Sister-in-law Almost Destroyed My Marriage by Trying to Convince Me That My Husband Cheated on...

Sister-in-law Almost Destroyed My Marriage by Trying to Convince Me That My Husband Cheated on Me, but He Didn't. I’m full of regrets, believing that my husband cheated on me.
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0:00 - Story 1
7:39 - Story 2

[@Maninawig]

Story 1: There's an old saying not to trust people who don't stand behind what they say, and this is exactly why.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Almost? No, girl, there's no "almost": she DID destroy your marriage. And you did it too, by choosing to believe her instead of your husband and hiding the source of the pictures from him. I feel bad for this man. He really needs to get away from all these women, OP included, so he can heal.

[@Maninawig]

OP definitely needs therapy, but I got to say that my ire is more towards his sister... I mean, how degrading and dehumanizing do you have to be in order to toy with your own blood relative like a Ken doll? Ripping him from a perfectly good marriage a d potential to be a father in order to play house with Emma and her kids?

[@PringerXYZ]

I mean 'almost' is correct. Jamie went ahead and file for the divorce but when everything came to light, its reveal that he hasn't stopped the divorce process but who's to say otherwise since he doesn't know how to feel yet but has been face-timing OP every night and talk/text every day. Strain or not there deff getting back together.

[@palamedes4740]

Lucky you for being an omniscient deity...oh wait, you just have the luxury of insight. Not many people would doubt the word of a close one who has proof. And saying pictures are photoshopped is the first thing a cheater would say. OP was between a rock and a hard place, have some sympathy

[@PringerXYZ]

@@palamedes4740 Like the original poster, you, and I and everyone in between. I'm just saying that 'almost' is indeed the correct term. I'm just saying by what has transpired there going to reconcile but even if they don't until its official 'almost' is still very accurate.

[@ayceinquisitor190]

lmao there is no such thing as "compromising" when it comes to accepting your child. you either do and love your kid or you don't and you're a bad parent. When you choose the responsibility of parenthood, you are gambling on what kind of human you get to raise. They could be gay, trans, disabled, have a personality disorder, ANYTHING!!! You sign up for ANYTHING with a child. That's 100% worthy of ending the engagement

[@alexuz93]

Story 1 is so sad. Because who wouldn’t believe pictures presented as evidence! It’s just a bad situation.

[@PsychoMachado]

I got cheated once. A guy told me about it and said she had messaged him that she had broken up with me for a week (and we were going out the day after that). When i met the guy, I asked for his phone. Checked the message and confirmed it was my Ex number. I needed to be sure it was her number, otherwise could be anyone. It's hard to think straight when you get on this kind of situations, but always check the source. If there are prints of the conversation, ask where is the original, since things can be manipulated. If the texts had been deleted, you get sus because why would somneone print the evidence and delete the original.

[@user-tl9bj9kh4v]

Especially from someone OP trusted so much.

[@DirtyDan77-]

Yeah with AI and stuff even me and my partner talked about this situation and would have to look deeper just to make sure the pictures were real if this happened to us

[@rotocoach5397]

With AI, pictures & videos are gonna be pretty hard to believe going forward.

[@woodah33]

it's 2024 and photoshop has been around since when? if you're going to believe a lie that easily then honestly you are doomed in this world

[@rotocoach5397]

Second story: She dodged a thermonuclear bomb with that guy.

[@brianarnold8666]

He dodged being stuck with a liberal karen

[@rotocoach5397]

@@brianarnold8666 You on Copium?

[@Mahh_Nery]

@@brianarnold8666he said he would abandon the child and let op do all the work, what are you talking about lol

[@emiliopalomo5124]

​@@brianarnold8666found the virgen lol

[@F40PH-2CAT]

​@@brianarnold8666they simply aren't compatible. Both dodged bigger issues in the future.

[@Kkell0x]

Story 2: The LGBT "Community" these days (especially on platforms like reddit) is toxic as hell I'm just sitting here asking myself how they are actually mad at OP for not noticing sooner. Not like she immediately ended a 4 year relationship because her beliefs didn't allow her to stay in that relationship. But who cares - hate on her for not noticing sooner. Some people really need to chill

[@palamedes4740]

Yeah jumping on OP like that was really uncalled for she learned better and did better there was no need to double that. Ain't nothing more she can do. Plus it takes away from the real issue

[@lillia2479]

Agreed with both.

[@starsage6926]

As a gay dude yeah alot of peeps on reddit are assholes but it come a from all sides of the pond whenever you post anything

[@bazdog4464]

There's two sides of the LGBT community. Us non toxic non crazy people and then the other ones

[@LinkTardis]

As a bi person im honestly ashamed of what some of the LBGT+ community is. Some of the cruelest and meanest people I have EVER met have been trans people.

[@palamedes4740]

The number of you who would gamble the wellbeing of your child because "it's just his views" is absurd and alarming.

[@calenlambert4726]

his views arent the problem though. people disagree on things all the time, that doesn't make them dangerous. I don't support lgbtq, but I can still be understanding and still be friends with those that are. why? because every friend i have does things i dont like. I assuredly do things they don't agree with as well. learning how to be patient and compromise are two skills that are lacking in this day age.

