#FAFO

[@elizabethhosaka1069]

“She was the bright light in my depression” yeah, and you were the dark cloud in her life. That’s why she’s glowing without you

[@respectabletampodcast]

Well said.

[@beepbopboop7727]

This is exactly what I thought too.

[@BurbNBougie]

Whew!! This is a great comment 👏🏿

[@moonhunter9993]

He was the "ball and chain" around her ankle who was eventually going to drag her down with him...

[@danic9304]

Absolutely nailed it

[@SphynxyXVII]

Nope, he regrets losing his maid and emotional punching bag. He sounds self-centered and selfish.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

He's upset she's happy

[@nightstarstar1]

It was so funny how the man in story 1 just kept talking about how his wife never cried or begged. Cry and beg for what sir? These men really over estimate their value in women’s lives. Many of them are damn unpleasant to live with, gross, annoying and unhelpful. She was clearly glad to offload his dumb behind.

[@unicorn73212]

They also assume because the ex came back to visit she came back to rekindle things she may of just came by to check on him to make sure he okay because it's the holidays. You never want to go back to them if your not healthy and you should never patch things up if the ex is unwilling to elevate himself then stay single it's the only choice that's logical if a man chooses to stay broken is to live separately and only work on elevating yourself. If he wants to stay in his situation and he looks comfortable as a bachelor let him keep the house. And get a better place.

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

She was indifferent and had checked out long before he cheated

[@BlackRaven000]

​@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217Some people grieve in private. The husband is no longer entitled to her emotion. Maybe she knew he was cheating, who knows. Maybe he was already a rubbish partner due to his "depression".

[@RedDeadReverie]

Exactly what I was thinking. They all see themselves as the prize.

[@elipotter369]

I have an ex who when I was annoyed about something &having a confrontation about it, he decided to retaliate by saying he was trying to give me the hint he wanted to stop seeing me. "Really" I said "are you sure"? - calling his bluff. Yes, he said. So I took some more minutes to just get comfortable with this was over and left. He had expected me to cry and beg, presumably like his previous female wannabe partners.

[@queensavage9896]

Playing devils advocate, he is still blaming someone else. Now it's the "colleague"s fault and she only wanted him because he was married. Naw player, according to his own words, the two of them were together for over a year. He was probably starting to act the way he acted in the marriage and her name wasn't on the dotted line so she didn't have anything to lose by cutting out. 😅 He only wants the wife back because she is unbothered and seems happy without him. Smh. A lame will always be a lame.

[@jasminejeanine2239]

Yep, he's yet to really learn. He'll never learn so long as his base mode is blaming everyone else.

[@AndyyWithAY]

The mistress only wanting him because he has a wife. I can't breathe, I am deceased

[@FindYourFree]

hilarious

[@ana-nim]

I was like "Ariana, this you?"

[@nikicarrie4071]

She only wanted to take from another woman

[@glamour89]

Apparently, married men are seen as value by their lovers!

[@SilkieSqueaks]

​@em7937 It's fun being the "risky choice" that he's willing to go out of his way for. Without the novelty of it, she realized she didn't actually like him at all, the idea was just exciting. A relationship where excitement is the foundation can't stand when things stop being exciting.

[@blackmoonbellydance7481]

That moment when he realised side piece only wanted him because of the wife, not because he was something special. That, sir, is why they're called homewreckers.

[@JezebelleAzul]

Her suggestion was low key savage and when he followed through it was hilarious.😂

[@kgs2280]

Another lesson he learned.

[@bossyboots5000]

​@JezebelleAzul I agree. That was like next level Queen.

[@moinfo_moinfo]

The husband never considered getting therapy. Instead, he had an affair 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@BlackRaven000]

Because they "don't believe in therapy". I bet his "depression" is fabricated.

[@moreni2nd405]

Right!!!💯 😅

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

They NEVER want to work on themselves 😒😑

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 I've been with a man like this. I was consistently amazed by the levels of mental gymnastics he would do to avoid taking any sort of responsibility for himself. It was always someone else, or some other external factor like his diet. It could _never_ be that he was a crappy, angry, hateful and selfish person with serious mental issues that needed professional attention. In fact, the very suggestion would make him violently angry.

