ENNEAGRAM MISTYPES | Are you a Type 2 “The Helper?”

[@savannahb8660]

2 v 3 3:24 2 v 4 6:19 2 v 5 7:31 2 v 6 9:07 2 v 7 11:58 2 v 8 13:51 2 v 9 17:04 2 v 1 18:43

[@amelian9677]

Thx!

[@glitter_spirit_kat3859]

I am a 2 ,literally just 1 week since I finally realized it . Miss typed as 6 but never felt like it was really me all the way . Ppl kept telling me I need to accept it but I was sure there is something that is not sitting right . Only when I heard about subtypes I realized that omg now it fits all . I am a 2 .

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Yes. Love this. You truly are the only one who knows your motivations. Way to keep digging and figuring it out!

[@austinoconnor9074]

Very helpful. I tied as a type 2,9, and 7 when I took the test. This and "The Art of Growth" podcasts were very helpful in discerning which one is really me. Thank you!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Yay! I’m so glad this video helped you 🎉🙌🏼

[@kaythekat913]

12:19 I think I'm a 2, but I have ADHD and that's why I mistyped as a 7. Also childhood trauma that made me resist loving others.

[@JanaylovesLearningandArt]

Your iced tea looks so yummy, refreshing, and tasty. You keep a very clean, fancy, and cozy home.

[@marjoleinewelters1728]

I love these! Ive recently gotten into the enneagram. And i was indeed seeing alot of myself in both 2 and 9. I now believe i am a 2 at heart. Fear of dissapointing others, fear of rejection, always trying to help and advise even when im not asked (and i get sonewhat upset when it is not appreciated haha). Ive put myself in positions in the past where i was the friend who was always there, and realised that it was very one sided. Than feld used when my needs wherent met. I find it important to have my kindness be appreciated, though i wont ask for it. So yeah. Looking at those patterns from my life.. thats a clear 2 right. Thankfully i have learned to set boundries, ask for help and accept kindness. And ive learned to validate myself as a whole person not just as a kind and sweet person haha. Its a work in progress. But its fun! I also have ADD and am pretty HSP. And thats where 9 traits come in. Needing alone time when I get overwhelmed by people and their stresses. Needing peace and needing people to get along to not have to deal with stuff that i have no energy for after a long day. Going along with others because its easier and wont take much energy that i so need to focus and not get overstimulated. Disengaging and procrestanating when things get though.. Those are all things that i used in the past an will still do that gets me through ADD and HSP related moments. 9 traits where like a coping machanism before i knew about ADD and HSP. So i used it so often it can feel like a personality trait. And in a way it is. But the 2 is at the base of it all. I think it is an interesting thought that coping with a disorder can kinda mimic the ways of a number so well. Might be a fun one to get into aswell.. 😊

[@margaretjudice8944]

I still think I am a 2. I think I might have been a 3 before I had my son. This was a lot of good information. Thank you for sharing!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

You’re so welcome!

[@bradwil7]

I'm a 2w3 thank you for these clarifications. I'm now following you on instagram as well. Your videos are very well done.

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Thanks! You’re so welcome!

[@emmahintz830]

Can someone please help me figure out if I am a enneagram 2. When listening to all of the 2s core desires and fears and everything I relate a lot to the feeling of wanting to be needed and doing things and hoping in return people will appreciate or do something for me back. When it comes to that I think I am a two but I also feel like I don’t overextended myself to help people. Of course if someone ask for help I’ll do it but I feel like I am not a regally really helpful person. It might be becuase I am only in high school but idk. I also feel like I get into conflicts sometimes. I read somewhere that 2s never say no but I feel like with my family I almost always don’t want to do what they ask like empty the dishwasher or clean my room. I read a few books on all the different types and I don’t really feel like I match any of the other core desires and fears but idk. Anything would help. Also maybe I am a 2w3.

[@smusic6161]

I don’t know if I’m a 2 or a 6. My relationships are very important to me and might even be my priority in life. Buuut I’m very anxious and overthink everything in a career perspective or survival point of view. For example, if I need to choose a degree to complete at universities I’m highly anxious over which is most employable, the location of the university, the cost (I overthink and make many plans). But I’d rather have strong relationships over success, and I’d rather do things for others, to make them not leave me, than do things for myself because I don’t want to be fully independent.

