Ex GF Who Slept W/ My Brother A Day Before Our Wedding Reaches Out To Me 12 Yrs Later...

Ex GF Who Slept W/ My Brother A Day Before Our Wedding Reaches Out To Me 12 Yrs Later A Week Before My Wedding... But This Time I Need Revenge.
#redditrelationship #redditupdate

[@jackchop1576]

Why doesn't the ex just go find OP's brother since she clearly liked him too??

[@Ueiwbwowheoeho]

He's in Europe.

[@adjcsee4476]

@@Ueiwbwowheoehoand more than likely banished from being part of their family until he figures his shit and and apologizes to OP

[@Business458]

She probably did but the brother didn't want her. A man wouldn't want to be serious with a cheater even if she cheated with him plus he did lose contact with his family.

[@nowfear]

@@Business458a man wouldn’t cheat Can’t demand man rights if you‘re a fuzz smh

[@nicholaswilson1851]

Not just that, he slept with his own brother’s fiancé

[@amandafranks8400]

OP has an amazing fiancé. And honestly the people who want him to apologize can suck it. Fiancé needs better friends.

[@julianyuh3163]

Fiancé’s friends are probably cheaters goo

[@Rothgar2137]

*Wife

[@GrasshopperKelly]

She already recognised that herself. I'd imagine she dropped her friends group or lowered them as a priority in her life significantly.

[@SpanishEmpire1760]

"Go suck" i'd say ''GO SUCK AN EGG, I MEAN, YOU ALREADY DO IT"

[@courtadbobtail600]

Are you kidding me? This story is fake as hell

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

The wife's friends sound like the kind of women that can't handle female accountability. It's sad that she's without friends now but I hope she'll find better ones.

[@hurricanev6]

From the sound of things, she never really had friends. I'm surprised OP didn't warn their partners about how sympathetic they are to cheaters. I'd feel obligated to warn them at least.

[@mill2712]

​@@hurricanev6 First things first, he should get his wife some REAL friends. I think the groomsmen and their wives/girlfriends could be a start.

[@JB-423]

most women can't handle accountability

[@saint037]

​@@mill2712yea, single friends are a cuffed woman's downfall

[@Kevin7557]

They sound like the kind of friends who encourage each other to cheat if one starts doing it. Ops wife is lucky she doesn't have that toxic element in her life anymore.

[@BlackHawk21ification]

"my family loved my Ex as well" well the brother gave extra love

[@someman7]

The brother doesn't know love, and neither does the ex.

[@AleV69692]

​@@someman7this!

[@darren9678]

​@@someman7correction: some guy, no brother would do that to his brother

[@someman7]

​@@darren9678 Still one's brother I'm afraid. You don't choose family. You pray for them. As for the girl, dodged a bullet, find a real woman to marry

[@darren9678]

@@someman7 the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb

[@Spartan536]

I am with your groomsman on this one. NO APOLOGIES, she is lucky that is all you did, I would have been far more harsh.

[@gravity00x]

my condolences for everyone that you are in a relationship with.

[@Spartan536]

@@gravity00x My wife loves me, it's amazing how nice things are when people are not genuine pieces of shit like the stories OP's EX is.

[@zopler5537]

⁠@@gravity00xlmao what a door mat you are. Cheaters deserve to be shamed on every level and even more so when they try to fuck up someone’s wedding like the true bottom of the barrel scum and slime they are.

[@doger6531]

Exactly that’s what we call karmatic retribution what goes around comes around and cheaters deserve every bit of it

[@Subscriber9192]

​@@gravity00x was OP a harsh with his ex? probably. but if there was a system in place to punish cheaters in the first place, maybe victims wouldnt feel the need for revenge. we need to stop normalizing infidelity. this is not a joke, or a prank that you can laugh off. this causes serious mental and emotional damage that takes a long time to heal. you can see what happens to a persons mental state in this video. they are so damaged they think they are in the right when they abuse their cheating spouse in retaliation to their infidelity. i hope op got proper therapy. i cant imagine the pain of losing a 10 YEAR relationship to your own brother would feel like. that kind of thing changes people.

[@markfrost2307]

The "friends" that blackmail this man's fiance about not comming to the wedding were not actually friends, they were PARASITES.

[@zachary6425]

Especially when they never grew out of their high school immaturity.

[@mnomadvfx]

Sounds more like they were trying to blackmail the fiancee herself - the only reason I can imagine that happening is if they were friends with the ex too and closer friends with her than the fiancee at that. Burning bridges over a woman they didn't even know rather than the 'friend' whose wedding she just tried to ruin just doesn't sound even remotely realistic given the limited information in the story.

[@smiley4995]

So his wife supported him through the revenge and supported him through helping his ex? Damn she is a keeper, ride or die type.

