Expats Never Leaving the Philippines/Discover Why They Call Dumaguete Home

Expats Never Leaving the Philippines/Discover Why They Call Dumaguete Home‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬
The locals of Dumaguete City hold a special place in our hearts. Always wearing a warm smile, they welcome you with open arms and make you feel like a part of their family. It's this genuine kindness that sets Dumaguete apart and makes it truly feel like home. shedding stress, making new friends, and finding it affordable to retire on less are some of the reasons we call Dumaguete "Home"
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[@goatman3828]

Apparently a lot of people care more about these gentlemen's beltline than to actually learn something. Sad. Oh the life of a troll muat be so perfect.

[@jacked6]

Not trolling it's just a shock to see

[@xpat-splat]

The white knight all fatso's need.

[@afrivox]

​@@jacked6These guys are 'hansom',😂😂

[@petemorris777]

No doubt you have a belly like that too 😂 But actually when the Filipina pee did her recent trip to the US most people in the Malls restaurants and adventure parks were the same size as these guys

[@justenjoy-rr7ho]

@@roswo I think they know their overweight, I don't think enabling is possible. I tell you what, I've travelled the world and lived in a number of countries, you have to be a very strong and resourceful person. These gentlemen are doing something 80% of people could never do. I doubt if they would even care what unkind people out here said. I'm sure they've heard it all on their journey. Probably why they wanted to make the move in the first place. Unkind people.

[@solarguy1702]

Made my son watch this. He doesn't think I'm fat anymore

[@keithhuett4916]

LMFAO

[@maxkallio]

😂

[@TheComet1964]

Lmfao 🎉😂😂

[@vicuy3739]

Hahaha

[@TheyLive445]

Their advice weighs heavily on my mind.

[@Garcia-elf]

These fellows need a healthier lifestyle to be able to enjoy those lives there for years to come.

[@video3ish]

It’s pretty sad to be honest as they have very short lives in front of them when they have finally found how happy they are & they won’t get to enjoy it. We all know the 3 of them are diabetic & wont last long

[@BrisLS1]

True! I see a Corvette shirt, and I am sorry, but he could never get into my C6 Vette. Never, I am 5' 9" and mostly muscle 195 pounds, and I have to stay in shape to do it. These guys are in shape to do just what you see here, talk. Nothing else can happen for long at that size at that age. Butterbean was a freak of nature and much younger than this.

[@ragjamrock]

These guys are a great reminder that it takes a lot of "guts" to pack it in and move overseas.😂🏝🇵🇭

[@jeremiethomas8005]

The reason they won’t leave seems more to do with logistics, rather than desire ;)

[@ellvtv2314]

They were certainly "hungry" for a new life overseas.

[@Sana_Balik_Pinas]

Exactly!

[@frankkluz9787]

Perhaps it's 'inspiration' for some people - and - 'desperation' - for others. ( ? ) -- Funny how ''that'' can lead to the same place ?

[@MrJollychimp]

Paul, you lost weight. Tell these whales the truth and give them tips.

[@gregorychalmers2466]

They ain’t missed many meals. Hats off to them for taking action on the move

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @gregorychalmers2466 Thanks, we're loving every bite here too!

[@alexshortsplus]

These guys are 1 French fry away from major heart attacks 😮....

[@bayoumanbryan]

whew you're right good grief. the poor guy on the left oh wow that's just sad

[@mikejones1137]

​@@bayoumanbryanyou know if you have nothing nice to say then just do us all a favor and say nothing. Just a piece of advice hopefully you'll take it and learn something

[@bayoumanbryan]

@@mikejones1137 i used to be @ 340 lbs i lost over 110 lbs and i was disgusting then also

[@keepitreal1547]

​@@mikejones1137 There's nothing wrong with people having opinions & voicing them on KZbin comments. As long as people are talking facts.

[@mikejones1137]

@@keepitreal1547 your not talking facts your just voicing your opinion. Like I said before if you have NOTHING NICE TO SAY THEN SAY NOTHING. Where are your facts you don't even know those people your just stating what you think which is only a opinion. But in my eyes you were just being rude

[@FilCanGil]

Since Goldfinger is sitting in the middle……can we rename him middlefinger😂😂😂

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Perfect

[@brianphuket5951]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 🤣😂😀

[@bahuilok]

😂😅😂😅

[@Ray_Warren]

That’s hilarious

[@jimscholz2997]

LOL

[@Moon_Dance]

I sure hope they all consider getting a grip on their diets. Start a walking club etc. YOU CAN DO IT FELLAS 🙌

[@stephendueker9006]

Its hard to look at such morbid obesity. Get some activity boys. You will be happy you did.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @Moon_Dance Thanks for the suggestion! We're always looking to promote healthy lifestyles here in Dumaguete.

