80% OF OUR STUFF IS GONE! ONE YEAR OF DECLUTTERING UPDATE! MINIMALISM

[@laurabarkovitz55]

I’ve learned that I can like something and not purchase it. The stores are full of beautiful things that I don’t need to own. I can look at them and appreciate them and then leave them there. Congratulations on your one year anniversary.

[@BestOfBritt]

THIS! 👏

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

LOVE THIS!!! My mom used to tell me, "you'll ALWAYS see something you like". It helps when you just know you'll always see things you can appreciate, but you don't have to buy them and bring them all home!

[@veronicagilmore9654]

So I am in it for what feels like forever bc my parents died 5 years ago and I inherited allllll the things. They were borderline hoarders so I have had to go through things in waves. Total onion method over here. On top of that I struggled with my own shopping addiction. Then last year I lost my MIL who I was super close to and she had a bazillion things my daughter and I inherited. These last 3 months we have made so much progress though. Once the initial grief and shock wears off it becomes easier. I also find it easier to pass things on to friends who could use them but I always tell them no matter what I give you if there is ever a point it is not serving you that you can let it go guilt free. I would never be mad. I forget who said it but someone on KZbin said that holding on to items is not an indication of how much you love someone and that was so freeing for me. Still more to work on but I am feeling so much lighter and free these days. 💕

[@AtoZenLife]

I saw this video and then this comment and I just wanted to say hang in there - my parents died 15 and 30 years ago and it took me 5 years to get through all the stuff I’d been hoarding. 😢 Wishing you positivity and healing.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Hey, Friends!! I can't believe I have been decluttering for a year now!! I'm excited to share the things I've learned along the way!! Let me know what things you've learned from your decluttering/minimalist journey!

[@minimalzebra]

Premiere time ! Reflection and coffee type of morning.

[@caseybloom2063]

I love how easy it is to clean now that my home is decluttered. I know where everything is, and I know what we have so I have saved so much money by not re-purchasing things just because I couldn't find them.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

SO TRUE!!! I love knowing where everything is! I used to lose things ALL THE TIME!

[@classicashley3925]

I’ve spent the past 2 years minimizing our belongings. Now i like to play a game to try to find 10 things to add to my donate box. I only need to do it once a month to maintain and it always feels good. My favorite thing is that my kids actually know what they have and can play with their toys without feeling overwhelmed.

[@altaneri6980]

My house is decluttered, but feel we still have too much. I'm loving the lifestyle of living with less.

[@mathildep56]

Decluttering is an ongoing process, so I'm sure you will find more later on ❤

[@caitlin9823]

Sometimes I find myself getting antsy now that I’m done decluttering 😂 I miss it! It was so rewarding but not we are enjoying the benefits and maintaining.

[@lesliedaubert4250]

I love to declutter. I feel the same way after the declutter. Feeling lighter, breathing lighter.

[@thiesamkreutz7390]

I learned that when I see things in the shops that I like, I can just appreciate them there and then and I don't have to own them. I also learned that I can use our things that we used to keep for 'best'. Why use cheap things you don't like all year but only use the beautiful plate one a year. Now we have the fruit on the beautiful crockery and get so much more joy!

[@picframe000]

Your tops have been so cute lately. Where is this one from and the previous ones🙌😅

[@sharonthibault8153]

I love your shirt and look today! A decluttered house is so much easier to keep clean, tidy, and organized. Also, so much less stress and people can stop by and I won’t be freaking out about the state of my house.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Ah I have LOVED not having to clean so much! I have so much more time for things I value!

[@bex438]

Hey Candice, after 3+ years of decluttering I have learnt that less is definitely more and that having less stuff to manage and more simplicity and peace of mind far outweigh any 'benefit' of owning more stuff 😀

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Oh I agree 100% !

[@danabrown2391]

I too have been a minimalist for 3 1/2 years and love it! My only problem is all my furniture is dark , fussy Ethan Allen French style and now I like light wood and Scandi style but can't get rid of my expensive furniture to buy cheaper made Ikea type furniture!

