Muscles, Women & Hypergamy

[@lengchang40]

I'm short, bald, broke, unintelligent, I'm always wrong, I suck in bed..... but as soon as I made over six figure, I'm taller, smarter, I'm always right, and I'm very good in bed... how ironic.

[@carlostorres8771]

Lol!

[@briandietrich1373]

Yep!

[@Clayalton]

X C fuck that.

[@matthewp117]

I mean it probably raised your confidence, making you better in bed and such

[@djdigital3806]

X C Are you a pastor? LMAO

[@williamjthompsonjr]

Women will enter a relationship and slowly begin trying to change you. If they are successful they will leave you or cheat on you with a guy who is who you were. They actually don't want you to change, they think they do but they don't. They want to see if you have principles and resolve. I have seen this too many times.

[@TheStallionforce]

This is very true, and true of all women I've been with as well. Having inherited 'nice-guy-itis', I thought 'being nice' was going to appeal to her. Not at all.

[@motionman0]

Broken women do love men they can control!

[@tjhammer24]

Luke and film, you're both right, it just depends on what phase they're in. They're parasitic chameleons deep down

[@RinzoAceSpade]

William Thompson ,,,, That is definitely true 💯

[@tjhammer24]

Ebony Travel Tomassi wrote, "its a fallacy to look at hypergamy from a logical relational equity perspective." We men tend to see things through merit and equity, i.e. the qualities, strengths and efforts you put in are to be met equitably, but not so with women, hypergamy overrides any such thinking, it could take a woman a few months, or 25 years, it's forever looming. "No man in history has ever fully or accurately vetted any woman he married. " R.M. pp.194-196. Spot on!

[@mrdee734]

My experience: went from totally skinny, non masculine look to ripped in gym and it makes x1000% difference. Women really love jacked guys, it's the first thing they see on you "this guy is healthy" and then "this guy is disciplined" and then "other women will like him too" so preselection comes in.

[@user-mq8xg5sp9c]

@port nut what the fuck are you even saying?

[@jorgefigueroa2231]

@@user-mq8xg5sp9c We've got the greatest scientists decoding whatever the fuck he just said.

[@VoxelStudios]

@@jorgefigueroa2231 This cracked me up

[@NOYBZ]

@@jorgefigueroa2231 any breakthrough yet?

[@mellowredrose8205]

Yeah I've been skinny my entire life but once I started getting in the gym suddenly the woman who didn't look before definitely were open to talking all of a sudden I'm still slim and short 5'6 Small 140lb but giving self love to this journey and still dedicated to the gym, The protein powders I've tried don't do well with my stomach I regurgitate that $hit! Keeping it natural.

[@Comediansbeingcringe]

In my experience muscles helps get women HANDS DOWN. Muscles are attractive, make you more confident and look dominant. Muscles are a great addition to personality. Dont downplay them.

[@markkest3956]

Just exceptions

[@mrmackey8956]

Muscles are good for attracting one night stands. Girls love money over muscles all day for long term

[@Eric-rr8ui]

Yes. Getting in shape changes a man's confidence. Not only will others look at him differently but he will now look differently at others.

[@williamjconde]

@@mrmackey8956 coming from a guy here that was bigger and pretty cut, for a long time. Your comment sums it up best. Yeah, they like muscles some, but they like money way, way, way more.

[@samisatlacc7736]

Muscles: athletic (strength, triathalon-looking), or bodybuilder'ish, which are you saying? But that women prefer athletic/military body over bodybuilders' size was established a long time ago.

[@0090steve]

At 54, I can say that being toned with a bit of muscle, nice clothes and good grooming makes a world of difference. I also worked on my socials skills where needed. My confidence has skyrocketed and women notice me. Be sure to swallow the red pill to protect yourself and your assets. Have a life that doesn't depend on a female. I love women, but they are dangerous to your mental well being and finances if things don't work out. Do what is in YOUR best interests.

[@slobooger]

Women aren't turned off by a guy putting time in at the gym, they are turned off by him doing something besides serving her.

[@ImmortalMindz]

Justin Valois Exactly!

[@Noname-lk2ol]

LoL no. Women see muscles and know the bigger the muscles the smaller the wallet and more fucked up the priorities.

[@Paaka]

No name how big muscles mean small wallet if it takes money to get big supplements and meals carbs calories protein

[@Noname-lk2ol]

Squatzoatz lol I am one of "those guys"

[@Noname-lk2ol]

Patrick King exactly. All their paychecks get spent on supps

[@Dssssssssssssssss]

Parasites often drop off a host when something better comes along or if the host isn't providing as much as before or when they are satisfied and see no further benefit hanging on.

[@ricb123]

Hmmm, .. do you know my ex wife?

[@aidanLVbeats]

surely you can’t refer to all women as parasites 🤣

[@Damesanglante]

Ouch

[@stjohnent]

@@aidanLVbeats most women

[@aidanLVbeats]

@@stjohnent yikes

[@dr5820]

I'm 38. Always been slim and athletic. Toned, but not built. Although I have to work harder for that these days! Women in general definitely prefer an athletic body to a built body. However, I will say that they are initially attracted to it, but once in a long term relationship they see it as a threat. I have had women after a few months of being together, passive aggressively, try and convince me that I don't need to exercise, "because you're fine as you are". Hmm. In my blue pill days I would've taken that as a sweet compliment, but I realise now that it's because they feel the threat of you attracting other women. And what way to best keep a woman wanting to please you? Yep, be attractive to other women. They both love and hate that shit!

[@baldbadass]

Dude I'm the same an ha e had that same thing too. Your fine don't worry about it speech. Its competition anxiety as ya said cos they know other women will be all over ya and she's trying to pull ya down to her level of doing fk all

[@mabey123]

Just had the same experience. Very true.

[@Aubatron]

I always thought it was because they felt like you were better than them and would leave them for another female. They say not to train so you wont have options to leave them, then when you get disgusting and fat, they think they're better than you and leave.

[@5GcE]

The first thing that came to my mind is that they probably felt subconsciously threatened, yes, but maybe because they felt bad about themselves and their own bodies. Seeing you be fit and getting fitter may have made them feel comparatively ugly. This behavior is more fitting with modern women, at least from my observation and when I analyze myself.

[@TonyChev]

Agree with most of what you say. As for muscular guys. Used to bounce in clubs and was huge. Girls were all over me. I suspect high test levels produce pheromones which stimulate their systems. Don't believe the bs. Big guys get have it all!

[@rameshsilva6110]

When you are muscular, the more you feel you are an Alpha, That alone will help you to get the attention of women. It's not the muscles, it's how it makes you feel!

[@killthemall55]

Exactly. It literally changes your mood, emotions, how you carry yourself and feel about yourself, you will notice how people treat and interact with you differently. People will respect you more. You will have more presence. All these in return, change who you are for the better. And dont worry about getting too buff or muscular. Unless you are taking something, you cant look weird and unnatural.

