The Ultimate Dating Guide for 50s: Find Love Again

The ultimate guide for men, dating in their 50s.
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[@patienceobongo]

Grow-up. "Dating aged 50" FFS

[@mationinfo]

Hey Rich, I am from Calgary. Which site of your do you use to connect with men globally. There even might be some on from Calgary. Lol

[@bhillis99]

Rich you ever thought about shaving? Makes you look 15 years older with your beard.

[@h2w25]

Nobody watching this video is trying to find any kind of relationship. It’s like modern day Seinfeld, you’ll inevitably find something wrong with her and onto the next As well you should, it’s 2023 and Peter Pan syndrome is in full effect.

[@jakemccoy]

@@h2w25 I like his thought process. If I have my boys and my business, I'm good. I can then date women I want without expecting too much out of her.

[@stevec3526]

I dated 3 single mothers years ago. I don’t recommend it at all. The family dog will get more respect than you will.

[@dosbaddel7436]

Agree, same experience.

[@bumpnuglies]

Dogs are the worst they don't train them and let them get away with everything

[@chintz7428]

The same happens when new grandkids show up.

[@DukesFandango]

Truth absolute. You will be expected to exist on fumes.

[@cbxxb4841]

You will get the respect you demand. Stamp right on disrespect and if they don’t get it, you will have to let her go.

[@AustinKloud]

I’m 52 and divorced…. I’m raising my 16 and 18 year old sons as a single father. I don’t need some crazy trying to ruin what’s left of my family. *Rich I bought your book and i recommend it to every man I know.

[@magsteel9891]

I'm +10 years, same here. Don't need any crazies in my life, I'm busy enough as it is

[@njjj3338]

What happened to baby mama?

[@dpstrial]

I am 61 and the number of crazy post-wall women is off the chart.

[@CodeBleu724]

I'm 51 and in the best place in my life now. Divorced offcially since 2016...unofficially since 2011. I raised my only son on my own and he'll be 22 this September. She got remarried in 2017 to a chump to pay for her medical insurance, being an epileptic and can't work. I took care of her until she became a bored house frau and lost her mind on this stupid online game called Second Life. I dated a handful of women since, some single mothers, some not. I will NEVER take care of someone else's kid. I don't need the aggravation. And at my age, why should I take on that burden?

[@dpstrial]

@@CodeBleu724 You are right: taking on someone else's children will be a heavy burden and one that is completely unnecessary. You don't need to live with someone to these days to enjoy carnal pleasures. Modern women should be kept at arm's length.

[@fishin4bogey]

A good friend of mine is in his early 60's and consistently dates women who are 35-45. He's in the gym daily, definitely working on himself, and keeping his game and frame at it's peak. Makes 60ish a year. He's my OG Red Pill mentor. No marriage. No cohabitation. He lays this all out from the get go, and they all fall in line. His last relationship was going along fabulously, until she started trying to Betatize him. Told her that it was going to be his way. Period. She withdrew her suggestions, but started up again a month later. Back to the streets she went.

[@davidpierce9949]

Does he have money too?

[@rn2811]

It’s true that a woman will test you.

[@fishin4bogey]

@@davidpierce9949 nope. Regular working schmuck making 50-60k a year.

[@jakemccoy]

Sounds like me, except I stopped dating women in the USA 5 years ago.

[@pinkchilldivestmentor]

I knew a guy like that here in San Francisco. Then he finally married a nice woman about 25 years younger. He got cancer and died, and now she inherited his estate.

[@PNdebt-hc2tg]

I must be the exception. Divorced at 62 and found a great lady that is two years younger than me. She is beautiful, takes care of herself in every way. Good family, finances and a near perfect match. I have the guy bonding thing down well enough so finding an adventurous lady is perfect. We are 15 months in and the future looks great. Sex is really good for both. Great intimacy. Guys..don't give up. Personally, I could not build a future with a lady that was a lot younger than me. Prefer an equal for the long haul.

[@scottmiller2576]

That's right any 50 yr stating that they are in solid relationship with a 25 yr old is kidding themselves , there is only three things guaranteed in life , Death/ Taxes/ and a 25yr old female leaving a 50+ yr old guy. Only a very wealthy man that has a overwhelming Financial Tractor Beam will hold a women at that age until she has the ability to set herself up through divorce or Defacto family law proceedings.

[@Marwadear512]

I remarried in my early 40s to an amazing man my age and YOU represent the vast majority of the best men I saw out there before meeting him. Almost all of the emotionally stable, willing to commit and wanting to marry, well-off/financially secure, professional, attractive, emotionally intelligent men who overall had life going well for them despite their widowhood or divorce, wanted to find a nice, attractive woman around their own age.

[@transitionsnc]

Good for you. All the best to you.

[@iangutoskie2315]

@@Marwadear512not true: I’m in that category. Women over 40 have much higher standards and they can’t be mothers. I’m 46 and married a women in her 30’s. I have a large company, 6’6”, in great shape and decent looking there is no way I would date anyone my age when I can have younger, hotter, more pleasant. Your post make zero sense. Also most women in their 40+ are in and out with medical problems and dragging every man that wronged them with them. Read this a few times and think why it would be any different. ALL MEN find women between 18-25 at their hottest, once the 40’s hit they don’t look anything like their younger selves. Stop the cope and treat that man like gold because an overwhelming majority don’t want a women their age. If what you say is true show me a KZbin channel with a ton of followers that believe your non sense

[@Marwadear512]

@@iangutoskie2315 I stated my reality. Whether you like it or not, doesn’t change it. I had 3 proposals from attractive HVM within 1 year of divorce. The first two didn’t work out due to location and kid situation. Thankfully the last one did. Now if they wanted more kids then obviously I wouldn’t be suitable, but many men do not want more kids. Like my husband. Who also did not want a woman in her 20s, despite them generally being physically attractive.

[@patluvsvettes]

I'm about a year away from turning 50, and honestly, I've stopped dating. The juice ain't worth the squeeze at this point in my life, and I have WAY too much to lose.

[@VoiceOfThe]

Same age and I’m not fussed about dating anymore.

[@fatgirlboy9341]

think of it after dating. i didn’t really enjoy it.

[@BucksOutdoors]

Turned 50 a month ago and I'm out. It's just not worth the hassle.

[@fatgirlboy9341]

actually i won’t give up. but i will try to find out i will be happy in the long term as well as pleasure in the short term. good things aren’t easy normally.

[@spadgm]

Same age as you and I am fine with no more dating.