[@MrArielK]

@@calenlambert4726didn’t the guy said he would distance himself and if he has a gay child he wouldn’t do the parenting? That’s pretty indicative and different from your example

[@calenlambert4726]

​@@MrArielKdidnt op also say he attended gay pride meetings with his friends? I don't know how much of her story i trust.

[@kingdionysus1867]

​​@@MrArielKYeah, man's really said I'll emotionally and physically abandon my child who came out and entirely leave the parenting to my wife because I want none of it.

[@palamedes4740]

All you said is nice and all but it all stands on IF he'd do those things, hence why I said gamble. Why would I risk a teacher who could inflict harm to my child when there's others who won't?@@calenlambert4726

[@adcroc1954]

Is no one going to mention in story two that he literally accused her of HAVING CP?!?!?! Like no matter if you think she should have went to the school or not HE LITERALLY IS ACCUSING HER OF A DISGUSTING CRIMINE

[@cris4ever70]

Story 2: Dude is homophobic. Yes, straight up saying you would treat your OWN kid differently because of sexual orientation is alarming. And he’s a teacher. Always close to young and more insecure people. Story 1: Cheaters shall Burn in Hell but god forbid that woman believes her husband’s sister allegations (with manipulated proof) 😑 If anything, i just want them to be VERY happy in the future and shove it to the sister.

[@eaglewarrior7979]

Yeah because being gay isn’t natural.

[@bitchhunter3118]

Its proly more of a disgust then fear

[@Top-G35]

A phobia is a fear he sounds more disgusted,

[@Top-G35]

And for story 1 she deserves to be left alone she let her own insecurities ruin her relationship and another one. Husband is the biggest doormat of he takes her back

[@alext9320]

Bunch of linguists in the replies here. Just for the record y'all, -phobic as a suffix can mean aversion, dislike, or hatred as well as a fear. You wouldn't argue that a material that is hydrophobic must be afraid of water. It's almost like it can mean different things depending on context and the word it's attached to, and to argue semantics about it is not only incorrect, but annoying.

[@mistake465]

Oh this comment section is not it. I guess watching videos like this does melt your brain huh

[@Nonono7226]

He said he wouldn't even treat his own kid right. It's absurd to believe he wouldnt mistreat or ignore gay students.

[@MaryAX]

Exactly - like he _clearly_ expressed to her his intention to discriminate. Religious ideologues love strawmen; not agreeing with LGBTQ as a CONCEPT is NOT the same as disparaging LGBTQ individuals! Tbf, neither should be under their consideration since it's none of their mf business, but the former is the most tolerance I'm willing to give the religious, however they can never stay in their own lane. Lame despots should not be allowed to discriminate against anyone, especially when in a position of power. She did the right thing.

[@josecastro1452]

So he can't have an opinion??? He hasn't done anything yet she destroyed his life... That's the problem with me too, guy hasn't done anything and yet he is guilty of something

[@tiffanyryan3173]

@@josecastro1452lol she shared HIS post that HE wrote. Bigots don’t belong around kids. Hope this helps

[@josecastro1452]

@@tiffanyryan3173 but trans strippers do?? (I know that's the extreme opposite) his personal and private opinion is his... There must be things that you don't agree with the public yet no one is going to your work place to get you fired

[@bruhmomento3105]

Story 2: bruh,she left him over it and she’s getting shit for it by gay people? That’s why there aren’t many supporters.

[@F40PH-2CAT]

Hubby in 2nd story was honest....and, to be clear is _entitled_ to be anti LGBT. Everyone is.

[@onlittlecatfeet]

Screenshot and picture is easy to manipulate, never jump on conclusion before starting your own investigation

[@juanhaines7295]

Story 1 I hope the husband doesn't forgive op. She didn't even give him a chance.

[@nightworrior721]

It is a sad thing to happen. On the bright side the other marriage that was broken is on the mend. Op though will need to move heaven and hell to get his trust back.

[@Notthechosen]

I’m with you on this.

[@asnalem4391]

Why would you believe a cheater when there is evidence that came from his own sister. And the sister that acted as a best friend close to sister to her.

[@juanhaines7295]

@asnalem4391 it easy to Photoshop evidence nowadays.

[@ultimsing]

@@asnalem4391 I posted something similar on another reddit vid: Most of reddit post always says to thoroughly investigate the cheating before acting. To prove it. OP rushed to break up after 1 proof and no other confirmation. Even if OP didn't believe the Ex, she could have, at least, try to get the complete truth. But OP didn't. Honestly, after that, the Ex shouldn't get back with OP.

