Eugenia Cooney's Mom Doesn't Want Her To Get Better...

The one and only person who doesn't see that Eugenia is dying is the person who gave her life. Absolutely disgusting.

[@fliicreates4061]

A daughter with serious ED and her mom with Münchhausen by proxy seems like a very dangerous combination.

[@PT-tw6kg]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@Observette]

You’re spreading misinformation. People with Munshhousen live at the hospital, they’re obsessed with getting pity from the medical community. This isn’t Munshhousen, this is a enabling rich spoiled mother/daughter relationship. Stop armchair diagnosing everything that you think can’t be explained by simple human idiocy.

[@MelissasPinkWorld]

Thank you I just had commented about this.

[@namantherockstar]

Hayley inspires me.. My parents said if i get 60K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally Begging...

[@fliicreates4061]

@@Observette explain how it’s misinformation. I only stated a dangerous combination.

[@pinkdiamonds9137]

Eugenia’s body weight/eating is the only thing she has ever been able to control in her life. It’s no wonder she developed an ED with a mother like that

[@chaneykane3828]

Exactly. ED’s are more than just body image. There’s an obsessive compulsive component to them too. The need to be in control.

[@LorraineVirginie]

Yup. And her mom is so hooked on being in control that she acts like her severe life threatening ED is no concern. If she expressed concern over it she’d be giving Eugenia power in the relationship. She would rather her daughter die than give her any ounce of feeling of control and power. And Eugenia continues to hold onto it as the only thing she has control over, probably hoping at some point her mother would care enough to actually help her. It’s a stand off to the death at this point.

[@ripped_pantyhose]

As someone who is constantly controlled by my parents, I have to agree, it is what has fueled my eating disorder and kept it alive

[@georginaburrows]

Yep exactly

[@windyday6850]

@@ripped_pantyhose I hope you get out and heal soon, love.

[@nathaliacruz9183]

Something tells me she is her mom's doll. She controls her, plays with her, starves her. Maybe she even wants her daughter to look like a human doll. I dunno, but every option there in this family is just CREEPY.

[@AshleyWilliams-xq7lj]

I think she's also jealous of Eugenia. An ordinary looking woman locking her beautiful daughter away from the world. It's something straight out of a fairytale.

[@certified_l0ser]

Agreed

[@zxyatiywariii8]

Ikr, Eugenia needs to be saved from that creepy and controlling mother.

[@annemargarettemagno]

True! It's like her mom wants her to be like a human doll or (lolita in my country that's what we call) a puppet or something.

[@craftykn9452]

Eugenia is a cash cow for mom

[@monicapyle]

Even my teenage daughter would know she doesn't need to ask to go outside to look at the moon. Being darn near 30 and having to sneak out to just stand on your doorstep to look at the moon is insane 😵

[@Mel12722]

Wait... I'm 16 and I have to ask usually to go into my room or the basement... Let alone outside??? My parents would tell me to just look out the window as well

[@Reiiven]

⁠@@Mel12722 I mean, that’s pretty strict but it’s a different story for a 16 year vs someone who’s basically 30 (coming from someone else who’s not far from your age with strict parents)

[@KA-op3of]

​@@Mel12722yeah that's not normal

[@Simplicityandkindness]

​@Mel12722 your parents are highly controlling and that is not right. Watch your back with them as you edge closer to 18. It's a red flag. And don't take your devices with you if you ever have to leave in an emergency because they could have put parental monitoring software on them. So always be aware of that. Take care.

[@monicapyle]

@@Mel12722 that's not normal...

[@debbief9861]

The real panic with the bit of “dirt” on her clothes is about the most genuine show of emotion we get. Everything else is just fake, surface cheeriness.

[@daughterofmagick3867]

I think honestly that was the most telling moment for me. I have it ever seen a few clips of Eugenia because I didn't want to support her channel with views and encourage that behavior. Now I feel really bad that I judged her for just being oblivious to her own poor decisions when she has clearly been mentally and emotionally abused for probably her whole life by that sorry excuse for a mother 😢 Surely, can't someone report her??

[@debbief9861]

@@daughterofmagick3867 it's all been reported, but nothing ever changes, apart from an intervention a few years ago. There's info on this in a number of videos on KZbin. I am the same - I don't watch any of her output. The whole thing is awful, including the family situation.

[@LivBlanks]

Not even its really just cause her mom told her beforehand to do it that way to not get dirt on her socks.. so when she did she freaked cause she still messed up. I'm pissed so many people got upset with the friends for the intervention cause I thought they were good friends doing the right thing. Period. I will forever be on their side.

[@eva1585]

Especially cause its GARDENING. Like?? Ofc you're gonna get dirt on you! Its like taking someone out swimming and saying "dont get wet!" Her reaction to getting dirt on her socks was really uncomfortable to watch

[@certified_l0ser]

That’s just sad

[@sandpiper5705]

I totally think her mom has treated her like Rapunzel. Is there such a thing as a "rapunzel syndrome" or anything? Like people that are raised insanely sheltered and end up very childlike and naive due to this? I bet this is how things are. That would explain so much.

[@MelissasPinkWorld]

Munchausen by proxy.

[@paulapaul9403]

Is called Wendy's syndrome

[@pettykittyfam]

So it's not Rapunzel syndrome although that IS a thing but it has more to do with someone who pulls their hair out and has other anxiety related mental illnesses. However the other comment about Wendy syndrome comes a little closer... I would call this situation with Eugenia and her mom Peter Pan syndrome (a real thing) where a person remains childlike and for whatever reason (abuse or something similar) doesn't mature and Munchausen by proxy. Wendy syndrome is also real but it refers to women who "mother" their partners/husbands. Hope that helps a little. I actually googled all this because you got me interested with your initial question! Lol I was like... IS there such a thing? And yep there is and more.

[@MeowMatee]

FR I think the home schooling messed her up . She doesn’t ever talk to ppl her age in real life which is damaging to mental health

[@erinkinsella91]

Rapunzel syndrome is where they eat the hair

[@femdivinemind7777]

The level of anxiety she must feel when she’s without her mother must be awful…

[@StandAloneSoul]

That's probably exactly what her mother has conditioned her to with her neglect and opression

[@bryanaperry8760]

At minimum, Eugenia's relationship with her mom screams "learned helplessness" to me. I had a mother who had no patience for kids, and struggled with the same thing. And people are not kind about it. When your parent teaches you nothing about anything, it is really going to affect how you learn stuff. It is so embarrassing to not know how to do basic shit yourself and then to be ridiculed for it. And when you do try to achieve some independence and learn for yourself, that parent discourages you at every turn. I feel for her. But yeah, at some point you have to put yourself above that abusive parent. It isn't as easy as everyone thinks though.

[@Cosmic_Ocean_]

I hope universe punishes those who mocked you for something you are not the one to blame.

[@WillBlindYouWithLight]

Yes!! And then people you look up to say, "I'm not your mother in not going to raise you".. like what the hell does that mean? Obviously I'm doing everything you tell me, but I never asked you to be my mother or take her place. With that attitude, I'm surprised the kids you have want you as a mother .... I never understood people that want to help and then act like you're not worthy neither... I was extremely sheltered, but I never ever asked or insinuated I needed a second mother to teach me about the world😂😂😂 why do they do that?