[@gajeelredfox1016]

Honestly lots of respect to OP for at least making sure she didn't hurt herself. It was more than she deserved but he's definitely a great guy for it.

[@Maninawig]

Respect for caring, and for the well-planned revenge.

[@saint037]

makes her know even more how much she don effed up😂

[@MesMesTes]

He better than me i woulda turned into lowtiergod 💀

[@Maninawig]

@osamabinladenssecondgirlfr4241 ah, you are ignoring the fact that she cheated on him with his brother... that way you can villainize the one with a penis.

[@DancingAngelz]

@@MesMesTesok 16 year old

[@Negasilver]

That guy is absolutely nuts for letting that woman stay in his house even one day. They should've called the cops immediately.

[@Tris_.]

This 100%. She could literally stab them during the night. It's crazy like NOBODY of those people that knew about it thought that she might be dangerous not only to herself but most importantly to others.

[@TheGosgosh]

Yea, cops and mention that she’s having a break down, is delusional and there is a high risk of harm (self and/or others). While it’s drastic, I think in this situation it is pretty much warranted

[@zk6019]

some people just enjoy the attention of being chased after.

[@Sigurther]

its reddit - story is probably fake.

[@Roofhack]

He's nuts for even entertaining his ex, he should have just ignored her from the start.

[@yRaven.]

Man, thank God this came out this way. Because the line between her just going crazy and stabbing your wife to death was too thin... Don't let crazy ppl inside your house or close to your SO

[@forrestc.8282]

Why he didn't call the cops or toss her out is completely beyond me. I can't imagine disrespecting my partner and putting them in danger like that

[@Bonuzdisc]

@@forrestc.8282 Because these are fake stories and the author decides what happens

[@dcry1003]

@@forrestc.8282 are you mental? you want to toss a clearly mentally ill person outside like some trash? like sure she is trash for cheating but thats where you need to draw the line

[@InDeathWeLove]

@@dcry1003 I would to someone that I didn't know, why would I risk the safety of me and my family for a stranger, let alone someone that has actively harmed me in the past?

[@fiyahquacker2835]

@@forrestc.8282 did you really not listen? The wife agreed on what they did.

[@girl1213]

If she wanted to blow off steam then she should have called him and explained what she wanted, not go to the brother. It was inevitable that she would have an episode because of the guilt because deep down she knew everything that happened was her own fault. But sadly it wouldn't have changed anything for her. Even without the humiliating revenge, nothing would have made a difference: he *doesn't* love her anymore and has more than enough good reason to. And screw the wife's now ex-friends. Sounds like she out-grew them a long time ago.

[@tek512]

What guilt? That definitely wasn't a one off, and she was only upset she got caught.

[@MynameisBrianZX]

Destressing isn’t why she’s cheating, let alone banging the in-laws

[@girl1213]

@@tek512 Tell that to someone who has acknowledged to struggling with their mental health, and not to an Entitled Karen that loves to take all the attention on the Internet.

[@G.L.999]

@@girl1213 Part of the reason I think she might've had an episode was because of the guilt, and more than likely the lack of accountability in her life. And when push came to a shove after she got caught, she knew she couldn't try and rationalize it because like you said; deep down, she knew everything that had happened was her fault. And she probably didn't know how to process her own guilty actions properly and be a responsible adult in that moment!

[@wvanyar1801]

@@G.L.999 , I don't this the EX had an episode. There was a comment, "he (brother) has been there for me in the past". This implies that she has been going to the brother, not fiancé for help in the past. So, she is hot relying on her Fiancé or soon to be husband for help but the brother. No, she just got caught and couldn't deal with the consequences. The "episode" might have happen when OP got married and ignored her "come back to me" lines.

[@travarturner6547]

It's a evil world we live in 🗿

[@juanhaines7295]

Too true

[@dontheshyguy1393]

honestly ik OP would get flack for really going out his way but walking in on your own fiancé and relative will probably scorn him for the rest of his life

[@gavlanthedwarf7544]

She belongs on the streets🙏

[@alancarroll2347]

Futurelations 5:84

[@DarthChikoo]

🗿

[@travarturner6547]

If she cheat she belongs to the streets 💀

[@LeynaraLarwenarenel]

Okay, I know I don't know you, but you seem like one of those people who tell a woman a high body count is a low-value woman you need to change your pfp. Because talk about holding conflicting beliefs my dude

[@Vendzor]

​@@LeynaraLarwenarenelTalk about jumping to conclusions based on assumptions, my dude.

[@Nempo13]

@@LeynaraLarwenarenel A high body count for either person makes them lower value. That isn't just a woman thing, it also shows the man is still a teenager in maturity. Doesn't matter if they are a CEO or a construction worker. High value people value themselves more than a string of one night stands. If you drank the feminist koolaid and believe it is 'empowering' than you are the one with backwards beliefs mate.

