Karen makes OUTRAGEOUS DEMANDS at WEDDING RECEPTION... then DEMAND A REFUND when we get it Wrong

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@CopeRob]

Story 2 She never said sorry or tried to apologize or make amends. I understand that it’s not her fault but still, she could’ve at least known at the age of 17 that She could’ve at least tried to make amends and tell them how it’s not her fault but. She never even said sorry doesn’t understand how it felt for them, and it never said anything about she having to take out a loan so I don’t understand how they made their other children but she didn’t have to. Also, if those other children didn’t get that offer from the family, how does this make it fair that they have to take out loans and she gets an offer that no one else gets an in cost makes it be 100 K, which someone would say could’ve been more because of how much they had to pay back and interest.

[@TheJcjonesacp]

Agree, if amends were attempted, if a heartfelt apology was made it would’ve made a world of difference in this situation but nothing was done On her end.

[@HWC91]

Last story: both aren't "jerks" OP and the husband has different perspectives on the name. This is like when an immoveable object meets an unstoppable force. Hope they can find a compromise.

[@H3xx99]

Not gonna lie, I'd be pretty pissed too if Leena was the reason I had to go into massive debt just for a normal degree. But I'd be more pissed at my parents for playing favorites and giving Leena special preference.

[@Icalasari]

I'd be pissed that they thought letting a kid _self direct education like that_ was a good idea Like, what in the hell?

[@diceyholmgren2651]

Story 2 The poster and their siblings aren't the ahole. Their parents made the mistake with Lena by not continuing her home schooling, and the other kids had to pay the price for that. The older ones had to take out loans for schooling, and it's most likely a mixture for their own and to go to the 100,000 dollar donation to the private school for Lena. Well, the younger kids who were in public school getting a good education had to be transferred to a public school. And those schools have decent education at best. Just so the money the parents were using could go to the donation for Lean to graduate on time so she could go to college that another family member offered to pay for! The parents pretty much said screw you to their other kids and their futures just so they could fix the mess they made just so Lena could get a free ride to college.

[@magic8ball1982]

Story 1: I'm wondering if they could have sued bridezilla for loss of revenue after they got the staff sick.

[@QuickManEXE]

Or, if nothing else, the harassment and slander.

[@The_Senior662]

Bro I haven’t watched it yet and thought you said “Godzilla”😭💀

[@Stanley.77]

They would have no legal standing. You can't sue someone for giving you a cold, nor would anyone be able to prove that it was that particular group that got them sick. The shot was 100% *INEFFECTIVE* at preventing transmission, as we now know, so for all we know, the staff could have gotten sick from someone not even in that party. So, no.

[@angelamurray2725]

My asthmatic, COPD suffering husband caught COVID because my grandsons pals mum doesn’t believe in it. Not only did he stay overnight in our home but now my husband has a lung condition that started not long after he had COVID. He was roughly 75 when he got COVID. Before his coughing got too bad he could still run up 15 steps inside our home. Not Now 😢

[@ceiraemerson-moody2970]

With the final story OP should give a little leeway. Yes, it has negative meaning to her, but for him it's one of the most important people in his life and very positive. How would OP feel if this was reversed and she really wanted to pick a sentimental name but it has negative meaning to him? Find a middle ground, use it as a middle name, or maybe use the grandmother's middle name instead provided it's a name you two don't mind.

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: As someone who has been a cook for 20+ years and has done banquets and wedding like this, i can tell you that workers absolutely hate people like these Karens. Also, with all their stupid and rude demands, the OP shouldve given the 4 great words of "Right To Refuse Service". People like these Karens just arent worth the hastle and definitely not worth the business. This night sounded like an absolute disaster and i feel bad for the OP here. Also, the wedding planner/co-ordinater deserves mud slung at her too, and probably fired too...she really made all of this from very bad to downright worse. People like that shouldnt be going into the kitchen like that and doing what she did, i know a lot of chefs despise that. As for all the threats and slander, i know i wouldn't have given them any kind of refund and probably wouldve sued them for all of that. With everyone's statements and im sure camera footage, the Karens wouldve been screwed in court. The absolute cherry on the crap sundae was the fact that not only were they all Covid deniers, but they managed to get everyone there sick? WTH! Is there anything that the OP and other staff can do against these Karens for getting them all sick? I would've sued them and probably charged them triple for everything. Story 2: No way is the OP a jerk here, this is solely on the parents here for dropping a $100,000 'donation' to try and push Lena through the last bit of schooling here, and then dropping the money on the rest of the siblings. I dont know how big of a jerk Lena can be considered here, but i can definitely see why the rest of the siblings resent here, and i think that it is totally justified here... it doesnt matter if it just happened or if it was 10 years ago. The rest of the siblings shouldn't have had their futures ruined just because of her. Story 3: Not the jerk here, and im a bit hard pressed to say the daughter is a big jerk too. While i do think the daughter should've stayed in therapy for her bad anxiety, it really is her decision to do so... and it apparently wasnt the right one. As for the wedding, maybe the sister shouldn't have attended if she was going to have that bad of anxiety. Her actions towards the OP was uncalled for, but the sister probably shouldn't have gone. Story 4: Absolutely not the jerk here. I think everyone has names that they would never name a child after certain people, and for many reasons not just from bullying. I know there are some names i wouldnt name a son or daughter after my bullies... or just names that i dont like. The husband here is being unreasonable to not see that this name (Sophia) is a problem for the OP. While i get that the name has a positive significance for him, he really needs to consider the negative significance of that name to the OP.

