entitled bridezilla SCAMS bridal party out of $7000 - REACTION

[@bobbielakey4125]

It's not miscommunication! She needs to pay all of you back. Today. And all of you back out of the wedding because I wouldn't want to stand up with a thief and a liar.

[@itsmedelaney4285]

This!!! Then let all her guests find out why none of her bridesmaids showed up for her. Hopefully it doesn’t get that far though & the brother calls the wedding off cuz that’s just crazy. If she gets away with it she’ll just be worse the next time. Smh

[@SedulousBane]

What she did is completely unacceptable, I fully agree. I'm not sure OP will get any damages awarded though. I think that maybe the only person who didn't get the benifit ot thier bargain is the father that offered to cover the rental and then wound up with stolen finances to cover kncockers. (Depending on the country OP is in though.) It sounds like the Dad is finally setting his foot down, but I bet he doesn't sue his own daughter. What a mess!

[@Meanne77]

Well... technically she needs to pay her father back. The BM's fee has been used when they each went to the trip with their own SO. The 7k for the surgery belonged to her father. Since the father gave the money *after*, the bride committed fraud toward her father, not the BM.

[@Solènelamigonnelicorne]

Je t'aime tatie Charlotte, tu pourras faire une vidéo sur des enfants merci bonne journée 😊😊❤

[@donnapauley8183]

Tomato- tomaaatoe. She is a jerk, a liar and a thief. Daddy should pay the BM’s back and then make his thief of a daughter pay him back!

[@HalfNHalf.]

I drove from Vegas to Orange County CA today. I listened to this video and no joke, about 20 minutes after I watched this, I saw a billboard in riverside that said “$7000 breast augmentation at heavenly plastic surgery” and I burst out laughing😂 maybe that’s where she went😂

[@kristenclark82]

This is giving me LIFE! I love a hilarious coincidence like that!!!! 🤣

[@HalfNHalf.]

@@kristenclark82 hahaha me too! it was extra funny for me because I do that drive almost every month so I knew the billboard was coming but I sorta forgot about it😂 it was perfection lol I honestly wish you all could’ve seen my face when I saw it🤣

[@Ivy94F]

@@HalfNHalf. I listen while I’m driving too, and will literally be screaming ‘GTFOH!’ every time I hear some craziness like this. 😂

[@HalfNHalf.]

@@Ivy94F hahaha same!!

[@tracianderson9823]

😂😂😂

[@katmadison7607]

My Bachelorette party consisted of spending the night at my parent's log cabin, hanging out in the jacuzzi, eating lots of food, riding horses, then going to the beach.. it costs less than $500. And I paid for it.. it was a blast.. My friends thanked me for simple, fun, and free. They brought whatever alcohol & food they wanted to add. Good memories and no AITA.

[@333-u9o]

Sounds absolutely perfect to me 🥰

[@alyssaagnew4147]

I can see why, that sounds great to me and I'm not a big party person!

[@Allie_phelps]

Yes I had a nice quiet long weekend with my girlfriends at our beach house. We enjoyed some nice drinks, dinner out, beach days and clubbing some of the nights. We had a blast and I covered the cost of everything. I didn’t want to put my friends out of a ton of money because it’s about spending time with good friends not about ripping people off. This bride is a whole other level of effed up

[@TheStoryTaylor]

Absolute perfection

[@lauraread-mills4193]

Perfect bachelorette party in my mind. What's the point of trying to show off and put your financial future in doubt over a party and 1 day for the wedding. Should be about the meaning of it, and family.

[@MultiDane007]

I have been a event coordinator & party planner for 30 years and I have never seen ANY swan ice sculpture that came close to $7000

[@geckohunter123]

My favorite detail about this comment is that it doesn’t just imply that ice sculptures are common, but specifically SWAN ice sculptures 😂

[@KateCat420]

​@@geckohunter123 ✨️the more you know✨️

[@cyndiburns7932]

Thought that the first time it was mentioned in this video!

[@TheWitchling]

Charlotte's Update: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2TRYYCVl8eYeMUsi=h-UTShsxl4izztqO

[@Zminator1986]

What was the highest you ever seen?

[@tiffanyphoenix-zitz5106]

Her page added a note : "Not An Update: Hey friends! I’m getting boatloads of requests for an update so I’ve decided to make you all a deal - I will come back with an update after the wedding in May. As of right now it is still on! That’s all I can say for now - check back in May!" ...... Insane story lol

[@angerainbow9200]

Thankyou ❤ was wondering if there would be any update.

[@SavvySchmidt]

Do you have a link to her page? (Sorry if I missed it in the video.)

[@cuppy3874]

​@@SavvySchmidt the credits to the post are in the description

[@ChristinaHeadley-sk2ig]

SO, YOUR BROTHER KNOWS EVERYTHING THAT UNFOLDED AND STILL WANTS TO MARRY THIS GIRL?!

[@tigco1121]

Thank you so much for the info and if this girl has an update please Charlotte do a video. Your commentary adds to the tea and your editors are geniuses

[@TheOfficialPatriarchy]

No way I could marry someone like this. When I say what I am looking for in a mate is a "partner in crime" it is a figure of speech, not a literal endorsement of shady conduct.

[@bambiholmes]

hahahhahahahaha

[@chrissyduncanson7461]

😂😂😂😂

[@debraellison6255]

Wonder how many times she's lied to her future husband.😮

[@punkiepinkies7948]

☝️all of that!

[@jenniferibarra7737]

Haha I love the analogy

[@marinasharpshire9282]

OP also posted another thread a few days earlier where the B chose a reveling BM dresses without consulting any of the wedding party. OP is concerned about a Janet Jackson style wardrobe malfunction and B has refused to allow OP to modify the dress stating OP should " “just be more confident in myself” because all the dresses must be identical for photos." OP is handling herself with such class and is planning to wearing the sh*t out of the dress and making sure the center of attention is not on the lovely bride. To be a fly on the wall wedding day. I'm rooting for her. Go Gurl!!!!

[@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts]

It’s just mind boggling to me that some people ask for all this meanwhile I got treated like a bridzilla for wanting my bridesmaid in MATCHING SHOES 🫨 which they made a fuss about so I gave in & said just get nude heels then.. but one showed up in 7 inch platforms & my SIL who was also a BM showed up in 300$ pink & silver rhinestone Guess platforms that were fancier than my shoes! & I was made to feel that I was a bridezilla if I felt any way about it! I swear to you some BM’s are Bride’s MAIDZILLAS!!!!! Wedding was an absolute tragedy… 😒 I didn’t end up getting anything the way I would have liked because I kept letting other people have their way by manipulating me Listen girls if anyone reads this when you get married just make sure you do what ends up making you happy, if other people try to change your special day or manipulate you then they just don’t need to be a part of it simple as that & that doesn’t make you Bridezilla, it makes you not a door mat..

