Painful story. Understand why he took his time to talk about it. It's heartbreaking.
@madams___speaker3 ай бұрын
Yoh it was hard for him. He was nervous before and after
@BridgeMA293 ай бұрын
Can we please have episode 2, in which Kat will be sharing the journey of how he ended up proving his innocents, how he got out of prison and mostly what happened in Court. We still don't really know the story, we know where his from and what he lost.
@nontobekononto21003 ай бұрын
Yes and how long he’s been in prison
@MsSunshineniniАй бұрын
As a mother of a boy child, I am heart broken
@MadamTMT3 ай бұрын
What a great and heart breaking interview, thank you madam speaker for making Kats comfortable. That must have bn hard for the both of you. Your interview skills is outta this world.🎉🎉.
@Babydoll19093 ай бұрын
I remember this guy from varsity days... Very humble and kind
@galemosito45773 ай бұрын
Me2😢
@khanyisamaluleke63993 ай бұрын
I will forward this to my male friends,i worked in court as a prosecutor and when i warn them of such they dont take me serious,i think they dont believe that such happens.
@LesegoObusitse-jc4le2 ай бұрын
I also have a male colleague who gets engaged in casual sex a lot. I always warn him but he doeant listen. Just fowardee him this
@gracebame26463 ай бұрын
Big up to you, @madam speaker, for making it comfortable for this guy to narrate his story and for being patient with him. I feel his pain.
@MKST-uu4yh2 ай бұрын
I just came across this interview at 03:40 in the morning because im failing to sleep. The reason being Im in the very situation Kats Miyen was, yes being falsely accused of rape its something that you can be sceptical about it until one day its done to you. For me I feel like im dying slowly especially seeing my mom going through the most pain is killing me. Last about the end of year I met a girl I thought maybe she was the Ruth to marry. We dated for two weeks only, just because I was in love or maybe I can say desperate to marry. We did everything very fast like I was to comfortable and too blind to notice the early red flags. After two weeks we planned for a meet up like fist time we both planned to make it a first date and first day sleep over as well. Just like we planned it happened that way, first meet and also sleeping together 2 times during the night and once in the morning. The girl was excited to an extent that even after the first encounter she bought some food(Kfc) for both of us with her own money. Morning time we woke up prepared ourselves and went to buy morning after pills, again mo girl used her own money because I didn't have any, stupid me I had unprotected sex on the first day but yeah it happened that way. Had a problem with my phone and watch charger, yeah the girl financed it also as a favor to me. Aftef finishing shopping I went to drop this girl to her house which went well yeah, upon arrival she started demanding me for us to go shopping and I refused, asked me to offer her brother with a lift from the garage to home and I refused. The small argument was resolved then after the good lady by then offered me some african groceries from home, yeah we live abroad so she was happy to share. I went home after everything was oky, I arrived at home everything was still fine, we spent time talking on the phone and also few texts until I had to end the call and tell her that im now busy. 16:00 I received like 3 to 4 calls picked up the first and let her know that I was still busy, the the other 3 calls I rejected them. 17:40 she sent a message hey so you are ghosting me now, you had sex with me now you aint talking to me so I want my groceries back and also the money. I didn't resist I sent her my home address she drove to my place. I give her groceries back but the problem I didnt have the money. The good lady that I thought was going to be my wife turned evil, she called the cops on me, yeah reported that In refusing with her stuff and also report allegations that I raped her 3 times. Police here they dont waste time few minutes they arrived, thats how I was arrested for rape, spent a night in cells and later on realised under investigation but I feel like now Im in prison its just the same. Man lets be careful never be in a private space with a woman you dont really know nomatter how she is looking like an angel. I know for sure that this is a false accusation and I gave a true statement but still for me to be safe I hired a lawyer for about 20 000 rands equavalent value, not for the lawyer to represent me but just to offer few advices which means when the trial begins I do have to pay another amount. My job is at risk because my visa dependent on a clean police cleArance. Everything as stopped for me, I try to establish a relationships evn just for friendship but they fail within few days because I nolonger trust anyone. Im glad that the thought of killing myself or seeking revenge went away because God stood up for me, prayer is helping me a lot. To any man out there wherever you are in the whole please get to know a woman you are involved with before any sex infact no sex before marriage is the only way to go.