[@gabrielyoon174]

When do you have the time to type that

[@OscarBinks-d7e]

Agreed

[@svpracer98]

Story 1 I've not even heard all the way through and I've already determined I would walk out on the job.

[@drakephoenixfeather4056]

Story 3: OP's daughter should know how to find ways to handle her anxiety at least a little bit by now. If it's a new issue, then she needs to start learning. I have really bad anxiety too, to the point where I had to stop doing some things I love in order to try and try and take care of myself without inconveniencing other people. I admit, it takes a while to fully understand what can trigger your anxiety and an anxiety/panic attack (they're very similar but they are different attacks), but it's your job as an adult with a condition to try and understand how you can try to handle the issue as best as you can, without depriving others

[@TheDarkLink7]

With the third story. Hahahaha I am getting such 90's vibe with that. You don't like it? Then go wait in the car.

[@firefly4f4]

"It's been like 10 years..." So? It's blatant favoritism on the part of the parents. How is it all the kids starting off equal when one essentially gets her high school and job opportunity paid for when all the other kids have to take out loans that will take more than those 10 years to pay off? You're way off base with this one.

[@thomasdobson2158]

so i'm having issues with this narrator in the last story he's the jerk because he wants to honor someone special that was in his life. but she's not a jerk for not recognizing that and pushing her own point of view on the name. i mean what does she do if she gets a coworker with the same name as her bully?

[@thomasdobson2158]

@@Azulakayes invalid point I'm not arguing anything by asking a question.

[@llcoojoe20]

Op has a victim mentality like gtf over it. Sad how a lot of ppl these days have a victim mentality. But it's her kid too at the end of the day. Eh

[@thomasdobson2158]

@@Azulakayes you are arguing stupid by trying to make this about relationships. but the whole problem is about the name only she doesn't want to hear it on a daily basis, so my co-worker question has a valid point. her hearing the name brings up what happened to her. so, the only one turning my question into an argument is you and it's a pointless one.

[@nadinesharp9766]

​@@thomasdobson2158 No, you're wrong. You're comparing apples and oranges. There is no equivalency between the name of a co-worker and what one names their child. And "you are arguing stupid"? Really?

[@cybermainstream]

​@nadinesharp9766 You're wrong I won't elaborate. That's how you sound.

[@JD-yz4kr]

Story 1: OP is the jerk for acceding to all the requests of the Karen in the first place just to get her business. He should have told her to go find another caterer.

[@Horroscath]

What do you call a nice Karen. Non existent

[@nadinesharp9766]

Mythical

[@princessmarlena1359]

Story 1: I’ve worked in catering, and I absolutely HATE Bridezillas, Karens, Kyles, annoying/stupid event planners, and abusive event guests in general. I totally relate to this story.

[@Ayeses-w8e]

Story:4 I don't think that her husband was being a gerck cus wen your parents aren't around 2 take care of you, and your grandma is the only one that's taking care of you you will be attached to that person and everything about her so you'll find it important that you're child is named after her, and you'll be very angry and aggressive if you don't get your way so it's a loss loss for everyone. (I'm righting a hole fucking assay)

[@fishcity5844]

Oh gosh! The first story gave me a headache just listening to it..

[@crazycooolchannel8783]

At the end, the mother was the jerk because it was his grandmother who raised him and he should at least have the name on the list I feel like she was being totally unreasonable not even taking into account and she was still holding a grudge from her childhood that doesn't even matter honestly if I was being bullied when I was in high school I would have forgotten it as soon as I got out of high school this mother just seems like an emotionally unstable person who can't deal with her own problems.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

it's also the name of her high school bully

[@allielawson9998]

social anxiety story. she is also being a bad influence on the little brother regardless of her mental health issues.

