EP 16 | Kats Miyen on being falsely accused of R@P€ | being detained and losing everything

[@glendalapane7292]

Painful story. Understand why he took his time to talk about it. It's heartbreaking.

[@madams___speaker]

Yoh it was hard for him. He was nervous before and after

[@MadamTMT]

What a great and heart breaking interview, thank you madam speaker for making Kats comfortable. That must have bn hard for the both of you. Your interview skills is outta this world.🎉🎉.

[@Babydoll1909]

I remember this guy from varsity days... Very humble and kind

[@galemosito4577]

Me2😢

[@khanyisamaluleke6399]

I will forward this to my male friends,i worked in court as a prosecutor and when i warn them of such they dont take me serious,i think they dont believe that such happens.

[@Moreless-j3v]

I also have a male colleague who gets engaged in casual sex a lot. I always warn him but he doeant listen. Just fowardee him this

[@sherrieginger9633]

Compensation and also false claims need to be charged!

[@BridgeMA29]

Can we please have episode 2, in which Kat will be sharing the journey of how he ended up proving his innocents, how he got out of prison and mostly what happened in Court. We still don't really know the story, we know where his from and what he lost.

[@nontobekononto2100]

Yes and how long he’s been in prison

[@MKST-uu4yh]

I just came across this interview at 03:40 in the morning because im failing to sleep. The reason being Im in the very situation Kats Miyen was, yes being falsely accused of rape its something that you can be sceptical about it until one day its done to you. For me I feel like im dying slowly especially seeing my mom going through the most pain is killing me. Last about the end of year I met a girl I thought maybe she was the Ruth to marry. We dated for two weeks only, just because I was in love or maybe I can say desperate to marry. We did everything very fast like I was to comfortable and too blind to notice the early red flags. After two weeks we planned for a meet up like fist time we both planned to make it a first date and first day sleep over as well. Just like we planned it happened that way, first meet and also sleeping together 2 times during the night and once in the morning. The girl was excited to an extent that even after the first encounter she bought some food(Kfc) for both of us with her own money. Morning time we woke up prepared ourselves and went to buy morning after pills, again mo girl used her own money because I didn't have any, stupid me I had unprotected sex on the first day but yeah it happened that way. Had a problem with my phone and watch charger, yeah the girl financed it also as a favor to me. Aftef finishing shopping I went to drop this girl to her house which went well yeah, upon arrival she started demanding me for us to go shopping and I refused, asked me to offer her brother with a lift from the garage to home and I refused. The small argument was resolved then after the good lady by then offered me some african groceries from home, yeah we live abroad so she was happy to share. I went home after everything was oky, I arrived at home everything was still fine, we spent time talking on the phone and also few texts until I had to end the call and tell her that im now busy. 16:00 I received like 3 to 4 calls picked up the first and let her know that I was still busy, the the other 3 calls I rejected them. 17:40 she sent a message hey so you are ghosting me now, you had sex with me now you aint talking to me so I want my groceries back and also the money. I didn't resist I sent her my home address she drove to my place. I give her groceries back but the problem I didnt have the money. The good lady that I thought was going to be my wife turned evil, she called the cops on me, yeah reported that In refusing with her stuff and also report allegations that I raped her 3 times. Police here they dont waste time few minutes they arrived, thats how I was arrested for rape, spent a night in cells and later on realised under investigation but I feel like now Im in prison its just the same. Man lets be careful never be in a private space with a woman you dont really know nomatter how she is looking like an angel. I know for sure that this is a false accusation and I gave a true statement but still for me to be safe I hired a lawyer for about 20 000 rands equavalent value, not for the lawyer to represent me but just to offer few advices which means when the trial begins I do have to pay another amount. My job is at risk because my visa dependent on a clean police cleArance. Everything as stopped for me, I try to establish a relationships evn just for friendship but they fail within few days because I nolonger trust anyone. Im glad that the thought of killing myself or seeking revenge went away because God stood up for me, prayer is helping me a lot. To any man out there wherever you are in the whole please get to know a woman you are involved with before any sex infact no sex before marriage is the only way to go.

[@leahngwenya4445]

This is sad honestly but also a lesson. Take everything as it comes, you know deep down you are innocent... Fight!!