[@michaeldunn572]

At 50 i am more interested in making money, being a full time dad to my son and enjoying my passions than dating women. I enjoy their company but nothing trumps your own personal freedom to come and go as you please , without having to deal with an undiagnosed personality disorder !

[@manifest2203]

This is what women say too. But somehow males don’t believe them 🤦‍♀️ For women, especially at older age it means less stress because of less work. No new man to nag them asking them to make more food, to do more laundry, to do more cleaning.

[@rogerthornhill1491]

@@manifest2203 Oh I think we believe them alright! There are just so many examples around to prove that point.. I certainly believe that your average woman is much better prepared to live alone, happily, than your average man. Men are slowing catching up though. Its a matter of social training to that mindset. And discovering its very possible. I think one of the reasons is that most older women overall could care less about pursuing sex anymore. Its just not a priority. She might have sex but not necessarily for its own sake. This whole men and women have the same sex drive is just complete nonsense! Especially after 50 (menopause) My GP told me during a consult last year (she's also a gyno/OB) That after fifty women broadly fall into three categories, 1. Those who don't desire sex at all. 2. Those that can take it or leave it. And 3. Those that still actively enjoy and pursue it. Not particularly good odds are they?

[@manifest2203]

@@rogerthornhill1491 that is what I am saying too. Men can definitely take care of themselves, but of them won’t. Slowly catching up on? Not really. The male default setting is laziness, being easily inebriated, selfishness and s3xual dege*neracy. Right now, there are lots of men who can’t even hold one job. There is a report that 8 million able bodied males aren’t looking for a job. They simply mooch off of their moms, gf, wives. I do agree that men are more th*irsty thaan women on average. Most of them are meant to d*ie as virgins anyway. And yes older women aren’t thi*rsty for men at all. It makes no sense for older women to get married to older men. Some of them do have a higher s3x drive and they should pursue younger men because younger men are more virile.

[@rogerthornhill1491]

@@Walkingdead69 I don’t necessarily disagree with you there. But most women are going to be forced to work as a result, unless they are semi retired as they did well in a divorce that landed squarely in their court, so they don’t have to bloody work. Let’s face it. The main reason men crave women’s company is the sexual aspect? If you take that away, you might as well just be living with a friend? if that’s your cheese, fine. But (most) men past 50 are not as motivated by sex as a 20-year-old? And they do the calculations in their head and come to the conclusion that living alone has all the benefits you speak of. And there’s not a snowballs chance in hell they will go back once they discover that. It’s only then they become equal to, or better than living alone than a woman. Women usually discovered this a lot earlier than men. They do the exact same calculations. And especially if they’re married, they go shit I can have half of everything he has and live very very happily alone without any of his aggravation! They’re not stupid. They have no attraction to their husband there, regarding him as a cash cow and nothing more There is no residual attraction to him, so they make the logical choice. Is it no wonder that thousands and thousands of married women are making that choice? Personally, now that I’ve discovered it I have never been more happy and at total peace. As well, most men when they’re younger don’t realise how subconscious physical attraction to women is to the love they have for a spouse. Otherwise, why would any man in their right mind put up with all the aggravation from a combative spouse? All you have to do is run into some of your early girlfriends when you’re in your early 50s, and they are likewise aged weathered and overweight and you say to yourself, ‘what the hell was I thinking?’ And you realise it wasn’t your big brain thinking? And that the whole wrapup of attraction you had to her was mainly physical attraction. And now that that has massively diminished you realise it in real time. And then you contemplate the heartache and misery she caused back then and you go home. Unpack your groceries and laugh your arse off as to how stupid you were, and how lucky you are now! I’m here to tell you the rest of that day is a dream full of wide arse, smiling to yourself! Most men, me included. Do some very stupid things with regard to women in our 20s. And we suffer some very stupid self-inflicted wounds. Being a mature and rounded man is realising that as early as possible.

[@9StickNate]

I’m 49 and got out of a 10 year relationship/marriage and we have no kids. Last Summer I met a 36 year old single mother with 2 kids, 6 and 10. we shared a similar profession and had some things in common. The kids were friendly, but probably more out of curiosity. They were very clingy and kids are the ultimate cock-Blockers. The Mother had a look of defeat on her face consistently and screamed at her kids over the most minor things. This wasn’t apparent the first couple weeks. I had stayed over at her place 2 or 3 times. That was enough. Quiet, sporadic sex with someone who is constantly stressed and irritated was god-awful. I do not recommend. In regards to maturity. I’ve met 24 year olds that have a plan, hobbies and a good attitude. I’ve also known 50 year old Prima Dona’s that have baggage, entitlement and demanding attitudes. Some women age; win the house and child support in the divorce and then believe they’re going to get the attention that they got at 25.

[@lordshiva9359]

Thanks for writing a book 📖

[@sam.r8610]

Man u r 49 and dating 36year old lady isn't that weird it's like dating ur sister

[@skibum914]

I'm 60 now w similar situation as you...I do not find 50+ yrs olds attractive at all...life is good without all the headaches.

[@seanross1962]

I find many women marry young, raise kids while husband builds success, get bored after kids leave the nest, get attention from guys on social media, divorce husband and take half his wealth, realize the guys on social media only want sex and not marriage, then cry over a bottle of wine every night saying they don't want to be alone the rest of their life

[@freddaniali]

@@sam.r8610 I'm 49, and I sure don't want a 49 year old woman. I don't even want a 45 year old woman. Nothing wrong with dating a 36 year at his age; however, he should have found one without as much baggage. There out there, if you care to make the effort. I don't personally.

[@KennyD-bi3ec]

As someone who just turned 52, and has been separated since Sept 21; I can say I am in a happy place in my life. I realized that I don't need another relationship/situationship to make me a complete person. I love the fact that I am on my own now, save for when my kids are with me. I have been doing the work on myself. I've been going to the gym since Feb, and have hit 64 days so far. I think a lot of guys forget what a solid separation/divorce can be for you. You get a do-over. Rediscover yourself. Invest in you. You will be happier for it. Life doesn't have to end with the end of a relationship. You are worth it!

[@johnheckscher7138]

Yep, I understand and I'm happy for you 😊

[@KennyD-bi3ec]

@@johnheckscher7138 Thank you!

[@shovelgeorge8851]

Similar situation myself and I agree 100%. At recent family get together had family members asking "So... you looking for someone? Any new ladies?" My answer was a resounding "NO way! I'm good" I later explained to others that I should actually thank my ex-wife... they were puzzled. I said "She set me free" Saved me from a miserable life of "Happy wife, happy life" Now that I have a few years of red-pill education, No way I'd ever fall into that trap again. Guys...Enjoy the Do-over like someone said and the Freedom.