[@Hanzo1]

​@@Vendzorher body count is probably triple digits and shes projecting hard here

[@svartvarg9778]

​@@LeynaraLarwenarenel That statement that the person above said touched a nerve. Didn't? 😏

[@TheSergio1021]

If only the bridemaids knew the lengths this guy would go to help the person who literally cheated on him after the wedding was done.

[@fumothfan9]

Birds of a feather Glad the wife cut them out. She knew her husband was her priority not her other 304 B word WH word friends. Only thing husband did wrong was let his ex into their homes.

[@TheSergio1021]

@@fumothfan9 yup, the husband went the extra mile to make sure the ex didn't hurt herself, but really she should not have been able to stay in his house. If she was as crazy as he described her to be, she could have done something to him and his new wife. Not exactly wise.

[@ipyramid]

They didn't care about that, and we're more interested in group conformity. The husband valued his revenge a little too much though, and could have apologized for her sake and hers alone. The ex and his feelings towards her should mean little compared to his fiance's happiness

[@ipyramid]

They didn't care about that, and we're more interested in group conformity. The husband valued his revenge a little too much though, and could have apologized for her sake and hers alone. The ex and his feelings towards her should mean little compared to his fiance's happiness. He wasn't TA because of the revenge, but he wasn't an angel to his bride either.

[@ipyramid]

They didn't care about that, and we're more interested in group conformity. The husband valued his revenge a little too much though, and could have apologized for her sake and hers alone. The ex and his feelings towards her should mean little compared to his fiance's happiness. He wasn't TA because of the revenge, but he wasn't an angel to his bride either.

[@tiptopflipflop7991]

Dont see anything wrong with OP's actions. His wife is also a trooper.

[@bencastor9207]

You mean apart from letting the ex stay? Cause she could have knifed them in their sleep. Way too risky, phone the police and get her ass sectioned

[@CosmicAeon]

Yeah he literally prioritised his vile, cheating ex over the safety of his day 1 new wife. If you can't see anything wrong with that then there's something wrong with you bruh. Maybe the crazy ex wasn't so crazy after all, as she was clearly right that he did still love her.

[@caffeinedelusions]

@@bencastor9207 Yeah, there were some risks taken there... but the wife was with him on that, and made an informed choice to help, so I can't hold that against either of them.

[@GIRru11]

The fiancé's friends just gave off a major red flag for themsleves if that's how they act when helping shun a cheater

[@gravity00x]

Bro, it's been 12 years. You'd have to be psychotic to plan and execute something like this. He needs therapy, because he's got major issues.

[@CHADFUTUREHAN]

​@@gravity00xhow about the wasted 10 years?

[@nsellak3225]

First of all, it's been 12 years, second of all that was petty as shit, and third of all it was childish and unnecessary so that's why the fiance's friends are understandably disturbed by the nature of the revenge

[@KLRCAT]

Fiancé needs better friends, all of them had ZERO issue with his ex cheating on him a day before his wedding with his own BROTHER, they will 100% have no issue with helping your Fiancé/soon to be wife cheat on you behind your back, cause they think its justified/have no issue with it, and will take her out on "Girls Trips" to "explore her sexuality". Get Rid of those friends ASAP!

[@CosmicAeon]

it makes absolutely zero logical sense for them to suddenly care so much about a stranger they've never met before. Like the new wife said, it was just about them wanting to control her, and it angered them that she didn't do what they demanded.

[@Justrelaxx101]

@@CosmicAeonexactly

[@gregorywilks1036]

Exactly

[@al3xplayzmc829]

One of the bride's "friends" is cheating on their partners i bet.

[@jamegumb7298]

If she is bold enough to take that guy into the bed at home without worry, and kick you out of the house for it, and then to top it off says "oh but he was always there for me" while claiming it was a 1 time thing, she is the worst liar of all time.

[@lapintueur4799]

The cake idea with the brother's picture on it was not bad... But maybe just having someone deliver the cake with a "I never want to ear from you ever again" kind of letter would have been enough instead of getting the stalker ex hopes up and making her go crazier.

[@AhmadAhmad-xv5cr]

Lord forgive me I would have done worse

[@xirochamber5863]

I’ve done worse. lol 😂 she got off lightly

[@AndreiaAndrade-zg8ms]

Whatvis wrong with people?? She cheated on him with his brother the Day before the wedding and buhu now she the victim and didnt deserve it bla bla bla. Pls stop

[@PakistaniToiletCleaner]

Its clearly fake though. How can they arrange the cake in just one day?

