How To Spot An ENFP I ENFP Body Language I ENFP Eyes

[@sallystorm2640]

I wanna know 🤦‍♀️😂 how many ENFPs have a million notes on there phone about ideas / lyrics that speak to their soul or just random quotes - never to look at them but to make sure you will always remember ☝️

[@Nancy-fi2vh]

Yes 😅

[@elatrasi]

this is me!

[@phantym150]

🤚

[@well_weathered]

Lol, phones full 🤣

[@elmo4091]

Thisss but im tooo lazy to write them down, so I just end up forgetting:(

[@ellenh278]

ENFP in one word. Curious

[@UnfetteredMusic]

I agree... Curious

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

@@UnfetteredMusic I always thought I was the only one. I don't even have to say a word because my face says it all. LOL. I am so glad there's other people like me in this world. And my doctor just performed all these tests on me and I discovered I can think in like 4 and 5 dimensions, plus observing and seeing other colors. That most people don't see. Wow.

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

I really thought I was a little crazy, but I forever blamnedt on my ADHD.

[@ENFPerspectives]

So true

[@darkdelphin834]

That is actually how I describe myself in one word

[@_baerbel_]

I'm regularly underestimating their analytical skills because I'm blinded by their sunshiny vibe. Makes me feel challenged (in a playful way) and sparks my interest... (INTJ female)

[@ErikThor]

never. underestimate. enfps. they bite 😅

[@StaceTacularAndSuch]

@@ErikThor Thank you Eric for noticing that we are not just the happy haha unicorns (some of us have horse fears, actually, just saying, lol.... True now I have a weird urge to look at my smiles in the cat mirror (it's a mirror shaped like a cat on the outside, not a cat who's soul I'm looking into). lol I'll see myself out... Really though, after a lot of years of feeling really stupid next to my very smart INTJ fiance, this is lovely :) Love your videos x

[@StaceTacularAndSuch]

*Erik, UK spelling fail, my bad lol

[@sutekh233]

@@StaceTacularAndSuch Erik is right, we bite, but only when we feel we need to. That bite, however, is not pleasant to feel. One factor of the ENFP is some serious rage, I don't know another type that is so open about thier anger as ENFP's. We WANT to love the world, we are built to love the world, we don't actually like that side of our personality at least when it is used to hurt someone. When our rage is focused on HELPING someone, well that's a whole different story. People say we are NOT the Campaigners or the bards, or the champions but, we are. One important caveat, We NEED to believe in your cause. If we do not believe in what you stand for, or feel you do not believe it yourself, it is nothing to us.

[@neera3167]

Him talking about smiling: Me: don't smile! Don't smile! *smiles.

[@DanniBby]

Lmfaoo didn’t even realize this was a thing.. I smiled too

[@subhadramahanta452]

I smiled reading your comment 🙃

[@Skybleiz_Qc]

I smiled too 🥲😂

[@lalaurlalala]

A person very special to me described my personality as "Bright". Not in the intelligent sense, but like a light.

[@sacredclown4179]

I cannot speak for other ENFPs , I think it impossible to put into one word, the mercurial nature of an ENFP. But at my core, I think ENFPS are best described as Part entertainer, part explorer and part old sage, which leaves the majority of the linear types scratching there heads. My epitaph will read "The most beautiful things are those that madness prompts and reason creates"

[@c3vy17]

Thats true !! i completely agree !!! i’m also an ENFP 👍👍👍 and it’s really a mix of those especially entreteiner and old sage

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

So our word is multi faceted or something

[@MaliMaslacak526]

How brilliant you are ❤

[@hehe-vd9fh]

As an ENFP I completely agree👍

[@rororosieboat]

i’m an enfp myself and at one point i even got embarrassed (in a good way) because i have never felt so understood so thank you!! 🥺

[@dj_star_wolf2133]

Duuuude for real though!!! Especially the whole spider web part. I was like "That's it!! That's exactly how I think" Its so hard to explain that to other people. I always get self conscious when my eyes are mapping my thoughts because I feel like people don't think I'm listening

[@dj_star_wolf2133]

When in actuality I'm listening really intently, placing what they're saying into my mind map and seeing where it fits with my own ideals and feelings

[@afsl808]

Congratulations you managed to watch dis video without distraction!!

