Ever been told you're a bit TOO MUCH of something? ft. Qis Maraj | Hush Podcast

[@lijiahongjordan]

I am not sure if this can be considered another typical stereotype between men and women, but with the females that I interact with in my life, they cannot seem to be specific to save their life. For example, whenever I communicate with my Mum and ask her things like "Where's this item?" in the house, all she would reply me is point in a general direction and say "Over there" or "There" without being more clear and saying something like "It's in the second drawer below the microwave." It frustrates me sometimes because I would need to ask a second time or even multiple times to get my answer. If she had been more specific at the beginning, it would minimize a lot of miscommunication. Another female I currently face this issue with is my wife, who is very vague with how she communicates with me at times. It can be annoying especially when I am meeting her and waiting for her at for example, the MRT station. I would ask her "Where are you?" and all she replies me is "On the way" without being more clear/specific and say things like "I'm 3 stops away" or "I'll reach around 7pm." I would then need to prompt her by asking more specific questions like "Which stop are you at?" or "What time will you reach?" Again, if she had been more specific at the beginning, it would minimize a lot of effort and time asking so many follow up questions. However, I don't seem to face this issue with my guy friends. Maybe it's because it's the nature of our gender, or it could be the fact that we have gone through 2 years of NS and learnt how to properly communicate there with signals, call signs and what not during BMT. Therefore, I am not sure if it's just me, but based on the females that I interact with in my life, it gives me the impression that, generally speaking, women are not as specific as compared to men possibly due to their femininity.

[@xuele94]

@lijiahongjordan I have the opposite experience where my dad is the one that don't ans to a question directly. So I am pretty sure it is not gender specific topic. I uds ur frustration, but I would guess n think your wife was rushing while she saw ur text n therefore went with a otw response. Or maybe she just left or smth, afraid u get mad seeing that when u reached so delaying direct response..sometimes I feel it involves guilt or the person just don't know how to respond or unsure as well. Or maybe it was asked when the person is watching TV or on other activity and unable to multi-task.

[@bayernjames9546]

It's non-gender specific

[@xuele94]

The couch seems like it is not ergonomic friendly? Though it looks nice n comfy. Just do you yes. But only things that u think suits u n u like it.

[@yjc149]

azura is best.

[@QisMaraj]

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