FBI Negotiation Techniques You Can Use Every Day

[@Tracy-xe9zu]

These are pretty much the same techniques I learned to be a suicide prevention advocate (minus the "no" answer and asking how/what questions to wear out the other party). There's enormous power in simply letting someone feel heard and understood without being judged; my training put a lot of emphasis on validating someone's feelings, since in a very emotionally-charged situation like talking down a suicidal person, validating how they feel is good for building rapport and making the other person feel like you genuinely understand.

[@FBI-Agent.]

Remember kids if you're being robbed just say no, they can't rob you if you don't agree this apply to anything else except interrogation

[@dustinwhitt5297]

Being someone who used to be bullied on a daily basis, I ended up with my group of friends mostly being the "rejects". I kinda innately learned how to do this, but the listening is genuine. (Not saying yours isn't)

[@watcher805]

I see the logic, but "wearing them out" is a dangerous and sorry way of looking at it. These are human people in pain, not kids throwing tantrums. If you don't respect them you dont deserve the job.

[@UndeadPanda]

I have been the person that has been talked out of suicide. With the police that did, I honestly latched onto them, I felt like there was someone in the world who cared. I never got to see them again but I think about them all the time. I was a teenager, alone and this officer became like a dad to me that night.

[@sweetness75951]

Abusive husband doesn't deserve this one

[@samurai2150]

Finally a video notification from this channel that's not about the most horrible way to die or the most sadistic torture techniques in the medival ages.

[@marywemigwase3354]

I don’t mind those other types of videos . But if I was expecting something else from what I clicked on I’d be disappointed as well

[@BestWOTReplayss]

I agree. I've actually turned off their notifications because a bunch of their videos are too weird for me. These ones are great

[@shaq9116]

Death

[@watcher805]

What's wrong with those?

[@samurai2150]

@@watcher805 Nothing wrong as long as that's exactly why you subscribed and that you expected this type of content for over a year straight

[@thestraydog]

The FBI calls this tactfully increasing the odds of a positive negotiation. My girlfriend calls manipulation

[@jeffgualandijr9420]

thats because in reality it is

[@brendanluke2989]

She's gaslighting you into believing you're the bad guy

[@lotusinn3]

I mean it is, lol. FBI just dressed it up.

[@watcher805]

It is manipulation. The FBI are not our friends.

[@sayochikun3288]

@@lotusinn3 its convincing other person via using already existing techniques to your advantage instead of going full blown unplanned and beg for what you want. Knife is not a bad thing, but stabbing someone is.

[@OfficerPak]

My ex-girlfriend: *”Interesting.”*

[@nifty_ninjanoble2418]

Lol

[@nifty_ninjanoble2418]

Imagine having a ex

[@benjamindover4337]

She could have you locked up on rap3 charges anytime she wants

[@saints0ul]

@@redneckshaman3099 wtf

[@BadDio]

@@benjamindover4337 tf

[@F_L_U_X]

Video starts at 1:17

[@drbright4170]

Thanks

[@SIMPLEGUYS90]

Thx

[@TheHumanDart]

I learnt a lot of similar techniques in a mediation course I did during high school, a lot of active listening type stuff. But obviously more in depth here

[@lostmarbles209]

some people need this, Their communication skills are lacking badly.

[@awightman1221]

You forgot the MOST IMPORTANT PART! Which is to actually know what YOU want! For many people it's the hardest part and the reason its hard. FBI negotiator knows what s/he wants because that was their FIRST training but in a regular interaction if you don't know what you want you can't actually negotiate no matter how good at it you are.

[@rainersk2502]

love your channel, best way to gather info while cooking or doing other chores

[@kevinbrown4420]

Great video! I realized I was doing 2 of these without knowing it for years!

[@Zackaria_sMax]

For years?

[@cubertmiso]

when someone mirrors words back to me it feels like someone is maybe trying low-end manipulation tactics. i prefer not to do that on others for that reason.

[@zanemeyer7195]

I definitely needed this video

[@menwaralanazi47]

watching this channel is part of my daily routine

[@jigs_daily]

Sometimes learning negotiation skills is very important, because may be sometimes instead of negotiating for your interest, you can end up serving others interest

[@blakeruthless1270]

Love this channel!

[@nileanderson4798]

The video I never knew I needed

[@Blazzedkidd]

I was thinking about this earlier today good 👁

[@lookatyougo]

Someone show this to Johnny Depp’s attorney so he can win that trial

[@kaptainkaos1202]

I think his ex is the best tool he can use to win the trial.

[@baxtermaxtor]

ChrIs Voss was skeptical of win-win theory

[@HI-ej8rl]

The infographic show always makes interesting videos!

[@gagnastapigg9943]

Nice vids bro also first

[@steventate4687]

I love this channel

[@EquAkaya]

Borger with extra cheese

[@Gruxx42]

My boyfriend actually uses these FBI negotiation tactics on me all the time. Now I know how he does it.

[@bhgtree]

Trying to get raise from boss: _Uses tactics from hostage rescue situations_ Result: Boss holds next months pay check hostage. 😧

[@omotayosatuyi252]

This video will teach us how to be the next Chris Voss 😂😂

[@ambercollins5110]

Who is Chris vass?