[@dawnmulder3540]

@@afsl808 I actually watched a few times because I was distracted, lol. Great info!

[@laurasusannalisaharleysantera]

You just mirror me. You try to get my mentions every chance you get. I'm aware of your betrayal and you are punished untill 6th of September.

[@SparklesNJazz]

“they’re trying to figure out the full scoop: what are you hiding? what are you not saying?” HAHA MEEE YES i always expect there to be some hidden layer. it can get me into trouble sometimes but i just always want to have a deeper understanding

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

Yes, I can go beneath peoples core self and know what they are feeling, thinking, and exactely what motivates their behavior. Funny, because all the kids used to say that I was just using my spider senses, and I just knew. Lol. I never, ever tell anyone that I'm an empath, because if they knew, they would not be their true self. Plus, after a while I can tell if people are lying.. Its not as good as you think, because I can pick up more bad than good sometimes. Its a curse and blessing. I always thought I could read people because I grew up street smart too. Its easier for me to discern things others can not feel. ENFP thing with too much Fi.

[@c3vy17]

@@ANGEL-eh6pdbro bro i love this comment section it’s full of ENFPS !! YOU GUYS ARE EXACTLY LIKE MEEEEE BRO SAME!

[@isistavarezherrera3358]

Me watching his body language the whole video like: awwwww he looks like a such a nice person.

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

People laugh at my facial expressions all my life. Lol. I admit it. I can talk with my face better than words. That's me. I don't even have to talk to express myself. All these years I thought I talked with my emotions. Your explanations on ENFP is what made me know I'm not ENFJ. I got that in High School, but I could have changed in 35 years. I'll still never know.

[@manuella_honorato]

meu deus as pessoas também riem das minhas expressões faciais, tipo, é apenas eu sabe?????

[@DanniBby]

The test is not always accurate, look at your cognitive functions.. Enfp and Enfj perceive & respond to the world very differently

[@crowley144]

This guy always makes me feel great about being an ENFP :)

[@michilii]

i have a friend who's always telling me how my expressions are such a dead giveaway for how i'm feeling all the time-- and this honestly makes me feel so anxious/naked!! like wtf I don't want people to know what I'm thinking from my face. that's so exposing and unmysterious.

[@rayanelina4248]

I understand this, i don't like being all out, i want to be genuine honest n human but with healthy amount, i heard ENFPs like to keep the "perfect" image to them so that they can keep influencing n inspiring others but the bright side is that you're less misunderstood since ur face expresses alot, just be around the right ppl who would see all of you n still not judge

[@SparklesNJazz]

same!! one time i was with a group of people and i made a comment about how i was feeling and this girl responded, “girl we always know what you’re thinking.” i was so embarrassed, but you know what, i’m proud of it now :)

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

@@rayanelina4248disk type is the inspired type. When I ask my friends and family, they say I'm a motivational speaker in the making. Lol I guess, when I try to encourage others, I'm really encouraging myself too. I use my life's flaws and mistakes as a way of showing people that we all have problems, and life's balance. Its fun for me, for real. I'd never go back down the business path,again. That work was real boring work, work for me. I couldn't sit down for more than an hour straight, I hated being serious and proper. Now I understand why I struggled, because I have 17 percent Si. Lol

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

@@rayanelina4248 I use my non perfect life experiences to encourage others because I want to encourage people to cultivate and grow by being real and true with themselves. I abhore people who act like they are perfect. Really.. Funny, I always say, just go with the flow, and I ended up on this MBTI youtube channel. I took it as a sign. Who knows? Eric is sincere, knowlgeable, and honest. Im an Empath, I know.

[@marcwemtrust1480]

4:30 Metaphysics YES. ENFP can see the not already lived potential within people or situations, they have ears and eyes for P like potential and posibilities. Anyone else "SEE" this way? Maybe INFJ? INTJ? INTP? INFP? ENTJ? ENFJ? Intuitive Types?

[@jt_norway9129]

OMG THATS SOOO MEE! :)

[@eddiestefan5039]

Erik, this was such a nice explanation of ENFPs. You did a really good job of not regurgitating Information that was already out there about ENFPs. This was new and refreshing info, thank you for the kind words and sharp observation of ENFPs! 💖🤧

[@andytheindividual3862]

Enfps are so awesome!!