[@bossyboots5000]

​@@kayshawnsimmons5585Why would they, when playing the victim for sympathy is so much easier.

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

2:30 that part caught me too! He was serious expecting her to cry, yell and BEG!!!! He thought she was going to! He still thinks she should've. And is obviously bothered by the fact that she didn't, and still remains unbothered

[@navideology]

I love how unbothered the wife was.😂💯

[@glamour89]

I mean he created the whole mess! 😂

[@mariposaflame4194]

Yes! Cheating was just the final straw

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

She was relieved. Living with a depressed man baby who won't take ANY accountability is draining.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

​@@rejectionisprotection4448 Facts💯

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

I get the impression that she was already emotionally checked out, and that's why she seemed unbothered. I'd love to know what their marriage was like before he cucked his wife behind her back.

[@lyra2282]

"She never shed a single tear, yelled, or begged". Ive noticed a lot of men who write cheating regrets posts say that about the wives they betrayed. It almost feels like they NEEDED her to be visibly upset, angry, hurt. They needed that emotional explosion to feel better about themselves. Instead, the women are calm and that terrifies them. Ironically these are the same men who will go years and years invalidating their wives' emotions, telling them to calm down, and shutting down any intimate and vulnerable conversation. They only want women's emotions when those emotions boost their own self worth.

[@b1njjj95]

Bingo! It's exactly that. That's why more and more women are just moving in silence and no longer reacting whenever their husband deliberately does something to hurt them. Give these AHs NOTHING!

[@bEverCurious]

They do need it. They see her emotional upset as proof she did love and care for them. She has probably done all that for years, in private and now she's done with the tears.

[@Bubileaf]

That last line: “They only want women’s emotions when those emotions boost their own self worth.” WOOOOOeeee 🎯🔥🔥🔥

[@bobibrown3358]

I feel they enjoy their spouses hurt and in pain. They derive sime joy out of it.

[@Sp4c3G195y]

This. All of it ☝️

[@THIC_talks_alot]

OMG! My ex offered to go to marriage counseling and later admitted that he thought the therapist would show me how I was wrong. During the first session the therapist agreed with me about something. Needless to say he made no effort to work on the assignments the therapist sent us home to do. At our last session the therapist said she didn’t think our marriage would work. I was so upset and decided to compromise. A few weeks later he said my effort was disingenuous so I said I was done. I went silent and every time he tried to start an argument after that, I would stare at him until he walked away. He eventually left but we were nothing more than roommates and co parents for year until he found a replacement out of town. The separation and divorce was a relief for me. I felt unburdened and started enjoying life again.

[@audrablue515]

You are my spirit animal 😂. Men hate it when they want to dump their toxic shit on you but you don’t engage. It enrages them so much 😂😂😂

[@Jomama-man]

I know the blank stares had to be eating him alive

[@Trinitytruth7]

How strange it is you can be depressed but not depressed enough to have a full blown affair

[@Kattlarv]

Something I notice a lot, is that most of these men, and overall narcs, right wingers and all that: View the world completely separately. *Their* love is understandably conditional. But *our* love *has* to be unconditional. That is why they are always "blindsided". As: Last they checked, their relationship stats were maxed out. When they last turned on their tamagochi three years ago,it was fed and happy. *What* could possible have changed?

[@shantellakaladypersephone8671]

Not the Tamagochi reference 🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis]

Girl you have summed up what I have always thought. That’s why I’m single. I’m not dealing with none of them and their bs.

[@b1njjj95]

LMAOOO the tamagotchi reference is too great! Well done! 👏🏾

[@Kattlarv]

@@b1njjj95 It's pretty on point. As they are shocked that they can't just pick up where they left off. Like, did those three years ago mean nothing?

[@lordfreerealestate8302]

I'm no contact with my family and that's so true. My love had to be unconditional, but theirs never had to. It was a one-sided journey of double standards.

[@--Ezra--]

Shouldn't he be the one crying and begging?! Indeed, he realy lives in a fairytale. Repect to the wife. She must be happy without his sorry @ss .

[@BurbNBougie]

They really believe they are the prize and women should feel lucky to have them

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Women are always happy and glow up when they drop the dead weight

[@Not_That_Karen_Bih]

​@BurbNBougie who are "they", exactly?