[@paige5191]

Yes the threshold has changed so much. Which honestly makes decluttering easier too. I realised even with home decor less is more. And it's nice to walk in a room and it just look calming peaceful.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

I agree 100%

[@Danicalip8]

I started this journey about a year ago too and I will never look back. I feel so much more free and energized. I love how easy it is to clean and organize and I just feel like it’s the best thing I’ve done to make my home really feel like a home.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

"Make house feel like a home" could not be more spot on!!! I feel the EXACT same way!

[@viviangautier2160]

I love your house! It looks so clean and beautiful. ❤️

[@denisecarter5117]

I wonder how your husband has responded. Has he gotten rid of his stuff after seeing how much better your home looks?

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

It took him WAY longer to start decluttering...but he finally did!!! :) He loves the way our house feels now!

[@malinhirt3101]

@@FancyThatwithCandice oh that’s great to hear! I’m waiting for my husband to get to that stage too. 🤪🙈😅

[@sandrab.3538]

Good ideas! Thank you for reminding us to thoughtfully limit what comes into our homes after we have purged. We need to stop the cycle.

[@BestOfBritt]

Switching over to living minimally has been one of the most life-changing things ever! Love this video! It’s funny how our tolerance for clutter changes so much! 😆

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

I could not agree more!! My life has totally changed for the BETTER!

[@lebendige_maerchen]

I love your content and your interior design😍😍😍 the blue and the gold details ans the white 😍😍😍 woww and you of course, such a positive vibe that is coming out from you😍

[@lindasokolnicki5286]

I've been decluttering for two years now and sentimental items have been the hardest but I'm getting through them. I've still got some hidden clutter and my scrapbooking stuff to go through. I have learned that you really do have to stop shopping and stem the flow of items into your home.

[@dahj5954]

Our home is on the market and buyers are saying how clean my our house is..... it’s actually just CLUTTER FREE!!

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

YES YES YES!!! And good luck!

[@mariaziarnik6909]

Decluttering my fantasy self. Helped me simplify my true self.

[@marycerrone3281]

My parents grow up during the depression, they were not into giving alot of things to us. They were more into spending time with us. I love spending time with my friends and family. I have learned that I want time with the people I love , not things.

[@amma7244]

Could you share how you edit and store sentimental items?

[@anniefrymire2664]

I love decluttering videos! I tend to burn myself out decluttering too !! But this year I started trying to do one area a day... it might just be a drawer, but other days it might be a whole closet !!!

[@daisybuchanan5378]

Yes ! I have streamlined my holiday decor and now I enjoy decorating, and don’t dread putting it away afterwards. It used to be such a project. I too have become mindful of shopping out of boredom- an expensive habit ! I don’t need to expose myself to a bunch of pretty things which tempt me, as often. I just love your personality and great advice ! Thank-you !!

[@viviangautier2160]

I love all your blouses. 😊

[@juliescoggins8659]

Re: kids stuff, instead of having them get rid of x amount of items, have them KEEP a set amount. For example, pick ten stuffed animals to keep. That way they are choosing their favorite things.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

LOVE THIS!!!

[@michellebiggerstaff6841]

I'm battling this currently. I am a "recovering" hoarder, with minimalist tendencies, lol. I am a keeper of things, lol. Unfortunately not "important" things, but things that make my life easier. I am a mom of 3, so I've always been on the go. Now that 2 of my kids are out of the house, we just have the youngest here. Problem is, we are still just as/or more busy as we were previously. I am also the mom who has everything. If a kid got hurt at a ballfield, I have first aid. If someone is cold at the ballfield, I have and extra blanket. My youngest plays football, and baseball, so you never know what your getting with that. I always had extras, "just in case." Now, instead of having a seperate baseball bag, and football bag, I have a backpack, and just keep a collapsible container that holds the things that don't cross over. Instead of carrying an big first-aid kit, in my bag, I have a few small things in there, and a comprehensive one in my car. I have hidden compartments, in the car, that have all my "extras." In the house, I'm going thru the stuff I have, and only have 1 extra, because we're remodeling, it will help when we get to the kitchen. My donation piles, they have made me so excited. Getting rid of things, all the while helping other people. It's a journey, but remember.... "The turtle won the race."