[@almaddy8681]

ENFP in one word: Colourful ps. wow thanks for this very articulate and thoughtful video! you weave together our ~chaotic~ ways into something so seamless in this video, well done :~)

[@ErikThor]

Thanks Al!

[@evolili4245]

Hooow can this be so accurate?! For the interrupting it's weird, logically I think it is rude and try not to do it, but then again when somebody is talking I often just CAN'T keep myself from jumping in and asking stuff😭

[@ENFPerspectives]

He gathers data

[@lazykid9167]

Aah, the interruptive investigative communication style got me, where I had to go to the keyboard and write this comment, to say that I 100% agree with this. When talking people skip over details or leave paths unexplored, I will usually curiously interrupt and investigate more to hear the full story. I already noticed this behaviour on myself. And also the intuitive sentence building on the go. I start a sentence, aiming in a direction where I want to go with that sentence, but I try to find the right words as I go, sometimes leading to a bit of chaotic path in the sentence structure. And yes, you get my emotions with it, as I like to open my heart and be vulnerable with it there is no need for me to hide my emotions ( except in situations where the emotions would obviously make things unnecessarily worse )

[@jessefranc5967]

I am blown away by the attention to detail and the effort you took to look beneath the surface on described ENFP people. Gosh Darn there Erik, bravo applause from me! You are brilliant and I hope your channel continues to blow up! Also going to try and notice when my face tenses up from now on lol

[@Maryam-forbia]

Although I didn't really relate that much to the ENFP eye you described,the hand gestures were litterly SO on point!this is litterly me whenever I explain anything or just talk😂 and the facial expressions are REAL! my eyes litterly reveal EVERYTHING!!

[@audrey-annegaumond2045]

As an ENFP, this is so accurate!!

[@ellenh278]

Gesture palms in. Huh. Never noticed that. Will look for it in the future. Also never noticed I look away when laughing but I do! I have no issue with eye contact but I naturally avoid it/go inside when laughing. Cool.great video. ALWAYS learn something new from your content. Thanks

[@joshuaa.humphries2712]

Yeah. I get accused of "not paying attention" when my attention is at its strongest.

[@ingver5035]

@@joshuaa.humphries2712 wow same, i never understood why.. its like „yes i am not looking at you, i am looking at the concept of what you are saying, thats why i am staring into the air“

[@ellenh278]

@@ingver5035 exactly!

[@TWDEColtBlooded]

Yes to struggle with own way to make words of the thought = inward palms Struggling to make words that will be the right meaning for others to interpret = outward palms At least, that is, for me. When I get too excited, my brain turns the page before my mouth is ready. Internal rewind, where was I again? > inward palms If I'm speaking with someone I've known for a while and I try express my feelings and understandings... palms out every time. If I'm restarting and pausing, then I will move my hands like I'm pushing a box away from me. And blow out as well. My body is so tired of sitting on this expression because it doesn't want to be misunderstood. I probably could see real growth if I could define myself

[@silentgrove7670]

Rather accurate. There is another feature that sometimes occurs for me. It happens when a deeper newness is occurring in my thoughts, something never before imagined, often at times coming from deep in the unconscious. In these moments the eyes toggle quickly from side to side as if grasp new realities. ENFP

[@ENFPerspectives]

🙄

[@kailanGoreng]

i clicked on this video as a curious skeptic, lol i really didn't think you see through our body language. but dang... you're right. i don't really know what to sound authentic would be like, because i never gave any thought to it as i never really cared how people perceive me. but other than that, you're absolutely right. that darting, pin pointing, and half squinting eyes with brows raised slightly... that's my normal face lol people closes to me have made a few remarks on it. one other thing that you might missed maybe is that extreme thinking face. where we just stare into the emptiness while making slight grimaces for a long moment just thinking about something. or sometimes it's at an object, hyper analysing its shapes, capacity, how it was made, and it's history, imagining how it must have been like in other peoples hand, until some one say "what the heck are you staring at?!" lol

[@raoulasare2198]

That feeling when you've zoned out accidentally staring at someone....then snap out of it realizing youve been staring for aaaages....