[@onestarflag9876]

I see these guys doing pull-ups down on the boardwalk in the mornings.

[@brianphuket5951]

Yeah! I saw them too, they were hard to miss. it looks like all that exercise is working!! Great Job, Boys!

[@sentinel80]

You must be having a laugh. Pull ups with guts like those 3. Walking would be an effort.

[@stanleyboothe4893]

16 ounces at a time! San Miguel Lights!!!

[@onestarflag9876]

@@stanleyboothe4893 the guy in the blue will do a sit-up if you put a doughnut on his knee.

[@ChristopherKnN]

Pulling their shorts up. Say no to crack.

[@AidaJof]

Hi Paul, this video is proof your videos made an impact on these fellows to come and settle in 'Sleepy Dumaguette' as you call it for precisely the same reasons I like them especially when you would take your trusted First Officer, Baby Mae, and take us around town ... we got to see the stores, people bustling on the streets, restaurants, markets, touristy spots. These fellows were lots of fun😊

[@deedeew4040]

What I have learned watching your videos Paul and the rest of the expats are the people there are genuine and down to earth. Family is most important where you live, the US people are into their selves. Enjoy gentlemen.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @deedeew4040 Thank you for sharing your observations! We've found that living in Dumaguete has brought out the best in us, and we appreciate the simplicity and warmth of our new community.

[@deedeew4040]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 I am so happy for all of you expats that have found a home you all enjoy. The simple things in life bring as much joy, if not more joy. Family and friends are important. I have no family and few friends and sometimes it can become lonely. Love to observe happy people.

[@mommyanddaddy4938]

Absolutely love 💕 this conversation 👍👏👏 Wish you guys all the best Black , white, pink , yellow or blue ALL PEOPLE WANT IS TO LIVE IN PEACE/ HAPPINESS

[@kevingamblesonlife9999]

Your happiness is up to you. Good on you gentlemen for making the changes needed

[@oldguy2764]

Great group of guys. It is clear, that home for them, is more about the people, than the place.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @oldguy2764 Thanks for understanding our love for the Filipino culture and community!

[@margarettownsley9500]

Fabulous interview they are all lovely men I wish them happiness the boy in the red shirt seems very happy that’s got to be better than living lonely in USA

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @margarettownsley9500 Thank you for the kind words! We're glad you enjoyed the video and our expat friends' stories.

[@chrisgilling543]

Wow, these guys really let themselves go.

[@The1313jeff]

I bet Goldfinger is really feeling like a stud . Being the smallest one in the group!😜

[@afrivox]

He gets that alone. Handsome sir😂

[@keepitreal1547]

He says he went to The Philippines for the women alone. That being the case, why didn't he consider his looks, his health first? What woman would be attracted to obese guys like this...desperate only.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @The1313jeff Haha, yeah, we can relate to that feeling!

[@marianitocaberte7751]

Thanks guys for coming in the Philippines. Enjoy the tropical islands. God bless.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @marianitocaberte7751 Thanks, appreciate your kind words!

[@ericg9092]

Great video. This seems like a really good group of guys who want to build and be part of a community. Well done.

[@grantpratt5356]

I like the teletubbies as much as the next guy ...but really 😮

[@flinx649]

😆

[@BuffaloBilly69]

Seems like 3 decent guys. I hope you enjoy many fantastic years ahead

[@jacked6]

Dang have these guys been eating at buffets all this time? 😂 I can't even imagine the mobility issues. Filipinos look much slimmer. How are these guys so large? Get your blood sugars tested, stay healthy! How does sitting on an airplane work? 2 seat purchase?

[@danielvillareal2569]

Enjoyed these guys! They all have a great outlook on their lives in the Philippines.

[@afrivox]

Big outlook indeed😂

[@ernestconnell8087]

What these guys say, hold a lot of weight

[@Robin-xt7yo]

🤭

[@dwork9451]

You people need to go on the keto diet. With that weight you will not last 5 years. Get your BMI into alignment, you will feel much better.