[@noobyman333]

I see a lot of people jumping on OP in Story 1, and honestly I see her as a victim too in all of this. Everything she did, would be the EXACT same advice I would see a lot of other people give if someone came to Reddit asking what to do when they got pictures from their husbands sister, especially if there was no history of friction. My only question is, what the heck my dudes? Yes she had a hand in it, and she owns up to it, but in reality she's a victim to, she's unfortunately a manipulated victim that did cause other strain but that's literally the same advice I'm sure half of you would have if we only heard the very start of the story, so once more, chill my dudes. Remember these were friends that have been around for years, Emma was abused and you think she knows the importance of a healthy relationship and not being that evil. This was her husbands biological sister, no mentioned friction between those two, and seems to be on chosen family relation with OP. You are told that your husband is cheating by his own biological sister with aforementioned good connections. You receive proof, which yes is faked proof, but honestly how hard are you going to scrutinize it? I know for a given fact myself, and almost anyone I asked on my friends & online friends list which comes from very different parts of life, that almost if not all of them would not comment on scrutinizing if it was photoshopped if it came from a very trusted party. Honestly, she owned it after she found out she was manipulated, she didn't try to assert herself as deserving of her husband back and was willing to let him go. She was happy he wanted to spend time with her but heck so would anyone, even most of you, in that situation if you were in her shoes. Heck the coworkers husband didn't doubt the pictures and that was someone who literally had 0 connection with her, so they apparently done well enough there was no immediate glaring difference. The couple are the only ones who have a fair shot at calling her the problem here and I'd bet even they would reluctantly admit that it was the sister in law and friend but still just need distance which is fine. Jebus just the determination to kick OP while their down and have arguably done the very advice she'd have gotten if she came to the same community with just the start, and is doing her best to accept her unfortunate part. I don't get this crowd sometimes, It feels like some of y'all take perverse pleasure in seeing someone hurt even in cases where its not as black and white & this is coming from someone who usually calls out Reddit for its sexist biased opinions.

[@KJ-so9og]

What you're saying is true, but i think she should have hired a PI or something to get further information before destroying two marriages. Don't see ops husband trusting her the way he used to , can't imagine how helpless he probably felt trying to convince his wife. Worst feeling when someone accuses you of something you never did and whatever you do to convince them dont work

[@noobyman333]

@@KJ-so9og I can understand your place but you gotta take a step back and just start from the very beginning of the story. If someone you trusted, and it was the dudes own sister no less, told you this with proof, what would you do? The pictures were convincing enough that they didn't seem photoshopped to a hurt person, not even the coworkers husband thought they were photoshopped. Most people would hire a PI if they suspected something was going on, but if they already have proof [ even if the proof is unfortunately in this case faked] then that's well, that and that's all I think 95% of people would need. We can claim that she didn't let him explain, but honestly the "It's now what it looks like" or "It wasn't me!" cliche is a cliche because its been used so many times. I think it's just so easy for the outsiders to judge but in reality if we started from the beginning and then she got proof, almost everyone would be satisfied with the evidence as a third party. I get it though I really do, we want to be angry at someone, we see an injustice and we want to bonk OP over the head saying "You should've known better, you got tricked!" but.. she just really acted from a reasonable place with the amount of evidence and the situation provided :(

[@TheMedicatedArtist]

A lot of comments are acting like any rando on the street knows how to use Photoshop, let alone convincingly. It’s not an AI program, it’s an art software that takes hours to learn and years to master. It’s easier to believe someone cheated than that someone jumped through hoops to manipulate evidence (both texts AND photos). I swear some of you are either extremely paranoid, unflinchingly pessimistic, or both; I don’t know which one is more pathetic.

[@Top-G35]

Yea if your husband take you back he is the biggest door mat

[@benrai3271]

Well this hit close to home since my lil sis is a lesbian, i support my sis in it cause theres more behind the story of why shes a lesbian. I dont have a problem with gays or lesbians or transgender cause when i tell them i am straight an have a kid of my own they always respect that.

[@sheepphees3350]

2nd story : Tolorate is a thing, mistrinting is another. I don't think that's normal most things about LGBTQ community but u need to accept and treat well others. Their lives their choices.

[@StoryWave123]

Oh, I know that this story is real, covered it too.

[@jeezursilly5252]

Story 2: Everyone is talking about how OP ruined her ex's life like he didnt post online about never respecting lgbt people. How is that gonna work as a teacher? Hes gonna meet lgbt students there, and as he put it on his fb, he isnt gonna respect them. So... dont notify the school? Of his own words? Okay yall 🤣 And just so we're clear, im not supportive of the lgbt community, but you wont see me here talking about disrespecting anyone when im tryna be respected as a teacher. He was pissed his girl ended his relationship and sprouted bs without thinking of the consequences. That was just stupid on his end. If it were ANY other teacher, it wouldnt be okay, but it should be for him? Yall are crazy 🤣

[@GloriousRock]

Fairly certain she made up half the shit that happen to ruin the exes life for not liking LGBT shit

[@emilyparisjohnson]

Being homophobic isn’t about politics, there isn’t a box on a voting ballot that says “we hate gays”. Homophobia is about human decency. Do you see people from the lgbtq+ community as equal human beings who can exist and live their life to the fullest just as much as you can? I wouldn’t want someone who couldn’t do that much in charge of my kids either. She didn’t cancel him, she notified the school of someone who could be harmful to kids (even if it’s just ignoring/not believing lgbtq+ kids when it matters most). In response they doxxed her and her life has been threatened. If that doesn’t show how indecent him and his family are, then I don’t know what can.

[@guryurfur528]

this is like the only sane comment on here about story 2...humanity is doomed

[@jestosebno666]

Second story, OP is an asshole. The guy also, but op us worse.