[@kennygo8423]

Truth

[@briancooper6608]

Yes knowing your strength

[@Jefe-qh8kd]

It's the muscles, first and foremost.

[@garymaccagnone3669]

Never tell your wife about your business. Never confide in her anything about your illnesses. Never let her be the banker in the family. Always stay in great physical shape. Take my advice.

[@immers2410]

That’s a sad way to live your life

[@garymaccagnone3669]

@@immers2410 What's sad about it? You need to be in control

[@egegulkaya2525]

@@garymaccagnone3669 facts.

[@mav8243]

They can tell you what they want, these types of messages speak from experience and all of us who have suffered because of it know what it is.

[@garymaccagnone3669]

@@egegulkaya2525 Know the facts.

[@agentsmith9858]

Remember brothers: Women age like milk, while men age like wine 💪🏼

[@stanfatou2002]

But men get ugly and old just like women...what y'all think y'all some demi gods or something lol whattt

[@karna5998]

@@stanfatou2002 but we still got money, which most of y'all getting of off

[@VoiceOfThe]

Women have their pick and all the power from 17-30 ish when their sexual market value is greatest. Thereafter, there’s a steady decline, which soon accelerates. By the time a woman hits 50, she becomes invisible to men. Men only reach the prime of their sexual market value in their late 30’s. If he looks after himself, this can be extended into his 50’s.

[@mahninjahh6746]

@@stanfatou2002 No shit sweetheart. We are demi-gods

[@joys8634]

@@VoiceOfThe cope

[@pete8234]

Usually guys who say muscles don't make a difference are the guys who aren't super fit...just generally fit. Get to 10-12% BF and then tell me that women don't like muscles...

[@WolfStory]

Exactly!

[@tk-jv4zd]

going for it!

[@daz1317]

He mentioned "Calvin Klein" - which is lower BF, but when he means "muscles" he means the bodybuilders. And i think it comes from relatability or lack thereof.

[@casacambio8382]

Listen thats what he said

[@josevillasenor3786]

Have zero muscles. My girlfriend x 6 feet 200 pounds muscles. He was 5 min in bed .. you dont need muscles

[@RealJoshTv]

Stop Worrying About Women So Damn Much!

[@WolfStory]

PRECISELY

[@MikeJones-pf4wd]

SERIOUS AMEN!

[@BasedBrothers]

Based!

[@apurbaghosh5046]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@shukailu6731]

Agreed, and the right way to do that is to focus on your goals.

[@markmansell]

Low body fat guys! I dropped my body fat from 20% to 10% and women notice. It's not just the six pack- your face will look better.

[@sapitron]

I look like a somalian kid, gaunted starving hollow face, like stage IV cancer, when I have low body fat, although with big delts and V-shape and big biceps, so it's a no for me. low body fat is not for everybody, you SHOULD LOOK photogenic otherwise don't do it !!!!

[@pukus123]

@@sapitron i died at this comment xD

[@williamtsol636]

My marriage ended in November ! Best Christmas I've ever had !! Don't wait guys !

[@tostadorafuriosa69]

William Goble funny.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

William D. Goble Yep. Been there. The Christmas’s keep getting better.

[@casacambio8382]

Jajajaja savage

[@michalkalinowski5008]

Mine on New year's eve as I couldn't imagine starting another year of misery. It's been best 3 months I had in years so far

[@alexpriceonline]

Ha!!!!

[@JCJW101]

The most amount of attention I've had from women was when I got muscles. Nothing huge, just decent size arms and shoulders and a near six pack, weighted about 95kgs. Especially in online dating I get 20 times the amount of views on my profile. If I could go back in time and tell my younger self something it would be to get muscles. It also made me feel great so do it for yourself anyway.

[@jam34786]

I have always hypothesized that most women dont like really jacked guys because they feel threatened by a man's commitment to his body and that said commitment would be in direct competition with her needs. I wonder if there is any truth to it...

[@davethedm]

I would hypothesize that it triggers their insecurity because they know a man who is fit probably has attention and options to stray if he so desired.

[@jebes909090]

its 2 fold. first, it makes them feel shittier about themselves when you are in shape and second, it makes it harder for them because other women will take more interest.

[@efesezer8206]

HandGrenades 4Balls dude you say all those things but i have seen many many dudes that match that description. not trying to be a white knight or anything i hate them with passion but to be honest most of the things women are criticized for are also present in men sometimes at least. i mean i know some really nice down to earth chicks who were loyal and supportive of their SO who got cheated on and left behind after years of Ltr.

[@efesezer8206]

Damian Furrer whats beta physical traits?

[@davidmcgrew3837]

Women don't want a man (prettier) than she is cause she knows there's a chance he will leave her.

[@peehi2]

Women say they don't want muscular man. When you become one, you see this is one big pile of shit. That's just my experience.

[@Cahluvca]

yeah its quite alot that do. I think some are confusing the heavy bodybuilders

[@Luuxs]

the bigger i got...the more women that look and want to contact me

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

Facts

[@lloydridges7560]

Yep. When I was 5' 11' and 225 well built, women would come up out of the blue and hit on me. They would simultaneously be feeling my shoulders and arms and smiling ear to ear. I could say anything during a conversation and they would keep talking to me. Now that I am thinner, I rarely get hit on and when I do my verbal game has to be on point or the woman loses interest quickly.

[@marneuscalgar001]

The figure I give is if you are like 20% less than a pro bodybuilder then you are good, anywhere upto hugh jackman as wolverine, possibly slightly larger works, and yes as someone who got to that level once I can tell you it drives women crazy to the point you get random women coming up to you in the street weekly.

[@cuchullain27]

Can't help remembering the wise words of one of my classmates: "To get a girlfriend, you have to be a stereotype."

[@DaveTheMedic]

Oof, that's a good quote

[@robertromero8094]

What stereotype?

[@antibioticslogic3198]

I'm pretty sure he said archetype.

[@janjansen7983]

I don't get it, could you explain that?

[@GQ-jv9uw]

Damn yep

[@jshepard152]

My marriage license cost $30. Divorce, $30,000. The divorce was a better value.

[@ryanweston9677]

Why is divorce so expensive? Because it’s worth it

[@JohnSmith-sj2dk]

You got out relatively cheaply - any tips??

[@jshepard152]

@@JohnSmith-sj2dk The only man who owns anything is a single man.

[@duggiefresh8170]

You got off light!!!!!

[@HaleyKristen]

I agree with you here. For me personally, I’ve always been more attracted to the lean muscular look rather than the bulky muscular physique.

[@maxpot46]

Do you also go for nice guys who share their feelings? Lol.