[@annejohnson5875]

When I was married, if my husband did something to upset me and I started expressing my frustrations and concerns, my husband would tune me out. Then one day he (once again) ran up debt behind my back, I was just sitting there thinking about what I could say that he wouldn't tune me out. I knew yelling wouldn't help. While I was sitting there thinking about what to say, he became very uncomfortable. After that, when he did something to upset me, I wouldn't say anything and he didn't like it. He preferred me yelling because then he could make fun of me, so I stopped yelling and didn't have much to say to him at all. I wasn't really trying to play games, but I also couldn't figure out a way to express what was upsetting me without him making fun of me. So I just stopped talking and it made him deeply uncomfortable.

[@gardenflower4114]

When my ex created drama and arguments, I learned by accident too, how uncomfortable my silence made him. I loved that power. Me divorcing him was the best thing to do.

[@annejohnson5875]

@gardenflower4114 I admit I loved that power too. I don't have much, but I know that I am better off financially now that I'm on my own and so much happier.

[@b1njjj95]

It made him uncomfortable because he got off on tuning you out and dismissing your feelings. So when he no longer got that reaction from you, it pissed him off. Oh gosh, he sounds like a real piece of work. I'm glad you were able to free yourself from him. Woman are always better off when they leave toxic relationships. Their health immediately improves too.

[@kaedatiger]

Sounds like he was intentionally trying to pick fights and it bothered him that you decided not to waste your energy on a fruitless task.

[@NobodyImporttant]

The FAFO will never get old and never cease to be satisfying

[@BurbNBougie]

It adds a little bit pep to my morning!! 😜

[@Anonymous_JK_Lover]

The mistress in the 1st story said hold up partner!✋🏾 🎶 I'm the weekend🎵 like SZA

[@BurbNBougie]

Lol 😂

[@ALucas13]

😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Im hollering 😹😹😹😹😹🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Anonymous_JK_Lover]

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 😆😆😆 I'll go in time out 🚶🏾‍♀️‍➡️

[@loveandahug]

Lmaoooooo😭😭😭

[@Victoria-n4s9p]

Gave her a reason to leave a miserable soul, and didn’t have to accept the blame, cause they always wanna clown when you leave, but won’t fight for you when you’re there!!

[@Yunglou3000]

Ive always said, I will never fight for a man...if he doesnt want to be with me...bye! I wouldnt even fight with the other woman. Id just peace out and disappear.

[@MsVakong]

Same! ❤

[@b1njjj95]

That part! That's how you achieve true inner peace.

[@tm1464]

💯

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

I don't see the point in getting mad at the other woman simply because it takes two to tango. The ball was in his court. He could have refused, but he didn't. She (may have) knowingly slept with a partnered man, but it's ultimately not her fault some other woman's man has no self-control.

[@Jomama-man]

@@AngryReptileKeeperexactly. He is the one who was at that alter. He’s the one who agreed to the relationship.

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

Why do they do this. They rather live the regret and expect US to forgive and forget when they can just as easily read these stories, hear what happened to others and say "I'm not going to do that because I don't want to take the chance on losing my wife/fiancee, etc". Just crazy.

[@Sleipnirseight]

Exactly. They want OTHER PEOPLE to be mature and adult, but refuse to behave that way themselves. It's entitlement.

[@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis]

They do not think it can happen to them. Until it does.

[@ccannon1]

A lot of men think that love means you’ll put up with anything they do

[@TheePrincessBrat]

His wife was probably done with him when he was doing nothing to improve his mental health. It’s not your fault if you fall into a depression, but it’s your fault if you take it out on your family & start an affair. Now he’s referring to his AP as his “colleague”. Such cold language for someone he was knocking boots with 😂 should’ve kept it professional sooner. So little is said about the affair which is typical with these posts. But it makes me wonder if it was just pity xes from the colleague. (never mind I made it to the end of the post, he’s just parasiting off her too). For all we know, this was an intern or younger coworker he was messing with. Cause what grown woman would blow up your phone, flirting, asking if you missed her, after all that??