[@samanthahughes7783]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts girl, I’m so sorry your BMs didn’t do as you asked with the shoes, and asking them to wear a certain type/colour does NOT make you a bridezilla. If you’d asked them to wear a very specific designer type shoe, then maybe. If your BMs wanted to wear ‘flashy’ shoes, surely they could have worn them at the reception. It’s hard, sometimes, to stick up for yourself, and not just give in and go with the flow, (this is coming from someone who let people walk all over her for years) but, you need to think of your own wellbeing. I hope that your wedding was just one bad day (even though it’s a really important one) at the start of a great marriage, and I also hope that your ‘friends’ now treat you like the queen you are. Xx

[@lindsaygarcia9131]

​@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts I'm so sorry your wedding wasn't all you hoped it world be 😢 This is exactly why we didn't have a bridal party, we didn't want the drama or the extra expenses! The day was about us as it should be.... the only "drama" was when our 1.5 year old son started screaming during our vows because he saw me and wanted me to hold him 😂

[@yetiyarnworks6578]

@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKraftsIt's common knowledge that bridesmaids usually wear matching outfits and that often includes the shoes, and bride gets to choose because its her day. It's mind boggling to me that people accept being a bridesmaid when they don't like being told what to wear. Say no to being a bridesmaid then! You are not obligated to say yes! People need to learn to use no more often. I wish I did earlier in my life. I didn't get the wedding I wanted either for various reasons, mostly my sister not wanting to wear a dress at all (she ended up wearing wide leg flowy dress pants and a sparkely halter top) and she refused to wear the color I wanted which resulted in having to change the rest of the bridesmaids dresses because the style I wanted was all sold out in the only color my sister would wear. Icing on the cake, a friend of mine had bridesmaids dresses in her wedding the exact color I had wanted for mine and when my sister saw the pictures she was raving about what a nice color it was. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME. I also changed the wedding date to suit my sister's work schedule so ended up having it in a completely different season than I wanted. I also wish I said no to being a bridesmaid when my husband's brother got married. It was at a time when hubby and I were both having difficulty finding work and had no idea how we were going to pay our next months rent. Bride found some super cute BM dresses on clearance at Sears for like $20 then after we bought them she changed her mind and chose fugly expensive ($300ish) ones from a bridal store (that would need alterations) and told her I could not afford it. She said she would help me pay and then never did. My MIL had to help us pay rent and for wedding attire (for hubby too) and my hair. To top it all off bride had a friend that hung out with us for all the shopping and bridesmaid things and it felt obvious that she would have rather had that friend in the wedding but felt obligated to ask me because my husband had to be in the wedding, being the groom's brother. That was like 15 years ago and I still wish to this day that I had said no. I definitely say no more often now.

[@kstern5218]

@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKraftsI had a Maidzilla too! She was almost 6’ without shoes and the other bridesmaids and I were all under 5’’4, so I asked her to wear any flats she wanted so she wouldn’t tower over the rest of the wedding party. Everyone was wearing their hair up; I didn’t care how. She showed up to my wedding in 3 inch heels with a long wig and colored contacts, looking like a completely different person, and she brought an assistant! I didn’t even have an assistant! She invited a complete stranger to my wedding and reception without asking and was a whole diva the entire day. Our friendship ended that day.

[@jacquieconklin3543]

Pure narcissist!! The groom needs to run far, far away!!!

[@kweenjade01]

Nahhhhh. He should stay and enjoy the wild ride he KNOWINGLY and willingly signed up for. Ijs😂😂😂

[@wengpan3106]

​@@kweenjade01or he still have to enjoy the new bigger melons?😂😂

[@FaithPickles]

N run fast!!!!!

[@TheWitchling]

Charlotte's Update: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2TRYYCVl8eYeMUsi=h-UTShsxl4izztqO

[@katarinatibai8396]

🏃🏃🏃 RUN !!! Run like Hussain Bolt

[@countrygirl5579]

I went down the rabbit hole, googled and found a reddit thread. OP said the wedding is still ON! She will do an update in May! Maybe we will all get some closure on this one day lol.

[@nats9524]

I think Charlotte needs to do an update on this in May! We need closure!

[@martwyMozg]

OMG! thanks for update - i think he is making huge huge mistake, but at this point, he knows what he gets into. we have a saying in my country - "the way you make your bed is the way you will get sleep" - he got all info about what kind of person she is. no pitty for him if she will be lying to him during their marriage (or financially drain him)

[@rosielele]

NOOOO we need to do a protest or something. Poor guy

[@Fragmented_Mask]

@@martwyMozg That is honestly astounding to me. If I saw someone I loved treating other pople with this level of blatant disrespect, I could not be with them. I might not call the whle relationship off if I thought there was a chance they'd engage in therapy and get some help, but I would absolutely not be going ahead with that wedding as planned.

[@Meanne77]

maybe he's happy about the boob job? @@martwyMozg

[@simonsays6739]

I would tell my brother he gets everything he deserves in this marriage. She is already showing who she really is and it will only get worse.

[@thefr33kyshow]

SO. MUCH. THISSS!!!!!!

[@firestarhk3875]

The fact that there was even a question about whether he would go forward with it is…he should’ve stepped away as soon as the lie was revealed. Although maybe he ended up doing it later and op just didn’t share that, but if my future spouse treated my family/his family/friends this way we’d be done before the wedding.

[@vickiechandler3112]

i would tell him get a prenup and seperated locked bank accts..lol

[@jengsci8268]

Nah, would-be bride will need those new melons to attract a new man. Cuz at this point looks is all she's gonna have. Clearly integrity and honesty are not part of her personality repertoire.

[@meili2618]

💯

[@caljones]

If op writes a book, she should call it “the Ice Swan”

[@justliz92]

This is good 👏😂

[@venuslin]

Or…. “The Ice Swan That Never Was” 🤣

[@Sujowi]

Ice Swan is now code for a boob job! I’m just off to get my ice swans done! 😛

[@martwyMozg]

"...with melons!"

[@marysloane1709]

@@venuslinthat would spoil the twist

[@MyVesta001]

That bride and the MOTB are both scam artists. The dad obvi was not in on the scam. Also you roasted the bride so properly 👏🏽🔥👑

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

The poor guys in this family

[@KittenUndercover]

UPDATE (sort of): OPs brother did know about the procedure but not about the money. Wedding is, as of now, still on (boooooo) but OP has promised to update if anything happens and/or after the wedding in May.

[@Megan-mm8hi]

I was thinking he had to know about the surgery!.... That would be a really weird thing not to mention and just rock up with one day but also- that she clearly planned the trip from the start to do it on her destination bachelorette was not weird AF to him and where was the money coming from if she´s that broke? The mother knows and is on team? Learned behaviour or more stories? This bride has faces and stories for everyone and everything. Human red flag and def a personality disorder blooming

[@nahqiv]

So bf knew, mom knew...but they kept the dad in the dark while she basically stole his 7000$? Despicable.

[@digabledoug]

I'm sure the hubby is all for the boob job.

[@gordowg1wg145]

@@nahqiv If true, I do wonder if the creature's mother and father are still married - to each other, I mean?

[@thebigjimmyd]

@@Megan-mm8hi Crazy women usually have crazy moms. Her mom must've been pulling the strings behind the scenes.

[@sammcburney148]

The tone of the "*There is no ice swan. There never was an ice swan*" has the same energy as the video of the guy that's like "You wanna see what's inside the fridge? THERE IS NO FRIDGE!"

[@Just1Nora]

Not familiar with that, but the whole thing is absolutely insane!

[@sammcburney148]

@@Just1Nora look it up lol it's pretty funny imo

[@BernadetteShalala-zu5vb]

That’s great🤣🤣🤣

[@kahlibrown4909]

I literally had this exact same thought! Glad to know someone else's brain went straight to that connection 🤣

[@retnaningheryuanti6008]

*reveals cardboard "ice swan"*

[@Hope-fv3kf]

She LIED and STOLE MONEY from her father, her fiance, her SIL, all her friends. But the SIL needs to be a writer! She is hilarious!!