[@VoiceOfThe]

Haley Kristen Good girl. Lol

[@MrCyanblood]

@@maxpot46 dude relax, shes just trying to be honest

[@JAZZSTARish]

He lifts you Haley on the days the gym is closed. So afterwards he'll flip ya..flip ya for real.

[@DarronBrown88]

From personal experience younger women tend to go for the Calvin Klein look. When I graduated from high school I was 6'2" 220lbs. Girls my age didn't look my way. When I got into college, because my mature look, I attracted women older than me. About 4 years older than me. I think all men can benefit from dressing well. I stepped my game up in grad school and women will actually approach you if you dress well.

[@NaturalBeautyGlow]

yes dressing well helps.

[@unkowncoollookingrobot6174]

LILIANA SURIEL Women want a man who is an easily fit manipulated loser.

[@karamlevi]

Darron Brown 👍🏽

[@jordansaipaia7874]

Dodged a bullet with that slur.

[@marslave575]

I did dress well for 2 months now in college but I stop dressing well since many girls don’t really talk or be attracted to me so I dress like a nerd now

[@4everu984]

My husband is a surfer, women love muscles. Broad shoulders and the V back is everything. It is a safe feeling. We live in Maui so eye candy everywhere, but most important folks that exercise and do their passion are so much happier and easier to be around. Thanks Rich! 🤙🏼

[@davidjd123]

he just said that, surfers are the lean Calkin Klein type look,

[@BroMassGainz]

Workout dress nice build some muscle and continue to grow in your manhood.Screw what women want. They don't even know what they want. Women tell me all the time I have too much muscle but they can't keep they hands off me. Smh

[@Feber2001]

Well Said! They don't need to know our drive.

[@austingodii4747]

You’re on test at least

[@digitalindustries6697]

Best comment! Muscles make panties wet on sight.

[@Paaka]

Exactly

[@neoblackcyptron]

Truth

[@istvanpraha]

Women pretend not to like muscles because they want the guy to feel insecure.

[@travis6694]

It’s a weird battle they have going on. They want the alpha by nature but at the same time they wanna slowly change them and make them submit like a beta and then leave them for an alpha. Constant shit test for life.

[@decadenceofhumanity5612]

The thing is you are not supposed to ADJUST to what women want. Keep going your own way and do things the way you see fit. That is called a STABILITY of your own choices, decisions and world views. Train, sleep, eat, repeat. Do not allow society to drag you down. Do not deviate from your own unique course. You should not ADJUST to ever changing, empty and shallow societal norms. A man is a predator. View things from that perspective. Therefore a man should act like a predator. Be a predator. Be tough. Men start at the wall and depart from it. We build our muscle mass, our careers, our wealth and savings and, on top of that- we accumulate knowledge and wisdom. Women, on the contrary, hit the wall around 30 and slide down the path of physical degradation. Therefore we should not pay attention to what women want/ need/ desire. We are the rulers of this world. We run the shit. Women only follow us. If we allow them. That is how things were in the past, that is how we should do today. The patriarchy is the only answer to modern pussyfied and degraded society of imbeciles. If you consider yourself a real man, you should not give a flying fuck what average pussy is thinking about you. Your bicep is too big? You spend too much time at the gym? So what? Let the bitch cry and marry Justin Bieber if that is her standard of an attractive man. I repeat- you should NOT give a flying fuck about what women want. You should be strong and build your own empire. And the others will follow. That is the only way.

[@johniewalker4356]

Start a KZbin channel or blog or whatever man, this thing is the most truthful piece of info in this watered down "information" hub, the world needs more people like you

[@garnhamr]

i agree with the general idea here but it goes a bit too far imo... you have to always do your own thing, look after yourself and your career etc so yeah don't adjust to what a woman wants whole heartedley. If a woman keeps pushing like that then you have to tell her it's an issue for you. Simple.

[@jameswayton2340]

When i was reading i bursted out laughing that the part with justin Bieber.

[@matthewstephens7509]

I didn't read this whole thing, but damn I agree with just the first few sentences. Everytime I go to another country; able to act masculine, lead the date, lead the relationship, make the decisions - girls are all over me. I can't get along with women in the US anymore. I'm tired of the fat, ugly, liberal, feminists that our country is producing. On vacation in Thailand I even met one that was similarly focused on building a business, has old-school values, raised by a hard working dad. In a place where I could have a different girl every day if I wanted. They're out there, but not in the US anymore. Their values are completely influxed in the US, where places like TH: the sex industry can take any woman that thinks she is pretty down a couple of notches.

[@islcetinkaya874]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@brycesalte7955]

Muscle matters. Fitness model Yes, body builder No. I’m 6’3 265lbs. I can get laid in under 4 hours day or night. Game matters but if you have looks and game it’s done. Getting laid does not make you happier or a better person. Having muscle only increases your success rate. No mater what men...please take your time. One wrong girl will ruin your life...or cause you to take your own. I’ve been there.

[@TheActionTourist]

Good comment aside from last few sentences imo.

[@TheXZAKI]

265 ISnt fitness model look brother! Thats Bodybuilding territory and no you cant get laid with hotties in under 4 hours! Land whales you can!

[@abrahamlincoln441]

You’re on point. As he pointed out, one wrong girl can ruin your life! Speaking from experience, no matter how hot she is, is not worth the hassle, there are some crazy people out there. Just go home and rub one off and you’ll be fine. I wish I’ve done that, would have saved me tons of drama last year.

[@iuliua]

The moment you ask yourself what women want you already lost. They like a guy who don't ask himself stupid questions like that. It's simple really, you like a girl you go talk to her, she doesn't like you, forget about her and move on. One day you'll find your girl, don't obsess over it like a teenage girl.

[@MrAgsalud]

Just be the best you, following your passions. Eff everyone's opinions.

[@BrandonMaceira-go1gs]

Easier said then done my friend

[@Ausnapify]

Facts

[@mannisstannis2255]

This always comes from people who have it so easy and im sure you have it easy. Dont start with me. I worked 7 days a week for years and worked on my "dream" in the offtime and before bed...i literally worked 24/7 and there is no sign of reaching my goal in the next 5 years and im allready 4 years in...rich people can do that, all others may suffer their entire existance and never reach their goals. ID NOT TRADE WITH THIS OLD MAN IN THE VIDEO THOUGH. Damn i love my hair and my super lean body without so much hair. I love beeing me. I dont want to be nobody else. Im taking the pros and cons. Its fine for me. Have a nice day.

[@user-bf1zu4um8b]

Erwin agsalud z

[@WelshDave76]

Left mine this week, she dragged me down for 20 years! I can't wait to feel really good again.. Doing my own thing already and starting to feel good about myself..

[@coldsteel.and.courage]

Muscle is good, within reason.

[@agroed]

If you're too good at taking care of yourself then you'll never die and they'll never get to collect that sweet monayy.

