Entitled In-Laws SELL THEIR HOUSE to MOVE INTO OUR BEACH HOUSE without OUR PERMISSION

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@anonymouspatriotnetwork2740]

You let them move into your vacation home the next thing you know they will claim it as theirs and refused to leave

[@QuickManEXE]

That probably was their plan.

[@Beefykahn]

No way they sold their house so now they probably want yours for free

[@The_Haz_Matter]

They could have actually done that with squatters rights existence

[@firefly4f4]

The in-laws selling their house without having a place to go sounds like their problem. Anyway, after the sale goes through they'll have plenty of money to find some place to stay while they figure things out. Neither OP nor husband are responsible for his parents' bad decisions. Do not let them in, or you will never be able to get them to leave.

[@chocodraws5137]

I'd just buy some bugs like cockroaches and bedbugs to ward them off

[@beverly964]

Do not let them move in! They can rent a property to live in. Once in they can claim ownership!

[@AlmightyAphrodite]

Thats not family in need honey. Absolutely not... the entitlement is baffling. Inlaws should go find a hotel or another recreational property to rent.

[@rebekah.2187]

Just say, "Too bad. We didn't tell you to sell your house. We never said you could live in our vacation home. Sort your living arrangements out for yourselves."

[@kirby4077]

Story 1: 6 months will become forever

[@princessmarlena1359]

First Story: They planned this whole thing. They were never going to buy a condo. They will never leave if you let them in. Don’t even let them rent it, as they will stop paying rent and refuse to leave. Don’t let them guilt trip you or your spouse, OP.

[@BROUBoomer]

Do not let them move in, they'll claim squatter's rights. Get a rental contract from a lawyer ASAP.

[@keeganlafferty1395]

1st story: turn them away, and if they complain about having nowhere to go just tell them "well you should've thought about that before selling your home"

[@Beefykahn]

That’s what I say

[@alishiahampson3351]

Thing is they planned on retiring in that house

[@bensgalley1368]

See if you let them move in and they stay for six months like they plan. The officially can say they are squatters. Which if your based in the US is a big deal. On top of which they would have the money from their sale of the old home. Most likely end up using it for new furniture and the like and live well on your property your paying for. Tell them to pay rent and get it all in writing as well as having a lawyer to make it legal. If you allow them to stay so they can't go for squatters rights when it's time to leave.

[@KingJelza789]

The OP should just deny them

[@seabass819]

The solution is easy, tell them they'll have to sign a 6 month lease, then make rent a couple hundred over other rentals in that area. It shows your hubby you're willing to play ball.

[@lupislupine1709]

"Your lack of planning doesn't constitute an emergency for me" - Stewie Griffin

[@jasoncarpp7742]

*Story 1:* It's beyond insane! The in-laws are crazy.

[@lydiat5819]

Story 1 - high chance things will turn ugly and relationship damaged if you let them move it. What you gonna do if they refuse to move out or damage yr property ? You gonna argue with them ? Sue them ? Call the lawyer ? Even so, it'll be such a headache. Safer to rent a house for them somewhere else with the excuse that yr property has been booked way in advance. Then transfer the rent to them when they refuse to move out.

[@bobm5951]

Story 1 - The in-laws are S.O.L. They made the mistake of selling their house. You didn't do it and you have no responsibility to them like that. Story 3 - Leave it alone. Keep splitting them evenly. There is no good reason for him to pay more on the bills. You have been doing it evenly and it worked. Story 5 - Short answer, hell no. That is unacceptable...and a bit weird. She doesn't need to be in Your house. Do what You want to do and move anyway. Story 6 - What you do is tell your sister to STFU and mind her own damn business and STOP getting in the way. She has NO SAY whatsoever about what you do. She is your SISTER, nothing more, and she needs to get that through a thick skull.

