25 Year Old Virgin Gone His Own Way

Got this question from a 25 year old virgin thats taken the red pill and gone MGTOW...
Hi,
I'm 25 and a virgin. I don't care about losing my virginity, I don't care about women, I just want to work and become successful.
I'm pretty sure I'm never getting married due to the divorce rates and women cheating in the relationship etc...You know the deal. I don't have alot of friends and the ones i do I keep them at arms length. You could say I have acquaintances. I just dont trust don't trust people. Im good at socialising with people and getting new friends but I preffer being alone.
I've grown up in a single mother household, with 9 female cousins and 2 sisters in the same house. You'd think this would make me hate women or become gay but neither of them happened. I see women in a very different light than most guys, personally I think living with so many females my whole life has kind of made me soft. I tend to simpathise with people alittle too much. I tend to bend over backwards just to make someone smile or feel comfortable and I feel like im always the one carrying the comverstion. Esepcially in "Social" event I'm always the one asking questions about the other person trying to get to know him/her, trying to get him/her to open up and talk about herself but their answers are always yes or not really or no. So after years of this I've reached a point where I get bored with things/people very fast hence why I'm not and never gonna be in a relationship with a woman. And in social events or public, I put on a serious/angry face and really don't give a fuck about who or what is there. I've been to parties and jumped and danced and done all the "normal" teenage stuff but like I said I get bored easily. You can only get shit faced so many times and wake up the next day feeling like a truck hit you in the head. About why I'm still a virgin, I just don't give a fuck!
My question is, is there room for improvement or am I a lost case? Also what can I do to be a colder person?

[@Extrasailor]

Depending on women is more terrifying than virginity.

[@laraking804]

FUKU TORA unless you are disabled, sick or elderly you shouldn’t depend on ANYONE. Why the fuck would you be dependent of a woman? What a weird comment.

[@jma4976]

@@laraking804for happiness

[@laraking804]

j ma Happiness NEVER depends on another person. It is ALWAYS an inside job. That’s why you will always find happy and unhappy people despite their circumstances. Happiness that comes from stuff and other people is superficial. You can squeeze orange juice from a lemon.

[@timwalkerjr99]

Lara King You called his comment weird but agreed with him completely.

[@Retheraq]

@@laraking804 Because if you want sex you depend on women? It was not a weird comment.

[@bitkurd]

29 and I have never touched a woman before. I have a six figure job as well and could not be happier for what I chose. I just cant accept the fact that she got touched by 300 bad boys and suddenly she want to take over the empire Im building.

[@gbjanuary]

soranov any guy who values himself does not want a women who been used by plenty of guys eeeewwwww 👎👎

[@eatmymeatmilfster1470]

@@gbjanuary are you a fucking girl?

[@bitkurd]

eat my meat Milfster nope, I believe Im the real man here

[@JD-po3yl]

SORANOV suuuuuuure mate

[@gcoinj8210]

If the only thing u think of when u see a girl and have a hate for that girl u might be gay

[@BronzeLincolns81]

the guy is young and it's probably for the best that he isn't messing around with chics right now. the 20s for men is the time for us to be establishing ourselves and building. he's doing the right thing in saying that he's focused on being successful in career and achieving his life goals.

[@paulmyers5017]

Why not as long as the motivation is the passion of your activity and not just money for the sake of money or social congratulation.

[@jackt7331]

Establishing yourself while creating memories and enjoying the only time of your life you can go parties and drink and have fun . That would be better

[@spartanman5231]

yes absolutely im in my 30s now and when I was younger I never had a girlfriend and I just always saved my money now I have a house that's paid off and living well. Without all that teen female drama bullshit I never needed or wanted any part of it and im better off.

[@Ross-ve9ww]

@@jackt7331 just cause you reach 30 doesn’t mean you can no longer have fun and be happy lol

[@supernova1976]

I think he actually gives a fuck about getting layed and therefore he repeated it in his comment and the whole comment was an emergency scream for help. IMHO.

[@alanveiga452]

Yes. MGTOW is a dead end. I doubt any of the guys who have gone MGTOW are happy.

[@jammyrapper7426]

@@alanveiga452 they are

[@endlessthoughtspartitionma1349]

@@alanveiga452 some men are really more happy alone than with a women believe me not every man is the same just like not every women is. i'm pretty sure they are women who rather stay alone too. the dead end is when you're 6 feet under, what you till this day do ,whatever you like. no need for judging those with diff views. sorry english not first language but i did my best.

