Ex-wife Cheats and Ruins Our Marriage, Begs Me to Stay. Years Later When I Finally....

Ex-wife Cheats and Ruins Our Marriage, Begs Me to Stay. Years Later When I Finally Start Dating, She Throws Fit and Faces Instant Karma.
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[@DraxXThanos]

Whats the purpose of this story ? Are we in a lecture about marriages ?

[@harrisonsonandalama8418]

😂 I scrolled down to read comments until the lecture ends 😂

[@foxx003]

Ong

[@mannyparrilla1807]

Personally, I liked it, tho I don't know how much to believe or trust it :v

[@Nick3618W]

Original poster likely processes grief by trying to understand the underlying cause of it and rationalizing what went wrong. Pretty boring stuff if you’re not into psychology or human biology, though.

[@G36645]

Money

[@yourdagan]

Most of this is not a story but a textbook.

[@BERKE-no1ds]

Haha, right. Makes me wonder if the dude read it on the internet or studied psychology for him to add those.

[@notting2640]

That’s how you know it’s probably real. A memory recount is usually dry and regimented, especially if coming from a male. All those filled with vivid storytelling and bombastic words are usually fake/AI.

[@Khaghaan]

Bro is talking of so many other things, which wouldn't be bad, if he has Structured it properly, but the story and info is all over the place.

[@Tetrad20]

I'm increasingly convinced these are written by AI, and passed off as authors from other countries ( second/third languages ) to cover inconsistencies.

[@BaeBunni]

@@Tetrad20 It's honestly not as unusual as you think for people to try using logic as a mask for pain. I definitely do it to as a coping mechanism during suicidal thoughts. Like I know a disturbing amount of ways to avoid being resuscitated.

[@Tetrad20]

@@BaeBunni Literally none of what you said references anything I was talking about.

[@wickedashley]

Thats why I DONT believe these are written by AI. This is how people who are experiencing trauma relay events. It’s an endless stream of consciousness. They side track and derail for seemingly insignificant details but those were signs to them. It’s frustrating sometimes when you’re in session with someone. But people spew information when they are upset without considering whether it makes sense to someone else.

[@chessieray1465]

I get that OP feels a way, but the lectured rambling was unnecessary.

[@alphabret6844]

Wasnt expecting a psychological lesson

[@GloriousRock]

Anyone else left because of the steer stupidity?

[@stephenlawrence554]

wasn't expecting a ted talk about this guy's theories on marriage and infidelity

[@chanemurphy]

what is going on in this story its so scattered

[@slendertataGames]

i wanted cheap soap opera gossip not some dollar store psychology lesson

[@terylsmile3642]

"If you're bored you're the boring one." I'll never forget this quote and how fundamental I feel it is towards how you deal with the changes in life in a healthy and moral way or a childish selfish and immoral destructive way. Also ppl who cheat talk about how the AP builds them up. I think that's another reason why it doesn't last or reality hits all too hard in the aftermath. Bc we always say do NOT get your validation and build up from another person. It's not real and isn't sustainable.

[@solomia5037]

they also never realize that the build up from the AP they get is off the base of the spouse

[@polishball_]

That qoute made me realize that maybe i should be a better friend…

[@Thaddius0]

this guys brain is similar to mine. its hilarious seeing it in youtube essay form LOOOL

[@Halfcocked1222]

What in the Dr. Phil is this pseudoscience horseshit about affair sex vs relationship sex

[@ryuzakikun96]

It sounds sensible enough, but I'm sure it's much more complicated than what is being presented. I don't know about dopamine vs oxytocin, but the analogy between skydiving and holding a newborn child makes some sense to me.

[@unknownbeast1386]

Holy sh*t, it is difficult to keep up with the story 😂. He is talking about everything except the main story😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mztweety1374]

I told y’all if you cheat, prepare for the consequences! If you didn’t have the integrity to stay faithful at least have the integrity to accept that they will move Tf on! Don’t beg for what you didn’t want in the first place

[@legiontepes3474]

This story is a rambling mess. Do not watch.

[@immer5680]

didn't know they started posting wikipedia narration on youtube now

[@JellyMyst]

Never heard of video essays, then? Lucky you.

[@TripnotizeVM]

This is a terrible story

[@lavonnewr]

Oof, and red pillers aren't a cult. Yes leaving, sigh.

[@amelialoyselle2123]

Not a story, just a boring lecture...

[@jsullivan649]

What was this? Other that pure bs mumbo jumbo from a couch “psychologist”.

[@trost667]

Blud's yapping

[@deadeye4047]

Cheating is immoral and evil. How anyone could value evil is beyond my compression. Also, that woman has a lot of nerve to mourning a relationship she destroyed.

[@jshm2]

He's talking a lot of garbage to convince himself. Takes away from the story

[@NeilTruick]

For the never married, the lecture at the end was understandably boring. For any divorced man who has been cheated on, however, this was pure gold and painfully true.

[@Carnibee]

No… no it isn’t. lol to reduce all women down the the actions of some is only going to hurt YOU down the line. There’s a strong chance this story was fake and only meant to push this rhetoric that will cause even more fighting between sexes. Please don’t listen to this garbage.

[@SelflessHero]

wtf is with this. It just feels like a lecture

[@stardustdeath2497]

I feel like I learned something today that I had no intention of learning at all but at the same time I’m highly glad that I did. 10/10 would recommend

[@fonandoozmando5961]

Erm..... Where's the story?

[@NONfinis]

This isn’t a story, this is watching a man turning into an incel.

[@csyrynco]

I'm glad someone said it because closer to the end, it got so misogynistic and was basically claiming "All housewives get bored if you leave them alone too long with everything they can want." Like mf calm down.