[@tanyabrown9839]

Things with Eugenia seem to go far beyond that her mother just didn't teach her things as she isn't allowed to go anywhere alone (she was made to be chaffered by driver everywhere). Not only that there is a video in which a friend of hers pointed out locks on her door, on the outside of her door.. The friend asked her why they were there and Eugenia said they always had been there. There is also a video in which Eugenia is left without a bed as her brother had taken to sleeping in her bed, something she was upset about.

[@mothmink]

Her mom is not only enabling her mental illness, she’s conditioning it.

[@niraxlevi9930]

More like she caused them but who knows really this is sad

[@Arnoldman-ep9gw]

Is it for money 💰. Her mom is a psychopath

[@elizabethbennet4791]

she created it and loves it. Typical NarciSSIST, loving her daughter's death. Secretly jealous as all fat short moms do with their tall thin daughters

[@moonieri]

@@niraxlevi9930 her getting bullied and not fitting probably had a lot to do but of course, her mom ignored the warning signs until she was deep into it

[@catharinaventer1232]

Eugenia is her mother's cash cow

[@brittneydawn516]

Her “mom” wants Eugenia to COMPLETELY depend on her, to the point where Eugenia is so sick she’s unable to get out of bed, and under her “moms” control. This is the sickest Münchausen by proxy I’ve seen since Gypsy Rose. And honestly, this seems worse. This monster of a “mother” needs to be arrested for entrapment, abuse and so on. And I know Eugenia is an adult and can kick her mom to the curb, but her mind is so distorted by her ED and her “moms” gaslighting…it’s like she’s a little girl. 😢

[@pixi111]

100% i want everyone to see this and defend her, because the true evil is the torture she has endured for like 20 years, its not her choice

[@JazzyCross]

literally is said it gives gypsy rose vibe before i seen this comment

[@arizonasunflowers5226]

I think a lot of this is a “put-on” for attention. She’s like mentally retarded in a way. This is terrible neglect by her mother. She took take her to an ED therapist! It’s like watching your child poison herself & just ignoring it & allowing her to continue to take poison. After Eugenia dies, and they see the condition of her body, they’ll do an autopsy and the mom will be charged with neglect, abuse & not feeding her.

[@happymoo4694]

I wouldn’t joke I made director of oncology at an hq Pharma but I don’t know how to take a train or my car has been taken and I’m not allowed to drive it’s messed up I even asked her straight out, place covered in cctv Passport gpne I mean you give up Don’t fight you won’t win so just let her be I would say. Idk yeah it’s too true your words I can’t listen I have to try take the train and was perplexed at something again today. I learnt my room is my world.

[@annemargarettemagno]

Honestly, I her "mom" didn't deserve to be called a mom, like you're not blind, you can CLEARLY see the problem with your daughter, take her to a doctor! I've experienced this kind of thing before, but my mom has helped me! She takes me to regular check ups in the past. Because I was diagnosed with pneumothorax. And because of that sickness. My weight dropped. I'm like a skeleton, but today I'm slowly recovering and my weight slowly going back.

[@haywood1980]

Her having ED makes sense now. It’s the only thing she can control in her own life. The whole situation is heartbreaking. With as closed off from the world as her mother keeps her, I bet she truly believes things her mom says like her driving teacher was fired after internet sleuths tracked her down. Kind of like when I was very young and my parents told me my dog went on vacation because they didn’t want me to have to deal with her death at 3. Difference is, my parents didn’t shelter me from the world, just tried to protect me when appropriate. But I believed them and even though Eugenia is 29, she’s so incredibly sheltered that she probably doesn’t know any different. Her mother should be investigated for adult abuse. I bet her mom took her out of rehab because Eugenia was learning in the counseling sessions and interacting with other residents that the things her mother was doing were so abnormal. Her mother can’t have her coming to any realizations about her life and risk losing control of Eugenia. She’s probably so brainwashed at this point that there may be no going back. She’s suffering from Stockholm syndrome. How do you undo 30 years of this horrific abuse and trauma. It’s no wonder she seems so much like a little girl. Does anyone know if she was homeschooled?

[@karyannfontaine8757]

Yes, Eugenia said she was bullies and switched schools. Finally she was home schooled.

[@monicapyle]

Her mother, in my opinion, doesn't have munchausen by proxy because parents with by proxy constantly take their kids to the doctor, in hopes of getting serious diagnosis. They doctor shop in order to do this. It's clear that her mother doesn't take her to the doctor or else she'd be admitted ASAP for ED. I think her mother is a severe narcissist and has to control Eugenia and wants to keep her dependent on her and enjoys the negative attention she gets by people staring at her. She wont even let her out of the house to look at the moon and shes 29 years old, living in a pink hello kitty room and wears clothes a little girl would like. Her mom is all about control but denies anything is medically wrong with her.

[@PinkieJoJo]

Yeah. It’s like it but not like it. It’s maybe some weird form of it.

[@alouise3557]

100% NPD mother.

[@andrie1968]

I agree. So sad…

[@StandAloneSoul]

Maybe even sadistic, too...

[@mamacakes6039]

It’s all about the money. Is what it is

[@Justaperson354]

I am a doctor and I can tell you right now if I saw her she would be hospitalized 100% no doctor with a valid medical license (or that isn’t on the line of losing it) would ever say she’s fine. EVER!

[@sjla2009]

But do u have the power to do that 🤔

[@Inanitas_]

@@sjla2009If she’d have very low level of potassium: yes, because that would mean she could have any time a heart attack

[@sjla2009]

@@Inanitas_ but you'd have to be her doctor. And you'd have to have her consult you. I mean, does any doctor through social media have any power over her? I think not. And I think something is wrong there.

[@Justaperson354]

@@sjla2009 I meant in my comment that if I saw her as a patient not just walking down the street. And if she was my patient I do have legal rights to hold her up to 3 days if I think she needs it in order to not die, than her family and I (I’ve done it before) would likely petition the court for a longer hold. They’d have me as a consult or professional witness, whatever you like to call it and id state that I didn’t think it would be in her best interest to leave the hospital, then id give her lab work and my professional findings and experience.

[@Justaperson354]

@@sjla2009 if she was my patient, yes. That’s why I don’t believe her when she said she’s been to a doctor and was fine. No doctor with a license would ever say she’s fine, you can lose your license over something like that and no patient is worth losing your license over even if they’re a celebrity and you don’t want people to hate you. It’s about life or death. And we take an oath and are legally required to follow it in order to practice lawfully in the United States. I’ve had patients on hold before. One patient was trying to take their life and ended up in my ER, I held them for 2 days and then psych ward took them. I’ve had many patients with ed and many needed TPN which is IV nutrition and without it they’d die, so yeah. We have the power to do that.

[@annjepsen1621]

She looked terrified when she heard that bell go off. Her claiming that she doesn't know why there's bells on the door is ridiculous. Her full-body reaction to the sound tells me she's had physical punishments when that bell rung in the past.

[@mcbby7]

I’ve been locked inside the house by someone who wanted to “protect” me. It was the scariest experience of my life. I hope Eugenia can get help somehow, I really feel for her

[@Peloponnesia666]

Jesus I’m sorry. That’s horrific

[@maeday4954]

The worst part is that it's too late. There is no recovering from the state she is in, even if she realizes the world around her isnt the way her mother has made her seen it. It is a mircale Eugenia is still alive

[@emilywallace2276]

Her mother causes her ed... her nearly being 30 years old and her mother having every single thing she does under her control, her eating is the ONLY thing SHE can control!!! That's a common thing for a lot of people with ed to do... it's a feeling that you have no sense of control and the one thing you can control is you're eating and weight!!! Its SOOO SAD Though!!!

