Ex-wife Left Me & Our Kids for a High-paying Job & Divorced Me After We Moved Into a New City,...

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@DarkEinherjar 2 ай бұрын

If your partner calls you "too sensitive" because you're worried about A FAMILY MEMBER WITH LEUKEMIA, drop them like a bad habit.

@Axe064 2 ай бұрын

She is trash, but is it bad that I sorta get her point of view? Like, she had her life planned and had to put it on hold (as well as miss a lot of opportunities, if i had to guess) cause the husband had to stay with his dad for _years_. Of course t isn't his fault but I can see this kind of tension ruining someone's marriage over time. Ideally it shouldn't, but still. Obviously what she did was obviously wrong but ignoring all that and just looking at the situation at the start, I would think its alright if she decided to divorce him just based on that or move away like she did at the start. Staying together while resenting him wasn't helping anybody.

@DarkEinherjar 2 ай бұрын

@@Axe064 She shouldn't have gotten married or had kids then. Once spouse and children enter the equation, the person has a duty to them.

@Saphira1001fanfic 2 ай бұрын

@@DarkEinherjar Nah, life throws all kinds of curveballs. Family friend in construction got hit in the head hard and was in a coma for about a month. When he woke up he was a different person, he became verbally and physically abusive. It wasn't his fault, the head injury had damaged his brain. You vow in "sickness and health" but for her and her kids sake she had to divorce him.

@Saphira1001fanfic 2 ай бұрын

@@Axe064ya, in the first part up to the divorce papers, I thought "neither is the a$$hole" as it is just one of those things where a compromise isn't possible.

@densegunial3674 2 ай бұрын

Sorry but a trash whote behavior that is very easily manipulated by other people so no trash is trash@@Axe064

@thefitnelbowski 2 ай бұрын

Find it hard to belive that the wife wasnt cheating during their LDR

@chrisj.1608 2 ай бұрын

She probably was like 99.99%

@LunaP1 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. She was so quick to throw everything for an unstable job and a bunch of criminals, I wouldn't be surprised she cheated too just because "her friends influenced her to it."

@benzemamumba 2 ай бұрын

LDR - Load Data Register (ARM Assembly).

@ArabicLover101 2 ай бұрын

This is something I was wondering about because she was away from her husband except for alternate weekends.

@Nysvarth 2 ай бұрын

@@benzemamumba Long Distance Relationship

@blackfire6009 2 ай бұрын

1) she didn't hook up with strangers "after" the divorce I can guarantee it by the company she keeps. 2) if she can be "talked into" a divorce by a group of harpies she knew for less than a year, divorce was indeed the right choice, god forbid she gets "talked into" something else (although she probably "was", hookups and all) 3)this woman went full on hookups every other day the moment she got the chance? And that's only what she was willing to tell you. The americas are so done

@ArtsyShikigami 2 ай бұрын

My first thought when the friend group was mentioned was "The Sisterhood of Traveling Homewreckers"

@tfdsu Ай бұрын

I'd went for "The Sisterhood of Traveling Degenerates" or "The STDs".

@ArtsyShikigami Ай бұрын

@tfdsu clever, very clever

@ianmoritzplatapino3684 2 ай бұрын

I bet when op has a new partner his ex will go full drama queen again

@Direwolf216 2 ай бұрын

Emma never 'drifted apart' from Melissa. Melissa tried for years to recruit Emma into her lifestyle and finally succeeded. I'm sure Melissa and her group had 'dates' lined up for Emma the day she got to the new town. And Emma was hooking up long before she divorced OP. After getting pumped & dumped a few times, Emma knew that none of these guys would commit, so she came back to her backup plan (OP). I hope OP doesn't make the mistake of taking Emma back 'for the kids'.

@SiriusBMermaid 2 ай бұрын

Men or Women, if you keep looking over the fence thinking that grass is greener then you should not be surprise when you find out first hand that it's not. But the fact that she thought that her ex was going to take her back after everything she put him through is crazy.