[@jeezursilly5252]

How are they an asshole? She did nothing wrong, just broke up with a dude because they had different opinions. That's not something to go bagshit crazy over. It was when her ex started posting comments she reported to the school to let know his real views (that he posted publicly). You're nuts if you think OP is the asshole 🤣

[@woodah33]

so we are going to disregard how someone ACTUALLY treat's a gay person and judge them on a HYPOTHETICALLY gay kid and call him homophobic? That is what's wrong with this world lol

[@Redpilled87]

Story #2 You tried to ruin the man's life over a political disagreement.But he's the hateful one? I don't agree with his beliefs, but you decided it was okay to destroy his life because of a disagreement and then came on here to complain about him doing the same to you. He obviously treated everyone with respect even though he disagreed with them politically because you didn't even know what was going on for 4 years. You lit your politics run your life. But he kept his private, and he's the one that was dangerous? Shame on you.

[@jeffreycardenas5553]

Bro you can’t be fr he dead ass said he would stop paying attention to his kid and shove him towards the mom if theyre kid turned out gay. Like that is messed up on so many level. PLUS DUDE IS A TEACHER?! I would not want anyone I know being taught by a dude like that and possibly be treated kids like shit because they are gay. The wife dodged a huge bullet and everything that happened after? Dude does not deserve to be a teacher or be around kids at all. Dude is a legit scum bag. I get your views are different than other but when you are open to treating others different by it, that is an automatic no and any argument you have will not cut it because of how you view others. Why would we view him as our equal when he doesn’t think others are equal to him.

[@Black-Rose12]

Please include either the OP's username or the link to the original post

[@cheeseinballs]

"I’m full of regrets, believing that my husband cheated on me. When he didn’t". u/[deleted]

[@Carnibee]

I’m glad he didn’t. Lots of people in these comments would just go harass OP.

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

Some/most of his stories are fake so there's no link.

[@VadBlackwood]

Uhuh, just in case she isn't harrased enough...

[@hanzelstormborn]

As a gay person myself, I think the 2nd story has been way too stretched. People in 20+ years of marriage ends up cheating so its not a big deal that 2 people in relationship never discussed their political / sexual orientation views and opinions because they already assumed the best in each other. There is no need to apologize nor there is a need for OP so take random internet opinions so strongly. It can happen to anyone. People advocating LGBT needs to tone it down because world doesn't revolve around sexuality

[@Carnibee]

I don’t understand most of these comments. It really shows how little people use their brains. OP didn’t call the school to “cancel” him, she called to protect the children from a teacher who very clearly would not do his job well because of his beliefs. By his own admission, he would be willing to emotionally abandon and give trauma to HIS OWN KID for believing something different instead of trying to help them or showing how who people the things he believes are compassionate and caring. He should not be in charge of the health of children all day, he would be terrible at doing his job. Not just to gay students, but female students who should “watch how they dress” so they don’t get attacked. Why are y’all in support of a monster like that??? On top of all of that, of course she shouldn’t marry him. Why would you marry someone knowing that your values are so different that it will 100% cause turmoil and lead to divorce or a lifetime of pain? I wouldn’t marry someone who has certain views that disrespect me as a woman, why should she be expected to? Back when I WAS religious, I broke up with a high school boyfriend because he thought abortion was ok. Now that I believe the opposite over a decade later, I would never date someone that thinks it’s good to take my rights away. This isn’t about tolerance, this is about safety.

[@calenlambert4726]

you say how little people use their brains, seems you don't either. people can adapt to the needs of their environment. I do not agree with lgbt, but I do not treat them any different than anybody else. I do not fear them either. While the man was at school, unless he actually showed discrimination to a student, he should not be reported. Should I report you for safety because of your discriminatory post?

[@Truhandle91]

u are sick

[@Carnibee]

@@calenlambert4726 he already admitted that he would discriminate against his own children. Literally what more could you want? His comment about women needing to take responsibility for being attacked is outright disgusting.

[@calenlambert4726]

​@@CarnibeeI would like to see him actually do something. op even admitted he went to gay pride meetings with his friends. This fact alone makes her story subject to some form of doubt. I wonder how much her story is true saying that his action was to actually go support his friends with views he disagrees with at an event he disagrees with.

[@Carnibee]

@@calenlambert4726 yes, let’s wait for him to psychologically scar a child before we do something about it. Let’s wait for little Susie to run up to him and tell him Connor touched her behind and hear him say “well maybe you should have worn a skirt instead.”

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

Story 2: why not do the same shit to the father that posted her address

[@01wonderful]

Story 2 sounds ao stupid, as if written by one of those alphabet soup people. Even apologizing to people in the DMs because she was in a relationship with a dude that doesnt agree with the alphabet mafia 😂

[@brandondiaz9755]

Just so we are clear I am gay For the last story Mm you both were not meant for each other and no it doesn’t have to do with him or his views on gays. First , he has every right to feel the way he does. (People can change) words are words did he attacked someone was he rude. It’s an adjustment for a lot of people regardless of how it’s every You seem like those people that are very very lefty . Like those people that get trigger of the person n txt to you says or does something you don’t agree with. I feel like there was a better way to approach things. You to have every right to feel the way you do But really contacting his job when he didn’t do anything. He was open to have a conversation which is more than most people do. He wasn’t right for what he did but it’s the domino effect.

