Everything is falling apart | Wine About It

[@afridamehzabin1140]

I like how their curtains look connected

[@darkphoenix2]

Maya saying "we almost spent the whole podcast talking about something other than our mental health" was a crazy moment

[@desmondhume]

maya needs to make twitch vocab flashcards for her new therapist

[@xero.93.]

QT isn't holding her mic and has a stand now nice!!

[@udaracs5580]

Shes in her stream room

[@KatieMettam]

Mom wake up, Wine About It dropped another episode!

[@udaracs5580]

Qt and maya are mother

[@Limitedarkness]

I WOKE UP

[@Dezarc]

it was like 1 in the afternoon is ur mom ok

[@sofiasilice8977]

Weird flex but oke 💀 (your mum wakes up)

[@HollyWatson99]

@@Dezarc there’s more than one Timezone

[@GuineaPigEveryday]

11:58 Its really wholesome that QT doing some insane shit to try and open the bottle brightened Maya’s day at least a bit. Love the dynamic and I’m absolutely here to just watch QT and Maya go back and forth for 12 minutes just trying to open a wine bottle and not cry.

[@comixsfan767]

QT discovering how to open the wine bottle is like a child learning how to walk

[@icetrey5079]

Why do The round head bird 🐦 👧 girl look like a Bob burgur person 😂

[@flarebear5346]

It was incredible how slow she was.

[@pilzz03]

@@icetrey5079 I don’t even know what you just said but I‘m also agreeing with you

[@Syndicalism]

@@icetrey5079 Lmfao Maya don't look like a Bog Burgur character

[@itz_onika8642]

I'M SO HAPPY THAT QT JOURNALED HER FEELINGS LETSGOO❤️‍🩹💌💕

[@bagelandloxx]

my dad was a psychologist and he had clients that he had been seeing for 10+ years. he died in 2021 and obviously I was devastated but I can’t imagine how weird/traumatizing it was for his clients to suddenly lose their therapist. some of them came to the memorial and it was so strange but also good. idk what the point of this comment is

[@kinggaxy]

i wanna personally thank the producer for the diagram of the wine opener i was seriously struggling to watch that. glad someone explained it it aint so simple

[@MavisterEric]

The story about Skinwalkers is pretty creepy but I can relate when it comes to creepy stuff since my hometown has a local legend about the ghost of a deformed three-legged woman that will run alongside any car that drives along an old back road on the far side of town and she will bash against the driver's side door until you reach a stop sign at the end of the road then she vanishes into thin air.

[@elora512]

That is terrifying

[@MavisterEric]

@@elora512 Yeah, everybody in my hometown grew up knowing about her and no one wants to drive on that old road after sundown even to this day.

[@Alex-qj3wp]

danggg she packin. does the third leg swing back and forth when she run lmaoo

[@MavisterEric]

@@Alex-qj3wp I never asked the majority of the witnesses since it happens at night and they are trying to outrun her at 55 MPH but I wouldn't be surprised if it does lmaooo!

[@EloZival]

Y’all have become my favorite podcast. Gonna need to join the patreon now.

[@moocat800]

Patreon is so worth it!

[@theAlex2577]

lmaooo the why are we afraid of little people took me out, these two are so witty for no damn reason

[@Eric-gw2lx]

Looks like Mayas best option is for her old therapist to talk to her new therapist and explain things to them

[@PumpkinSpikey]

Damn. It sucks ass to have an elderly pet who’s healthy declining. I’m sorry girl. My heart goes out to you. I already deleted my Twitter account. I barely used it to begin with but all the better reason get rid of it. I know what QT is talking about. They’re incredibly dangerous and if talk about them or say their name especially in wooded areas because their drawn to their name. I’ve had experiences with them. It’s always terrible. A lot of people online have been calling them Flesh Pedestrians. Which is so funny😂 and accurate. It also helps them not be scary. Idk if it’s possible to get like your file or get your therapist to give her notes to your new therapist.