[@jasonblack-joseph1305]

I can some what relate with this John guy. I'm a single child that was raised by a single mother. Going through high school I didn't care for interacting with girls at all as it seemed to be a bunch of bullshit. Now, that I've been out of high school for almost three years I'm actually interested in having a rommantic relationship with a woman. In addition to that I've also come to grip with the fact that there's nothing wrong with me not being interested in having any relationship but a rommantic one with a woman. And on the same hand, I enjoy hanging out with my guy friends and I still have the need for a masculine role in my life. That's all due to me being raised by a woman. Like our man in the video said, find yourself an awesome group of guys to hang out with. Hanging out with women, for soul guidence, is not going to make you into the man you want to be.

[@TheIPGCorporations]

Leave him be. His choices don't infringe upon others.

[@Thomzz95]

Retro Gaming & Music but lets be honest, some people still feel some type of way towards people who are different from them. I bet he gets a lot of shit from simps and narcissistic women.

[@charliervrs]

If he's typing out his life in a KZbin channel dedicated for advice and growth, he does not feel ok with his current situation and expects someone to respond to him, all hiding under the "I don't care" attitude.

[@paulmyers5017]

Is this an advice channel ? I didn't know. I thought I was on a sociologic analysis channel.

[@charliervrs]

@@paulmyers5017 Well I come here because I want to listen to the experiences and knowledge from men who have been living twice the amount I have and try to implement whatever applies to my life. Yes, that's advice and growth.

[@Doors067]

preach it mitch!

[@comanchefun1612]

I think it’s cool he’s still a virgin. Simply because that’s where it starts. You can’t be controlled or manipulated by something you’ve never experienced. An yes you can definitely be successful flying solo, just be prepared to be the lonely and likely bitter king sitting by his self in his castle. Live YOUR life the way you wanna live it bro. Try to make your first a full 10. Best of luck sir.

[@gogomostar]

You don't lose anything, you can just gain something. Virginity is social construct, in my opinion. Being a virgin, if you choose it that way until you find someone that makes you comfortable enough is totally okay and I wish all the people in the world were like that. I don't think how can Western and American culture in particular, where kids have sex, everything is about having fun, enjoying... can bring something good in future. If you want to have a successuful life, you need a partner with a strong sense of duty and moral. I don't see how could I appreciate a girl who used to sleep around with new dude every other weekend. The same thing goes for males. I think the less partners you have, the happier your potential marriage will be. Sex is like anything else, the more you go for it, your appetite never stops. So my advice to all young people, be truly yourself and stay true to you and the right people will definitely respect you!

[@godswordsaves7673]

Gogo90_mo Amen

[@mommabear5059]

Gogo90_mo agree fully!!! It’s ALL about self-control. The more you practice it, the better off you are.

[@jedziahdaxx2994]

Thank you!! Yes I agree

[@ReasonAboveEverything]

The number of sexual partners correlates the chances of divorce. The more you fuck around the higher chances for divorce there is. What is called hypergamy nowadays might well be( to an extent) just an sexual appetite gone mad.

[@gangatalishis]

"if you choose it" yeah he didnt.

[@PGM82607]

Damn I feel like this dude is talking about my life right now

[@logicreason3231]

I'm 29 and a virgin. I received a doctorate at the age of 24, have a six-figure job, and am basically free. I'm an introvert and I don't have any friends, but that's by choice. I never leave my house, and I play videogames all the time. My job is extremely difficult so my time off is precious. I couldn't imagine coming home to another person.

[@ProGamerSergiu]

just buy hookers man. lol

[@GodricThe]

high end hooker is your answer, even though you didn't ask for advice, you came to brag, didn't you :D

[@alanveiga452]

what load of crap.

[@LordWaterWalker]

just keep going, I'm 4 years younger than this guy and on a similar path, high paying software developer job, my advanced degrees completed etc. This is the youngest you'll ever be. So I say go for it. You have nothing to lose. Most people I work with are at least 10 years older than me and I see them constantly pick up new things, skills and pivot in their careers. TL;DR: Go get it!

[@joshuadc82]

Logic Reason Time is precious but you spend it playing video games?

[@giorgospapadopoulos7709]

Divorce rates is not the problem. The problem is the 70-80% initiation rate by women, and hell, women are not even supposed to take initiatives. This means that they totally dominate the option table.

[@rushrush1209]

That's why so many men are opting out. The cards are so stacked against men. The point of marriage is forever not divorce.

[@tengublack3299]

@@rushrush1209 most men are sent there own way

[@jeanettapocius2286]

I see the rate of 80% of divorces initiated by women thrown out there a lot and I won't dispute that, but... The supposition that it is all because of hypergamy is shortsighted and an easy out in my opinion.