[@zinhlemkhonza5334]

Genuinely praying for things to work out for you. Hang in there and as hard as it is, try thinking positively.

[@nomondeqitsana8662]

I feel like dying my son is 22yrs University graduate. His father's girlfriend's daughter is accusing him of rape. I've never felt this pain. Lord help me and my son I'm even struggling to pay a lawyer 😢

[@Savebygrace-it]

Very sad scenario for you. You will rise again. Please don't lose hope God is our advocate he will fight for you. Keep praying. He will free you❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@MpolokengTsingoane]

Its so painful to be arrested for the rape of which you didn't commit. Ladies you will go to hell for falsely accusation

[@kabelomosadi9445]

This interview has so many unanswered questions. What was the argument about? How long was he detained for? I am glad he is now ready to talk about it. I wished to hear what he thought led to the lady accusing him. What did the lady say happened?

[@teekay543]

He doesn't explain a lot.

[@mbalenhlezulu8075]

This is so heartbreaking😭💔. Innocent people are falsley accused and the real perpetrators are freely roaming the streets. This life is not fair😥

[@gracebame2646]

Big up to you, @madam speaker, for making it comfortable for this guy to narrate his story and for being patient with him. I feel his pain.

[@MsSunshinenini]

As a mother of a boy child, I am heart broken

[@goodnessmitileni1120]

Pray for your son mama only God can protect our children, I also have a son and I pray every day that God protects and removes him from anything that would get him in to that type of trouble, it's painful

[@TheeAnonymousTrader]

Lol...why do you guys switch when it's your sons,but if it's other men that you don't know you'll are team "I believe her"

[@KB.23]

@@TheeAnonymousTraderstupid comment

[@YZYSZN3]

Never mix sex and alcohol. Me and a girl got drunk she passed out I decided to sleep and I thank god for that decision everyday, she woke up that morning thanking me.

[@zuzuh5755]

How long did he stay in jail? I think he said he doesnt know. But he lost lot of things ,and he won a case..Did he spend months there or years 🤔. How long did he knew the lady? What was that argument all about? The must be a reason for the fight. I have so many questions but maybe he is not ready to tell the whole story. Guys,alcohol is a problem in our country. In many cases,alcohol is involved. Lets stop consuming it. Its very sad if wrong people are arrested,while courts demand evidence from real victims. That girl must be arrested herself,how does one lie about such a thing😮.

[@nozukojoseph2214]

Having sons, brothers & nephews, this is heartbreaking. I feel that as people, we need to seek help so we can heal from our bad experiences. The young lady might have had a bad experience & she bled onto someone that did not cut her. Very sad, his life almost destroyed. God is good, Kats is still alive & given a 2nd chance in life. May the good Lord bless him more ❤

[@LethoHali]

Fine young man. So sorry for your horrid experience dude 😢. Madam Speaker, God bless you.

[@ignatiusmoela8396]

Us ugly guys we deserve it?😭😭

[@ayabongadesemela2777]

This is a very sad story, my cousin is in jail, similar situation.. but yey this guys is a very well spoken person, very articulate man.. he’s very handsome.. I always tell my friends that I will marry a Limpopo person.. let me go and follow him

[@tinyikonukeri3318]

So heartbreaking and he sounds really humble and loveable sorry for what you went through Kat.

[@terrencemkhari8265]

I suspect his business partners set him up for his shares on the business

[@ditalamokwele9078]

That's the 1st thing came in my mind 😢

[@LynetteNcube-sb3fh]

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[@neegee3755]

Yoh 💔💔💔💔 this is so heartbreaking. I hope he seeks therapy and healing ❤️‍🩹

[@madams___speaker]

😢😢❤❤

[@zonqoba]

I don't wish this even to my worst enemy except the devil. But no human is supposed to be going through such a thing, it's painful, may God bless you and heal your brother.

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

Yoh Mr Miyeni Sir. Is the Voice for me. O tlo swaba the girl neh

[@kalizabashonga1683]

Eish sorry man... This is crazy and makes me mad. It's happened to a friend of mine also around the same time. Forgive and forget, relive and regret...