[@nicky-su4uo]

​@@PakistaniToiletCleanerare you serious

[@Eggplaant]

This is why you don't respond to your ex. She's a narcissist, attempting to sabotage OP's wedding to position herself as the main focus and manipulate this guy’s mind. The plan backfired, and she spiraled when faced with humiliation. Seems to me OP is seeking to clear his conscience by ensuring the ex's safety, acknowledging the impact of his actions. I feel sorry for the wife.

[@Cainesugars]

If he was the man you ever loved then why did you sleep with his younger brother? Don’t take her back OP How can we know and be so sure that she won’t do it again?

[@rustywarship8449]

Because his brother in Europe i guess

[@lapintueur4799]

She just came back to the OP because she did not find a sucker willing to marry her.

[@erickpoorbaugh6728]

Also, he only found her with his brother by unlikely chance. Who knows how many times she cheated and he never found out?

[@Cainesugars]

@@erickpoorbaugh6728 Not only that but he could of caught something How? Well if they decided to kiss or shag (F*ck)

[@Homiloko2]

He didn't take her back though, he's already married lol

[@GloriousRock]

Does no one ever call the police or hang up, why do people keep talking and chstting. BLOCK THE NUMBERS, call police, NO WAITING IN LIVING ROOM NO PARENT CALLS, POLICE NOW

[@SnerMerNer]

There is no situation that police can't make worse

[@mikelee990]

​@@SnerMerNerPolice could have handled his crazy ex permanently and then her mental health issue would be solved.

[@GloriousRock]

And most of all and most importantly CAMERAS TO RECORD

[@MacClay8]

People that make good decisions are probably more likely to avoid the kind of drama that make it to these videos. "My ex-fiance that cheated on me with my brother tried to get back in contact before my upcoming wedding, but I told her I wasn't interested and blocked her number" wouldn't get a lot of views, you know?

[@CurseOxuin]

​@@MacClay8He did block her, watch the video, understand the full context first before making assumptions.

[@runemidgard938]

OP is too good. doing so (let her sleep, bring her to hosp) will only give her fake hope. shes crazy and she might even do bad things to destroy the wife in future. OP should have called the police + ambulance the moment the ex refused to leave.

[@bruh-br4wo]

she thought shit was sweet out here

[@angelbailey4098]

i don’t like the friends

[@TheJosman]

I do like the wife tho. She was smart enough to tell her so-called "friends" were trying to manipulate her and even though she was visibly hurt by them not attending her wedding, she mantained her composure and moved on from their betrayal. There's many stories where women fall victim of their "friends" manipulation, and end up ruining their marriage and other aspects of their lives.

[@internetoperator8759]

Surprised that his brother and ex are still alive. Me personally, I couldnt tolerate that level of disrespect.

[@stephano2996]

So let me get this straight. ´Friends´ you know since highschool care more about a random girl than your feelings and decide not to attend your wedding because of it. Sounds like fiancee needs to find some new friends. You know the kind that actually care for you.

[@Jdog4588]

I would have called the cops telling them my ex was having a mental breakdown so she would get a 72 hour psych hold

[@albertwayne2323]

The sweeeet sweeet taste of revenge against a cheater ex... It makes my day.

[@viciousrape]

that fiance is rock solid. her "friends" are garbage. OP did a horrible thing but it's like man... he wasted 10 years of his life on her. do you know how long 10 years is to spend on a person? 10 years is more than 10% of most people's entire lifespan, and he used that JUST on her, for her to then turn around and fuck his brother. then got the nerve to reach out later? like I said, I don't agree with his actions, but I damn sure understand

[@wargreysama]

Horrible? He did what a MAN'S GOTTA DO WHEN A MAN'S GOTTA DO.

[@viciousrape]

@@wargreysama I mean he coulda just said bitch, don't ever call me again, I'm getting married and hung up. he didn't have to do that shit. bro almost ended up with a real life yandere

[@cindypicadomolina7814]

​@@viciousrapeif she didn't understand the first time when he blocked her and kicked her out after she cheated all those years ago, do you REALLY think she'd back off if he asked??? He didn't even SPEAK to her all those years and she STILL tried. She needed a reality check

[@viciousrape]

@@cindypicadomolina7814 if that's how you go about life treating people, I think you need one too

[@ZipMapp]

​@@viciousrapeSometimes you can't getclosure without revenge

[@bluecraft2012]

I dont understand why he didnt call the cops on her when she barged into his home 💀

[@peterjackson1430]

Right?? Way too sympathetic to his psychotic cheating ex!!

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

Fiance being on board with revenge fills me with joy!

[@krisbelch1776]

Imagine ruining a decade long friendship because of their current boyfriends ex who had nothing to do with them.

[@krisbelch1776]

@osamabinladenssecondgirlfr4241 You mean that same someone that contacts them ten years later knowing they have moved on with the intention of getting back together behind a SO's back. Yeah they deserve everything they got.