@MsHolley350 2 ай бұрын

Agree. Ppl that think the grass is greener should try watering their own grass!

@MetalSStar196 2 ай бұрын

The grass is only greener because of someone else's shit that's feeding it.

@giorgiomauceri410 2 ай бұрын

The bad friends were't the only issue. They exacerbated everything, sure, but she was already acting for herself and not for her family. Even before going to the city (where she was swallowed by that toxic group), she brushed off her husband's problems, kept secrets, got angry at her husband for not jumping with joy when he heard that she had gotten that job, and then chose that new career over husband and family (knowing full well that this would've put even more strain on her husband and on her kids). That's why those toxic friends found it easy to manipulate her: she was already going down that path. Thankfully she improved since then, but not before causing tons of emotional damage.

@wezzy9437 2 ай бұрын

Wrong. Bad friends are 100% the reason his wife changed so drastically. Single women keep women single because misery loves company.

@ayisdone 2 ай бұрын

If you're still friends with a cheater YOU A MAJOR RED FLAG

@deni140492deni 2 ай бұрын

10:00 she misses the comfort and stability, she doesn't misses you

@benzemamumba 2 ай бұрын

Bingo.

@Rrezz 2 ай бұрын

The fact she started going on dates right after the divorce shows how cooked she was. People who actually cared about the relationship or the other person would need time to process their thoughts and feelings before dating again.

@RandomTrinidadian 2 ай бұрын

Who wants to bet that if the company wasnt lying to her, Emma would not be crying to come back. The B chose her friends and job over her own family. She dont deserve a second chance. As for the ex inlaws... F**k em. Where were they when their daughter filed for divorce???

@rogueshark23 2 ай бұрын

Nah Emma is just very stupid and naive into listening to all that crap. If she had better judgement she would still be married.

@blackfire6009 2 ай бұрын

That's actually a good point about the in-laws

@LunaP1 2 ай бұрын

@@blackfire6009I feel like those in-laws have a bit of golden child syndrome going on if they're willing to blame OP for the divorce when SHE was the one who initiated it.

@sthrcnx 2 ай бұрын

Single women, keeps each other single. And it's really convenient that we never heard about Melissa and her harpies again, right after Emma worlds been imploded. Lol.

@raizen21ss56 2 ай бұрын

Yeah her hooking up with the other dude's wouldve been the deal breaker

@ericsaint-maximin5277 2 ай бұрын

"The grass can only be greener where you water it" (not my quote and I'm not sure if I said it right) During those few months she thought the lifestyle of Melissa&co was better, without realising it was "fake grass covering a rotten soil", and didn't understand she was neglecting her own 'fertile one' until it was too late...

@Mr.Paticles 2 ай бұрын

She was probably talking with the succubus long before she moved out. Filed work at the city the succubus lives without talking to OP because she knew he wouldn't leave and it gives her an opportunity. There is no such thing as a coincidence. Once the lights and glimmer of the party is over the hangover is all that is left. If the succubus can talk your partner out of a relationship, then it would be a 100% right to leave that person and not look back.

@TheLeviathan1293 2 ай бұрын

13:39 NTA because he just snapped and wasn't trying to be cruel but it did have that effect and it was indeed harsh. His choice what to do after that.

@PodcastStories123 2 ай бұрын

**Climax:** (09:16) The climax occurs when Emma calls the narrator, confessing that she made a mistake by divorcing him and wants to reconcile. She explains how her lifestyle with her new friends and the influence of Melissa led her to glamorize their choices and pursue the divorce, which she now regrets deeply. This emotional confession and plea for reconciliation bring the story's tension to its peak, as the narrator must confront his anger and frustration while deciding whether to give their relationship another chance.