[@glencannondr]

no one never dies

[@BradPwnsU]

Lmaoo

[@EmpoweredMovements]

LOL

[@Willyd2758]

lol

[@DamonWalker1977]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@lovelipstik]

Love your videos. You are SO right on the money about sooooo much. And yes, the cold hard truth can and/or DOES 'hurt'... but I think hearing these truths becomes very necessary so that we can learn, genuinely grow and better ourselves. By the way I am one of your FEMALE viewers, and I think more ladies need to see your videos to get a reality check.

[@RyanPowerhouse]

Life is a game and you show us younger guys how to play it fair so we don't get screwed over. Thank you for that. Your refreshingly insightful. Like the big brother I never had.

[@True38]

I'm sorry but life is not fair, and there's no such thing as a "fair" game. You can play nice and decent, but sometimes you have to get down and dirty. You either win or lose, there is nothing in between. Find your role in life and Master it, that's my best advice. You're good with sales? Great, be the best Seller you can be. You get the message.

[@theperfectbeing]

You're on the level with most things but this one you're definitely off point. I'm 6ft and 215lb of lean muscle, competitive lifter and I hang with guys (25 to 35) who are all physique competitors, bodybuilders, MMA practitioners etc. All of the big lean guys have no problem pulling women everywhere they go, so long as they aren't ignorant over compensators. The way you carry yourself and how other men treat you (respect and fear) plays a huge role in female attraction. All the studies done on human sexuality show women prefering men with high testosterone markers. Thick arms, vascularity, broad shoulders, V taper, wide jawline, confident stride. Add in personality characteristics like assertiveness, fearlessness/confidence, stoicism, deep voice. You're better off being well muscled like a large boxer or lifter than you are to be "lean and toned" . Also looking dangerous goes a hell of long way.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Lets agree to disagree.

[@mrkiky]

Did you say "deep voice" is a personality characteristic?

[@ChanChan-jk8pc]

Exactly disagree thumbs down

[@thehealthinsuranceking4488]

theperfectbeing This is 100% correct

[@andrewhezekiahdaniel]

What does 215lbs of lean muscle mean, because almost assuredly you walk around at over 10% bodyfat.

[@thelongtrader4642]

True i started lifting for geting female attention like many teens, and after i saw the results i realized that hard work can actually get you results, I also liked that i broke records here and there as i progressed with my lifts and started making small goals along my weightlifting journey, I also stopped doing it for getting womens attention and did it because i liked how i felt after i acomplished those small goals. Attention from women when having muscles and taking care of your body is a plus, but it shouldnt be a main motive for working out. Women also dont give a fuck if you have muscles or not, all they care about is your wallet anyways, maybe in high school girls apreciated looks more than your wallet, but eventually those girls get out of highschool and hypergamy kicks in. Then your wallet is a priority and your muscles and look are just a plus.

[@karrielynn4355]

Harry Angel bullshit.. You are looking for the wrong woman... Find one who has an education and a good paying job... Done.

[@thelongtrader4642]

Who says im looking ? :) You see it doesnt matter to me if a woman has a good paying job or not. I make my own money and can take care of myself. Having a good job and education won't stop women from being hypergamous. I've also dated a woman which had good job and education, and she turned out to be hypergamous and manipulative on top of that. Its just the way it is.

[@ClearOutSamskaras]

"Alas, how terrible is wisdom when it brings no profit to the wise, Johnny. [Spoken in insistent staccato phrasing]: Frankly you were doomed from the moment you slit that young boy in half, [a let up pause, to energize the next word from the sacrum and let it out gutturally from the throat]- Johnnyyyy!"

[@2pacorwhat]

Women love muscles. They don't like the unnatural steroid look though, but as long as you're natural you should get as big while staying relatively lean as possible. When me and my best buddy go swimming we catch so many women looking at us it's amusing. I remember when I got with a girl once, she was always making jokes about my fitness or muscles in a negative way. Untill we ended up in bed and she couldn't stop drooling over my muscles lol. I think that women telling you something negative about your physique (if you have a good physique) is just a shit test to see if you have the character to go with the body. Being a low self esteem bodybuilder is a huge turn off for them but if you're a confident muscular dude they love you.

[@NaturalBeautyGlow]

Dear men in the comment section, if you like women you will have to somewhat care about what they think about your appearance. Just like men look for pretty in shape well put together women. a decent women who takes care of herself will do the same. Stop being so sensitive! It's the cold harsh truth! This is real life.

[@jennerick92jm]

LILIANA SURIEL the thing is a guy can be all that warped in candy but if she thinks she can do better and there is a guy wouldn't she try to go for thay beter guy ?

[@karrielynn4355]

Jennerick Martina no.

[@dickbanger8924]

i couldnt give a bakers fuck about what woman think the last time i was in love it was for 10 minutes!.. then i kicked her ass out my car an went about my life

[@wendykay3195]

LILIANA SURIEL As usual I am impressed you are very perceptive, smart, and honest

[@NaturalBeautyGlow]

Wendy Barker thanks!

[@niklas5771]

My advice: Do what you enjoy, be ambitious and dedicated. Don't do it to impress someone. Be the person you like yourself to be. If a woman doesn't find you appealling with your dedication - so be it, this woman is not for you. If you have goals and work for them without seeming to look for approval and attention - it is awesome and sexy in it's own way. You will only find the right woman by doing what you love since she has similar interests. I mean that is if you are looking for a woman to have a serious relationship with.

[@JohnDoe-pf6qp]

Being large is generally a sign there's a lot of testosterone at work. Men in that category are more likely not going to be the guy that comes home and hands over his pay check. It also gets into a few other areas. If you're going to the gym that much there's a good chance you're not interested in working 60 hours a week. It's the dad bod thing: it's not aesthetically pleasing to anyone, it just says to women that you have a white collar job that requires nothing physical and you spend a lot of time at it.

[@r.annrousseau170]

You are right Rich. We don't want body builders. Muscle definition is nice. No extremes. Know and Be Thyself..

[@BigD751]

R. Ann Rousseau women want men to be themselves so they can accurately assess their hypergamic value. That is why women will always repeat this saying. Fortunately for us men we can hack women’s biological nature for our own benefit. It’s a beautiful world 🙂

[@dbakermcitp]

I disagree. I'm a pretty jacked guy and I catch women staring at me all the time. Especially married ones.

[@colmobrien1114]

D Baker how do you know they are married? And why especially when they are married?

[@danielbaker1151]

D Baker this is unrelated but I must say, your last name is lit

[@fahimaljahangir3059]

they were walking with their husbands? duh

[@armandcurti2598]

Good comment

[@baguettelauncher8839]

expecially the a married ones, same situation for me, and the husband look at you aggressivly xd

[@DynamicUnreal]

The most muscular bodybuilding type guys I see at the gym usually have the hottest girlfriends that come in with them. Not buying the whole "women aren't into muscles" thing. That's like when men say "I don't like women with giant asses" but then turn around when one walks by.

