Ep 38 - The Courage to be Disliked BOOK SUMMARY (4 Life Lessons)

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

The book I'm covering in this video (The courage to be disliked) - amzn.to/3XfBtsW

[@KajalChoudhary-z5o]

True that. I have read this book and the concept of separating tasks is impressive. This book can moreover make you a selfish being(in a good way). You'll learn to focus on yourself rather than worrying about the world.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

That is a very good observation indeed. You need to become selfish in that sense, and then, expand the idea of your "self". All of spirituality, in essence, has that understanding at its root - the oneness (with Life) that your small, separate, afraid "self" can arrive at, and then act from that perspective. This book does a brilliant job of taking the reader there.

[@kuroko_summer379]

"Hello good people of the internet " this made my day.... I'm in 9th grade and today I woke up at 5am, having a productive morning... before going to school I clicked on your video, and you said that intro....it somehow made me feel so happy and good.... thank you. Great video btw 👍

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

And your comment just made my day! I’m glad you liked the video. Welcome to The Unlearning Playground! 🙂

[@TherealYoshiPanoshi]

Just picked up and this book and was immediately triggered by “do not live to satisfy the expectations of others” as in my life I’ve always tried to live by others expectations on me and have many regrets in the past for decisions I made based on others opinions

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

I am super glad you found this book then. And also my channel. 😉

[@devrajsoni.sustainability]

I loved your speech delivery, i could sense the calm of an avid reader.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank you for seeing and appreciating that. Keep sharing the love! ✌️💚

[@Kavyanet]

The book is based on the theory of Austrian psychologist Adler. This is very interesting book written in the style of plato’s dialogue. This hits at the very perspective of a views commonly held. Nice video, keep it up.❤

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank you for your graceful comment. I personally resonate a lot with this book too, as is evident from the video as well. You’re quite right in saying that it is contrarian to a lot of commonly held opinions, and in talking about it, it holds true to its name by exhibiting “the courage to be disliked”. Hope to interact more with you on my channel here. Welcome to The Unlearning Playground. ✌️💚

[@anmolchaudhary3075]

Thanks for reviewing this wonderful book. For someone who’s not read the book, some of the ideas in it are - (1) happiness is linked to finding out that one is worthy, which in turn is linked to the idea / realisation that I am ‘beneficial to the community’ (2) superiority complex is inferiority complex in disguise (3) have the courage to be disliked (4) being praised or being rebukes, both aren’t helpful for you, reject both

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Glad the book and the video resonated with you. ✌️🙂

[@SanjamKaur24]

Wow, I got my hands around this book a while ago, and I've only read half of it, but I couldn't agree more with what you said. The dialogue between two people was slightly triggering for me as I read it and also unpleasant in a way because you have to swallow some hard facts, but if you continue to read it, it will be surprisingly eye-opening and genuinely a must read. Thank you for articulating so nicely. Watching your video for the first time definitely going to subscribe.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank you for saying what you said. Keep sharing the love! ✌️💚

[@Maya-jk3uj]

Wow such a beautiful review!!! Loved the way you explained each scenario and encouraged me to read this book

[@Maya-jk3uj]

Can you give more Book reviews and recommendations?

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Glad you liked this video. I appreciate your appreciation. I have a dedicated playlist of book reviews & recommendations on this channel. Here you go - kzbin.info/aero/PLGTAFgEsIneVKswD2eQthRrCLLvmYbQES&si=J3XCCeWjm82z0hig Also, all my book recommendations can be found here - chetannarang.org/book-recommendations/ Hope this helps. Looking forward to seeing more of you on The Unlearning Playground.