[@halfbloodprincess989]

Yes, but those women might have a good reason to divorce. A lot of men don't age particulary well, becoming lazy over the years. When the children are still young, the wifes of husbands like this often don't initiate divorce, because they don't want to do this to their children. So the resentment grows over the years... If you are married, don't take your wife for granted and don't be lazy in showing her your love and helping with household duties, otherwise don't be surprised if she one day divorces or cheats. Women cheat more often and even an ugly female has an easy time finding guys, who want to have sex with her. A lot of men literally don't see their divorce comming, altough it has been brewing for years. And a lot of the time, altough the wife is the one initiating the divorce, the husband is at fault for it just as much.

[@Jojo_D_Northstar]

@@tengublack3299 who cares if they are sent their own way. They are better off single

[@jerryesque3747]

Just enjoy life. Im gonna be a 30 year old virgin soon. Have a good job, good friends, just work, good health, good faith. This guy almost sounds alot like me tbh, except I've grown up with a lot of men role models. They were very tough to be around. I'm not dismissing woman, but I'm not the most eager for it to be honest. I guess it's not normal, But its more woman for the next guy if it makes him happy. I feel pretty good for now, who knows if I meet someone one day. Anything could happen

[@mmatadore1]

Still virgin ?

[@floridamankyle5461]

I'm 28 years old, I also have kept my Virginity, it keeps my mind clear. I don't let my Hormones put me in a Bad Situation when it comes to Women because that can happen way more often now-a-days. I have learned to be happy whether I am alone or in a relationship and it is Shocking to see how Shallow most women are, I have found that Charisma and being able to start and hold conversations with people gets women intrigued very easily. people that I have met first see my lifestyle as Strange, but with time, they see the Value in the way I live. For one to be free, one must see the Positive in every Situation, but one must keep 2 things close at hand, Virginity and Skepticism Good things come to those that wait, Go your own way, make your own Trail.

[@illusionbreaker7789]

Amen

[@shadowemperor5766]

I am a 25 virgin myself because I will not get married because it is a scam made by companies and there are a very few rewards that men get from marriage.

[@aquious953]

I think that 50% divorce rate, is based on the first 5 or 10yrs of marriage. Once you get past the 10yr mark, that number increases exponentially.

[@commonsense3921]

Yeah it goes up to almost 70% if you stretch it to 20 years, 😂, Now we know why they only want to give you the 10 year data.

[@rubioalvin]

Thank you. I'm also in the same situation as this guy. Definitely needed them. However, I'm into growing my circle of friends and interested in self help

[@varietyyachtsvessels6769]

The 25 Year Old Virgin Has a Big Fat Wallet, Drama Free Household, No Pesky STD's to Worry About And Is Not Currently Behind On His Child Support And Alimony Payments. That's A Great Deal To Be Grateful For!

[@wilfordmadyira1898]

I like the way you craft these stories.

[@b5kalad]

Sounds like me when I was 25.

[@XwolfBane18]

b5kalad how old are you now and how is your life changed from since 25

[@lucascoelho1995]

Sounds like me and I’m 26

[@brandonjohnson9084]

I feel that. This was me just this year (27) until I hit this channel. Luckily both push you to better yourself and enjoy your life to the fullest. I just wish I had been taught this sooner.

[@nezarl8374]

@@lucascoelho1995 Same age as me Stay strong

[@VincentsVideoVisions]

I have a different sort of problem. I'm 38 and lost my virginity at 18. I'd say my 'body count' is somewhere in the mid thirties but tbh I don't know the exact number because so many of them were one night stands and random hook-ups. The problem that I have is that finding someone to date is freakin' impossible. I've only had two actual girlfriends in my entire life. I never dated at all throughout high school and felt like a total loser for it. I finally got my first girlfriend when I was 24 and I think the only reason why we got together was because we were both just super lonely and wanted to be with someone. That relationship didn't last very long... I broke up with her after less than a year because I found this other girl I was really crazy about and she showed interest. I felt like a piece of shit but I knew my heart wasn't in it. I immediately started dating this other chick and it lasted maybe 9 months because she broke up with me out of nowhere for no reason. She never explained why. This was when I was 25.... so 13 years ago. Been single ever since and not for a lack of trying. I've had several 'friends with benefits' situations since then but any time I express real romantic interest in a woman there is ZERO reciprocity. It makes me feel worthless. I used to hate having crushes and not having those feelings returned but the really shitty part nowadays is that I haven't even found a single woman in like 3-4 years now that I have any interest in. They all suck! Also, the older I get the more I want to date younger women because as rough as it is to say, women my age are starting to really look old and almost all of the single ones have kids from at least one man and I don't want to be a stepdad. I want my OWN kids. The whole situation pisses me off and it's left me feeling helpless and frustrated and in the past couple of years I've basically become an incel because I can't 'play the game' anymore. I don't have the patience for it, plus I don't hang out at bars and clubs anymore. When I'm not at work, I'm at home. I don't want to grow old and single without a family. :/

[@joeroot9142]

Not all, Ashanti is 40 and she’s badass in her looks.