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Seeing your donation piles is SO EXCITING!!! I love how you've found ways to store your extras! Thanks for sharing!

[@kimdumont4080]

I have been on my decluttering journey for a year now. I can totally relate to every point you touched on. It is a process, but it has freed me from the stress of managing STUFF.

[@shademarquez4555]

i feel so much way better now i decluttered most of my items!! i realized i wasted too much money and efforts buying them yet it doesnt give any importance in my life...

[@nerdhasenteredthechat]

You’re seriously inspiring. ❤️

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

You're the sweetest! Thanks for watching!

[@letinhsong8024]

I think you're not being honest with yourself about your children. IT IS OKAY TO TELL THEM THEY NEED OR HAVE TO DO SOMETHING!!! YOU ARE THE PARENT. To tell yourself they are making the choice when you're just accomplishing what YOU want with bribes is NOT respecting their wishes. Decide which is more important to you--to respect their wishes, or to have their room "clean" and uncluttered to your standards. And then if it's the first, stop trying to manipulate them. If it's the latter, then, you are the parent and pay for the housing, and you have a RIGHT to have it up to your comfort standards. But don't say you're trying to respect their wishes then, because you're not. Really, your house (and YOU) are beautiful, but don't let it be a shell that disguises dishonesty within yourself.

[@evansfamilyvideos4431]

I started decluttering in fall. I felt so good. I love the holidays and they make me so excited. So I was doing great. But then January hit. Winter hit here in the South. I unfortunately stopped decluttering and started shopping again. I was bored, sad, and not content. It is a struggle. I’m watching your videos trying to get my motivation back and get my mental state where I can push through! Thanks for sharing your struggle and tips.

[@christined2495]

Such a great video, I can relate to everything you said, now when I need to go to a store, if I see something I like, or think I need, I walk around with it in my cart, it takes me more thought whether I need it or not, I always put it back now. I love my home and the feel of no clutter way to much. My bank account has grown, my home is peaceful, and anything I have, I need, want, or love, and I seem to appreciate them all the more PS, love your blouse on you 😀

[@lindajohnson314]

I so appreciate your Videos. Thanks to you, I have become ruthless at getting rid of stuff. In this mindset, I found that I was keeping stuff because I had a shelf for it. So I found a home for some, donated others, and sent the rest to the trash. Then, I removed the shelf. Success!! This also worked well in the garage!!

[@sable747]

Yes, I would love to know more about how to help with tween decluttering. I feel like my girls have accumulated a ton of things and have attachments to it all.

[@courtneythompson6133]

This is super random but where is your sectional from?

[@samanthamiles4397]

I'm struggling so hard with this and tried to just start small but I really need to have minimal for my sanity and it affects my daily life

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Even if you just declutter 1-2 things a day for the next year...It will ADD UP!!!!

[@samanthamiles4397]

@@FancyThatwithCandice thank you ! That is a good place to start

[@hentamihaela8236]

I lov your chanel ! Watch from Sweden

[@smeag9280]

I want that blouse!

[@cynthia3207]

I have been in decluttering fatigue since the beginning of this year but I've got it going again now. Thank you for your videos, I love having you 'with' me while I work on a space. My partner is on board as well, and I've even inspired my mom to start decluttering. The big big thing I am aiming to finally get rid of is my car which is just sitting in the garage and taking up space and money. I will be so happy when it is gone 💪

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Ahh you've got this!!! Just a little decluttering at a time makes a HUGE difference overall!

[@lindaroberts2282]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey. Love the inspiration and your cheerful spirit.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Thank you so much!

[@odangreally6165]

Love the blouse where did you get it?

[@jasminelozano9575]

I was about to ask the same!

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

I got it at TJ MAXX!

[@kate-kate]

Can you stop tagging yourself as a hoarder? Hoarding is a mental disorder; having stuff is not.