@leahngwenya44452 ай бұрын
This is sad honestly but also a lesson. Take everything as it comes, you know deep down you are innocent... Fight!!
@zinhlemkhonza5334Ай бұрын
Genuinely praying for things to work out for you. Hang in there and as hard as it is, try thinking positively.
@nomondeqitsana8662Ай бұрын
I feel like dying my son is 22yrs University graduate. His father's girlfriend's daughter is accusing him of rape. I've never felt this pain. Lord help me and my son I'm even struggling to pay a lawyer 😢
@user-of8dp6fy9iАй бұрын
Very sad scenario for you. You will rise again. Please don't lose hope God is our advocate he will fight for you. Keep praying. He will free you❤️🩹❤️🩹
@MpolokengTsingoane23 күн бұрын
Its so painful to be arrested for the rape of which you didn't commit. Ladies you will go to hell for falsely accusation
@kabelomosadi94453 ай бұрын
This interview has so many unanswered questions. What was the argument about? How long was he detained for? I am glad he is now ready to talk about it. I wished to hear what he thought led to the lady accusing him. What did the lady say happened?
@mbalenhlezulu80753 ай бұрын
This is so heartbreaking😭💔. Innocent people are falsley accused and the real perpetrators are freely roaming the streets. This life is not fair😥
@tinyikonukeri33182 ай бұрын
So heartbreaking and he sounds really humble and loveable sorry for what you went through Kat.
@Prisca_BossLady3 ай бұрын
💔this is so heartbreaking I'm sorry buti😢
@neegee37553 ай бұрын
Yoh 💔💔💔💔 this is so heartbreaking. I hope he seeks therapy and healing ❤️🩹
@madams___speaker3 ай бұрын
😢😢❤❤
@LethoHali3 ай бұрын
Fine young man. So sorry for your horrid experience dude 😢. Madam Speaker, God bless you.
@ignatiusmoela83963 ай бұрын
Us ugly guys we deserve it?😭😭
@ExplorersSA3 ай бұрын
I had to watch 'ALL' of it, such a heartbreaking breaking story. Sad how u can get into SOO much trouble for 'having fun' with someone u though u cud trust. Gud luck with your healing journey my brother..
@gidelamkwanaziАй бұрын
Thank you Madame speaker for creating such a safe space for your guest. Sad that our young people get thru such ordeal.
@meghanchristians74383 ай бұрын
This was now a deep story cant wait for part ll
@johannamutaleni1903Ай бұрын
this is sooo sad and soo heart breaking, I am so sorry that life had this bitter experience for you, as a mother of two boys I am in pain, hearing this its soo painful, I hope you are healing, and give yourself sometime and all shall be well
@lesegomodjadji86803 ай бұрын
Yo some girls are evil indeed Prison is full of guys who are wrongfully accused of rape and it’s so sad 😭
@chifundolusungungalauka3 ай бұрын
May God forgive that lady ...May God continue to heal you and meet you at your point of need Kat
@kalizabashonga16833 ай бұрын
Eish sorry man... This is crazy and makes me mad. It's happened to a friend of mine also around the same time. Forgive and forget, relive and regret...
@zuzuh57553 ай бұрын
How long did he stay in jail? I think he said he doesnt know. But he lost lot of things ,and he won a case..Did he spend months there or years 🤔. How long did he knew the lady? What was that argument all about? The must be a reason for the fight. I have so many questions but maybe he is not ready to tell the whole story. Guys,alcohol is a problem in our country. In many cases,alcohol is involved. Lets stop consuming it. Its very sad if wrong people are arrested,while courts demand evidence from real victims. That girl must be arrested herself,how does one lie about such a thing😮.
@LethoHali3 ай бұрын
This was brave of you Kats. Kudos to you.
@ColGaddafi3 ай бұрын
No kudos unless the woman is jailed.