[@endorathewitchwriter1712]

I had a perfect wedding with one bridesmaid, A cake and bouquet from the local grocery store, all kids at our tiny wedding were dressed up for tricker or treat (we got married on Halloween), and we got married in my mom's garden room. Afterwards we went trick or treat in our wedding clothes (I had a black wedding dress and my husband wore all black) with the kids. Our honeymoon was a trip to the bookstore. We will be celebrating our 25th anniversary this Halloween. You don't need to spend lots of money for a wonderful memorable wedding.

[@staceyjohnson4436]

Beautiful!!

[@jenniferd264]

❤ I love it! Congratulations! My Daughter and Son in law were running errands and ran into the Courthouse, asked 2 strangers to be witnesses and got married! 😊 Then they went out for Donuts 🍩 They’ve been married for 5 and 1/2 yrs and have a 4 yr old Daughter! My Son in Law called and apologized for stealing my chance to see my daughter in her dress, etc. that they wanted a marriage not a party! I stopped him telling him I thought it was romantic and wonderful ❤ He’s amazing! I was thrilled for them! If I want to see her in a dress we can go to the mall 😂 I told him any parent who would be angry doesn’t deserve him as a son in law! In the 6 yrs I’ve known him, he’s only gotten better! My Daughter is loved, respected and he is a man of God. Everything a Mom could want! And as for you and your Husband ❤ Here’s to 25 more wonderful, Happy Healthy Years 🥂❤

[@brittanyfaucett745]

That sounds like the perfect wedding!! I went all out and spent too much money! It was a beautiful, perfect day but if I could do it all over I now realize the most important part was getting to marry my best friend!!! All the other stuff was just extra that we didn’t need. I really do wish I went your route!! ❤ Not to mention all the extra STRESS it out on us and our family and friends. Weddings are built up to be the most important day of your life and if you’re not going ALL OUT and spending thousands then you’re doing it wrong. I wish we could all escape that mindset

[@juloxia]

If it made you happy then and now, the absolutely!! Congrats on the anniversary!

[@kellysong2256]

I love your ideas and enthusiasm 💕

[@AdrianGell]

There seems to be a flaw in this story. If we accept that SIL picked the ABnB location out for purpose of the surgery, then she must have already had an assumption she'd obtain the additional $ to pay for the surgery. The claim that the payment from her dad was something that came later implied it was unexpected. My best guess: SIL guilt trip'd the dad for the money using the bridemaids' situation to gain sympathy. And the dad brought it up over cigars because he was fishing for confirmation SIL had lied, because it must have been weird that none of the bridesmaids thanked him.

[@shannonlaforme8344]

Great catch! You’re right because why would she have booked it unless she already had the money for the surgery. The BM paying and her dad must’ve been pretty close together to ensure her spot on both the bib and patient rosters. My bet is she worked on her dad at the exact same time as the BMs.

[@bonnemoms5413]

I was thinking about this as well. Unless she planned on a credit card or something prior to

[@Ruby-yn5fp]

Are you an actual detective?? Impressive especially that last bit where he got suspicious bc someone should have said thank you

[@KK-rj7ij]

so true, maybe she had planned the surgery and the money was used for something different, or she still has it and keeping it. She definitely is not telling the truth at any point of the story so I wouldn't be surprised if there are more plot twists

[@anonymousdonor]

Very perceptive.

[@Kahnah23]

Well, what a perfect way to start the morning. Nearly choking on my coffee, while screaming: "What do you mean there is NO SWAN"

[@modaciouslav4792]

Me too girl.. but 2 weeks later.

[@nunyabusiness2945]

There was a show called ‘The Swan’ (I think that what it was called) about people undergoing MASSIVE plastic surgery procedures. This chick seems psychotic enough that she thought that lie about the ice swan was poetic or something. Lol

[@DTConan]

same here, girl haha

[@Seabreeezy]

Young women have been fooled into thinking that this kind of stuff is required for a wedding… it never was a thing. The long multi day bridal vacation away was never a thing. The bridesmaids having to pay for more than their dress, was not a thing. The required hair and makeup that the bridesmaids have to pay for was not a thing. Except for the dresses and a one night bachelorette get together, (which the bridesmaids plan themselves within the range they can afford and is NOT dictated by a bride who doesn’t have to pay for it) the brides maids aren’t supposed to be responsible for whatever else the bride/couple, come up with. They should pay for whatever outlandish stuff they decide to have for their wedding… or whatever parents have agreed to. It’s not supposed to be on your bridal party’s shoulders! This is just a massive game of one-up man-ship that gets more out of control every year. It’s ridiculous and is all very recent as far as what has ever been the norm. The exciting part for the bride is supposed to be that she’s getting married to the love of her life. Not that she gets to spend months dictating to the poor helpless bridesmaids

[@claregallacher2684]

My bridesmaids didn't even pay for their dresses, i did as well as jewellery (as a gift) hair and make up. One of them was heavily pregnant at the time of the wedding and the other such tiny feet, i told them whatever shoes was fine by me. The only thing they paid for was extra beauty treatments they wanted (which was discounted as my neighbour owns a beauty salon!) and just a few nights accommodation of which i paid some and helped her find a reasonably priced place too. I never understood the whole idea of months long bachelorette stuff either.

[@Seabreeezy]

@@claregallacher2684 🙂Same with me! My friends and I were young and many had new young families, so I paid for the dresses, and I could because I didn’t go extravagant. (I have no issues with a bride who can and does go extravagant. Obviously it’s what you can afford and what you want for your wedding) But all I was thinking about was that I was getting married, and trying to look as good as I could for the day, and getting the basics for cake, food, and a little music. The rest was about friends and family being there with us to dance to the DJs music etc. Big or small, if it’s not about the person they are marrying out of love and respect, then they are making a mistake (and certainly their poor partner probably is, even if the poor guy does love her)

[@Cloverkitty]

Hey, if there's enough people doing this that have more money than sense, it's not my business. Lmao

[@nunyabizness6113]

I was gonna say what happened to Bachelorette parties? Why is it now a whole week or so dedicated to the bride it used to just be one wild night same for bachelor parties

[@Seabreeezy]

@@nunyabizness6113 exactly. I’m 57 and so I’ve been around long enough to have seen the change, all of it mostly after 2000… but it really picked up after social media became a thing… because now we have to spend money to impress all the people we don’t know, instead of just enjoying our friends and family.

[@nedawar4963]

“Ice Swan™️” I love how she trademarked it when she wrote some of the posts 😂😂

[@Just-Nikki]

I saw that butI don’t really understand why?

[@nedawar4963]

@@Just-Nikki I took it as the bride being pretentious about pronouncing the full phrase rather than just “ice sculpture” or “swan” or “ice.”

[@HeatherChandlerIsASlayQueen]

I WAS GONNA SAY THISSSSS 😭

[@LynnsYouTube]

Even more important is that the groom is marrying somebody's who's shady. You never know when the lack of integrity will pop out, but if it's in her character, it will affect your family, especially your brother, for the rest of your life.

[@isla.vuewall]

Well the groo. is now aware of his future brides character, but still seems for whatever reason that he'll stay with her. If he wants to be with someone awful that's his choice, but it does speak volumes of his own character and lack of integrity. I just feel bad for OP, the other BMs, and the brides father and OPs mother and family involved.