[@VincentsVideoVisions]

@@joeroot9142 The average 40 year old woman is not Ashanti. Also, black people on average tend to age better than other races because they are constantly moisturizing.

[@ferdoeric596]

What is your financial situation?

[@eliphas_catdaddy7982]

*62.6%dicorce rate for Canada. Cheers bluepills! Happy servitude!

[@arielrotman]

Spain 65%

[@sombreroalien5121]

Eliphas! You treasonous dog!

[@enceept7950]

39.6 here lol

[@jezusmongool6999]

in belgium 70%

[@tengublack3299]

These divorce rates show you that most guys are unattractive

[@polskikanayt1228]

So far I saw few of your videos and I have to say that in my eye they are very good :)

[@polskikanayt1228]

Can you say why do you think so? I am curious of your opinion

[@ruckerrc]

With that brother around so many women growing up its not surprising he has trust issues. Great advice you gave to him.

[@sharky0922]

I'm virgin too and i'm much older than that guy. And very similar too him. I never cared about other people companion, I thought I have time and so on to get girl.. Girls never were into me, in total whole my life i know of 3-5 women that showed me some kind of attention. But either I wasn't interested in them or just fucked up something. I never went out actively look for women. I never cared that much about it either. So after many years being alone , never even got a girl. Then I understood there is something wrong with me, I have odd character that pushes people away and makes them dislike me from the start. And its funny because I always helped people a lot. And its not worth it. People will think of you less and its gonna come back and bite you in the ass. I will be alone forever and will stay virgin. Im not interested in sex or people. Pretty sure im asexual. Some people get "bad" hand in life you cant do anything about it. Im just happy that I finally got it and understood whats what. I went full on MGTOW 2 years ago. I Quit job, cut family contact and those 2-3 people I knew to 1. Changed place I live. Keeping human contact to minimum. If only there were Lighthouse Jobs available I would go for that.

[@aaravtaneja2626]

" Some people get "bad" hand in life you cant do anything about it. Im just happy that I finally got it and understood whats what. " Words of Wisdom .

[@commonmanv.3257]

Sharky the thing is that women like bad men. The more help you do to other people the more they hate you.

[@commonmanv.3257]

Emmanuel Olojo ?

[@commonmanv.3257]

Emmanuel Olojo i just ignore every woman. For some weird reason it makes me happy especially the part where i give no fucks to what they think. The frustration caused to them by my ignoring is just amazing.

[@paulmyers5017]

Companionship was my plan A. That didn't turn out, so now I'm focused on plan B. Not that I hate other people and enjoy being alone day after day. But I don't think it's sad and miserable, you just do other things and if people'want to hang out with me that's just fine, but that never happens.

[@seasonedveteran7732]

Child support/Disguised Alimony and every other weekends suck. Contraception is still a gamble. Condoms break. Not worth it anymore.

[@davidwallace6772]

Great to find a channel with sound and reasonable advice, not going to wild extremes in order to get clicks

[@Surgicaldamage]

The more a man lives around other men, the more he knows about men. The more he lives around women, the less he knows about women. This doesn't have much to do with this video but it just dawned on me.

[@flambelk4489]

There is so much truth in this. Being a man is in part, something you learn, and to learn how to be a man you need to be exposed to manhood. This is done either via family or friends. The poor bloke here grew up in a household with what 11 women, and on top of that he's got no male friends. You cannot learn something without seeing others doing it. You can even see this happen in other animals too.

[@toddalan5603]

Mihai A agreed. The more I’m around them the more I’m repulsed by them

[@HelvecioGomes]

The more you interact with women the more you doesn't want to interact with any.

[@nickabbott319]

Surgicaldamage true that,I’ve always been the only dude in my house

[@creepyaxe]

As the great Al Bundy said, "Only women understand women, and they hate each other."

[@TheControlBlue]

Preaching the Truth, Brother!

[@ricksanchezsflask8794]

You have a soothing voice. It's up there with Morgan Freeman and the dude from the Allstate commercials. Good advice.