[@manifest2203]

This is what women say too. But somehow males don’t believe them 🤦‍♀️ For women, especially at older age it means less stress because of less work. No new man to nag them asking them to make more food, to do more laundry, to do more cleaning.

[@gailainsley6939]

@@manifest2203. Exactly. When women want nothing to do with men. They actually mean it. Men don’t and will even get passports just to be around women. It is NOT the same. 😂😴

[@philsrandomstuff2392]

As a 46 year old newly single bloke one of the hardest thing is to have male friends to hang out with as they are all controlled by their female partners, if you’re not a strong guy a woman will take away your identity like what happened to me and you will be left single and friendless. If you’re not strong she will drive all your friends away. I let this happen. I may be single and alone but I now have control over my own direction.

[@paulnicolas172]

Avoid women at all costs unless you can’t lol 😆

[@hughobrien4436]

Yes it is tough. Just get out of bed each day, focus on you and your ambitions and make yourself the guy that women will want, if you want to that is. And remember Dude.....IT IS NO OVER at 46. I am 53 and last year I met my then 29 GF and things are just great.

[@themustangone6449]

Same here, i cycle a lot, keep fit, date, guess i was blessed with height 6'4" not ugly so havebt had much issue, but sad i lost my identity for a while

[@hayley44448]

​@themustangone6449 wow thats tall haha considering I'm only 5 ft 😅

[@pinnacle1717]

Glad you got your life back mate. Unless you are a truely strong Alfa, she will stop you doing anything that she is not in control of. Friends, hobbies, time with your side of the family, all become distant memories. Boys hunting trips, boys ski weekends, fishing trips. All will be a thing of the past. DON’T let it happen. One buddy I used to hang out a lot with, - once the new “perfect” woman was running his life, she stopped him from doing all of the things he loved. Made him sell his boat, quad bikes, mountain cabin, glider, beach buggy, all the toys gone! She basically cut his balls off. They only seem to spend time with her relatives now & her bitchy girlfriends & their men (all betas) When they finally split, (let’s hope for his sake they do soon) he will realise she has stripped him of any manhood he once had.

[@highdesertutah]

I’m in my 50’s and for the vast % of older guys I’ll give this advice. Don’t bother unless you have the looks, money/status, game, and desire to get a younger woman. Women my age turn me on about as much as a bag of redi mix concrete and I have no chance getting a younger woman unless I pay a pro. That’s probably the best way to go for older dudes. The sex drive of most men past 45 or so has diminished enough that rubbing one out a couple times a week works just fine then they can get back to earning money and pursuing hobbies.

[@swamptoedenliving4924]

I am 53 and divorced for 4 years. I was only dating 30 and under after trying the 30’s, 40’ and 50 year old women. Now I have been in a relationship with a 23 year old with no kids for the last 1.5 years and it’s been great. If you know how to lead as a man they will follow. There are no real men in the younger range that stay in their masculine frame.

[@davidpierce9949]

53 dating a 23 yo? Nothing to brag about.

[@davidberg7346]

I’m sure she’s not just dating you for your money

[@swamptoedenliving4924]

@@davidpierce9949 Don’t hate because you can’t do it! You can have all the old scraps that have been run through.

[@swamptoedenliving4924]

@@davidberg7346 I wish that was the case! Was married for 18 years and she took 70% of my net worth and get a large sum of child support. Basically starting over for the last 3 years but she doesn’t seem to mind

[@jakemccoy]

@@davidpierce9949 It does not sound like he's bragging to me. It sounds like you feel inferior for whatever reason.

[@nw1816]

Dont date a single mother no matter how old she is. All they are looking for is a sucker to help raise her children. When the children are old enough she will dump you, married or not. Also, it doesnt matter how old the gf is, she still is "monkey branching". I dated a 62 year old widow, petite and looked much younger when i was 58. She was much older than i prefered but after all the heartache i endured my whole life, i thought i was golden. I sacrificed age for stability. Boy, was i wrong. Her friend contacted me and said she was seeing 2 other guys. Then her girlfriend who was in a relationship hinted that she wanted to sleep with me, disgusting!

[@webersteve1547]

In my mid fifties I met a young girl in her early twenties. We are still together after more than ten years. Ok, you have to bring something to the table, which is not easy after a divorce and two kids that study. I wouldn't even consider a woman older than mid thirties. My ex is over sixtie now (as I am), and man am I happy that I'm divorced from her 😂

[@coloradomark2159]

Hope your ex got to see you with your young hottie, this would really put her tired old self in her place.

[@colinrussell2017]

​@@coloradomark2159 Maybe the ex is happy too!

[@sam.r8610]

50 with 20yr old wife damn man u r ruining ur life she isn't even attracted to you

[@webersteve1547]

@@sam.r8610 why do you think so? Maybe we just give us what we need?

[@1trompet146]

⁠@@coloradomark2159what did the ex do wrong here for you to be so hostile?

[@Kguth819]

Older women: No accountability. SSRI’s, cats/dogs, wine, feel that they are older and know it all and have all the answers. Overuse terms like; toxic, healing, abuser, narcissist, independent, sarcastic, witty. The modern woman is obese because of…fast foods (they can’t cook) SSRI’s cause weight gain and make it very difficult to lose it. Wine…empty calories and high sugar.

[@seanross1962]

And 99% refuse to put gym time in yet spend thousands on their appearance.

[@user-oh7tq4vn4w]

"toxic, healing, abuser, narcissist, independent", correct. It's pathetic how often these now meaning less buzzwords are trotted out with monotonous regularity by the same fat, unattractive, insecure, jealous, nagging, bitter old tugboats.

[@user-yk4gd1fl4z]

Sounds like a nightmare. Those words are cancer from women.

[@Saultdog67]

Yep the" Wine Witch"

[@dudeorduderorelduderino9087]

BEST COMMENT!!!

[@jimmyjuju]

I'm 50 and my #1 rule regarding women is that they need to fill a role in my life: mother, sister, daughter, aunt, teacher, co-worker, partner/gf/wife, etc. Under no circumstance do I need female friends to "hang out" with. Absolutely and resolutely "no thank you".

[@GBU61]

If a man reaches his 50s and is single, it won’t get better moving forward with relationships. You will find as you age you stop caring what women want/think because usually what she offers is no longer worth all the work. A more realistic approach is don’t promise anything and keep your options open. I found, now in my 60s, that having my own home, and my own space offers me the control of my life that works well. If I meet a woman along the way that will allow me to lead, I will see her while I am enjoying the time we spend together. Ultimately none of these relationships last anyway, so by becoming indifferent, I save myself a lot of grief and heartache. If I want a true companion, I will get a dog.