[@wil4596]

Thanks for posting these Paul, good, candid conversations., these guys look so relaxed and not stressed out the way i see folks here in the U.S. enjoy your retirement!!

[@AmericaManFilipinoWife]

Speed it up their getting hungry.

[@Robin-xt7yo]

🤭

[@kevinstcyr7592]

The first thing I saw was their physical stature. While the interview went on, it was more of what they had to say and not the physical. All had very relatable stories and I learned a lot about the ability to help others and still live your best life. Thanks Paul , good video!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @kevinstcyr7592 Appreciate your feedback! Glad you enjoyed the video's inspiring stories.

[@GlenDoer-gq1rs]

Got 5 kids not heard from them for 8 yrs,,Son got married ,I did not get invited, Daughters had kids but don't know their names, so hearing from theses men reinforces my decision..

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @GlenDoer-gq1rs Thanks for sharing your personal story. We're glad our video resonated with you.

[@jarlathquinn5722]

Nice to see the guys relaxed and enjoying where they are.

[@user-tv9yj6dn5t]

I am worried about them. I hope they'll have a few decades to live to enjoy life. ❤❤❤

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @user-tv9yj6dn5t Thanks for your concern, we appreciate it! We're just taking things one day at a time.

[@RawContent]

I think I am changing my plans and moving to Duma. I am now officially Brad Pitt. These guys seem super nice, but they need a healthier lifestyle to enjoy a "long stay" and the PH is not the epitome of healthy food selections. 🙏

[@wjebel]

I am now officially George Clooney and will be heading to Duma myself. If I can't find a woman there, at least I know I will eat well.

[@SalamatUK]

Maybe that's why their 'girlfriends' aren't asking for money.........thinking they won't have to wait too long, before they cop the lot?

[@rikkim4818]

​@@SalamatUKexactly what l thought. If they give money to their family in the end it will be taking away what they will end up getting. These women know what they are doing and are sticking to their plan.

[@asianight9188]

It's an awful depressing town to live in full of washed up old losers. dumaguete has the lowest class of foreigners in all of the Philippines

[@bigjohnson7415]

​@@rikkim4818 Yup, for sure. But if you can enjoy a nice young lady in the Twilight of your life, you should set them up. Can't take it with you.

[@chrisj302]

They ain’t leaving cause that’s way too much weight to move. What a motley but fun crew I’m sure.

[@juancarlosvaldes4538]

Great video interview Paul and good luck to all of them!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @juancarlosvaldes4538 Thanks for watching!

[@rmcmurphy7905]

Thanks for sharing guys 👍

[@rickylee6129]

Very Good Video Paul and Crew 😊. I like the Positivity. Keep the video's comin. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

We will

[@CanadaPhilippinesAdventures]

Thank You Paul and guys for a great chat - video. Sharing your own outlook in life, what you have exsperienced along with providing lots of other great info for individuals like minded who know Networking is the BEST - sharing is Learning. Have a great day!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @CanadaPhilippinesAdventures Thank you! Glad you enjoyed the chat and found it informative.

[@perryhenrickson7750]

The cost of living, the way the locals treat them and an easy going laid back atmosphere with great weather and beautiful ocean and lush vegetation. Count me in!!

[@jonv570]

the desperate young beautiful girls desperate to escape a life of poverty has nothing to do with these whales wanting to move there at all right

[@perryhenrickson7750]

@@jonv570 Who made you judge, jury and executioner on these men? You know none of them but seem to feel the need to hate on them. All of them have loyal strong women who are not bar girl types. Nor are they in need of anyone's sympathy or opinions. If you ever do spend any time there you will see the women still run the house!

[@jonv570]

@perryhenrickson7750 I have spent time there, that's why I know how poor they are.Also the woman are loyal to their wallets not there whales

[@perryhenrickson7750]

@@jonv570 🤐

[@user-bu6if4ni3t]

You might be a bit surprised at the cost of living. Better get better informed before you make the decision.

[@bareski22]

I want to govw Goldfinger all the credit I can mustar. He saw a problem and is doing his best to fix the problem as best as he can . Thank you for helping the kids be safe . Great Job !!!!!!!!!

[@dougl707]

I always enjoy conversations with these guys. They tell it like it is and demonstrate how life can be improved. Great Video.

[@jesslocaine6152]

Look at the smiles in their faces. They sure discovered where fountain of youth is. Enjoy your old-young again time in Dumaguete.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @jesslocaine6152 We're loving every moment here, that's for sure!