[@lellyt2372]

How do we know brother didn't think it was a fantastic idea and was on board with it totally ? He will get some benefits (if he likes that sort of thing) after all

[@American-Idiot-Campaign-Vlog]

​@@lellyt2372um, bc he turned purple? That's not the reaction of a man in the know. Plus, elaborate on the "benefits" please 😂

[@Syd.The.Squidd]

I had a wedding with 70ish people on my parents property. My dad had made a new carport in the field for his two boats and we used that as the reception area. Decorated it with cheap ikea curtains and velvet from Joanne’s. Rented plastic chairs and tables and spruced them up with table clothes and what not. The dance floor was made up of rugs on the grass and we had bought this velvet couch off Amazon as well as bar tables for lounging. Got a tiered cake from Sam’s club and decorated it up. Had the ceremony in front of two oak trees with fishing line holding more swoopy curtains and foliage on it. A lot of our centerpieces were from goodwill, antique shops and 5 below 😂 but it looked good af. I wouldn’t change a thing about it. Back yard weddings are great if you can manage. You don’t have any curfews, there’s no worries about people drunk driving because they can just sleep at the house AND if there’s any outfit mishaps you can just run inside! 😂 plus I got to have my dog with me in a familiar setting where he wasn’t scared.

[@00r0ry]

Honestly at first I read centipedes instead of centerpieces and I was confused XD

[@Syd.The.Squidd]

@@00r0ry that would certainly make for an interesting wedding lmao

[@kathidori8504]

​@😂00r0ry

[@penguinZ85]

It sounds like a lovely wedding. I got married in 2020 and it was a backyard ceremony with just family and close friends. Had a reception in 2021 since we had already purchased the decorations and stuff. It was perfect and we had so much fun.

[@ficklepickle9423]

Aww, I love that for you!

[@onevoice2993]

Yikes! My Bachelorette was my bridesmaids surprising me kidnapping me and whisking me away to a Ren Faire for the day. They even brought me an outfit! We had a blast! No over-the-top week long excursion.

[@katrinacambell1226]

That sounds like so much fun!

[@Linzp713]

I had to do a double take....because mine did the same! Minus the outfit. One of my bridesmaids even wrote little riddles for me to find certain places at the Renn Faire. It was perfect for me, sounds like yours was too! 😊

[@onevoice2993]

@Linzp713 I love the riddles! I'm a major puzzle fanatic! What an awesome idea! Sounds like you had a great bridal crew, too! 😊

[@Ivy94F]

That sounds like a lot of fun. The special part is that they got you an outfit for it. Chef’s kiss on that one! ❤

[@gretchenogden8157]

I am so immensely jealous❤

[@kelst75]

"She's an influencer." Ok, that explains the whole thing.

[@marythomas9988]

Let her "influence " her way outta this one😂

[@Mod0308]

But is she REALLY? Like….REALLY? It’s like the girls that call themselves models when really they’ve only got an Instagram account with 1000 followers 😂 PS. Don’t care how many followers….if you haven’t walked a runway or been in print…you ain’t a “model”

[@akane742]

No she is not.. influencers make bank

[@shersmk90]

But a very succesful one if her dads pays for every expense of the wedding.

[@CrustyUgg]

We need to figure out who's getting married in May!

[@libbylou6004]

Lol I love charlotte. “The ice swan is a metaphor for their relationship melting away” 🤣

[@2fishnets]

My 2 year old granddaughter just said...."Close your mouth Grandma!!"

[@Sleipnirseight]

HOOWWWW was that bride planning to have a fully themed and planned out bachelorette weekend WHILE RECOVERING FROM INVASIVE SURGERY 👀👀👀

[@chrissyduncanson7461]

Great question

[@suebrown7358]

Yes and if the house was booked for the proximity to plastic surgeon, then she was planning to spend $14,000 from the jump. So this isn’t making sense to me.

[@Kordiana]

My guess is that it was also a lie, just like the swan. She needed it to keep up the rouse. My question is that normally a bachelorette party happens right before the wedding. So how is she supposed to be healed after surgery for the wedding?

[@lyndabanhart799]

Thats like my main question

[@00r0ry]

@@Kordiana The update says the wedding is in May, so plenty of time for that. Also she probably had her dress altered since her chest is now bigger and that takes time, so there's that too. But she could definitely not party for the bachelorette. I got top surgery last year, and it took WEEKS to be able to safely raise my arms even just to get elbows at shoulder height, and I got weight removed, I can't imagine how it feels to have, on top of stitches, additional weight pulling at the skin and the surgery cuts and stitches. This means that at least two of the planned outfits she wanted her bridesmaid to buy a week before the trip would go to waste since she couldn't have been able to do much partying at all. I don't think it's a lie, because getting those kind of surgery appointments mean you're planning for months in advance, there's no way she could've booked the house so close AND get an appointment for that specific date, the appointment clearly is what came first, then she built the whole bachelorette trip around it. So she either underestimated the surgery, or planned to have all her friends fawn over her and her new boobs for the rest of the trip. Either way, she's an idiot.

[@paulavitoria1798]

I googled "How much is an ice sculture for a wedding", and this was the first answer: "Most, though not all of Ice Sculptures we make are roughly 40-45 inches tall or wide, by 22 inches tall or wide, and start at $650. Our smaller, 2 foot tall "mini” Ice Sculptures start at $350. Mini Luges start at $375." This is from a business that makes reeeaaaaly extravagant sculptures: an airplane, the couple on a motorcycle, and even a Cinderella-like carriage, with horses and all! More specifically, I found an ice swan (on another company) for 175£. Edit: I've done all the above before the end, as you may guess. Now that it ended, I'm at a loss for words. I just can't... oh my!

[@nehamaw]

😂 😂 The way she kept saying baby mommas instead of bridesmaids was hilarious

[@unalivesuccubus6747]

To be honest, I would have done the same 😅

[@TheBaumcm]

BM, am I the only one who thought “bowel movement”.

[@sarahh4634]

@@TheBaumcmas a carer, yes. Yes it did 😂

[@ImaStonerToo]

Old habits die hard

[@widowgirl1254]

I thought so too 😂😂😂

[@reginabeatrizcalero8984]

Update .. i read the reddit and here's the scoop.... THE MELON JOB WAS FREE.... The bride was in an AFFAIR with the plastic surgeon for 14 months. How they found out? The wife of the surgeon went to the bride's house to inform the bride's family of the affair. Apparently she found out of the affair because she saw on bridezilla's ears the missing earrings her husband bought her fron Tiffany's. The surgeon demanded it back but Bride did not have it anymore and said that she would pay for it and asked how much were those earrings... And guess what... The earrings cost $7500. So thats where the 7k went... To pay back her boyfriend surgeon. Also because of the affair the wedding is cancelled and the groom broke it off with the bride

[@danielleking262]

That is messed up in every way possible !!!

[@jasonford9705]

This doesn’t sound true. Can you point you the Reddit post?

[@StefaniiaTiupina-bk3fb]

​@@jasonford9705it is actually, Charlotte posted a video with an update

[@anidiotusingyoutube]

Charlotte already made a video about it

[@jasonford9705]

Well I’m having a hard time believing most of this story. Anyone can post on Reddit and it doesn’t have to be true.

[@andreaturner7207]

All Rise, Judge Dobre has entered the court. We shall once again return to our books “How are you not Embarrassed?” This time to Chapter “Next Petty” covering the verses regarding how to avoid landing on “AITA Reddits.” 🥔👑

[@AnnyVanlu]

Best comment ever 😂🎉

[@dinasilva9263]

That's so funny. I hope you are having a very good day.

[@cyberwolf3974]

😂 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rebeccariehle2764]

Yes, Queen 🙌

[@BigT2664]

I'd buy that book... just saying. Charlotte, Charlotte... is it coming? 👀

[@Metal_Mary]

Omg, Charlotte, that blue sweater is gorgeous on you!!🫶💙🩵 Absolutely beautiful!😍

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

Seriously!! Absolutely GORGEOUS!!😍

[@Fluffy-Fluffy]

Yes!!