[@GuineaPigEveryday]

This is kinda specific to the Twitter but honestly, even if you barely use the social media app its just so freeing to delete it entirely. I had instagram for years as my main app, but now i don’t have friends on there and only use it for scrolling and looking at posts, and honestly im so relieved for deleting it. I hate the stress of getting replies to comments and idk why I had the habit of writing comments on posts so often, its not extreme opinions just random stuff, but the stress of getting replies was too much, its so good to delete it. If you barely use an app just get rid of it and save yourself the irritation. Ik QT removed herself from Twitch Reddit for the those sort of reasons.

[@bibubbletea]

I don’t know why but I really enjoy both when you guys are just talking about your lives and when you’re talking about your mental health. Maybe it’s just the fact that I can realize that even people who I feel like I wouldn’t be able to relate to have the same human issues as I do and to see a peak behind the curtain of what it looks like to “make it.” It’s nice to realize that everyone has shit to deal with no matter who they are and where they are in life.

[@boredphrog]

this podcast is my oasis and i love smoking a bowl and laughing through all my trauma with the both of them its wonderful

[@gentleshadow1]

I've been binge watching these and hope to get all the way to the most recent ep at some point lol but this is a really good way of describing what this pod means to me!

[@raybows]

Loved this episode! I'm so glad QT got to experience her feelings and journal about them that's huge! Also, I'm so sorry for what you're going through, Maya :( My elderly dog is sick and needs to go through surgery so I related to the anxiety and sadness, hope you find a good therapist soon!

[@gummywormjim]

QT is the most relatable person in the world sometimes. The Vegas Naptime saga is me ASF

[@couran]

I fully cheered when Maya explained how to use the bottle opener!

[@knuckys]

i laughed so hard and cried this episode. the value of this podcast to me is immeasurable sometimes

[@ronanmchugh2253]

My favourite QT bit is that she’ll tell the “women cover your ears, this is for the guys” when it’s something that every woman knows

[@arrownibent5980]

I am an unrepentant QT enjoyer but Maya constantly has amazing moments that really make me admire her. Her reaction to the scary story: did they test him for drugs" was one of those

[@Jo-ru3sz]

I have a little spirit story as well. My mom told me the story actually, in my island they say that when you cross a certain part of a highway at night(this highway as no lights or anything it’s more like a 4 lane road) there would be two men flagging you down at the side of the road, asking for a ride. you’re meant to ignore them and continue driving. You will look into your rearview mirror and they will be sitting in the back of the car. You’re not meant to ask them how they are, you’re not meant to ask them where you’re going we’re not meant to ask them how they got in your car. You just have to drive and eventually they disappear if you do ask them where they’re going they will feel like they’re inconveniencing you and murder you. I’d have no idea this is like a common story but my mother told me it and my grandma also mentioned it.

[@maccamachine]

That type of shit isn’t real and not possible

[@dozybee]

I love that they feel bad for inconveniencing you so they resort to murder instead of an apology. Death = The Biggest Inconvenience.

[@yokingleader]

I feel like this podcast has just become qt’s and maya’s rants of the week and I’m all for it

[@o.b.321]

Watching QT unable to properly use the bottle opener hurt my soul as a former restaurant server lol

[@un_kn0wn427]

Qt has said and done some stuff thats made me cringe before but this actually made me physically upset how are you that INEPT

[@glitvhinthesystem1413]

@@un_kn0wn427 I dont think it's a matter of being inept tbh, it's a pretty weird tool and a lot of people cant figure out how to use it at first glance lol

[@un_kn0wn427]

@@glitvhinthesystem1413 yeah its not that serious dont worry obv its because she didnt know how to use it, what really set me off is how much she screwed it in and how much she was destroying the cork, and that's standard on all opening méthodes haha

[@AlejandroLamKhoa]

OK I cried when QT was talking about how she was sobbing when she journaled about her feelings 😭

[@ThePurplemaneater]

That talk about grief and the Widowed Mom podcast hit way closer to home than I expected anything in this podcast to lol. My dad committed suicide in January after it came out that he was a pedophile. To say my feelings over the matter are complicated is... putting it lightly.