[@hello_its_me.]

WOW!! Looks like they an entire farm's Balut.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @hello_its_me. That's our favorite snack from the balut vendor!

[@invisiblewallflower6601]

Some people here make jokes about these men's build which is unfortunate. Hope though that this video's target market will take notes on the golden nuggets that the 3 gentlemen have shared on making a bold move in starting a new life in another city/country - in this case Dumaguete/Philippines. Great flow of convo and good work Paul on this interview!

[@thisplaceisnuts]

Bro… it’s pretty hard to ignore a Tweedledum and TweedleDee competition! Humpty Dumpty would’ve been proud!😮😳😱

[@ellvtv2314]

I assure you, these guys don't mind the fat shaming.

[@marshman1787]

they might share golden nuggets they sure won't share their chicken nuggets

[@afrivox]

Dude. I am not gonna lie. That was a great selection. In some places you would spend months and months to find a selection of three such handsome dudes😂😂😂

[@wildbill7081]

real nice you must be@@afrivox

[@montedreams1]

Great Video! Thank you, Paul

[@geofffletcher2539]

Well done.great interview of the 3 amigos expats.great video..

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @geofffletcher2539 Thanks! We're glad you enjoyed it!

[@user-di8yk3bu6u]

I really enjoyed this video! Goldfinger and I share the pancreatic cancer thing. I had stage 3, whipple and 7 months of chemo, and Docs say I have "years."

[@kevinmoran1216]

A bit like the rolly polly club, I think its time for someone to tell them a bit about the healthy options in life )))

[@roselee4445]

You know those things girls are not there for the fat

[@tomcataleno9128]

very good interview/info ,thanks

[@fabfrogg1]

Another great post Paul ! Thank you 😊

[@leonardclanton4829]

Paul thanks again for the videos. I have been watching your videos for a while now along with the Filipino Pea it is you and other KZbinrs that have convinced me that when I retire two or three years I’ll be heading to the Philippines thanks for all you do

[@feburgos6930]

Good luck and God Bless !

[@mikejones1137]

You should visit first before deciding to move cause it might not suit you

[@leonardclanton4829]

I will be taking two weeks vacation to the Philippines every year for the next 3 years to scope it out -- I will be in the Philippines on 05-02-2024 and leave on 05-15-2025 for my first visit -- Thanks for your reply @@mikejones1137

[@JoeannAndDave]

All 3 had the courage to leave the states and not become the usual invisible man to die alone. I commend them for their bravery.

[@afrivox]

These guys can't be invisible even to tye blind😂😂😂

[@humungushumungus213]

I believe these women will make these guys expire before their time, you really think this is about love, they need to watch their backs.

[@afrivox]

@@humungushumungus213 are you really going to blame their weight on a woman they met last year? As for love, trust me, anyone with an IQ of above 80 knows what is going on there 😆 🤣

[@JoeannAndDave]

@@humungushumungus213 I don't think so. The gals will likely motivate them to get in shape.

[@ericlee2931]

Where do see bravery?? You buy a plane ticket and squeeze that massive booty into the plane seat. You land, then you are in PI... What is so brave about that?

[@user-xx3eu6fg4l]

wonderfull men experienced same behaviour from offspring their mothers can now enjoy them lovely to see and hear wholesome interview thank u all for sharing your experiences wishing u well and more

[@jonaho.119]

It would be wonderful to see you in the video also! This video has some great points and it’s so wonderful how you are helping guys get to a better place and have a better life! You are really making a difference and it would be cool if someone gave you an award!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @jonaho.119 Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad you enjoyed the video!

[@jerrymarshall2728]

I’m not going to miss my U.S. life. Especially the winters! ❄️🥶 I look at my Ring cameras, see the snow piling up, while enjoying the tropical weather here, and dread having to return home at the end of February. But I need to liquidate everything in the U.S. so I can live comfortably here in the Philippines. 😎🌴 Still scouting for my forever home, and hopefully Negros will be where we decide? Talk my Wife into it, Paul, when we come there in February? 🤞

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @jerrymarshall2728 We'll definitely show you around Dumaguete when you're here in February!