[@iononcantomascrivo]

The last story: Absolutely NOT the jerk. It's funny how these narcissistic types can see everyone else's problems so clearly, but can't turn a mirror on themselves. They expect everyone to stop what they're doing, make them, plus whatever drama they have going on, their top priority. Yet they won't ever work on any type of self-improvement or come up with a plan of action to get their lives on a better path. I knew someone just like this. Let's call her Sally. She barely functioned as an adult, but had two kids who she often let fend for themselves. Sally always had money for her hair, her nails, cigarettes and booze, but her kids were barely ever an afterthought. For example, when Sally's youngest, her son, was about seven years old at the time, his teeth were in a terrible state because she never made him brush his teeth and he ate whatever he wanted, but she never had money to provide him proper dental care. Yet Sally suspiciously always had fresh highlights. Sally's eldest, a daughter who is seven years older than her half-brother, was experiencing her "monthly visitor” and Sally was “too broke” to afford to buy her the products she needed to deal with that new aspect in her life, so her daughter had to embarrassingly bum products off of the neighbor's wife. Yet Sally somehow always had money to get a French manicure and a full carton of cigarettes. I cut contact with Sally nearly a decade ago, but heard through a mutual friend (who also went no-contact just before last Christmas) and he told me that Sally's children grew up as children do, went low-contact and have very little if anything to do with her. Sally has also been barred from seeing her grandchildren. OP’s sister needs a great big huge reality check. She sounds like she's a terrible mother, an abject failure as a human being and is in no position to be dolling out any kind of life advice. She's extremely intrusive, disrespectful, full of herself and if she keeps heading down the one-way road of self-destruction that she's on, she will end up isolated, ignored and living a miserable, lonely existence were even her kids want nothing to do with her. I think it would be a very smart idea for OP to put her on a low-information diet up to and including going no-contact.

[@Project_19YT]

In laws: Oh we have no where else to go Op: I forgot the part where that’s my problem In laws: But you love us right please let us stay Op: Womp womp

[@kazan9918]

Tell them to GET LOST!

[@bonapetits]

Because Indian in-laws (husband) believe they've got the birth-right to voice in their opinion about their son's family life, simple as that. Don't you dare give up your US dream for your bf's mother. Make your stand clear from now-on itself, or else you'll regret it heavily in the years to come if you ever marry this bf of yours

[@wavy_maz]

For the first story make them family offer be that they can move in but they need to pay more than what it would’ve made if they didn’t

[@magic8ball1982]

Sounds like OP's fiancé subconsciously blames his mother for the financial struggles he experienced growing up has some built-up resentment, and now is projecting that on OP.

[@montetyler5389]

No, he is telling her what happened, sounds like she wants a transactional relationship. She wants someone that takes care of her so go find someone else

[@Rock__504]

Anyone else noticed the narrator always simpin for every chick he reads for

[@KaiserAfini]

The in laws have a house now and they are creating their own problem. Their moving in will diminish the couple's income during high season and the in laws have no rush to vacate. I think the OP needs to sit them down, tell them to delay the sale until they found a new place and firmly state that they should not expect them to respond to emotional blackmail with good faith.

[@atlasjunky7677]

On the utility's one you guys agreed to handle your own debt and him this bills you these bills (shared bills) and now your contesting it cause he makes more now even tho when he made less or nothing you didn't help his side of the bills now grant it he could've said it beter than the way he did but you guys had an agreement and he just didn't wana change it since you can both afford the current arangement

[@lggsretrofinds4461]

helll no 6months atleast of rent out of your income too beach house too got to be 5k-15k of rent income if good in 6 months depends on area if do sure pay 6 months of rent in advanced u can afford it u were gonna pay rent anyway elsewhere haha

[@makaylawhittum2573]

The OP should have them sign a renters contract. Saying that they will pay an amount every month and they also pay for the utilities (power, water, ect). Have it state that they can stay for six months then leave. If they miss a single payment for anything they are out. This would cause a few reactions. 1) they play the 'were family' card and try to weasel there way into not doing that 2) they agree but never pay. Saying 'we know you were joking' 3)they call you a jerk for bringing up a contract and find somewhere else to live

[@Takeya99]

That voice sounds A LOT like Josh from Let‘s game it out!