[@johannamutaleni1903]

this is sooo sad and soo heart breaking, I am so sorry that life had this bitter experience for you, as a mother of two boys I am in pain, hearing this its soo painful, I hope you are healing, and give yourself sometime and all shall be well

[@ExplorersSA]

I had to watch 'ALL' of it, such a heartbreaking breaking story. Sad how u can get into SOO much trouble for 'having fun' with someone u though u cud trust. Gud luck with your healing journey my brother..

[@Prisca_BossLady]

💔this is so heartbreaking I'm sorry buti😢

[@gidelamkwanazi]

Thank you Madame speaker for creating such a safe space for your guest. Sad that our young people get thru such ordeal.

[@kelebogilemotsepe7336]

I am so, so, so heartbroken. This is really sad.😭😭😭😭

[@meghanchristians7438]

This was now a deep story cant wait for part ll

[@simthembilengwenya756]

My heart bleeds at the thought of how our dignity and values as women has diminished to a point where it's now a norm that man have to throw money at us for us to be with them... My God😢 so we have now turned into items that we have lost value to a point where we walk around with price tags on our private parts, damn this is so disgusting Maan... Uyeph Ubuntu, sayaph isithunzi sethu as African women and man... To all those kind of women out there... SHAME ON U... May God save us from ourselves coz wow.. This is a disgrace not only to the person doing it but to a nation as a whole... What are we teaching our kids really yooh hhay sham 😢😢😢

[@teekay543]

Young people must change the way they date. Picking up an unknown woman from a bar and go engage with her sexually must stop. Date women that you went to school with. Date women that are from your neighborhood from families that you know. Date women from your circle of friends. That way you know that the woman is not a sex worker, she has her own money and she is genuinely interested in you. Casual sexual relationships cause big problems.

[@chifundolusungungalauka]

May God forgive that lady ...May God continue to heal you and meet you at your point of need Kat

[@Proudly-South-African]

Some women are very wicked. How do they sleep at night

[@kamomosia3523]

I hv so many questions...so sad for our guys .. Would like to ask Kat what the demeanor of the lady was when they locked eyes for the first time in court...and which specific detail in the case eventually convinced the judge of his innocence ...a part2 of details of the court proceedings would be lovely

[@MultiMmmmm]

She never attended and it prolonged him being there, I think that's why he got out

[@katlegonkadimeng6443]

Apparently she never showed up and it kept on being postponed over and over again meaning he had to stay longer in jail

[@NkatekoNgunyulu]

Hard luck home boy. Keep your head up and you will exceed even all that you have lost. Swita lungha mfo!

[@selinabatlhaodi612]

A very painful episode of life,hope he heals n move on

[@MathaboMNkoane]

Shuuuuuu 😮‍💨. This is a lot. I know they say that there’s two sides to every story but this man is so careful and respectful even in the way he speaks about intimacy and women. I am soooooo Maxaka that you went through this. So underserved 😢😢 Honestly. My prayer is for God to protect my brothers, male friends, cousins, even my partner against such. 😢

[@mphomonyai9321]

What a sad and painful story I wish we can have part two of the podcast

[@MichelleMo.]

WHAT YOU SAID AT THE END , THE ACCUSER SHOULD GO DO THE TIME HONESTLY. THNKS FOR THESE EYE OPENING EPISODES , I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THIS YOUNG MAN, GOD WILL SE YOU THROUGH YOUNG MEN ... STRONGS !!

[@nelisiwemathe3073]

I can actually visualize Maboneng and everything he is narrating, he could make a good writer and write a very good book 😅

[@mwmwaniki]

Very very sad please women stop jealousy this is too much for a human being. Let’s be kind to each other. I feel so sad as a mother

[@SeabiTshabalala]

I think the gal at some point in her life she was actually raped but not by Mr Miyen, so she bled on a person who didn't cut her, and it's so sad because he says he had good intentions actually thought he was slowly building a relationship 😢...so sad man

[@robbylebotha]

Or maybe she's just evil.

[@KaeloassociatesDhlamini]

But Kat is not telling us the details of the case so many unanswered Q’s - interviewer not asking questions as well! Where is the woman, was she in court? What happened after?

[@kabelomosadi9445]

Yeah there are so many blanks, wish I could hear the woman's side. What was the fight actually about?