[@dalesmit]

My coworker introduced me to my girlfriend because he dumped her for a younger Phillipina which I was very disappointed in him was there last year and was amazed of her and going back in October amazing woman and country

[@GreenGrapes01]

This video really helped me! I’ve been thinking a lot about the Philippines! Please do more videos like this! It helps me with the process of coming over! Jim from Minnesota😎

[@kendallberrong4700]

Awesome

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @kendallberrong4700 Thanks!

[@paulk8444]

I agree it has to do with your attitude, and "What do you want from the city you live in" as I wasn't a fan of Manilla, BGC and Cebu although allot fo good small towns after visiting Dumaguete I too fell in love with the relaxed lifestyle. It wasn't till later i met a lady there and she sealed the deal with her and her family. I plan on joining these guys "Boots on the Ground" in June. Having been there multiple times and exploring half of Negros Oriental, and All of Cebu along with other small islands. Paul is as Nice and Real in person although a busy guy and careful as some of others are not as good but Best thing was friendships i made with Filipinos as they are truly Nice, Gentle people.

[@peteh6063]

Great video once again Paul… Tons of respect for Goldfinger and what he does over there… The helmets. Not too familiar with the other two but glad they love it over there. But yes you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Carnivore diet or time restricted eating and maybe these gentlemen can Live strong and long life in Paradise.

[@ayhansimsek8506]

thanks for sharing it with us

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @ayhansimsek8506 You're welcome!

[@jocelynjack]

I like the gentleman on the left. Very sensible.

[@ThePhilippinePipeDream]

My plane ✈️ takes off tomorrow. Why did I choose Dumaguete? Because that’s where the KZbin channels are that I watch 😂 It’s like 11 degrees here right now, can’t wait to get out of here.

[@DavidIke07]

Cool. Have a safe trip!!

[@ThePhilippinePipeDream]

@@DavidIke07 Thank you ! 👊

[@-goldfinger2695]

Safe travels and welcome to paradise my new friend 😅

[@ThePhilippinePipeDream]

@@-goldfinger2695 Thanks Goldfinger !

[@kathiemathias212]

You lucky devil. Envy

[@Koya_Sipanlog_Express]

Always a fun video when goldfinher is around 😂

[@samboren3446]

Good for John and Good for you Paul. It's refreshing to know there are still people out there that thinks of others before themselves. It takes a big heart to do what you and others did for John. Bless you brother. Sam

[@ArthursSimpleLife]

Nice.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @ArthursSimpleLife Thanks!

[@DavidSmith-bt6qe]

Loved this interview and the three perspectives. I enjoy finding out what other people think about the difference there verses the States. I live in north Texas and we are considering seceding from the union since things are so bad in Washington. It is a cess pool and getting worse by the day. I think it will be up for a vote next November.

[@Wol1verine]

Big, bigger, biggest

[@tarbeau8561]

Another Awesome video sir. A lot of great information.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @tarbeau8561 Thanks for watching!

[@vindiesel5466]

What a cool bunch of guys

[@papadougpapadougsadventures]

I’m in the same boat. Selling all my stuff is daunting. It was -9F here yesterday, I won’t be missing that. My girlfriend is in Manila but I’ve already told her I won’t live there. I was in Dumaguete last feb/mar and I really liked it. It’s a little slow but I think I could get use to that.

[@sdleasia]

I'm selling all my stuff now. It is quite the task. Trying to keep the 3 yard trash bin full.

[@papadougpapadougsadventures]

@@sdleasia I think I might just hire a estate sale company after I give my kids anything they want

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @papadougpapadougsadventures We're glad you liked Dumaguete! We've found the pace of life here is very relaxing.

[@MrSatman2000]

I loved listening to this interview. I’m an Indiana boy living in Parañaque. Built my house 6 years ago but my Asawa is happy with it so I am happy. Went to Dumaguete last February with my wife and she liked it but her church is back in Manila. It is still going to take me a long time to sell my stuff in Indiana to move here full time.

[@expatlifestyle2000]

Hello former neighbor. I sold all my stuff two years ago in Indiana. I do not miss those winters.

[@RealGaryGibson]

If you sell at a discount, you'll get to come to the Phils much quicker!

[@paulk8444]

South Bend, Indiana guy here also seems like us Indiana guys gravitate there as my Best buddy in States is married 21 years to a Filipina and he was my inspiration so pretty soon we can have our own expat group haha

[@expatlifestyle2000]

@@paulk8444 indiana winters are a good reason to move.