[@TheKadanz]

It's amazing to me how universal similar the excuses are whenever women get caught cheating: 1) It's not what you think 2) It meant nothing 3) It was just a small mistake 4) I did it because I actually love you so much but [insert excuse after excuse why they're in fact no to be blamed for their actions] I can guarantee you they've been sleeping together for a while, this wasn't just a one time thing. I can state with a high degree of certainty that you have a good paying job and provide financial stability for her and your younger brother was 'the bad boy' of the family. For her he was the adventure, the excitement. She wanted the cake and eat it too. She was double dipping. This behaviour is becoming more and more common with women and men are noticing, hence why many choose to tap out of marriage alltogether. Good!

[@AleV69692]

Exactly! But it's not just women, it's selfish people

[@Luna-fj9qh]

Its not only woman, my ex boyfriend did exactly the same and it was psychotic as well

[@xoafallen6239]

@@Luna-fj9qh Women use that excuse more is the thing. also women have way more chances to cheat then even a good looking man. so its harder to trust women. even an ugly woman has 10x more chances to sleep around then a good looking man which means more chances to cheat IE less room for trust especially when stories like this keep happening.

[@bUrRiEdaLiVe6]

So... men have been doing it for AGES, same excuses (and worst), waste the time of women that provide them stability, house chores, personal care, etc, but it's because of women cheating that marriage is going to hell? Yeah, sure

[@Sivrn-Val]

​@@uarmyhimang80% of the time it is

[@gatuluc2635]

see? he got revenge and as a reward got an unstable stalker, lol

[@AleV69692]

You should go have your eyes checked if that's the conclusion you took away from this🧐

[@Cainesugars]

OP your wife needs to cut off contact with her friends for good and find new friends elsewhere Too raw? These fools like to gossip Him not apologizing to his ex is not there business

[@Wumbology378]

Yeah any friend group that expects you to choose their side over your partner is useless.

[@Cainesugars]

@@Wumbology378 They had some nerve since they decided to participate in the humiliation the brides maids could of just said that this is uncomfortable earlier ahead of time and backed out of it They could of outright refused with a reasonable explanation or a good one Yet they decided to ake in it and not say anything earlier

[@gravity00x]

They need to cut off contact with her, rather. She'd be doing them a favor. Who in their right mind has friends who do psychotic things like that. I don't care how the cheating ex feels about it, it's more a reflection on his character and behaviour. Two wrongs never made a right. He's definitely not all there, and so is the bride for agreeing to that lol.

[@Cainesugars]

@@gravity00x Sounds fair but the fiancé shouldn’t have tried to contact him in the first place Be weary of people who have vengeance on there minds I’ll just stop at here is that alright with you? We cool?

[@Cainesugars]

If they hold a grudge then be weary if they can remember and never forget then be weary

[@CJ_Espinoza]

It’s interesting how the bride’s friends were okay participating in this stunt yet, now they suddenly have an issue and want him to apologize.

[@michealcastor4775]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 served the revenge🥶 Accountability 100% overloaded to the point she turned cray 😅

[@charliegone1652]

Maybe those bridesmaids should be friends to his ex. They seem to belong together.

[@SynthwaveCrusader]

OP really screwed the pooch here by getting his wedding party involved. If he really wanted to do the revenge thing he should have just done it with his wife, then immediately cut contact with the delusional ex permanently. Her being delusional is not his problem, and he should have gotten the police involved the moment she tried to move in with him and his wife.

[@Freakyman403]

not really the bridesmaids are the ones who have the problem and see no issue with cheating if that is their response, so are most likely enablers of cheating or just cheating themselves.

[@conquer535]

I mean you could take it as a dodged a bullet situation with the "friends"

[@SenseiRaisen]

@@Freakyman403 Sounds like the fiance's friends were "that type of friends". The type they drill into the fiance's head all the time. The the type who didn't like OP and try everything to broke them. The type who encourage cheating once they marry. You can guess why they want the apology (since I'm 100% bet they did the same).

[@dorothygale0791]

They should have called the police as soon as she demanded to stay in their house for trespassing so that she could get the help she needed rather than hope that sometime would bring her back to reality.

[@_Tree_of_Life_]

You just never know what people are going through, that prank could have tipped her over the edge! As deserved as it was, I hope OP will take the high road next time.

[@Ephmer]

how does her saying its just a one time thing make it better ????

[@amandafranks8400]

OP definitely dodged a bullet. Ex fiancé is crazy. 🤪

[@Negi1001]

The best part about this story is how his brother is just mentioned once out of 12 years and it's hearsay. I bet you didn't invite him to your wedding, but I bet he knows.

[@patriksvensson2360]

God, that's a truly terrifying story. I wish OP and his wife nothing but the best, but I also wish that his ex gets help and manages to salvage her life and find some semblance of stability, love and happiness that is good for her. She did an atrocious thing to OP but, man, she's paid her dues. If OP's brother goes through half of what she's been through, I'd be willing to drop the axe there too.