[@filthySPACErat]

I came to say exactly this. Eugenia's ED is a DIRECT result of Deb's control issues

[@spookshow6999]

Glaringly obvious.

[@sjla2009]

And then it turns out her mom is actually fine with her starving to death. Maybe causing Eug to try even harder to get her mom to see she has control. But it will never work cos her mom allows it. Omg. That's horrific. Eug will literally DIE TRYING. 🤯😳🥺

[@filthySPACErat]

@@sjla2009 yep

[@aliciaw8147]

10000%

[@pettykittyfam]

I've been saying for years this woman is holding her daughter captive in more ways than one.

[@heidih3048]

I know that we heard the father's voice at home in at least one of her videos. So the father is somehow involved as well.

[@robinhughes8530]

I agree

[@abigailcreech4389]

the back doors of most cars have child locks so you can't open the door from the inside... my guess is that she's getting locked into the car when she leaves the house

[@user-uf9tl3lf7u]

Sounds like a gypsy rose situation 😳

[@puipoka]

Fr

[@MelonSandBoxNewbie]

To call those things "ordinary tasks" would be a *HUGE* understatement because of how simple they are

[@Daisy-ny9kl]

Her mom is so scary. I hate people telling Eugenia that her actions are "inexcusable" when her mother is telling her she's not even allowed to leave the house without permission.

[@Lilcharlie78]

she is not even aloud to go upstairs without permission. that is scary ❤

[@nutellabutt8104]

Where are you getting this information?

[@MeowMatee]

Jaclyn exposed the heck out of her for sure . Think ppl just don’t research enough

[@Lilcharlie78]

@@nutellabutt8104 in some video on youtube she wanted her console and had to call her mother to even to go upstairs where the console was.

[@nutellabutt8104]

@@Lilcharlie78 thank you

[@KaltrinaDemiri]

She is 29 year olds and can't even do the basic things adults do. It's sad. Her mom has for sure failed her.

[@AshChiCupcak]

As a mother, I'm 100% putting the blame on her mom. This has been going on since she was a child and her mother encouraged it. It was shocking how many ppl in the comments of that video tried to defend her not allowing her ADULT daughter look at the damn moon. I honestly feel so bad for Eugenia. She can't leave because she can't care for herself in her condition and that's exactly what her mom wanted. If her daughter passes away, she needs to be charged for enabling it to happen.

[@sjla2009]

The mother has sabotaged her entire life.

[@tobyschuring1534]

Eugenia used to be such a pretty girl. 😢

[@tobyschuring1534]

She’s got no strength!

[@tobyschuring1534]

So very sad. 😢

[@grobanite4ever85]

Someone needs to call adult protective services

[@lastchanc3stars]

For anyone who doesn't know:: Münchausen Syndrome by proxy is a mental disorder in which parents, typically mothers, harm their children in order to gain sympathy. This can include physical abuse, enabling self-harming behaviors, mental abuse, and s-xual abuse. This often ends up in a sheltered child who is almost fully codependent with their parent. There is also Peter Pan Syndrome, which Eugenia might have, in which a person remains childish or regressed all of the time due to a traumatic or enabling environment. The "grade" of regression depends on when the abuse started, typically. This is all so icky, and immoral, and gross and.. ugh, hopefully someday Eugenia might get some help before it's too late.

[@madjack8893]

There are NO DOCTORS in the world who would say this girl is okay. No wayyyyyyy. She never takes her.

[@AshleyWilliams-xq7lj]

Her old friends confirmed this. They said she hadn't seen a doctor in five years. This was a few years ago.

[@LeahandMommy]

She probably hires someone to play a doctor and come see Eugenia at the house and tell her she is absolutely fine and 100% healthy.

[@LorraineVirginie]

Eugenia is an abuse victim plain and simple. And she either genuinely doesn’t know it or she refuses to acknowledge it because the pain of allowing herself to believe the person who is supposed to love her unconditionally would do this to her would just be too much for her to handle. I feel so incredibly bad for her.

[@gosiakawecka6178]

The saddest thing is that Eugenia doesnt even understand/know that this is abuse💔

[@candlelitpeppermintcarniva8509]

There are so many people saying she's faking it all for clout, and I can't believe that. How does anyone see what's going on here and just go 'Yup! All intentional and easily fixable.' Eugenia is living a damn nightmare.

[@LorraineVirginie]

@@candlelitpeppermintcarniva8509 right. I’m sure the attention she gets fuels it but it’s not what started it. People don’t develop severe eating disorders to this degree out of nowhere.

[@cheesypastel]

@@candlelitpeppermintcarniva8509 Absolutely 100%. Anyone living like that would have to feel absolutely horrible and I think the only reason she is allowed to have a phone or access to the internet at all is because she found a way to make money so she is a personal bank for her mom. And people could argue well she has a phone so she can call the police and tell them everything and get her mom locked up etc, tell them everything, but her mom pushed away her real friends. She doesn't have anyone. And yes she makes a ton of money she could support herself, but think about how lonely she is, all she has is her mom, but her mom just happens to be abusive. I 100% agree that she either knows it but doesn't want to believe that her mom really doesn't care or love her, or that shes just "that brainwashed" but I think she knows it absolutely, but I think she feels trapped. It is awfully sad. And I think the times where she said "that stuff was scripted" etc talking about her ED.. I think that was the "real eugenia" I don't think that was fake, but... her mom DID NOT like her getting help... so.. her mom probably made her shut up about it and could have also very well possibly told her things like "you never had an ED they were just lying to you" etc. either way her life has got to be filled with lies in her head. I think her mom might have gotten worried when she made those videos acknoledging her disorder thinking "no if she gets better I might lose control I dont want her to get better mentally" so I think that her mom very well could have possibly shut that down. I know very well if we watch her then we are watching someone who is actively slowly dying, but I think if anyone watches her/interacts with her, it should be with kindness. I don't think she deserves all of the backlash not with what she is probably going through, the people who are nice to her on the internet genuinely is probably the happiest things she gets. Also this could be a hot take but what if she is TRYING to 💀 in order to escape the situation... she "has to make content" we know that, since she is her moms personal bank, but what if she feels that d*ing from being too skinny is the only way to do it, but until then shes showing interest in things she likes? Very dark way to look at it, but we don't know. A life like that would be extremely miserable. No one in their RIGHT MIND would want to live like that "ON PURPOSE" it is extremely sad

[@sallywillis1448]

It's like what Jazz Jennings is experiencing. She feels her mother is the only person in the world she can turn to for love but it's a perverse kind of love, extremely co-dependent and ultimately toxic for the "child".

[@beth-bi9yv]

This is so unbelievably sad. My parents saved me from my eating disorder, I can't imagine if they had encouraged it where if be now.

[@calling_miss_gaby1292]

This situation with Eugenia and her mom reminds me of Dee Dee and Gypsy Rose Blanchard. Incredibly manipulative and keeping her daughter hostage.

[@AmberMcMillan-nw5jb]

I can't believe this is the FIRST video I have seen highlighting the mother's abuse.... Thank you for sharing this information and great job on the video! I hate that the world is just watching this young woman die... I pray she gets real help soon and that someone helps open her eyes to her mother's abuse. I say this having a narcissist mom myself.

[@Kensington2714]

I agree. This is very thorough and she’s pointing out the obvious and showing the depth of what’s going on in that family. The fact that they have bells in the doors is disturbing and how this girl doesn’t even know the basics of everyday life. Seems like she’s a prisoner in her home. It’s so disturbing & her so called “ friends” who are using her for their own benefit is also sad. Praying for her.