@machinesdiscovery 2 ай бұрын

If your partner accuses you of being “too sensitive” because you’re worried about a loved one battling leukemia, let them go like you would a bad habit. Some relationships aren’t worth the pain when what you need is empathy and understanding.

@ArabicLover101 2 ай бұрын

No, when the father is the sole guardian and has been for the past 4 months, she was barely there at the very least; if he filed for full custody, he might have had to get child support. What she did was unfair; now things aren't working her way, and she wants to come back?

@Playeryewen 2 ай бұрын

Yeah the usual my spouse is selfish story but to a point where she treat husband like just to end up regretting it, is crazy

@smorphous8928 2 ай бұрын

her bad decision making did end up breaking her marriage apart and it's slowly being fixed. She learned a valuable lesson, never trust her "friends" those types of people can never hold a relationship for at least a year so they're a bad influence on her.

@FreedomFinanceFun 2 ай бұрын

If she made a little bit more money, she would have never looked back

@toridale 2 ай бұрын

People who have never lost/been close to loosing a parent can be so selfish sometimes. I've seen so many partners be so nasty to the one loosing someone, it's infuriating. They just truly don't understand the gravity of the situation.

@dillanharris6654 2 ай бұрын

It sounds like no one in this marriage could communicate 😅

@GT-jg1ps 2 ай бұрын

funny she wanted to move and now youre divorced and she lives nearby

@Chuvachoochoo69 2 ай бұрын

LoL at OP thinking that those men are innocent preys…. They are as bad as his ex wife’s friends 😆

@johnnyhall9154 2 ай бұрын

First of all, doubt she waited for the divorce to start hooking up. Second, she didn't admit the real rwason for all this, she was bored and didn't want to support OP taking care of his dad

@Leglessolas 2 ай бұрын

Career woman prioritises work over family and treats the people she’s supposed to love like dirt in pursuit of her own narcissistic desires. Imagine that

@doncjack5913 2 ай бұрын

12 years, and yet she had no mutual respect for the relationship and decided to abandon everyone (OP and her own kids) and everything because she felt stuck. Well, she deserves nothing and needs to know the consequences of her actions. The fact she was already screwing around after a month from the divorce doesn't earn her the right to come back like nothing never happened. She probably had a side piece, and they dumped her, so she's now crawling back because she really didn't have a place to go emotionally. He stayed faithful even after the divorce.

@noidentity2743 2 ай бұрын

I will never blame her friends, because she should have known what's the best for her and her family

@wezzy9437 2 ай бұрын

Single women keep women single because misery loves company.

@TheBluePhoenix008 2 ай бұрын

My father used to be the sole earner for us back when he was alive, and he had no problem living in different cities than us for jobs. He moved a lot, I suppose because he found better opportunities or got promoted, and my family had no problem just living with our grandparents back in his hometown. I don't see why this story couldn't be resolved like that.

@LunaP1 2 ай бұрын

Because the ex-wife didn't want to resolve it like that. She rushed headlong into a job she didn't research first and look where it got her. Your dad was intelligent, this woman was not.

@schmalzilla1985 2 ай бұрын

I'm skeptical of your dad having zero problems with being separated from his family. Like none at all, like he missed his family kind of problems. I've known many men and women who at the very least hated the fact that they were missing milestones that their family was experiencing without them, hated that they couldn't just do this or that with them. I've known many service members that dealt/deal with this very same scenario, and they almost always end with a bitter divorce. Sounds like you and your family were an exception not a rule. Either your dad kept a lid on it and muscled through these troubles for your benefit, or he really didn't care about any of you, and stayed in some form of contact because of whatever reason.