[@colmobrien1114]

DynamicUnreal big asses and the biggest asses (or tits) grab the most attention for sure even from me. But it's important not to confuse it with attraction.

[@Paaka]

DynamicUnreal and there girlfriends look at the lean guys or body protionate guys all the time while there boyfriends lunk weights no cardio

[@StephIsColdG]

Caveman man I catch a dude wife starring at me between his sets all the time

[@Paaka]

Stephon Clinkscales its beautiful

[@jaylee6769]

yeah I don't buy it either. women LOVE guys who are built

[@msvicky2895]

Most Women consider other things more important than muscles.But it is sooo nice to be wrapped up in the arms of a muscular Man.Never too late for you guys to muscle up.I promise she will love it Xoxo

[@tannerkrogman1589]

Rich, I love your stuff man. From personal experience, I think girls like the "arm candy" as much as guys. So yes Aesthetics is the key (big muscles in the right places). I.e., the old school body building look. I would allow that there is, on average, a point of diminishing returns where additional size doesn't really make you more aesthetically pleasing in a woman's eyes.

[@airamdelcristo]

I agree Tanner. The "Golden Ratio" is the key to the best Aesthetic physique. More than that is not cost-efficient.

Woman want you to be a fit, easily manipulated,employee minded ,ray ban wearing douch bag..#industrialathlete

[@nobody-rw9cc]

well If you are after a worldly girl you are right everything revolves around money and looks. want a girl who isn't after your wallet as much go to God follow him. give up the world even give up on finding love to follow him. mgtowing it anyways you get a different perspective and find a girl who just wants you for your faithfulness in God. World or God has always been the choice and worldly women are shit.

[@nellatl]

Arborsaurus The terrible u forgot women also want a man with a cape a billion in the bank and a 20 inch penis whos nice but mean, tall and short, bald and afro.

[@newsoftheday420]

Damn! That's me

[@MegaMongrol]

But I like wearing ray bans. Shit.

[@aquaticsplashes]

What's employee minded mean?

[@archilla1991]

Gotta agree with the muscle part. It’s nice to have someone disciplined and cut but not too interested in guys who are overly buff.

[@mirelasemanjaku]

I agree with you! Personally i love the fit guys, but the kind of fit you get from doing sports like swimming or Tae Kwon Do. The big guys you can't even hug completely. Plus the un-natural shape kind of creates a distance.. You nailed the V-shape back and lean arms+ normal fat.

[@ZZhorses]

I hope women see these videos and realize children need secure, loving mom's and dad's. I am a 21 year old woman and these videos have completely changed how I see men and relationships. Thank you. I am glad I came across this sort of stuff before I got any older.

[@selfscience]

Ry Normal men are not misogynistic like this asshole.

[@margaretshope90]

Another great video! Huge muscles have never been attractive to me, but a man who looks fit and proportionate is appealing.

[@wesselvandervleuten3618]

I'm going to tell my own experience from a skinnyfat guy to a lean, far above average muscular guy. Being jacked you get a lot more respect instantly in first impressions, from both men and women. You get a lot more looks, if you have a tight shirt or shirtless at a beach or festival, guys will compliment you more, but the amount of stares, approaches, initiations, proximity approaches hoping you'll start a convo from women will be a lot higher. During relationships, my exes and current gf especially always complimented my body, touched my muscles all the time. Now some women won't like it at all, some may even be disgusted, but if you don't go over the top and look unnatural, a fair majority will love it. And the biggest factor why you'd do it is for yourself first of all. You look better so you feel better. You get more respect and confidence. And you get a lot more attention.

[@zasvedogovore]

From my experience by interviewing or listening to a lot of girls opinions: 1. Arm that fits a shirt sleeve 2. Light V shape (shoulder to waiste combo) 3. Obliques, not six pack that much 4. Lean face and jaw muscle 5. Mystique or serious face, no worries about imperfections like scars, nose or ears...white teeth helps a lot, just don't act like advertising your dentist 6. Finger nails, hygiene and not too rough palms 7. A very small percentage feels attraction from a steroid guy, and those are specific girls often with fake tits I have many friends and heard a lot of stories from guys with 6/6/6 who's girls or wifes been cheating on them with a bums that look like crap, and being dumped or divorced.

[@maxpot46]

If you ask girls, they'll say they want a nice guy who shares their feelings and treats them like an equal. Guess we better believe them! Or am I being naive...?

[@j.rothchild173]

Yes, every white girl I've dated has told me, my facial structure was their thing!

[@TheJaxsonjack]

"6/6/6"?

[@Scary_asmr101]

Women like strong men, even if they are on the chubby side. As long as they look like they can protect her

[@pinosantilli5153]

Being a FIT man is very important. Gives you the first notice and triggers primal desires.

[@SMV4Kcom]

As a man, if you are more muscular (strong) then other men will respect you more, which women find attractive. Its the status that other men give you that women find attractive.

[@kellysuzanne976]

I like muscles just not the steroid type muscles, as long as a man can lift me tho I like ahahaha :-)

[@the6ixman416]

@Chris even that's not enough dude. You need to be able to lift them to the sky.

[@petrusxramulus564]

The magic word here is... as long he cam lift ME!. Its never about you guys, its allways about HER

[@kellysuzanne976]

@@petrusxramulus564 I didn't mean it in a bad way. Idc if my guy is muscular or not. If he's strong enough to lift me than that's good enough for me .

[@kellysuzanne976]

@says howitis Yep

[@kellysuzanne976]

@Álvaro de Bazán Well since your probably weak as hell I'd say you'd need one . But my husband is strong enough so no thanks .

[@jackcarter6629]

I am currently cutting and taking my weight down 30Ibs which is easy for me, I've noticed women are saying, "You look really well" or "You're looking really good" the slimmer I get. I have been thinking about this for a few weeks now and really analysing the reactions of women. Currently 254Ibs and 18% BF at 6'4, will go down to 230Ibs and 15%BF. This is my median line between looking broad and muscular and looking long and lanky.

[@JakeFields92]

I’m glad I dumped my gf before thanksgiving this year. I returned all her gifts and began saving and working in myself in every aspect. I’m now beginning to really feel the effects of the red pill. Gotta stay strong

[@iancastleton9052]

Regarding muscles, I found that working out and improving my appearance massively boosts my confidence and mental strength. And women love a confident guy. So I would say definitely yes, having a muscular build and training your body is excellent for attracting women, in an indirect way.

[@Chadisms]

If a guy and girl are lucky they find true love at a young age and stick it through. The rest are in search thinking the grass is greener only to find out it's not. When you're younger single girls like the popular/attractive guy. When you're older the girls like the successful/rich guy. The relationships where the guys are using the girls for their bodies and the girls using the guys for the success. Usually equates to a business relationship not A genuine relationship. The best thing about working out is it makes you feel better and be more positive which girls can sense. I agree girls dig abs over big muscles.