[@getsetready]

I'm so sorry random internet friend. I hope life has become a bit better since this time

[@Araselfie]

Maya talking about losing her therapist is so relatable 😭 I have been with my therapist for 5 years and paying out of pocket (EXPENSIVE AF) because I'm so scared of ever leaving her. She's amazing i depend on her for so much and she's helped me so much I hope I never have to leave her!

[@lillykoroluk6620]

I like hearing that other people have the same stresses i do because it makes me feel not alone in my discomfort, thanks

[@byrisegaming8929]

Skinwalker story time! One time when I was out in the Uintahs I was with a big camping group of friends and one of us had to go pee so we went out in a group of 3 to stay safe ( bear country ) and when we turned our flashlights on to wander around for a spot to pee there was a deer standing and running on 2 legs.

[@emkenobi]

I would have literally died right there and then and just fallen to the ground

[@artiemuse]

Ive had some bad therapists too. She said "just get a job". Meanwhile i was having really bad panic attacks.

[@hrdygrdymn1321]

My day has had the exact same sad/tired mood as this wine about it and it's actually very therapeutic

[@AutieDino]

QT you might be one of my favourite ‪people‬, you’re just bluntly honest & im here for it 😂

[@Cofiend]

Those are the sorts of wine openers used in restaurant jobs to be able to open bottles at a table and now I really want to see someone try to do it like QT did in the middle of a wine presentation.

[@thatonelocoguy]

QT: I don't like wine it taste gross Also QT: My price range is $10 😂 ❤ You guys are my fav people to watch

[@Fritzsch82]

this is freaking glorious. qts mindset has been unreal lately and i am here for it. unhinged but in the best way possible, looking forward for more

[@rae9954]

I’m so scared of those fucking this when camping. I remember one time I was camping with friends and both times I’ve gone we stayed for 2 weeks. And two times when it was like me and one other person (two different summers) I saw a figure holding a light and shining toward are tent and than we heard footsteps super close. We asked our friends in the morning and they said no one was out at that time. Weirdest unexplainable thing that happened to me

[@Snak3mast3r]

So sorry to hear about Maya's ferret. I was heartbroken when my ferrets passed. Hit me hard. Stay strong

[@janet70615]

have to say sometimes I just listen to qt talk and I feel very happy thank you qt you're a goddess

[@echin9372]

usually affirmations dont work until ones worked through childhood trauma (source: a video i watched)

[@ilovesoftball0005]

on the whole affirmations not working thing i totally understand why they said it. it actually makes a lot of sense. i feel like becoming just content with what’s happening and then LEARNING to transform it into why you want is definitely the route to take. even doing nothing at all besides acknowledging the way you’re feeling. mayas so right, the way i’ve done things in the past year is very much “i am filled with rage right now and i sadly just have to deal with it until something changes.” last year something really awful happened to me and i went through and anger bout for about 9 months where i was just mad. now i don’t think this is the best solution but maybe the perspective is on the right track. also! i write to someone famous i like while journaling so i can talk to someone because i feel like putting your feelings down on paper doesn’t help me so much as knowing someone’s at least listening. i know timothee chalamet isn’t reading what i wrote esp bc im not sending them to him lmao but it’s sort of the principle of it. i hope your health physical and mental get better qt

[@maximilianmixa4968]

so as for journaling, i have some tips because i have felt the same way about journaling. one thing that made it feel more purposeful (not necessarily if its worth it or not), was to use this formula. write about your day, various thoughts and feelings etc, basically regular journal shit. then write one thing you did well that day, one thing you could improve, and finally how today lines up in the grand scheme of your life. its hard to admit we did things well or that we could do things better when we have the trauma that we have, but journaling is only as helpful as we let it be. it wont solve your problems, it might not make you feel better, but its about putting your thoughts on a piece of paper and using it as a script for the story of your life. the most important part of this formula is the grand scheme of your life part. it makes you think about if you did anything, and if you didnt, at least you survived to see another day. that is a victory enough. i hope this helps anyone reading and know you are loved