[@rev.jimjonesandthekool-aid4488]

Or just sitting there when out of the blue something sad makes a tear come, then i relaize im happy not sad mood, so i wipe my eyes. I am always in the middle of an internal conflict of emotions. I have dozens of well developed ideas always brewing. I'm a prepper. My desktop always has open windows to remind me of topics and ideas. Certain things really i find interesting then not. I think alot about how i fit into the world. I am always planning. I stage things. Im lazy bit can work hard if excited. I excel under pressure. My hairstyle is not popular. I may take 3 yrs to decide something. I will let you be you. Theres more im sure.

[@shrutishinde6930]

@@rev.jimjonesandthekool-aid4488 related to whatever you said😂😂

[@gmcollazo1118]

The extreme thinking face!! SAAAMEEE

[@mymusicmysoulperfectlife1809]

I am an ENFP, so im sensitive, i see that you tend to keep your breath when you speak, try to make practice of breathing, when you think and speak you get disconnected from the body sensation and proprioception.

[@am8838]

Spot on!!! I am an ENFP… and now I know how others see me…lol… thank you!

[@beatrice8889]

Oh my god you're making me feel so good about being an ENFP. And you are so right about this body language, I didn't even realise I was doing that. Only my voice tone and words cracking, bc I give a lot of attention on my communication and I observed it😂👍 Sorry, I am not fluent in english, but ya'll understand me:)

[@natsumeyuna4171]

Wow, just wow. You named things...some things that just recently became a bigger topic for me again. Like the fact that my face is often not very expressive and that I don't really come across as soft while talking. I would've never thought this could be connected to me being an Enfp... I checked my body language while you were explaining and so much matches up I'm blown away. I think I have to listen to this again. Thank you for this video.

[@marsjaninzmarsa]

Aspie+ENFP = weird, ultimate combo 😅😅

[@spannycat2]

Aspie/ADHD ENFP

[@justinstrange5945]

As an ENFP... There's something about this video made me very curious. Almost like I was compelled to watch it. I just can't quite put my finger on it.... 🤔 😏 On a serious note, thank you. This was beyond refreshing, and a real glimpse into why the INFJ/ENFP relationship is so unique and special. Mirrors, not opposites. I am in awe of how much time, research, observation, and experience this must have taken you to make. This is not only the accurate, in-depth, and truly genuine observation of ENFP's cognitive behavioral style that I've ever come across, but the physical behavior style as well. Physical mannerisms and body language speak volumes. Being able to listen as well as see what you're doing with your hands, eyes, facial expressions while you're speaking; makes what you're saying that much more... Real. Not the bog-standard "ENFP's are flaky, unorganized, unattached, short-term goal oriented, etc etc" I could go on and on and on, which I'm sure you're aware of. Just, thanks.

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

I was flaky when I was younger though, really. Im still really weird, but I think its fun.

[@justinstrange5945]

@@ANGEL-eh6pd Same. I'm still unsure if I was flakey necessarily, or if I just wasn't being honest with myself when I told people I would do something. Or If I just changed my mind and bailed, aka being a flake. haha! It's ok tho, I think it's fun too.

[@yahsgirl5264]

Haha, I noticed my eyebrow thing in my 20s and I was like, "Why in the heck do I do that?" I've actually tried to stop it because it is often what people do when they're lying or in trouble, and I don't want people to think that about me. But I thought it was a weird quirk about me, I didn't realize we all tend to do that. Very interesting video and very insightful. I'm pleased with the fact that the seriousness was portrayed too. We aren't all rainbows and unicorns all the time...though, we could easily be taken away by a rainbow unicorn at any given moment...if I see one at any point I'm totally outta here! 😆

[@robin-vt1qj]

Yes

[@dumblonde8872]

Always blown away by the accuracy

[@elizabethl3392]

Exactly!!!! Great description of facial expressions. You described my eyes, my smile, my voice … listening to this makes me think all those quirky things with my voice and gestures that I have been hoping to one day “fix” … well, I guess that’s not happening … these things are deeper than just bad habits. I enjoy being an ENFP so I think I can accept those characteristics of me. It has been very instructive listening to all your videos. Things that I have been thinking of as personal shortcomings and issues are more like functions of my personality type. This helps me to be a bit more kind and accepting of myself. Thank you, these videos are precious gifts of insight that ease my heart.

[@leonardjavier]

I clicked just to hear what you'd say on ENFPs but damn when you talked about how we evaluate and evaluate the meaning of things and our place in the world, I physically felt a pang of familiarity. Thanks for observing and expressing this!