[@MrSatman2000]

@@paulk8444 Hi Paul; I am from Angola, just an hour East of you. Currently in Parañaque and going back to the icebox we call home in February. Met my Asawa 8 years ago and married for 6 years. Amazing how she and the family treat me! What a keeper!

[@saleemakhtar87]

Good discussion of what works in Duma....

[@BHallBrowser]

May God bless them all. Paul, you really do a great service to so many people.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @BHallBrowser Thanks for your kind words and blessings!

[@MrsAaronWilsonPhD]

The 'don't talk about their weight' posters remind me of Cheech talking about his cousin Strawberry to Chong in "Up in Smoke": "Don't stare at his birthmark"...Chong meets him & half his face is a birthmark. 🤣

[@herbwitt7710]

Thanks Paul for the interview with the Three Stooges.. lol 😂. They have so many good pionts and opinions .Just another great video my friend ❤

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @herbwitt7710 Thanks, glad you enjoyed it!

[@PaulOviews]

Great video guys 😁 Thank you 👍

[@Manila-sb3sn]

Great conversations , and funny guys, enjoy your stay in the Philippines guys.

[@christozen6305]

OMG i think those guys are taking heavy risk. When i see their body shape, and knowing that in the Philipinnes sugar in foods, fries foods and heath care are Issues.... I think that Diabet and heart attack are at the next street corner.

[@keepitreal1547]

Exactly, not to mention the nightmare health care that Paul himself made a video about just weeks ago. No one at all, can say these three guys are leading a healthy lifestyle.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @christozen6305 We understand concerns about health risks, but many expats here prioritize lifestyle over medical risks. It's a personal choice.

[@grumpydudebryant]

Wow, Paulie, now I cannot decide where I want to settle yet! After seeing & hearing the great stories and viewpoints of Danny, Rick and that "Finger Guy" (joke lang)!! I just might have to spend more than a week there to get the feel of the Duma community. I have seen the other vloggers coming to Dumaguete to me you, Mark T. & Justin, but they all seem to just come & go for a few days without looking into the relationship dynamics of the Expat community living there. I truly regret that we have not spent as much time getting to know each other over the past 3 years, but touching on Rick's comments about feeling alone... In the late 90's when I married my 2nd wife (the baliw Russian girl), I bought a new home in a new development. For the 8 years I lived there, I only met 5 of my neighbors and NONE OF THEM were very sociable. I remember as a kid in the 60's & 70's visiting my relatives in Kentucky & North Carolina how neighbors would sit on the porch and have conversations across the street from each other. Things are so divisive in the U.S. that neighbors seem to be afraid to meet other people. Even now, I look outside in this townhouse community and I see no neighbors outside socializing. I look forward to making my way down to Duma. Thanks again, for all the great content & sage advice, Paul. Thanks also to Rick, Danny & Goldfinger for sharing their stories, perspectives and thoughts on Dumaguete City.

[@flinx649]

I didn't change...this generation changed...I don't even bother getting to know new neighbors... would wave and try to have a conversation and they looked miserable to see me...just run in the house... I don't even acknowledge them anymore.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @grumpydudebryant Thanks for your kind words! We're glad you're considering spending more time in Dumaguete and getting to know our community.

[@petershults8395]

Great interview 😊

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you!

[@ReadySetGo113]

Good to see they are eating healthy!!!!!!!

[@joenorman8320]

I just finished watching this on You Tube on my TV and I so much enjoyed the expats you interviewed. I won't get into my experience with my Filipina and my trips to the Philippines and our once-dreams of moving and retiring there. I am divorced 15 years now, retired of course, and came upon yours and like channels and I tune in every so often to see how you are progressing. Loved today's show because even in my limited experience with my wife and the Philippines I can relate to much of what you gentlemen talked about. Once my dream of us retiring to the Philippines was crushed, I never looked back. I think watching your channel sometimes - and others - sort of makes me reflect on things I felt during my Philippine experience with the place and the people and the Filipinas. And I think, finally, it makes me happy to see other men my age discovered what I discovered and - even though I don't live there and won't be visiting ever again - I'm happy you guys found your happiness too - because I am very happy. And it feels good to know I'm not alone. GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU. Thanks for a wonderful interview. I wish ALL OF YOU wonderful years ahead. With your attitude I'm sure you will enjoy them. JOE

[@jonaho.119]

I’m so curious what happened?