[@fuzziebunnie83]

My heart aches for Opie, but everything happens for a reason, and it led him to his now wife Paul sounds like an amazing woman.

[@chessieray1465]

His fiancé's friends aren't real friends. Those fools can go right off to someone that cares.

[@Marpurrsa]

i would never be able to have as much empathy as op had in the final part of the story the moment she barged in the house i wouldve called the police, get them to remove her from my house and get a restraining order

[@haleylampley1056]

mad respect to OP AND his wife for both doing this. That's insanity

[@NorthzYT]

Gotta thank the former friends of his wife, otherwise we wouldn't be hearing this story. I do think the party prank on the ex was too much, not because she deserves an apology but because it probably broke her mental and ended up being more trouble than it was worth.

[@phatballs3570]

Sucks to suck

[@Number-vt1fl]

Nothing can convince me that this man doesn't love the drama with his ex.

[@josephskelatin3943]

That she started. He may be addicted to the drama but he wasn't the one who caused it.

[@PrincessAfrica3]

@@josephskelatin3943still…why didnt he just shut her out completely. This is just messy

[@PrincessAfrica3]

Ikr!

[@noahhabbershaw8177]

I mean she slept with his brother and ended there relationship. Someone he grew up with and shared all his childhood memories with. He didn't want the drama he wanted her to feel his pain. Seems like he's learned from his actions tho as he says in the end he hopes sue gets better

[@n.g.l.]

@@noahhabbershaw8177time is precious, is it not? His revenge plot is to use his precious time plotting to harm an already deranged person? They both lose.

[@hotspotsportal6699]

Originally, I thought the revenge would be, having the ex walk in on him and his fiance in bed.

[@yoqiraj]

I thought the same way💀

[@audrablue515]

OP's ex girlfriend is seriously nuts. They should have called the cops immediately to have her removed.

[@tachero0911]

☕️🏌‍♀️

[@bunniiluvin]

If my fiancé wanted to prank his ex that bad, I’d assume he was still hurting and wanting her. Weirdo

[@MrToubrouk]

And this is why revenge is useless. OOP invited drama at his wedding and drama came.

[@Argumentiveableish]

Yeah, everyone got hurt. I think secretly he dodged a future bullet from the friends though. They would have tried to control her as part of the group against the husband in another matter, or gotten her to cheat or cover up cheating of her friends, or caused problems out of jealousy, or even talked bad about him because they disagreed with some opinion he had when it's not their marriage. Those kinds of friends cause marital issues.

[@ZipMapp]

They seemed like really shtty friends

[@MrToubrouk]

@@ZipMapp Everybody is shit in this story except the Bride.

[@ZipMapp]

@@MrToubrouk Lol no, the protagonist is a perfectly normal person.

[@breadogi7118]

@@ZipMapphes kinda spiteful, it's very warranted but he did create more problems down the line, OP seems like a very emotional person.

[@speedergeezer]

I bet she's been playing the victim her whole life

[@Argumentiveableish]

Yeah, lol. These other commenters are the type to enable it because a girl cried and somehow think the guy is in the wrong after she invited a clap back due to her trying A SECOND STRING OF AFFAIRS WITH HIM NOW! No one seems to understand this. The mental breakdown was from receiving a little bit of accountability and her entitled thoughts not coming to fruiting as she can't manipulate and act like a victim till she gets her hypothetical fantasies fulfilled

[@speedergeezer]

@@Argumentiveableish if the roles were reversed those same people would say yasss queen..

[@MehKz2Snipah]

unbelievable those friends took the side of a cheater, its so easy when the trash takes itself out

[@Poisonwc]

OP was a fool for not calling the police to come get her when she first showed up.

[@macylouwho1187]

The witch who cheated with the brother obviously deserves all the pain x20 that she can get for ruining that family. That being said-that was just such a weird flex he pulled there. Really childish. I’m usually all for petty as hell when someone does something this terrible, but this plan was just…weird. Like a middle school kid came up with it. A grown man should have just called a lawyer and had a cease and desist letter sent, saying to stop contacting OP or else the law would be involved. That would have made his point clear and she never would have tried again. Direct, effective. Far less childish and messy.

[@andrewbrock4636]

Definitely. He created strings of attachment by the whole charade, and then dragged others into the drama. A bit unnecessary. If he just remained non contact with her as he has done for over 10 years, she probably would not have spun out of control. Vindictive behavior is not becoming no matter how justified

[@Reggy2000]

I wouldn’t have responded to her message, Nothing good can from communicating/dealing with someone like the Ex!!!