[@spizzy9404]

i feel like i overextend myself helping others too much and am too image oriented to be a 9, but i feel like i'm too passive and conflict avoidant to be a 2. i have both 2's pride and 9's sloth. i also feel like i'm too manipulative to be a 9..? i match the unhealthy descriptions for both. i am so confused

[@cutelurker1981]

i'm thinking i am a type 8? i identified and was typed as a 2 for, but i feel so intuned with what i want and always end up in leadership positions. i also avoid being vulnerable towards others, because i want to be the one to take care of myself. it's odd- my tritype is for sure 2,7,8. so i struggle between the 3 haha.

[@carissahamblin870]

Your videos are fabulous. You are so great at explaining things. Keep it up!

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@savannahb8660]

i know i am an isfj so i assumed i would be a 2 as they are a feeling type over thinking type but i am still torn between 2 and 6 and quizzes bounce back and forth

[@savannahb8660]

i think i am a 2w1 though

[@sayrewilkin-dalby619]

Thank you for this video! I was starting to doubt if I was really a 2, but I identified with 2 against every number in this video. It's just, with close intimates, I can easily say no if I don't feel like helping and I have also heard 2s are "active" types, and I'm kind of a daydreamer. I was starting to wonder if I was a secret 9, but it really doesn't sound like it at all. Being likable is my main goal and I think I'm fairly good at it. Enneagram has really helped me figure out how to be likable with people I don't naturally gel with too :)

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Mistypes are possible bc of the 5 numbers!

[@justanerdyhobbitgirl]

Watching this because I still can't figure out if I'm 2w1 or 9w1 :) (I'm an INFJ)

[@enneagramandcoaching]

Well you are doing the right thing! I'd watch the Type 9 mistypes video too... Here is the link kzbin.info/www/bejne/j2Grl4iEmK91oK8 -thanks for sharing!

[@Kiyaa-hj8vy]

i’m struggling trying to find out if i’m 2w1 or 9w1, did you figure it out yet?

[@pointerdogmarketing2197]

I always get a 3-way high-score tie between 9, 6, and 2. I also score a medium amount on 1 and 4. I always get no points at all on 3, 7, and 8. If 3s, 7s, and 8s are my opposite, is that a clue?

[@themoonymoon]

I like this.. Thank you.. 💚💚

[@enneagramandcoaching]

You're welcome 😊

[@emmahintz830]

Can someone please help me figure out if I am a enneagram 2. When listening to all of the 2s core desires and fears and everything I relate a lot to the feeling of wanting to be needed and doing things and hoping in return people will appreciate or do something for me back. When it comes to that I think I am a two but I also feel like I don’t overextended myself to help people. Of course if someone ask for help I’ll do it but I feel like I am not a regally really helpful person. It might be becuase I am only in high school but idk. I also feel like I get into conflicts sometimes. I read somewhere that 2s never say no but I feel like with my family I almost always don’t want to do what they ask like empty the dishwasher or clean my room. I read a few books on all the different types and I don’t really feel like I match any of the other core desires and fears but idk. Anything would help. Also maybe I am a 2w3.

[@flohwalzer]

dammit. i dont know if im a 6 or just a really anxious 2 :/ the description of 2 fits me perfectly, but when i see people say that 2's dont worry that much it makes me think that im a 6

[@Sailorofskies]

I'm not sure if I'm a 2 or a 4

[@rand_b393]

Hi wanna ask u smthn.. can I be type 3 and 5w6 at the same time?

[@enneagramandcoaching]

No-but I’m releasing a type 3 mistypes video this week and I think it’ll help you. 😃

[@Melitta-zx4sf]

It's possible to be a 3 and have 5 in your tritype

[@leahrose5425]

I know I don't know you personally but I really see you as a phobic six more than a nine.

[@emmahintz830]

Can someone please help me figure out if I am a enneagram 2. When listening to all of the 2s core desires and fears and everything I relate a lot to the feeling of wanting to be needed and doing things and hoping in return people will appreciate or do something for me back. When it comes to that I think I am a two but I also feel like I don’t overextended myself to help people. Of course if someone ask for help I’ll do it but I feel like I am not a regally really helpful person. It might be becuase I am only in high school but idk. I also feel like I get into conflicts sometimes. I read somewhere that 2s never say no but I feel like with my family I almost always don’t want to do what they ask like empty the dishwasher or clean my room. I read a few books on all the different types and I don’t really feel like I match any of the other core desires and fears but idk. Anything would help. Also maybe I am a 2w3.