@mphomonyai93213 ай бұрын
What a sad and painful story I wish we can have part two of the podcast
@kelebogilemotsepe733612 күн бұрын
I am so, so, so heartbroken. This is really sad.😭😭😭😭
@selinabatlhaodi6123 ай бұрын
A very painful episode of life,hope he heals n move on
@Proudly-South-African3 ай бұрын
Some women are very wicked. How do they sleep at night
@nozukojoseph22142 ай бұрын
Having sons, brothers & nephews, this is heartbreaking. I feel that as people, we need to seek help so we can heal from our bad experiences. The young lady might have had a bad experience & she bled onto someone that did not cut her. Very sad, his life almost destroyed. God is good, Kats is still alive & given a 2nd chance in life. May the good Lord bless him more ❤
@murielmoyahabo60783 ай бұрын
Yoh Mr Miyeni Sir. Is the Voice for me. O tlo swaba the girl neh
@terrencemkhari82653 ай бұрын
I suspect his business partners set him up for his shares on the business
@ditalamokwele9078Ай бұрын
That's the 1st thing came in my mind 😢
@simthembilengwenya7562 ай бұрын
My heart bleeds at the thought of how our dignity and values as women has diminished to a point where it's now a norm that man have to throw money at us for us to be with them... My God😢 so we have now turned into items that we have lost value to a point where we walk around with price tags on our private parts, damn this is so disgusting Maan... Uyeph Ubuntu, sayaph isithunzi sethu as African women and man... To all those kind of women out there... SHAME ON U... May God save us from ourselves coz wow.. This is a disgrace not only to the person doing it but to a nation as a whole... What are we teaching our kids really yooh hhay sham 😢😢😢
@musie_mt8673 ай бұрын
The world we leave in😢
@NkatekoNgunyulu3 ай бұрын
Hard luck home boy. Keep your head up and you will exceed even all that you have lost. Swita lungha mfo!
@galemosito45773 ай бұрын
Kat so great to see you❤
@lillianmoletsane4205Ай бұрын
I'm literally crying,, because this has worried me for so long,, I have a boy child and I found this is happening nowadays to our boys,, I'm from Lesotho and this is happening,,, i think something has to be done,, I think to hear boys or gents out,, bcz this is breaking them inside I think
@user-ls8me8dx2v3 ай бұрын
GOD have mercy , this world is too evil I'm scared for my brothers .
@madams___speaker3 ай бұрын
Me too 😢😢
@user-sb7wp5vj9m3 ай бұрын
Dr Phill always says "there's 3 sides to any story" your story the other person story and the truth... On the morning argument parts it's sketchy man 😞 But all in all that woman did this man dirt 😡 I'm ashamed as a woman at this point
@akhonahlangwana7679Ай бұрын
This is so sad 😭😭😭
@kamomosia35233 ай бұрын
I hv so many questions...so sad for our guys .. Would like to ask Kat what the demeanor of the lady was when they locked eyes for the first time in court...and which specific detail in the case eventually convinced the judge of his innocence ...a part2 of details of the court proceedings would be lovely
@MultiMmmmm3 ай бұрын
She never attended and it prolonged him being there, I think that's why he got out
@katlegonkadimeng64433 ай бұрын
Apparently she never showed up and it kept on being postponed over and over again meaning he had to stay longer in jail
@user-hz4qv3bk4d3 ай бұрын
I think the gal at some point in her life she was actually raped but not by Mr Miyen, so she bled on a person who didn't cut her, and it's so sad because he says he had good intentions actually thought he was slowly building a relationship 😢...so sad man
@robbylebotha2 ай бұрын
Or maybe she's just evil.
@anjafaith97913 ай бұрын
As a lawyer and a woman who highly advocates for mean rights in the legal system I am not entirely convinced in this story. If there was a part two let’s hear the real story. Yes he was accused wrongly but there could have been another story. Soo much regret that is not clear. A lot of admissions also.
@MKST-uu4yh2 ай бұрын
You were trained to believe the accuser yes we undestand its your job but the honest truth is that some women use the justice system wrongly and its not good for the real victims.
@zonqobaАй бұрын
I don't wish this even to my worst enemy except the devil. But no human is supposed to be going through such a thing, it's painful, may God bless you and heal your brother.
@groovyleftony5065Ай бұрын
Yho what a story 😢
@MathaboMNkoane24 күн бұрын
Shuuuuuu 😮💨. This is a lot. I know they say that there’s two sides to every story but this man is so careful and respectful even in the way he speaks about intimacy and women. I am soooooo Maxaka that you went through this. So underserved 😢😢 Honestly. My prayer is for God to protect my brothers, male friends, cousins, even my partner against such. 😢
@ColGaddafi3 ай бұрын
What must be done to these women who lie about such cases??