[@treygotlost3661]

This channel is how I sleep at night

[@kishaa819]

Story one: thought he said bushy instead of pushy… had a very strange image

[@viviennemorgan7217]

op's not the jerk for not leaving her son's wedding but shelly is the jerk for telling her to drive her home like no you can't, stay in the car.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

because your mother is here to attend your brother's wedding.

[@mrpopcorn709]

im new somthin was up when he said they were unvaccinated

[@crazycooolchannel8783]

Being unvaccinated is not a factor

[@ellenosceola5707]

Why would anyone take a job like this? I wouldn’t.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Here we go again, I swear the narrator says stuff like he does in the last story just to drive engagement. Bro you're out here trying to say the husband should consider the wife's feelings but what about the husband. Yes the name Sophia has a negative memories on the original poster, but for her husband it has positive memories attached to it. It's like the narrator doesn't care about the husband's feelings at all and it really makes you look like a jerk, narrator.

[@Azreail13]

Yeah Simprattor is a fairly common occurance here.

[@rainbowpegacornstudios]

Story 1: Is Bridezilla even aware that she was mistreating people who could've easily spit in her food in retaliation?

[@williamcalderon1330]

His 1000th episode

[@darvish2012]

For the story that ends at around the 17 minute mark, OP was the complete jerk. However, Shelly was also being a bit of a jerk as well. If OP wanted to do something, then driver Shelly to a near restaurant or someplace where there will be less people so she can calm down.

[@UtforskarTUBE]

Story 3: My dad wanted to name me Ruben, but my mom didn't and my dad where just fine with it, and it's not even becuse of some bad memories, she just didn't want the name, (most of this is what i just think happend i was around not even born then)

[@josephdickinson5183]

In the last story she is 100% the jerk. Its not like he wants to use the name because he likes it but because he has strong emotional ties to his grandmother and that trumps her not wanting it because of her bully i completely disagree and she does need to get over it.

[@georgewalters6942]

The Covid jab doesn’t stop you from spreading it.

[@BaxterAndLunala]

Final Story: Both are jerks. OP is the jerk for not compromising to be considerate of her husband's grandmother, and her husband is the jerk for not backing down and seeing how insensitive he was being.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

how are op's husband the jerk and op the jerks?

[@BaxterAndLunala]

@@viviennemorgan7217 I literally explained why. Learn to read the whole segment.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@BaxterAndLunala i did and op didn't want to pick the name of sophia because of her bully from high school.

[@BaxterAndLunala]

@@viviennemorgan7217 You think I didn't hear the whole story? What I said is purely subjective.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@BaxterAndLunala dude you think that op and the husband are jerks all because they can't choose a name for their baby daughter.

[@blaktigr84]

Story 4: On the Contrary, this is what we call a P.O.V.P(Point-of-View Problem). OP said that she's OK with anyone else who's name is Sophia, but apparently she's still traumatized about it, & who'd blame her after what she went through with that bully? That's what she doesn't think that her husband is getting, otherwise he'd have talked to her about it & asked why she won't even allow him to mention, let alone consider that name as an option for a potential daughter. However, she posted this story as if this is the first time she's ever heard that her husband's late grandmother, whom was the most positively memorable person in his life, is also named Sophia, because she's not listening to, or even as such caring about, his feelings either. This couple is definitely not communicating enough with each other. Otherwise, this story never would've happened.

[@nadinesharp9766]

Maybe he never mentioned her actual name, he probably called her grandma or similar.

[@ColourWithChris]

Story 3 yes you are it's also your husband baby I hope you don't try and give the kid a name after someone in your life because if I was husband that'd be vetoed right then and there

[@TheJcjonesacp]

Story 1 wow that was just disgusting Story 2 not they are not the jerk. It’s more then just the money, no amends were even attempted by the sister parents for this awful situation, 10 years or no, I get it isn’t entirely her fault but she should feel some guilt about the fact she screwed over her siblings even indirectly. Story 3 that daughter is an entitled piece of crap, my sister has anxiety but she deals and manages it every day, this daughter should’ve ubered home. Entitled piece of crap Story 4 Not the jerk, I will always remember the name of my bully, I still remember his face from middle school, and hey didn’t curb him then and he made it hard for me in middle school every day. I’m overweight, was then and am today but I was bullied for it but damn…he teased and insulted me a lot and I will never name a child of mine after them.

[@eric98292]

For thr baby name story, just use the grandma's middle name.