[@nimitytei4715]

you got it right exactly, fuck those fake relationships, and a genuine one is so hard to find.

[@michaelangst6078]

@@nimitytei4715 A lot of men don't have a pleasant enough personality to be in a long term relationship though.. I can admit this, most men cannot

[@ZeusMegabeard]

A friend of mine who is a regular steroid user tells me that he seems to attract more women when he's cycling on the gear than when not, he says it's almost like they subconsciously smell the extra T in his system...

[@ivonaw.4405]

I think women are intimidated by muscles sometimes... I personally prefer guys in decent shape...

[@luisvanden2053]

We all know what that means...

[@damianwayne8948]

@@luisvanden2053 what does that mean?

[@brucepower3429]

@@damianwayne8948 she can't control the guys with muscle females wanna be the good looking one and controlling one and in the center of attention guys who take care of themselves are not to control

[@damianwayne8948]

@@brucepower3429 That's a valid point

[@heatblair]

Mr. Cooper is correct, in my opinion. I prefer a man that I can tell is strong, stronger than myself, but I'm not into overly muscular men.

[@heatblair]

Kevin Levrone What? Don't comment on KZbin when you drinkin'. LOL. 😉 Everyone cares about looks! It's called attraction. That's like literally what attracts you to a person first!

[@heatblair]

Kevin Levrone Wow. I think you need some help, buddy. I hope you get it. Peace. ✌🏻

[@christiaanjohnsaunders5628]

Kevin Levrone get laid dawg

[@johnvas4173]

Hyper-gamy, from my experience is not just a gold digger mentality. Even now in my early 50s, I still have a muscular build. The women I meet who are recently separated, divorced or have just broken up, most have subtly/slyly hinted "you could kick my ex's ass" I'm only 5'8" but with an Al Pacino like, no bullshit attitude, so I've been told. Anecdotally this is a hindrance. I literally have to say to them. As long as you are not at fault, I would defend you. If you purposely start a fight or flirt with someone else, (being shit tested) do not expect me to back you up. By telling them this early on is a double edged sword. It is just like a mentioning a prenup. A good woman will understand where you are coming from. A hypergamonster will lose interest quickly because you called them on their bullshit before they've had the chance to shit test you. Expect them to walk. I don't envy you, youngsters. Socially, the dynamics have changed. Just keep swimming.

[@SomeMechlover]

Wiley Scrapper well said, I may even adopt the no bullshit line there. Would save me the trouble and energy of dealing with unsuitable women

[@Worldtravelerr78]

Prenups are toilet paper, they are routinely thrown out. Just don't get married

[@nellatl]

Wiley Scrapper respect that but a woman will be a woman. They keep shit going.

[@johnvas4173]

By all means, have at it. If the topic never comes up, you can start the conversation like this. Let me ask your opinion on something. I have a friend who's girlfriend tends to flirt with other guys. Yet he puts up with it. Now, my question to you is, why would any man tolerate that kind of behavior? Personally, I would dump her in a heartbeat. Life is to short to date someone with such low self-esteem. See what her response is. If she defends the girl, more than likely you struck a familiar nerve and likely has done the same. Your response should be, in a curious tone, "interesting". So you condone that type of behavior. Good to know. Now you have her on record. Plan your exit strategy.

[@gold1736]

@@johnvas4173 You still active on youtube? You seem cool bro.

[@MrHav1k]

It helps, but it's overrated massively by those in the fitness community.

[@areafortyone]

The best thing to do is just be yourself, and not worry what anyone else thinks.

[@MrHav1k]

Women love psychopaths so you're good lmao.

[@areafortyone]

npalmi88 I can't answer that.

[@mikehascats26]

unless you are fat

[@moses_njoku]

Be the best version of yourself

[@BigD751]

The footnote to this stupid ass fucking saying is that “yourself” is whoever the fuck you want it to be. You recreate “yourself” everyday. I have multiple personalities, looks, even accents. I can be whoever the fuck I want to be at any given moment.

[@katsuquiet97]

not all women are the same some like big muscles some dont like some men like big asses and some dont ....do if ur going to the gym dont get muscles for the women get them because u want them...and i do think women like big muscles...not because of the muscles them selves but if u take up alot of space making u more dominant. but u have to have a strong mind to go with the muscles, i cant tell u how many times ive seen big dudes with giant muscles but girly as fuck and cant approach a women big muscles do not increase confidence when it comes to getting a girl the MIND HAS TO BE AS STRONG AS THE BODY!!

[@karrielynn4355]

Katsu Quiet amen!

[@mr.hajijohnson318]

Through my experience, the athletic build such a boxer, basketball or football player seems to produce positive results.

[@mickethegoblin7167]

Football player? Lol, I hope you don't mean NFL, because those guys are in another league from the others on your list

[@bigeasy228]

It's silly to think that women don't like guys that are in shape. The problem is that she selfishly wants you to spend all of your time catering to her needs. If your time goes into self improvement and not into paying attention to her, she won't like you. The only exception is if your dedication to your self produces an income or benefits her directly. You are not allowed to have personal goals as a man when you are involved with a women. On the other hand, she can do any selfish thing she wants to.

[@karrielynn4355]

joseph domingue... Go to the gym together... Easy.

[@robertzwier4516]

Right! When I dont feel like having sex its a realllly big problem but she can say shes not feeling having sex all the time and then theres no problem. Sick of these bitches.

[@tarkamlokar9709]

This makes it sound like women want submissive men who are practically slaves. How can this be considered masculine or attractive? Women often find confident, masculine, dedicated and determined men attractive but a man who has these qualities wouldn't let himself become a slave to a woman solely serving her needs. This is effectively a contradiction. A man a woman can kick around and control is not a man most woman are interested in yet they are interested in this kind of man because he spends all his time catering to her needs and paying her attention? It's clearly a contradiction.

[@shortville2]

If you make women the center of your world you will be single fast. Despite what they say they don't want to be. They want you to have goals and dreams that they can be a part of but they don't want to be the dream.

[@dawnhalver]

@@shortville2nobody can handle the pressure of being “the dream” for long. We all need our own lives and to give a 100% effort to make a relationship work. Doing things together is awesome though, like yes, the gym, or any hobby, church, social gatherings, etc.

[@mageguy3]

Getting good arms chest back and shoulders just overall decently lean Girls love it. When you get to freak big that’s when they seem to get grossed out.