[@apoe]

i completely relate to maya's anxiety about finding a new therapist, i have had to deal with the same issue soo many times but if it's worth anything remember that there are resources that can help you! be diligent in your research while bearing in mind the specific types of therapy that have been most effective for you, find someone whose values align with yours -- for example i always make it a point to find a therapist who explicitly states that they are lgbtq+ friendly, and some will also publicly identify with certain religions, stuff like that. you can get real specific with your search on a lot of engines and reviews are a super helpful tool. of course, you can also ask your therapist for a recommendation if you haven't already! seeing that you trust her and feel she understands your needs that's a great option to consider. i hope it all goes well for you!!

[@erincmars]

Omg qt struggling to open the wine is such a relatable thing bc same 😂

[@alphabetsupes]

These two ladies love each other so much, and I'm here for it.

[@soledieairvideos5974]

As server watching QT try to open the Wine bottle is so funny to me. It took me so long to learn.

[@meowdy4294]

I had therapy this morning and today was the first time I broke down crying about losing my parents since Christmas. Hug your parents if you have em. 😂

[@tala5116]

Sorry for your loss. Sending you love 💌

[@kellynelaine]

This is the most relatable episode yet y'all are doing great

[@getsetready]

I appreciate how candid yall are, good god it makes me feel more interesting as a very open and candid person

[@rachellenaaaa]

QT struggling with the wine key unlocked a trauma response

[@blargymarklestein5978]

Respect to the producer with the user's manual for the bottle opener. Earning your salary.

[@blargymarklestein5978]

Also drink more white and sparkling wine. You'll enjoy it more. Hell wine coolers or malt beverages could be called wine.

[@kristianmock2404]

You guys can be late on episodes by the way! Don’t feel like you have to force yourselves to make an episode if you are having a rough time. Life outside of the podcast is more important. Take care

[@PlantBasedLaughter]

Also an interesting take around the stages of grief is that you go through them during any kind of change. It is how much that change affects you that aligns with how long grief affects you.

[@Choccoco]

Can’t explain how happy I am this podcast is back. It feels like I have friends (not in a parasocial way, I like to hear your opinions).

[@maximilianmixa4968]

another day another slay i love you guys keep up the good work this podcast is like having friends

[@Bothumus]

Do people actually complain about either of them talking "too long?" Its never been a problem for me. I wanna hear those long stories

[@udaracs5580]

Those are rare and annoying. But sadly, exist.

[@tess4992]

I heard people refer to them as flesh pedestrians to avoid saying the name.

[@lakena1849]

This episode was so fun! I love spooky stories

[@gublagubgalub8092]

I have a lot of mental issues and when I was younger I went to a therapist that told my parents that I was manipulating them and caused me to have actual trauma and fear of therapy. I’m 21 and many many times I’ve tried to go through the cycle of looking for therapists but it always come down to a spiraling ptsd episode. Shoutout to that one therapist who I paid to do irreparable damage to my psyche :)

[@Limitedarkness]

I love when you guys talk about Therapy

[@itbelikethat5480]

QT’s story made me how good my hotel experiences were. I remember going to Hyatt, Hilton and Marriott and all of them gave me early check-in for FREE!

[@Ironkeeper13]

As SOON as QT started that disproportionate man story I yelled "fucking skinwalker HELL NO!" and the rest of the pod was tough to get through.

[@echin9372]

qt's green plushie pillow is so cute

[@LexiJayC]

As a therapist, wine about it always gives me great insight to the clients point of view

[@minecraftarcutect17]

The psychology talk towards the end was actually super interesting 👍good Maya segment

[@-L.S]

THIS PODCAST IS SO FUNNY

[@arirejtman]

Hope you rest well soon, Blaire and Maya.

[@danigirl0704]

I love when qt quoted pirates of the Caribbean and maya didn’t know what it was from 😂 that’s my favorite movie

[@elora512]

Thank you QT for reminding of the date of the Speak Now drop. I'm so excited for it!

