How To Build Rapport With Anyone Authentically

[@ExplearningCo]

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[@Lamenteinglesa]

Building rapport: 1) Adopt an RUA. (good attitude to establish common ground) 2) Synchronize with the person's body language + energy levels + tonality. 3) Use open questions (How/Why). (not 'yes or not questions') 4) Be an active listener. (what they say and how they say it) 5) Adapt to the person's sensory preferences (visual, auditory or kino)

[@mikeowusu1121]

Great stuff

[@AVKBA]

Very well articulated. 😊 Thank you.❤

[@superbravopeppe1]

Thanks so much !

[@ExplearningCo]

You're welcome! Happy to have you in the Explearnity :)

[@mdjamaluddin2079]

Thank you so much

[@ExplearningCo]

You're most welcomez Md jamal! Very happy you enjoyed this lesson :) We talk about sensory preferences in communication and building rapport in this livestream: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZa6f59sgbKXl5I You might enjoy it as well! Happy Explearning ⚡

[@embodiedauthenticity]

Very interesting tips! I believe that being authentic and genuinely curious about the other person really helps to build connection and great rapport :)

[@jetayli]

you looks like visual (primary sensory dominance), Interesting, Thanks for the helpful information

[@ExplearningCo]

It's definitely very interesting! :) glad you liked this lesson 😁

[@kylekyleswae7352]

You are beautiful wow .. great video , lots Of substance here . You Definitely have an ability to make the viewer really pay attention ..

[@ExplearningCo]

Thanks Kyle. So happy that you're enjoying the lessons and that my teaching style resonates. We're happy to have you in the community!

[@kylekyleswae7352]

@@ExplearningCoHow do I get in touch with YOU . To be honest .

[@hishambadrelgammal8271]

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[@lihaozheng9402]

Hello, Mary Daphne I am a fan of you from China. I love your lesson, and I am a uploader in Chinese version KZbin Bilibili, May I have your video shared in Bilibili, I also will put your link and your information below the video,.Let more Chinese people know more about you! BEST WISHES!

[@ExplearningCo]

Hi Lihao, thanks for letting me know about this. Please send me a note to [e-mail] and we can discuss some ideas I have around this :) Talk soon!

[@lihaozheng9402]

@@ExplearningCo Hello, Mary Daphne. I don't know how to send a note to [e-mail], I have to use VPN to access the KZbin. In China we use QQemail. It seems that QQemail does not send a note to [e-mail]

[@ExplearningCo]

@@lihaozheng9402 Interesting, that's probably because our email is hosted by Google :/ Try our Outlook account: [e-mail]

[@xavierowens8032]

Funny paraphrasing what someone’s said is something I have always said, but when I do it people say that’s not what I said.

[@ExplearningCo]

Paraphrasing is an excellent way to build rapport :) Your intuition has guided you !

[@xavierowens8032]

@@ExplearningCo well sometimes when I do that, people respond that’s not what I said maybe they are not listening

[@CommanderWaddles]

That gives them the opportunity to clarify for you & you guys can continue the conversation. Keep doing that.

[@mma188]

te la re pongo

[@atabetuatara]

This is an outdated idea and creates a system of social pain! Please teach tools for people to be "less insecure" not "build rapport as a condition for meaningful dialogue". The latter MAY HAVE BEEN necessary in the past, but today, it is the doorway to discrimination bc its false logic is rooted in "I seek similarity & acceptance; if you offer it, it makes you safe & trustworthy". We need to stop judging someone when they challenge us from the get go or risk being trapped inside our circular (Penrose) staircase that "goes nowhere". The only reason we're uncomfortable & need "rapport" is because many simply get offended easily. Why? Because they're insecure! Hence the first sentence!