[@itsmeraz3008]

I thoroughly enjoyed this! I loved that you have take the time to really observe and learn. I just love it! I am always searching about how we behave and how we come across or what is portrayed and so on, so this is just delightful for me. I find my feelings are so incredibly private, but I wear my emotions on my sleeve when I am interacting with others. Those who are not as behaviour savvy, cannot always understand and interpret emotions, but those savvy types are very quick to pick things up when you're spilling out your emotions like that! And yes, I inwardly cringe as I interrupt the speaker!!

[@voyance4elle]

Wow!!!! You put really a lot of effort into observing 😍 I appreciate that 🙏

[@jameyburho1165]

Erik, I appreciate your videos so much! As an ENFP, I think you should create a special dating app to help ENFPs like me easily find wonderful INFJs!😅

[@unmemorablehero]

Dang! I’ve never been called out so hard on my facial and body expressions lol.

[@mirab1488]

Wow this was so good video! My friend is enfp, hands and everything is so accurate😱 she’s really so open and curious before she judge anything and I love that, she also overthinks but that’s just cute. Are you going to do these kind of videos about more types? Also are you from sweden?

[@His2777]

She doesn’t overthink things. She simply sees 18 different sides to something. She’s examining all of them, including thinking outside of the box.

[@shioniggy9325]

@@His2777 that sometimes can lead to overthink things tho.. i should know

[@ermelindafurtado1788]

You did a really deep and good job. Well done! And Thanks

[@fredrikdippel3664]

Not sure I've ever met anyone. But I really like their style as you describe. I get a bit disturbed when people are communicating in monologues and don't bother about feedback or really understanding. It feels so reckless...😂 I'm an INTJ type.

[@dannisayseffyou]

What a great video- newly discovering enfp 😄

[@ryutak777]

This hit way too close to home. I don't want to think or feel right now.

[@ScizzorSenpai]

I feel like ENFP-Ts are very similar to INFPs sometimes, especially if they are ambiverts, like me

[@hallierosemusic]

I’m an INFP-T and my boyfriend is an ENFP-T, we are very similar xD

[@YouMeWallakpu]

Same

[@cherryblossom7442]

This is so true. Well explained

[@KillerConfidenceQueen]

5:38 .. this man using the phrase "do i vibe with that?" .. i've never felt more seen.

[@bubblebathskies]

when you said some people "talk like their words are porridge" i- something about that was really beautiful to me (i'm an ENFP, maybe that perception of beauty comes from the fact it's not how i naturally talk?)

[@Jjmiamjj]

This was so accurate, thank you so much for those interesting facts, it's only the second video of yours I am watching but you just gained a suscriber! In the end I was even laughing at how true everything was. ENFP in one word: thinker. Maybe even overthinkers, whether it is about ourselves or our surroundings.

[@nicholassmith7473]

i am an ISTP and married an ENFP three years ago. Let me tell you, we have trouble in communication but i wouldnt give up my wife for anything in the world. She is the toughest and nicest person i know. She is always kind to me and others without giving up herself. She is amazing.

[@leadwithjim]

LOL I am an ENFP and this was pretty accurate :)

[@Sigma200O]

Erik Thor of course you have a nice voice😛

[@Sullyandjulia]

INFJS ARE ON THE WAY ENFPS SAVE URSELF

[@BigPapa64469]

okayyy woow you got me..im not an infj im an enfp thank you

[@kellikakes81]

I completely related to everything you mentioned... One word: Inquisitive

[@suzdwyer4577]

Yes so accurate. I'm pretty sure my Mum in an ENFP (and also one of my older brothers).

[@ainekelly5252]

I used my hands to talk when I was younger, but my mum kept telling me constantly it makes people think I’m weird so my body doesn’t do it naturally anymore now. 🙁

[@Marsh53172]

Great video as always! ENFP here

[@rebekdascoli]

This is incredible information!

[@laurasusannalisaharleysantera]

Mystical.

[@getreadywithmemamma]

We are fiercely independent, what up with the giving our camouflage away hahaha. This was great actually thanks for the descriptions and the hubs is an INFJ and we do a lot of eye convos that I’ve done for so long it took a while for me to realize his Ni gaze. Actually Ni eyes are the only ones that I feel like are actually giving me eye contact. Se is taking me in, but more like they are hunting, or watching a nature scene. Si eyes are hilariously close together and in there, but Ni is where I feel like I can pause and meet something real. Ne eyes, my eyes do what my hubs say is a dance, he always asks me what I’m thinking when they move and I don’t always know since they have already moved and the hand gestures each type really does have unique hand gestures. Hahaha yeah I do that with my hands. Ok, erase the video this makes us too exposed 😂.