[@zuzuh5755]

True,he didn't really open up. We still hve so many questions. Maybe he is still.not ready to talk abt it. He said so little abt the real topic,and so much abt other irrelevant things.

[@Fistos100]

He said she did not come to court which prolonged him being in jail.

[@teenanethavhani2128]

And he also said he lost count and he was numb

That's bad hey, what he went through. It cuts deep if you have a boy child or raising 1. Eishh

[@pontshomotaung310]

This is such a traumatic experience hence he has never spoken about it sheesh.

[@lillianmoletsane4205]

I'm literally crying,, because this has worried me for so long,, I have a boy child and I found this is happening nowadays to our boys,, I'm from Lesotho and this is happening,,, i think something has to be done,, I think to hear boys or gents out,, bcz this is breaking them inside I think

[@masegopatiencephokeng4471]

This is so sad, I’m working at fcs and I know for a fact that women do this without thinking how it affects the accused person

[@KaeloassociatesDhlamini]

The intro was so dragged, just getting to the point was a long walk… sad story

[@LethoHali]

This was brave of you Kats. Kudos to you.

[@ColGaddafi]

No kudos unless the woman is jailed.

[@teetsambo7933]

So sad, people lie about something so sensitive and it disadvantages the real victims who get raped. I can see the trauma and pain on ur bro,askis. May God give u healing and everything you lots times fold ❤❤

[@ColGaddafi]

What must be done to these women who lie about such cases??

[@Diitalworld]

But what happens to the woman after a guy wins the case , proven that she lied?

[@musie_mt867]

The world we leave in😢

[@thembinkosimsaule7443]

Its true that sometimes,the enemy uses his agents to jeopardize lives of innocent people.Yah neh,the girl has been paid to set him up through sex scandal.This life is cruel indeed.May the good LORD restore you and strengthen you inwardly

[@galemosito4577]

Kat so great to see you❤

[@orahndumela3431]

Yoh, what a story. Sad.

[@mxolisirams]

I went through similar situations but I got a R2500 bail n went through a trial for nine months without saying a thing in court

[@BbeeM]

You can sue the state.... He needs to get an attorney but it takes forever. The state should pay him everything he lost

[@BbeeM]

Still money won't cover it.....

[@senzogama8438]

That drop a soap joke didn't fly

[@millicentsifisomthunzi3799]

Guy is well spoken but taking long to get into the actual falsely accused story

[@madams___speaker]

It was hard for him to open about the issue

[@millicentsifisomthunzi3799]

@@madams___speaker 🙏

[@dononomokgara1169]

And he also mentioned that it's for the first time talking about it in public 😢. This is heartbreaking 💔

[@tanginahelao]

On another Note Perseverance literally looks like a “Queen In Waiting”… I held my breath just starting at you! Shuuu😮‍💨

[@ExplorersSA]

Can he buy any chance open up about how long he's been in prison and wat evidence did this woman present before the police?

[@NonhlanhlaMkhabela-k6x]

GOD have mercy , this world is too evil I'm scared for my brothers .

[@madams___speaker]

Me too 😢😢

[@monkatsusibanda7519]

I feel Johannesburg is New York. The city will make you feel brand new

[@pamelamahada5379]

The first 30 minutes…. 🫤 an overdrawn intro

[@tkmothiba5573]

That’s because he’s never spoken about it

[@madams___speaker]

It was not easy for him to speaks about it so he was really nervous

[@kwandaphotography3752]

You are a very intuitive host. you ease people into opening up. You are really great at this. @@madams___speaker

[@chifundolusungungalauka]

It really ain't easy

[@ntombizonkentuli3770]

Thank you for this comment, i forwarded to reach the actual story.

[@lesegomodjadji8680]

Yo some girls are evil indeed Prison is full of guys who are wrongfully accused of rape and it’s so sad 😭

[@anjafaith9791]

As a lawyer and a woman who highly advocates for mean rights in the legal system I am not entirely convinced in this story. If there was a part two let’s hear the real story. Yes he was accused wrongly but there could have been another story. Soo much regret that is not clear. A lot of admissions also.

[@MKST-uu4yh]

You were trained to believe the accuser yes we undestand its your job but the honest truth is that some women use the justice system wrongly and its not good for the real victims.