[@missymani]

In her early 20's Eugenia moved to Japan, her mother begged her to come back, making her feel really guilty. Her mom definitely is controlling.

[@eva1585]

Makes me wonder how different her life would be if she stayed. Maybe she'd be "normal" and healthy or at least health-ier

[@kalebanth8323]

@@eva1585In Japan? She probably would’ve been graped and unalived by now like every other white American woman who goes there

[@doroteabelajec1060]

How do you know that she moved to Japan in her early 20es?

[@BrgArt]

@@eva1585 japan isn't really known for their prowess on ED treatment, especially anorexia which is rampant there.

[@eva1585]

@@BrgArt Fair point

[@stephp7778]

So true...well said. I see all the narcissistic traits in her mother and they see their children as an extension of themselves.

[@SweepDailyWin]

Exactly!!!! I was subjected to that. I didn't learn basic things ...which is so disturbing. I have escaped and live a peaceful life.

[@stephp7778]

@@SweepDailyWin that's a smart move...I need to do it too.

[@StandAloneSoul]

​@@stephp7778 you can do it. A piece of advise though, it can feel incredibly hard due to all the conditioning and manipulation and guilt. Cutting ties and going no contact with a (former) abuser can feel like coming off a drug addiction. As Someone who has managed to get through both, it was at times very hard to stick true to myself and what I always knew in my heart was right. It gets easier though. I'm one year off all contact with family and I feel so, so much better.

[@madelame_]

my heart absolutely breaks for eugenia. i was never a viewer of her's but I can tell she's incredibly sweet and kind and just so so damn lost and misled. I really hope she can wake up one day and realize the kind of situation that she's in and begin to want to take care of herself.

[@la6136]

I have a narcissistic mother who always tried to infantilize me and Eugenia's mother really reminds me of her. With mothers like this you have to CONSTANTLY rebel and fight for your independence but it is worth it.

[@niamphdollieofficial]

Omg my mother is just like those I never knew it was wrong.. I thought she was just extremely overprotective but it was still annoying. They make you feel like you're the bad one for wanting something you should HAVE because you're an ADULT Smdh 😊

[@AshleyWilliams-xq7lj]

My mom was like that too. She gave up during my teenage rebellion, thank God. My brother still lives with her in his 20's, and I worry about him ever escaping. He's too afraid to drive and do adult things. She infantilized him when she gave up on me.

[@nightbrite2595]

Facts! I left my narc mom and toxic fam over a month ago and I’ve never been happier. I’m doing so well away from them tbh and am starting to care less for their opinion.

[@chrissiecarr5721]

@@nightbrite2595Wish you all the Best that life has to offer😘🕊️🌟

[@idontknowwhoiamanymore5810]

I've live all my life with my grandmother, and she es EXACTLY like that, she even tried to make me have body image issues saying shit like "you will get fat like a ball" "did you gain weight?" "did you really lose that much? It doesn't seem like it" she was the same with my mother but bc of financial issues my mother and i had to stay with her because she's wealthy and stuff like that (plus, i'm a minor so i can't really go anywhere yet but in 3 years when I turn 18 i will definitely go tf away from her)

[@aleverett4]

She's too small to sit up front. The airbag would kill her

[@juneclemintine4991]

My thoughts exactly, she doesn’t meet the weight requirement.

[@Observette]

No she sits in the back coz she’s a spoiled brat used to being chauffeured. She’s always had a driver. Some things just aren’t that deep.

[@slconley]

I thought the same thing.

[@rachelg7041]

Honestly any cash would kill her the impact of the seat belt would probably stop her heart

[@halo2d]

This lie is insufferable *she meets the height requirement it’s more abuse to keep EC under mommies control*

[@raventater3601]

I think there is something very twisted about Eugenia staying “a child” for her mother and a lot of her viewers. It makes me itch

[@PatriciaMakesThings]

Thank you for sharing this video. I think you've hit the nail on the head. I just recently started watching some of Eugenia's videos and I immediately noticed the fact that she never has friends around (except for maybe Jeffree Star who is equally toxic imo) and if she's out in public her mother is always with her. As someone who grew up with a narcissistic mother, I see so many warning signs. Growing up, my own mom would get angry if I started doing chores (sweeping the floor, washing the dishes, etc.) either because I "wasn't doing it right" or she perceived it as a slight against her own housecleaning abilities. So, my room was the only clean one in the house and I had to sneak clean other areas or it would never get done. It was a strange dynamic because she kept me under lock and key and I barely had any friends, but at the same time she didn't really acknowledge my existence as anything outside of herself. I took care of her for a very long time because she had had multiple back surgeries, but it finally reached a breaking point when I was in my early twenties where I HAD to get away from her. I ended up moving over 500 miles away, got into therapy, met my husband and built my own life. And then my mom started coming to stay at our house and she would come up with excuses for staying a month or more at a time until I finally had to put my foot down and tell her she could come 1-2 weeks tops. Of course, she took my request for boundaries as a personal insult and made it a big deal, but I could finally see the situation for what it was. Abusive. The reason I'm sharing all of this is because I think Eugenia is in a similar (worse) situation and I worry she might be beyond the ability to get herself out of it and get help, both physically and mentally. I check in on her a lot just to see if she's still alive because she has gotten so incredibly frail. I don't want to see her story become just another Netflix special about the horrors of parental abuse. Sorry for writing so much. I just appreciate your video and felt the need to share. ❤️

[@StandAloneSoul]

Thank you for sharing your story.

[@amberjulia123]

Eugenia has figured out that her mom feels more secure and less combative when Eugenia pretends to be a naive and ignorant 4 year old who constantly praises how much her mom knows and how much smarter her mom is. It’s the subconscious source of the ED as well - to make herself small and forever childlike because her mom never wants her to grow up. The mom wouldn’t be able to handle losing that sense of full control over her. It’s why Eugenia seems stressed (and probably feels like she’s betraying her mom…and I’m sure the mom feels betrayed) when Eugenia successfully learns something new because it signifies she is capable. That’s why you ALWAYS see Eugenia giving up in these videos where she’s doing something new - and handing the task off to her mom or calling herself a failure. It’s a protective mechanism because she realizes she is walking into dangerous territory by attempting to learn ANYTHING new. Eugenia CANNOT show that she is a capable adult because it would make her mother feel angry, jealous, and heartbroken…. and she would take this out on Eugenia by belittling her and asserting even more suffocating control over her than she already has (likely taking away even the smallest of freedoms that Eugenia is allowed). I think that the mom is fully aware that Eugenia’s ED is significantly shortening her lifespan…but I think that’s an ideal scenario to the mom. She probably imagines that they will both die around the same time, and that’s perfect because Eugenia could never survive without her (not true, but I think this is what the mom thinks). I think she also feels as if the pros to Eugenia having an ED (and being fully dependent on her in every way) significantly outweigh the cons (Eugenia gaining confidence and health and moving out and starting an independent life). If Eugenia ever shows signs of improvement or independence or confidence…I’m sure the mom calls her selfish and mean and cruel, and basically let’s Eugenia know that if she EVER becomes a normal 29 year old, the mom will consider her an enemy and completely cut her out of her life. It’s amazing what a daughter or son will do for their parent’s love and approval.