[@Drunkpunk420]

My wife didn't want to name our daughter the name I suggested because of bad connotations but after learning the reason why I wanted that name we agreed as a middle name. You're the jerk find a happy middle ground

[@viviennemorgan7217]

op's the jerk for not choosing a name for her baby what's going on?

[@drakephoenixfeather4056]

​@viviennemorgan7217 OP doesn't like the name for her and her partner's baby because she associates the name with her childhood bully, OP's partner loves the name because he associates with his grandmother who means a lot to him and basically raised him. She's mad he won't see her side but she's not seeing his either

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@drakephoenixfeather4056 i can understand both sides of this the bully's name is the name of the grandmother right?

[@drakephoenixfeather4056]

@@viviennemorgan7217 Yes. I can very much see both sides, the problem is neither side seems to seeing the other's and trying to find a compromise On a personal note about the story, I hate the name Anthony/Tony/Toni (its my deadname as well as my stepdad's name and he was very emotionally absuove toward me so its a very painful name), and for a long time I did automatically dislike people named Anthony (which the OP said she doesn't do with people named Sophia), but I've grown and I can accept Anthonys in my life now and if I ever had a partner that wanted to name our theoretical child Anthony, I'd be very uncomfortable but I'd try to find a middle ground with them

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@drakephoenixfeather4056 this is her child not your child.

[@cybermainstream]

Did the narrator listen to the same story we did on story 2?

[@robertbattles]

Last story husband is not a jerk, and honestly it seems like the wife is being one. They have different opinions on the name Sophia, but she won't even consider it because of bullying over a decade before. The wife needs to grow up and move on.

[@mejustme8138]

Uuuuurrrrgghh... When you start with "unvaccinated"... Really. After all we now know

[@vikassharmacse]

In your forth story .....why that guy cant name his daughter shopia ...it's his grandmother's name...who gave good memories to him ...

[@angelamurray2725]

And a Sophia had many bad memories for OP. OP NTA

[@carls1959]

Lena didn't do anything wrong?? It's been 10 years and you should get over it?? Do you think most college loans are paid off in 10 years?

[@Tarantulasvenom]

7:16

[@Elprod3aqi]

Yes

[@Hellokittyy-4lifee]

HIII im finaly early love your videos❤❤❤

[@Stanley.77]

The problem I have with the #1 OP, is he/she labeled the karens as *"unvaccinated."* How would OP know know their private medical history? Also, being that it is the 2020s, I'm assuming by "unvaccinated," OP is implying that they didn't volunteer to take a completely ineffective, extremely dangerous, experimental concoction that, by definition, is not even a vaccine! I'm absolutely not condoning "karen behavior," but had they all taken the jab, it would have made ZERO difference in preventing the spread of covid-19 -something much less serious than the seasonal flu. IMO, OP #1 sounds like a bit of a judgemental karen herself/himself.

[@nadinesharp9766]

Maybe when all the staff started getting sick at the same time they asked some of the Karen group and they admitted it. They can give out their own info if they want.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

The medicine in the arm Minecrafted a bunch of people not to mention people still got sick. Also didn't the staff in the first one get shots to prevent them from getting the coof?

[@nadinesharp9766]

I know a lot of people who got the shots and still got it.

[@Cinnmonral]

Hellooooo

[@Lot1b0t]

within 1 minute yayy

[@v.crowley]

Story 4: OP is the jerk.. because she is also not listening to the husband… who knows how long ago OP was in school.. but to immediately say no to her husband wanting to name the child after the dead woman who raised him is ridiculous

[@nadinesharp9766]

Who are you to say how long it should take someone to get over painful things or how they should feel? Take a hike and take your ridiculous opinion with you.

[@v.crowley]

@@nadinesharp9766 .. when it affects your life/current relationships... It's kinda time to reevaluate your life 🤣🤣

[@nadinesharp9766]

@@v.crowley Again, who are you to decide what someone else should do, or when? You're just a pompous know-nothing who thinks they have the right to judge someone else's pain or trauma. Get over your overblown self.

[@codm22712]

I’m first with 2 seconds

[@Turtle5707]

Nice

[@codm22712]

@@Turtle5707 at what point is it stalking 😂

[@Cinnmonral]

Guess im late-

[@Turtle5707]

@@codm22712 ? I'm confused

[@codm22712]

@@Turtle5707 I meant at what point it to early

[@fat-hen649]

Please stop calling them Karens. Not everyone named Karen is automatically a piece of horse crap. It isn't funny to make an identity for a person who was mean, pick a name and expect nobody named Karen to be called a jerk. How is this okay?