[@rebeccafrost7419]

Loved what you said about thinking you may be sad or regretful about decluttering certain things and than you forget! I’ve found this to be very true! Also, a great reminder that it’s ok to let go of old decor that doesn’t represent you or your style or the things you love anymore! Sometimes I feel guilty about this because I may have gotten sentimental about the season I was in life when that was my style etc etc. but it’s really ok to let it Go and embrace the things that represent you in the NOW! Thanks for the video Candice!🥰

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

I couldn't agree more!!! Holding on to the past can actually inhibit you from living fully in the present!

[@paige5191]

I've been at it for over a year now too. And it's life changing!!!

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

LIFE CHANGING FOR SURE! I'm so happy you're on this journey, too!

[@dominiquetheeasyminimalist]

Hello Candice! For the next chat, it would be amazing if you could join us 😊

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Absolutely!!

[@lisakrings5419]

Were you a hairdresser in the past? Your hair is always so so pretty! I wish I knew how to make my hair look so great. Anyway, I love your decluttering tips. It’s been very helpful.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Oh you're so sweet!! No, I wasn't!!!

[@gwenj5419]

I enjoy less stuff but I will never minimalize on color. Why do minimalists have all white houses?

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Not all minimalists have white houses!! ;) and we are SO excited to be painting ours!!

[@gwenj5419]

@@FancyThatwithCandice I look forward to seeing it! Color brings me so much joy, but I realize not everyone is the same.

[@carolc2574]

My house is light grey, with a pinch of lavender in it. My furniture is white, and we have decor items in sky blue (including curtains). Having little posessions has a calming effect for people with anxiety. Having white furniture and walls is also soothing, so maybe that is the reason why people exploring minimalism also tend to chose white 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ashl3ymich3ll3]

My theory is that if you look at a room that has a lot of white, it doesn't catch your eye, and you feel like you are looking at less. If there are multiple colors, it may catch your eye and trick you into counting all the different colors.

[@erikastanger7848]

I *just* bought that exact blouse for Easter! I wasn't able to try it on, but it looks beautiful on you! I hope it looks as good on me.

[@lorimanha2628]

I love that shirt! It’s beautiful!

[@mmmichellegirl]

That is a really beautiful blouse! 💕 May I ask where you purchased it? Thanks so much!

[@erikastanger7848]

I got it at TJ Maxx!

[@kathyward9879]

I loved ❤️ your video! Your home is beautiful! Love your personality! I’m subscribing!

[@courtneynewswanger5507]

Your house is so elegant and refreshing looking! It's beautiful!! ❤️

[@Lisar3614]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE that blouse on you! So beautiful, and flattering! It does blend in a bit much with your background, but you pick your battles haha! Also, great recommendations all around - but I think I will definitely be looking into that book that your Mom(?) got you. I’ve been struggling with “completely” purging my seasonal decor especially the cheap stuff that is so quintessential. I’ve started using a essential oil diffuser and that has replaced all of my candles. I’m currently in the process of selling six large candles on the Facebook Marketplace. Thank you for sharing!!

[@Elizabeth.402]

Where’s your bedside lamp from??

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Home goods!

[@lorimanha2628]

New here. Your home is beautiful, but I’m in love with your top and necklace!!!! Thanks for the amazing inspiration!

[@kymmarye]

Hello! I’ve been minimizing our prior house/ current townhouse for 4-5 years (took awhile because of young kids, a move and a reluctant hubby). I finally got to the point last summer when I was totally enjoying how easy everything is to maintain, we aren’t adding to our stuff. I have a rule, for every one item that comes in, one to two items go out beforehand. I strictly follow it. As soon as my kids get bored with toys or outgrow clothes, they are out. When I realize I’m not using crafting stuff, kitchen stuff, etc. (my hobbies), it’s out. So how do I keep enjoying these the easiness of it? Now it’s more habit. The newness is gone 😞. Any tips? Thanks!

[@aliceb4070]

I decluttered for YEARS. The step I was missing was that thoughtful process of what and why you buy in the first place. Now, I think a lot before I buy something. I'll put it on my list or in my shopping cart and then I walk away for a few days. Most of the time I don't end up making the purchase. I also have the one in and one out rule. I purchase one thing and one other thing has to go. That helps me keep the focus on an effective decluttering process. It's a journey.