[@eddevelazquez2866]

I managed to take time to build a relationship with God through prayer. Sure I may not be in a physical relationship with a woman but at least I feel loved spiritually.

[@commonmanv.3257]

Edde V. Go for kundalini yoga mate. You will have happiness for ever.

[@PandaPanda-qm5eh]

I'm working on that rn

[@filippians413]

Finally, someone brought up God. Every person has a God shaped hole and we will never be satisfied without Him.

[@BidoMaggot]

Was expecting a butthurt atheist in here, glad i didn't see one

[@jameslopez3635]

I have a different perspective on this person's situation. It is getting harder and harder for "certain types of men" to be successful when women dominate the workforce as managers,bosses,owners,and etc. I am speaking from experience that women in leadership positions will "ride roughshod" over masculine men,not feminine men. I know this because the last two jobs I had involved one Food and Beverage Manager that was a woman,and one Manager that was a woman. Both treated me with disrespect,never gave compliments,instead that was replaced with criticism,and always had some issue outside of work on their mind. Now you tell me how a man that wants to work,and be successful in life works in those kind of conditions,or situations is gonna be a success in today's brave new world ? Personally,I would rather work for a very cool honest boss that is a man,then work with a difficult,deplorable,hateful woman who dislikes or hates men. As more women gain power in the workforce,the less men want to motivate themselves to get out there and be productive to society. It's no wonder MGTOW is "metastasizing" for men at a rapid clip.

[@redevous]

James Lopez You are so right. I am a woman and I don’t like having women bosses at all. It’s sad.

[@jamesbra4410]

Many women are oblivious to the word "respect". Some women are very sweet and understanding (taken) but most women are oblivious to showing respect and obsessed with imposing their power over others. That's basically saying that this new society is being ruled by insecure women without a formal education in showing "respect".

[@commonmanv.3257]

James Lopez finally someone said it

[@simplyminimalist6302]

Ageed

[@MelaninMagdalene]

That toxic femininity in the workplace taking away overtime.

[@victorbruce3315]

Thanks for the great advice and the opportunity you give man to understand our nature.

[@katherineelaine1500]

Read The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino and a couple of books by Dale Carnegie. Those two explain how to build yourself up and how to master relationships in order to have a successful business.

[@Logan24855]

That was me, in my youth in school. Know what I found out? I had no friends, except for maybe 1 or 2 and my headspace was a bit crazy back then too. I wasn’t tolerant of others, couldn’t stomach the cliques nor the institution of academia. I’m 40 now, I’ve completed my personal training certificate, got my business up and running and know exactly what I want to do for the rest of my life. But I 100% agree with Uncle Rich here, try a bit socializing with Men....go to car meets, workout at the gym, do some public speaking, try fishing and hunting, martial arts 🥋. Just some hobbies that will expose yourself to people to make some friends. Hopefully male. Good luck, peace ✌🏼

[@scottbartram5596]

Great video brother.

[@joeldoxtator9804]

Growing up in a women only household you are constantly shit on by women because you are not part of the group. As a man, your only response is to compete against the women and defend yourself against their abuse. If you grow up like this, you see women as direct competition much like how normal men would see other men as direct competition. As such, it is impossible to form relationships with women as you see them as any man would see a brother or any other male rival. It does not mean that you are gay, however. You can be sexually attracted to women and still have mental hangups when it comes to being intimate with them. Not because of fear, but because it mentally feels like getting intimate with a brother or a male friend. This happens because no female in your life has ever treated you with care or love so you don't associate feminine traits with females. You see women as just a different kind of man that happens to be visually appealing. As such, when women that are interested in you start acting like real women, you have no idea what to do. In fact, you even find it repulsive in the same way you would find one of your male friends showing feminine traits to be repulsive. Therefore, any time a woman gets close to you, you find any way possible to put distance between yourself and the situation. This is the hell that many single mother, woman dominant household raised men find themselves in. We can never rest. We are constantly fighting to stay alive and shun all emotion as weakness. Everyone and everything is competition to us. We are the men that previous civilizations would harden into brutal warriors.

[@mr.smitherine1913]

True

[@abdullahredwan4585]

Being a Muslim, a 25 year old virgin is completely normal! HAHAHAH...

[@commonmanv.3257]

abdullah redwan being a christian a 25 year old virgin should have been normal. But 99% of christians in m church are hypocrites.

[@mandalorian4620]

No man, you should have married at least 8 years ago

[@GearsOfLag2]

watching porn will lead you to hell.