[@moscowcowboy_13]

A genuine woman is attracted to a man who is comfortable being himself, because it gives her permission to be herself. If you are more fit, it shows many things like dedication, sexual fitness, your ability to protect yourself and her. If you use it as a way to express your ego and want to attract all the chicks she will see through that. The easiest way to answer his question is if you have two guys are are all exactly the same as far as income, height, background etc. but one is short, fat and bald and the other guy is 6 feet+ and has a muscular physique, who do you think she would choose?

[@laurablain1986]

:) I guess it depends on the woman and different things do it for everyone. Broad shoulders are nice, I like strong hands, and need someone who can keep up on hikes or swimming or what-ever (some stamina is important ;) ) everything else doesn't matter too much to me (I've dated bigger guys and smaller guys). You look great Rich, really shows that you take care of yourself, you're a good example for sure :)

[@katherinekelly6432]

Women have their own version of the "Dumb blonde" and that is the guy who is all muscle and no brains. Also men who can not pass a mirror without looking at themselves (vain) is a turn off. Being preoccupied with your appearance makes a man come off as feminine.IMO Intelligence is as sexy as good health, but not the intelligence of someone who is arrogant or talks as an expert on every subject but really does not know what he is talking about. Get off the couch and be curious about the world you live in. Develop your interests and skills. Skills can be seriously sexy. I date a guy who is very good at handling horses and a sail boat along with other things. Watching a guy do something really well is REALLY SEXY.Become competent at stuff. Remember women are watching you as much as you watch them, only what is sexy to them is different. It tends to be what is inside a man as much as the outside (but more "within" unless she is an idiot)Be healthy. Take pride in your appearance (good hygiene). Don't be an actual jerk but be an endearing jerk (playful) A sharp wit and sense of humor are indications of intelligence plus it makes you fun to be around. More women have slept with men because they made them laugh than because they had large muscles.To differing degrees women like a touch of the feminine in a man but to much and she will stop being sexually attracted to you. She must sense a little bit of herself in you but yet you must remain strange and mysterious territory. But don't be weird like that guy "Mystery" who I think latched onto mysterious and went where no man has gone before.If you use money to attract and keep a woman you will attract a woman for your money and not for you. It works the same way as a woman relying solely on her body (sex) to get and keep a man. In the end it does not work because there is always someone with more money or a better body. The only bait you should use to attract a woman is becoming the best person you can become FOR YOURSELF. Treat your life as the precious thing it is. Use it to create true value that lasts. This is what makes a man attractive because he is attractive not only as a man but as a human being.Your life, not a woman, should be the thing you value above all else. Don't waste it like 97% of the human race does because they are so busy living in the future thinking about what they want and don't have, that they miss living in the moment where they could actually being doing something worthwhile and interesting. Do not live for status because this will make you just like everyone else and status seekers are BORING. Instead live for adventure and remain curious like a child.And for the love of God please do not use pornography as a training manual for how to make love to a woman. You pull a woman's hair who is not into that and she is going to get angry. Rough sex is fun but the chemistry has to be there or it goes bad quickly.Sex is a complex psychological act with endless layers. If you approach it as one size fits all you will be a terrible lover. The more you understand a woman's mind the better lover you will be. It is her mind you actually fuck, not her body. You are simply using her body to touch her mind and her soul when you really understand her but that is unfortunately a very rare experience in a woman's life.Guys worry about the size of their junk but that is not the actual problem with men being good lovers. Assuming the guy even cares in the first place, which many don't

[@ClearOutSamskaras]

you must break the text up with white space. it is unreadable otherwise.

[@spoonman73]

Best comment

[@batfink274]

Thank you for your well written feedback Katherine. It's no wonder so few relationships are successful, there are so many things that need to be right before two people can live harmoniously, and so few people make any effort to be the person they need to be in order to have the relationship they want. I've been happily single about 14 years, and in that time have grown enormously after so many failed relationships. I've written, I've read, I've watched and I've observed relationships, and after that I can see love for what it is, a dangerous drug used to produce more humans/batteries to create more energy for whoever created this simulation. I'm with Elon, nothing we think is real is real, it's all an elaborate hoax to generate emotionally charged power for the machines.

[@serioushamster]

Katherine,you don't really now what you want in a man.

[@Reonsi]

Most of these are actually good ideas with great arguments, thank you for your time and effort.

[@tmosest]

Started doing that crazy level of self care and lost 100lbs this year… and my ex too 😂. Thanks for the content man.

[@nellatl]

Muscles absolutely work with women if your ripped.

[@perfectbeat]

I'll add that clothes play a big part in attracting women. Attain a slim muscular look and then improve your wardrobe. Big muscles are for impressing and intimidating other males.

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

Agreed.

[@acidpilled8733]

I'm 6'5 and 270lbs and I've been told I'm intimidating by women and men, it hasn't helped me lmao

[@jamesbarrick3403]

I have had different results than you. I've never been overweight, but I go through periods where I hit the weights and my body responds immediately. I look better and get bigger and the women seem to like and react positive to me.

[@pashley1411]

If a woman you are hanging around with says you are carrying too much muscle, go to your phone and delete her contact information. In front of her. You paid for that strength with time, effort, and pain. Its just a shit test.

[@carolynlyfordsullivan1377]

I have to add , men are not fond of abdominal fat on women and it works the other way . You have the body build that most women like .

[@ClearOutSamskaras]

+ ross I like the slight curve too. Also, to my own psychological surprise even some belly curves that aren't so slight (not obese, just not slight).

[@cry2love]

Am I going to attract the better women if I build some meat on my bones? Never had muscles, look like a teen at 32, should I start working out? The women I've been with never complained of the lack of my muscle mass

[@Hawtload]

6'1", 155lbs, and I'm basically invisible to women as far as I can tell. I think I have too much of a nerd body and not enough well developed swimmer body. So my goal to start with is 175lbs.

[@gavinreid8351]

I find that ,living in a holiday resort, people break up just before the tourist arrive. They spend the summer getting off with tourists. When the tourists leave they look for a steady relationship again.

[@russellg7382]

I found that when I was in to bodybuilding that girls were more in to one night stands. Relationships were impossible. When I dropped about 30lbs and kept it lean I was getting hit on far more.

[@lagroad]

"Oh hes gonna cheat on me, he's so vain, or he's too into himself, or he's too dedicated to his craft." All that those examples say to me is that those women are selfish, and insecure. I can break it day, fear of cheating (because he knows he looks good, right? so what if a woman knows she looks good?) He's too vain or into himself, ig you can only have 1 person like that in a relationship, but too dedicated to his craft, sure cuz you want all of his attention at your command. She wants to be the center of his world, and if he has a strong passion like that, she wont have power.

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

I THINK I get what you were trying to say but I would have had an easier time if your spelling and grammar was MUCH better.