[@gettneven4092]

Hell naw to the naw naw! That is a them problem not an OP problem.

[@FonixVR_]

I wish you put what game was in the background, sometimes I want to play them XD

[@exodiatheforbid9355]

The third story is what broke my parents' marriage.

[@ruairi9109]

Good stories today

[@brianjason0710]

Just dont let em in

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

Story 6: The sister is a narcissist.

[@Tubb2581]

Story 5 : This sounds like a cultural difference

[@BladeStar-uq6xe]

Tell them that they will be met by the Cops! Step 1 foot on the property and you will be Frog Marched into the back of a Squad Car!

[@viviennemorgan7217]

op should move out of her house, take him with her or get away from both her boyfriend and his mother .

[@viviennemorgan7217]

i hope the boyfriend has a backbone and stands up to his mother.

[@bonapetits]

the man's indian, and indian men would let their mothers and fathers bully their wives

[@ColourWithChris]

Saw the first one on am I the bad apple

[@rowynnecrowley1689]

You can't force breastfeeding. The only choice you have in that regard, is whether you want to try. But it's ultimately up to the kid. My one dtr didn't wanna give up breastfeeding, and her younger sister wanted nothing to do with it. Also her head was small compared to my boob, so it was hard for her to eat and breathe at the same time. Are you gonna let your kid starve cuz they won't/can't breastfeed? I would seriously hope not.

[@daflaminporg2454]

10 minute squad 👇

[@dor736]

If you’re splitting bills 50/50 your roommates not partners. If you both work then it should split by percentage according to how much you each make according to all the bills.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Nah welcome to equality. Can't spew nonsense of men and women being equal and then complain splitting the bill when it comes in.

[@llcoojoe20]

It's up to each individual couple to agree on how they want to do things. 50/50 isn't a bad thing at all.

[@bobm5951]

No, it should not. It should remain even.

[@Kartwheel-05]

It’s not 50/50. He is paying the whole rent and she is just paying the utilities. In what world are the utilities charges are about the same as rent?

[@angeldust_fan.gurl12345]

okay but what gender is the person that sent you this because I'm so confused.( I mean are they a man or a women I'm just wondering)

[@phoenixgarcia6544]

Hi

[@v.crowley]

Story 3: if you want a partnership... You can't be expected to switch responsibilities just because another gets paid more.. that is toxic.. it's 50/50.. if you can't make it then adjust funds... Before you get into the habit of using him and his money

[@llcoojoe20]

Fr tho. Plus she only pays utility bills. Rent is way more than utilities. He's already doing more.

[@blazeconner5618]

FIRST FINALLY

[@alexanderkeenan7466]

Nice one, first.

[@Unfavorble]

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[@Outbreak-px7zf]

Saying he has a provider mentality sounds like an excuse that you are using to skirt the hes a male he should be providing for me. Sure he may make more but if you have your agreement then how does it look on you if you wanna go back on it. If you need help then say so. His being you need a better job is abit heartless. You are both jerks you need to work more but he can contribute abit more not alot though because otherwise what difference are you to leeching off him.

[@Sandsoldier32]

First

[@channingdavis5541]

“Oh you should pay more because you make more” man shut up. You sound like you want to keep your money to yourself. You’re trying to get him to pay for everything, you’re not fooling anyone lady.

[@Tubb2581]

Story 3: Shit and? Yes UR the 🍑🕳️. It's taking care of his responsibility and he's is providing. OP was right, his raises shouldn't equal more money for her

[@Cinnmonral]

One Hour Gang ↓ ↓ ↓ ( i wont respond to this so dont call me like begger pls )