival drives. So yes they can change. Usually a person has one or two instincts that are very developed (one of those are usually the dominant subtype) and then one subtype that’s underdeveloped. You can use them at any given time. Hope this helps!
@dandee66044 жыл бұрын
💛 1s!
@karspostema27624 жыл бұрын
Uh oh she's preaching lol
@louisbilman5954 жыл бұрын
Not a 1. Might be a seven. You're both sevens I think.
@norakadas90073 жыл бұрын
Why do you think that?
@louisbilman5953 жыл бұрын
@@norakadas9007 Upon watching more of the video the idea became borne in my mind that you might be a nine. Certainly not a one though. One's are kind of severe. Since they're introverts and also very concerned with truth and truthfulness, as is often the case with such kinds of people, they can be slightly awkward or just off putting. You seem very agreeable and sweet. This is a nine-ish quality.
@norakadas90073 жыл бұрын
@@louisbilman595 Thank you for the input, but I do still believe I'm a 1w2. A lot of 1's in film (ex. Daenerys Targaryen (sx 1w2) and Hermione Granger (so 1w2) are very intense, but Self-Preservation 1's like myself tend to turn their anger into a warmth and are primarily concerned with perfecting their own actions (think Nancy Wheeler from Stranger Things). What is your Enneagram type?
@louisbilman5953 жыл бұрын
@@norakadas9007 You may very well be, I suppose. Some times it's hard to type certain people immediately. Your type doesn't really jump out at me. I'm a 4.
@norakadas90073 жыл бұрын
@@louisbilman595 The Enneagram revolves primarily around desire, so it makes sense that I may not strike you as a 1, because we all look very different. And there is only so much one can grasp from a KZbin comment. 4s are so interesting and unique! Do you know your wing and sub-type or MBTI?