@teetsambo79333 ай бұрын
So sad, people lie about something so sensitive and it disadvantages the real victims who get raped. I can see the trauma and pain on ur bro,askis. May God give u healing and everything you lots times fold ❤❤
@thembinkosimsaule7443Ай бұрын
Its true that sometimes,the enemy uses his agents to jeopardize lives of innocent people.Yah neh,the girl has been paid to set him up through sex scandal.This life is cruel indeed.May the good LORD restore you and strengthen you inwardly
@lmkleafintheforest39972 ай бұрын
Painfully 😢
@tanginahelao3 ай бұрын
On another Note Perseverance literally looks like a “Queen In Waiting”… I held my breath just starting at you! Shuuu😮💨
@thabangmalepe16633 ай бұрын
Great reality. Ladies and gentlemen let's repent we really damaging each other
@ellahnokane4536Ай бұрын
Madam speaker is so patient 😅
@thandimaseko210416 күн бұрын
Madam, you are blessed
@AngelaBokaba-pb3mw3 ай бұрын
This is so painful for me, some one close to me is serving a sentence for something I believe they never did... 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭It has changed his life forever. I pray that the truth will come out one day. But it is one of the most painful things I have ever went through 😢😢
@mwmwaniki16 күн бұрын
Very very sad please women stop jealousy this is too much for a human being. Let’s be kind to each other. I feel so sad as a mother
@user-hc4iq3uh7g3 ай бұрын
The intro was so dragged, just getting to the point was a long walk… sad story
@YZYSZN322 күн бұрын
Never mix sex and alcohol. Me and a girl got drunk she passed out I decided to sleep and I thank god for that decision everyday, she woke up that morning thanking me.
@pontshomotaung310Ай бұрын
This is such a traumatic experience hence he has never spoken about it sheesh.
@mxolisirams3 ай бұрын
I went through similar situations but I got a R2500 bail n went through a trial for nine months without saying a thing in court
@BbeeM3 ай бұрын
You can sue the state.... He needs to get an attorney but it takes forever. The state should pay him everything he lost
@BbeeM3 ай бұрын
Still money won't cover it.....
@user-hc4iq3uh7g3 ай бұрын
But Kat is not telling us the details of the case so many unanswered Q’s - interviewer not asking questions as well! Where is the woman, was she in court? What happened after?
@kabelomosadi94453 ай бұрын
Yeah there are so many blanks, wish I could hear the woman's side. What was the fight actually about?
@zuzuh57553 ай бұрын
True,he didn't really open up. We still hve so many questions. Maybe he is still.not ready to talk abt it. He said so little abt the real topic,and so much abt other irrelevant things.
@Fistos1003 ай бұрын
He said she did not come to court which prolonged him being in jail.
@teenanethavhani21282 ай бұрын
And he also said he lost count and he was numb
@jamelagiveness36043 ай бұрын
Proof that a woman can be your downfall
@thabisothabz73853 ай бұрын
Please 🙏 work on sound Quality madam speaker
@mathohoratombo48573 ай бұрын
Sorry Katz
@rhulanihlomela75663 ай бұрын
Yoooo Kati😭😭😭😭
@leratoolifant19883 ай бұрын
Shame 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@LethoHali3 ай бұрын
Not “the khwelamahala” 😂😂😂😅
@jeronatt95533 ай бұрын
From tiktok
@MissCombs15113 ай бұрын
What 👏🏾happened 👏🏾 in 👏🏾 2017 👏🏾. Yohh!!!! 😮💨😮💨😮💨
@Funeral10002 ай бұрын
I am sorry bro I went through the same thing as a result I fear dating meaning I will never engage with a women unless its at work sorry man
@pamelamahada53793 ай бұрын
The first 30 minutes…. 🫤 an overdrawn intro
@tkmothiba55733 ай бұрын
That’s because he’s never spoken about it
@madams___speaker3 ай бұрын
It was not easy for him to speaks about it so he was really nervous
@kwandaphotography37523 ай бұрын
You are a very intuitive host. you ease people into opening up. You are really great at this. @@madams___speaker
@chifundolusungungalauka3 ай бұрын
It really ain't easy
@ntombizonkentuli37703 ай бұрын
Thank you for this comment, i forwarded to reach the actual story.