[@Solènelamigonnelicorne]

​@@WhatTheWHAT524 😊😊❤

[@SLM41]

Yes!!! Stunning

[@user-blob]

Agreed.

[@tbotaku]

If she writes a book she'll be able to get her AND the other bridesmaids money back 😁

[@twisktwisk735]

😂

[@amyvanraalte1038]

I love this idea

[@Seypup]

I hate to admit it, but I would probably buy it😂

[@bookieworm17]

I would buy it ✋🏽🫳🏽

[@Zhangli-i3h]

She need to tell her brother to dump this lady. She’ll keep lying in the relationships she has.

[@agentwolf5305]

Broooooo that was wild! I was playing this in the background and I became fully invested and by the final update my boyfriend was invested he paused his game and we lost our shit together! He said that after this he feels like HE needs a class of wine!

[@latoshamercado8717]

This has been my absolute favorite tea spilling I've ever watched /listened to. Delulu is right on the money!

[@TheMelbournelad]

How did you find the update?

[@donhardy6661]

I did a followup of all her responses and THERE IS A PARALLEL POST. The bride is being equally difficult about the bridesmaid dresses. This is a class 1 nightmare.

[@cassiopee26]

Aaaaw I thought you were gonna say that the brother canceled the wedding! 🥲

[@lauramc1288]

What’s the username ??

[@mel_zzz_]

I want to know the username too 😂

[@NilZed1]

you cant say that and not link us up!

[@ChickenFerLei]

Ooooo do tell!!!!!

[@DuckyLav7472]

Update for everyone: UPDATE - THE WEDDING IS OFF - 3/30/2024 ALRIGHT Y'ALL - get your comfy socks and your popcorn because I've been holding on to this update for SO LONG and I have to get it all out there. I feel like at this point we've all become good friends - literally when I do these updates I like to imagine we're all together eating snacks and gossiping 😂 I'm on desktop right now so you KNOW I mean business. ANYWAY - let me start with this: the wedding is officially OFF. I know a lot of you out there were team #CancelTheWedding so this should warm your soul. For me personally, I wanted it to work out for my brother despite her insanity :/ I was kind of hoping this would (somehow) all blow over like a bad dream and he could find normalcy again. Unfortunately that is not at all the case. Here's what happened: when I last updated you, SIL had pulled up to the bachelorette with a set of new melons and shocked us all. We were left wondering WTF, and I told you I needed to stop the updates to protect my brother's privacy. Well, that has all changed now and I've been given permission by my brother to spill the f*cking TEA. My brother was aware that SIL had planned on getting a breast augmentation at some point this year - he actually knew it would be during the bachelorette trip. Despite thinking it was very weird, he really wanted to support her. So he kept her "surprise" a secret. What he did NOT know was that she may have used the bridesmaids money (or even her dad's) to finance it. But it turns out that she did not in fact use our money or her dad's money to pay for the new titties. That's because her procedure was on the house. Why you ask? Because she has been having an affair with the surgeon for over a year. Yes you read that correctly. She's been diddling her married plastic surgeon for more than 14 months. He is a VERY WELL KNOWN PLASTIC SURGEON and his legal team has been ON ME LIKE WHITE ON RICE. There are limits to what I can disclose. At this current moment I have been advised not to disclose the state he practices in, his name, or any personally identifying details. Back to the story…. He wanted to fly her out for a complimentary titty upgrade!! We found out because his WIFE found her sad little influencer IG page, tracked her down, AND SHOWED UP TO THE FAMILY HOME!!! Which would be her father's house because she still lives there. There is so much more to say that I think I'm going to have to split this into 2 updates because my fingers are legit going numb. I REALLY wanted to get that off my chest. I know you might be wanting to know the specifics like: So WHERE did the money go after all?? How did the wife find out and what happened when she showed up?? (That's an update in ITSELF!!) How is my brother handling this? (besides of course leaving her dusty ass) What did SIL have to say for herself? I PROMISE I will be back to finish this horror story!!! UPDATE - SOME LIGHT HOUSEKEEPING - 4/1/2024 A few housekeeping items before I share the next update: I thought you all should know that I now have to submit all of my updates to an attorney for legal review before I can post them here. This is primarily because of the high profile surgeon (who is aware of this thread) and his legal team. The wife is also in the mix and wants to minimize fallout, so I'm dealing with her people as well. They can’t stop me from telling the story but they CAN come after me if I disclose specific things. Basically everyone knows about this post now (SIL included) but I PROMISE I'm coming back to finish spilling the TEA for you all on that. Ready your kettles!!! 🫖🫖🫖 The support/interest/fan club vibes this post generated has been amazing. Thank you guys so much for sticking with me on this crazy ride!! 💗 With the support has also come some negativity - I am being impersonated online in a few places, and some people are trying to profit on this story by claiming it as their own. To combat this, I've listed my own information at the top of this post - anyone else is impersonating me and if you spot this story circulating online without directly tagging my IG or Reddit, it's not authentic. Due to the above, I've decided to copyright this content and will continue to amend it as I make the updates. Who knows, maybe SIL will star in a tv series or book about this nightmare one day! 📚 I've had some requests to timestamp my previous updates so new readers can get a better timeline. I backdated all of my updates - please go easy on me as I can't remember the exact dates I came back to edit this post, so most dates are approximate. 📆 Shout out to the podcasts and other channels who have picked this up for a live reading! The ones I'm aware of include ThreadTalk and Charlotte Dobre. I LOVE listening to these - it's a cool perspective, so feel free to DM me if you come across any others! 🎤 BE BACK SOON!

[@DuckyLav7472]