[@omotayosatuyi252]

@@ambercollins5110 Chris Voss is pretty much a an expert in negotiating

[@wwhite2958]

@@ambercollins5110 read his book "never split the difference" talks alot about negotiation techniques used with hostage situations and applying them to other situations in life

[@Legitti]

I've must of been negotiator on my last life, or been watching too many hours of interigation videos because there was nothing new to me learn this time.

[@itachiuchiha6876]

Love the adorable original animation back ❤️

[@soupfork6357]

Kids be like: fIrSt!

[@dominicday5046]

I also enjoy Chris Voss. Great stuff.

[@kaptainkaos1202]

I have the most important meeting of my career in 2 hours. This video is a goldmine of ideas to try out.

[@Evergreen-Tales]

Good luck!

[@MrRezRising]

Lol, I was in a band with a bunch of cops, and the lead guitarist was the senior interrogator for the DEA. That was an interesting few months....

[@Dreamybloo101]

Wow man interesting dude

[@kaigawanaswa1684]

best advice. it has really changed my mind

[@GVNZXLEZ]

Great content 🌎

[@xxN00BTACOxx]

Thanks for helping me learn how to hack my sister's social media

[@isbestlizard]

Nice psybient backing track!

[@raydiochamberx]

This is like some art of manipulation

[@jianaenthusiast]

I just realised that I used most these with my mum to get out of going to school when I was like 13 and they almost always worked.

[@cypnix5901]

Has geologist ever been wrong before? How has someone been wrong in the field of geology before?

[@tjbrooks_me]

Great this video just taught me to never trust anyone and just not to talk. Thanks.

[@F.B.I.gov.]

Hey! You can't just disclose our techniques

[@tjbrooks_me]

Ew fed 🤮

[@rjnovak5977]

Hi info!

[@baxter9725]

Do another war video

[@BarbaraBelvin-v4f]

Great video i love your channel these video's help me a lot thanks

[@lildmayaa]

Heyyy I'm a big fan

[@ammaralshamiri3522]

Great video 👍

[@ravenskryptonite9880]

🤔 Interesting!

[@rental_buckete4631]

Great now I can convince my mum to buy me more chocolate and games Thank you!

[@slimpickens9103]

Great topic

[@DDOTXX21]

Bro your voice is amazing 🤩

[@kaitlyn6853]

0:50 How can a meal-kit company be carbon neutral if mostly everything we need to eat is carbon-based?

[@watcher805]

It doesn't leave much carbon footprint

[@kaitlyn6853]

@@watcher805 But it's literally advertised as carbon-neutral, so what's it matter how much of a footprint it leaves behind? I hate capitalism, everyone lies through their teeth for money and everyone else just accepts it as normal. I remember a time I could sue companies for falsely advertising products. Companies are so blatantly disgusting.

[@corygunn3]

Carbon neutral means that any CO2 released into the atmosphere from a company's activities is balanced by an equivalent amount being removed. Climate positive means that activity goes beyond achieving net-zero carbon emissions to create an environmental benefit by removing additional carbon dioxide from the atmosphere.

[@kaitlyn6853]

@@corygunn3 Ohh I see. So I can frack in the Yukon and then plant trees in the USA. Canada's environment might get destroyed but as long as I win why should I care? It's carbon neutral so it has to be good right? Carbon neutrality is a myth companies use to keep doing what they are doing.

[@stumblingmumbler]

@@corygunn3 wow an anime pfp with a brain that's crazy lol 😜

[@peterplague]

That's Right!

[@insanedmgofficial]

Thx for this video,i am using these tactics every day,didnt knew that fbi are using them too,but it only covers most of things,i have other ways too,by giving examples,also i use sometimes these key words but i have bettet key words to trick stuff to mantain control 95% over a situation

[@ives3572]

"The most critical thing in a negotiation is to get inside your opponent's head and figure out what he really wants." - Jacob Lew

[@Amr-H]

This voice though 👌

[@peterjorgensen3]

Good stuff! Also what's up with the dramatic music?

[@Willchannel90]

Most journalists would like reveal this, but community told and warned keep the secrets sealed tight.

[@EthanThinh]

They should play this back in my speech and debate class

[@Toxic-Ology]

Nice and simplistic, unfortunately some of it can massively backfire if you are dealing with the wrong person or use the info wrong. The first two are a good example. If you just repeat the last three words back but fail to understand what the person is actually saying, it quickly looks transparent and insincere and thus very annoying. Similar with the second. It assumes you’re taking to a reasonable person. If you’re not, you will get the mother of all bad reactions, which can even draw out a violent reaction. Assuming to know what someone is feeling or thinking is something that really shouldn’t be done. Best to ask gentle questions so they think they’ve got there by themselves otherwise a person can dig in deeper against you even if you are right (sometimes especially if you’re right). Nobody likes having a mirror held up to them. So it’s something that can easily go wrong. Overall the info is good as long as it is listened to properly.

[@r0c_itfilms650]

None of these techniques would work on me answering anything other then: “LAWYER!”