[@mathisntmybestsubject8440]

So... when an intruder barges in and refuses to leave, you _CALL THE COPS._

[@h4nkkwastaken]

NTA, If I were in the situation I would've done something even harsher and wayy worse then this

[@GuilFernandes]

OP's revenge was waaay to harsh. She was already feeling guilty. Just needed to say "No" and block her. At least he and his wife were suportive for her when she got crazy. Remember, people: don't do this to anyone.

[@zeomatrix3]

Searching the comments for this one took way longer than I thought it would. It's amazing the venom people carry for 12 years could be this potent that it would cloud their judgement to be the bigger person and just continue to block the ex from their live. He actively chose to engage in her message, had he ignored her she would have likely given up, but he indulged her and quite possible set off her clear mental delusions because of his actions. Just manic. To be so needlessly cruel for something that occurred so long ago. Two wrong don't make a right and if you're still this torn up over the actions of someone 12 years ago you should be seeking therapy. That kind of repression is absurd.

[@GuilFernandes]

@zeomatrix3 revenge is always harmful for everyone. Been reading some betrayal stories on Reddit, but also sucessful reconciliation stories too, and it shows how, besides all the pain they caused, Wayward Partners are still human. The world is so crazy these days that almost anything can become an excuse to dehumanize someone.

[@Only1199]

Like all cheaters, she so selfish, can't let OP be happy at all, no congratulation or goodlucks, just pure me me me, get back with me me me, I'm lonely, I love you blah blah blah. If she actually loved OP, she wouldn't have cheated on him especially with his own brother, if she truly loved him, she'd let him go and be happy and accept that he's gone, has a new life and wants nothing to do with her.

[@connorcowan7606]

OP's wife sounds is an absolute saint

[@prudencek7087]

This guy should not have gone for revenge. He let his ex back into his life by doing that. The revenge low-key backfired because it caused an uproar in his life just before his wedding which is exactly what his ex wanted when she contacted him. He should have ignored her completely and went on to marry his new fiancée and not give his ex another thought.

[@ranaoblivious2122]

Whether the revenge is justifiable or not, I think all of us can agree that revenge has consequences. For OP, it created a bad impression for the bridesmaids and made the ex become mentally unstable. Thankfully, OP handled everything cleanly and the wife has her priority straight. I expected her to side with her friend but fortunately she didn't. The redditors were also great for advising him to refer to his wife in dire situation.

[@saint037]

"this was just a one time thing" "it meant nothing, it was only for fun" "there we no feelings involved" I dont understand how this is supposed to alleviate the situation 😂

[@JohnDoe-tf5my]

The best revenge is to live a happy life. His ex still clearly lives rent free in his head.

[@iamnopsycho]

Honestly, I’d want revenge too. But maybe not that way. It ended up causing more trouble than it was worth.

[@Cainesugars]

If she wanted to blow off some steam then she should of done it with OP or waited till tomorrow so that she could go see OP and blow off some steam What she did was extremely stupid and disrespectful

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

Why dont op show his reddit post to the bridesmaids, just how tone deaf can they be Edit: Nvm, wife actually cut good losses with this one, there might be a chance theyre enablers or cheaters themselves, what a piece of work

[@gravity00x]

have you ever just once considered that not everything is as black and white as you think it is? ever considered that people dont want anything to do with someone who displays such psychotic behaviour? and no, im talking about the guy here. Its fair to say the cheating ex got what she deserved a long time ago and nobody really AT ALL is enabling a cheater in this story. What he did in retaliation was a different level of bad. its vindictive at the least. He needs mental help as much as she does. and his girlfriend should be ashamed of agreeing to being a part in all of this.

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

@@gravity00x black and white? Then how do you explain the ex' actions before the wedding? Also, she wasnt showing any psychotic behaviour UNTIL after what op did in retaliation/revenge, so there was no way to know ex was out of it in the first place. And if i was one of the bridesmaids and friends, i would ask more important questions like how is my friend's wellbeing and what tf is that hoe up to now and causing ruckus and unnecessary drama for my friend? Any sane person would question why ex isnt staying in their lane and that was ex is here until it all revealed she has screw loose all along, NOT focus on what they did at the hotel, IF that would force the ex to get back on her lane and not be a thorn to my friends wedding. What a friend who is sooo hung up on petty revenge; doesnt that say something about their stance and character? To throw away years of friendships for op's actions, which isnt baseless, and the hoe who MIGHT have potentially caused my friend's unwarranted thorn on her wedding day and danger when ex showed to be psychotic How would they know op's pain to say the high road of ignoring would be good to him? Who are they or you or us to say that? What a friend

[@Argumentiveableish]

Trying a new afair to ruin the cheaters victim's new life is NOT > shaming an Adulteress, who tried it again, and has clearly not learned her lesson, for petty revenge. It's petty, but not THAT petty considering the gravity of what should be a jailable crime.