[@emzbagtas9781]

i love it that you expats found home in the philippines because as an ofw in qatar...going home once a year is heaven to us...we miss the Philippines 11 months every year always...just understand the people the culture and social realities everyday you will all get along well living in the Philippines...many thanks to Paul and other expats who have heart for the Philippines ..Godbless

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @emzbagtas9781 Thank you, I completely understand! We're grateful for this wonderful country too.

[@kevincox3792]

These guys seem really great! Loved it ❤

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

They are!

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Super great interviews, packed with information. Thank you.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @jspice-kl2wc Thanks for enjoying the interviews! We're glad to share our experiences here in Dumaguete.

[@joban7851]

Life is what you make it. Three guys in Dumaguete are happy with life.

[@valdez66667]

The three kings! Great interview Paul. 🎉

[@miguelc.819]

Great interview, it will definitely help me, since I'll be there in 2 1/2 weeks. Looking forward to meeting you guys.

[@daviddixon9207]

Can you picture any of these guys with a tiny filipina gal? I am trying hard not to! Haha

[@Sana_Balik_Pinas]

Ouch, stop diverting thoughts. Leave that to your imagination and keep it.

[@daviddixon9207]

@@Sana_Balik_Pinas I think I may need some serious therapy. Yikes!

[@BrisLS1]

And they said what you see here is AFTER losing weight from all the island cooking. Wow, oh and riding around on mopeds.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @daviddixon9207 Not my concern, but I appreciate your perspective!

[@bill426worker5]

I'm one minute and 5 seconds into your video and I've already learned that there's absolutely no limit to the amount of food to sustain yourself in the Philippines. LOL

[@Wesna269]

I figured that out based on the thumbnail alone. I am fairly fit and the most important thing to me when I retire is to stay fit to be able to enjoy my retirement.

[@st101005]

It tells you that the food must be pretty good there.

[@Sana_Balik_Pinas]

@@st101005 One vlogger US Jay...something said he lost weight in the Dumaguete ( healthily) this could be true anywhere in the Philippines. The humidity and heat seems like you're living in a sauna. You sweat/perspire much and such is excretion of loads of toxins and water from the body. Just hydration-- and toxins out is best. The humidity can be unpleasant especially if you first arrived, not acclimatized. When I was there a month, although I ate loads, I didn't put on weight, in fact I'm much thinner and more toned in a month because I do activities, gardening even masonry. In the west esp on wintry months, I'm more stationary, I hate the cold. I don't do much galivanting on off days. Life is work and home. Christmas has a loads of food, and easy put on weight and midrift expanding. I'm looking forward to my Philippine trip again, eating more but not gaining weight.

[@elstonwade3479]

They didn't gain any weight since they relocated to Phillipines.

[@afrivox]

Coming here for these jokes. That's American food, the dude has been there only 10 months, the guy in red, can't eat that much in 10 months 😂😂

[@darcybarber9255]

Great interview, it's why I keep watching, best wishes to all the Guys.

[@reddawn201285]

Thank your for informing fellas. Live well and be happy 😊

[@tryscience]

Another excellent video ! Very glad all of you have found happiness there. Just a matter of time before I am there as well.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @tryscience Thank you, we're glad to hear that!

[@Matthew-gz4oh]

Silver, Olive and Red VW bugs. Glad to see the car is making a comeback. Glad they are happy, and hope they will tighten it up and stick around a bit longer guys.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @Matthew-gz4oh Thanks for watching! We're loving the classic vibes of those VW bugs too!

[@dirtyharry8629]

That was a great chat

[@snowpatriot4045]

Great information; appreciate you all for taking the time to put this together. I also am planning to relocate to Philippines. USAF/ret./MSgt/SP/Vietnam Veteran

[@charlesberlanga4452]

Some of the West's finest figures.

[@rosebrown2267]

Dont be so upset about filipino families because they could be the one taking care of you when you and your wife are nor both able to move due to illness or old age, so its better to plant good deeds but of course you dont have to give everything.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @rosebrown2267 Well said! We appreciate your thoughtful perspective.

[@Dennis-dv4og]

Made a small donation to your paypal! Thank you for your videos! We are from Canada and We have tickets to come in October to Dumaguete! We are planning to retire there. You seem like you are a humble kind person. Thank you. Dennis and Janna

[@littlesparrow34]

Thanks Paul to this nice vlog.👍

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Hi @littlesparrow34 Thanks for watching!