[@ErikThor]

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[@tjdomerny4847]

You were definitely describing me.

[@tildatildatilda]

Erik du gillar verkligen enfp's lol

[@juvilynseva4708]

An observant look hahaha you are so funny, like it, it's ENFP here hahaha so cute

[@afaf5708]

Hand gesture, the lower part of the face, not looking to people when smiling how can you know me more than I do know myself 🤗

[@JPowerMMA]

When my face tenses up its so my eyes lock with their target

[@Ellenmendenhall]

Spot on!

[@Grace-fm1zj]

Wow amazing

[@createa.googleaccount713]

Most Impressive! Very fascinating and interesting 👍 Thank you for sharing your wisdom, I appreciate 🙏 👍 😊 💖🏅🎖🏆

[@ANGEL-eh6pd]

Great video. Thank you.

[@jt_norway9129]

YOU KNOW ITS SERIOUS WEHN U GET A AD WITH FRANK JAMES IN IT BEFURE TEH VIDEYA ....!! :D

[@janiyathecreator7528]

we usually have round and big /wide eyes

[@indieartistschool]

My smile is super huge and dominant though lol

[@audreymorris2076]

I'm an ENFP and I've often been told that my face is like a television screen for all of my feelings like I can't have a feeling and not have it registered on my face and all this time I'm putting emphasis on certain words so yeah it's like a self-affirming prophecy I'm a f****** ENFP

[@yamunasalma4789]

people always see me like 'this person almost have a crush with everything, even with that walking cat! i thought i can see someone feeling only from they eyes' after watch this i go "no sweetie i am an enfp and i have eyes"

[@freidenkerin5198]

❤You're cool!😊 Seems like you really like us! Deeply appreciate the indepth insides you provide in this video!🔮✨

[@YouMeWallakpu]

When I'm laughing, i want others to laugh too. Or is it just me who thinks would be awkward. I want them to match my vibe and me to match their vibe as well(i try alot). I want them to think same as me (every one would) but i can always softly agree with their own opinions and supoort them with curious expression. I aware that I'm using my face alot, but I don't realize 😂 how do i put this. When I'm listening to someone i make 😮 face, and when I don't understand i make sure they see my confusion face by 🤨 expression. Hand part is true too.

[@dj_star_wolf2133]

Enfp in our word: ADVENTURES!!!

[@McKinneyLiz]

"Great insight" from an ENFP.

[@Ibbiehart6645]

Authentic

[@Marses970]

Excellent , impressive:)

[@katerinarolna7876]

woow, how could you know me soo well (maybe even better than i do :D)??? :DD thank you for your videos, i really really love them:)))

[@christiansebastianhattogom5672]

As an ENFP myself I gotta say that I confirm almost everything he said jesus christ

[@DraneaLee]

You are describing me to a tee! I feel validated lol

[@GrowingStrength]

I loed the part of Communication Style, you made a great descirption! And yes, it depends if your an A or a T ENFP so... it's good to know that you can get from T to A with some work :)

[@Richard-zm6pt]

self-contained

[@ElinorRigby]

Weirdly accurate

[@appletreel6487]

Once my dermatologist told me the reason of wrinkles on my forehead is because of my habit to raise eyebrows! -xnfp

[@sweetbunny777]

Thousandth like!

[@laurasusannalisaharleysantera]

ENFPs with an attitude. Pride, yes. God Told You To Be Loyal Not Humble.

[@alexkooba446]

Infj doing research...

[@laurasusannalisaharleysantera]

Raising eyebrows

[@metalmike5880]

What is the enfp thing? Is it a label or is it a personality, and how do you determine who is enfp.

[@rodrigomachado5291]

My strongest cognitive function as an ENFP was extroverted intuition IIRC. But all other functions change, don't they? Because my extroverted thinking is by far my worst of all traits. What does it mean?