[@Valkyeirepvp]

In story 2 this woman is so blind for having to get a accepting partner when she can't be accepting that is a leftist

[@MrArielK]

Dude is homophobic

[@tim.noonan]

First OP doesn’t deserve to get back with their husband strictly for their hashtag usage

[@DarthAndrew520]

Bro whats with the witch trials agaisnt OP in story2 ? How Could you not see this?!?!!? Bruh

[@gwenrichard7507]

It's because it's fake.

[@Rip_Anime2002]

Op?

[@ErinRider13]

Story 2: the fact that ex’s family are Trump supporters doesn’t surprise me at all. Also, I’m a teacher. Good for OP for reporting him.

[@jeezursilly5252]

I'm a Trump supporter, and very religious, but when a guy goes online posting his views publicly like he isn't a substitute teacher who will deal and face lgbtq children, maybe he shouldn't be in a place like that if he feels so strongly the way he does. He was all around aggressive about his views, and a huge hypocrite with his gay and trans friend, to go and say mean shit while supporting them. He's just all messed up.

[@Warmness]

@Mercyfool is first and everyone cares about it (if you dont you should, you have to)

[@Ohsnhapitsdenus]

Op 1 is annoying as heck

[@BiggusThiccus]

Story 2's OP is a pathetic hypocrite. "Oh yeah, I sent the school district his political opinions in an attempt to cancel him. But omg, I'm getting so much hate in my DMs!"

[@jerfle7787]

I agree. She ruined his career when he did nothing to anyone. Just verbal rant. How is it liberal teachers can push their political agenda to their students but conservatives can't?

[@SelflessHero]

Legit.

[@snowking8987]

Huh 💀

[@snowking8987]

Like shit talking ppl is gonna do anything 💀

[@mistake465]

No she warned school about a person who has a potential to mistreat kids based on sexual orientation, but sure continue to be delusional

[@asssalt7347]

Story 2: If OP is really gonna drop such questions on the first date, she's probably gonna turn off some dudes that she'd get along with. First impressions matter, and if part of yours is asking about someone's opinions on another group of people or your political leanings, that's gonna be seen as a red flag. I remember meeting a friend's friend one time online, and he immediately started talking about political stuff. I agreed with him on everything he mentioned, but I did not care for the guy at all because that's the first thing he talked about, unprompted. I'd say that the guy needed to get a hobby, but we were on Xbox Live, so he was already gaming (supposedly).

[@mad4manga435]

So you want him to accept everything you think, you can't accept him for him. Nice. That's why it is said don't give women postion of power they think with emotions. That guy was upfront ready to compromise for you because he loved you, but u want to go with cancel culture norms of society. I hope from bottom of my heart u get a lghdtv++ husband who wants to go out with someone else every other day.

[@smilygriffin1144]

If that poor girl from the 2nd post ever sees this, you were obviously in the right and I support all your decisions 100%. The guy and his family are nuts in so many ways that I gave up trying to write the out, they're just nuts. Hopefully you'll be able to get past all that crap and just enjoy life again one day without having to worry about them. A restraining order might help with that if they don't leave you alone, their actions are clearly harrasing and creating a fear of harm with the doxxing and stuff

[@sribashsarkar4382]

Story 2:- op is shit

[@snowking8987]

🧢

[@MKULTRA_Victim_]

Story 2: He's right 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

Yup

[@thetruesimplegrid]

Story 2: both are wrong. The woman: for canceling her ex fiancé for essentially different views. Note that he never said he’d abandon but distance, which is reasonable if you don’t share beliefs. My parents distance themselves from certain beliefs of mine too, doesn’t mean they hate me just means they show tolerance to different views. Man: essentially harassment and social media attacks. While she may have gone too far, he shouldn’t have gone on 2 different rants. He could’ve have shared his pov but not go on a rant. Verdict: both of these individuals are more entrenched in politics than anything.

[@Nonono7226]

If their beliefs are harmful and dangerous - cancel them. Imagine if he bullied his gay students? Or liberal ones? Lowered their grades, told students to bully them, or even drove them to suicide? At that point they need to be canceled.

[@nziro]

@@Nonono7226 discrimination is career ruining for teachers, ur so quick to censor people for putting distance between themselves and people of different beliefs

[@calenlambert4726]

​@@Nonono7226cancel culture is harmful and dangerous. you are a hypocrite at best.

[@thetruesimplegrid]

@@Nonono7226 yeah I’d say the same for more liberal teachers treating conservative students poorly for their beliefs. You know that’s called discrimination and it’s already a crime, so then what is your point here?

[@ruaridevlin4438]

@@Nonono7226yeah except those aren’t opinions they’re actions. cancel him if he does those things don’t cancel him before he’s done anything, it’s not hard. you’re just as intolerant as he is.

[@GloriousRock]

The guy is 100% correct

[@MrArielK]

I’m not surprised, this channel mostly posts fake stories about woman cheating, attracting the incel crowd, who also happens to be homophobic

[@ColinsTravels]

Story 1: convicting someone without solid evidence is so low. OP deserves no one, ever.