[@TheeAnonymousTrader]

Obviously you are a woman and you believe women are Angels and Men are evil. But just wait until it happens to your brother,son,or close male friend that you know for a fact they wouldn't do that. Then you'll feel the gravity of women's evil deeds.

[@teekay543]

Also there are inconsistencies in the story. If his friend is dating her friend, how come she cannot be traced?

[@MargieMoyake]

Unisa LLB is tiring!!!

[@rosed_and_all]

Something is seriously wring with sound settings. It only works on the Left side

[@MalemeTau]

This is painful bathong

[@jamelagiveness3604]

Proof that a woman can be your downfall

[@nelzg5819]

There are far more women who did not get justice for being raped. Imagine if those women got sentenced because their rapists could get away with it. No. Its always the innocent ones that suffer. The harm to those women and still gonto jail. Hayi

[@zinhlekhanye6112]

And there are also men who are in jail accessed of rapes they never did,so it's a sad world

[@AngelaBokaba-pb3mw]

This is so painful for me, some one close to me is serving a sentence for something I believe they never did... 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭It has changed his life forever. I pray that the truth will come out one day. But it is one of the most painful things I have ever went through 😢😢

[@thabisothabz7385]

Please 🙏 work on sound Quality madam speaker

[@thandimaseko2104]

Madam, you are blessed

[@groovyleftony5065]

Yho what a story 😢

[@akhonahlangwana7679]

This is so sad 😭😭😭

[@DianaMokgawa]

Dr Phill always says "there's 3 sides to any story" your story the other person story and the truth... On the morning argument parts it's sketchy man 😞 But all in all that woman did this man dirt 😡 I'm ashamed as a woman at this point

[@dylesmodisaotsile6810]

Eish, this is ssoo sad,

[@leratoolifant1988]

What is the name of the car you are speaking about.

[@ellahnokane4536]

Madam speaker is so patient 😅

[@mokgadiprescilla7477]

To think that im raising a boy child 😢😢

[@LethoHali]

Not “the khwelamahala” 😂😂😂😅

[@thabangmalepe1663]

Great reality. Ladies and gentlemen let's repent we really damaging each other

[@Princess_Lehlohonolo]

Dear real men, i apologize on behalf on all women who has lied on your name. I am soory,There are alot of good women out there.

[@MagutshwaZulu]

Bafo very cool dude majaivane

[@Funeral1000]

I am sorry bro I went through the same thing as a result I fear dating meaning I will never engage with a women unless its at work sorry man

[@TsakaniMushwana-d1o]

So sorry man😢

[@leratoolifant1988]

Shame 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@rhulanihlomela7566]

Yoooo Kati😭😭😭😭

[@lmkleafintheforest3997]

Painfully 😢

[@jeronatt9553]

From tiktok

[@SarahMbugua-zj3dk]

Yoooh no sound

[@mathohoratombo4857]

Sorry Katz

[@collentiankwinika9037]

Yoooòooo Kati😓

[@felicitymaphiri]

True his good looking hey

[@Ladyle4ever]

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

[@tumielushaba]

😂😂😂😂feli not here please 😅

[@felicitymaphiri]

@@tumielushaba lolmao his mine plz

[@MissCombs1511]

What 👏🏾happened 👏🏾 in 👏🏾 2017 👏🏾. Yohh!!!! 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@ColGaddafi]

Uhm. Yah!? I dont know how i can tolerate such deep delusion and foolishness.

[@karaboramadie1713]

Is that sound off?

[@LunthaCreation2.0]

what are the benefits of joining the channel

[@madams___speaker]

Benefits of joining which channel ma’am?

[@LunthaCreation2.0]

@@madams___speaker your chanel ther a black sign that says join...

[@godsfavouritedaughter3476]

Your dress hle🤞

[@paulotete-nz4wy]

I believe in you my brother

[@ZIKHONAMAQHUZUSAZIKHONAM-tn6ue]

Ayifuni ukudlala😥

[@BowcutznightBow]

This guy doesn’t go into detail on what was happening when these people are screaming 😢

[@MathaboMNkoane]

It’s traumatic 😢

[@tsalaphoofolo9437]

Noo way, this interview i couldnt understandwhere it was headed..but u tried to get a story but it was just too deep in there, the whole 30 min of nothing yoh😢