[@chickadddee]

Hey, I'm no expert but from what I know: your other functions don't change as in switch places or disappear, but they can develop and you get a handle on them as you get older. Te is good, not bad. It is about logic that is relevant to the external, (my place is uber organised for example!). You can organize teams well, and make plans etc., but just be careful not to fall into it when you are stressed, you will appear super bossy and barky.

[@rodrigomachado5291]

@@chickadddee thanks for the answer with such great analysis, but I'm reading my other post now and I don't know if I made myself clear... Extroverted thinking is Te right? When I said it was my worst trait I meant it was my least developed one. Is this what you understood by my ambiguous (unintentionally) message? Or considering this do you have another view now?

[@rodrigomachado5291]

@@chickadddee and half of your analysis fits me well (me being horribly brutal when anger explosion comes), but the first part about being organized is my complete opposite... My life is a mess, pure chaos with a lot of difficulty to run it even a little smoothly...

[@chickadddee]

@@rodrigomachado5291 ok, I think I got that. Well, it could be that you are working out your Fi still, figuring out your values, yourself. Ne is a given. Fi takes some reflection, and then Te will be easier once you have strong interests and a direction. Every type gets frustrated it's ok....we just have to learn how to manage stress. It doesn't have to be perfect. One thing at a time 🙂👍

[@chickadddee]

@@rodrigomachado5291 I read somewhere that Te isn't developed until our 30s but I bet that depends on the person and how willing we are to try a different way.... (Te is partially about trying something good that helped someone else just to see if it works. Te isn't as personal as Fi.) We get mad because we're putting energy into something that's hard, but also it's not meaningful enough. So back to Fi 🤔😁

[@AwaisMahmood57]

Bubbly.

[@ganapa3350]

Hey, I'm an INFP, and I'm in love with an ENFP. What should I do? Help!

[@rebornbutterfly1663]

If you are an infp basically you don't have Many things to do be yourself first i don't know what type of enfp you wanna date but generally enfp like someone who is intelligent , who listen to them, who see through their sunshine personnality , who like or at last accepte their awkward personnality , if you are a bit weird they like it too , be nice gentle but sincère, challenge their thoughs gently is cool too , but keep a bit a mystery they like mystery a lot ,they like surprise ,original and aventurous date never be clingy , enjoy life they don't enjoy people that are Always pessimist anyway the most important think is be natural if she finds that you are being Fake she will propably run...don't forget they are generally very romantic

[@ganapa3350]

@@rebornbutterfly1663 Thank you so much, your answer is amazing! I love listening to him and I wholeheartedly accept his weird personality, but I don't know if he knows that. I was pretty sure he's an ENFP, but I made him take the test and he's actually INFP. Oh no, hahaha. My relationship is very complicated with him. I am both a close friend and a stranger. Basically all I do right now is maintaining not to seem creepy, haha. We live thousands of kilometers away, buy he seems to get me. Well, no wonder if he's an INFP. Of course he understands me, as we think in the exact same way. He lives in Québec, btw. You seem like you speak french yourself :) I love French now! Sorry for sharing all of these, I know it's annoying. Have a nice day, kind person :)

[@user-pk5pl7ox1e]

Tell them directly in words and say 'I'm serious when I'm telling you this! Are you listenin?'

[@YouMeWallakpu]

Someone who would listen, someone who is trustworthy, make sure you always give them insurance to build trust that they can be with you forever. Just be cute, enfp love adoring. Be accepting. Be fun and not always so stuck with strict rules. ENFP are curious and freedom lovers.

[@MikeShawTV]

ENFP Eyes. Blue, Green, Blue-Green, Hazel... Is this true? It's just something I've noticed from a lot of ENFP creators and my own hazel eyes. Just wondering if I'm making that up or not. Love your insights on us Erik. Thanx!

[@queue7673]

I love this so much~~~🌟 I need one of these for every type (*-*) Thank you again for your very insightful content🔥

[@laurasusannalisaharleysantera]

The young ENFP could learn how to be more selective to information that comes to them. I'm an experimented ENFP that screwed up by listening and reading everybody and not imposing boundaries. Be aware but not that aware. It is painful. Let me carry that burden for you.

[@dogdonut3]

With enfps being so curious and plotting a course through the world, it's no wonder they often test as intjs. I tested as one for over 20 years. Recently, I got typed as an enfp! Intuition as the first function and fi, te being so high in the stack, also adds to the similarities. Do you find this happens often?