[@gravity00x]

any sane person would question why op is being such a psychotic sicko. normal friends would laugh at you for thinking you are joking when you are plotting a vindictive revenge on someone who cheated on you twelve years ago. you do understand how absurd and mentally ill that sounds, right?@@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona

[@estebanatachaoarguedas6321]

Fiance's friends demanding him to apologize had to be one of the "woments" of all time.

[@flamingofumi2305]

Who else got annoyed at who ever was doing the speed run at the end cuz he couldn’t get outta there💀💀

[@gapgamer0954]

The ex will try to ruin your new relationship please be very careful women can be spiteful too

[@scarletm8992]

The whole “revenge” was so childish. People wearing his face and bringing a cake with his face? It just feels silly and something you’d do as a child.

[@TheJosman]

Honestly, yeah. I didn't even find it offensive or cruel, it was waaaay too childish.

[@gravity00x]

sounds super psychotic. guy is a nutcase

[@kisanpatel2185]

That’s the best revenge ever no need to apologize

[@angeloliver7613]

Absolutely disgusting to cheat with his brother. Even worse to try to mess up his life one day before his wedding. I'm not sure if I like this "revenge action", because she isn't wrong, ignoring and blocking her would be the more normal thing to do, but they didn't do anything illegal or harmed her physically or made nude pics or something. So, eff her.

[@asmkalrizion7078]

bruh, OP's fiance is based af

[@ajbleas]

The OP is either really bad at math, or is lying about this story.

[@Argumentiveableish]

Lol

[@KDannXII]

Revenge is best served cold. And that was cold AF

[@reggier2343]

this level of revenge is savage.

[@Homiloko2]

OP is a gigachad and found an amazing wife. Happy story.

[@ge4rhe4rt]

op has a good heart

[@TheCodeHunter]

honestly this was quite tragic but good on the OP and wife for at least trying to help her even though it is HER fault

[@Panwere36]

The fiance's friends really are proving they have issues with holding 304s accountable. It is proof that most women never grow past high school... and the ex is cray cray. That is a psychotic break...and hope that she gets real help.

[@FreshFish420]

She deserved it but you Gota be the bigger person. No need to sink to her level you got good one now just be happy for that. Tho what’s done is done I would not say sorry sorry has to be deserved not given

[@skeetskeet7041]

Tldr: I made a massive revenge plan against my ex instead of just telling her off. My wife’s friends were petty and left but the big problem was I almost broke her mind irreparably

[@gravity00x]

you forgot to add that he was still not over it and brooding vindictive revenge after 12 years. that guy is mentally ill and needs to see a psychiatrist or get himself evaluated for ASPD

[@renatolaranja52]

​@@gravity00xsounds like you're the ex ahahaha 😂

[@fiyahquacker2835]

@@gravity00x nah he's fine as is

[@denizkenger52]

@@gravity00x Nah the North remembers. Winter came for her.

[@HeavyBirdPilot]

He must be an amazing guy, and so lucky to have such a loving supporting fiance that hasn't screwed his brother yet.

[@shin-oni4223]

His EX is crazy, his wife's friends are probably secret cheaters

[@ill_steal_your_pbj7363]

Screw the people who want OP go apologize. She just tried to ruin his second wedding after devastating this guy years earlier. Where does she get off? Garbage friends of fiancé.

[@doie6696]

um. are fiancé’s friends friends with the ex or what? why does it matter that their friend and her fiancé collectively decided to seek revenge on his ex? now giving an ultimatum for an apology to the EX? like who’s your actually friend and whose side are you on?

[@alondra0714]

The ex deserved that humiliation and I’m glad the fiancé is backing him up. It sucks that they didn’t attend but at the same time I’m glad she chose her husband over her friends. It’s important that friendships be tested to see who is a true friend. I don’t know if I really believe that she was sorry or that she was CLINICALLY deemed mentally unstable but time will tell I guess. I could never bro I don’t have that much patience. They truly are a good couple and good people

[@estebanjulioricardomontoya4524]

the fact that if he didn't do all those shenanigans to her at the hotel and simply ignore her, they wouldn't be in that mess and her wife would still have her bridesmaid. OP is a piece of work if you ask me

[@theloreoverseer7106]

I think what happened was that after the prank, the guilt and sadness of her actions and the past caused her to have a mental breakdown, that’s probably why she was acting that way

[@SlideRulePirate]

_'What you deserve'_ and _'What you get'_ are two different things.

[@devhxh1558]

Now do they feel bad abt pulling a prank on his ex, that's break her... imagining OP is 37 and his wife is 35... Good that her bridesmaids could see this prank is stupid... And boycott it.

[@albuantonia8969]

This guy is a better person than I am. When she barged into the house I would've called the police so fast. I don't care if she's unstable or not she belongs to the streets