@leratoolifant19883 ай бұрын
What is the name of the car you are speaking about.
@millicentsifisomthunzi37993 ай бұрын
Guy is well spoken but taking long to get into the actual falsely accused story
@madams___speaker3 ай бұрын
It was hard for him to open about the issue
@millicentsifisomthunzi37993 ай бұрын
@@madams___speaker 🙏
@dononomokgara11693 ай бұрын
And he also mentioned that it's for the first time talking about it in public 😢. This is heartbreaking 💔
@godsfavouritedaughter34763 ай бұрын
Your dress hle🤞
@paulotete-nz4wy25 күн бұрын
I believe in you my brother
@senzogama843817 күн бұрын
That drop a soap joke didn't fly
@SarahMbugua-zj3dk3 ай бұрын
Yoooh no sound
@karaboramadie17133 ай бұрын
Is that sound off?
@ZIKHONAMAQHUZUSAZIKHONAM-tn6ue3 ай бұрын
Ayifuni ukudlala😥
@ExplorersSA3 ай бұрын
Can he buy any chance open up about how long he's been in prison and wat evidence did this woman present before the police?
@nelzg58193 ай бұрын
There are far more women who did not get justice for being raped. Imagine if those women got sentenced because their rapists could get away with it. No. Its always the innocent ones that suffer. The harm to those women and still gonto jail. Hayi
@zinhlekhanye61123 ай бұрын
And there are also men who are in jail accessed of rapes they never did,so it's a sad world
@felicitymaphiri3 ай бұрын
True his good looking hey
@Ladyle4ever3 ай бұрын
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
@tumielushaba3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂feli not here please 😅
@felicitymaphiri3 ай бұрын
@@tumielushaba lolmao his mine plz
@mawethumbhele22183 ай бұрын
❤❤
@noxolozulu53913 ай бұрын
Yho but some women are cruel 🙀
@Tamza_Wa_Le_easy3 ай бұрын
Shit happen man, hope you are growing stronger
@user-pt7dt4sk6i3 ай бұрын
No sound
@rethabilem419719 күн бұрын
Isss not make sure.
@teshysibharu98932 ай бұрын
Yhoo thes so many loopholes in your story Bra
@nthabisengmaluleka66302 ай бұрын
what are the benefits of joining the channel
@madams___speaker2 ай бұрын
Benefits of joining which channel ma’am?
@nthabisengmaluleka66302 ай бұрын
@@madams___speaker your chanel ther a black sign that says join...
@BowcutznightBowАй бұрын
This guy doesn’t go into detail on what was happening when these people are screaming 😢
@MathaboMNkoane24 күн бұрын
It’s traumatic 😢
@ncedisakhewu3 ай бұрын
Not make sure...
@Nunec3 ай бұрын
Have my doubts too. Acquittal does not mean innocent
@MRSMumba3 ай бұрын
Too many loopholes
@snipersniper30743 ай бұрын
Taking long to get to the point 😢
@adv.thatomoeeng8323 ай бұрын
So many unanswered questions. Have to stop listening here.
@nthatisidimema90843 ай бұрын
This guy need therapy
@nthatisidimema90843 ай бұрын
After therapy we can marry
@relebohilepolilane39313 ай бұрын
What a bitter lady
@ColGaddafi3 ай бұрын
Uhm. Yah!? I dont know how i can tolerate such deep delusion and foolishness.
@tsalaphoofolo94372 ай бұрын
Noo way, this interview i couldnt understandwhere it was headed..but u tried to get a story but it was just too deep in there, the whole 30 min of nothing yoh😢
@snipersniper30743 ай бұрын
30 minutes gone down the drain guy not saying anything 😢
@mlungisicele_803 ай бұрын
Believe me my brother that person will pay one day for this one way or other karmer is a b...
@masandefuzile22613 ай бұрын
Oga stop its, you from Lagos
@MissLibra143 ай бұрын
😂😂bathong fuzile is it because of his accent?
@Khenzi-so7hq2 ай бұрын
Oooh hair style my sis it's a no no
@MrStaarz3 ай бұрын
🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ dude goes round and round saying nothing