[@24Wynn]

Children are often loyal to a fault when it comes to their parents. I think it's called enmeshment where both daughter and mother are so tied up in each others emotions that they become one person. I've also heard that ed is a way to get out of a hard situation. Some people would rather "die" than get out of a toxic family dynamic. It's like trying to "disappear".

[@kikiTHEalien]

What's your explanation for the skimpy clothes and showing her almost naked body on the Internet for everyone to see, then? If the problem were only her mother infantilizing her, what explains the sexually provocative aspect and why the need to broadcast their lives online? Her mother could very well be doing the same in the privacy of their home and noone would know what is going on or advocate for the daughter to get outside help.

[@nottrabusiness9703]

Money and the desire to please.

[@darkenvy1901]

​@kikiTHEalien That's part of the ED. Eugenia may be controlled by her mother, but her ED tells her she needs to show off because look at all the work she's put in to look like this. I feel like her mother may be encouraging her to indulge the sexual fantasies of certain people. It's a way of making Eugenia feel ashamed, and another form of control.

[@Sneverus]

This is what I've been saying.

[@britt_2617]

Her mom is enabling her to literally die. I work in mental health, specifically ED... this is INCREDIBLY SAD. She NEEDS help

[@daver00lzd00d]

i hope she gets charged for this like that family who let their daughter remain on a couch for so long her fcking skin fused to it. Deb and her husband need jail time once this sick ordeal finally ends, and fck Deb for being "filming director supermodel photographer" for her seriously ill daughter to prance around on tiktok. woman is a vile beast i despise her

[@lindyloohoo]

Why do you think her ma thinks this is okay? Most parents want the opposite right?

[@daver00lzd00d]

@@lindyloohoo why don't you go watch some videos of her mother literally saying that then come back and reevaluate your question

[@kristinebrown414]

​@@daver00lzd00dWhoa, why the rude comment? She was asking a pretty desirable question to an actual professional (or at least says they are). No need to be nasty.

[@lindyloohoo]

@@kristinebrown414 lol thanks. It was a legit question. I am genuinely curious. There are so many things that could come in to play, im curious on britts thoughts (hopefully she can respond 😊)

[@melissarocaa]

After watching a documentary about Gypsy Rose, I see similarities

[@Helloknitee]

This gives me Gypsy Rose vibes. She's never grew up. I think she is on the end of her journey. Its so sad😢

[@MonteroRioDoge]

Basically her husband left her, and she is preventing Eugenia from leaving her. That’s why she sheltered her to the point she developed an ED.

[@00loudog]

Oh really her husband left her that makes sense

[@chaneykane3828]

What parents need to realize is that if you treat your child right, they won’t abandon you as an adult. My mom moved out at 24. She’s 56 now and still talks to my grandma daily on the phone. Independence does not mean they will disown you.

[@spaceaids1498]

If her parents did, in fact, divorce (first I’ve heard of it), Eugenia still had her ED when her parents were together. Her father is even briefly heard on camera in some her ancient videos.

[@danielsdimension7828]

Eugenia's mother is a horrible person.

[@HOSPEHLOSHEPH]

Exactly ! She needs charges ASAP

[@dmhq-administration]

As well as her annoying with her singing! 🤔🙄😒🤨😠

[@tiitek09]

They both are.

[@rlabarbera]

She's craven.

[@eventhorizon2264]

As someone who has a narcissistic mother all the signs are there

[@amyahlquist3436]

Her eating disorder she is financially profiting and benefiting it. Take that away then she has incentive to get better.

[@MsKeebe]

I was wondering if her teeth are growing or gums receding. Those aren’t her teeth. Anorexia causes tremendous damage to the teeth. For as long as she’s had it her teeth would be in horrific shape.

[@kat8410]

My mom did something very similar with me. I wasn’t allowed to have a boyfriend, never had much food stocked in the house, was told to watch what I eat, encouraged to weigh myself, could only leave the house if I told her exactly where I was at all times, and a lot more. The only reason I was able to escape was because I picked up my stuff and randomly left one day. I’m still having trouble fully cutting ties

[@sourgreendolly7685]

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard that must be...

[@tobyschuring1534]

God bless!

[@chaneykane3828]

My parents would track me on snap maps. I’d log out so it stayed on the same location and then log back in when I got back to where ever I was supposed to be 😂

[@Chris_qucks]

that sounds so stressful im glad you got out of there

[@laniakeas92]

Yep. Same. In addition my mother started to beat me almost everyday for being "fаt". I wasn't obese, I was only turning into a fully grown woman. She sensed the competition and tried to shame me into staying in childlike form with not eating. You should cut all contacts. It will be better for you.

[@hayleyscomet3447]

Her relationship with her Mother is EXTREMELY concerning.

[@yukisakura9582]

Frrr

[@user-sp7bn8vp7k]

i think her mother is starving her because her thinness attracts so much negative attention online makes her feel rejected from the outside world. the same way a certain religion forces young teens to agressively harass people in their homes and refusing to take no for an answer. this creates negative responses from people who just dont want to be preached at and drives the kids deeper into the church because they think outsiders are mean.

[@sonisal2442]

This is so tragic. Eugenia seems like such a sweet and awesome person to be around. I definitely see how the mother is facilitating her illness. There’s been so much talk about her and so many people follow her and it’s jarring to see how she is virtually being abused ( I think?) and is dying and yet there is nothing anyone is really doing about it to save her. Of course, I don’t know much about her situation and I do hope some people are trying to help. I just think it would be such a tragedy for someone so sweet to die without even getting to properly experience what this world has to offer. This may be media for us but this is a reality for her. I can’t imagine having to go through what it looks like she is going through. I really hope by some miracle she survives and recovers and gets to gain the independence she deserves.

[@whims6278]

My literal 6yo asks to stay up to watch meteor showers or see full moons or eclipses and I ALWAYS take her out. This is so sad. She is being held a prisoner in her own home, and left to die while her parents milk her for money. I realize the harm eugenia does, but I cannot help feeling sad for her

[@sjla2009]

It's like one of those horrific captive child abuse cases, where the kid is permanently confined and ends up looking and acting like someone only a fraction of their age. Only we are all watching it online and are powerless to do anything about it. 😮

[@OzmaOfOzz]

I feel like I see Eugenia separate from her ED. Her ED has taken over and I feel like that's why she puts herself online the way she does.. I don't think she actually wants to harm anyone. Eugenia as a person looks to me like a very sweet, gentle and curious person. I feel so sad for her 😢

[@keenanicole23]

They don’t take any of her money so it’s more than that. Her parents are wealthy wealthy and always have been since before she was born. Eugenia doesn’t make anything compared to what her parents do. She gets to keep her money and buy whatever she wants with it. But no, this isn’t about money.

[@Mellowyellow54]

@@sjla2009 we might be powerless to help her, but we can stop in enabling her by not watching her videos and giving her attention for this dangerous behavior 😢

[@sjla2009]

@@Mellowyellow54 I agree that that's what's needed. But it's impossible. It's human nature to keep checking in to see if she's still alive.. Viewers are not bad people just because we are concerned. No the only people who can stop this is youtube and other platform owners. I mean, who are the people at the top, how can we contact them, how can we make them accountable. It's not right 😕

[@amirahkukan782]

She can’t even open her front door to her own house which I have no doubt she paid for. She’s an adult ffs. What’s her mom scared of, that she’s going to go and get something to eat???

[@Ausgar-yc1yl]

Her pareparents bought the house years before she was on KZbin, she did not buy the house.