[@jo3xl]

So she canceled him

[@user-pf9yt7oy4d]

Story 2: I don’t really understand why people have a big deal when someone doesn’t accept gays. Everyone has their own morals/beliefs, & if it doesn’t align with yours, then there’s nothing you can do about it. I understand it’s such a controversial thing to comment, but it’s the matter of the fact. I will says though, the husband going on a whole rant about gays & everything is unacceptable, & that’s a big no-no.

[@texaslace2472]

I agree!

[@thetruesimplegrid]

The answer is simple, people don’t owe anyone understanding they ought to just give you tolerance for your own actions, personal beliefs and choices provided that those don’t conflict with the law and their ability to live.

[@Theyreallyfooledyou]

True. The LGBT mafia demand demand demand and are never bloody happy. I say this as a gay man sick to death of being lumped in with those lunatics

[@thetruesimplegrid]

That being said they were wrong both. Her for going to the school, essentially canceling him. Him for the social media attacks and subsequent harassment.

[@pixel7005]

@@texaslace2472 "Story 2: I don’t really understand why people have a big deal when someone doesn’t accept black people. Everyone has their own morals/beliefs, & if it doesn’t align with yours, then there’s nothing you can do about it. I understand it’s such a controversial thing to comment, but it’s the matter of the fact. I will says though, the husband going on a whole rant about black people & everything is unacceptable, & that’s a big no-no." - Hope this helps 👍

[@nikolicpavle5055]

I feel bad for the guy in the second story. Leaving your child is wrong, but he's absolutely right about everything else.

[@stardustdeath2497]

Story 2 is strange mostly for the reason “Some people has called this canceling but I don’t see it as that” like your literally doing what he told you happens and we as regular people see it happening daily. I understand his views and his side since even with other things we see what he was speaking about rather it be housing, government assistance, racism or anything. It’s ok to agree to disagree or to have a different view/opinion than the next person but it’s not ok to try and change the person to fit that view or shove it down their throats because of said view. So ending the relationship to me is kinda wrong since yall both grown adults but at the same time it’s not my business since it’s the same thing of Christians, well the bad ones that say you quick to go to hell vs the good ones that let you live your life how you want to live it. ESPECIALLY for update two as an example of where he liked and was friends with the trans person he knew. Yes he told you his view but it had nothing to do with him so he doesn’t care. So practically it would be a case of “Oh my sons gay, I don’t agree nor do I parade it but it has nothing to do with me so I don’t care, I’m still here though.” But hey I could be wrong, I’m just saying I’ve seen it happen that way many times

[@Carnibee]

No… no she didn’t “cancel” him. She decided that his values and hers are so different that a marriage could not possibly work. What would you have preferred, that they get married and live unhappily and fighting for the rest of their lives? What are you smoking?

[@nziro]

we live in a time where disagreeing is hateful

[@nziro]

@@Carnibee did u even finish listening to the story? She reported him to his job because she thinks his beliefs can be harmful to kids

[@fuchsiasecret120]

​@@Carnibeemeanwhile she literally tried telling his job to fire him for his views, thatvis what cancel culture is amd does, it ruins your life, takes away your job, and makes your life more difficult for simply having a different opinion

[@christophernoble76]

​@@Carnibeeending the relationship is completely valid but if teachers can hang gay flags in class then having a teacher who disapproves of lgbtq should be completely fair as well. from context clues, it doesn't seem like he openly discriminates because she said he has lgbtq friends. she should've left the school out of this.

[@ReddifyRabbithole]

Story 2 makes my blood boil, all of it.

[@clay5291]

Soft. Good thing homie bailed. If he has a specific belief then it is what it is. Should accept it and if not then go your own way amicably. She went crazy mode and tried to ruin his career over personal beliefs. Then cowards from his family and him. Girl had some other issues going on that she isn’t mentioning

[@meatballsubofjustice]

I'd disagree. The fiance said that he'd both physically and emotionally distance himself from his own child if they came out. If he is willing to turn his back on his own blood, then he'd absolutely be discriminatory towards queer students. As a teacher, you have to treat everyone the same regardless of race, sexual orientation, religious doctrine, ect. If he is discriminating against a certain group of people, then he isn't cut out to be a teacher, especially younger children where he is currently substituting at. His beliefs are his, but if they affect how he does his job, then there is an issue.

[@clay5291]

@@meatballsubofjustice I appreciate you being nice about your disagreement and not cussing me out. As a counter argument, I think that would be a good, but no teacher is perfect and treats everyone the same. There are reasons some kids are favorites and some get ignored more. He says that, but a lot of people act differently once they have your own kids. I have a similar agreement on the same issues as him, but I wouldn’t ignore my kid or bash them if they turned out gay. Can’t control people for who they are. But if there was a kid who wasn’t and what I agree with I would subconsciously be more favorable towards them. I know this is terrible to say, but I do believe people subconsciously favor those similar to them. Even if it’s a good thing or not. My biggest issue with her is she went out of her way to ruin his life over a simple relationship argument. She went hard to give money to groups that she never would’ve before then. It’s like that one argument shown how unhinged she is. Even if it wasn’t about people being gay or not, she seemed like a ticking time bomb. Just needed the right fuse.