UPDATE #7 - The Missing $7k - 4/7/24 Alright friends - if you’re still with me on this wild ride, it’s time to spill some of the final tea in this crazy kettle. I want to start with the details of SIL’s illicit affair with the plastic surgeon. Much of the detail was provided to me by my brother. When he ended the engagement, he asked SIL to give him the whole truth, after all it’s the least she could do. She fessed up, and my brother has given me permission to share. Here’s what happened: The wife learned about the affair thanks to a pair of Tiffany diamond earrings, which apparently went missing from her jewelry collection. At some point she goes down to the hospital to bring her husband lunch, and sees a female patient wearing the EXACT PAIR of earrings she’s lost. And you guessed it, that patient was our beloved bride. Now I don’t know the timeline on when she noticed these earrings went missing, but I do know that she saw my SIL wearing the earrings at the hospital while getting a consultation for her free melon job. This would have been long before the bachelorette trip, most likely on one of their earlier “visits” while SIL was flying out of town to see him. The wife at some point brings this up to her husband (the surgeon) who probably plays it off as a coincidence. In her confession to my brother, SIL admitted to stealing the wife’s earrings during one of their “visits.” The surgeon demanded them back after realizing the wife spotted SIL wearing them that day. Problem is, SIL doesn’t have the earrings anymore. She claims she lost them. She asked the surgeon how much the earrings cost and swore she would make amends by sending him the money. He reveals they are from Tiffany’s and cost about $7500. And there you have it - the mystery of the $7k is solved. When SIL’s father offered to cover the cost of the airbnb, she probably saw a golden opportunity to snag almost the full amount of money she needed to cover the earrings. She did admit to my brother that she sent her dad’s money to the surgeon after he paid for the airbnb. And TBH I don’t know who’s crazier - SIL for stealing the earrings or the surgeon for continuing to have an affair with someone who literally stole from his wife!! ANYWAY back to the story. So I’ll never know if the surgeon gifted his wife a pair of new diamond sparklers or not, but I do know that she didn’t let her suspicion go. I don’t know for SURE if the earrings were the giveaway, or if she found out later. She ended up getting SIL’s name somehow and looking her up on social media. How she ended up at the family home I’ll probably never know, but I’m sure anyone with a name and a mission can find an address online. I’m not at liberty to share the details of the confrontation between SIL and the wife. This update ends here, but I’ll be back with at least one more for you soon. UPDATE #8 - Where are they now? - 4/15/24 Okay everyone, I received the green light to share just a tidbit more on this story. I am out here scrambling to keep up with the demand for this tea but stay with me - it will all eventually be spilled (one way or another.) For this update I wanted to address some of the main questions I get from all of you onboard the crazy train with me. Most people are curious to know the current status of the main players like ex-SIL, the surgeon, and a lot of kind folks want to know how my brother is holding up. So I’ve decided to do a “Where are they now” type of update for you today. Let’s start with the surgeon - and boy is he a popular subject in my comments! (Quick thank you to everyone for being so respectful of my request that you avoid speculating names. Glad to see you’ve moved it to your DMs 😂I’m here for that!) Anyway back to the surgeon - so to be fair, there isn’t a lot I know about him in general. But I can tell you that YES, the wife DID file for divorce. AS SHE SHOULD 💅 And sadly that’s pretty much the limit on what I can reveal about those two at this time. I will add that most divorce records are public, though the surgeon strikes me as the kind of guy to get it sealed. But hypothetically, if someone wanted to look up a public divorce record, they could. Moving on to ex-SIL……..sigh. I’m debating whether to continue giving her any more attention, even if anonymously. Before I give this update, I do want to say again for the record that I have my brother’s full support in sharing this information. ex-SIL decided to move out of state shortly after my brother called off the wedding. And maybe you saw this coming, but she relocated to be close to the surgeon. Yep. So sad. But yes, given his official divorce, those two are seemingly staying together. This disgusts me and I have so much more to say, but for now I’m moving on. I’m going to end on a positive, note - I am thrilled to report that my brother is doing absolutely fantastic given the circumstances. He has moved into a new place for a fresh start. Even though he was not living with ex-SIL, he wanted a new perspective and to be out of that place filled with bad memories. Good for him! He also told us the other day that he’s taken the first steps to opening his own restaurant in town, something he has always wanted to do. And for those who watched this in episode format on my IG/TikTok - no, Eugene will ABSOLUTELY NOT be signing my brother up for Tinder 🤣 To my readers here, I will be back to regularly update this thread with any new info from now on. Giving you the text-only tea is more important than my beef with Reddit. SEE YOU SOON. (and Eugene says hi.)

[@MaríaMartínez-l3m]

oh...my...god😨wth

[@NO-2121]

Yep I agree.. if I was the BROTHER I WOULD CALL OFF THE WEDDING.!!! THATS A PSYCHO YOUR MARRING!!!! she’s gonna take that man into bankruptcy..

[@LemonThyme1933]

Bankruptcy. . . Will it be before or after the divorce??

[@marythomas9988]

Prenup that requires her to get a job and keep it 😅

[@suzyq-zy216]

While gaslighting and lying the whole way. I don’t say the C- word, BUT IF I DID, she’s one I’d say it about. UNBELIEVABLE!!

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

Fr, the "brother dosen't want to pay for her screw up"... If he marry her he will have too.

[@northernbunny9894]

Great way to start a relationship with his family.

[@zoekrishel6677]

As a registered nurse, i dont think ‘Baby mamas’ or ‘Bridesmaids’ when i read ‘BM’ LOL

[@pozz_itive]

Me too lol!

[@tsumebones13]

Same girl. Lol 😂

[@niamphdollieofficial]

Fr me to lmao like just spell it out it's weird that parents don't exist just babymamaand daddies

[@Evelyn-d3o]

I personally have issues with ‘PR’ people 🥴🥴🥴

[@brittanymorgan3076]

Those are my initials, and I always circle the B to kinda hide the double meaning 😂

[@DonnaNarducci]

Haaaaaaaaaaa love how you tell your stories. You always have me laughing . The characters you put your head on. Your facial expressions, priceless !

[@Nordicdesertgirl]

I feel like the happiest couples are those who doesn't display everything about their life and relationship. ❤️

[@laughingaardvark3128]

I really want the update in May. I think there were earlier warning signs that the bride was out there before the bachelorette party came up. Who needs 12 people in their bridal party? Are there 500 guests? Do we even want to know how much this wedding costs? If the brother is planning to ditch her at the alter, he should let everyone who can be trusted to keep quiet know beforehand. Then the bridesmaids can return their dresses.

[@Ivy94F]

These brides with their champagne taste and beer wallets, kill me. Lol. Like WTF is wrong with you? 😂

[@jessej2496]

I can only hope for a final update to let us know if her brother DID INDEED back out of the wedding but to also find out if they will be getting even a portion back of their lost $$$. Im invested!

[@B.Harper7]

She clearly isn't going to react to normal ways to come to a solution, so naming and shaking with "it's been ×× days since we were scammed out of $7,000 while her father was scammed out of $7,000. We have not been repayed so far, I will update daily". Throw in an "allegedly" so the 'see you next Tuesday' can't try any B.S.

[@lotannaezeogu]

He backed out and it gets crazier 😂 video just dropped

[@LadyOrion2012]

I told both my Sons a few years ago that we will not contribute more than $5K (each) for a Wedding (1 day event). However, we would gladly help with closing costs and down payments when they are ready to buy their homes. If the Bride wants an expensive/exclusive/upscale wedding (always a red flag) then they are going to have to work for it. My 2 nieces and nephew all had modest, low cost weddings because they opted instead for financial help from the family when buying their homes. And all of them got help from family so that they can purchase the homes of their choosing.

[@nedawar4963]

Charlotte, I absolutely love your style! People have always made underhanded digs about how I dressed ‘colorful.’ Comments like, “we won’t have any trouble finding you if you get lost today.” I love all of your fancy and bright shirts, and they make me feel confident to continue wearing bright colors myself. You show me that it is possible to wear bright colors, and not look like a giant toddler😂 (which is what I’m afraid of because of the comments I got)

[@meghanjane9479]

I wear super exciting pants at my work (teacher) and I have heard thr good, the bad, and the ugly! Most people find it fun though! And yeah, I'm talking purple zebra print, flowers everywhere, squiggles, flowers, yellow squiggle flares... Life is too short for me to not wear what I want! ❤🎉

[@CharlotteDobre]

WEAR THOSE BRIGHT COLORS BESTIE

[@pebbles5450]

Girl wear them bright colors fr as a girl who dresses in all black all the time the world needs balance lol

[@beverlyrobertson2547]

Charlotte, that shade of blue is so becoming on you! 🔥🔥🔥

[@sarahross2441]

@@pebbles5450 that’s my sister and I. She wears all black and I have to wear enough colors and prints for the two of us! 😂

[@digifreak90]

16:45 Yeah, I decided to do some googling and, across multiple companies, the most expensive item I found for an Ice Sculpture, was around 2.5 k for a 8 foot ice bar.

[@colemanvswild]

Four years and a pandemic following this channel, and this was the most batshit amazing thing ever! You just clocked the internet!