@spectraleyes 2 ай бұрын

Holy shit these shaders are burning my eyes trying to read the subtitles

@Stormyang4358 2 ай бұрын

That's a tough situation, I'll be honest. These types of scenarios happens regardless of genders actually it can happen to anyone. It's sad that both parties never came to terms unless one side ended with a bad result. People can't tell what the future may hold but what matters is: to keep moving forward. If the OP's wife knew what happened in the future, she'll be like "ok, I won't leave and stay with the family". However that's not how it works. People already moved on without you. Another scenario would be, if the husband, his parents and kids stayed but needed financial help (hospital bills, and other problems). The wife is away and willing to support them then her actions were right for her to be there. However there are consequences of the wife's actions because she is lonely and made poor choices to follow her friend's advice which is unsettling. Good deeds were kept but actions were unacceptable. This story can relate to anybody because we are always presented with opportunities. Now the question is are you willing to take the opportunity or are you willing to sacrifice in order to gain something in return. The athletes, singers, actors and many others have to endure these trials. Some may succeed and some may fail. Opportunity is difficult for us to choose and understand our actions. Once we make our decision, we have to accept the results and the outcomes of our actions.

@arsinist7663 2 ай бұрын

She divorced you and then hooked up with random guys for a month afterwards. Nope. She stays gone.

@richardcox4413 2 ай бұрын

This was a completely toxic relationship all round. This woman is an absolute hypocrite at best, and was probably suffering from a mental illness. As for the ex-in-laws, if they were harassing him, block them as well. He should probably not have offered to meet with her, or listen to her excuses after the divorce. It was much better for the children to be out of that situation and he was right to file for full custody. However, I do hope that their co-parenting will work out going forwards.

@johnarredondo7259 2 ай бұрын

Why do people think someone would want them back after getting ran through? Fuck out of here with that. The truth hurts

@johnhoward2460 2 ай бұрын

So you must be raking in the child support. You dam well if the guy did this, he would be paying out the butt in all sorts of support.

@MisunderstoodAssassin 2 ай бұрын

It’s single women that keep other women single.

@rogueshark23 2 ай бұрын

The ex found out the hard way thet the grass isn't always greener on the other side. LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. So her pathetic apology and excuses are just laughable and she allow herself to be influenced by toxic friends. At least she acknowledged her stupidity snd i wonder if she dump her so called friends.

@dustinswiney1474 2 ай бұрын

10:38 thats illegal in many states...man these ai need to learn

@kennycai8695 2 ай бұрын

All I will say about this is when it comes to relationships: pay attention to everyone your partner associates with, cause they can influence your partner for better, but usually for the worse. That toxic nest of hens that OP's wife associated with have absolutely gotten to her, and while I don't like ultimatums (cause that is a tool narcissists love to use to get their way), OP should have set boundaries earlier to prevent their toxic influence from spreading. What I don't like about this story is that OP's ex-wife has not explicitly said she has cut ties with that toxic nest of hens. Even if she says she regrets breaking up the marriage, the fact she is still in contact with them, that alone should be enough to pump the brakes for any reconciliation efforts. I know I sound harsh, but severing all ties is the only way to prevent any more drama from getting in the way of any co-parenting agreements. Until the ex-wife actually does that, the trust is simply not there.

@BeholdMyStrength 2 ай бұрын

What's wrong with an ultimatum? "Your friend group is a bunch of toxic wh***s, and they're going to wind up poisoning you against your family. You either need to leave them, or leave us." The result would have been the exact same as what happened, only gotten it out of the way sooner and saved 4 months of anguish.

@theseeker7711 2 ай бұрын

She wasn't trying to keep a lid on her temper.She wanted those fights so she could justifiably"free" herself.Women don't like accountability,you have to be the bad guy or share a big enough portion of the break up

@Detector1977 2 ай бұрын

There is NO WAY the wife wasn't cheating before the divorce...