[@saravanank3390]

Excellent. Way of review is awesome

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank you! I am glad this resonated with you so well. Keep sharing the love ahead! 💚

[@gammergq9741]

Thanks, good concise review.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Makes me glad that it resonated well with you. Welcome to The Unlearning Playground! 🙂

[@shivamkumar.3641]

This is 2nd video, I'm watching on this channel. Keeping moving ahead bro. More love and power to you.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks a lot for your kind words. Keep sharing the love! ✌️💚

[@aanchaldogra]

This channel will grow, it has to best of luck brother, btw loved the book

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks a lot for your kind words brother! Keep sharing the love! 💚 Love that you loved the book. ✌️

[@paramita2948]

Thank u sir...the review is awesome...keep going sir....so inspiring

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks a lot for your kind, positive words. Keep sharing the love! 💚

[@benjames648]

What a fantastic book review. Thankyou very much.

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

You’re most welcome. And thank you for such a fantastic comment. Keep sharing the love! ✌️💚

[@overcome_yourself45]

Chetan, loved the review, man! The authenticity of your energy just comes through. the part where you offered your criticism about the potential pitfall of hero worshipping is interesting, the book does portray Adler as a bit of an authoritative figure. Your video inspired me to do a review on my channel. Thank you and keep up the good work!

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Well, thanks a lot for your kind words. Really appreciate your appreciation. Looking forward to seeing more of you here in The Unlearning Playground and also to checking out your work. Keep sharing the love! ✌️

[@nensisharma5321]

I have been a people pleaser for most of my life and it has been very taxing for my mental health. With your advice, I am definitely gonna read this. You gained a new subscriber! Thank you so much 😊 and I'll wait for more such videos ❤️

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks for leaving such a heartfelt comment. Highly appreciate it. There is more content on my channel and my website (chetannarang.org/) already that I think will help you. Feel free to reach out if you think I can help more.

[@amanratansoni738]

very good summary ! Great work buddy

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank you! Keep sharing the love! 🙌

[@Anonymous_489]

Wow the last part of video is amazing❤ : "No one is listening to buddha but worship buddha" Thanku for sych amazing video

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank YOU for such a positive comment. I appreciate it. Keep sharing the love! Welcome to The Unlearning Playground! ✌️💚

[@ahmisphotolab4399]

Thanks man subscribing for your quality content. I'll definitely read this book

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Welcome to The Unlearning Playground. And many thanks for your kind words. 🙂

[@gururajshet3957]

Great video and the quote you mentioned in life lesson 4 reminded me of another quote probably they mean the same so it goes as "society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade of which they know they shall never sit in "

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

That’s it! ✌️

[@KeifusMathews3]

This book is a great read!! As soon as I saw the Don't panic! poster i knew I was gonna like this channel...Arthur Dent!

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Feels refreshing to read this comment! Welcome to The Unlearning Playground. ✌️

[@fasihkhan2998]

Thank you so much for this video i love your videos your language is so easy to understand ❤

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thank you for saying that. Do share with your friends and family too. 🙂💚

[@pritisahoo-jj4sz]

Love from India , rabindra nath tagore 🎉❤❤❤ nice to listen you from odisha , india ❤❤❤❤

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks. Keep sharing the love! 🙌💚

[@ManavPatel-g3q]

great sir this is great video

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Thanks! I’m glad it landed well with you. 🙌

[@anchalpandey9255]

Thnks a lot to recommend us this book bz i've been suffering a lot with my mental health and i had a lot questions related to life but no one got to answer it and i think this book can do tht So thnka again❤ u r very clam person

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

I appreciate your positivity and receptivity a lot. Makes me glad that the video resonated so well with you. Welcome to The Unlearning Playground. Looking forward to interacting more with you here. 🙂

[@anjushetty5339]

Thank you bro 😊

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Glad you liked it. Keep sharing the love! ✌️💚

[@anjushetty5339]

@@ChetanNarangOfficial sure sir 😊

[@anjushetty5339]

Where are you from

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

I stay in Bangalore, India.

[@foodyyyy-f2z]

How to order this in Pakistan in sindh

[@ChetanNarangOfficial]

Well, I wouldn’t know about that. Maybe check a local bookstore if Amazon doesn’t deliver?