[@TheActionTourist]

Yet she actually isnt attracted to being the centre of his world AT ALL

[@laceyhansen9878]

As a woman, and giving advice "A real good mature woman is supposed to love you for exactly who you are, and won't ask you to change, rather than a controlling woman worried about image. Not all women are bitches, it's just, finding the right one is always hard, no matter who you are. I mean who wouldn't want to be with someone, who loves you as you are, over someone who critics your life." And about the spring and fall, spring is about renew and fall is about like wanting a snuggle buddy, cause fall, especially winter, can be sometimes depressing for anyone. My preference for a spouse, as long the person can take care of himself or herself, have some meat on their bones, know how to clean and not be mean towards people with differences, own a vehicle, loves life, not afraid to show emotion, likes to snuggle from time to time, take me on walks around the town/city, we should be good. In a relationship, all a person should truly care about, is to be reassured to trust the individual who wants to be with you for eternity and love you for exactly who you choose to be, woman also want respect and want to feel loved, I mean who doesn't, even men secretly want to feel loved and there is nothing wrong with that. My point is, everyone has some kind of bitch in em, but to us women we only act that way cause most don't want to feel run over and feel they have to be in order to survive.

[@annmitchell4663]

lacey hansen When I met my husband he was( still is) a biker, he was tall skinny with long blond hair, he wore the same clothes no matter where we went, bike boots and jacket,tatty t shirts, we have been to weddings, works xmas parties,out to dinner,me dressed up to the nines..lol, he did surprise me once by putting a dress jacket on..with his boots and tee..😅he had his beloved bikes and a clapped out old volve which I always describe as being held together with string and hope! We were going to a party one night and I wanted to werlar a nice dress so asked if we could go in the car instead of on the bike,he duly turned up in said car,when we arrived at the party, (me in a lovely cream cheescloth dress)I got out with my bum coveted in oil, hed forgotten to tell me he had taken sone parts to the garage in the car the previous day...I spent all night sitting down cos I couldnt get up to dance!!! We didnt have much money but the best times ever..we split up about 13 years later but are still friends as we have 3 kids,he is still a biker, still wears boots and biker jackets(hair greyer and shorter)but his partner now still loves him as he is, when we split up he moved into a flat nearby so he couldbe near the kids and see then whenever he wanted(he had moved into my house with me )and as the kids were growing up he saw them as much as he wanted,just cos we fell out of love he still loved the kids and vice versa, he was/is a good dad,his partner is lovely and gets on well with our 'kids'( grown up now) so it can work even if it doesnt always work, if you see what I mean.

[@thesmartbudgetchannel2940]

I've been boxing since I was 10 years old I'm 45 now and I've used that to keep myself in shape

[@micheletedrick3649]

As a woman in the gym, also lifting heavy, my preference will be healthy men with muscles 💪. I could understand how a woman with lower self esteem/no physical fitness or nutrition awareness would be intimidated by a muscular man & healthy habits. She would feel obligated to raise her standards to a healthy lifestyle, by proxy, and she will either rise to the challenge or not try at all.

[@albertmarqz6501]

That's my theory

[@Sisterlisk]

I like all kinds of "muscle styles". The face and charisma is more important.

[@tomwalker389]

Two words. 'Fight Club'.

[@Anw4rr10r]

You just broke the first two rules.

[@daeremcyemcy6349]

Bro you never ever talk about the fight club

[@CMC_prodz]

If you even get to read this, for what it's worth I think you're amazing guy for doing these videos and I'm just a divorced now and have two kids that are young dealing with all that. I'm in my own condo by myself in New Jersey and I was having a rough time and I came across your videos and they've been helping me quite a bit so I'm thankful for that David M New Jersey

[@AquanautSt1]

Black and Hispanic woman tend to go for muscle more imo

[@unusedname197]

True. They like more true masculine men.

[@Ilethsamael]

It is heavily cultural. Generally guys need to convey power and competence to look attractive.

[@elcid4593]

R strategy

[@robertromero8094]

White girls lose there shit for muscles

[@LaLaTheRockstar]

Money is the most powerful weapon folks

[@vincealince_SRT]

Lol I've been with my Lady for 8 years, and take it from me, they'll never be happy with you, their job is to keep you on your feet. One man already stated it but f-ck what they think. You're gonna be into a long relationship and realize you do things for others well-being and all the while your life passes you by. Be up front from the start, this is how it is and will always be...

[@moveadvisor3580]

I really love your confidence and how you talk about more things pro men. Too many soft ass men nowadays that don’t call it like it is and only want to please women.

[@TonyChev]

I'm under 10% body fat, 6'2" and hover between 238 and go up to 248 lbs. I'm not near as big as the past, but I'm still jacked. I wasn't into nailing randoms, but my size was always a plus with women. I've had women in elevators randomly touch me for thrills. Animal magnetism. Big strong athletic guys trigger something in their brains. It's absolute BS that women don't dig jacked men. Maybe if you're butt ugly and antisocial. It won't keep the girl if you're a loser, but it definitely helps. Get to the gym. Build your body and mind. Constantly strive to improve and achieve. That's the secret. Women are drawn to success. Big and muscular is a sign of success. Go for it!

[@jcpaul6824]

I disagree. In my journey of life women have always paid more attention to me when in shape. As a competitive bodybuilder myself I have found it to be like shooting fish in a barrel. The dichotomy of the situation is when I've put on weight they tend to not be as interested, also guys find your lane, the women I've mentioned being the fit athletic type are my lane and I find the most success with those type of women. "Regular" girls are indeed turned off by abnormal muscular development, but that's not my lane and I could care less if they like my look or not. Funny thing is I always catch them peeking a look (husband or boyfriend in hand) when am out in public, so they may say they don't like muscles but secretly wished there mate was sweeter eye candy.

[@mdm5216]

I get my fair share of attention because of my looks but once they see the modest income, they are gone. I live comfortable but not comfortable enough for them.

[@karrielynn4355]

MD M I don't believe that for a second. You need to Amp up your game in other areas... Its not all about money... Take a look inside yourself and see what you need to work on

[@mdm5216]

Instead of posing The fact that she could have her own failing. You assume it has to be me. Because we all know women are perfect because vagina.

[@mdm5216]

Read her comment again. "I need to amp MY game" "look inside myself" She's saying it has to be my fault. It's not Possible my ex left for money or "her" own failing. She's saying it could only be my failing. I don't "hate" women. Dating one right now. After our second date she says, what they all say, I can't believe someone didn't want to make time for you. Honestly I talk to my ex here and there. I don't hate her. I accept her rational decision to find a "provider".

[@manpsych3924]

this comment right here proves it actually might be you dude haha

[@pereira1801]

Same for me bro. Times were a lot easier back when we were in high school, we could make it all just with our looks...

[@beckyzwhite]

Big muscles... No thank you! Fit and well toned... Yes please!

[@ThePeopleVerse]

It seems to me that women don't want a guy that is higher maintainance than they are. I have found that women dig a guy that is fit and strong....mentally and physically.