[@quietismyjam]

@@Ausgar-yc1yl I bet she helps with her streams put food on the table in the house for her mother, though, which is the most disturbing part too

[@AnnaGrace603]

She might be scared she will move out spread her wings and live an independent life. She does not want to be alone and puts her adult needs on her own child.

[@JessieT]

There has GOT to be something we can do. There no way an ER will legally be allowed to not treat her -

[@spaceaids1498]

They would have to treat her, yes. But she would also have to accept treatment. It’s not against the law to refuse medical treatment even if it would hurt or kill you. I think people are forgetting that the law has limits for good reason. People have a right to decide what they do with their own body and the government should not be allowed to tell people what medical treatments they can or can’t get. As long as Eugenia is cognizant enough to refuse treatment, she’s an adult and has that right. There’s nothing the law can do. California is ever so slightly different which is why her friends were able to have her 5150’d but most states are not like that and even in California, it took a coordinated effort from her friends and medical personnel.

[@JessieT]

@@spaceaids1498 yea i know what youre saying. It just sucks because her mom has her brainwashed into thinking if she goes to the doctor her mom could die 🤷‍♀️ at this point its not fully her fault even if she is an adult, she is being manipulated and controlled :(

[@hayloftii]

isn’t the bell on the door thing literally what gypsy rose’s mom did to her???

[@megboyd2609]

In the US there are laws about people of a certain weight in certain seats. It's entirely possible that it was deemed unsafe for her to be riding in either front seats without a car seat or other devices. Eugenia's mother is like Onision that way...very cognizant of the letter of the law. Just morally bankrupt.

[@PiscesPower1994]

A girl I know is darn near 30 and barely meets the requirement height wise.🤣

[@Michaelaynelson]

Yes! She definitely wouldn’t not be safe in the front seat. In my state it’s 80lbs so it’s very likely that that’s why she’s in the back. I’m under the impression the reason is because of the front airbags, as the explosion going off could be deadly if you’re under weight.

[@ShanaLawson]

I wonder if she even triggers the sensor that yells if someone isn’t wearing a seatbelt. Im not even trying to be funny. Im seriously wondering 😳

[@halo2d]

She meets the height requirement. Why are so many people justifying her moms abuse?

[@AnaSofia-ph8mb]

​@@halo2d If you read clearly, OP said WEIGHT, not height.

[@bingsby9085]

People find it weird im older and dont gave a license or much experience. My mother was like this and it took me getting into a relationship (which she constantly tried to sabotage) for me to see this as serious as it was. My mom would come up with so many excuses when shed take me driving. Any money i made to gain independence was given to her. She 'gave up' on homeschooling me because it 'gave her anxiety' and I was 'difficult'. My husband helped me escape. But since he came from equally bad circumstances weve been struggling to get by but were getting there!

[@wintersprite]

Some adults don’t have licenses for varying reasons and some have less experience than others. I’m in my 30s and while I have a license and drive a little, I have driving anxiety. I’ve never driven on a highway and am not the best at merging into a different lane, etc. I also don’t have good depth perception which doesn’t help. That said, I do keep my license up to date and drive when need-be.

[@tobyschuring1534]

God bless you both!

[@mattisencox8176]

I'm so grateful you got out!! ❤️❤️❤️ I went through something similar but I fought like hell to get my driver's license and drove to another state the next day to be with my now fiancé. I was just 19 years old. I was sheltered, homeschooled, not allowed to have friends or leave the house. My escape was through the internet. I left because I was in love and that saved me and opened my eyes to the unhealthy dynamics within my upbringing. I wish you and your partner true prosperity, joy, and freedom. Good luck out there. ❤️❤️❤️

[@volfreude2637]

i you haven't yet i would recommend getting to terapy with your husband, people not only go when they have a mental disorder, but a couples counseler could help you guys to better your comunication and understan each other betterz if that isn't an option maybe look for ways to talk abour your tougths and feelings like a team, after all lf this difficulties you two are a team.

[@nnatu6668]

😢

[@witchingbrew3]

i dont think she ever got her license I think her mom just dropped her from driving school

[@tamarajade2987]

The mother and this whole thing is like Gypsy Rose thing

[@janewriter186]

Her mom doesn’t want her to get better because she doesn’t want Eugenia to grow up. If she’s sick, then she’s dependent on her mom. It’s that simple. It’s a sick way of showing love for a child and dangerous. Eugenia is childlike…has the maturity level of a child. Her mother is literally loving her daughter…TO DEATH.

[@sjla2009]

Yeah but this isn't love. It's twisted.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

⁠@@sjla2009Exactly. I hate it being described as love. That's exactly how her mother wants it to be seen and it's just not. Is selfish control because she cares more about her fear of Eugenia not needing her and her being useless than the fact that her daughter is dying. How she thinks a dead daughter will need her, I can't wrap my head around.

[@janewriter186]

When I said “love,” I meant it as being her mother’s delusional version of it. It’s a kind of black hole selfishness. Her mother is very ill.

[@lauryntonio]

@@sourgreendolly7685it's ownership not love :(

[@lizzyespo]

Exactly.

[@ellery.celery]

At this point, I will be shocked and FLOORED if another outcome comes to fruition that DOESN’T have to do with Eugenia passing away on a live stream! So unfortunate and sad when your own Mother is the person who hurting you and NOT helping you.

[@PopCorNationG]

I appreciate you bringing this to light with such urgency and care! I lost my friend to mental health and it’s so unfair for her😢 I hope Eugina gets the help she needs asap and hopefully there will be actions taken against her mother ASAP!

[@PancakesandPrayer]

Her mom gets a kick out of her daughter her daughter depending on her .

[@MR.RANDOMFilms]

How do we not have enough evidence on video to show to the authorities and have her mom arrested for, essentially, torture? I’m genuinely confused as to why this seems to be an unavailable option…

[@daver00lzd00d]

I'll give you a hint and it starts with 💵something green 💵

[@maloryj7165]

Because legally speaking, eugenia is an adult- nearly 30- who is of sound enough mind to choose to live there.

[@daver00lzd00d]

@@maloryj7165 the girl we all see on video is not at all sound minded

[@nignamedmutt7270]

​@@maloryj7165"sound of mind" No. She's not. She's never been "sound of mind" because her mother's parenting tactics have made her completely underdeveloped. She has more in common with hostage victims than any functioning adult at this point.

[@lindyloohoo]

@@daver00lzd00dapparently her parents are wealthy so…

[@madmadjenny]

I wonder how big the life insurance policy is that Deb has on Eugenia.

[@aleesharenea1334]

Must Be Huge!!

[@hopek7033]

Oh no 😢

[@WakeyUpU]

Millions

[@wtchfrmpnw]

She probably doesn't have an active life insurance policy. She was an inpatient for her eating disorder. That's documented on her medical record and a known condition. Those kind of things have a tendency to cancel any active policy.

[@BruceLee-fd7uw]

No insurance company would insure her

[@HansBjorgman]

Wow... the situation is WAY WORSE than I thought!

[@lilbeemccaig9801]

This is giving me gypsy Blanchard vibes 😢

[@sylviacrafts6704]

she knows if Eugenia learns how to take care of herself she will want to go out in the world. she panics and behaves like a child. the mom is crazy and has dragged Eugenia down with her and this is probably why Eugenia is the way she is, it really isn't her fault.