[@suisenzero1]

“Ex-wife Cheats and Ruins Our Marriage, so I Decided to Become a Orator.”

[@gamerkat1492]

My ex used to purposely pick fights with me when I caught on to what he was doing I would just answer everything with ok & which made him even madder LOL

[@maiadajuda6433]

I think I understand why the ex-wife cheated 😂

[@JellyMyst]

Can someone remind me where the instant karma happened?

[@mixermaddogs9416]

Where's the part to where she freaks out when he finally starts dating this is nothing but one big lecture and if I wanted a lecture I'd go back to school

[@siddharthchauhan749]

Op in the last 3 mins turns from Andrew Huberman to Andrew Tate.

[@AjenjoAnejo]

Not. Even gonna go through this one. Hate the way it is "put toguether"

[@foxx003]

@telltales you slipped up with this story

[@sweeety969]

"Teehee" 😂

[@---ef9yz]

I get why she cheated.If I had a partner who communicated through incoherent ramblings and lengthy articles i’d self destruct too.

[@NessieNice]

I had ex who doubt everything. Oh look! In this movie we are currently watching, there's this certain physics which is absolutely impossible. Let me tell you why, it's because blah blah blah. What was started with I no longer wanted to watch movies with him (yes, he debated even family comedy movies), turned to I no longer wanted to be his gf. Don't worry, I'm sure it's only him and other engineering guys can be more fun (everytime I complained him being a killjoy, his reason always because his engineering background. Nonsense I say)

[@C9316]

Way too much rambling in this one

[@adamxiong1817]

Bruh… this is a lecture. 😂

[@Grimreaper-sx2bu]

Yap season bro

[@gibsy4843]

Yap yap yap, this isnt even a story

[@MumwaW]

Damn this guy goes on about a lot of shit nobody asked about

[@KcLee677]

Why's do l needed to know about marriage counseling.. when's l am here for juicy revenge.. instead is like this

[@narutofan321211]

yeah... I came here to turn brain off, not to go to a psychology lecture

[@azerovictor9898]

How to unsee this

[@toadman5184]

I quite liked this, bit different, but change can be good.

[@lancemarshall7291]

Dude preparing for a presentation? Do we need a link to check his source and see if he got it right? Tf was the point of this story?

[@romulus-quirinus]

The story is all over the place wtf, i couldnt keep up at all

[@BeowulfOceanFalcon]

I'm so confused.

[@fernybern]

Yapping way too much like tf lol dude thinks he figured it all out😅

[@angelicakaufman7183]

Before anyone wastes their time it's not really updates it's dude trying to give a relationship seminar or something

[@clamiyep7008]

I actually stopped like 3 mins in an read the comments and actually got curious, so I continued the video and I think that was pretty intresting, not the drama you come here for and really confusing, but that way of thinking kinda slightly reminded me of myself some times (more summarised with short sentences lol) except I talk with myself 😂....and minus the whole science stuff, but I loved learning that

[@kidm0bius190]

why even include this one? did your AI gen mess up this time around?

[@travelblazer07]

Pin me -against the wall- pls

[@TheRealSparkplugTheFox]

Being single is fine, being in a relationship is fine, it all comes down to the people involved and how much work they're putting in. The grass is always greener on the other side because you're not watering your own lawn or the other people are fertilizing with shit. At the end of the day love is a choice and the people who say it's a feeling will always fail because feelings fade and it becomes easier to justify choices when they decided to stop trying.

[@LordChipmunk-sq8mz]

bruh what is this i got lost in the first 2 mins

[@GuardianHalberd]

so is this a reddit story or is the guy presenting his paper for PhD?

[@lComment.]

dude who wrote this is the king of yapping

[@Carnibee]

There is so much wrong with this guy’s rant that I can’t even begin to express lol to reduce the actions of men and women to one set of rules and facts that are applicable in every situation is a disservice to yourself. If you want to stay lonely and angry, believe things like this.

[@stefantanket8735]

let me guess... you're a woman and you cheated on a partner at some point...

[@boldnbrash7028]

Thanks for coming to his ted talk i guess

[@misfitlunaticmakytac5570]

immediate click

[@ChefDuJour78]

This story is stupid. Just friends but you want your kids to meet? Why? Then a few sentences later OP calls her his girlfriend.

[@MacClay8]

Least entertaining stream of consciousness I've seen yet. I really want to know who is running the bot that made this, that couldn't be bothered to look at the dude's verbal diarrhea and realize that it shouldn't exist in this format. Or did they think it would be funny?

[@Yee501st]

Honest to god the lecture was unbearable. It wasn't even insightful just tedious.

[@MMCV963]

The title does not reflect the story

[@Lucassie24]

Can i know the Background music's name?

[@BPJD2004]

Idk what y'all are complaining about, I liked this story. Poor guy, tho. Also, really enjoyed the mini-lecture. Everyone just needs to stop complaining and realize that different people write and process things differently. This guy was probably so up in his thoughts when he wrote this that everything just spewed out.

[@mason4318]

This story sucks ass bro

[@KauraKirja]

Hi

[@Z3RO_ANGER]

❤5th

[@gamesaurs1542]

I know cheating is bad but considering how bro here is just going on and on and on without getting to the point I can start to see that he may have had certain flaws to his character that warranted those actions. Not saying that cheating ISN’T bad but sometimes there are people who sometimes are to blame.

[@jadenmartin-qr3zh]

Not first :(

[@BoloJolo]

This is a comment.

[@Theoghutao]

Cool

[@CJROZZA]

First

[@ivanivanovic5857]

Lmao