[@donnellyb4616]

I mean, props to the pops for trying to make sure people are braking their wallets for his daughter’s wedding. Most dads in a bridezilla scenario are just side characters to their daughter’s life

[@r.or.i]

The bride STOLEEE. That's illegal lolll This isn't "miscommunication". She's a thief. Period. Needs to be prosecuted.😂😂😂

[@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607]

That is bullshit there’s nothing legally that they can do. At the very least there’s small claims. At the most, all of them could sue. She claimed the $ was for a certain reason than used it for something else-that is fraud.

[@TheWitchling]

Charlotte's Update: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2TRYYCVl8eYeMUsi=h-UTShsxl4izztqO

[@NightEyeStudio1995]

Charlotte, that sweater is to die for! That color really brings out the red in your hair 😍

[@Wanderlust4Life247]

GUYS!!! Huge update! The wedding is OFF!! Turns out the $7,000 was NOT for the new set of melons, the new melons were on the house because SHE WAS SLEEPING WITH THE MARRIED SURGEON FOR OVER A YEAR!!! His wife found out and she straight up tracked this bish down, and showed up at her dad’s house where she lived to confront her about it. And now there’s this whole legal mess going on. SO. MUCH. TEA.

[@NotebookMapofLemon]

Aaaaaaa😮😮😮😮

[@lostinmyimagination7485]

STFU!!! I cannot process this and therefore spit tea all over myself. Thank you for this update. That poor groom. Glad he knows and dodge this bullet...possibly many bullets from the surgeons wife!! This lady truly does need help.

[@bronquitis890]

The $7000 were not spent on the boobs, nor in the house, You will find out!!?

[@Inkypages39]

YOOOOOOOO! That's frickin insane! She took the post down though, so I can't read it!😭 Anywhere I can read this tea still?

[@MaríaMartínez-l3m]

there are so many twists and turns😅

[@fancychancey9253]

This is the bridezilla stories I live for! The ☕️ is the best way to make you feel like, “I’m not that bad” in comparison lol

[@greeneyes92061]

Weddings today (including all pre wedding activities) are beyond ridiculous!!!!!!!! My husband and I have been married over 43 years. When we married there were no big pre wedding events…..no bachelorette parties, no bachelor parties. There was normally ONE bridal shower, period. We always kept in mind what our parents could afford not what I wanted I my wildest dreams. Actually my wildest dream was just to have a nice wedding, get married to the man that I loved and spend what money we had on our new household. Receptions consisted of cake, punch, mints and nuts. There were no big meals (sit down or buffet style) unless parents were rich and could afford such things. Brides today are ridiculously entitled, selfish and just crazy.

[@elfin21]

I had a similar wedding 40 years ago. It was lovely. I can't believe what weddings have morphed into these days. It's beyond ridiculous!!

[@niamphdollieofficial]

They want weddings not marriages smdh so pitiful

[@francicalhoun2135]

By FAR the craziest Bridezilla story I'VE ever heard!!!!

[@francicalhoun2135]

Hilariously awful!

[@jinxypop13]

All of Charlotte’s saying we’re running throw my head… ”How are you not embarrassed!” and “The audacity!” 😂 What a roller coaster ride!!!

[@markieross9449]

I love the headband + turtleneck combo! I’m getting Daphne vibes ✨❤

[@itspenelopesquare]

"I got my teacup~ there's nothing in it... but maybe you can fill it up with your story 😏" Omg, lol, I died 😂😂😂

[@JustSayWen66]

Might I just say that blue looks fabulous on you...sweater is cute too lol

[@megancorkern1952]

I love your videos. My husband does as well,but ssssh! I will take it off speaker phone and then he’ll make me put it back😂 so funny.

[@BrianAndresScott]

😅😂❤

[@mapatterson173]

My husband will be reading the news-poor deranged man that he is-and then he’ll stop reading and lean over to watch with me on my iPad.

[@FabyRuth2]

Similar here, he "does not like it" but can´t stop asking me what is she saying? wha is the story about?.... and we debate about it xD

[@serenabahr-cobb2465]

I can’t express how much your channel has become a comfort space for me in my depression. The only person I watch on YT literally. I’ve never understood the hype w KZbinrs until now

[@natex4398]

Oodly enough I’ve been watching youtube for 15 + years and I don’t really listen to KZbinrs Rant about situations I really found love in charlotte Her energy is so unmatched !

[@seanlabath560]

This channel makes me want to delete myself!!

[@brandymessick5487]

Girl. Charlotte. You are HILARIOUS! 😅😂😂😂 Love the way you handle these stories! 😂😂😂 Love how you pick the right side, no matter what! Some serious delulu's out there 😂👌🏼

[@angelamullins4184]

Holy cannoli! That is a crazy story. Charlotte, I love your sweater, it looks great on you.

[@wendyg.2664]

I loved all the "tea" that was spilled in this video, and I truly enjoyed seeing the clip of Raul Julia as "Bison" in the "Street Fighter" movie! 😍 As cheesy as that movie was, it was one of my faves as a teenager. That and "Mortal Kombat." LOL

[@JeanAvery-p3h]

Raul Julia was dying in that film. He did it because he wanted his children to see him act. He had young children at the time. And even though it is a cheesy movie, his performance was paramount!!!

[@erzabetf9544]

I was expecting the bride to be 21, not 31. 😂

[@lindavanocker1841]

I thought 18 !

[@brooksroth345]

She acts like she is 12. Obviously pampered as a child. I bet she received a liberal education probably art history or something else stupid. Probably never had a job.

[@riceflowershea8748]

What does her age matter? Do you mean that normally you wouldn't expect someone 31 yo to do something so immature?

[@jmemarie4828]

@@riceflowershea8748Rice lady are you lacking common sense or are you very young? How can you not understand the statement. It literally in front of your eyeballs. Please common sense hun.

[@riceflowershea8748]

@@jmemarie4828 First, calm TF down. What does age matter in this situation? Your grammar is horrible, by the way.

[@sophisticatedchaosgb]

Who’s here from the Update?!?! 😅

[@corvuscorax7451]

Can't believe it took until 16 minutes in for the OP and gang to think of cutting the bridezilla out and just going on the trip as a regular vacation. Glad they got there in the end though, especially with the twist ending!

[@archimancer7795]

Imagine what OP's brother would say to the SIL, "So you lied to my sister and your BMs for these?" 😂

[@alietheartist734]

Listening to this is making more and more grateful to my bestie who’s getting married in March and has been a total angel of a bride. Like, she let us help pick the bridesmaid dresses to make sure they worked for everyone, she kept the bachelorette super reasonable and did her best to make sure we wouldn’t have to buy outfits (one night we did What Not To Wear but we were supposed to bring something we’d only been able to wear once and it was a big slumber party type deal). She also was like, “Hey, I know a lot of y’all are from out of town, so no pressure to come to the bridal shower, legit don’t worry.” TLDR pretty sure my bestie who is getting married next month is a saint.

[@a-a-ron9027]

glad i started this story with part 2, i dont think i could have waited for the additional tea

[@lotannaezeogu]

Me too!!!