[@ma3stro681]

Men in their 50s should just go to Thailand once or twice a year …

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

True, oh how very true. Those relationships do not last. Best thing is not to take it seriously..

[@highdesertutah]

Dogs are great just make sure you have the time and space for them.

[@rogerthornhill1491]

Gold!

[@marionwallsten7507]

Well spoken ! So would I, as a woman.

[@rudeawakening3833]

SO SPOT ON ! I’m 63 , got divorced at 50 , and I would have avoided SO MUCH grief and stress and aggravation had I heard THIS ONE VIDEO … ☮️

[@mkd4life40]

Same age, became red pilled during the lockdown...funny how many 55 year old plus ladies think they have a smv beyond being banged by dudes 18-80...many are waiting for the next best option, you're simply the current best option...hypergamy knows no bounds.... I look for fwb, no desire for 24/7....

[@rudeawakening3833]

Unfortunately , I feel the same . I got divorce - raped in 2011 . I don’t want another “ grey “ divorce . Laws all on women’s side . Sad . Grow old alone - “ I can do bad , all by myself “ Peace ☮️

[@ubermensch6669]

A hard lesson I had to learn in mid 40s was to love and invest in yourselves fellas ,happiness is within you as chessy as it sounds ,women are a wonderful additions to life but it’s not essential ,you peace of mind MUST be your total focus in life

[@edwardwallace1633]

Menopause is a real thing I went through it with my ex wife and one lady friend They don’t like sex My current lady friend is 38 and good to go I’m not moving anyone in or getting married Thanks Rich!

[@riggitydoo5116]

Bingo. It moves a large number to the sidelines permanently. Hence why it seems like a one sided game...because it is.

[@BleachDemon707]

I think you meant to spell "Men on pause" 😂

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

@@BleachDemon707 Oh yes..

[@mattn9349]

Wives withold sex at every age, specifically to mess with you because that's enjoyable to them, and often because they never loved their husband to begin with. It's all a game to them, and the goal is to live the most comfortable life they can with minimal effort, or at least, to be better off then their 'friends'. It's a fallacy that sex becomes more accessible in marriage. In reality, men become more attractive with age and wealth, so I've never understood giving that up just as the outlook is about to get a whole lot more promising. In summary, marriage = death.

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

@@mattn9349 In full agreement with you Sir.

[@steverinaldi890]

Agree with many men on here. First off I’m in my early 50’s and women anywhere near my age have more issues, drama and less to offer than younger women. Regardless the box isn’t worth chasing at this age. Slept with many women and love sex and would be open to a relationship but they are looking for an ATM in my opinion at all ages. An older woman hits on me last week and was pushing me to take her to dinner on a Wednesday. It would have ran me over $300 for dinner at this place. I was shocked that this 59 year old, not even very attractive woman (not in my league at all) pushing dinner at a place like that. Insane

[@mattn9349]

Older women love to shame men preemmptively by casually dropping lines like "i've never understood what men could possibly have in common with younger women". In truth, women don't mature beyond 16, so those 40 year olds really aren't offering anything other than significantly depreciated assets. The rare 'exception' was already different than the others at 16.

[@wolfthequarrelsome504]

Lol.. Dont. She's not worth that. Best thing you can do is tell her you're not going to spend that kind of money. See what she comes up with.

[@edwardmylnychuk5774]

if they want a dinner then they are gold diggers so leave. if coffee to meet up with isnt good enough then you arent worth my time

[@aled4019]

Just pay for it when you need to empty the tanks.. it's cheaper!

[@pinnacle1717]

@@aled4019 & a guaranteed “happy ending”

[@liljerseygirl249]

Are you kidding, the last guy I dated was divorced 5 years already, and he talked about what "she did to him" she left him and filed for divorce after 23 years of marriage.. This was every time we saw one another. He also talked about another girlfriend he had 35 years ago that walked out on him. Never a word about how he was verbally and physically abusive to them.. (I found out when he started doing it to me and spoke to the ex) I got sick of hearing about his exs, and no way would I put up with any type of abuse. By the way, I made more money then him, have my own health benefit, etc. I didn't need his money.

[@lou15176]

If he talked about his ex more than the basic info that I need to know, I’d be gone. If you are dragging your past around then how do you have time for me? Yeah red flag 🚩 byeeee x

[@rizkhan3368]

Like toxic women, there are toxic men, always figure em out, I can judge most of em in a few days! so should you with experience.

[@dojocho1894]

Divorced after 17 yrs no kids 62 Model looks cardiologist.. It's stunning how easy it is to pick up girls in their 20's. I mean, they see my ID badge that says MD and they see stars. I just dont take it all seriously anymore for I loved my ex but she sought greener pastures. Hooked up with a dentist. I'm busy AF. I have a few more years to retire and I have been going back and forth to Sicily looking for a retirement home. I literally could date everyday...but im from a different generation my youth in the 70's girls were way different...I grew up in a family that had love parent's married 50 yrs......I wa not prepared for the type of crazy out there today.

[@sam.r8610]

u r just being delusional and thinks women r just thing but the thing is u r just acting irony cause you r desperate hope u get good life partner

[@pablodarko84]

Hi, that's great, perhaps you could also consider Costa Rica or The Philippines to retire, they are awesome places too and cheaper. Stay safe.

[@chilipepper9938]

As a hospitalist, at 51. Have a friend who does locums one week a month and lives overseas

[@AW-zy1kw]

Lol “model looks” but they see stars when they see MD & your wife left to bang a dentist. I think you need to quit lying to yourself😂

[@Traian986]

Congrats on your health and taking care of your body. How did you mantained your model look until 62 ? Thanks!

[@sandiegochocolatefountains]

I started reading these comments out of curiosity and wow…

[@DarylSimpson58]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash...

[@Kurt5Dobson]

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

[@DarylSimpson58]

@@Kurt5Dobson well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@Kurt5Dobson]

@@DarylSimpson58 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@DarylSimpson58]

@@Kurt5Dobson her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@DarylSimpson58]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@texasRoofDoctor]

I found myself suddenly single at 50 and balled out. I am 57 now and still get plenty of attention. Yes, still good looking and fairly fit. It is the confidence, though, that is key. Women in their 20's and up just sense it and gravitate toward confident men. Older women know they are low value and but still think they can go all cougar- and they can with Low Value younger guys. Better to go to a foreign country than date single moms- they are programmed to care for their offspring, not you.