[@EzOnMeTv]

Story 2: bro dodged a bullet

[@brianarnold8666]

Story 2; ngl, everything he said in the post is absolutely correct hopefully his life hasnt been too screwed up because of this Karen's bs actions

[@jeezursilly5252]

She didn't even do anything wrong 🤣

[@mriddley]

10:40 i always find people like this funny they claim people are shoving lgbt down their throats but then are silent when there are people on the streets with signs saying god hates gay people or posters of aborted fetuses trying to tell women what they can and cant do with their bodies but no someone wanting to come out and live their lives the way they want is shoving it down their throats meanwhile ingotta clean up all these cards someone keeps putting in stores with bible verses or listen to someone give me unsolicited sermons in the parking lot and have someone follow me to my car trying to "save my soul" now THAT is shoving something down someone's throat

[@shii5795]

Couple things on Story 2 1) Man, the Would Be Husband really dodged a bullet. This lady is a mess of sex/gender cult nonsense. 2) His dad needs to chill. 3) Clearly the Man was able to keep his personal biases from affecting his social life, which suggests he was able to do so with his professional life. 4) He needs to sue her for financial loss/professional damages if he lost his job.

[@Top-G35]

Story 2. He dodged a tactical nuke by that liberal woman dumping him. And she tried to destroy him 🤦🏾‍♂️ just leave she took the cowards way out

[@itremore]

Story 2. I'm sorry. He works at an elementary school where a child should absolutely not know their sexuality yet? It's an elementary school... If those kids are aware of sexuality at that age, that's grooming. I was judging from the comments and thought it was people who knew their sexuality but it's not. OP would be in the right to advise the school to keep and eye on the ex, but that's it. If OP forces the school to fire the EX then OP and others are in the wrong. He could be a great teacher for those ELEMENTARY SCHOOL KIDS WHO ABSOLUTELY SHOULD NOT KNOW AT THAT WHAT THEIR SEXUALITY IS. JFC, I thought the ex was something like a professor at a college or a highschool.

[@shortangel333]

But if a boy likes pink or something he might be weird about it.

[@goldyd144]

What about kids who have gay parents, siblings, or family members? I have an aunt who is a lesbian, and I've known this my entire life. It has nothing to do with grooming. He has to see kids in these kinds of scenarios and meet their parents. Plus, many parents won't want their kids around a homophobic and sexist man no matter if the kids know their sexuality yet.

[@itremore]

@@goldyd144 The kid still shouldn't know their sexuality. Knowing an adult's is a different thing from the kid knowing theirs.

[@goldyd144]

@@itremore Who said the kid has to know their sexuality? You're the one inserting that aspect in the scenario when it doesn't really have to be a part of it in the first place.

[@itremore]

@@goldyd144 No I'm not. I'm quite literally saying that a kid SHOULDN'T KNOW THEIR SEXUALITY. The OP and other people inserted that aspect in the video when they were worried that the EX might treat his gay students wrong... His students are ELEMENTARY SCHOOL STUDENTS.

[@christopherfejes2949]

Story 2 is an everybody sucks here one tbh. He has his beliefs and you have your beliefs; the fact that you punished him for "wrong think" and attempted to or ruined his career for it make YOU the AH. IF and ONLY IF his beliefs hinder his ability to do his job and simply teach the child and not grade/treat them different in the classroom because of their sexual attractions. This being the case; NO teacher should be THIS involved with a child when it comes to teaching. The instructor is there to teach, and the child to learn. I remember growing up that it was like finding a shiny pokemon in the wild when you saw your teacher outside of the school; then your parents had to explain they have their own lives outside of the school.

[@snowking8987]

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[@TheJosman]

Nah, she did the right thing. I've seen LGBT students being treated differently by teachers. If you're a teacher, you have to treat everyone equally regardless of their orientation, race, class, etc.

[@TheManbearpigbear]

Bro, he posted a rant in a public place to attack her. HE said that he treats gay people differently and doesn't want to be around them. He found out that his actions have consequences. If he doesn't like them he should change how he acts in the future, Or do you not like that when it's a homophobe? Get out of here trying to shame someone for reporting their creepy ex.

[@guryurfur528]

@@TheManbearpigbear spittin facts here

[@Mercyfool]

I,am first

[@Maninawig]

Honestly, most wholesome comment here

[@Rip_Anime2002]

Nah my comment got deleted bc I don't support LGBTQ+ or whatever it's called

[@Rip_Anime2002]

Idc if it get delete again I was just trying to see what gay ppl will say about my comment 😂

[@Rip_Anime2002]

Every one here is supporting LGBTQ if not hes comment get delete

[@banespeace9079]

Story 2 is just a attention seeker. Minor details also constantly change

[@utkarshanegi481]

Story 2- Kids coming out is something that isn't common but rate since not every second child is gay or lgbtq, until and unless you've been wired to actually grow your child tp be a gay person. Also kids in elementary school should be wayy away from anything related to sex and sexuality, how the hell is OP reporting her bf to jis elementary school when kids don't have to do anything with sexuality but only to studying. The OP feels like she really gonna force her child to come out as a gay and has planned it from eary on cause again beinf gay aint so common, its rare. Also todays society has made Lgbtq agenda so toxic where no one can have any or literally any kind of opinion about lgbtq until and unless the opinion supports theur beliefs blindly or you'll get cancelled. Sorry but parents shouldn't ignore or neglect kids who come out as gay but theg also should grow kids to be "gay" and not normal. Parents should let kids be kids and let them be, however they want to be.