@ArtShow85 2 ай бұрын

She chose those “friends” and job over you and her family. She got ran through with hookups and now that her life seems to be falling apart she wants to come home like nothing happened. She’s afraid of the consequences of her actions

@blackfire6009 2 ай бұрын

Yeah honestly getting ran through seals the deal for me. Sure they were technically separated and stuff (first off given her quickness of getting into it, I do not believe for a second she waited after the divorce, I rather think the divorce was brought by the train she got ran on her) but now she comes back and asks for a second chance after having "scratched the itch" or whatever, this is peak selfishness. I don't like the term used goods being thrown ariund sometimes, but tell me if this doesn't feel like asking him to put on someone else's dirty condom

@wezzy9437 2 ай бұрын

Single women keep women single.

@blackfire6009 2 ай бұрын

@@wezzy9437 it's not the fault of the friends

@bethanderson7467 2 ай бұрын

How long until she cheats again

@Stewbizzy05 2 ай бұрын

The in-laws are trash and they raised a follower but they are mad at OP for telling her the reality of the situation. So your daughter was influenced by hoe life and signed up for front row seats. Then realized it wasn't sunshine and rainbows and now wants to fix her stable relationship with the spouse that tried to warn her about her gold digging friends and their immoral meal tickets. On top of leaving him with his sick parent and with the kids. Yeah the in-laws in my opinion had no right to even be upset in the first place. He just told her what they should've been telling her actions have consequences.

@jessedunn9835 2 ай бұрын

So no way she went the time moved out and on without sex. Lol She might not of started hooking up right away but defiantly had been not only doing so before deciding to get devorce paperwork prepared and that takes time, about as quick as it gets for extra cost is around a month fyi, she had been comfortable with her hookups to decide that ridding herself of the marriage to allow her hookups the ability to proceed as a relationship she had decided to serve the d papers she had already had prepared. She expects him to ignore her true colors made abundantly clear by her and her having a mich higher body count because he had loved her dispite it not being returned and taken for granted tell dismissed by her because it was dumb shit of her to do. He already should have had full custody of kids as he can allow her visitation as kids and her want only keeps her from weaponizing kids against him or filing for full custody later to rake him for child support payments to live easier.

@jleftwing9771 2 ай бұрын

Single women keeps relationship women single

@shawnbrooks5293 2 ай бұрын

Single women keep women single

@chaccaron4321 Ай бұрын

“Don’t worry you’ll stop missing your kids soon.” Imagine taking this advice and respecting the person who gave it to you lol.

@standardgigachad3297 2 ай бұрын

THE WALL REMAINS UNDEFEATED

@mr.impossible7170 2 ай бұрын

I’m not very sure but I think that this is a reupload because I know I heard a story similar to this one but I don’t remember exactly where I heard it

@ivymerritt7577 2 ай бұрын

I have little sympathy for the wife. She was selfish and insensitive to her husband's father's illness. And she clearly has issues to keep a snake like Melissa as a friend.

@uberspaz7484 2 ай бұрын

This sounds oddly similar to another story on this channel, what with the wife being influenced by a crappy friend and their other crappy friends only to come crawling back.

@deathcorereaper5352 2 ай бұрын

meh both in the wrong

@Bababooey887 2 ай бұрын

Divorce should only be for;Adultry, not meeting intimate needs, drug or alcohol abuse, or physical abuse/mental.

@HurBenny 2 ай бұрын

Unless she finds a magical way to erase the taint of the other mEn slept with with since, she should not be allowed back into OP’s house, it’s not her home anymore.

@glenmassey3746 Ай бұрын

Parents of the ex-wife never gave her a dose of reality.

@chrisstaples6821 17 күн бұрын

The in-laws can do one, don't defend someone in the wrong even if they are family, family should be held to a higher standard

@henryfebrino1873 Ай бұрын

Thats women's idea about being independent and powerful

@user-qn3eo4hx7z Ай бұрын

Nope, she was having an affair. She found out the AP was simply a cat hunter then she tried to crawl back.

@maxpowers9129 Ай бұрын

She was hooking up with a lot of guys but couldn't get a commitment and is afraid she can't do better than what she walked away from. She also didn't have as much money as she thought she would get. That's why she wanted to get together again. If she were rich and could find a better man she would have divorced him all over again.