[@dagobaker]

finding women on my level in their 40s or 50s in NE Ohio is nearly impossible 30s they have young kids 40s middle age kids 50s the looks and body are basically gone finding one thats attractive and not overweight.... without kids at home has proven unicorn status

[@bashiruddinahmad408]

Born and raised in N.E Ohio haven't been home since 2019 in the 80's 90's the women were different yes I agree overweight women are plentiful with kids in tow..trying to find a good one is nearly impossible

[@riggitydoo5116]

And then you find a fit, good looking and guess what? Still defective. Ask me how I know.

[@chilipepper9938]

From southwest US and moved to northeast Ohio. You nailed it, only place is to live close to the college towns.

[@00_UU]

That's why you save money, retire early and move to the Philippines do date young ladies and live a luxury life on 2k per month. What is it to do in the Midwest? Long winters, boring football games, average bars and everyone is overweight.

[@chilipepper9938]

@@00_UU that is my goal, looking to get 20k a month passing income by working 85 hours a week , and go overseas asap. Will watch the embers of the dating and marriage apocalypse over there in the beach. Can guarantee that the US government will stop giving passports. Once men start waking up and leaving

[@hwy1310]

Travel, meet different people…..even if it’s a brief encounter at a restaurant, gas station, etc. It’s a great way to stave off the feeling of isolation. I travel on my motorcycle, solo….I’ve met so many interesting people the past 2 years, since I’ve been single and riding. Get out and LIVE, don’t try to hard to meet someone…when you quit caring so much about it, magical things happen.

[@hughobrien4436]

I got divorced at 49 from a woman, who was three years younger than me, who basicaly ignored me for the last 6 years of our marraige(I live in sweden and the divorce laws are not as hostile towards men). I have 3 sons. I am 53, and a year ago I met a 29 year old who adores me, she is 30 now and we are looking at marrige and a house together. Life could not be better.

[@tonyawilhour3284]

This guy. Rich. Potentially has the power to change the western world into a better place. When women can’t find marriage because they want to be strong independent women realize, the more important things in life is not going to be easy to attain, a shift could happen to a world where women stay home more, and men are men again. 🙏. It’s a slippery subject because, as female, I would hate to see women dumbed down, being abused and totally controlled by men. No woman wants that and could never be of any value to a man if she’s not happy but I do believe it’s exactly what’s wrong with the world today. The breakdown of family, traditions, values the United States had in the 50’s. Its POWERFUL message to women if they think they will end up alone and unattractive to a man because she’s strong and independent. The status quo could shift if it truly reaches women’s ear’s. For the most part. However, the fantasy that ALL men can get women much younger, without her having the agenda of taking your wealth after your looks are gone is pure BS. Rich, Andrew Tate and very few others have the stellar looks, along with the other traits of a manly man to date women way younger. It’s not because I’m older I’m saying this. It’s factual in most cases I’ve seen. Younger women want a realistic good looking husband and if he’s gonna get old on her, she’s probably with younger men on the sly using your funds to make her look like a high value woman. I’m guessing and don’t have statistics or facts but only from what I’ve observed over the years. Rudy Giuliani is one example. Old man with beautiful 40 year old gets dumped when he get too old to attain good looks. Rich has an ability to reach a large crowd. He’s more humble than others that tout his same message. Joe Rogan has the same humble nature, plus is a great listener like Rich from my observation, I only think it would be wiser to be realistic about making men think they can truly get much younger women and it being a truly desirable situation for the much younger female. I think it’s setting a bunch of men up for a huge disappointment. 10 years is fine but let’s get real…. 20! BS for most men.

[@victorblock3421]

My soulmate is my dog. He's my sweetheart. With him there's intimacy, love, friendship, companionship and loyalty. For my libido it's a local Asian massage parlor.

[@MyKittkat]

I’m a 51 year old woman and I find this video and comments really discouraging. Menopause doesn’t run my life. I don’t have a ton of emotional baggage I’m in great shape and my sex drive is very healthy. I am dating a good man right now but he will never marry me. I find that because of these assumptions men my age won’t even approach me and it can easily lead to depression in women in my age group. I just don’t think it’s fair

[@RK-db4oq]

Are you divorced? If so, did you initiate it? If so, you failed the primary test--loyalty. And therefore no quality man will ever take you seriously.

[@rizkhan3368]

You are an exception lady, thank your stars.

[@clyomu]

Just shows how low vibration he is. I wouldn't waste my money on his book because this video shows what calibre it is

[@michaelmitchell5098]

I’m a widower at 61 and not even trying that dating crap. Haven’t done it since the early 1980s and from what i hear from my Granddaughters (20 & 27) it is not the place to be.

[@DuncanBuilds]

Great vid Rich, thanks. 41, single, 2x divorced. Started my red pill journey about 18 months ago. You've been a major player in it. Always appreciate your balanced perspective. It's wild out here boys and this info is gold. Act accordingly.

[@LiftOffLife]

You will never be more important than a single mothers worst child.

[@simon0044]

😂😂👍

[@406mitch]

That would've been useful to have read about 11 years ago.

[@mangwolf]

the best guide for dating in your 50s: 1) don't end of guide

[@skibum914]

I'm 60, never married, no kids, retired last year, have no liabilities, money to enjoy life, physically as good as I was 20 years younger, in great shape, look pretty young for my age...but have zero interest in women in their 50's+. I'm kinda resigned to the fact that I am off most younger women's list for dating...it's ok, I'm living a great life in Denver Co. It would be nice if I could meet a happy, nurturing, fun loving woman who is no liberal...who am I kidding!!!!!haahahahaha....,enjoy life on my own terms.

[@rjagger1395]

I am 70 ,,, you date all you want ,, but remember all you have is yourself ,,be strong ,

[@lauraandres1182]

I am 55. The last guy I dated was a drop dead gorgeous european guy, 34 years old, tall, blonde, blue eyes, with a God's body, humble, intelligent and on top of that a good lover and a good person. When I met him I was going through a health condition and I thought God had sent me an angel. I am sorry but in my modest opinion, men my age look like my older brother, uncle or something like this. I would rather be alone than making love to someone who looks neglected, and on top of that, the attitude of feeling superior, that is even worse. Anyway, in general, I like and respect men. I just wanted to share my story. Good luck to everybody.