[@Jenkyblep]

The only time I’ve seen ladies in bridesmaid sashes and matching outfits was at renaissance festival and they were all drunk as hell and having a blast…. But tbh ren faire folk built different 😂

[@Shahjahani777]

Worked renn faires for years. We are built different 😁😁😁

[@yvonnecook8635]

Bloody hell! I certainly hope the finance ran away. She’s fucking cray cray. Thanks Charlotte. Always a fun trip with you🤣💕🇨🇦

[@cecemunoz2426]

Just watched two times through & im flabbergastedddddd at the ‘new melons’ 🤣☠️🤣☠️🤣 paired perfectly with a negative loss of literally 11 friends… I’m so thankful for my literal 3 girlfriends so my brain just cannot compute this story and bridezilla 🤯

[@brendab9555]

Charlotte! Sleighed with the “like your wedding” cut down! Epic! Awesome! Freaking hilarious! I find you so entertaining and funny. Keep it up! Can’t get enough! 😂

[@juliaheller8471]

OP posted an update - THE WEDDING IS OFF! And sooooo much more tea

[@lockhak33]

OP said on Reddit that she will post an update after the wedding in May so hopefully she will post sooner when the wedding is cancelled

[@MichaelWest1996]

Charlotte, I hope you make a second part to this video if and when OP posts another update maybe right before or after the wedding! I have never wanted closure more than I do on this story, really leaves you hanging! Did they still get married? Did the bridesmaids get their money back? Was the bride even sorry for what she’s done? Did the bridesmaids all cut her off as a friend and out of their lives? I really wanna know these things!! Lol

[@kathryn3802]

Agreed. I need to know what happens. I really hope Charlotte has an update in May.

[@neilmcnab3652]

I’m a bloke and this has had me hooked. Unreal stuff, thanks Charlotte.

[@blossomfrey13]

If this was Jerry Springer I could see if being bridesmaid and baby mommas. 😂

[@karenwhite4461]

I absolutely knew that's what she spent the money on. 🙊🙈🥥🥥 The entitlement is off the charts with this bridezilla.

[@sarahmichelle4561]

THERE’S AN UPDATE!!! I went straight to Reddit after watching this video and and OP had updated the post. THE WEDDING IS OFF AND THE TEA IS PIPING HOT!!!! You should make a video with the updateS* as OP said there will be more!!!

[@jannelleglover2150]

Darn it! Now I'm invested. We better get the may update! As Charlotte say, "I NEED CLOSER!!"

[@izabella_mwah]

as of march 30th, the wedding is OFF. NEW UPDATE!!! THIS UPDATE IS THE HOTTEST ONE YET

[@christiekilley8051]

That was a lot. I laughed so many times at the audacity. And yes, they should totally sue. They can rack on lawyer and court costs so it will ultimately cost them nothing. Also I really hope the brother called the wedding off.

[@amandah.5712]

We spent $2,000 on our wedding. That was for the reception center, rental of four tux's, and my wedding dress, and we self catered. We didn't do a meal. It was finger foods that my aunts and uncles put together. My sister and I even made the wedding cake. It was amazing! My bridesmaids were my sisters and I just asked if they could wear navy blue, and let them pick out their dresses. I even told them that they could be dresses they could wear to church. It turned out beautifully. My now husband's best friend even DJ'd it for free even though he was a professional DJ. Cheap wedding, but so beautiful and memorable. Nobody was a "...zilla" of any kind and we all had a wonderful time. We just celebrated our 24th anniversary and are even happier than we were then. Nobody really needs the big glamorous weddings. It's more stress than anyone needs. Sometimes, I worry that the show of a glamorous wedding is to distract from the lack of real love.

[@iamellaf2529]

We spent 3k and most of that was the catering!

[@bookboundpels]

GUYS THE WEDDING US OFF!!! CHARLOTTE DO A VIDEO ON THE MOST RECENT UPDATE

[@Myrrthe]

There is an update from 03/30!!! You NEED to read it!! Spoiler: She didn’t pay for the boob job. Because she had been having an affair with the married surgeon for over 14 MONTHS!!! Wedding is off 🎉

[@erzsieke]

The baby mommas vs bridesmaids is such a Charlotte battle lmao 😂😂😂

[@marcopell7821]

Solicitation of funds under false pretense is a felony and she could be held liable to pay everyone back with interest plus prison time for the theft

[@MattTerrell-gc9vw]

Theft by deception

[@cathynguyen540]

** SPOILER ALERT ** ITS BEEN UPDATED AS OF March 30th * * * ANYWAY - let me start with this: the wedding is officially OFF. I know a lot of you out there were team #CancelTheWedding so this should warm your soul. For me personally, I wanted it to work out for my brother despite her insanity :/ I was kind of hoping this would (somehow) all blow over like a bad dream and he could find normalcy again. Unfortunately that is not at all the case. Here's what happened: when I last updated you, SIL had pulled up to the bachelorette with a set of new melons and shocked us all. We were left wondering WTF, and I told you I needed to stop the updates to protect my brother's privacy. Well, that has all changed now and I've been given permission by my brother to spill the f*cking TEA. My brother was aware that SIL had planned on getting a breast augmentation at some point this year - he actually knew it would be during the bachelorette trip. Despite thinking it was very weird, he really wanted to support her. So he kept her "surprise" a secret. What he did NOT know was that she may have used the bridesmaids money (or even her dad's) to finance it. But it turns out that she did not in fact use our money or her dad's money to pay for the new titties. That's because her procedure was on the house. Why you ask? Because she has been having an affair with the surgeon for over a year. Yes you read that correctly. She's been diddling her married plastic surgeon for more than 14 months. He is a VERY WELL KNOWN PLASTIC SURGEON and his legal team has been ON ME LIKE WHITE ON RICE. There are limits to what I can disclose. At this current moment I have been advised not to disclose the state he practices in, his name, or any personally identifying details. Back to the story…. He wanted to fly her out for a complimentary titty upgrade!! We found out because his WIFE found her sad little influencer IG page, tracked her down, AND SHOWED UP TO THE FAMILY HOME!!! Which would be her father's house because she still lives there.

[@4_Krz]

This is one of the wildest stories I've heard in a while.😂 Thanks for the update!😁

[@nobletarabas1]

But were is the money?!?!? 😮

[@NotebookMapofLemon]

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[@daniellemcintyre5445]

Omg! Thank you for the update, I really hope all you BM's get you $650 back plus any legal fees you had to spend to get back what she stole from you all in the first place! Your brother dodged a bullet with that chick! 😅

[@MelissaG82]

The person who wrote this is on Instagram and just admitted that this was a fictional tale.

[@tanishatch6835]

My 10 year old and I watch you together ❤ she pronounces your name correctly and my heart melts a little 🥰 Thanks for the mother daughter bonding time

[@garyboyles5762]

I would NOT go. The sheer audacity of this bride. Mess with my money, there will be a wrath brought forth that has never been recorded.

[@erickavelez197]

There is an update!!!!! The wedding did NOT occur. The SIL was cheating with the surgeon that gave her the melons and it was later discovered the money she stole was to pay back the surgeon the Tiffani earrings she stole from his wife!!!! 😮

[@SunnyDayzze]

I went searching for the latest update and thankfully saw your comment!!!! This update is CRAZY!!!! The most wildest story I’ve ever heard!! I’m so glad the wedding didn’t happen! Not only was the bride cheating but she stole from her affair partner’s wife?! She’s nuts!! Thank you for the update!

[@lisagrafton2529]

The reason the divorce rate is over 50% for 1st marriages, is couples (usually women), spend more time and money planning a wedding, than they do preparing for a marriage! I can guarantee that if that brother went through with the wedding, it won't last long! She's a liar, she's selfish, and deceitful, and has no remorse! Everything is about her!

[@RayBMore.]

She makes these crazy stories so tolerable 😂thanks

[@rockethq2073]

Charlotte thank you for bringing us this absolute magnificent cup of tea!

[@mayb.3745]

You have me mouth open and saying “whaaattt?”, “No way!”. This is the best ever tea spilling I ever heard. Thank you.😅