[@ives3572]

Food For Thought: You do not get what you want, you get what you negotiate for.

[@robertsnyder7440]

1st comment 😜😜😜 only took 32 years 🤣🤣. Love your work plz keep it up!!

[@oscarpacheco601]

Hello man

[@water7817]

Nice vid time to negotiate about claiming custody about my 2 children

[@4zkin]

I bet that like 50% of people here will use this against their mom

[@NEMESISMusicOfficial]

All these techniques are from a book called "Never Split the Difference" if you want to have a read!

[@twocvbloke]

So basically, don't argue, just listen, cos listening helps more than demanding...

[@glennmcruz]

Former FBI Agent Chris Voss Never Split the Difference.

[@mattstyles2498]

If only Hello fresh employees could use these negotiation tech to get.... u know decent working conditions.

[@AfonsoVN]

*ok*

[@Silverphoenix36912]

Also what if the guy says your double-talking and sidestepping, what do you do?

[@Silverphoenix36912]

This is where being naturally honest in how you go about life really helps. They can smell it. So work on that too

[@bandosetgang9677]

They’re giving us tips how to walk across cracked eggs when it comes to express your feelings with your gf 😂

[@Zowie39]

Commercial called Depop? Pronounced just like its spelled! Bold! Dang! Great video after that! 🕊👍

[@geoffreyaugust0]

I love being wrong because I learn something.

[@Redeemedbylove1987]

The FBI’s favorite technique... “You are a Russian agent.”

[@Siara259]

Actual Starting point 1:19

[@technologyupdates5444]

How do you make your animations?

[@lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933]

I would love to be a detective for the FBI but I don't want to

[@HOURLYSNIPES]

How to catch a killer By HOURLYSNIPES Me: Killer say what Killer: What? Me: got em guilty guilty!

[@Scarlxtt]

Man just got beyond 10k iq

[@redneck400m3]

So calling names and threatning to bust the others face dont work?

[@human3030]

Now give us a tutorial to win online negociations/arguments

[@Chemanic77]

Say “No u”

[@watcher805]

You win when you dont have one

[@stumblingmumbler]

@@Chemanic77 no you

[@JonayPS]

It's easy: Don't feed the trolls. xD

[@rileywatson4422]

Amen

[@youraveragerobloxplayer6831]

me using fbi negotiation techniques to convince my parents to my me a gaming laptop

[@NakedSageAstrology]

Video starts at 1:30

[@Crazedclown27958]

Please read the book written by Chris Voss called "Never split the difference"

[@MG555-g5v]

I am here

[@onlyfromadistance7326]

I thought you were over there...

[@MG555-g5v]

@@onlyfromadistance7326 lol

[@skarzy]

Yo

[@Saccromycaes]

Video begins at 1:17

[@Phil-D83]

Pro tip: with police,etc - never talk to them. Nothing you say will help you.

[@tjbrooks_me]

Amen.

[@stumblingmumbler]

Always remember your 5th

[@Saiko0001]

According to this, I'm like 80% of an FBI agent just by being introverted. Who needs training?

[@sayochikun3288]

Only if i dont have to talk with someone. Am i rite guys

[@eeeeedede]

@@sayochikun3288 Right, not rite, friendly reminder. Have a good day, sayochi!

[@ives3572]

"The first thing to decide before you walk into any negotiation is what to do if the other fellow says 'no'." - Ernest Bevin

[@tyler5mannion]

Literally all of this is from the book "Never Split the Difference" which was written by an ex FBI negotiator

[@Whodathunkit1234]

Any suggestions for people New to uploading???

[@angeloh.2931]

FBI: OPEN UP!

[@cea-jaymales8031]

Life is a negotiation.

[@xe4330]

This is Chris Voss’s book but in an infoGrap format 🤘🏽( Never split the difference) go read it y’all!

[@sadboisfoot5048]

Sup

[@aldinjasarevic2754]

Great advise this is how i wil get my ps 5

[@JonayPS]

Negotiating with scalpers? 🤣

[@anamkarajoy]

Some good advice, but pretty unsettling that telling your partner that they have impregnated you is a “negotiation”…

[@kieron698]

Ah yes a guide on how to manipulate people . Exactly what I'd expect from this channel. You do any of these techniques with someone who knows these strategies you will show yourself to be a manipulator. The hard part is to disguise the strategies. Being able to do it on the fly is what gets you hired at the fbi.

[@sayochikun3288]

In the case of fbi, yes. You are right. But irl all these talks can happen even if you dont know anything about manipulating. Because manipulating is not a bad thing as it sounds. Its basically convincing people without begging for it

[@kieron698]

@@sayochikun3288 na manipulation is a terrible thing , unless you like having no friends. Who wants to be around a manipulative person? I know I don't. It's extremely annoying once you become adept at spotting it. And you tend to start not wanting to talk to that person anymore.

[@sayochikun3288]

@@kieron698 manipulating for what? Everything is ok when you dont overuse it. If my "friend" can get manipulated for stupidly weird and bruh things, I wouldnt be friend with them.

[@The_Blazement]

i will manipulate your mom