[@rawhiderandy]

as woman why are u even watching this guy? ( man's channel lol)

[@lauraandres1182]

@@rawhiderandy hahaha yes, I wonder why youtube made such mistake. I was making a sculpture when this video popped up, my hands were full of mud, I couldn't stop it.

[@rickdangerous5606]

you're 55 now... but how old were you when you dated the 34 year old? I would tend to agree though that most men past 50 are in horrible shape.

[@lauraandres1182]

@@rickdangerous5606 I rick, I was 54 and just after making a full recovery from my second hernia operation I got a frozen shoulder. He was one of my therapists. As I said, God sent me an angel that helped me to go through all that terrible pain and discomfort. He lives in another country, so it was a short and lively story. I am also grateful for that. Thanks for your comment.

[@rickdangerous5606]

@@lauraandres1182 wait... you were banging a young guy while recovering from a hernia and a frozen shoulder? What did you just lay there or?

[@peterp8959]

55 dating 11 years younger she has no kids. ITS the best situation honestly.

[@prairierider7569]

@Entrepreneurs in cars I’m a lady who just turned 50 and newly single.. I have no clue what men need anymore but I do know this. A man deserves respect, reciprocation, empathy, love. Men built absolutely everything we have today and to this day they maintain it. My kids are grown, I have a job I love, I have short and long term goals but my long term goals could change should I meet someone I want to pursuit. Be yourself, share openly about things that mean something to you, have fun, laugh often. Have those serious conversations if you both think things will go into exclusivity. Be honest with your boundaries, communicate, openly, actively listen, genuinely take an interest in him and the things he enjoys or dislike. Don’t be delusional of what your worth is, you’re not a 10, don’t expect more than you give (there are different ways of reciprocation), no one is here to be your daddy/mommy (unless you’re into that) Best of luck to everyone’s

[@russromito4903]

I'm 65 and have so many women in their late 20''s to late 40's wanting to have a serious relationship. I'm in good shape. I do not look my age. I talk to them and They say they love my words and voice. They all want my attention and get sad and upset if I don't give it to them. Everyday they contact me. They tell me they want me. Amazing. Now woman that are older are very difficult. They want younger men. They want you to have money and want you to take care of them even if they are wealthy.

[@twofarg0ne763]

My ex walks in when I was 55 and says she's getting a divorce. I say okay. I'll tell you the past 20 years have been the best years of my life. My kids have grown up and moved on with their lives. I dated a couple of times, but the women I met had so much baggage I said the hell with it, so I sold my business, retired, moved to southern France, and bought a nice apt that overlooks the Mediterranean. I stopped eating an American diet, lost 85 pounds, and started walking 5k - 7k a day. At 75 sex is no longer a big deal, so why in the world do I need a woman in my life? I belong to several social groups; we play golf, meet for dinner, go to local jazz clubs, and take trips together. I have female friends, but I'm not interested in them romantically, at all. I don't need a woman in my life, and I sure as shit don't want to be some woman's retirement plan.

[@oldweeb1066]

I will turn 50 in October and have been divorced for a year and a half. We were married for 17 years, together for 23 years, and have a 19-year-old daughter in the Navy. I have completely given up on dating since I am not in any position to deal with women anymore. My divorce was way harder on me than it was on her and it surprised me how devastated I was afterwards. I don't have any male friends (or any friends) and have concentrated fully on my career in the medical field and my passion is my 2022 Dodge Ram pickup that I love. I know it is coping but the idea of going back out there and dating when my own wife didn't want me pretty much sealed my fate with being alone for the rest of my life. For the last six months, it has been very hard dealing with the loneliness of being a divorced man with no prospects of a girlfriend of any age with interest in me. Turning my attention to furthering my career has given me a purpose and goal in life. I made 78k last year and my goal is to break 80k this year and 85k next year by any means necessary. My ultimate goal is to hit 100k at least once in my life before the game is over. That will involve having to go to college, something I have never done in my life (military trained in my field). That is some scary shit going back to school after 32 years but is necessary to achieve my goal in life before the plug gets pulled on me. I have to do it to show myself that I am not the pathetic loser I have always seen myself as and to instill the confidence that the ex-wife stripped from me. I might not achieve my ultimate goal but I am going to do my best to try.

[@brentdoogle]

Sounds like a solid plan. Work on yourself for a while. Focus on you own vision and aspirations. But don't exclude dating here and there either. You never know, a unicorn may show up when you're not looking. Just guard yourself against the harpies we talk about on this channel all the time or they will knock you right back down to the bottom again.

[@gusgrizzel8397]

Boomer men is so weak.

[@oldweeb1066]

@@gusgrizzel8397 glad I am not a boomer

[@brentdoogle]

@@gusgrizzel8397 At least they can put a proper sentence together.

[@rtemis2623]

Godspeed brother

[@drip369]

Yes a lot of common basic women think they are worthy of a top-shelf guy while they say that they are the table even though men built the table that women won't even make pretty anymore

[@ThundersMcCoy]

If as a man in your 50's you haven't gotten though your head that a relationship is a zero sum game, then you deserve *EVERYTHING* that's going to come of it.

[@someoneelse9059]

I’m 59 next month. My dating approach in my 50’s and in my 60’s…. Same as my dating approach in my 40’s and same as my dating approach in my 30’s….. Stay single.

[@jimmyjuju]

It certainly is a zero-sum game. And it's almost entirely negative for men.

[@UnpluggedSauce]

@@someoneelse9059😂😂

[@scottmiller2576]

Yep as one other youtuber stated " the days of having a relationship that your grandparents had ........ is over" The modern day relationship path is fraught with danger and in the end heartbreak!

[@robpelkey5437]

I’m 58 and divorced 9 years after 19 year toxic marriage. My life is very full and actually fantastic. Dated a few women in their 50’s, too much baggage and unbelievable expectations. Dated one mid thirty single mom. The relationship was good but she wanted a new dad for her medium aged kids. Just broke up with a 25 year old after one year, that was the most fantastic experience I’ve ever had in dating. I was no sugar daddy but I did do all the things I do with any woman I’m seeing. Buy dinner, splurge on a hotel room if away, do the driving, etc. The gratitude and genuine appreciation for the efforts made, was soul lifting. Sadly, I broke it off. She had some decisions to make as I’m significantly older and I wanted her free to make those choices. She was quite angry about me breaking it off. She flatly stated that she was the one who should decide what she needs for her future, not me. She was right. The eggs were already broken and life goes on.