@BW022 2 ай бұрын

OP is a fool. Your goal now is to protect your children and every other consideration needs to be secondary Understand that your wife (and her parents) are now a direct threat to your daughters.. If you buy into your wife and her parent's BS, in a year you'll be divorced just now with your kids more traumatized, your chance at custody blown, and you paying child support and alimony. Go for full custody while you can and stop seeing or talking to your ex -- have a family member or friend manage hand offs, don't let her in the house, have your lawyer tell her to not speak with you directly,, use a co-parenting app for child matters, nail her for alimony/child support based on her previous income -- don't let her worm her way out by downgrading her job or working part-time "to be with the kids". If you really want, you can 'reconcile', you can do so after the divorce and she can start proving her "love for you and the kids" by giving a smooth divorce, putting herself in therapy, giving you time to rebuild your life and deal with everything without you, etc. My guess, she'll never do that, because this isn't about you or the kids... it's about what's best for her and she'll happily ruin you (and the kids) in a divorce rather than sacrifice her happiness for what's best for you and the children.

@iTales-y7o 2 ай бұрын

she doesn't misses you

@ITheMystery-sc2kw 2 ай бұрын

Its always the female friend group i see does this ive witnessed it with my own 2 eyes many times alot of my friend's partners/ wives have listened to their friends telling them he isnt good and to divorce and then after the divorce the friends ditches them and tries to sleep with the ex husband

@rekslegiune6004 2 ай бұрын

Ye she had not x before divorce, ye ye.

@harrismazari5484 Ай бұрын

oh dear, i can't leave my dad so you should destroy your life and not look for growth what a bad bad couple both of them deserved each other

@hypezar 2 ай бұрын

The grass is greener on the other side. Single women keep women single. No normal man wants to keep a damaged goods women.

@kilamkam Ай бұрын

So she chose career over her family.. Then blew up her marriage listening to her 304 single mom friends.. Clearly the best ppl to take relationship advice from.. How are ppl this stupid?.. She did all this to get back to them streets.. Got her cheeks clapped by a few Chads that def weren't commiting to a 42yr old single mom.. Then the crawl back of shame.. Like, foh.. He bet Op was repulsed when she admitted to hooking up with multiple men in a MONTH after the divorce.. Like, EW 😒 No I dont wanna reverse the divorce.. You're for the streets now 🤚😤🙅🏾‍♂️....

@MatthewRatburg Ай бұрын

That woman is a grown brat like Melissa and her friends

@GoldsNarrations 2 ай бұрын

Very good

@thunderpants3500 2 ай бұрын

Emma got sucked into a feminist cult and destroyed her own life. Unfortunately her ex felt 'sorry' and began comforting, ENABLING Emma's selfish sorrows. Intelligent wise, these two are a match made in the toilet.

@rachelthecool2880 2 ай бұрын

Lol no

@RandomGuy-qr5jw 2 ай бұрын

Obligatory First! (Ok, Third by a few seconds. Next time! :D )

@Jinx_the_curse 2 ай бұрын

Technically both of you are in the wrong. Because you can’t expect her to keep Turing down high paying job opportunities every single time it comes around. And she can’t expect you to leave a family member alone who is sick.

@wezzy9437 2 ай бұрын

Op isn't in the wrong.

@Jinx_the_curse 2 ай бұрын

@@wezzy9437 your allowed to have your own opinion and I’m allowed to have mine

@user-yk1jg5nr5r 2 ай бұрын

Yeah they both are selfish. Their marriage probably ended way before this fight they had

@jasminesefton 2 ай бұрын

I'd resent the husband too. She's in the right

@BLDBadrasta 2 ай бұрын

A woman will sacrifice family for happiness, a man is willing to sacrifice happiness for his family. When she thought the grass was greener and went for it, she realized it was afro turf she came running back to the ex...