Enneagram Types Dating Their Own Type

[@AbbeyHowe]

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[@castortroy4866]

The 2 nines being perfect for eachother. So sweet.🥹

[@AbbeyHowe]

😊

[@tonicarr3113]

My husband and I are both 5s. It’s completely accurate except we insist on being in the same room at least 2/3 of the time. We have designated, agreed upon alone time (football and reading) and we do regular checking 😂 But the rest of the time, we’re in exquisite parallel play or indulging together. He games, I watch tiktok but we’re listening to Critical Role. We watch Star Trek TNG or Law & Order to wind down for bed as we scroll our phones and discuss. Cuddling while scrolling is absolute heaven. WELL DONE 😂🥰

[@tonicarr3113]

He’s 5w4 and I’m 5w6. He gives me all the romance I crave but am to scared to ask for and I will happily listen to him nerd out for hours which makes him all fuzzy inside. We work so well together.

[@AbbeyHowe]

I love your relationship sm

[@Derpediem]

...pretty sure i am 5w4(sx) and had 5w4 ex. We had this kinda thing too. Aaaah i crave for this, maybe someday. Happy for you🙌💫

[@Melinda8384]

I’m an 8 who dated an 8, it was volatile but the intensity is just so fun. Great video, laughed through all of it

[@AbbeyHowe]

Glad you enjoyed it Melinda!

[@reksonline]

I know that there is going to be a lot of “opposites attract” posts in the comments but as someone who been there, done that, & wondered why I have zero in common with a partner 1 year later, I am all here for a date the same type as me, relationship. As a 9 that comes home from work hating life & COMPLETELY DRAINED, that other 9 was speaking my language!!! *side note* That 5 relationship is an interesting duo to watch. 👀🍿

[@AbbeyHowe]

just a sidenote -- this is obviously not a universal look at what these pairings might look like... just my silly imaginings! 😃

[@Serena-n4n]

5w4 here. Im glad you started with us first. Were always in the middle.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Woohoo!!

[@juliegolick]

As a type 9, I would love to be in a poly triad with both those type 9s. We would have the COZIEST house. 🥰

[@AbbeyHowe]

THE COZIEST

[@Avionne_Parris]

Thank you for putting type 4 last, it was well worth the wait. Plus, you mentioned jasmine, one of my favourite scents! I feel so seen, Abs! Like a spring water dispenser on a hot summer day :-)

[@AbbeyHowe]

spring water on a hot summer day 😭 you are a beautiful 4, Avi

[@nathanreedy4380]

😂😂😂 Abbey I think that this seriously was/is your best Enneagram skit video to date that I've seen. Heck, even the sponsor segment was skit oriented, incredible talent. I can see some of the other Enneagram types dating/being in a relationship with another of the same but my type, type 4w5, oh no, that would be a disaster 😂

[@bertharuiz3765]

Compleatly agree!!

[@nathanreedy4380]

@@user-uo1ef9bu1x If I could love your comment, I would, it's so true. I wonder how many of us Four's remain forever single?

[@AbbeyHowe]

what a comment to get! I'm so glad you enjoyed it. And re: 4w5 dating. I want to do some interviews with actual couples who make it work!

[@karissahammond4587]

Gotta agree with that, this one was great! It was accurate and hilarious, and it touched on a lot of type quirks I see in real life! 😃 As for how two 4s could get together, Idk how it would work for two 4w5s. I'd be really curious to hear about that from a couple like that. Throw in a w3 in though, and I see how it's possible for two 4s to get together.

[@rachelrose8515]

LMAO 8s fighting over the bill YELL LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK yup

[@dawnmarieandjeff]

This was amazing!! You should do one of these at least twice a year. 😂😂 I was swooning over the 9.

[@AbbeyHowe]

yay! so glad you liked it! ♥️

[@Ekkiert8]

Lol INTJ’s are hilarious. I agree, that is my dream of interaction in a relationship but with long analytical conversations revising our theories and comparing information as well as creating new theories and forms of experimentation🌿🌸

[@archivist_of_dragonstone]

Thanks for confirming my sneaking suspicion that I can only be truly happy with another 1 😅

[@AbbeyHowe]

What are some other Enneagram skit videos you would like to see?

[@heritage.home.crochet]

On a job interview, planning an out of the country trip, choosing a college

[@JacqueArmijo]

different types at the holiday work party, your boss as the different types, different types attending a wedding, each of the triads go shopping together -> maybe more skits in general where you have the three from each triad hanging out together, so we can see the differences and commonalities within each triad

[@justiceforthemissing3690]

Maybe when the same types are the boss and employee. My boss and I are both 8s. Sometimes we yell at each other and tell each other to try harder. It works well lol.

[@sophia.ciocca]

more different types dating. my partner’s a 9 and i’m a 4 and i feel like so much conflict comes from this space!

[@nooneneedstoknowmyname]

Type 1, 6, 2, 4 - If I was one of these types and in a relationship with one of these types, it probably wouldn't work out. It's funny that none of these types are in my tri-type and are the types that seem to fit the least lol. Type 5, 9, 8, 7, 3 - If I was one of these types and in a relationship with one of these types, I'd probably work out great. The type 3 relationship was my favorite.

[@nooneneedstoknowmyname]

@@user-uo1ef9bu1x My problem with 1s is that I'm like the exact opposite of them so we kinda clash, my problem with type 2s is that people who do everything for everyone else especially at the expense of their own well being kinda grate my nerves a little. Especially when the person they're dropping everything for doesn't even appreciate it and do the same for them. If it makes them happy then I guess it's cool, but I just think they need to have a little more self respect. They're worth so much more than they give themselves credit for, and I don't think anyone should dampen their spirit to please someone who isn't willing to try to understand them. That's a good point about type 6s, I wonder if counterphobic type 6s would be more willing to ask someone out though due to the fear of being alone forever if they don't? Heck, even a non-counter phobic type 6 might do that. Hey, any type 6s wanna chime in and share your thoughts on the matter? What's your type user-uo1ef9bu1x? Also, what's the story behind your username?

[@robin_hatter]

i really need that type6 show 😂

[@AbbeyHowe]

same

[@hanae7385]

Hi, Abbey, I'm curious what you think about tritypes? Also this video was hilarious! Love the 7s optimistic thinking :)

[@coconutcat1280]

Type 6 is accurate of my friendship with another 6 😂

[@KindHarmony]

🤣 So great! Yebba!!!!!! So clever!!!!! This was so funny and hilarious to watch. 👏👏👏👏👏

[@kendrixhavlik3051]

I would greatly enjoy all of these movies xD

[@jofromoz]

Brilliant Abbey😂

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks 😅

[@izy2302]

Can you do an enneagrams on a solo date video next?

[@AbbeyHowe]

Can you explain that a bit further? A little confused what that means!

[@izy2302]

@@AbbeyHowe oh boy I don't really know what solo dates are but I have another idea, you could do a video of enneagram types as married couples/married to their own type... also ty for replying

[@AbbeyHowe]

@@izy2302 good idea!

[@that1jesuschick_rebekah]

Am I first? Woah!

[@AbbeyHowe]

hello!

[@Adriana.Gabriela]

8s are totally incorrect 😅 not only from my perspective, but I was actually with an 8, and totally not

[@pungorma]

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[@pungorma]

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[@pungorma]

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[@pungorma]

i hope at the very least the pay was good, considering the length of the promotion and the overall percentage of the video it takes up.