[@DavidDevonshire-su8qm]

Great video Rich 👊🏾

[@chintz7428]

Beware: Chaotic loserdom/boundaries. Even if older kids are moved out, they still have the abilities to bring crap back into parents lives via grandchildren/life crisis/stupid choices. The cycles repeat. You will be expected to put up with and help solve any crisis and family drama. It is the nature of parenting. Women with no children may be crazy in other ways, but at least you know some leviathan won't come out of the deep generational trauma and destroy everything you have ever worked for and your sanity. Some families just have no boundaries.

[@betteralone318]

As a man in my early 60s it is the baggage that really wears you down. Many wahmen hold onto it and it seems like they expect you to pay, make up for, for their perceived mistreatment by men from previous relationships. Its seldom that they take responsibility for their choices or behavior. It is this that prevents them from learning and becoming more attractive. It is so tedious.

[@jackdeniston59]

They like the baggage/excuses.

[@zrunner240Z]

FACTS!!

[@matthewbowers6178]

Exactly, this is why I don't date single moms anymore. They take everything out on you from their past. The damage is unbelievable

[@SKBottom]

A lot of them are also still in love with the bad boys. Intellectually, they might know he's trash, but they are still in love with the fantasy. This was originally told to me by a female psychologist Like many, she went into the field looking for solutions to her own problems, and she had plenty of problems, but she was also right about this.

[@pinnacle1717]

Yeah, it’s the “I’ve been done wrong, please rescue me, I deserve it” moderngurl! They are everywhere, beware the witch disguised as the damsel in distress! Pure evil.

[@andrewcolleypropertiesreal1941]

Baggage is very heavy with women in their 40’s and 50’s

[@suspicionofdeceit]

Including their waists.

[@Project-Masculinity]

Including their notch count

[@00_UU]

Not baggage, all those STDs! The older they get, the more they been ran through. Antibiotics can only go so far.

[@ewoman3584]

Baggage is heavy with men those ages too. What sets those apart is ones that own the baggage and pack it up in the baggage closet learning from it. They move forward not carrying that baggage around like a ball and chain hitting everyone with it.

[@Project-Masculinity]

@@ewoman3584 25% of North American women have Genital Herpes…. That baggage isn’t going away soon Have you been tested?

[@johninflorida8634]

I've been a tax practitioner for over 35 years. Women with kids from a prior man often will ring the register just as soon as those kids finish school snd enter the workforce. Be careful if you are helping support her children, especially if she can get paid.

[@kirkkephart6615]

Thank you for the info sir!

[@canarc1]

I just went on a date recently where the woman catfished me. I was there anyways and stayed for a drink rather than splitting immediately. She said as we were talking.l bet you’re lonely. I said, Hun, l don’t need anything or anybody, l would survive just fine even if l was living in a storm pipe. The fact is l would sooner be doing that that cohabitating with a nasty sexless woman. Gulped my rum down and happily carried on with the afternoon, knowing l have peace and no chaos in my life, priceless.

[@projectyoz]

Amazing content - thank you!

[@TheTradosaurus]

Best advice for a 50+ gentleman trying to find long term committment; don't. It's only going to get worse unless you can score a widow that was trained right.

[@RealGaryGibson]

Responsibility with no authority leads to insanity.

[@bigxadventures3165]

Absolutely GOLD advice.

[@relikvija]

Golden advice, start to finish

[@brianyerger583]

I'm 50 years old and dated 6 women back between 2020 - 2021 following my divorce ending. Every one of them were in their mid-forties and all were divorced 2 - 3 times. They always blame the men for the divorce and how they as women were wronged one way or another. If you're divorced that many times each of these women had to play a part in it. I hate when they play the poor me & blame shifting. I can't help but think they had to play a part in it themselves because it takes two.

[@ma3stro681]

They were most likely the cause each time. And I bet they came away with more cash and prizes each time. Don’t get involved with divorced woemen …

[@mattn9349]

@@ma3stro681 Exactly, they're so draining with their constant pleas for sympathy, and given that women love to argue and fight way, way more than any man I've ever met, they still want you to believe it was the man's fault. They were perfect angels as always.

[@SterlingWheel]

Keep up the good fight, Rich. I've shared your work with a few plugged-in friends. The ones that resist are no longer in my network, easy life hack.

[@davidless57]

Some great advice, I’m a high value successful man and am done dating women, lol The one my age look so beat and the younger ones want young men. Bought a 150 g sports car avid cyclist just gotta get some men friends. Great advice, just gotta get over the woman intimacy need thing

[@clttiger704]

Just watched this again and really enjoyed hearing this message, thank you!

[@m.herluf1693]

Good stuff, RC👍

[@equinoxb8711]

51 and dating 35 or under. Can't deal with women my age on that level. God knows I tried.

[@brando7266]

Why would a 35 yr chick go out with a 50+ guy, ? Probably for the money ( financial security),

[@fatgirlboy9341]

i don’t find interest with woman who have interest with my money

[@equinoxb8711]

@@brando7266 they all do. Even the 50 yo. I'd rather spend time and money on a 25 yo and have a lovely time than a 50+ menopausal harp. It's important to vet properly and not front load (to not give what they don't deserve).

[@ErnestkhalimovErnestkhalimov]

@@brando7266 True. Every guy who dates women 20+ years younger there is a 99.9% chance they are rich. Why would they want a guy who could be their dad if they can have young, hot chad. 💀

[@brando7266]

@@ErnestkhalimovErnestkhalimov they r looking for sugar daddies,

[@Stringwar]

I think loneliness is a big factor as you get older. Your best mates arent available as they are still married, new buddies have baggage too, they are either looking for a woman all the time and tends to be the focus of their drive, they also come with mental health issues that can be too complex to help with. So yeah, guys are going to be keen to find a chick to settle down with and will accept some of that baggage.

[@zoesparrow-rk7se]

I'm a 58 year-old man. Not the least interested in women in their 20s. Too entitled and immature. I'm not raising someone elses kids so women in their 30s and 40s. I'm very much enjoying the women I've met in their 50s. They're settled, know what they want, and appreciate the activities we do. Women in their 50s have been great.

[@betteralone318]

Excellent video thank you

[@davea3329]

Be the best person you can be and don’t worry about your age or what other people think . No need to chase anything, if you do the work and be your best, things will come to you. It is the law of attraction.

[@hayley44448]

Agree

[@thebipolarpsychonaut4984]

I dated a woman that had to get a hysterectomy done for medical reasons at 28. She refused to take hormones and she absolutely lost her mind.

[@cbxxb4841]

Menopause is a real thing, had a few relationships I had to end due to it. Sadly (because it is not their fault) some women simply lose their minds.