[@BidoMaggot]

@@GearsOfLag2 why mention porn here

[@GearsOfLag2]

Where do bad folks go when they die? They don't go to heaven where they serve french fries. They go to a place where nothing is fried. See them again in the buffet line.

[@crossgame1248]

Im 24 and I haven't ever heard something so similar to my life ever.

[@X-Prime123]

Nice glasses! Also I'm 37 and have very few female friends, one is married, the others are online and far away and I think I'm just gonna run with this. If i come across more, then that's fine, and if I don't, then that's fine too. I'm very outgoing, maybe a bit too much, so being introverted/extroverted doesn't exactly translate to "more friends", neither does being polite of friendly or witty. People these days, especially around Toronto, have a real stranger-danger issue(both guys and women). They sometimes say they want to swap numbers and want to hang out, but never do. Posers, they are. That said, people only form any sort of connection if they're around the same person all the time, which is either at work or at school. Over time they become accustomed to each other and then they might hang out, otherwise you're wasting your time looking for friends "out in the open". Believe in yourself and in your own path, think of life like a video game, and do what you want to accomplish.

[@ShadyGrady3]

43 and not a single woman has ever shown any interest in me, none have ever tried even talking to me in passing. Its odd because I am not a creature. I am retired army officer and was always in at least decent shape. Not fat, not ugly. I am however just 5’6” and I think that really hurt me. That and I always saved my money so I never drove new cars or wore super fancy clothes so I think woman assumed I was broke so they were like, “he’s broke and short, I’ll pass.” That’s the only thing I can come up with

[@tips4truckers252]

I lost mine at 18. It was a black cloud following me all around. Finally my cousin whom I love more than anyone said on Saturday "I will never talk to you again if you don't lose it in a week" guess what happened the next Friday at 11:00. Basically if you want to get rid of it, take away your favorite thing in the world till you lose it. But it doesn't seem like you desire to.

[@aceknowledgable9403]

I'm going to be 25 soon, and I'm still a virgin and that's okay. Although I grew up a single child with two parents, the way it is intended, I struggled with social interactions thanks to being high functioning autistic and being an introvert. But still, sex is not something to be concerned about. I'm hoping this John fella builds his life like I'm doing at this point in my life.

[@Logan69420]

i can relate. im high functioning autistic too, and a 28 year old kissless, dateless virgin.

[@cb4883]

Sex is not all its cracked up to be

[@invadernik]

ive honestly become like this. im 27 now though and yes still a virigin. ive always been rather redpilled but ive become significantly more so in the past year and a half. I have to say it feels pretty good.

[@westonblanchard5404]

Turning 22 in April, I'm a virgin. My problem is im a christian, which conflicts with just about everything in today's society. I'd like to hear you talk about how or if it's even possible to navigate this life while still keeping true to my values

[@emin4704]

@Mihai A true that

[@Taylor-cy3ie]

The reality is that through human history, the majority of men died before they lost their virginity. Hunter/gatherers rarely made it past the age of 25.

[@trevorlawrence310]

Good job bud! Just trouble that stuff is.

[@spacemanbeeblebrox319]

Excellent advice!

[@hj-xb2tr]

"When I'm at social events, I get only yes and no answers". This guy must come off really creepy or boring. His issues go well beyond anything related to dating or losing his virginity

[@jaysigma]

To put it in a short way: "You're not cold, you're focused! You're not a outsider, you're a Sigma!" You have learned early what life is all about. Give 0 f*** about what others think about what you do, how you do, why you do. It's your life- so it's your choice! Take it out the best way you can! Me... heading for my 60's... I am giving you an advice that once my grandpa give me: "Whatever you do- there is a judge in your life you meet up twice a day- it's the man in the mirror! Whatever you do, you have to look minimum twice a day in the eyes. If you are a 25yo virgin- fine! Your decision! If you focus on your business- fair enough! Be curious, stay focused. That's all that matters!

[@AndroidOO3]

The guy in the video gave the exact opposite advice. He says to give way way more of a shit about what others think.

[@Element69]

So funny how rich Cooper in the thumbnail he shows Jimmy from GTA5 as a virgin living with his father Michael de Santa's house and playing slaughter 7 at age 25 🤣🤣🤣

[@ryanmitchell4266]

If it Fly's, Floats, or Fucks, it's cheaper to rent.....

[@fugyaself2133]

I'm afraid if I wear hats like that I'll wake up one day and my voice will sound like Tim Pool's

[@ronswanson9613]

I too am introverted. I grew up with a little sister (who is the only female I trust) and 6 female cousins. I understand women.