[@MeowMatee]

*Human trafficking* in plain site . She started in the modeling industry and now momager exploits her online 🤢

[@Helga-fe5xl]

The trying on clothes video 😮

[@jenniturtleburger3708]

She lives an incredibly sheltered life. Her mom keeps her like a pet.

[@allysongraves3823]

Wow!! Great investigating! Such a sad situation for Eugenia. Her mom is so messed up. Thank you for showing her friends testimony.

[@SOS1818]

Her mom reminds me a lot of mine…. Histrionic personality disorder, controlling, yet “loving” , lives through her children, puts her emotional insecurities on their child, refusal to live in the real world (stuck in their delusions) If Eugenia was to get better her mother would magically be “diagnosed with something terrible” my mother did the same throughout my life… I was like Eugenia too, I got down to 90 lbs and wanted to go out with starvation being the cause. She needs to be away from her mom, for a long time

[@alouise3557]

E may actually be Histrionic.

[@HunniebeeGames]

Finally a video with actual substance about the situation.

[@yukisakura9582]

Exactlyyyy!

[@Karma-N-Sht-Mateyy]

Gods this is horrifying.. also dont you have limited brain capacity when your in such an extreme starvation stage? Your brain wouldnt be able to function properly even IF she was taught properly how to do anything.. i feel so bad for her

[@iamsimplybee]

I would not be surprised if (on the chance she manages to get away) we see in a few years time that it was a Turpin-esque situation

[@gsmith6026]

I was thinking the very same thing.

[@Ruth78620]

She's not going to last a few uears a few mo ths maybe but her mother is 100% responsible.

[@ellieandthetorts]

Its starting to look like EITHER she loves the attention via her daughter, but wants to control her. OR her mother fully has munchausen by proxy, or a combination of both (& I dont throw that around lightly). Everthing is so tightly controlled she wants to keep her a child. I was a childhood cancer patient, and yes its not the same but having multiple relapses always sorta increases the protective mode in my parents. Even when I was 30 years old. BUT THIS IS NOT THAT they always tried to do their best to be protective yet encouraging. Ive had a life where I have lived in 4 different counties, and had a life outside the cancer (which is always there as its incurable). I did not expect to make it to 40. It was a miracle HELPED by my parents. Eugenia has not had this. She has been coddled & controlled to a level that is not normal.

[@Magicalgrrrl6]

I agree my mom is the same way I can see the similarities in behavior it’s sick I hope she gets away from her and realizes before it’s too late

[@ellieandthetorts]

@Chimera222 oh wow. Hope you're OK. That's awful. Hope you got away xx😘

[@Magicalgrrrl6]

@@ellieandthetorts it is awful but thank you I actually am in the process of getting away from her for good right now I’m going to court soon! 🫶🏻

[@ellieandthetorts]

@Chimera222 good luck lovely. Sending positive thoughts your way!🫶😘

[@keykennedy59]

She’s feeding into her audiences kinks. It’s disturbing.

[@Adara007]

Absolutely. It's very clear to most that her mother has definitely taken over and dominated Eugenia's life so much so Eugenia is quite infantile. However, an important aspect which many miss is that Eugenia also deliberately acts like a young girl and exaggerates acting helpless and like she doesn't know how to do anything because she herself panders to fetishists, mostly men who pay her to watch Eugenia behave and dress like a young girl for their own perverted desires. There is therefore a sinister role Eugenia is actively playing by frequently flashing during her streams, using a high-pitched baby voice, having her hair in child-like pigtails with ribbons, her bedroom is full of toys a young girl would have, and she uses baby-talk frequently. It is important to take note of this because Eugenia knows exactly what she is doing by behaving as she does and especially flashing on streams - she is pandering to the fetishists and knows they pay to watch her.

[@nancyjones6780]

That mother should be arrested. I'm serious.

[@cindyraneri]

Poor girl, if she even falls down, her bones will break, she needs immediate help and needs someone to come forward and help her

[@SunnyMiMarie]

Her mom reminds me a lot of one of my friends mom growing up, her mannerisms and the way she speaks….. and her issue, she was a closet alcoholic and liked benzos . Little crazy making cocktails were a daily norm for her. Idk, just speculating, because to me Deb seems completely detached from reality most of the time

[@maloryj7165]

Deb has always given me big benzo vibes. I doubt alcoholism because it's much more obvious. She'd be totally fine with over using a Dr prescribed med tho.

[@yespls4184]

​@@maloryj7165agree! The way she speaks sounds like she's on Benzos

[@neenee4817]

I agree- alcoholic

[@sourgreendolly7685]

⁠@@maloryj7165Friendly reminder that alcoholism is definitely not always more obvious.

[@lisajoyce6803]

Honey Debbie is full fledged certifiable.Squirrel bait a nutter whatever you want to call her and it's catchy the autistic son and Eugenias not docked in sanity space station they are floating around in the black hole of crazy

[@Angel-qf6if]

Let me tell you… my daughter is struggling with an ED.. the minute I found out I was on the phone trying to find her help, within a week and after countless tests etc she was in a residential facility getting the help she needs, that I can’t provide. Thankfully she is thriving and she is on her way to recovery and hasn’t had an episode in 6 weeks! I am so proud of her. I couldn’t imagine going to sleep every night knowing your child is dying and you can prevent it but won’t. She is a sick bitch. 🤬

[@mikuhatsune184]

This is what a real mother should do for her sick child. I am glad you got her help as soon as you could. Best wishes on her recovery 👍🏻

[@Angel-qf6if]

@@mikuhatsune184 🥰

[@meggoeleggo2048]

I hope you take care of you as well... my mom was really messed up by the end of my recovery. Moms are strong, but no ones that strong.. trust me, you need support through this too, I wish someone had told my mom way back when.. take care of your self

[@Angel-qf6if]

@meggoeleggo2048 Thank you for this. Honestly, I'm struggling. I do have therapy etc. But when you're child is struggling like this, it hits your soul. Im happy to hear you're in recovery, and I hope your mom has found some support🥰

[@meggoeleggo2048]

@@Angel-qf6if eventually she did :p, she just needed more during it and that didn’t happen unfortunately. But she did do everything she could and basically saved my life. Got me into an eating disorders day program through the hospital, best thing that’s ever happened to me really, cause it’s been like two decades now.. :) shes fine now, but She was messed up a few years after the fact ofcourse, she lived every day thinking I was getting closer to deaths dore by the hour. It’s a horrible thing to go through as a mother who deeply cares for their kid. You sound like an incredible mother, remember your not made of stone c; but you definitely got this. Trust me, I can tell ;)

[@Skyla_The_Therian_Wolf]

It’s giving Rapunzel, but instead of meting Flynn she Mets death

[@debbiekirk8765]

Just scrolling through KZbin and came across 'Eugenia's story ' for the first time then stumbled onto your video. I don't know who you are but I found your video to be the best. I had trouble understanding the situation of Eugenia and i think i love your message. Hope others that can make a difference to this poor girl listen to you and save her! Good onya luv!!!

[@timetravelkitty425]

Ugh that compilation of “omg how did you do that?!” “Wait, how do people do this?” It really made me sad for her. She had so much potential but now her deranged mother is keeping her in a cage like a sick little bird. It’s deeply disturbing

[@kikiTHEalien]

She is pretending. Her content is very fetish-oriented- from the skimpy clothes obviously way too big for her skeletal frame, stuggling to do things which require moderate physical strength to acting as if she has the mental capacity of a toddler- it's all theatre to satisfy someone's sick fantasy. What is absolutely puzzling is why do it, if not for money. Someone commented that her parents are independently wealthy, which makes the case even more bizarre.