[@manifest2203]

@@cbxxb4841that’s because you must have been a dead beat in that relationship.

[@gusgrizzel8397]

@@manifest2203 Agree, not all women hate sex. It's a myth that women stop having sex because they are older.

[@johnr5847]

This is good advice. Thank you.

[@brentdoogle]

I always see men coaches and dating gurus offering advice for older men, and it is mostly useful information. However, most "assume" you can use your resources (wealth) as a critical component of attracting younger women as well as your confidence, experience and "dad vibe". What I think most people miss here, is many guys in the 50+ category are usually fallout victims of divorce and may be starting over financially. While we may have the know-how to recover in a couple of years, the psychological stigma of being broke holds men back from even trying, or going home with women far below their levels. I know several friends that got wiped out in divorces, lost their business and all their assets. How about those guys? Other than getting in shape (priority) and dressing smartly, what can older men do to attract women if they are practically broke?

[@SKBottom]

Don't be broke. Broke is a temporary situation, it doesn't have to be a mentality.

[@maxwell-cole]

Excellent excellent post. Well said. As a 45 year old man, I co-sign every single point you shared. Rise up men. Identify the Red flags 🚩.

[@SSNESS]

Girls are intimate with dogs all of the time 😂

[@dnikony]

Great advice👏

[@nikosjasonfakaro9187]

Great content ! 👍🏻👍🏻

[@nvn__]

Excellent job man.

[@formerlyknownashammerofthegods]

The only fun part of dating sites in your 50s is playing “guess how many cats she has” when you’re checking out profiles.

[@aaronm.2718]

As women become even more like men, they’ve switched to dogs almost entirely now.

[@debbest8546]

Tell me about it!

[@hansjorgmoser1371]

Couldn't agree more!!! I spend my vacation either with my grown up kids (occasionally, when they have time) or with my male friends. No drama not even atmospheric disturbances and we all pay for ourselves. What a treat!!!

[@occasionalfeelgood23]

I'm a 51 year old guy who hasn't dated in a few years, and I was watching this video just laughing at how accurate it all is. I've dated women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, and what this dude says is absolutely and unequivocally true down to each detail. I know this guy has had experience dating, haha.

[@user-bu6vg8zo2u]

Not all 50 plus ladies have baggage or issues with men or the famous Daddy issues. Some of us are lovely and sweet with very few issues and basically zero drama. There are great lovely women older than 50 or 55 ready to meet a no drama man. Just saying.

[@AriesSun21]

This isn't just for dating in your 50s, this is for dating whatsoever in the degenerative, hyper modern world.

[@jaynikk758]

Very true!

[@johnhernandez1235]

Spot on stuff Rich 👍🏼

[@anythinggoes1396]

I’m 53 divorced 3 years now. I just travel and do my thing in other countries. I got tired of being in that what’s your favorite color stage and I really don’t care if your father wasn’t really around.

[@leshardley4248]

I'm am fortunate for 2 reasons. 1. I am still considered attractive by most women of any age 2. I live in Florida so I can travel to Central and South America for 3 to 4 day weekends, hotel and airfare for around $500. The past several years I have been able to secure several "friends with benefits" relationships with women in their 20s but going to Colombia has been my dating😉preference of choice. I have never dated a women over the age of 37. The age of my ex wife at the time I divorced her and even at 56 I have no intention on doing so😉😉😍😍

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

My divorced father met up with a gal, He was 44. She wanted him to buy her a buick rivera, nice car at the time. "because she needed to upgrade her style". Least she was honest.

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

Hope dad did not get her that car, and got rid of her instead..?

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

@@ENIGMAXII2112 they broke up when she saw the electric bill that the alcoholic lush 15 years younger than him that lived out of state forwarded to him with , "see what I mean darling"....written on it.

[@forcereserve]

Brilliant advice! Thanks

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

Great perspective

[@ronhoek69]

Rule 1: Only date single mothers if you have childern as well and then only if the woman has a 50/50 shared custody, for numerous reasons. The important one is time you'll have for your own child(ern) and the time she has for you. Another indicator with 50/50 SC is that she is able to negotiate with and probably has a reasonable relationship with her ex. Rule 2: No living under one roof as long as your or her child(ern) is still living at home.

[@jimmyjuju]

Single mothers are for fun only. Period.

[@ericcuthbert5974]

A beautiful woman is like a Ferrari sports car - lovely to look at - but way too expensive !!. Be strong and think the whole thing through. Relieve yourself before you consider going looking for women - you will be glad you did.

[@00_UU]

Beautiful ones are only affordable when you live in another country where you are the prize. Many countries in Asia.

[@fatgirlboy9341]

@@00_UU They want your money

[@00_UU]

@@fatgirlboy9341 surprise - fefes all over the world only want your money, except in Asia they will be happy with much less money.

[@jazz37rio]

ONE OF YOUR BEST VIDEOS

[@rollsroyce2627]

Great stuff 🎯 ...Peace

[@jamieshannon9809]

I never even got near the dating pool. And I have been staying away from it now for over 30 years. Women have never really liked me or been interested in me. I just wished I'd focused on My Career and My Fitness and Health in the last 30 years. Thankfully I'm now past my 50's.

[@michaelp5518]

I am soon to be 70! In great shape, decent looks. single since 1995. Never had an issue attracting women. Even today all ages. Be the best MAN you can. It will attract woman. Their actions will tell you what and who they are. Then YOU decide and don’t do it quickly. It always plays out.

[@agcccggrr]

This is one of the most important videos I have watched from Rich. Two thumbs up. I only wish I had watched this many years ago.

[@olitonottero7620]

super helpful thanks

[@dfls5069]

Gentlemen, listen to this man !

[@okbilly1]

I’m 53 divorced no kids, leaving the west & off to a long term travelling abroad

[@VoiceOfThe]

Same. 49, sold everything, left the U.K. Summer 2021 and now live nomadically.

[@okbilly1]

@@VoiceOfThe well done mate

[@spadgm]

Good work guys! smart!

[@Kartrampage]

That's exactly what I suspected when I was 16. I went through hell several times until I found a woman without children, without debts and without bitching. My handful of friends have been there for me my whole life and I've had the best times with them. I've been with my wife for 10 years now and even when things go wrong, I can rely on my friends. No man needs a woman who brings nothing but her problems to the table and demands that you accept or solve them. Greetings from Germany

[@CarlosLemans]

Sometimes I don't agree with your videos, but in this one your advice is great. Thanks.

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

Don’t get married. Don’t raise another man’s kids.

[@406mitch]

Word.