[@makhanu91]

I can relate 🤸🏾‍♂️🇰🇪🔥

[@chuckstemm443]

I’m glad I’m not obsessed with sex anymore

[@soumadipchowdhury6273]

Guess I also need to fake the fact that I care about people and want to develop friendship and stuff to get my job done. Good advice I never thought of it like that, gotta to start grooming about that aspect. I also hit subscribe button.

[@feliperodriguez6885]

I was raised by my mother, I had a father but was like a ghost he showed up every so often. My parents were married for 45 years but my father never took any interest in me, the lack of a father figure and guidence fucked me up. I was also shy and introverted to the point where women scared me, but I knew that if I didnt push myself to socialise I was gonna miss out on some very awesome things in life. You sound angry and bitter like I was in my early 20s, dont miss out on the great things in life cause time passes by so fast and time is something that can never be regained. Go out and have fun sicialise push youself and you will find happiness.

[@jhonnex3338]

Hi, from club 27 here. Guess I thought it would work out once i start working, nope! Maybe when I get rid of physical flaws...not yet. Now some health issues popped up. Yeah I don´t see losing it anytime soon. One can handle only so much, lets not add women in the equation. Or I could have have mental disorder vis a vis social interaction.

[@mmmmmMuffinz]

where did you get those shades from ?

[@nezarl8374]

I'm 26 and I've never been with a woman I reached a point where I don't even look twice at women The thing is I don't know if it's depression or me just quitting my attraction towards females

[@royhelp2429]

Just like me at 23, I regarded myself as socially retarded due to growing up very rural. Got over it by my 30s after college, and after a short career with the Forest Service fighting fires and hanging with real men on a daily basis, get crazy get out of the comfort zone, hanging with folks with similar interests, find folks that are where you want to go in life. Flush out the estrogen, work out!

[@RideLight777]

I never had a Gf , but the reason we are upset is the fact we never lost our v cards , you don't need a realationship , it's a waste of time and will give you headaches, I rather hang myself then to ever have a Gf , I know it sounds wrong, you also don't want to have friend girls , if you are a virgin that's a the worst , I refuse to have friend girls , its a sign of weakness , I used to be a porn addict for over 10 years .

[@MIck-M]

I lost mine at 14 so I find this whole discussion very interesting while also wondering where my life would have gone if I had not bothered with them and relied on Mrs Palmer instead.

[@codingsingh4156]

What effect did having sex young had on you

[@meganabaja]

Do not let other people choose your purpose, Make and choose your own.

[@hemisuperzee1287]

Unless some unbelievable awesome chic jump's on your lap (like a fish hooking itself), why bother? Introvert here, who also doesn't give a fuc# either. Life is easier without them. Dating is a pain in the ass. You can get places in life, own a house, follow your dreams EASIER without them. And why would any sane man want to bring children into this crazy over populated world? Friends with benefits would be the best, but hard to pull off.

[@Noctecorvuz]

Fellow Torontonian entrepreneur? SUBBED.

[@crowgirl8754]

Many young men need your help also include to look for the woman's soul first then body.

[@JoeyJ0J0]

Societies view of men and sex is ass backwards. Nothing wrong with some men not having sex. People need to learn that

[@MichaelLynMusic]

It unfortunately sounds like a bit of subconscious depression....I witnessed this with a close friend and colleague back when our business went to sh*t and afterword we were left picking up the pieces of 28 year broken careers...Before that he would take notice to the beautiful women that we were performing for as guitarists.... but after the crash, he wouldn't even notice if a beauty walked right next to him...His was of course an extreme case but the manifestation was still there and to date!... I still think he has not faced up to it and is still struggling with the same depression... Looking inward and reading a lot on this subject {even if one needs some counseling} is very important to its resolution.

[@hamzafiyarhi]

Same here bro, chase success instead

[@michaelcooke8665]

Don't chase women chase money then women will chase you

[@davidp.7620]

I disagree with this one. I have a life pretty close to MGTOW but that does not mean I can't have strong friendship relstionships with women. It's just two different things!! I couldn't care less about sex. I didn't really enjoy it when I had it. Increasing my care about sex is what would be against my DNA

[@antoblac3851]

O Fenómeno yeah I believe some people really just don't desire sex. Asexuals

[@bendam9257]

Haha Jimmy from GTA V on the thumbnail.

[@diegomiranda7975]

Interesting situation.