[@penguinpingu3807]

Story #1: Good luck to the op, the damage is done but hope she at least try to repair her relationship with her ex. Story #2: This op deserves so much better. The hate she got some both sides. Even after clarification why, people in the pro lgbtq+ side is still hating on her. Even she began "fixing her mistake" but it's not enough. These people need to be more understanding or else you can draw people away who are ready to the swayed. Yes, I support the lgbtq+ cause.

[@beautifulstrange7057]

There’s something evil about trying to destroy someone’s career over their opinions. The worst part is that these people aren’t doing it out of a sense of justice but out of a need for validation. Homophobia isn’t cool, but as far as we know, the boyfriend never acted on it in school. Op2 is a total piece of sh!t

[@mistake465]

He may not be homophobic to kids right now be there's no way to tell he wouldn't be in the future. Better deal with it right away before any damage is done

[@beautifulstrange7057]

@@mistake465 it’s not right to punish people for stuff they haven’t done. the boyfriend has been openly supportive of their LGBT friends. She ruined the dude’s career to virtue signal.

[@SelflessHero]

I mean, she literally did try to cancel culture him.

[@MrArielK]

As she should, a homophobe shouldn’t be a teacher, statistics says that 12% of students aren’t hereto

[@BubblegumGirl366]

cancel culture isn't a thing. Freedom of speech is a thing but when you say hateful thing you should expect to have consequences.

[@eaglewarrior7979]

@@BubblegumGirl366it’s a thing you impicel and the lgbt community has basically become so degenerate that the original protesters wish they never started the movement.

[@arhael3594]

Story 2. I could stand behind the guy, if it was about trans stuff, where children get convinced that they are born into wrong body and the way to fix it is by abusing steroids and mutilating body. But this is about being gay, it's a simple sexual attraction.

[@MrSam2497]

Man worries about his family and continuation of his bloodline like thousands of years before? Oh the horror

[@analyticgeometry9014]

Story 2: everyone is an AH. Especially the people sending hateful pm's to OP.

[@bazdog4464]

OP is not an AH

[@analyticgeometry9014]

@@bazdog4464 each to their own I suppose.

[@z69b]

@@bazdog4464yes she is

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

In story 2 ateast he was honest and most of his points are valid. The only difference is that I wouldn't treat my future children differently or anyone with that life style.

[@edgar1782]

Story 2 totally sounds like something made up by a gay man. 😂😂

[@MrArielK]

It’s is, made up, but mos likely by a bot

[@Destructor45098]

I hate the op from story 2, she's like: "oh you don't have my political beliefs? I'm gonna report you" And to those who say he's dangerous for kids in elementary, a kid never becomes gay if you don't talk about gays

[@BinNurEmma]

With that logic, if you would put a kid in a experiment where they would grow up surrounded by gay people only, do you think they would grow up as gay aswell And if thats the case, shouldn't that extent to basically every aspect of their personality? Cause then we could just put children in environments where they are only exposed to the hobbys/belifes/likes their parents approve of.... except some parents are actually trying things like that (homeschooling/ only allowing approved friends/ restrictions on internet usage/ etc..) and there are a lot of cases where these kids retaliate against their parents, because they still develop different beliefs then them.. Or think of all the people who left, for example, the jehovas witnesses. They grew up in an environment where they where only taught and shown a specific kind of beliefs and are not in contact with the rest of the world.... With your logic nobody should be leaving them then, right?

[@jaquelinegarcia119]

Are u gonna ignore the part where he said OP had CP??

[@mistake465]

Tell you didn't do basic queer history research without telling me you didn't do basic queer history research. Also, my dear, I assure most lgbt people don't want people like you around them anyway even if you were accepting. The world doesn't revolve around the straights™ anymore and it's actually good for everyone, shame you're so small minded you can't see it yet.

[@doomedfromthesmart]

Story 1 and 2, ladies don't date, you have no luck ve and both are the reasons dating is dead. Story 2 is almost satin and should burn.

[@sohamjaiswal4444]

Homophobia❌️ Common sense✅️

[@sohamjaiswal4444]

@@edgar1782 that's what I am implying

[@TheJosman]

I agree, say no to homophobia and have common sense. What people like is none of your business

[@shortangel333]

Yeah! Say no to homophobia. Have common sense.

[@dravenocklost4253]

Hoo boy, story 2 that guy was so right. Also a relationship needs strong unity so you need to have a partner thats pretty unified in your views. You shouldnt have a divisive partner

[@Artharia]

Story 2: Jesus fucking christ, so he started bitching about treating others like shit so he made a false accusation against op? wtf

[@BelgotLeons]

If you get threats call the cops unless you have something to hide too But he can also sue back for damages and slander having an opinion is not illegal You'll never erase all the bigots and racists instead of giving them attention just use the law ? Unless again you have things to hide