[@claudiarice8123]

Enjoy your videos a lot. Thank you for the insightful ideas and decor inspiration I need. I'm purging every room in a 3 bed 2 bath apartment that was stuffed for 6 1/2 years. Seeing progress and hope to get 90% gone with a few needed furniture updates soon.

[@katieruffles]

I love your lipstick color - what is it?!?!?

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

It's Pink for Me by Maybelline! One of my favorites!

[@caitlinheusz386]

So funny when you said you can celebrate spring without a bunch of eggs. I'm in the southern hemisphere so Easter to me is getting cold, and spring is all sunflowers and sunshine!

[@AP-uo7sp]

I struggle with kid clutter but it's all stuff they use🤷

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

It's so tricky!

[@carolynnemilmine4147]

When you decluttered so fast initially did you then later regret some of the things you gave up? You actually anwered this question by the end of the video. Thanks

[@glendaw5221]

Love your decor. And the video. What about books? I don’t mean the kids books. Where do you keep them?

[@allymac9709]

Do you have any 'before' photos?

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

The shots I shared in the beginning of the video is what I have of the before!! SO much STUFF!

[@samanthamiles4397]

Do you have a video on how you plan out your stuff ?

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Like how I plan out the stuff I'm going to get rid of?

[@karenstairs8273]

I love that you fill your time with joyful things. It's a great trade off

[@jenniferdunzelman9568]

How do u track the percentages of what u got rid of vs what u had to start?

[@sandycosentino1042]

Your house looks clean and organized

[@emilyanderson9107]

Great video!!! My minimalist friends feel like I am “too clean” or “too neat.” That is tough!! I would love a cideo on your minimalist mistakes or ways you have “oops, messed up!” Or relapsed!

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

I love your video idea!! And you can never be "too neat"! Just live YOUR best life and don't apologize for it!!!

[@kimmiem2163]

I did the same withing the first four months. We're preparing a move and thought we might down size in our new home. We didn't. But I'm still glad I got rid of so much.

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Decluttering before a move is SO HELPFUL!

[@alisonperno439]

Love your blouse

[@whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607]

Thank you for sharing . I understand what you mean.. I’ve watched homemakers on YT for years and a lot of them went through the seasons and buying lots of stuff to bring into the house each year to decorate with and I thought it looked lovely and I too did start to do the same , but here in the UK we don’t tend to have much storage in our house’s . it’s rare to have a basement and the attic’s tend to be quite small , ( that’s the houses that I know of in the UK ), but I think I have also noticed that the same KZbinrs around the same time started to say enough was enough with the consuming and also fed up with all the stuff they were trying to find somewhere to store . I think also , we’ve had a lot of lockdowns and we are currently in one in the UK and we’ve not been to the shops much . I know after my first lockdown I had to book an appointment to take stuff to the local charity shop because they said everybody had had a declutter and was purging lol . I was a big woman and didn’t buy many clothes so I spent money on home accessories then I lost the weight and brought clothes but this 3 rd lockdown and me and my son getting long COVID has lead to comfort eating for me so I appreciate the ideas you offered to think about doing something instead of shopping but will also apply to other un wanted habits. Thank you .

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

I definitely fell into the consumption trap and was there for YEARS!!! I'm so happy I have found a new way to live!! And having less really helps when you're short on storage!

[@whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607]

@@FancyThatwithCandice yes such a true statement . At least your out of it and helping others that want the help . I use to think that minimalism was too bare for me with no loved things .but I feel after seeing your home it’s perfect that you keep your most loved items..you have the balance perfect to me and it’s very encouraging .thank you . 💛

[@tonijurkones9797]

Good Morning 👋❤️💜

[@FancyThatwithCandice]

Good morning! Thanks for being here!

[@jennifernethery3841]

❤️

[@michelleg1905]

I love your energy ✨ and you look like a great mom!! 👏🏼💕