[@casacambio8382]

Smart man

[@bodhi9464]

Great advice Rich. Young man, what I’d suggest to you is : have a listen to the Joe Rogan Experience podcast; there are a wide variety of guests from comedians, to scientists, UFC and MMA types.. strong and influential men, including Joe himself.. Good luck and hope this helps.. I’m going surfing 🏄🏽‍♂️💦🇦🇺

[@t0ypuddl3]

Bodhi damn fine advice!

[@gokublue8595]

I wish I could get a 6 figure job I try to work but can't do it I feel like i failed at life.

[@marcovargassilva]

This guy is perfect to be an awesome Priest.

[@RSVDCN]

yea. closet gay

[@fatalradius]

Guy has no drive it seems. No drive to find a gal, no drive to be social, no drive to compete...Being around men causes your competitive drive to increase in a good way. The "I don't give a shit" attitude is not working correctly in this situation. In the end what will happen is that no one will give a shit about him and he'll pass away alone.

[@rilorobinson7685]

What he needs to do is get a bag on him and switch over to the HOV lane, that way he can fly past traffic

[@timewithruby]

I think he's fine not having to socialize with women, at least he won't have any distractions. He can just focus on his friends, his passions and his purpose. There are plenty of straight men out there who are happier going on monk mode. I hope this guy keeps his virginity because at least he won't have to worry about getting anyone pregnant and he can protect himself from child support. Be smart and continue avoiding women and keep your virginity, you have plenty of time to lose that later. ❤️

[@BobJoy_my_collection_of_stuff]

Your father is one of your best friends. That's a biggie. My father hated his father and he didn't want me to hate him (my father) , oooopppps. It happened !!!!

[@cecil123]

cats in the cradle

[@buddysinsight9834]

Being an Entrepreneur is based on dealing with and fully understanding people. If there is one major thing Richard Branson is good at its people. In the village of Thrupp near Kidlington Oxford where Richard Branson last lived he would throw a garden party each year for the whole town. They would have lorries driving Mc Donalds meals in for everyone. When he then put in planning applications he never got rejection. He would throw celebrity parties and not a single person would complain. He knows how to work people. I live up the road thats how I know what went on. I don't think you can teach people this skill of being astute. Thats why its only 3 in a 100k that are entrepreneurs. Thats a question for a vid Richard. Can you really teach someone how to be an astute entrepreneur?

[@mattricko8670]

I grew up with 5 women and no males. Life is terrible with so many women, idk how i did it.

[@rilorobinson7685]

Shout-out to Jimmy ✊

[@serioushamster]

The thumbnail is from GTA 5.The characters are biological brother and sister.

[@Fred-ju1xs]

He can start an online business and minimalize human contact.

[@Dougn57]

Dude... How do you know what dolphins are thinking 🤔??

[@badger3184]

Guy is so so smart. Ahead of his time.

[@efthimios]

The guy is smart - yes statistically marriage success pct is horrible - my brother is 35 and was one of the most popular guys dates anyone he wanted and does not want to get married because of the concerns everyone has . It’s sad. Then you see his dork friends growing up married , kids, it boggles mind

[@johnk3841]

He's getting yes and no as answers because he's asking a yes and no question

[@AZrakoon]

Sounds like he is fed up with people who dont make an effort in trying to build relationships and give him the cold shoulder......my solution is simple i cut them and try to talk to someone else......there is times were you are loved, but arent even seeing it yourself. You have learn who values YOU

[@VF1Skullangel]

I mean the guy has a point. it's a rough world out there and we're in this hookup culture that's butchering relationships. It's best to focus on your path and purpose in life instead of trying to please others.

[@portman8909]

I'll be visiting escorts soon.

[@TomCogan]

I have a good friend that is the same age as me in the same situation as this video, he could get most any female he wants but chooses not to. I'll never understand lol

[@Zoza15]

It's called self respect.

[@hcwwrestling1001]

At least Someone gets it unlike most people.

[@mrlazzo3354]

So you believe being with or around women is worth it??? Im wondering about that question myself

[@Filthy_Larry]

37 here

[@David-ti2bv]

Man I feel bad for my younger brother's these days. They really believe all women are cheaters and that all marriages are going to fail. They take advice from men that have suffered through failed marriages. Some of us have great wives and great lives with children and homes. Just like business marriages are compromise. Don't think you're going to have it your way all the time cuz you're not. Keep Your Head up Guys, and don't give up.

[@tajayi78]

John might actually be my twin bro.....I have been moving off the reservation for a while (going Galt)

[@flodumitru1476]

how can he say that he dosen t give a fuck but still reaches for help

[@luigivg5838]

I should probably do like the 25 year old guy, his comment looks positive and confident

[@tomgriffiths2622]

The kid is RIGHT