[@IrisDel-qo8xi]

The sidechick only wanted him when he was taken bc another woman was cooking,cleaning and dealing with his bs on regular basis while she had fun It was also an ego booster for her

[@Egg_Apron]

#2: She was told that she was the problem... She wasn't 🤗

[@isawave9535]

Love how the ex wife moved on 🎉

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

She freed herself from bondage

[@c.g.bspendersashtray3037]

That counselling thing sounds like my ex. "But what about YOU??" Everything was tit-for-tat with him. Holding him accountable was like trying to keep an oiled up wriggling worm on a hook. It was constant complaints, belittling, making fun of me, name-calling, the works. Then, in the last conversation I had with him, he said "you'll be the standard by which I judge all other women." 🤦 Sure.

[@kaedatiger]

Yeah I don't get why they compare girlfriends to exes. You couldn't manage to hold onto me but you think somehow you can turn another woman into me? Beyond pathetic.

[@christyhackney731]

Peter Pan Syndrome doesn't end with age, I just found out my ex (48) has 2 single mothers arguing over him at his job 🤷‍♀️ sux to suk

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

💯🧐

[@TheePrincessBrat]

I think the only women who break down *in front* of their -AH- man, are trying to appeal to his emotions. They want him to see how much his actions harmed them. It’s like if they aren’t there to see your tears, they never happened. I don’t doubt that his wife has cried over the marriage. But why give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt?

[@BlackRaven000]

Exactly. He was cold enough to go behind her back, he's lost all right to her emotion.

[@lyra2282]

I loved the second story and all the replies. Women are often so afraid to "give up" on their marriages when clearly their partner isn't doing their share of the work, because we are so indoctrinated into believing that it's on us to fix all relationships, and to fix ourselves. What's amazing is all these women sharing how they walked away really shows how freeing and wonderful it is to stop sacrificing yourself at the altar of an unhappy relationship and just walk away so you can finally live your own life the way you deserve.

[@b1njjj95]

Yes! All of this! And I absolutely love this worldwide awakening that has blessed so many women. More and more women are choosing peace and happiness, and I love it!

[@floofdecat]

Got no sympathy for guy #1. It’s a common whiny dude complaint “I got depressed so I cheated.” Let me see, you’re self aware enough to know you are depressed but you think the way to deal with this is to blow up your marriage? Okay then. And let’s be honest, for a lot of guys, their entire solution set boils down to: cheating.

[@teresahegerich8835]

He could also be dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder or Bipolar disorder. Men AND women with this sometimes cheat because the limiter in their brain stops working. Not excusing cheating, but sometimes they're thinking with their junk vs their brains. Is it worth hanging around someone like that? I don't know. IF they are willing to DO THE WORK of healing, maybe. Some aren't, but they will expect YOU to go to therapy.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

I think it's more like their entire solution set boils down to _sex._ It seems to me that an awful lot of men view sex as the solution to anything and everything that ails them.

[@lynettehuffstedtler8195]

The way they think is that their cheating isn't supposed to blow up their marriage. Their wife is supposed to endlessly forgive or else she's a bitch and him cheating is ultimately her fault. At least that's the bs story they tell.

[@CrucialOlive]

FAFO is loading!! I love it!

[@BurbNBougie]

I get a little extra pep in my step in the morning when I come across these stories!

[@bluegreenglue6565]

"Boxing Day" is a perfect day to celebrate packing up and moving on. I hope you're all safe and well.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

you and your loved ones as well

[@jasminejeanine2239]

I definitely didn't cry when my ex told me he cheated or when my Marine husband asked for divorce. It's never much of a surprise.

[@HailCzr]

I watch these for my reminder that marriage doesn't benefit women

[@WanderlustHomebody]

One of my family members was married to a man who cheated on her with a woman who only wanted him while he was with his wife. Whenever he and his wife would separate (i.e. she'd put him out), the mistress wouldn't want him. This apparently went on for YEARS. It was the strangest thing that I couldn't wrap my mind around because I was a kid at the time this was happening. It bothered me that my family member stayed with him through all of this. She was the one who paid all the bills, raised the kids, and took care of the house. He was in and out of jail for years and was the only man she had ever been with. No matter what anybody told her, she stayed and put up with it all. Every time she put him out, it was never for long because he "had nowhere else to go." Her and this other woman were pretty much playing volleyball with her husband, and he was a willing participant. Whenever I think about those two, I get upset because she deserved so much better. But, unfortunately, she didn't think so.