[@Lalagartitita]

You girls have the best stories, Qt's poop story made me laugh so hard

[@zxcv338]

My favorite episode so far. QT is great even when she's fatigued.

[@LT21Titans27]

I can kind of relate to Mayas worry about finding a new therapist. I had been with a therapist for 10+ years, and just last year switched. It was hard at first because I felt like he knew my problems well and always knew how to properly work through my struggles with me. Luckily, my new therapist has been very good. Hope it works out for you Maya

[@udaracs5580]

this is the perfect podcast to listen to when I procrastinate while deadlines ticking...

[@mandygroening]

31:47 the skinwalker!! I’m First Nations (Canadian not American) and they have always scared the crap out of me!!! The tales I’ve heard give me nightmares! Also, Maya saying it 😂 poor girl lol

[@lucaspintooc]

always love therapy talk, very important

[@moshicko4191]

I'm so happy to hear about qt's breakthrough!

[@sarg778returnscodm7]

Woo more episodes. Should have an episode where there's a bunch of people on and you all tell true stories or heard stories from others or family or personal experience about ghosts or paranormal things and maybe discuss your thoughts on believing in those things and how they work. Maybe talk about aliens. Idk it could be fun and interesting to see a big conversation about it and dive deep. It could be a good Halloween episode.

[@0blivvy8]

That would be really fun, especially next to a campfire or fireplace! They could do S'mores and a nice dessert wine, like Riesling, to go with it.

[@kabiedotjpg5683]

Making it sleepover themed too would be awesome!

[@mattyryn1855]

“Lovely woman by the way I saw her on Saturday night live and she seems like she is very patient” had me fucking dying. 😂

[@duxxck]

Watching QT open a bottle of wine is worse than watching NMP cook food.

[@rubydeslaurentez9191]

not many things make me laugh out loud but this sure does

[@drewtbarth]

Having a wine based podcast for this many episodes and not knowing how to use a wine key absolutely a vibe.

[@meepgirl1434]

Some advice for finding a new therapist I have is if it’s possible try meeting with new therapist while still meeting with your old therapist so you have support but can get used to new people, and talk about what you think of the new person. Ask your current therapist what type of modalities they use/think would be helpful for you and then use those as guidelines for finding new therapists. Psychology in Seattle, which is a youtube channel, has an episode about finding new therapists so you could also watch that to find more tips. (:

[@Gageeggnogg]

Your producer deserves a raise for sending the diagram.

[@poshrat993]

Okay I feel that story about qt feeling like she was dying when she actually just had to poop 😭

[@pigeonatic]

everytime 😭

[@CallumFinlayson]

Just both join the same wine subscription club, and order the same mixed case so you each get sent the same selection of mixed wines every few months

[@krystal_senem]

I suggest you write down that naptime saga in detail before you forget any part of it QT... it can be a part of your stand up show or netflix special in future. it was such a good story.

[@ndnerd1781]

Didn't expect skinwalker stories on Wine About It, but I'm here for it

[@ytgirliepop]

This podcast is so relatable! Love it!! Ty Maya and Qt

[@aardfay]

The sense of humor in this episode was so weird and comfy at the same time

[@corazonop8898]

the one time i decide to go for a walk in the morning mist this story about skinwalkers accompanys me

[@chaoticlynn11]

WOOO WINE ABOUT IT WEDNESDAY !! 🍷

[@lisavadsten5402]

best part of my week

[@liveabettalife]

love you guys! thanks for the giggles

[@radlee974]

I’m with QT when it comes to the skinwalker stories! Imagining myself in the position of either of those dudes is legit horrifying!

[@ohtv9294]

My new wine about it tradition is to try and gather my stacks before QT figures out how to open the wine bottle

[@killljoyz]

holy crap qt literally cannot catch a break i am so sorry girl you deserve better!

[@iGleeson]

Get Bright Cellars to sponsor you and never have mismatched wines again

[@HeyBroItsBrad]

Audio listeners, I’m a skin Walker.

[@sgoodel]

opening the wine was something