[@faceshredder2576]

I was a sneaky teen back in the early 2000 before it was the norm for everyone having cameras. My mum never EVER had bells on the doors even when she caught me multiple times sneaking out. I even got clever and climbed out my window and hopped on the porch. But she never set up bells. This is alarming as hell

[@BloodSweatandFears]

Mine did, I shot hand soap in them to gunk them up before bed, snuck out and would clean them when I got back! 😅😂 finally got caught eventually though!

[@KA-op3of]

Thank you for making this video because no real loving mother or person for that matter could condone much less be a smiling part of what Eugenia has been dealing with over the years.

[@user-pl7qj7rd1g]

The more I see of this situation, the sadder I become for her..I didnt have clue of who she was prior to a month or so ago & was totally disgusted by her in the beginning, now I just feel sorry for her & worried for her situation..The whole thing especially on the mothers part is just grosse, inappropriate & concerning/frightening, especially for the fact we can watch this unfold almost in real time on the internet..It's beginning to remind me of the Ruby Franke case

[@hershyfishman2929]

Just spoke to Greenwich CT (where she lives) police department, told them that her mom controls her and doesn't let her get help. They said they have officers that are very familiar with her and speak with her regularly.

[@kalebanth8323]

Oh yea? The random 911 operator you called told you that? Or the random clerk who works at the front desk told you that? Sounds believable 😂

[@hershyfishman2929]

@@kalebanth8323 not sure what you find disbelievable about it, but it's the truth

[@LIVNNACPT]

I agree that this girl needs to be removed from her mothers residence indefinitely and the mother in a psych ward.

[@annekuehn1935]

What do Adult Protective Services have to say?

[@gentletal5101]

Shes lives in CT? i have heard of Eugunia in the past, and hear of her health. didnt know it was this bad. didnt know she was in CT either

[@laken1804]

She is a prisoner in a golden cage. Her mother is her warden.

[@user-iu3zi3jb6t]

Adult protective services hasn't intervened I take it...they should..and she should be hospitalized.

[@DaZugZug]

If she sat in the front seat can you imagine if the air bag hit her. Ded

[@whatthebuckfan89]

Someone said, maybe she doesn’t weigh enough to safely sit in the front seat, which is a heartbreaking notion, but seems entirely plausible given her current frame. I pray she is able to receive help, this situation is so awful, I wish there was some way the internet community could help her.

[@karyannfontaine8757]

What is the weight requirement to ride in the front seat? I thought that applied only to children.

[@whatthebuckfan89]

@@karyannfontaine8757 in her case I think if the airbag were to deploy it would do a lot of damage to her, that might be their thinking but idk. Technically I think the law only relates to children in the back seat.

[@karyannfontaine8757]

@@whatthebuckfan89 Thank you.

[@psycherevivedby]

I don’t think her mum would even consider that because she’s so in denial about Eugenias weight.

[@juneclemintine4991]

If Eugenia dies they better press BIG charges on the mom. This has abuse and exploitation all over it. We’ve all been screaming for years hopefully she’s in the hospital now I saw that she HAD to go talk to someone and haven’t heard any updates.

[@MadScientist-R.N.]

She's an adult

[@SouthernAngel843]

I believe the whole mobile crises team is just a rouse to get attention for Jeffrey Star new make-up pallet. He sent her the PR PACKAGE 0:03 earlier that same week and then 'disappeared from sm for a day then returned after a 'ban' on TicTok. And without skipping a beat, Jeffrey announced Eugenia will be going to his ranch in Wyoming to finally meet in person.

[@JetstreamTheSexSam]

​@@MadScientist-R.N.adults can be abused and exploited

[@nghgngngngngj]

God I’ve been following her case for what like 5 years now and I just so desperately want a happy ending for this girl and it breaks my heart that she probably won’t ever get one. She seems like such a lovely person this is genuinely sickening.

[@kitchenfloor]

Idk I kind of think her mother is jealous of her. I think she is not letting Eugenia gain weight because she looks better than her, and also so she can’t leave. With how thin Eugenia is she looks not as good/sickly and cannot go anywhere even if she really wanted to.

[@magita1991]

I have a a theory about the driving instructor thing. It was the mom who got her fired. And made an anonymous profile to do it.

[@yagerr4279]

💯

[@ravenID429]

Her doing anything physical irrationally unsettles me, like her arms are gonna break

[@Pattiecakes1982]

I'm the daughter of a mother like Eugenia. I had a 9pm curfew as a single mother of two and had to hold her hand in parking lots to give you a few small examples. I got out at 29 and i cut all contact with her. I'm a happy, healthy and slightly naive 42 year old now. It's never too late to get out.

[@StandAloneSoul]

I agree. So glad you escaped.

[@Kimmy9132]

here in 2024 this reminds me of the whole gypsy rose thing

[@mrrandom3064]

As someone who was super sheltered growing up and feeling like there was so much about literally everything I didn’t know….that compilation of her being confused by simple things….that’s just depressing…. And it makes me sick because her mom sucks at her job. WHICH IS BEING A MOTHER🖕 And I take it back. She’s only a mother on paper. But she isn’t actually a mother. I hate shitty parents with a goddamn burning passion hotter than the depths of hell….and that’s putting it lightly.

[@aprilmacdonell2682]

I don’t disagree. What about her Dad, he has responsibility as a parent?

[@lindyloohoo]

@@aprilmacdonell2682they never mention her dad or brother. Why is that

[@a.m4863]

I mean it makes sooo much sense why she has an E.D to cope with the lack of control she has as an adult in her own life. Her mom literally keeps her there for her bread and butter and doesn't help her in the slightest. You can tell her mom has made her completely dependent on her mom. So sad. There's so many layers to this

[@michellemcgowan5657]

Their family are rich it’s not for the money

[@MeghannRoselee]

I think she probably has a combination of learning disorders that stunt confidence and anorexia and biproxy of her moms munchausens. I was sheltered slightly and have learning disorders that make me ask questions like that too but I atleast know basic tasks like cooking and digging a whole to plant Shea being neglected and forced into being codependent

[@SilentEchoes91]

Shes not only starving herself and possibly her mother starving her, but she has extreme poor motor skills and she gets zero exercise. And she says she doesnt wsnt to recover but my question is, does her mother want her to recover? Or is she loving the money that's coming from it? What's her deal? Eugenia is sweet but low key also a troll. I wish she would get better. She has potential to be beautiful.

[@laurad324]

She is doing dance dance all the time on her stream . She should not be exercising . She should be on complete bed rest with tube feed

[@SilentEchoes91]

@laurad324 I mean she doesn't move around a lot. I'm not saying she should full on exercise especially without proper nutrients. Dancing around is probably the most exercise she gets. I bet she feels really really weak and just won't say it.

[@Mooksz]

It’s crazy because if she ever wanted to leave and her mother tries to physically make her stay, she would never be able to defend herself because she’s so weak she wouldn’t be able to even pull her arm away if she was grabbed

[@SilentEchoes91]

@@Mooksz right!

[@detectivefroggy5965]

Her mother constantly says she is not sick...siiiiick

[@SueRosalie]

The grandma has already died so there is no need for the bells to still be there

[@d_emo_nica9299]

Thank You for this material, it gave me more information about Eugenia’s situation than everything I’ve seen to this day (and I’m pretty interested in the topic, because I feel so sorry for her and constantly checking if she is still alive 😿) ❤️