[@b1njjj95]

Oof. That was sad to read. Unfortunately, some women have a really hard time learning how to de-centre XY folk out of their life. They spend their whole life convinced that they only exist to serve XY folk. They never evolve to realize that they can be happy on their own.

[@Sp4c3G195y]

@WanderlustHomebody he could’ve been love bombing the shizz out of her when she put him out, and the AP didn’t want him. He could’ve been NPD but even if not, he probably used a lot of manipulative tactics on her. If she was vulnerable because of parents who didn’t model a healthy relationship, she became trauma bonded. I believe that’s the term though I may be wrong. I’ve also seen this type of relationship up close and personal on several occasions and different couples and the manipulation is off the scale. The partners usually can’t see or recognise it, because it’s like an emotional blind spot. They grew up with that dynamic so to them it’s normal.

[@Emptytopfloor]

The colleague liked him because he was being taken care of by the wife. Almost as if the colleague wouldn’t settle for less.😂

[@b1njjj95]

Story #1: It always warms my heart whenever a cheating husband overestimates his market value and wakes up to reality. He really thought he was the prize and his fragile ego shattered when he saw how much happier his ex wife is without him. And it must have stung so bad when he realized his mistress only wanted him when he was married. Oh well, FAFO!

[@summerdowlig]

The wife is happier because he's gone

[@theymove5325]

0:53 😂WTH is she supposed to be begging for? She most likely already knew and was just waiting.

[@rosethorne9155]

The mistress losing interest when she found out je was no longer married: she probably thought he was going to try to propose to her, and didn't want that. She didn't want the work of managing him, only the fun of "playing" with him. Oh, well. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@denesejamerson2356]

I wish these ladies well!

[@kgs2280]

I now aspire to be an “Unbothered Queen”. I love that term.

[@sweetdreams3119]

Goals in life? Unbothered like the Queen of a woman who knew her opps and took her 'opp - ur - tunity' to flee that mess without an ounce of regret. LOVE her!

[@wobblydogcreations2521]

I call it "the click" - once that happens, there's no going back. Ever. It's done.

[@mwademinor]

Makes me think about how much I love my wife . . . Merry Christmas!

[@nikicarrie4071]

Marriage needs to be every 10 years and women need to keep our last name

[@starstorm1267]

Our kids should have our last names too. Not only because it’s easier to keep track of which kids our biologically ours (you always know who the mother is unless you find a baby alone with no mother in sight), but also because we sacrifice our bodies and lives to bring these children into the world. Men don’t deserve to have their names be carried on by basically doing nothing, both reproductive and childrearing wise

[@b1njjj95]

Story #2: The OP grew up and evolved as a person while her ex husband remained unlikable and unwilling to work on himself. I love that OP chose peace and found the strength to leave.

[@shiina29]

He carried the affair on for a year. Anyone with an ounce is self-respect would act like the wife did. It’s just over at that point.

[@PuertoRicanCreoleQueen]

How was your Xmas 🎄 with your babies Burb?

[@BurbNBougie]

Heyyy girl. I don't really do up holidays. We all got a few gifts. Then we grabbed dinner at a nearby hotel, bc their restaurants were still open!! Then I went to bed early!! Life is good

[@PuertoRicanCreoleQueen]

@@BurbNBougie yeah I don’t either my kids get most their gifts early. We don’t believe in religion, nor have I ever allowed the belief in Santa (kills my mama but🤷🏻‍♀️ these my kids) so it’s the same here. We hung out with my lil sister for a while and her and I cooked mostly me but I didn’t cook a whole lot took me maybe two hours tops for everything and we gave my mom and her fiancé who actually does a lot on all occasions a break from cooking this year. But it was nice. I’m glad you had a good peaceful restful day.

[@PuertoRicanCreoleQueen]

You deserved a peaceful not exhausting and work filled holiday.

[@BurbNBougie]

Your day sounds great too. I want more of us to take an easier route!!

[@Lym-ed9tq]

No crying needed. Other energy for things that matters.

[@CinquenneW]

I’ve thought about this. A partnered man is less pathetic than a single man because he’s exploiting some woman - so he’s happier healthier. The exploitation is a major turn off, but in ways, the single man is the least attractive one. Because you know he’s a mess.

[@b1njjj95]

Yup. And that's why I reject all 'give him a chance' nonsense. No thank you. He's single for a reason and I refuse to sacrifice my time, energy and resources to become his happiness machine.

[@Sp4c3G195y]

All of this ☝️

[@Sleipnirseight]

PSA: Depression can be as bad as alcoholism in the way it harms your relationships. It can totally change who you are and how you treat others. GET HELP BEFORE YOU HURT THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE.

[@notevenlistening6072]

I've been fighting depression for 40 years, and I've never cheated on anyone. Even in my wildest phase in the nineties. He cheated because he wanted to

[@shantellakaladypersephone8671]

​@@notevenlistening6072FACTSSSSS

[@Just_a_Goth]

​@@notevenlistening6072 Exactly. I'm not convinced he didn't adopt the label so he could cheat easier due to SyMpAtHy.

[@RedDeadReverie]

Stop using mental illness to justify your bad behavior.

[@no-gc1mp]

It can, IF YOU LET IT. I have actually done a great job at not hurting others even when I was in agony. It is still a choice

[@stephaniemartin9253]

I haven’t had breakfast yet, and this was absolutely delicious! Great video and commentary!

[@tm1464]

I left a bodybuilder with $. He was surprised that I wasn't crying.

[@aazhie]

Very wholesome to hear the men who respond about how much they appreciate their wives :D

[@astra_9583]

Huh? What is SHE suppose to beg for? I don't get it 🤔

[@kaedatiger]

The wife sees the big picture. She knows what's up.

[@TMFJ747]

Thank you, Burb. ❤❤❤

[@BurbNBougie]

No problem 😊

[@sabrielluv]

Men wrote the fairytales and more and more I see they are convinced things should be a certain way. But in the end women are the logical and realistic part of the pair. If you can find a man who knows that fairy tales are not real….. he will probably be a full participant in the relationship because he would know that patriarchy is an illusion.

[@marthalow4222]

do you know how hard it is to prop up a depressed man? Or depressed anyone? God bless her for hanging in all those years. She probably feels like there's a ton of weight off her shoulders. There cannot be love and intimacy if one partner is deeply depressed. It is a self-centered state. It is the neediest of needy. I am positive. She feels relieved.

[@35PinkFlowers]

7:02 it warms my heart too!

[@tiffinylu942]

8:30 she should move out before new years…get a fresh start 😂

[@strawberryoats570]

Love these!

[@joeshmoe0136]

The wife in the 1st story: 💯👑

[@moreni2nd405]

😂😂😂😂 congratulations

[@onycagayle4485]

❤

[@belleoftheball7634]

😂😂😂😂 I'm dyin ova here! 😭😭😭🤡

[@angelx9724]

Still sitting over here in happy, kinky, queer polyamory land, wondering why people cheat, and why people chase cheaters. My Husband and I can sleep with whomsoever we choose, so we get to be patient and picky, and we continue to find love and joy in each other as a result. I hope more people read the Ethical Slut, not so that they are polyamorous, but so that they can learn the communication techniques that have made my relationship hum along so happily.

[@cynthiaholland13]

Realistically, she's bothered. Put yourself in her shoes. You're a married woman with a family. Wouldn't you be hurt if your husband was cheating?

[@BurbNBougie]

You don't know that she's bothered. Maybe you'd be bothered and can speak from your perspective. That's fine. But ppl do move on. If this man was depressed, not participating in the home, AND A CHEATER? Shoot, that woman could've very well been relieved. Tending to her lump of a husband could've been a sucky a** burden. I've been cheated on before. It does suck initially. But I surely didn't live in that. I cried a couple days and moved on. Not every woman will react the same to this type of stuff. I say all the time not to make being a wife and mom your whole personality. There's a reason for that.

[@Sp4c3G195y]

@@BurbNBougieI agree. The writing was on the wall for a long time, and she was probably emotionally disengaged already. Simply relieved when it was done. Been there too.

[@EnormousMaleGenitals]

Because sometimes people show you they're not worth being bothered about. Once you're done, the ability to be bothered over some sad sack of sewage disappears.

[@no-gc1mp]

Not really, why waste emotions on dirt under your shoe?